LookatCarl Archive

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1	It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this? I didn’t say you guys like you don’t exist. But that’s some good insight as to why some men would be hesitant to sleep with a woman who’s in your case sounds aggressive. I wouldn’t even label them as just being direct. I understand men don’t tend to get hit on a lot compare to women so I try to be proactive in letting a man know I’m interested because men can’t read our minds. :) If he’s “scared” off by my directness I hope he knows he’s still “got it”. I read somewhere that men want to be hit o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 10:14 PM
1	It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this? Sounds like you have some bad luck? I mean I’ll chit chat for a few hours and invite them over if the night is going well or ask to go to his place. Once we’re at his/my place I bluntly ask if he would like to have sex. I’m not so direct that I’m going to come up to you and grab your crouch and tell you to fuck me. If a man says no I respect it and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 05:48 AM
5	It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this? As a woman, I understand the position men are dealing with so I understand if a man is hesitant to approach a woman because of fear of rejection or fear of being called a predator. If I’m interested, I hit on the guy. Simple as that. But you can’t blame a woman for not doing the same even if she is interested because society tells her she has to look pretty and wait for her knight and shining armor. That’s the fairy tale bull we’ve been fed since young girls and it’s still being taught to girls …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/21 12:15 PM
-1	It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this? Internalize misogyny. A man is taught at an early age to not be in tune with their emotions therefore may have a hard time expressing and receiving them let alone understanding the difference in romantic attention and polite attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/21 11:54 AM
0	Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women? I never said it’s the bare minimum. It took time for them to learn my body to achieve that. Time that doesn’t happen in ONS. Most women need mental and physical stimulation in order to achieve any form of orgasm. Why do you suppose women read romance novels? Also there’s always the looming danger in doing ONS that the guy might hurt you. ONS are generally less appealing to most women for many factors. I don’t actually hear women saying men’s libidos are ruined by porn in my circle usually I hear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 09:44 PM
1	Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party. My ex boyfriend wanted an open relationship and I didn’t. We broke up and I did an open relationship with someone who had experience in his previous relationship. Now I’m doing poly and I was the one discussing and inserting poly in my relationships. What got me thinking of poly with that I’ve made a few poly friends and I decided why not. People who post on Reddit may be having issues with their partners and they happen to have issues with their male partners. These people are trying to find he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 07:30 AM
5	Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women? Yeah and also Womens bodies are more complicated than men. There’s only been 3 men ever that made me squirt. Most men can’t get me there. Do I want to spend a few hours with someone who’s going to disappoint me (usually casual sex cause these men have no to little time to learn my body or just trying to get their rocks off) or minutes with a toy that can satisfy me every time? There should be yoni classes available in colleges. The more you know, the more sex you may get. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 07:20 AM
1	Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women? As a woman, sex does come easy for me, but I don’t enjoy hook ups or ONS so for me to sleep with someone personality really matters. No substance no sex. From what I’ve heard from my girlfriends, hot guys tend to be some of the worst in bed because they don’t try as hard. If the guy is funny women will jump their bones IMO. Life is stressful enough. A good laugh is a nice breather. I can’t really talk for the men. I also tried dating women…. No matches on tinder so far… :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 07:11 AM