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QUEEN SH*TLookatthatsass/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:09 AM
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What a powerful statement 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:37 PM
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Girl, I’ve had men get jealous over my male DOG, as in, I’m affectionate towards him and prioritize him. How insecure is that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:32 PM
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When I first started dating my gf (both women) I actually created a note on my phone with her preferences and likes/dislikes as well as anything she mentioned wanting. (I have adhd) I did this because previously I was in a relationship with a man who never bothered to learn more than the very basic things after five years and he expected to be complimented for mediocre effort… “oh I know I got you the wrong flavor but at least I got you something !” 🙄 I feel that just remembering the basic thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:17 PM
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I hate when men look at sentimental gifts from other people as a challenge. Such an insecure move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:13 PM
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I used to date men and recently started dating a woman. Fingers are a fantastic length to do things and they’re not very long. The biggest issue with men isn’t their size but the fact that they mainly only have penis focused sex so if it’s not adequate then they are terrible in bed. There is so much more to sex and so much you can do even without a penis but their ego gets in the way and they blame a woman for not being satisfied or worse, for needing external stimulation or worse, for behind to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:40 PM
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My grandpas sister died this way and he’s never forgiven himself for not preventing it in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:33 AM
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Going against the grain with, no. Sleep with people when you feel comfortable physically and mentally sleeping with them. It varies and that’s okay. There is also no reason to disclose this information to hypothetical people you’re dating. I’d argue that being so concerned with what’s disrespectful to people you don’t even really know so early in the game (man or woman) is unhealthy and puts unnecessary strain on the sexual outcome of your dates vs the process of vetting whether someone is a rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:43 AM
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Uh no? But I expect the level of communication, advocacy and attitude I had outlined in my original interpretation of the tweet. 🤷🏽‍♀️ You’re jumping to a lot of conclusions here and being really patronizing with these explanations of basic concepts so let’s just agree to disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:31 PM
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Yeah maybe because I'm bisexual I have a more fence sitter viewpoint to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:07 PM
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It is open to interpretation I suppose, I just prefer not to assume it was meant negatively as advocating for women to accept bad sex by lazy partners would logically go against her sex positive content. Curious to know if she responded. To answer your question , I assume women who have to make themselves orgasm during sex still do it because they like the intimacy with a partner. But I think it probably varies person to person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:37 AM
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So that’s not how I read this. I more understood this as her saying “be more selfish in bed” “don’t be passive with your pursuit of an orgasm.” “Don’t be afraid to do what makes you cum vs relying on a man’s penis” “stop giving your man the power to determine whether or not you orgasm” Aka being really empowering. The fact is that a lot of women are hesitant to rely on anything but their man to attain an orgasm and sometimes they need to hear it’s okay and normal to incorporate toys/touch themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:47 PM
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I’m guessing your comment came off like unnecessary policing/shaming of other people’s sexual experiences. Also this was a joke using slang intentionally to create a connection between two relatively unrelated things. If she was clinical it wouldn’t make sense and would not be funny so what would be the point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:28 AM
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I find it refreshing actually. Sex isn’t some big or shameful thing and everyone makes mistakes. Seeing things like this make people less ashamed of their sexual past. The less we associate having a sexual history with being trashy and low class the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:25 PM
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Yep. Let me assess if you’re a fake feminist but if you don’t even self identify or think about women’s rights before ever ... then please see yourself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:53 PM
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Moot point. Actions are worth more than words or labels but the point at the OLD stage is to just narrow the cesspool. There are always guys that will get through any filter that’s why periodic evaluation for compatibility is key imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:14 PM
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Lol I changed mine to say “a feminist” ... I went from having 2-3 likes a day to 2-3 likes a week. No complaints, I love a good weed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:34 PM
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Out of curiosity, why was the bench special?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:02 PM
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LOL I’m am guilty of going all out for women. That being said it’s sooooo cute tho and they’re so appreciative and it’s returned and I just can’t stop myself 🥰 I used to think lesbians were crazy until I started dating more women and all of a sudden I was like ohhhhh I get it now. Women are amazing and inspire me to be extra haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:55 PM
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I’ve been assaulted, jeered and mocked more than I care to remember as “punishment” for rejecting guys. Not counting the times I’ve been physically blocked from leaving, loomed over and leered at before or after their approach. They act like it is ludicrous that I should have a choice. Almost like standing up to a bully. I wish they could feel how they make me feel sometimes. Like pray. Or like a bait dog. Or like some objective to attain in a video game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:07 PM
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JME as a woman but attracted definitely does not mean interested. I can identify who i find immediately attractive with ease but that just means they are visually interesting in a positive way to me. Whether i actually get physical with them, or even entertain a conversation, depends on a whole host of other factors.
/r/seduction21/07/20 03:58 PM
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Got it. Thanks for explaining the context of the word!
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:54 AM
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Okay, thanks for explaining. The word test sounded to me like it would be an intentional trap or something but I understand the context it’s being used here.
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:52 AM
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Ah that’s interesting. I’ve always heard of testing referred to in a negative way vs two people just finding out if they’re compatible by getting to know each other. I mean, I get that there is a specific lingo but I hate the fact that testing implies failure, or that the person giving tests is in a position of grading you. If we’re incompatible and go out separate ways it’s best for the both of us long term.
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:56 PM
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Okay, as a woman I can say many of these are not tests. Just observations on whether or not someone I’m interested in is interested in me, and as a consequence whether I should continue to be interested in them. Liking someone takes up too much mental space to constantly do it for the wrong people. Observing who texted first, who asks questions, whether someone will do small favors or make an effort for you is like just noticing the standard ways someone interested in you will act, regardless of…
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:47 PM
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I’m a woman and I don’t “test” men. What I do do is look for opportunities to emotionally connect (be vulnerable around them in a deeper way) and figure out whether they’re a person worth emotionally investing in (because women get burned / disappointed too) and what their intentions are (actions vs words). Whenever I see the word “test” refer to women’s dating behavior I always wonder whether this is what they’re referring to, or is it something more like an actual test? I’m always vetting and …
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:36 PM
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I guess by this logic my number just halved. Most of my earlier experiences were attained through coercion/intimidation/rape. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:13 PM
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Seriouslyyyy.... I welcome all the sex robots for this reason. Spare actual women your depravity please 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:17 PM
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Highly disagree. Long term cohabitation with me isn’t a prize ... if anything it’s a much larger test for the man. I cannot imagine marrying someone that has not proven themselves in that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:09 PM
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Girl here, depends. If I make a comment once we get to your place that’s focused on me like “I don’t usually do this.” It’s probably true or been a while... and im either looking for reassurance “me either but I feel a connection with you” or making an excuse for my awkwardness I’ve never said “you must do this a lot” because I don’t really care but I guess I could see someone saying that if they were worried that afterwards you’d think of them as just a fling vs relationship potential (if on a …
/r/seduction09/07/20 04:25 AM
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Girl here Doesn’t make you look more valuable, it’s just that everyone else is worse in comparison to you because they’re making someone uncomfortable. If ignoring a girl works it’s probably because she’s insecure and you literally made her anxious. Don’t confuse this with organic attraction because she found you interesting.
/r/seduction09/07/20 03:59 AM
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Honestly? I have friends like this. Comes down to being attractive not attitude because we like genuinely nice funny guys. You say you’re funny but are you offensive funny or witty funny? Are you immature? How’s your sense of style? How’s your hygiene? How are your social skills? Also, are you only looking to date people who are friends or are you find with online dating or meeting new people? How do you demonstrate “niceness”? The questions I ask above are the common pitfalls of some of my guy …
/r/seduction09/07/20 03:50 AM
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From the women’s perspective - you’re being macho because you feel threatened. Which means you either have reason to be because you’re insecure or you don’t trust her. Angry males are also unattractive and scary. Women like to be appreciated and cherished not possessed like an object. This guy is approaching these women like they are toys and other kid started playing with his toy when he went to the bathroom. It’s not a good look and it probably shows.
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:16 PM
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Woman’s perspective: Just move on. If she was interested she’ll excuse herself and converse with you. She’s just a person looking for a connection too.... not some prize that he got because he is currently taking to her. I talk to many people throughout the night, some I’m interested and some I’m not. I just like talking to people and it would make me very uncomfortable to think that by conversing with some guy it automatically means other men cannot and should not talk to me or vice versa. Plea…
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:07 PM
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Thank you for putting this together. Even as a woman I found it very helpful. I would recommend the book “Attached” as well.
/r/seduction07/06/20 04:01 PM
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Lmao my strategy is just to speak to everyone as friends and then wait for them to be direct. If I find myself being interested I’d escalate my own flirting and see if they respond or I’d just be direct and see what happens. My advice is to kinda trust your gut and if you’re like me who doesn’t always pick up on the cues... then being direct is the best way forward. Yeah you might get openly rejected but it’s better than the constant anxiety that comes with overthinking everything.
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:56 PM
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Ugh, I wouldn’t even interpret #2 as flirting. Seems like more of a teasing cautionary statement from a friend who would rather I slowed down my drinking lol
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:50 PM
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Find girls that have things in common with you and share the same hobbies and interests. Most girls feel the same way you do. If you’re talking to a girl and she’s talking abt seemingly random topics, chances are she’s doing that in hopes that you can relate and contribute to the convo.
/r/seduction03/06/20 06:20 AM
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22 isn’t old at all. Actually most of the men I’ve dated admitted to losing theirs between 20-25 and they were pretty attractive guys. Don’t worry about your experience. As long as you are willing to learn and not selfish you’ll be miles ahead of many experienced men. Also, speaking as someone who has also dated many women, each woman has different preferences in bed in terms of techniques etc.... so each time you sleep with someone new its a learning experience haha
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:05 AM
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Tbh just learning angles / lighting and taking good photos can go a far way!! I was thinking if helping a few guy friends out actually since I do photography as a hobby.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:00 AM
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Actually yes! It does depend on the context tho. If the guy shows respect for what I’m doing at the time then it goes over way better than if they interrupt what I’m doing and force me to pay attention to them. For example, if I’m approached after gym or at the water cooler at gym I’m a lot more receptive than if they interrupt my set to hit on me. If you do have to interrupt me and you genuinely apologize for doing so, I’m a lot less annoyed.
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:51 PM
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Generally I can read a guys vibe so much easier in real life. Most guys don’t think about the type of personality (if any) they show through their pics so in lieu of personality I go based on initial attraction.
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:25 PM
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Okay send your pics and I’ll do it as an experiment and post screenshots
/r/seduction13/05/20 08:39 PM
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