LooksSafeFromFarAway Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is my incel boyfriend hopeless or can he change? Why is he your best friend? Of all the people around you why did you gravitate toward all that and what it represents? Yes I think you should ditch him, run like your hair is on fire. Then get hobbies. If you have hobbies, get new hobbies. Anything to put you around more stable people with an actual enjoyment of something from life. I don't know your age, but you sound young. Don't let this toxic person damage you further, at this point you know what to expect from him and have a responsibility …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/18 09:46 PM
1	Is my incel boyfriend hopeless or can he change? Is it really my job to fix him? No ...mentally and emotionally He’s all fucked up. I told him that I believe one of the reasons he is this way is because everything comes naturally to him, he always excels in everything , but when it comes to relationships and dynamics with people, he just always fails and ends up alone and bitter. I'm struggling to find what you think is attractive about this pattern to consider staying, let alone the lovely personalized online degradation and disrespect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/18 09:31 PM
1	Q4RP - Whose Pleasure Is More Important? Hers or Yours? I'd say my husband is light pink on the pill spectrum. I know he'd eventually flip out and leave over a lack of sex. There would be no slow decline into a DB here, that's for sure. He wouldn't be good with fucking minus enthusiasm, getting me off is a big part of getting him off. If I'm stressed or butthurt about something unrelated to sex enough that I think I won't and I tell him as much, it's a toss up between him suddenly wondering what's on Netflix, taking it as a challenge to overcome what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/18 05:39 PM
1	Field Report: BUILD HIM UP IN PUBLIC! I had his buddy complementing me to him! It's fantastic fun, though sadly learned by necessity in my 20's. Not every woman was harpy/mean obviously but the ones that are turn social events into awful minefields where a false step has consequences. The food drink thing is great because it's such a basic courtesy it never looks calculated. Just be sure to play it very casual to emphasize anybody could do it. It drives home the "anybody could, so why didn't you?" subtext without a hitch.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/18 08:37 PM
1	Field Report: BUILD HIM UP IN PUBLIC! I had his buddy complementing me to him! I totally agree. I used to feel very awkward about it when I first got married at 22; but that specific type of woman was not above enjoying that and trying to make me feel like shit about myself as if they heralded the future all of us should expect. After all, their own husbands get the worst of them so I was just bitterness fodder. I'm 37 now though, harpies are a guilty pleasure. My favorite is bringing their husbands food or refill their drink (because you were doing it for your husband any…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/18 04:53 AM
1	Field Report: BUILD HIM UP IN PUBLIC! I had his buddy complementing me to him! Married women could learn from this. The most lol yet cringe inducing thing I ever saw at a party was a small group of women loudly complaining about their husbands, then trying to call them over. Their husbands were talking far away and ignoring them, so they started shrieking their names from across the room and telling each other they aren't surprised that their husbands are horrible at responding since they suck at so much else. I'd ignore a shrieking harpy too 😣	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/18 06:42 PM
1	Engaged but feeling some doubts... is this the hamster in action or something else? No judgement, and I don't want to come off as lecturing so please read with that in mind; but not "in love" and minus tingles is a big red flag to me. If you go foward you better know yourself down to your bones and even then marriage will still surprise you. Ask yourself if you're settling, or proceeding because of how much time you've already put into this man. On the topic of knowing yourself, can you stay happy, actually truly happy, with someone you aren't crazy about very long term? Or wil…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/18 01:28 AM
1	A letter to young women This is all very good and I agree, but my first reaction is shame. As a 37yr old mom whose been married very happily for over 15 years it makes me wonder: have moms checked out? What are we teaching our daughters and sons that this level of confusion, aversion to self evaluation, low expectations of self and others is okay? Are we just tossing them out of the house and hoping they get it right accidentally? Sorry if this is random, but the age of the OP sticks out to me, and maybe it's because I…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/18 04:54 PM