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| 278 | Gave a girl a compliment at a Party | Looksmax123 | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 06:43 AM | |
| 1 | I've never really had abundance in any aspects of my life, and I feel its hurting me. | Inner Game | Looksmax123 | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Why You Need To Get The Get Girls/"PUA" Phase Of Your Life Done As Soon As Possible | Inner Game | Looksmax123 | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 12:11 AM |
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| 45 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all.Feeling this hardcore today | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | The easiest way to prevent neediness is to actually have enough of a full and interesting life that you are not making another person your sole focus.What if I'm not needy everywhere except the relationship department (within reason)? | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 4 | I feel like dating as a man is like being a single working class dad during ChristmasHow do guys like these get dates? | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | IDK if she loves me or she is playingcut contact bro | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 10:40 PM |
| 40 | I have a really deep voice, & it is something I am complimented on fairly often. How can I use it to my own advantage?Talk to girls | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | As a man. Do you use makeup to look better?Esp if you use tretinoin it should be 247 | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is BrutalI have literally never had a woman show interest in me. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | As a man. Do you use makeup to look better?Need to wear sunscreen 247 | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 50 cold approachesHow do you persist in something that has such a low success rate? (Other than by reframing and redefining success?) | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop feeling inferior to women?hey man - just wanted to know i feel similar to you at times, if that's any solace. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Rejection making me suicidal.24 here! you can compare yourself to me! | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | My Thoughts After 15 Approacheswhat if you do all the above? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 09:37 PM |
| 5 | My Thoughts After 15 Approachesneeded to hear this! | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Is thinning/balding hair a turn off in the dating world?you should think about or research spiro if you're female- it's a hair loss drug that works for women and is used by MTF trans people to get hair. It's quite effective, and I wish I could use it as a man. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasholy shit its silktouchm from r/dota2 2013 | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | DaygameWhat constitutes "normal" is ill-defined imo. For example I am comfortable asking for directions, but not comfortable saying hi to someone out of the blue. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Resources for inner game?I feel you OP. you're not alone | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 02:37 AM |
| 5 | How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex?I meditate 30 minutes a day - it's helped me with things like my focus and presentness and has helped me get started doing some very light approaching, but a prolonged lack of success isn't doing me any favors and it feels like tangible success (positive reactions from others, nothing internal). is the only thing that can really help. On top of that I basically feel invisible in my day to day life, e.g. i don't get IOIs or whatever the fuck they're called here, and I've never had someone express… | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex?Well, I don't think that way - I always think the, if I did X or had Y, the outcome will be different. Of course, that is not very close to reality from what I can tell, but I still need to deprogram those kinds of thoughts - it's not easy to when the majority of interactions end up this way, as well, as the statistics of it suggest a systematic problem, not just the result of osmeone's idiosyncratic preferences. | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Mindset Shiftthe market is the arbiter of value and right now it is telling me i am not very valuable | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Asking a girl to get coffee over DMs?Go for it, but be forewarned - ig DMs are a pretty low success rate strategy. Don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 05:11 AM |
| 8 | How do I know they want to be approachedGood on you, but be warned most ppl don't make long lasting change this way. The key is gradual, progressively more extreme changes. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | There is an abundance of possibility out there with beautiful, feminine women. Let it invigorate you, realize that rejection is normal and part of the process of seduction.20% seems like a rather high estimate no? Or rather - its very contingent and depends on your looks, status, personality etc. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Just Can't make myself cold approachHave you heard of the good looking loser approach anxiety program? It essentially doesn't make you start approaching but instead does it gradually, through different types of interactions with people (eg asking for time, directions etc.) | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Sentence mistakeWhy do you care so much man? | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | How does Russell Brand flirt so successfully?Lol. Pops open the principia at parties | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It's still a relevant variable. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 01:02 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Not true | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Grey hairs onlyLikewise | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | NYC thread- ALL New Yorkers ASSEMBLE!- Lets hear your Tips, Tricks and ExperiencesDo you have better advice ? | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 11:54 PM |
| 7 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?It's simple - not easy. Don't confuse the two | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Fat StacksWhat correction exists between having money and a strong jawline? Are you trying to asks about looks or money? | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidencePlease reread what I wrote - i referred specifically to OPs method which is dming girls on Instagram. This is a method with a very low success rate and if you can succeed with it it means you're a well above average guy who doesn't need advice from dating videos. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidenceMost people who watch these videos are not in these situations you are in. They probably don't have large social circles with lots of girls in them, and don't have enough status/charisma/good looks to have a decent number of followers on IG. If what you're describing works for you, you are way above a lot of the guys on this sub in certain aspects of your life. Good for you! But I still maintain that what you do won't work for most guys. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidenceLol you're delusional if you think the average guy can do this. You may not need online advice but other people might. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Your clothes play a huge role in seducing women!Yeah - whenever I feel uninspired I just wear this. Also - all clothes look good on you if you workout (and they fit!) | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet quality girls.Need to establish myself in my career for a few years - will try to leave after. Also my family lives in NJ so it's nice for them. | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 7 | Do you use dating apps? If so, how do you not allow them to crush your self esteem and drive you insane?lol i just dont get matches | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Where to meet quality girls.Live in NYC What's the next step someone help me out lol | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I'm a friendless mentalcel virgin who is unsure of how to move foreward and actually "experience" life.Mfw I'm trying to invert the hessian during a cold approach | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postPlease read this: https://mennohenselmans.com/the-myth-of-1glb-optimal-protein-intake-for-bodybuilders/ you actually need less protein the more advanced you become. Also mcdonalds macros are not bad for certain menu items. What really matters for total strength is 1 - hitting adequate protein, which is not as high as 1 g/lb, and 2. total caloric intake - e.g. eat moar. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 12:23 AM |
| 0 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" post1g/lb is usually too much. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Starting with daygame/cold approach tomorrow for the first time.I would maybe start not with cold approaches, but just talking to people - maybe pretending to be new to town asking for questions, or just making conversation. It is difficult to dive into the deep end immediately, and most people who do don't do so for long - consistent small progress jumps big gains any day. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | 10 Tips to Appear as an Attractive High Value Man (w/o Good Looks, Money, or Fame)Some of these things can be learned, but others come through life experiences - in particular through things like getting rejected, but also just being happy with yourself and what you do. Just my 2c! | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Good social hobbies to meet people?Me as well! | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Generally getting LTR's from cold approach daygameDude I'm in your position as well - scared as fuck to start, and in particular afraid of bad reactions etc. Let's hype each other up! | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Dating girls in NYC or big citiesgo on ... | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 06:50 PM |
| 4 | I just wanna do one freaking approachThis amounts to approaching no one | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Something elseMost people can't beat the market - but learning basic finance and investing is always good. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is the “cold approach” you all talk about on here? And why is it referred to as the “cold” approach”Because it's like cold calling - there is no (or little) prior connection between you and the person you're talking to. It's just an English expression i guess. If someone is cold towards you means they are not receptive or neutral. Warm means opposite. | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do you have to introduce yourself with achievements?Could you give some examples of social things please | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Cold approach vs dating appsI'm only interested in cold approach because I get literally 0 matches on apps. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do you have to introduce yourself with achievements?Well, from what I've seen on things like incel subreddits or dating advice subreddits, a lot of the advice given to men for dating is of the form - go do X, no girl will like you if you don't do /have X. E.g. - have a decent job, have ambition, be fit, go take a shower etc. And to be fair to the people that give this advice, if you're someone who lives in his mom's basement surrounded by dirty laundry, yeah you'll have a tough time and you know why. But a lot of people on this sub have checked… | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you?Thanks for the advice man - I've done such exercises, and frankly while I've been doing what I can do address what I dislike, it never feels like enough lol. Almost developed a mild case of body dysmorphia/bigorexia. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 19 | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you?Yeah - this coupled with some bad experiences leads to pretty low self worth and fearw of further negative reinforcement. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?Damn - I fit both of those criteria. Still no success. Maybe one day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?Incel here living in NYC. Any tips lol? So many hot people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | How much do you get rejected from cold approach?Yeah - only reason I'm interested in cold approach is cause I get zero matches on Old | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How much do you get rejected from cold approach?Could you give some examples of hobby groups? | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 17 | The magic of "outer outer" gameStep 1: Look good. Step 2 : Talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Anyone that conquered AA through progressive exposure? Looking to connect (especially in NYC)Interesting - it feels to me like everyone is cold, brusque, always has someplace to be etc., which I understand since many people here are focused, high achieving people. I know indoor dining is open - I wonder if people would be open to socializing with strangers. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Anyone that conquered AA through progressive exposure? Looking to connect (especially in NYC)Am not the OP but just recently moved to NYC and this sounds cool! | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection Forever. (REJECTION is a GOOD THING!)Hi OP, I read your post and I just wanted to say I feel the same way as you do - confident and happy that I've improved, but still don't feel good enough (ever). This might not make you fell better but hopefullyy it was nice to get a reminder that you aren't alone. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Overcome Your Fear of Beautiful WomenThis comment really confuses me. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Elminate Approach Anxiety- The Secret To Self ConfidenceIt's from when I made the account two years ago. But nothing I said is related to that anyway. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Forget all the crap you’ve learnt and just put yourself out thereOk. My life is sorted out (see all the other posts I've made) What's the next step? | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Just a small "Hi"Thanks - I'll try to maintain some persepctive. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Just a small "Hi"Thanks - I'll try to maintain some persepctive. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Just a small "Hi"That's fair, but when people don't reciprocate I take it as an indication that I've in-fact offended them or made them feel worse/uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Elminate Approach Anxiety- The Secret To Self ConfidenceThis is well written but ultimately doesn't convince me. In my opinion it's not too complicated - a person's value in the dating world is governed by how many options they have. I have none, and most women (my age, and say - at my level of physical fitness) have many more options than I do. This my value is much lower than theirs. It's a basic corollary of supply and demand. | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Just a small "Hi"They never smile back tho | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm(20m) a 7/10 but can't seem to get girlfriend. Need advice.Why does somebody need to hit on 200 people to have a chance? | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | This isn’t for meplan a virtual date with who? | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | This isn’t for meHow do you do this during corona. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it worksYep. Im a severe case of this. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Where to meet women and how to improve my social skills?I was also wondering about this, I have a lot of friends, but they are all male and it's never materialized into women. All of them just use tinder or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsI hate myself and feel worthless for this sole reason - a lack of any sort of relationships with the opposite sex throughout my whole life. I'm 22 years old and never kissed anyone except for a sex worker I hired. Whenever I walk on the street it feels like most women just turn away from me, even if I try to make eye contact and smile. I don't talk to or interact with women because I automatically assume they don't want anything to do with me, and I never have a reason to interact with them plat… | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsI don't know man, have you never met someone who is fairly successful in other aspects of their life but frustrated due to a lack of interest from the opposite sex? That's basically me and I don't feel that it's as weird or uncommon as you might think. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsWhat if you put yourself out there and got success? Many of the girls I've dated, I pretty much expected to be rejected, and then was pleasantly surprised when I wasn't. Rejection hurts, but that success is an equally powerful feeling too man. Can't really imagine that ngl - there's a large body of evidence in my mind that says that won't happen. You might consider re-framing your persepective. You should know that rather than reject you, some girls will string you along hoping you'll give them … | /r/seduction | 17/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsThank you for the elaborate and well written response. I just don't know when or how I'll be able to implement it. I just feel so lacking and inadequate, and feel like I'll never feel adequate unless I'm validated externally. It would hurt so much if I finally decided to put myself out there and just got rejected. | /r/seduction | 17/07/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsNot the person you're replying to, but my self image is already shit, despite having worked on myself a lot - I'm not ready to accept that 9/10 people won't want anything to do with me. | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsHow does one feel worthy of love without the reinforcement of other people and their opinions? | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsDescribes me to a t: Despite having worked on myself a lot, and having improved my fashion, skincare, and hitting the weights, dating apps have convinced me that any person who I am attracted to will reject me or ignore me. And frankly, I already hate myself enough and feel that I'm completely worthless - I'm not ready to handle any more reinforcement of that in the form of a rejection. And deep down inside I believe it's all I'll get, especially after people on this site and youtube and whatnot… | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | SHIFT YOUR FEARS - a must read for virgins/incelsDescribes me pretty well: dating apps etc.have convinced me that I'm guaranteed to get a negative reaction from anyone who I perceive as attractive, despite having worked on myself a lot. | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How would you like to be propositioned by a woman?I'd be creeped out if a girl said I had nice eyes. | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | I’ve never had a girlfriend. Or a kiss.Sure it is. My advice was meant to say - don't worry about missing out, but do focus on making the most of the opportunities you will (soon get) | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 63 | I’ve never had a girlfriend. Or a kiss.Me too pal! And I just graduated college. You have a lot of time left. Don't worry and focus on the present. Not the past and not the future. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardSame story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How to maturely handle a woman’s body count and sexual past.thank you for the nice comment, I appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 0 | How to maturely handle a woman’s body count and sexual past.As someone who's in a similar situation as OP, I personally wouldn't have issues dating someone with experience if I had some experience myself. It's basically just insecurity at the end of the day in my case. A lot of times being a late bloomer makes me feel very unworthy and like less of a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate goal to confidence is not being able to give a fuck. No matter how many rejections you get, no many how times you get turned down you do not let it determine you. Because results comes when you stop giving a fuck and getting outside of your comfort zone.How do you deal with this if all you feel is you've gotten rejected your whole life? (Not just women, but things like job apps, college apps, sports teams, etc.) | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I've never really had abundance in any aspects of my life, and I feel its hurting me.It's all I can think about these days. I'm reminded of it every day, all the crap I slogged through and all the work I did with absolutely 0 payoff. Literally no one cares about it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The SMV Requirement Bar - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get DiscouragedSure, I understand its a difficult question. However I also do think a woman needs to be physically attracted to you to have sex with you. I think money is generally the least important, and status is the most - status here doesn't necessarily mean being a member of the royal family, but rather, having that cool factor and having some sort of acknowledgment/respect from your peers. | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 06:44 AM |
| 1 | The SMV Requirement Bar - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get Discouragedhow do you obtain such a vibe? | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 3 | The SMV Requirement Bar - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get DiscouragedSMV = sexual marketplace value, or a general metric of how attractive you are to the other sex, based on looks, status, wealth, charisma etc. also yeah man, it's easy to read and posit stuff like this, but honestly its hard to distance my own self worth from the judgements of others (usually women). It hurts me like nothing else when I put effort into something and feel like I didn't get anything from it, or when I see those around me succeed with less effort than I do. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Dating apps have destroyed my self-esteem. Don't really have the wherewithal to date IRL. I feel like if I get rejected on the app I'll basically get rejected IRL. I'm not sure though, part of me doesn't believe in things like women "detecting" someone's vibe or energy or whatnot - it doesn't make sense to me that they (and them alone for some reason) have these sort of telepathic abilities. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Beyond the odd diet, women don’t self improveI can't argue with this. The world's best strength athletes all do lots of mobility work: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-ZmC9JU44w&t=407s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dem7Hw0fQw4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVVUtV5W85I also im not saying light jogs and warm up sets are unimportant - they need to be done alongside mobility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Beyond the odd diet, women don’t self improveBeing flexible is useful. Every body builder has a comprehensive flexibility routine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?been doing that | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shotI totally agree, I'm just not sure how to shake this. My internal self worth is not so great, so I think rejection or repeated rejections will really mess me up internally. A lot of it has to do with being old (22) and having zero romantic experience. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shotI understand that, but in my mind, it resonates as you aren't good enough and you never will be. So yes, I really am that fragile. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Shoot your shotHow do I deal with the blow to my ego? | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Downloaded TikTok to see what the hype was about. I'm stunned by the content on this app, what the hell is going on with Gen Z?Kys | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?What do your social circles look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | One exercise to boost your comfidence to another level.Insight timer is the best meditation app in my experience. | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.what kind of lying do you mean? | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | "I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality."Fuck I can't even do those!! I've just gotten very good at looking or feeling hostile and purse lipped I think | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 05:22 AM |
| 0 | How do I find FwB as a guy?Be confident (lol). | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorLol! Just take it bro! | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Tinder 101: A Complete Beginner Framework to Crush Online Datinglol | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Tinder 101: A Complete Beginner Framework to Crush Online DatingSorry but how is being brown a huge plus irl? | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Whose ready for NYE tonight? Anyone feeling confident they're gonna pull and close?Home with my parents again! | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | To get laid by girl by 2020= to blend intl the mssI'm agreeing with you cuck | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Need General Advice. 3 Years dryspellWhich parts of GLL did you like in particular? | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | To get laid by girl by 2020= to blend intl the mssActually good advice. Just normiemaxx | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take for you to have success?Just wanted to say same here bro. Best of luck to you man. I have depressiv episodes about this, because I'm a senior in college and this is supposed to be the easiest time of my life. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being creepy.Embrace your inner creep | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Went to nightclub alone and tried my game!Yeah, the club is not the best environment for short asian dudes as well. Sad fact of life, but clubs are women's playing grounds. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Full transcript of a conversation i had with a 9/10 at a bar and how i managed to get her number in less then 5 minutesI'm pretty sure the number of men into grooming and fitness is at an all time high. I think you're kind of painting an all too common caricature of the guy who doesn't bathe and tries to date models or something like that. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?haha yes (you see my username) But i would say eyebrows is one of the more tangential looksmaxes. Things like hair, teeth, skin all matter quite a bit more. Most men have decent eyebrows and eyelashes just by existing. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?I see. I would personally use scissors and a comb. Too much room for error with a razor. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 02:08 AM |
| 1 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?You assume everyone in secondary school was a popular kid who played football? | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Full transcript of a conversation i had with a 9/10 at a bar and how i managed to get her number in less then 5 minutesI really don't agree with this sentiment. Like I think the bar for eligibility is a lot higher for women. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?You touch up your eyebrows every week? Seems a little excessive imo. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?Hey man, just wanted to say I feel everything you do, down to a t. Hopefully we'll all make it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How important is race?Generally white dudes have it easiest I'd say. I would say that south asian males are considered the least desirable due to negative/unmasculine portrayals in media and whatnot. A lot of asian girls like white dudes due to self-hating tendencies, and i would say its a toss up for black dudes, a lot of girls really like them, and a lot of girls may not want to give em a chance. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is over-emphasized in the community.fair enough. i also never assumed younger people came to these meet ups (younger being early twenties, like myself). how's your experience been? | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is over-emphasized in the community.What groups do you join where it's socially acceptable to hit on people? We often always hear women giving the same complaints of them getting hit on whenever they try to do anything , esp meetups. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardI'm saying nothing of the sort. All I'm saying is that you wouldn't have gotten 7/10 numbers, and you wouldn't be on this website, claiming it's "not that hard", if you weren't a good looking white dude. You did everything right and eerything you posted is great, but imo a good portion of your success has to do with your looks, and its a little disingenuous to say "it's not that hard" as if your experience is representative of an average looking person's experience | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardOP is a good-looking white dude. Move on everyone. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps for MEN?No. Never will be. Way too much demand from men and way too little supply from women | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 04:55 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know how to just go for itEh I guess. Maybe when they want to settle down. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 04:27 AM |
| 2 | I don’t know how to just go for itOf course. Everything I refer to in the above is regarding my age range (18-21) Most cute girls had bfs throughout middle and high school and are probably sexually experienced. I have never had a GF, nor do I have sexual experience. Most cute girls consistently get invited to things by virtue of them being girls that are cute and have been going to parties since high school. I rarely get invited to anything because I'm not a cute girl and as a result building a social circle is much harder. I wa… | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 01:20 AM |
| 2 | I don’t know how to just go for itI don't get this whole "cute girls are regular people argument". Sure they are, but that doesn't really change the fact they probably lived radically different lives than I have so far. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I’m depressed about being a kissless virgin, should I go visit a prostitute to get it over with?No one walks around on the street with a suit. It looks silly. No one said you have to wear streetwear either. A well-fitting t shirt and a pair of jeans will get you farther than any suit. I get what you're trying to say, but I think it's misguided. No one will perceive you as high value, just because you wear a suit, and I advise that no one do this. Walking around in a suit all day (especially a 50$ H and M suit that's blocky and will last a month) will make you look like a clown. Get some de… | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 07:22 PM |
| -1 | I’m depressed about being a kissless virgin, should I go visit a prostitute to get it over with?Suits from h and m? for seduction??? You don't know what you're talking about | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 04:10 PM |
| 3 | The Approach Anxiety Series - 1 of 7 - How To Build Your Self-Esteemhow can i write 50 reasons im awesome? i can barely break 10 the list of things that need improvement is endless ofc | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Very quick recap of indicators of interest. go out tomorrow and try to spot them, you will be surprised how often girls check you out. Straight back, nice clothes and haircut doesn't harm too.this just sounds like false hope. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The Power Of Making Positive AssumptionsWhat's the difference between this and being straight up delusional? | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyThank you my man! Really appreciate the encouragement. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyThanks, but I don't want to do this with the intention of stroking anyone's ego. I just want to say what's on my mind. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyYeah I just kinda froze up and over thought the situation. Plus she was with friends so it was a bit unnerving. Chicks always are with friends. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyThank you buddy | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyThanks man, I appreciate the encouragement. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyHey man, thanks for the offer I truly appreciate it. Unfortunately I'm not sure if I'll achieve what you set out, but I'll try! | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyGood idea, I'll keep it in mind! | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyFair enough, but there's always work to be done! | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyThanks man | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Gave a girl a compliment at a PartyThanks for the advice, unfortunately most of my friends don't really approach, so it's tough. I'll keep at it. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | 4 Ways To Start Believing In Your Own AwesomenessI literally can't come up with 50 things on the other hand my list of things i dislike about myself and that are wrong with my life grows without bound. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 05:49 AM |
| 3 | How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend to Sleep with You (and Win Her Back)Yuck | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Fun line to ask a girl out?no need for funny lines. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Should I just give up with girls?in the same boat friend tried tinder, single digit matches even after a decent amount of time spent in the gym and some work on my fashion. I've got a great friend group in school but it feels so hopeless. I don't know any girls at all. All dudes. None of them have ever introduced me to a girl and none of them really hang out with girls. I started a photography club at my school, very few/no girls in it, despite photography being one of those activities. Hardcore math major with aspirations for … | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I land dates as an attractive person?Just use online dating. Really doesn't get any easier than that. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeI've been single my whole life dude. And thanks for the advice, but I'm pretty fulfilled in every other aspect of my life. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeThanks for the advice. I'm pretty sure it's over for me though. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeI get no matches on any apps period. I've tried it all. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeI've done that more times than I can count lol. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeThanks for the advice. I've done all this already however and have single digits matches. It just doesn't work for me. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeIt doesn't . I don't like seeing others fail. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | if attraction is value and value is rarity (as evidenced by diamonds)Most girls I know are into generic looking white dudes. The opposite of rarity. Value does not equal rarity in this case. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeFair enough. All I'm saying is to temper your expectations. I've seen amazing looking Indian dudes get single digits matches and white dudes with a beer gut get matches in the hundreds(same location) which has made me healthily skeptical of online dating for ethnic guys. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Online dating from a girl's perspective and the mistakes most guys makeDon't forget about race. Online dating is brutal for ethnics (Asians and Indians) | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Game vs makeupGood genes get guys inside the sex zone too. The standard of what constitutes good genes is way higher though. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 12:23 AM |
| 2 | I (19 M) met a girl at work (19F) and I think she is interestedIs this a temporary job? If so go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel sad and heartbroken when we don't talkYeah definitely if you don't wanna be in a relationship | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Depressed feeling when I see beautiful women.I feel the same way buddy. Just letting you know you're not alone. | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 04:05 AM |
| 36 | Girl who rejected me a month ago is flirting hard.Go game other girls. Don't let her string you along too much. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | What is a creep?LOL, just explain my cherry-picked anecdotes bro! | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | What is a creep?If you believe in this, what don't you like about the incel movement? (Not trying to call you out as an incel, I post on Braincels myself, don't let the Reddit gestapo hear that one, just interested in what you think inceles are). | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | What is a creep?You didn't, you're right. I think that u/SpinPlates was trying to get a more general point across. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | When classes, mutual friends, and dating apps fail, where to meet women?I'd also like to know. Kinda in a similar situation, hardcore math student so 0 girls in classes. Friends have never introduced me to girls, get 0 matches on Tinder because I'm not white. I've been trying to go out more but a little clueless in terms of party scene. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad if the only way I can talk to girls is when I’m drunk?What the fuck? | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeGood! Go lift and clean up your diet. It'll help you feel better and look better. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeDo you go the gym? | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | I told a girl that her "eating disorder wasn't working", is there any way to recover from this?Shit bait | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Thinking of starting a cycle, need some advice?have you gotten bloodwork done? Get bloodwork done asap. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | I spend about 9 hours a day on my phone. WTF can I do about this.oh whoops, sorry i forgot to mention the platform :( regardless i'm sure the iphone has apps like those. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I spend about 9 hours a day on my phone. WTF can I do about this.i don't, but if you look up digital detox timer in the google play store you should be able to find it. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 02:36 AM |
| 3 | I spend about 9 hours a day on my phone. WTF can I do about this.There's an app called digital detox timer. It locks you out of your phone for as long as you set it for. If you want back in you have to pay a fee. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 09:16 PM |
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