Loopyrainbow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
225	Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond?	Lifestyle	Loopyrainbow	/r/seduction	07/06/24 12:52 AM
12	Do you worry that a girl you approach might be too young?	Logistics	Loopyrainbow	/r/seduction	18/04/22 09:58 PM

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260	American dating advice is useless in europe I've talked to strangers in the US, Paris, Oslo, Stockholm, London, Barcelona, Rome, Venice, and Munich. On average, the women were equally as friendly and receptive to me in all of these places. You get some that aren't interested, and some that are. But yeah, you should never say "is it pink?" anywhere because that's just a stupid thing to say.	/r/seduction	09/04/26 04:26 PM
9	Have you ever broken a woman’s heart without meaning to? A direct conversation where I say that I’m not looking for something serious. Usually we stop seeing each other soon (or immediately) after I say this I now understand that somehow I seem to give girls the impression that I want to be exclusive (maybe from body language? Because I don’t say it out loud) so I need to explicitly say when that’s not the case. Usually by date #3 I say this, because I don’t want to waste their time or hurt them more further down the line.	/r/seduction	24/02/26 10:54 PM
6	Have you ever broken a woman’s heart without meaning to? Yeah. It’s a long story but I have put a lot of thought into it, I’m handling it the best I can	/r/seduction	24/02/26 10:09 PM
37	Have you ever broken a woman’s heart without meaning to? “Meaning to” is a tricky thing. Usually I’ve hurt girls not by cheating, but by leading them on and then telling them I didn’t want something serious. But I wouldn’t say I set out with that intention. I just got really excited and then got bored or wanted to keep exploring other options, I couldn’t really help that that’s how I felt. So now I usually get very cautious upfront and pump the breaks early, if I sense I’m going down that path again	/r/seduction	24/02/26 10:05 PM
5	How tall are you and what’s your lay count? How old were you at the time? I’m 33 and honestly I would like to try something similar, I’ve never had sexual abundance like thats	/r/seduction	21/07/25 01:45 AM
3	Should i use a hat to approach women if i have a receding hairline? I’m balding with a suuuuper receded hairline and I avoid wearing hats, including in dating app photos, etc. I want to show girls the real me as much as possible	/r/seduction	24/06/25 11:49 PM
30	How to tell a girl that you don't drink alcohol without killing the vibe? “I don’t drink alcohol, only blood”	/r/seduction	04/05/25 02:08 AM
116	I find majority of girls boring, what can I do? I like artsy girls. Girls who play music and paint and are into literature, who like going to museums. Girls who dress in a unique way. I don’t think they’re boring at all, I think they’re funny	/r/seduction	23/04/25 05:20 PM
6	Need help with: « what do you do for work » question I think if you just own it and say it proudly, most girls won’t really care. If you’re content with it, that’s all that matters	/r/seduction	08/08/24 10:26 PM
154	What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking? It’s more beta to worry about coming off as beta	/r/seduction	03/08/24 03:50 PM
2	Who else here loves casual sex? Do you find casual sex easily attainable in your late 30s? I’m still not over it, mostly since I haven’t had as much of it as I want. Im 32.	/r/seduction	19/07/24 04:50 PM
149	Girls just want to have fun. Don't need to be the top 10%. The best way to have fun is to be physically healthy, this is where childlike energy comes from	/r/seduction	17/06/24 01:22 AM
223	Girl asked to be exclusive on second date—how to not give boyfriend? You did everything right. You formed a connection and didn't give any false pretense, and then when she pressed for exclusivity you were honest and direct. I wouldn't change a thing. This is more on her.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 04:39 AM
1	Is my fantasy just destined to never happen? It may happen or it may not, there’s no option but to try. Part of trying is doing things like going out on your own. If you let things like that stop you, it won’t happen.	/r/seduction	12/06/24 01:13 AM
63	Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate? Usually I don’t even escalate at the bar, I’ll just invite the girl over to listen to music or something after we finish our drinks. If she says yes, it’s a strong indicator she’s down. Then once we sit down at my place, hand on her leg, kiss, keep moving forward	/r/seduction	08/06/24 02:15 AM
34	How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest. Looks, easygoing and socially fluent vibe are more important. As lame as it sounds, the most important thing is to be able to have fun. Most people are way too serious and rigid. Cyndi Lauper was right.	/r/seduction	30/05/24 05:56 PM
10	need some advice with a girl from tinder If she is making rules for you like “you don’t get to x unless you y,” it’s better to move on. Following her rules will make her lose respect for you.	/r/seduction	28/04/22 01:11 AM
3	Why is game so frustrating? The one with more power in a relationship is the one who cares less. Maybe the fact that you “need” them so badly is the thing that’s turning them away. They can probably sense your desperation. I think continuing to go out every weekend, but putting more care and joy into your career, body, eating, will help a lot. Also, do you mind sharing a bit more about your mental condition? That might play a role too.	/r/seduction	27/04/22 01:20 PM
7	Daygame: Approaching girl a 2nd time if you messed up first time Use the same line again, but enhanced: Now this aisle has a lot to choose from	/r/seduction	25/04/22 02:55 AM
3	Do you worry that a girl you approach might be too young? She turned her back when she saw me coming. Her back was 100% to me. I tried walking to the side a little bit to catch her eye, saying “hey,” but she rigidly avoided eye contact and turned again so her back blocked me a second time. It stung a bit, not gonna lie.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 01:38 PM
3	Do you worry that a girl you approach might be too young? Depending on my mental state, my gut’s more reliable on some days than others. I agree though. If you stay straightforward, direct, sensitive to her body language, and respectful, there’s nothing wrong with it. You didn’t know.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 10:22 PM
32	Do you worry that a girl you approach might be too young? Update: I approached anyway, but she turned her back to me when I approached. Welp, I’m proud of myself anyway. Better not to be afraid of rejection.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 10:18 PM
8	After MONTHS of being a scared little bi*ch I finally did my first direct approach! I feel like on top of the world :D That’s a W	/r/seduction	08/04/22 04:03 PM
2	Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! I love that perspective. Thanks again and keep enjoying life!	/r/seduction	06/04/22 07:13 PM
1	Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! Cool, thanks. I’m 29 and re-diving into dating apps, hoping to experience dating more girls before I settle down. Do you think dating apps provide the same possibilities for sex even though someone’s thirties?	/r/seduction	06/04/22 07:07 PM
1	Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! How old are you, if you don’t mind sharing?	/r/seduction	06/04/22 06:44 PM
7	How does the game change from 30-40 ? If your body and mind are telling you to stop giving a shit about dating around, sounds like a great signal to listen to. For me, I still have a strong urge to date multiple girls haha. One thing that makes spinning plates more difficult toward thirty though, is that I don’t go out to bars really at all. I’ve naturally found myself relying more on dating apps, but I’d like to approach more women in person.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 06:33 PM
18	How does the game change from 30-40 ? I agree. I’m about to turn thirty, and while I ultimately want to settle down, I didn’t get the chance to date too many girls during my twenties, so I plan to “spin a few plates” during my early thirties because once I do settle down, I need to know I picked the best possible option.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 06:19 PM
1	2 sides of the coin 🤔 You disagree?	/r/seduction	05/04/22 02:58 PM
1	2 sides of the coin 🤔 I think diet is the easiest place to start. You can measure you metabolic rate through oral temperature—ideally, you reach 98.6 degrees by midday. That’s a good gauge, in addition to any physical symptoms, to show you if you’re on the right track. I’d recommend listening to biologist Ray Peat. You can find his interviews on YouTube	/r/seduction	05/04/22 01:12 AM
0	2 sides of the coin 🤔 You can’t see it, but you can measure it. Body temperature is one easy way. You can’t see heat or energy, at least with the naked eye, but you can measure it.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 01:10 AM
1	2 sides of the coin 🤔 Aspirin is actually a more organism-supporting anti-inflammatory than ibuprofen is. Some studies have found aspirin to work like viagra in strengthening erection, just by the act of promoting healthy circulation	/r/seduction	04/04/22 10:46 PM
4	2 sides of the coin 🤔 I think the biggest factor is vibrance, the energy produced by the organism. This means that when our bodies function optimally and healthily, we will attract other organisms (not just women, but other people and animals and even spiritual happenings) because of the energy our cells produce. The universe rewards us for this increased energy by presenting us with opportunities, and the healthy body also easily optimizes hormones and organ function as a result of well-functioning cells I think tha…	/r/seduction	04/04/22 10:41 PM
1	Best advice I can give you I see. I’ve experienced that before too. Do you get a similar sort of mental freeze during other stressful situations, like public speaking or interviews?	/r/seduction	04/04/22 10:37 PM
3	Best advice I can give you The most stressful point when approaching a girl is the two minutes leading up to it. Once you start the conversation, it’s easier than you expected. Like jumping into a pool to go swimming.	/r/seduction	04/04/22 03:14 PM