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| 4 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control? | Inner Game | Loose-Engineering487 | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 04:10 PM |
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| 2 | 4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need Advice"want to date someone who turns into a slut for me" Thanks for articulating this. And while I've struggled with dating since those years, since I've had it, I could never go back to anything other than that. It's not just physical, it's the unbridled enthusiasm or what Mark Manson says is a "fuck yes". Edit: I'll add that this doesn't have to come on date 1, but you know sooner rather than later whether it's going this way. OP, if she's giving you that energy, I suspect you could have an adult c… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 3 | The real reason I'm afraid to do cold-approaches.I get chills watching scenes from this movie and the sequel. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 05:10 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with me?Thanks for your perspective! | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What is wrong with me?How? In addition, to therapy? | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:54 AM |
| 2 | I really want to know: How could you as a 20M to seduce a MilfI think you're right about the being blunt as not as effective. And finding a more subtle insinuating way to sexualize something. And, again, not overthinking it in the moment. I wonder how I could get better at it. What do you it is about the blunt / forwardness that makes it not as effective? Or is that false? If you're open to sharing some of that recording....let me know. That would be really cool to hear and learn from. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I really want to know: How could you as a 20M to seduce a MilfThis is beautifully put. I never analyze too much when I'm out. I'm convinced of your dancing analogy and that if a girl is into me or receptive, my biology kicks in and I'll know. She'll let me know too. It's worked before. But lately, I have not had a lot of success with these ambiguous hang sessions with a few women and it's got me questioning my "radar" for these things. Like I think I outright told this lady she was hot in some form or the other maybe two or three times that day, and I got … | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I really want to know: How could you as a 20M to seduce a MilfMight be a classic, over-asked question, but are you looking for certain indicators that she is interested before shooting your shot or escalating? I met a older lady on my flight, we talked for a while, exchanged numbers and met up a few days later, but every time I tried escalating touch wise or saying that I thought she was hot, idk I feel like I got very little back. It just seemed too friendly. I struggle with this regardless of age, so any perspective here would be appreciated. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 11:50 PM |
| 5 | How to not get stressed around pretty girlsYou got 9 girls numbers out of 11 approaches? | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?Awesome, thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?Thank you - a couple question: - did most of your pictures have some element of you in them, or were they 50/50 you and views, or things that you would see from your viewpoint? - did you have your profile public or private (I tend to be shy which is why I haven't posted in over 10 years - basically just froze my account - occasionally go on but now that I'm in my 30s I find myself scrambling to put more effort into this area of my life since I have had a fairly sparse dating history). Thank you … | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 06:58 PM |
| 4 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?Man this is such a glowing endorsement of using social media to get inbound interest. I appreciate it. It's these strong opinions / perspectives that are important for me to hear. I'm bad at marketing myself - how much of your instagram is you curating and getting nice pictures just versus you living your life, and less than ideal photos. I enjoy my life right now. It's not perfect by any means but then I look at photos and sometimes they're selfies with friends where I personally don't think I … | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?That and the Bhagavad Gita which is basically a whole meditation on this concept of control what you can control and let go of the rest. I keep that in mind every day. I see my mind transforming over time, yes, but it’s got a little way to go. I appreciate this though because I think acceptance, letting go and just focusing on what I can can control is key. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?My man thank you so much for this response. And I appreciate the encouragement! I actually did go out shortly after I made the post to go practice some cold approach. :) Thanks again for the encouragement - frankly, the best f**ing part of this journey has actually been the awesome guys and friends I've made in the process of doing this. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?So many quotable lines here. Thank you for taking the time to write this. I will take it to heart. was feeling totally miserable after yet another failure, so I gave up, all I ever wanted was to feel good and this pursuit of women only made me feel worse and worse. It sure does seem, strong negative emotions are often catalysts for change. At least for me, it takes hitting some sort of perceived rock bottom, and then I become free. Thanks brother - I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?Thank you :) I'm fairly average in weight. I was (am) thinning but have mostly stopped it with fin. Idk about bald haha - I'm open to it but tbh I'd rather try other hair restoration methods first if it is sore point. | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?Thank you for the feedback! :) This haircut while not perfect, is 10x better than what it was before (my god). I'll keep refining it! | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 04:43 AM |
| 5 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?Thanks everyone. I'm taking note. I did go out and practice some more cold approach today. Taking it one step at a time! Appreciate all the comments! :) And yeah, u/WholeMilkElitist I'm in tech lmao. It's that obvious huh? I'm cracking up tbh. Definitely can be shy but less so as I get older. I like the affirmation too! | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 04:43 AM |
| 0 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?I appreciate the honesty. I don't think I am delusional about my limits in this area, hence the post - and me trying to accept this. I like petite / fit, brunette, white to light brown, 9s/10s in the face. If I'm trying to punch above my weight class, I don't want to be under some delusion that any amount of game is going to help. Maybe it will - idk. I'm here for some help on changing my mindset or approach. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?I took a quick one in front of my coputer! I'm not sure if these links are allowed - https://postimg.cc/Snb0hvt1 | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How to come to terms with my looks, even after trying? Process for acceptance of things out of my control?I'm happy to share photos and can do so in a few hours when I'm back on desktop, but I will say I think there is a distinction here. I'm not saying I look that good. I'm saying I feel good about myself for the first time in a long time. And that's kind of what I'm struggling with. You're right - I might not be "good looking". I'm in the process of doing this inner work, feeling better, improving self-esteem, self-confidence. So how do I accept a reality / process it / have acceptance, where I mi… | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 05:49 PM |
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