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Self worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:37 AM
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It’s projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:06 PM
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I feel like we need a lot more posts about this. Heck, maybe I’ll try to make one myself. I still have SO much anger from a situation like this that I walked away from over two years ago now. These are deep, painful wounds. Guys that do this are truly heartless, and yet it seems most of them operate this way these days. It’s been really hard for me to find anyone I’m attracted to who actually wants emotional connection. What’s sick about it is how they lead you on to make you think that that’s w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:41 PM
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Were his initials wb by any chance? Fuckboys is the same but this one sounds so familiar that I have to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:59 PM
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I don’t have much to add, but I just wanted to jump in and say “I had stage 4 pickme” is a hilarious, clever and painfully true turn of phrase. I’m sure many of us have been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:13 PM
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nurtures the teeny tiny seed of hope in my heart just a little
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:12 PM
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My mom was just the opposite, she trained me in extreme pickmeism from childhood. Thank goodness I was able to break free of it in the past couple years, but unfortunately she’s still living that way at 56.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:10 PM
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I find your presence on the site confusing. If you’re just looking for friends, why do they need to be women, and single women seeking dates at that? It’s very, very, very fishy to me. If you aren’t interested in a romantic relationship, I suggest you leave them alone instead of toying with their minds and hearts. Normally I would suggest going places like gyms, bars, parks, other such public spaces with people with shared interests, in order to make friends. Under the current circumstances, tho…
/r/askFDS29/04/20 04:26 PM
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Yeah, back in the pickmeisha days I came over to ‘cuddle’ and get to know a guy. He got me really high (I should have refused it but I was an idiot back then) so that I had to stay over, cuddled for a while, then assaulted me even though I had said before that I didn’t want to do anything sexual. I told him later when asked that I wasn’t okay with what had happened and didn’t want to see him again, and he got really mad at me because obviously I was the problem for naming what he did to me and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:12 PM
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I agree with most of the other commenters that it’s good to keep emotional distance, especially at only four months. Take as much time as you need and protect yourself, and if he’s truly a HVM he will completely respect that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:22 PM
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This! Guys that want to date significantly younger are bad news, trust me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:23 PM
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I don’t think this is about the perfect face, I think it’s more about whether he makes an effort to take care of himself and look good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:06 PM
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If I had had this sub as a resource throughout my teens and early 20s, I could have been spared SO much trauma. Serious trauma from stuff like bdsm, porn culture, fuckboys, sugar babying, sex work etc. All things that choice feminism told me would be empowering. I can’t believe I couldn’t see that all of this was only in men’s interest and was causing severe psychological damage for me. Now at 26 I’m picking up the pieces. I was able to turn my back on all that almost 2 years ago. I’m trying to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:13 PM
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That is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:03 PM
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“I just don’t feel like it was that big a deal.” Sometimes it is and sometimes it isn’t, doesn’t matter, if you make your SO feel bad you should apologize! He also pulls out “well now I feel like shit” every single time I mention anything’s bothering me. Like I can tell you’re just trying to shift the focus so I can mommy your wounded pride. Not gonna work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:18 PM
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Thanks friend :) congratulations on getting clean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:36 PM
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The worst part is, he used to be really sweet and we were always close. He changed drastically after he starting experimenting with drugs, as cliche as that sounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:25 PM
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My brother and I were hanging out last night and he put on a video by some YouTuber about how it’s real easy to make fun of incels, but wrong because they actually deserve sympathy, poor things, and society’s really to blame, not them. I said afterward, ‘he’s funny, but I honestly don’t have any sympathy for incels.’ And he got his famous condescending, superior look on his face so I could tell he was mad lol. He was like, ‘really? None at all? Why? Don’t you think that’s unreasonable ‘ or somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:55 PM
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‘No drama’ means ‘never call me out on my bullshit, I’m too fragile for self reflection’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:22 AM
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Oh my god this is why I’ve always felt so self conscious trying to date guys and girls smaller than me regardless of whether I liked them... my third eye has been opened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:58 PM
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Because low to no effort men are a pandemic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:01 PM
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This blew my mind and explained SO much. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 07:03 PM
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