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What about dating apps? You're going on a date no one knows anything about the other person, at that point all you'll have is your "smooth talking skills"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:22 AM
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From a purely strategy/red pill point of view, a man should always be talking to different women, and always have the option to jump to someone else/have the ability to easily get someone else. It makes sense, if someone isn't fitting your bill or your finding something you don't like, just move on, even if you become exclusive, it's in your best interest to keep yourself in top shape and not let go, because that subtle understanding can lead to an overall much better relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:32 PM
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This is such a wild take, you do know men also feel empathy? And their actions can hurt someone they care about? They could have a family as well? I mean yeah label all loyal men as incels 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:46 AM
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Honestly if you've been seeing each other for a few months, actively sleeping, going on dates, phone calls, doing things together etc. That's a relationship, you might not have explicitly communicated boundaries and exclusivity but that doesn't mean it's not what it is, a relationship in all but name.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:18 AM
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How is it short sighted? This isn't a just world, there's absolutely going to be losers like there always has been, and grouping together what would that achieve? It's well known game theory that collusion can easily break when one member of the group attempts to achieve short term gains, what will likely happen is one mofo will get horny and just fuck things up for everyone else 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:01 PM
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This isn't necessarily true, there's a set point theory where body fat percentage is much easier to maintain, it's usually a range but for those people whose genetics are more suited for surviving famines I.e. Pacific islanders, it's much harder for them to maintain and get to a lower body fat purely because their genetics evolved for them to survive long ass periods without food, which if your body just hovered at 12% you'd be dead in the next famine. Which doesn't apply to the modern age but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:32 PM
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Well you can always get more money/better career, get better looking, there's obviously there's drastic ways like plastic surgery but even simpler stuff like fixing your diet, sleep and losing weight will make you look and feel more confident, you can join clubs and other local groups to improve your social skills, make more friends. I just think that the main driver is it's scary and you get comfortable, thing is, you don't need to do everything at once. You can start super easy and simple and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:17 PM
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Yeah so you conveniently add the "look good" and have social skills part 😂, which mind you, you can find one with those 2 money isn't the hard requirement here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:09 AM
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Nope, maybe for very high net worth like > $5m or something but for even most higher end wages like six figures that doesn't give you much more leverage than say someone on $60k money only helps if you're broke otherwise women do not care unless you're mega rich
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:58 AM
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I mean sure yeah but that's a defeatist mentality, and this is part of the red pill that actually holds true, about always improving. You also need to realise that you're not set in stone after 30. Heck vast parts of your personality and opportunities are based on the environment you're in, which is still tough to change but not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:55 AM
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You need to start to understand nutrition and how you can still eat healthy and lose weight and look good, most of this is about making the right choices like unprocessed foods etc. If that's too tough look at semaglutides they can also help with cravings and hunger and finally make sure your sleep is good, once you've gone like a few weeks eating healthy and losing weight and sleeping good it actually feels good and you don't even wanna think about eat junk or random shit anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:26 PM
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I honestly don't get what this post is about? Like some men might get upset they can't participate in hookup culture, others might be upset they can't find a relationship, point being, it depends on the guy and everyone should have a right to be upset or complain about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:34 PM
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This some brainlet thinking 😂 you can just buy surgeries say at 50m and look good again, even if you don't want to, anything above 25m is fuck you money you can do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:27 PM
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You don't have to be bi to understand this, just go to a gay club or LGBTQ specific night out as a guy and you'll easily understand 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:31 AM
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What made you wait 6 months? Is this something you established after the first few dates, did you try to initiate and get rejected? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:51 PM
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This ain't no just world tbh, you'll probably get advice like just be yourself and you'll find someone etc etc but everything you say is mostly right, there might be a women out there who would accept you, but chances of finding that are extremely rare, it's all about probability and fixing your issues which in turn gives you higher probability of meeting someone. I wouldn't say it's over for you at 36 there's still decades like the other poster said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:15 AM
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Would you be alright with them getting it elsewhere I.E. Paying for it to meet their needs (no emotional attachment or anything)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:30 AM
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That's even more the reason, otherwise she'd get bored or tired and dump yo ass (or worse cheat) and you're back to square one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:38 PM
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Obviously you have to try initially to get the date, either from asking them out directly, from dating apps etc. But the point OP is trying to make, is that afterwards during the dates/initial period you shouldn't go out of your way trying to please them, and that absolutely aligns with my experience. If they don't like it then just find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:12 PM
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Clueless lol, you should also take attractiveness into account, a top 20% man will have an easier time than a bottom 20% girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:58 PM
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Yup, now albeit those are somewhat average guys/dates but that still relies on the woman, if you aren't matching with higher value men then you're still the problem and you should lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:09 PM
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It is neurotic, you're completely overthinking things, you realise wondering whether working from home makes your masculine or not is borderline insane, like this thought just wouldn't come into my mind and it indicates self esteem/insecurities which is definitely not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:59 PM
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Same I own my 2 bed house but it's about 60sqm2 in total and no way I could host 20+ people in here let alone 10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:11 AM
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I wouldn't call that "friends" more so acquaintances, we wanna know how to make real friends, those that you can banter with, go out with whenever, be there for you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:09 AM
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The profile tells you a lot, for example with breeze you only get 7 profiles a day and each one has preferences, personality etc. You also get badges if you go on a date and the other person likes you so there's some vetting, also at least for me, I can go weeks without liking anyone but once you do see someone you like and then match with, it's better to see them first as that way you don't waste time talking for days awkwardly, less chances to get catfished and everything is already setup and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:52 PM
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I've used Breeze and gone on a few dates, I think it's good as you meet the person first and establish that rapport but then it's kinda weird as well because literally everyone there at the bar is on dates from the app too so I usually move onto a different place when you've realised the other person is normal after an hour or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:46 PM
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