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1

It was for an example that I was trying to make about being well-rounded. I would assume your looks would put you between a 1-5 out of 10 though (of what people find traditionally attractive). Please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:02 PM
1

I was using my best judgement.
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:57 PM
1

It doesn't matter if you think you're "smarter than everyone else". You're clearly lacking in other areas. You = Looks: 1/10, Personality: 2/10, Intelligence: 10/10 (I'm being generous), gives you a total of 13/30. A more ideal ratio would be: Looks: 5/10, Personality: 5/10, Intelligence: 5/10 for a total of 15/30.
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:20 PM
1

I think you need to focus on more of a balance. Allow yourself to "have fun" once in a while. Go to a rave/show/night club. Honestly, you sound like all work and no play.
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:08 PM
1

Dating is easier in your 20's IMO. Honestly, figure out how to make yourself more attractive... whether it's getting a more trendy hairstyle, wardrobe, or changing your diet and waking up 20 minutes earlier to knock out some push-ups. Figure out how to make yourself more interesting and be EXCITED when you talk about topics. I can tell by just reading your responses that you're just kind of "meh". Don't talk about how "busy you are with med school and don't have time for things". Lead with "I'm …
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:56 PM
3

It's more about the effort. Most women put in a lot of effort to get ready and we have a lot of beauty expenses (she likely bought a new outfit, got a pedicure, got a wax, etc.), so a man paying for dinner or drinks on the first night feels like reciprocated effort and expense. It's highly unlikely that I would want to get all dressed up for a first date, have him go dutch, and then still go over there to have sex. However, if we meet at one place for dinner/drinks and then want to go have a nig…
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:43 PM
1

Yeah. It's not playful or fun and the dog doesn't even look happy.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:25 PM
2

Of course they can. But unless they do, "just taking better pictures" isn't going to make them in the 5% like this guy is claiming.
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:10 PM
10

Based on your bio, I'd probably swipe left unless I was in my "ho-phase" still because it's clear you just want to hookup. Any guy who mentions "sex" for what makes a relationship great and then says the first date is "chilling and watching a movie" is just looking for a hookup. It's cool if you are, but you're making it really obvious.
/r/seduction07/10/22 02:49 PM
1

You're attractive, which helps immensely. Having an out-of-shape guy with poor facial symmetry take "better pictures" isn't going to produce the same effect as it did with you. ​ I dislike your last picture with the dog. You should have made this an outdoor photo (i.e. at the park with your dog). All of your pictures are indoor except for the first one so I feel like another outdoor picture would balance this out better.
/r/seduction07/10/22 02:47 PM
2

So...? Hott bitches love cocaine. Maybe if you had some you'd be able to get a date.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:26 PM
2

Looking at your profile picture, Selfies are not working for you, dude.
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:53 PM
1

Yeah. She probably doesn't even think of it anymore. How's it going with other girls? Any luck?
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:10 PM
0

I'm not a man, or in my 20's, or a virgin... but I definitely do not approach people when I feel like there's a strong chance I'm going to get rejected. I felt like that was just being realistic.. not cowardly.
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:03 PM
1

He's crazy.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:15 PM
3

Sounds like you misread things pretty badly. Next time look for more clues on if she's actually interested before "confessing your love".
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:50 PM
1

Very rarely. I don't go to a very "attractive" gym.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:42 PM
2

Maybe... I definitely do not usually look in the mirrors to see who is looking at me unless I feel that one feeling where you know someone is staring - and that's uncomfortable. Otherwise, between picking music, picking up weights, doing the actual working, drinking some water, putting weights back, changing the song, answering a text, etc. I'm really not super concerned with what guys are looking.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:36 PM
0

As long as they're not under 18.. I don't think you need to ask age.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:27 PM
18

Get a mini-goldendoodle. Bitches love goldendoodles.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:26 PM
38

Have you ever been to the gym? Guys don't just sit and eye-fuck girls the whole workout and hang out near their sections. 90% of the people are there working out and focused on themselves and might glance at an attractive person a few times.
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:28 PM
1

Have you been previously been flirted with by women of that similar attractiveness?
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:28 PM
2

I'm pretty sure that's in your head. I don't go around hating men just because they're unattractive. Maybe you are ignored or treated indifferently, but it's not "hate".
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:21 PM
2

Are you physically compatible? Like are you just as attractive or VERY close in attractiveness to her? or is this some girl that's out of your league that you're attracted to because she has to pay attention to you because she's working?
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:19 PM
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There's nothing to "make sense of" and she isn't being "confusing". She was very clear in that she wants space away from you. That means she's not interested in spending time with you right now. Leave her alone. Stop analyzing the situation. It doesn't matter why. Go chat up some other women and move on.
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:13 PM
2

Women don't go out of our way to seek you out and be mean to you. I'm not going to walk up to some random man who is minding his own business and go be mean to him. If someone is mean to you, there is a reason.
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:46 PM
1

This is solid advice.
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:29 PM
7

You're doing something. I'm a woman. We aren't just openly mean to men for being single. The fact that MANY different women are treating you this way is a reflection of something you are doing or a way you are acting.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:55 PM
21

Agreed. Stop complaining about being unattractive or introverted. We literally do not care. Stay in your basement and don't talk to us if that's the case.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:57 PM
3

I love how you asked for opinions from women on whether or not they like to be approached in public and STILL several men had to comment with what they think women prefer.. like they somehow know better than us. ​ Anyway, just don't approach women if they look busy (or if they are at their place of employment). Looking busy includes, but is not limited to: Talking on the phone Wearing headphones Reading a book In the middle of a conversation with someone else Walking very quickly/appearing to be…
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:38 PM
0

Read about current events. Have a hobby besides gaming - whether it's interesting food or drinks, hiking, biking, woodworking, anything. Look for clues on what she might be into. I.E. If she's drinking a coffee... ask what kind of coffee it is and then be able to make a witty comment about coffee. If she's wearing a graphic tee with a location on it, be able to make a comment on that location... even if it's just to ask if she's been there and what it's like. Etc.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:31 PM
1

If you're not getting attractive women to match with you on dating sites, then you're probably not attractive. It says you "gym and sport", but are you physically fit with muscles/six-pack, etc. Do you need a new haircut? Wardrobe? Etc. ?
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:52 PM
1

As a girl... I thought this article was pretty spot on. ​ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-approach-girls/
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:49 PM
3

No. Do not compliment her outfit. Unless it's a unique item - like a band tee / national park tee - that you could use to start a convo about.
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:46 PM
1

Again, this only works on people that are young. Would not work for someone in their mid-late 20's.
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:25 PM
1

This maybe works on an 18 year old girl if you’re also an 18 year old guy. But not for anyone over that.
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:39 PM
1

Let me know how that works out for you.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:39 PM
1

Why is this so hard for you guys? You have approached a stranger who is perfectly okay just going about their routine. They don't know that they're looking for you. But you are looking for them. It's up to you (the one doing the approaching) to convince the person that they're looking for you as well. ​ Pretend it's your job to sell someone a triangle. If they're in a store that sells triangles (i.e. a dating app) you probably don't need to do much convincing to get someone to buy your triangle.…
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:31 PM
3

If I was walking up to you, trying to start a conversation... I would be fully prepared to answer that question. But if you are walking up to someone else, you should be the one to persuade someone why they should bother talking to you. ​ Entitled bitchy woman is just a term you guys use for a woman that won' give you the time of day. It doesn't offend us. Trust me.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:23 PM
4

Yes. If I am minding my own business and you are trying to insert yourself into my life in a public place, then you should be willing to answer why. ​ Obviously I wouldn't expect that on a dating site.. because I'm already there for dating.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:16 PM
3

That's a low bar. Most of the people on "My 600 lb. Life" or Dateline psychos are married as well, but they're probably not the best people to ask for advice :P
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:23 PM
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Exactly. My social life is full. I have a lot of friends. I'm see my family frequently. I have hobbies. My days are pretty filled. Where would this person fit in.. how are they going to help to enrich my life..
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:21 PM
3

How does it normally go? I know, I've definitely used the "Why would I want to?" response on people so I'm wondering what response you get instead from women?
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:09 PM
5

Exactly. I'm a woman too and this is spot on. We are literally trying to give these men advice and they want to argue because they think they know better. It's ridiculous. That's why they're single.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:04 PM
4

Jesus. Do not use that one.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:03 PM
1

Do you approach women you don't know in public. This is something I would say. It basically means.. I have lots of friends, a full social life, am happy with the way things are. etc. Why should I create room for you? It's not meant to be disrespectful. It's just meant to be see if I could carve out some time/space for a new person. vs. if I was on dating sites, I would have already planned out space for dating.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:03 PM
0

I can't figure out the exact wording right now... probably need more coffee.. but you'll want to answer with something that would make her think that you're put in her path for a reason and that if she doesn't get to know you, she might be missing out on something she was supposed to experience.. kinda like the "everything happens for a reason" quote. Whether you're supposed to help her get through a tough time, prevent her from meeting some guy bro that would royally screw up her life, give her…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:00 PM
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As a female, this would be a no for me.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:52 PM
3

You literally comment in multiple porn forums on reddit and your username is "hornywithtoomuchtime" and you're clearly not out spending your days getting laid or talking to women.. so it's really not an assumption.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:24 PM
3

You're whining about not being able to get laid IRL but you spend all your free-time watching shitty porn and complaining on Reddit about how you're too shy to talk to girls.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:13 PM
4

hahahaha. I'm dying. This is gold.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:48 PM
3

What personality? You have no personality except for your entitlement than you think women should sleep with you even though you're boring, shy, not especially attractive, and a virgin.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:48 PM
1

Honestly... if you're a 27 year old virgin who can't talk to women and can't get matches on Tinder. You kinda have two options: Get a makeover and learn how to talk to women Pay women for attention/sex.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:46 PM
0

The latter. We don't care enough about you to "get off" on ghosting you.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:44 PM
1

She's busy, not that into you... and she's too boring to have an interesting conversation. Pursue other options.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:26 PM
2

Didn’t get anything so messaged you.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:28 AM
3

I’m conventionally attractive. I’m 5’10, slim, long blonde hair, fake boobs. It’s not everyone’s type but it’s a fair majority. People know if they’re attractive or not. I’m happy to post a pic or you can DM me for my socials that are too average to be fake.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:58 AM
12

As a woman, I can tell you that NUMBER 5 is spot on. If you want us to think you're cool/fuckable, you need to believe that you're cool/fuckable and project that. Number six is also really important. Rejection is not a big deal at all. During my single periods, I'd go on 5-10 dates a month (as a conventionally attractive female) and there was probably about a 10-20% chance that the attraction and desire to hang out for a 2nd or 3rd was mutual for both parties. Sometimes I didn't wanna pursue it …
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:57 PM
0

I'm probably totally misunderstanding the point of this group. But why wouldn't you just use apps so you know if people are single or not? ​ That said... As a woman, I get hit on a lot at the dog park. Do you have a dog?
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:15 PM
2

Haha. It has nothing to do with feeling “skanky” and I don’t speak for all women but I don’t even think that crosses our minds anymore at this day and age. The being flirted with and pursued, wined and dined or even bought a drink, invited back and making small talk is part of the mental foreplay for us.
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:19 PM
34

I'm a woman and I have to admit that this is good advice and would totally work on me.
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:52 PM
27

Dude... wtf. I would ignore you too. If I had to initiate all the conversation and plan the dates, I would get upset that you're not putting it the same effort and find someone who will. Let this be a lesson to you next time.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:22 PM
3

Small talk is not hard. -Favorite food. Favorite restaurant. Etc. -Favorite place they've traveled. Where do they want to travel next? -What did they want to be when they grew up? How does that compare to their current career choice, etc. -Zodiac/Astrology stuff. Bitches love that. -Favorite movie/tv show, etc. -Celebrity crush and that kinda nonsense. ​ And then just be able to chat with them on some of their answers...
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:00 PM
2

How long are you expecting to live with them and financially support them? If I was looking to date you, that would be a question I would ask. After dating for a year or so, I would want to get our own place together and start going through those steps and your family dynamic might cause an issue. Is your family ever going to be financially independent? etc. ​ If you're just looking to hookup... that's going to be really unlikely. Cool, hott girls are not going to invite you back to their houses…
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:31 PM
8

Neither... (see statement above). Being just an asshole or being just "the nice/sensitive guy" doesn't work. ​ Am I attracted to you physically? Are you confident? Do you make me feel important? Can I trust you? Are you interesting? Do you challenge me in the right ways? Do our lifestyles complement one another? .. that's what women are looking for. Not "nice or asshole".
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:18 PM
5

I apologize for the misunderstanding. Your superior intelligence has my tiny female brain confused.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:54 PM
6

We want attractive, confident, adventurous partners who treat us well 90+% of the time.. but aren't too overeager to please. ​ We don't just say, "Oh look. This guy is nice. I want to date him". I'm sorry that someone told you that.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:41 PM
5

If you're attractive and have basic social skills, you shouldn't need to try this hard. I feel like you're overthinking it. Girls are not that difficult.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:37 PM
3

The same holds true for men. While dating a guy, he has the power to slide into other girls DMs if things go wrong. He can threaten to break up with me or cheat on me if I don't follow his wishes.
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:19 PM
2

Haha, sorry man. I meant 6+ months.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:59 PM
2

Yes.. relationships where we spent time together (not just having sex) for longer than 6+ are what I consider serious. But it might not be the same for you?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:48 PM
1

You mentioned that you wanted like-minded women, but you didn't really tell us what you "like". Do you like hiking? Do you like gaming? Do you like playing softball? No fucking clue...
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:40 PM
0

I've had plenty of night club hookups turn into relationships.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:38 PM
1

Haha, as a female, that's not going to work on anyone over the age of like 18.
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:23 PM
2

Yeah. You're going to want to be polite and kind of blow her off a little. Like don't say Hi first. You can make eye contact and smile but don't be the one to say Hi first and don't walk over to her. You don't want to be the one who she refers to as "Creepy guy who asked for my number who is obviously in love with me", etc. You want it to seem as though it doesn't bother you and you ask out tons of girls so you're un-phased by a rejection.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:10 PM
0

Don't approach women at the gym. The only "possible" exception would be if you two happened to be leaving together at the same time and you make small-talk that's not creepy (number-asking). For example: -You and "Hottie" are both leaving the gym at the same time. Say something like, "That workout felt great..and then insert some small talk about the weather, what you're going to eat, etc." and see if she responds with an opening. If she doesn't, just be like "Alright, see ya around" in a cool t…
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:03 PM
2

LOL Is this seriously what men think of when trying to hook up at a club?
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:58 PM
1

You don't. She doesn't like you. Trust me.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:55 PM
3

Absolutely do not try to pursue it again. That's creepy. She is clearly telling you "NO". You've expressed your interest by asking for her number and asking her to have breakfast with you. If she has any interest, she will reach out to you.
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:18 PM
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