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| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveHappy sluts don’t type novels about how mediocre men and women in boring marriages is the ultimate refutation of the red pill boogeyman. Once again, I saw through you in less than five minutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveI’m positive I didn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveUh huh. I’ve heard it a million times. “My wife’s not like that.” I see through every woman within 5 minutes of meeting her. The shallow obsession with aesthetics, the insufferable sense of entitlement. You’re no different, and neither are the marriages you know. I would bet my sizable fortune on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:20 AM |
| – | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveWomen are expensive toys. You play with them until they’re boring. Every man is used by a woman, regardless of which Greek letter he identifies with. Alpha peacock doing tricks for his cumslut is just as pathetic as beta Billy bragging about his 401k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveAs a principled feminist, I judge women on their merits and the content of their character. And they all fail miserably at demonstrating value either way. If women can’t be interesting or valuable, then that’s their problem, not mine. Unlike them, I don’t require external validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveThe marriages I’m around have lasted close to a decade if not longer, and they all have kids. By definition, that makes them successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:00 AM |
| -5 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveTreating people you don’t like poorly is fulfilling. Life in a bad relationship is more entertaining than life alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 02:50 AM |
| -4 | Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system.It's no one's "duty" to sexually satisfy their partner especially they're going through shit in their lives. Actually, it is. Marriage isn’t “til death or you feel like it do you part.” If you can't handle lacking sexual intimacy because your partner is struggling with life somehow, you really shouldn't be dating anyone tbh. If you can’t satisfy your partner’s needs because you’re struggling, then you’re the one who shouldn’t be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 02:47 AM |
| -2 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveWomen are only interesting if you can fuck them. Thanks for admitting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:37 AM |
| -2 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveSo you can’t think of one reason. Shocker. And liking them and wanting to “hangout” like an aimless teenager is something you can do with men, who, unlike women, are interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:30 AM |
| -4 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveName 5 reasons to be friends with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:17 AM |
| -6 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?Angry downvotes and a flirty farewell. Stay mad at random men, cutie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:07 AM |
| -1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveHe did not. I’ve been friends with exclusively married men my entire adult live, from all kinds of backgrounds. I see what their marriages are like. Spare me the gaslighting. The moment a man stops proving he’s valuable to a woman, she gets bored. By comparison, most bloops only see a few marriages here and there until they’re in their late 20s, and they make the mistake of being friends with women, which is even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:03 AM |
| -8 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?Yes, I’m well aware that women love power struggles and picking fights when they get bored. But that has nothing to do with narcissism, as all women are narcissists in love with their reflection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Positive MasculinityThe fact that a woman intentionally made a list of positive masculine traits and couldn’t even think to put integrity or loyalty, instead putting meaningless bullshit like “self-expression” and “fashion,” is a terrible look for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Positive MasculinityViolence is how the species purges weakness, both individually and socially. The alternative to violence is a world without growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:47 AM |
| -1 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?How dare you always agree with me! That poor man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveHe described what being in a relationship is like for 99% of men. Most men will tolerate it for some duty sex and a reliable emergency contact. Don’t be most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:39 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?If you’re having to do those things to stay interested, then you already got bored with your hairless fuck monkey. Could’ve just as easily traded it out for a fresh one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:36 AM |
| – | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?Your craving for novel sex didn’t cease. You buried it. And I said nothing about wanting a different man. we suspect our daughter has ADHD And your husband is going to regret having her and resent you until he leaves you. I can tell you how the movie ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pills Critique of Hedonism: Understanding the RootsNo, but I certainly wouldn’t be embarrassed about it. I had dinner with a friend last week that asked me how often I crank it, and told him (and everyone else at the table) the true answer. If he proceeded to post that information on Facebook, I wouldn’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?If you didn’t crave novelty, then you wouldn’t have slept with 50 men, and you wouldn’t be considering couple’s therapy with your elderly husband. You are not an exception to any rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:51 PM |
| 0 | The Red Pills Critique of Hedonism: Understanding the RootsBeing judged for your decisions means being treated like a subject, not an object. Objectification =/= men having a low opinion of women because of choices those women made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:49 PM |
| 0 | QUESTION FOR ALL: Do you reply to people you learnt something from on Reddit or nah?He was a JAG. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?No, it’s a very obvious straw man. You literally constructed an opinion to argue with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?Reality stops existing when I don’t think about it. I’ve never seen such a textbook case of female solipsism in my life. I don’t respect men that enjoy being degraded, either, no matter how much you want to pretend you aren’t being judged for your actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?I said sex isn’t inherently degrading. women have degradation kinks during sex. During sex being the keywords there. Those kinks don’t disappear when they’re going through the drive-through at Starbucks, cutting someone off in traffic, browsing social media at work, and picking out a birthday gift for their nephew at Target. They’re part of those women, forever and always. Which is why men don’t respect them. Oh, and as a principled feminist, I hold men to the same standards as women. So I would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:02 PM |
| -1 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?That’s your opinion and honestly it’s sad. It’s not an opinion, nor is it sad, unless you’re a woman. Men don’t respect glorified sex dolls that want to be choked and spit on. You can be into vanilla sex and that’s fine, but you shouldn’t project that onto other people. I said nothing about what I’m into. Most men don’t sleep with women they respect, regardless. Just because you see sex as degrading, it doesn’t mean that it inherently is. It’s degrading for someone that wants to be choked, slapp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?There’s also little reason to assume that the sexual desire a woman feels for the man she loves enough to marry isn’t as “great” or “legitimate” as what she felt for her previous sexual partners, even if the rest of society perceives them to be more physically attractive. Sure there is. Humans are hard wired to crave novelty in sex, which the same partner for 30+ years will struggle to provide. Every married man in history noticed a decline in his wife’s libido at some point after he made the mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:45 PM |
| -1 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?Being choked, spit on, and tossed around like warm meat in the bedroom is inherently degrading, and it’s impossible to respect someone that lets you do those things to them. Which is why men will never respect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pills Critique of Hedonism: Understanding the RootsFalse. N count matters precisely because women have agency, and are being judged for their poor decisions. It is the opposite of objectification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:39 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pills Critique of Hedonism: Understanding the Rootsbasic and low-effort self-care Yes, basic and low-effort self-care like blowing your money on overpriced Jack and Cokes, then driving home drunk every night to do it all again tomorrow. If men wanted to go out, they would. If they’re having to do it as some kind of pilgrimage to the land of pussy, then it is inherently unpleasant for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pills Critique of Hedonism: Understanding the RootsWhen I hear someone talk about “nuance” and “depth” in ethics, I know they’re just trying to weasel out of making hard choices. If you do something that you’d be embarrassed to admit on social media, then you’re probably committing an evil act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:34 PM |
| -2 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Most men can’t really stand women to begin with. They pretend to like them so that they can sleep with them. So when men see that a guy who doesn’t pretend to like women does better than a guy who does, it shakes up their perspective on women. If you genuinely don’t like women (which most men don’t), it is better to just treat them like shit than to be grudgingly polite. Women hate being treated with respect. They want to be choked, spanked, and degraded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Proof of innocence is not enough to save a man's reputation/ life when accused of sexual assault. And that's why we should scrutinize every accusationYes, being accused of sexual assault is life-ruining. At best, the man can hope that charges are dropped due to a lack of evidence, which is still an insult to his character and tarnishes him irreparably in the court of public opinion. Which is why men should treat all women as possible false accusers. For their own safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How Many Of You Believe That Middle Aged Men Are In Their Prime? And Why?I’m 34, and my girlfriend is 25. She says I’m a little on the young side compared to her usual taste in men. Lots of younger women like DILFs the same way men like MILFs. Whether that extends past their status as a fetish object is up to the individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.No need to get defensive. I’m sure you’ve done impressive things in your life. But none of them were related to your profession. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?I want to do a lot of unspeakable things with him Yeah, yeah, those “unspeakable things” are probably being choked, slapped, spit on, or otherwise degraded. Women are a meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Do women have a kind of "Madonna/whore" complex but toward men? A "bad boy/doting husband" complex?The mind of a woman at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?1 is a straw man you made up to beat on, and the other isn’t. So yes, they’re 2 different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:03 PM |
| 4 | QUESTION FOR ALL: Do you reply to people you learnt something from on Reddit or nah?I operate on cold, hard logic, so no one has ever been able to change my mind on anything, since their arguments are different variations of “bE mOrE eMpAtHeTiC.” Which is one of the reasons I laugh at bloops who claim that terps were all tricked into their beliefs. I’m friends with a former NFL player. The guy’s a multimillionaire with a great physique and an active social life. He has opinions of women that would make Andrew Tate blush. Real life doesn’t care what bloops think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?Most men can’t stand most females, but they tolerate them because the alternative is involuntary celibacy. Therefore, men are used to settling for someone they don’t particularly like. Furthermore, the difference in respect a female gives to a man she’s attracted to vs a man she isn’t is astronomical. So no man wants to subject himself to a relationship with a female that settled. Therefore, the actual advice being given, which is completely logically consistent, is thus: “Females, you could eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.It’s a cupcake major, certainly. There’s a reason so many women go into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Where does the claim that conservative men prefer liberal women come from?Women are naturally liberal (in the leftist sense, not freedom-loving sense) just like men are naturally conservative. The only conservative women are therefore either (a) raised in extremely strict, probably religious homes, (b) dealing with lingering trauma that caused them to shun their social programming, or (c) uggos. Attractive women adopt the least confrontational, most socially acceptable beliefs because they have no real principles, nor do they need any. They’re handed pleasure and comf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as virginityVirginity is defined by an absence of self, which is where the confusion lies. It’s much easier to agree on which people are definitely not virgins than it is to agree on which people are definitely virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:19 PM |
| 14 | Online dating really isnt that bad.The only man I’ve seen on here with a positive opinion of online dating was a financebro in New York City (i.e. the best dating market for men in the country). In other words, he was on easy mode. Normal men hate online dating because it caters to women’s vanity. Men don’t take a lot of pictures of themselves doing things; women do, because women care about status more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?No man says “she didn’t settle for me because she’s too picky.” That’s your strawman and your unique framing. This is what is called arguing in bad faith, and a bannable offense. Likewise, when females complain about being pumped and dumped, they aren’t sad that they can’t find a fat, poor incel that will commit to them. Females are complaining about the behavior of the men they’re attracted to in one instance and complaining about men they’re not attracted to in another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.I don’t care what women think of me. In a perfect world, I’d never have to interact with them. I know I’m a good man with strong character and principles. I know that no woman is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.Should’ve studied something real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Positive Masculinitya bunch of hot meatheads lol lmao even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do men really prefer women who dress modestly?No, but it does mean that women would rather fuck a sex offender than an awkward guy who doesn’t get out much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?Reread the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?No one is “too picky” until they can’t acquire what they want based on their own criteria. If a female can’t find a man, then she is “too picky” by the very nature of how the argument is framed. Barring exceptional circumstances like being in prison. Men want to be desired, and females take for granted being desired, because they don’t have to work for it. Men regularly reflect fondly on compliments they received years in the past from random females because of how uncommon it is. Females don’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Do men really prefer women who dress modestly?This insufferable retort from the women on here needs to result in instant bans. Everyone lies, male or female. Women lie constantly about what they’re attracted to, because they don’t want to appear shallow. Or they downplay the truth with flustered admissions of “well of course I want my husband to be tall and rich, I shouldn’t need to say that 😡.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Do men really prefer women who dress modestly?The average man that commits sexual assault gets more consensual sex than the average incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Do men really prefer women who dress modestly?guys who want their partner to change the way they dress once they’re in a LTR are simply insecure. Not quite. Women dress provocatively to attract attention. Doing this when single makes sense. Doing it when coupled indicates, at best, that you married a woman who enjoys being drooled over by strange men. It isn’t “insecure” to take issue with your partner wanting to be drooled over by strange men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men really prefer women who dress modestly?Yes, modesty shows character and humility. Nothing makes me roll my eyes like seeing a woman wearing a shirt that doesn’t even reach her navel. It isn’t gendered. I’m similarly repulsed by men that wear tight shirts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Status and wealth as indicators of attraction is the ultimate copeWomen mostly want a husband that they can brag about. If he’s blue collar, then they’ll find other things about him to brag about (i.e. being handy, being thoughtful, being hot, etc.). The lawyer husband is innately appealing to women because women leech off men for status. “My husband’s a lawyer” is how women humble brag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:10 PM |
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