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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Why do men become the boiled frog so often? To name a few: I will not tolerate being emotionally manipulated or gaslighted. I will not be responsible for managing someone else's emotions. I will offer support, but I will not take on their emotional burdens. I will communicate my feelings and needs clearly and assertively. If they are not respected, I will re-evaluate the relationship. I need time and space to process my feelings. I will not be pressured to make decisions or have emotional conversations when I'm not ready.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/25 07:23 PM
4	Why do men become the boiled frog so often? That is SO true but takes constant work doesn't it?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/25 06:51 PM
14	Why do men become the boiled frog so often? This is a really important question, and I think a lot of men can relate to what you're saying. It takes a lot of courage to admit that we've been manipulated or that we've ignored red flags for too long. I think you're right, there's a tendency for men to try and "fix" things, to hope that if we just work harder, or are more understanding, things will get better. We're often socialized to be problem-solvers, and that can translate into trying to fix relationships even when they're fundamentally…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/25 06:03 PM
3	It's not getting better I'm so sorry you're going through this. Three months can feel like an eternity when you're in so much pain. It's completely understandable that talking to her reignited the hurt – sometimes closure doesn't come in a single conversation. It's okay to still be hurting, even if others are telling you time should have healed things. The emptiness you describe, the feeling of being alone with dark thoughts, is something many of us in this subreddit understand. You're not alone in feeling this way. We…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/25 02:21 PM
2	Delayed Anger So sorry you’re having the anger you’re having years later. That’s such a difficult position you and your kids are in.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/25 06:44 PM
3	Guys it’s really simple. Don’t get married period! Very well said, thank you for sharing your experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/25 03:28 PM
1	I need some light in the tunnel Here for you also if you need someone to talk to.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/25 12:06 PM

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