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He can provide a story, I can provide a story, you can provide a story. Each story proves a different point, proving the irrelevance of all stories. So fuck stories and DO something. What I can't get these defeatist dudes to do is suspend disbelief enough to actually try something new. Once they're locked into their ideological positions, you'd have an easier time deradicalizing a member of ISIS than a blackpilled seddit member.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:35 PM
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Again, defeatist and below average social skills on display here. End of story? How old are you?
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:33 PM
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Again, I very much doubt you are above average in social skills because of your last two sentences. Never met a charismatic person who talked like that.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:33 PM
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You haven't made any point other than looks matter. Your whole argument is emotion wrapped in defeat. I'd love to take you out around women and show you how easy it is, but even if you lived closed to me you'd bail. You're a black cloud who robs the joy of everyone around you. I felt sorry for you until I realized that you've actually imported your victimhood into your sense of identity. You're actually more comfortable losing than trying something new. Your life, so that's fine I guess.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:31 PM
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He got the first dates but nothing else, but my resume of good looking girls and my ultimate engagement to a beautiful girl = my resume is better even though he looks better than me. Why is that? But your worldview is hella limited dude. I know inexperience when I see it. Very much doubt you are out here trying to game and Id also guess you are incredibly timid and risk averse. That’s why you lash out here. We are your angst diary for your inaction. You’re giving me “teachers said I was smart bu…
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:58 AM
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Some men. I ignored the women who weren’t self-aware enough to not make the same mistake over and over again. If they used those mistakes as an excuse to be difficult, I moved on to more pleasant, agreeable women. Men have the luxury of walking away from these women. Had fun doing that until I met my fiancé at 30. Worked for me.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:31 PM
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Maybe, but that's the woman's problem. I don't deal with hard times. I don't jump through new hoops that other men didn't jump through and I don't do unpaid therapy.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:57 PM
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Ok, but if a woman can't accurately screen men for attractive qualities and has a history of being deceived by first impressions, how is she going to give you informed answers of how to attract her? She would seem as confused as the guy asking the question. Better to find a dude who's good at it.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:41 PM
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The mistake with women offering a bunch of advice in a sub like this is that they'll often offer answers they wish were true instead of what is actually true. I'll listen to a woman give me a laundry list of qualities they want in a guy and then ask them if the last 5 dudes came close to anything on that list -- crickets. I don't ask homebuyers for advice on selling homes, I ask successful realtors. I don't ask plaintiffs how to get their business, I ask successful lawyers what they do to attrac…
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:19 PM
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yeah looks that way, just strikes me as odd. It's like me walking up to some super successful business man as a broke, pissed off dude telling him he's wrong about business.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:16 PM
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A lot of average dudes struggle because they ooze bitterness and resentment. I'm not trying to be an ass to you, but you don't sound like you'd be a fun wing. You don't sound fun to talk to, and if I fixed whatever physical problem you think you have, your vibe would still shit on the mood.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:15 PM
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This sub is usually fairly accurate in describing the role that looks play for men. Being good looking is great, but looks are generally a "this tall to ride" barrier. Once you dress correctly, aren't overweight, have a decent haircut, and don't immediately look like you're on the spectrum somewhere, you have gained access to the next level where your actions are now determinative of how your night ends.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:44 PM
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Looks are first when looks are the only metric available for grading. Show people a bunch of pictures with shit captions and they'll pick the best looking picture. That picture speaks little to nothing of the actual experience of being around that person, and that's where the theory matters. My brother is a great looking guy who secures a ton of first dates and not a lot of second ones because he has resentful "Eeyore" energy. He gets routinely smoked by my friends who are not as good looking bu…
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:42 PM
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First, you can't be anyone's friend unless you can be genuinely happy for their success. People bonded in resentment and fuckery form crabs-in-the-bucket bonds where everything is cool til one of you starts crawling out, so stop that shit. Second, who gives a fuck about Hinge? Good for the dude, glad he's fucking, but sending audio to your buddies or feeling like a badass is a goal rooted in impressing other men, not in actually meeting and enjoying women. There is no way the bitterness you're d…
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:39 PM
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There is no comeback. If she has a boyfriend, you respectfully withdraw yourself. If she doesn't and she's telling you she does, that means YOU have fucked up in your interaction prior to that moment and it isn't worth trying to salvage.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:17 PM
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Ask your sister what the power dynamic was like in the relationship of the guy that grew on her. For me, persistence was relevant to the extent that rejection didn't bother me, but I never chased the same woman hoping that she'd change her mind. I'm sure there are relationships and even marriages where long game works out, but too often the dynamic that plays out is a woman finally green lighting a guy because she knows he'll have that dopey "just happy to be here look" on his face, will provide…
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:26 PM
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You may not be missing anything. On paper that's all cool. What will happen now is that the 1% guy will evaluate your beauty, agreeableness, femininity, fitness and friendliness amongst the other women that are also beautiful, agreeable, feminine, fit and friendly. If you outcompete them on those spheres you can win and get exactly what you want. If you can't, you won't.
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:58 PM
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Ok that helps. Only 8% of men at age 27 make $100k or more. That number slightly improves to 11% of men at $100k or more at age 29, but not exactly a huge group. 45% of men are above 5'10" so that's not too, too difficult. Per the CDC, 23.2% of adults over 18 meet the CDC recommended guidelines for aerobic and muscle-strengthening. So, that means that roughly 0.8% of 27 year old men in the US (.08 * .45 * .232) and 1.15% of 29 year old men in the US meet your specified criteria. Let's use a weig…
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:52 PM
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Tell me minimum height, minimum salary, and build you would accept. You can use a well-known celeb as an example of a guy who isn't super hot but cute enough to where you'd be interested if he met the minimum height and salary requirements. Also, what do you do for a living and do you want to continue to work after you meet this person and eventually get married? What age range are you looking for?
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:37 PM
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My advice would depend on someone's level of social ability. If I'm talking to someone who interacts with a lot of people in normal/average ways professionally and is only struggling in the world of women then the above is what I'd say. If I'm talking to a dude whose job is 100% remote, involves zero talking, doesn't have a hairstyle that fits him and wears a bunch of graphic tees and cargo shorts, I'd advocate something more structured. It's like writing -- when you're just starting out you oft…
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:33 PM
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Ok, so the good things first. If you're living in a major city and running your own business, that means your entrepreneurial ability is impressive enough to sustain you in high cost of living area. That's great. Style seems solid too, and I'm sure that style is congruent in some manner with your professional endeavors so that works. I like that you're going to a bar within walking distance of your place. If you haven't already, I'd recommend you to invest in the bar staff. Treat bartenders/serv…
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:25 PM
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Probably around 65/35, 65% if we were sober enough to remember and 35 when she can’t remember enough of the interaction. Better than a coin flip but not foolproof. Those are good percentages for cold approach imo
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:45 AM
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I'd compare that price to what a therapist would charge for the same time investment. You don't have a dating coach problem, you have a therapy problem. Your risk aversion and fear of a woman rejecting the real you is something a licensed professional would be better suited for than a fish claiming to help you catch other fish; that sounds coarse but I am very cynical of most women's ability to guide men through the dating process. It's the same flaw you see when you ask a woman to write down wh…
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:56 PM
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Interesting points, specifically 1 and 3. It's far better to work on becoming someone with value than to lie. That doesn't mean you have to forego sexual interaction until that time, but if you're telling a cute story or being hyperbolic in a bar than any success you're having you shouldn't be angling to turn into a relationship. The last point is crucial -- I think the most important way to game is to fuse those concepts in a way that's authentic with your personality. I know guys who are amazi…
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:49 PM
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Go for it but everything needs to be away from the office, otherwise people will be cynical and say it was a power differential/pressure thing on your end.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:44 PM
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I wouldn't try to salvage it, and I think the only mistake you made was with your texting. When she asks "what are you doing" the better route would have been "thinking of ways to make tonight interesting for me." The fusion frenzy thing was the verbal equivalent of a passenger seizing the wheel and driving the car off the bridge. If a girl is drunk and out of it, you don't want to be pushing for more than a NYE kiss unless you want to be the subject of a blog post. If you want to improve your g…
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:42 PM
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I always ask them to meet me at a place I was already going to go to meet new women. If they don't respond it's all good because my plans didn't change. If they respond that's cool too because they're meeting me at a place I'm already familiar with and have social proof. If they say yes and then don't come they didn't affect my night as that's exactly where I wanted to be anyway. I never use food as a post-cold approach follow-up. Always drinks only at a place I frequent -- gives you flexibility…
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:33 PM
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Absolutely. Any way that allows you to build rapport quickly in a way authentic to your own personality is what you want to do. Once she knows you're not going to club her over the head, then you can focus on building attraction. I usually stumble into dudes who 1.) are trying to open in ways completely incongruent with their personalities 2.) try to jump to building attraction without first establishing comfort or 3.) stay in comfort/rapport because flirtation runs the risk of rejection. If we …
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:14 PM
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I would text, especially since most people aren't going to get a number and then immediately reach out to the woman in question. Gotta remember she might not remember the name attached to the number, so texting works better after a cold approach IMO. "Hey this is x from x. I find I'm at my best 2 beers deep around 8pm at x. Will I see you there?" That was my typical way of interacting post-cold's and I found it worked way better than behaving as if she'd remember everything about me from the 1 i…
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:08 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree with you, but we benefit from the passage of time and hindsight. A lot of us who find these discussions interesting had fathers incapable of teaching them (mom running the house, dad working and trying to survive her) or no fathers at all. At the time it was released I'm sure it seemed groundbreaking. Now it won't tell us much beyond what the average lurker here knows. We all suffer when we're evaluated by future peers and standards. The fact we talk about it at all …
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:04 PM
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What I try to do is get guys to separate responses from women from their identity. You have put a lot of work into being successful. Think about that grind -- you had 4 years of school. Now you're approaching an eventual dissertation and thesis defense of some sort, which amounts to like 7+ years of higher education. Think about everything you had to learn to even write something like a compelling research paper, cite it correctly, and present it. How many people do you think are great at someth…
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:25 PM
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I also set an hour as the bar, I usually catch up with all texts and emails at the same time. I don't set the hour to artificially ice people, I set the hour so that when I am busy and can't immediately address something, it doesn't seem like a crazy shift or communicate disinterest because people were used to instant.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:40 PM
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As far as texting goes, I think it's smart to generally stick to replying when they text first unless you're confirming the day before (or the wine thing is fine too). For girl 1, I think it's fine to text her to let you know her wine preferences now or else she's getting a leathery cabernet. If that blows up your spot then she wasn't high interest. You don't need to ignore girl 2. If girl 2 is sending you texts you can reply, I just wouldn't be the one initiating them. As you get a couple days …
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:15 PM
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My initial thought is that if I have to explain to a woman, regardless of age, that bringing her friend to every thing I invite her to is weird then that woman is probably weird as well. I'd suggest moving on to a dialogue with someone who doesn't need to be told to do something so basic. If she's bringing a friend because she has safety concerns then you're not going to be physically escalating anything anyway. If she's bringing a friend because she's an idiot then you won't be able to fix that…
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:07 PM
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You can break the ice in stupid ways if you can actually sustain conversation. A lot of dudes obsess over coming up with the perfect approach line but it's easier to just be organic and say something that makes sense at the time. There was one time where two friends were at a bar wearing the same color denim jacket as me. I just asked them if this was where the hot people in light blue denim were supposed to congregate. Other times when bars were super jammed I've asked a girl to weaponize her l…
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:28 PM
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Just basic dread game. A girl that leaves you wants you to be affected by it, or else she's just a tree that fell in the forest that no one heard. You were unbothered and instead went about having fun (the correct response). She notices, and being young she gets FOMO. She didn't want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either, but she had to see that you could get someone else before that basic bitch jealousy came out. In the height of her emotional state she probably sent a messag…
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:18 PM
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RSDTyler was a supremely interesting person during the time you referenced. His presentation style was engaging and he was physically relatable to a lot of dudes. He wasn't supremely good-looking (not unattractive, either), he wasn't incredibly tall or wealthy -- his verbal didn't rely on a ton of insane antics (the stuff that tripped up Julien eventually). His stuff was great. I think if you paired RSDTyler with Patrice O'Neal in 2012 you were off to a damn good start. Now everything just feels…
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:13 PM
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What do you do for a living? Where do you live (coast, metro, rural)? Are you exclusively relying on dating apps (I wouldn't rely on them at all, to be frank)? How often are you going out by yourself? Do you have platonic women friends (platonic meaning you're not lying to yourself an harboring a secret desire for them)? What is your style, both in terms of clothing and hair? Where are you going on your first dates? Give me info and I'll give you a long answer.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:09 PM
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Your title says "pulling" but your success metric is finding a partner, so I'm assuming you want advice on how to find a serious gf. I can't answer this question until you clearly and specifically identify traits that you want from a girlfriend. If you want a specific kind of person you have to be where those kind of women are chilling.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:05 PM
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I told myself I wouldn't settle with any one woman if I had to sell it to myself and it wasn't an obviously amazing thing to me. I'm 32 now and met my fiance at 30. Zero doubts, zero convincing -- it was plainly obvious to me that she was the one. Up until that point I was a complete whore, but an honest one. If you don't 100% know, don't do it. That way no one can ever say you wasted their time.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:01 PM
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You have to detach who you are from your outcomes with women. So much of what you do is driven by the opinions of others so that might not be easy for you to do. The point is this: If you're a lame piece of shit and catch a woman on an off day and she's vibing your lameness and you hookup, you're still a lame piece of shit. A successful outcome doesn't change the underlying reality independent of your interactions with women. Likewise, if you're a male model phD who has a negative interaction, y…
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:56 PM
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Cranberry is right, only answer is no. Also disagree with everyone who says you should try again. When it comes to anything physical, I don't mess with overcoming "LMR." Don't think it's good advice for dudes in 2022 that don't want to be the subject of a blog post. No reason to be mad, no reason to be upset. My mindset is always "I only deal with 'FUCK YES' women." If I have to overcome LMR or oversell myself than my product is either shitty or the woman in question is too stupid to see its val…
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:52 PM
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Nothing wrong with questions but they need to be the right ones. A lot of guys relapse into this weird journalistic/interview style as a way to avoid what they feel are awkward silences. That style isn't interesting.
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:47 PM
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You can view height through the lens of any other heuristic or benchmark; it may help you or hurt you, but you benefit much more by focusing on the things you can control. It might sound boomer and as I'm in the 5'11-6'0 range it doesnt apply to me, but I don't advise fucking with apps for that reason. Apps encourage women to try and build a dude like a subway sandwich and attraction doesn't work that way. Give me the malleable dude willing to present himself with style and charisma at 5'6" over…
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:43 PM
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I wouldn’t flirt at all at first. Focus energy on establishing rapport. Find a few women that you can legit be friends with without sexual energy. Let them be your HQ. Then after you establish yourself as not being a neckbearded weirdo, focus on other women at work to mildly flirt with but nothing too inappropriate. The fact you have some female coworkers who are friends that you don’t hit on will legitimize you a bit. Less is more with proximity game because you’re around the same people all th…
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:15 AM
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Easiest way is to see if she’s trying to create in her professional life a way to pay for her preferred lifestyle. If a girl has champagne tastes and boxed wine career prospects then I know she’s looking for a provider. I also look to see how comfortable she is with me paying. If she accepts it as a given then you’re getting played. If she offers to pay him or shows gratitude when you pay instead of just expecting it and assuming it then you can explore a little more. Life partners understand sh…
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:12 AM
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Yeah don’t act pissy or mad. Gotta behave as if whatever she does is irrelevant to your frame. Never get angsty and don’t try to guess and read into shit. In a scenario where she fades you just talk to any other girl around you at that time if there are any. Being that unfazed and talking to any other woman will initially make you seem unbothered even if your frame is shit. Frame you need to have is I’m happy regardless of what happens and keep the talk flowing. If she ignores you come with drea…
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:08 AM
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A lot of women unfortunately have no internal mechanism for self-validation and do shit like this. That’s fine because that’s just the modern woman sub-25, but what’s so amazing about this particular person? You gotta be able to answer that before you get super pressed about anything
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:04 AM
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