LordKitan Archive

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1	Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestly Been a lurker in this sub for a good long time. Never posted or commented. Although I haven't boosted my dating life, I'm mainly here for good mindsets and advice people have. But I wanted to share my perspective. I'm a 5'2 Asian 31M, and I know odds are stacked against me. I did feel before like I was bound to be a background character with my social anxiety, being more of a yes man than voicing my opinions in non-family social settings, and really just end up being someone who wasn't thought o…	/r/seduction	05/08/25 09:10 PM
2	Maybe you don't really have a problem One of the things I thought about myself was that I didn’t know/forgot how to talk to people, when before that mindset even occurred, I was the class clown in every grade from pre-school to elementary school. Some time this year, post-college, I realized that I’m actually great at making conversation. It’s just that I get in my head so much that I’d convinced myself otherwise. I still do get in my head, and I still talk myself out of things (such as putting myself out there with dating), but I a…	/r/seduction	27/10/20 08:01 PM