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This is great. In my life I always looked down on girls, and came to appreciate them. Ive always had this they are the little umbrella and I am the big umbrella thing. So I come with an enveloping attitude if that makes sense. If it rains she may be able to comfort me, but without my own big umbrella I will still get wet or there will be something else about her that is not up to the big umbrella standard, always in the back of my mind. Same with her little tests. I tend to think girls are in th…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 03:20 AM
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Look, I am not disregarding any of the advice already given, but think of it like this... There's heaps of situations in the world, but you only need to condition yourself to take action. Then reflect. Thats all - Its a two step process. Hold to that always as you grow and learn. I am extremely good with girls. Always have been. Am I the best of the best? No, but Ive never not had a girl since I was sexually active. I kid you not. And when I have not had a girl just say in between, I have not go…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:05 AM
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These guys have not seen much of the world. Shit advice? Read my direct post. This sounds like a stage she is going through. Who doesn't like getting drunk at 18, its an endorphin rush, club scene, gropes without guilt. Don't worry about her so much. Focus on yourself and don't let her steer you from that focus. There would be many many many many girls after her if you lose her. Don't sweat this. But pull your head out of her pussy. See her for what she is, an imperfect beast. Just enjoy your ti…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:44 AM
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OMG why the fuck are you even with or wanting to be with her? See her for what she is. tell yourself anyway you like: its not her time in life for this, its that she's a slut, its that she doesn't mind/care, its who she is, its because she is young. Whatever. Keep seeing her but never put a ring on it, dude. With this attitude you will probably invest only as much as you should. Don't tell a party loving girl not to party, either. Its the stage she is in, but sure she prob needs some boundaries.…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:37 AM
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Yeah their lives are rainbows and lollypops, because red pill is so advanced. OP is being very naive. This is such a simple thing to see, he will learn from this. It doesnt really need an EC to work out. They sound like protected species. Which is just faggy as it is, its actually common sense whats needed. OP may be a dickhead but no need to bog it down because even an EC will have more common sense than the most naive youngin with a simple problem. Its not like she's not fucking him still - or…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:32 AM
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Its not just that, OP has been very stupid in some manner. A sensible response in that light is going to be seen by naive people as incredible - when really its just common man-sense.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:24 AM
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I think you're stuck on writing styles. He's not gamma for writing a lot. Trying to keep up appearances? Sometimes a line can be enough, but OP had a complex personal issue. Its needs some lines. He just expounded upon some things in the reply to OP. Posts like OP's are always concerning because they in fact do not state too much. No one here can know the full situation. My view is its about trust. The rules and games and all that crap go round that, not the other way round. It will only be solv…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:20 AM
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OP we don't know your veracity in explanation here. Is she or is she not still fucking you? Did you say that to save face or say that to provide solution in intended future actions from peoples responses? Anyway these people are NOT your true mates or best buddies. They're cunts you hang out with lol Obliterate them to the level required by your sensibilities. Which won't be much, but take a second look at your mates according to your own principles. Maybe don't let them close to your GF's in th…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:03 AM
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I don't think you need to play games or run tactics on girls. Sounds like a co dependency issue, now you're substituting women because if you could just please them/others then it would help balance the growth issues growing up with an overbearing mother. Once thats out the way you will be able to be more centered. Being more centered is the single thing right now that is going to increase your skill in these situations the most. You probably need to come to realize you'll never please your mum …
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:59 PM
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I'm glad to hear that. It's actually because I'm a relationship expert. And part time slut. That doesn't mean my own relationships are perfect, far from it sometimes, but I have a knack for seeing things and following it forward and backwards. Oh well don't be too hard on her.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:29 AM
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You got to lay it on a little bit.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:02 AM
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Avoid it altogether. Seriously don't think too much about girls or spinning plates. When it stops being a strategy and turns into a full time job, its no better than oneitis.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:58 AM
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This is what happens when you start believing your own shit. The rational male guy is even married. You think he spins plates? Its just some bullshit someone made up for commitment phobes, but really they are just concurrent flings in todays dating market. No one said its happy days. Its now 4x the problems. They sound like a lot of effort. Don't get sucked into their gravity and crash, man. When it turns from being a bit of fun into a full time job, its no better than oneitis. My initial though…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:57 AM
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I know this message will be short but its easy done I think. Its always hard when a girl reveals herself as not totally virginal. We consider our effort/investment. But you probably can get over that. She may just be testing the waters anyway. Say to her something as simple as 'fuck this shit what happened, I want to see you and hang out". It doesn't require overthink. Do it sooner rather than later. She seems to want a hard and swift reconnection. But its not for drawing this out. So its either…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:52 AM
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well she is a customer. assume she wants your professional side only because while it may go well, its highly inappropriate to take advantage of the situation and could go bad. Just looking at it from the outside. If an opportunity arises outside of this avenue then sure, but thing is handle the job first. when she is no longer a direct customer/immediacy is handled, you could ask if her number is to be used for asking her out. I think that is appropriate separation. She could afterall end up be…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:38 AM
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If we're being honest. Then a lot. 30 mins hard intensity a day, doesn't take much effort, just routine and discipline. Put weights on your back for push-ups. Do chinups, do lunges, do tricep lowering ones on a chair, think about getting a barbell and weights for at least shoulder presses and curls, deadlifts and clean and jerk full lift. You will then be able to do deadlifts, shoulder presses, rows, triceps, clean and jerk lifts. You can do your whole body basically. Stick to compound movements…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:54 AM
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If you're an empathetic person with good social intelligence this could arise. You're probably afraid of cutting against the grain. We all have needs and wants and preferences. It's ok to stick out a little bit, even a lot, and back up our own views, likes, preferences. Do that, you'll be more interesting. Taking a girl down to get drinks because she asked and let's say you're the one driving, even though if you're like me the girl will take you instead. Well make it about you a little. Particip…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:46 AM
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Good point. This is what I was thinking except it was not too needy and if it was it flew over her head in all the drama. His strategy was sound when faced with the new predicament. Friends stocks went up because at least he did something nice and he is not chasing his tail. OP did something mean and while not chasing his tail his stocks went down but she wants to continue investing in him, probably because of her ego. But that does not seem like it could upset the balance. If friend is not a to…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:24 AM
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I just want to chime in on this point. Its not that I disagree with you; but I was thinking about a policy for OP in this. He should remain as least invested as possible and simply focus on the fun, and don't sweat it if he needs to lay down the law and simply leave.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:16 AM
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whats fucking spiders? If you mean messing around - no. Yeah that was downunder. My game was on point all through that - and like OP one may say oh no big deal its all handled, and there's a major difference between conversing/being with someone for eg 20 hours and them spending 5 minutes with someone else, and disrespect of some chick not coming home with you, etc. Like I said previously and you probably appreciate too those stories where its all neutral/grey area, its also nuanced so a slight …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:14 AM
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no problem. I thought it may be relevant. I didn't mean for it to get that long but as we know crap is just so nuanced so a little detail may change things back in the other direction. Glad to have helped. Sometimes its genuinely two people just benignly not clicking in the moment/situation. But if its all too much drama then its not worth to have it as some priority.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:08 AM
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Yes. Some girls have told me how nervous they were prior to the date. But that I put them at ease; and then it can go the other way on far fewer occassions where a girl has said it was awkward. But thats only happened once or twice in my life. I dont mind this question, some called it silly. Its a clarification. But generally speaking a girl is more social and comfortable in social things, unless its a date with a relative stranger or she is apprehensive about how it will go; and determined by h…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:05 AM
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Its ok to use it, but honestly I do really well off those apps and I hate them. The best girls are the ones who barely just got on they talk to you and say its not for me but I want to hang and they delete their account. Or girls who are just about to get off, or girls you barely talk to but they say come out one night. Or girls you barely talk to but you keep it super short. OR girls who barely use it. See a pattern there? _ Next. Guys on here dont all spin plates, some have LTR's, some are mon…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:16 AM
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Just wanted to add after my last comment in addition: its ok like above you both have the same rules, but the girl as above will always get insecure over things anyway because your GF sounds insecure - she did that, fine, she's young, and she shook her pussy about/twerked to your friend, when it meant nothing but from a relationship point of view it was bad-mojo. Just know it might get better but never go away. Like those 2 girls I said, suddenly no girl could talk to me, and because you're shar…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:15 AM
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Well if anything I think you have punished her enough for now - that will be clear by the end; so you can practically get back to being able to observe her first hand once more. ok. More thinking on this: It was disrespectful certainly, but who knows why she did it, whatever it was does not seem to be long lasting in her. I would henceforth call this situation neutral. ​ What did your friend do, did he buy her stuff? I think she is also young and being silly. You've demonstrated its not acceptab…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:23 AM
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Its long, but contains basically everything in the perspective. You need a bit of a shake-up. A re-focus. Because this chick is probably falling for you and is becoming guarded; and you're losing your shit a little because she acted like that. I have ascertained she is probably a lovely (don't mean harmless) individual. Now is not the time to get wobbly knees. Remain calm; and you're basically bouncing off her reactions and emotions. Nah. Don't do that. I can see the dynamic of you two and how y…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:14 AM
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She's a 5/10. I don't want this guy to do anything to her.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:42 AM
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Mate people are weird. Chicks get you to come out at night when you're just settling in for a good night at home then they leave you but call in the morning to check up on you to save face or some shit. Girls will be talking to you out and they have their bf right there, the girls don't give a crap. If he wasn't there she'd be in your pants. Or they go out with you one week then the next they're back with their husband/ex trying to "work through" shit. My advice is don't settle into a relationsh…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:26 AM
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Don't become a blabbering mess but it's ok to feel down and sad. Talk to her about it. She should be understanding. Don't take trp too far, you're only going to hurt yourself. Sure have a rememberance drink but don't get drunk at all. Your girl should appreciate your life and circumstances. Just don't lean too much on her in this. Stay classy. This is not something you should go on about with any great intensity to her over. I.e get it done and over with it's not an excuse for her to be nurse fo…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:21 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:46 AM
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Choice is yours, plenty of perspectives given. No situation is ever going to be perfect. Don't start thinking she's an idiot for all that. She's probably on the look out herself or if it comes by her, she's not averse to the gym and most of what she does is for herself like anyone. As the stakes get higher she'll wise up. She's young too. Don't take her for a fool or someday you'll be hearing you disrespect her and she knew this was going to be like that. She's just conforming to her life option…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:46 AM
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Ah I think I know what you're on about. I'm trying to get him laid but really it's not about what I'm on about. Though it is perspective. It's going to be lesser sex anyway after that. It's only going to be lowering yourself to consider this girl beyond the point of minimal effort. I'll make that clear. Her blatant lack of investment deserves the same. He wants permission to validate her and her actions Silent treatment was invalidating. He's in two minds or overlapping intentions. Making a situ…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:12 AM
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You were safe to say this to, maybe you got pushy or it didn't pan out for a reason. Pretty sure she doesn't even know exactly what she's doing. She spoke to you and figured maybe you'll find her attractive enough. You may have been up for some revenge sex. But probably not. After a girl is dumped and she's been a good girl so far, 3 years, she's probably only after validation, not sex, maybe some company but. Edit unless you fire on all cylinders. See she never agreed. But you should have playe…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:54 AM
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This always makes me laugh. Not OP. Guys on here say girls are so easy n all BUT when it happens to a guy in return, she's playing hard or it's this big mystery. If you don't want to then don't, but you live in different places, just go for it. This is the go sign. Turn up as her friend. Leave as her lover. Unless we've all read it wrong.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:57 AM
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Such women get some real funny relationship ideas at times.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:20 AM
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She's not thinking straight. Maybe her ex stopped taking an interest in her. Things are never perfect. Edit: you slept with her. That's a win. Then she thought about how fucked up her life was and how fragile she is. It's probably more to do with her workload. I also think she over reacted or wants to pursue other guys in the future instead of specifically anything you did. Yeah she broke. But she did it to herself. Next time you could do what over time I've just done, instead of making a busy g…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:16 AM
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She understood she nearly lost him. But his repercussions fell to the wayside. He could have said sure let's see each other again but somewhere far quieter. Just too gauge her a little.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:04 AM
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Though I think this, he can still get a beta fuck from her. He went silent and ended it. She liked the beta. Then she came to him. So far so ok... Haha. He went a little alpha so if he keeps it up... No one is fully either side he just needs to stay out of beta a bit better with her. It's harder now sure but she still likes him. OP should proceed but make sure he does not get used for his time, connections and company too much.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:03 AM
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New thought. You're too hard on yourself. Yes the girl is a sneak but don't dump, I would just devote less time to her. People go on about abundance, you do know us guys are extremely idealistic. Proceed as normal knowing she's most likely sneaky.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:53 AM
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He should have said to that: yeah don't worry about it, we'll make it way better next time.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:51 AM
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Its a red flag as to his ultimate aim which would seem to be to make her something more than just a chick he sees, because many guys just want to be one on one with a girl and not have anyone else in the picture. Just the world is no longer so simple, ref: tinder. I see his question as a road block solving exercise to that end. He just needs to ease his mind. So the red flag strikes that out nearly 100% but not her in totality. She is still in touch with him. He can do what he wants. But they ha…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:00 AM
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Well she is still in touch with him. He can do what he wants. But they have known each other a total 1 day at this point. If he is ok with it, he needs to take her somewhere less quiet and just fuck her. Thats all she is good for to him.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:00 AM
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Yeah. The coolest part is where I dump her ass. The cooler part is where OP already did that and didn't have to come here to ask. The way coolest part though is where you're not even replying to the reply I didn't have to make.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:58 AM
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Yes. Just to expand for you/others. All types. Divorcing chicks too who were legit having that happen and trying to get some fun in but like they see you every week and grow attached to you. I was just thinking the sub can be narrow in a world view, as it is really one world view on it own, so it blots out things sometimes. I'd rather people not be limited is all. Some family members have met their SO off tinder. Most people on here think tinder is just full exclusively of sluts. These are hurt …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:51 PM
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This is my thought after thinking about it. You literally met her the same day you matched with her. It's all in it's extreme infancy. Just brush it off now, don't worry about it. Can't do anything more about that incident. Plus you don't really have anything with a girl until you screw her, basically, and have no right even then (and these days less so too) to make her do anything. But what you can lay down are expectations either directly or indirectly. Think of this situation of yours as a hi…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:13 PM
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This is true too. Red Pill can be narrow. Ive met a few longer term gf's on tinder.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:59 PM
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Everything is important at the time. Even getting rid of someone. It's biology. But we're also a constantly predictive species with long memories who also conveniently overlook things when it suits.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:36 PM
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Well said. You just met her on tinder. Go for the snatch first date, every time. It's the single most prudent thing to do. If she doesn't want it, fine, just go for it because she almost certainly does. If not it will be next time supposing there is even a next time.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:30 PM
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Hey man, yeah he should have. Most likely, but I have further reassessed the situation in a further post to OP.... But about my post. When I read it I was being literally focused. You're right. Not my best. I did say elsewhere it wasn't going to happen and did say an alternative along your lines. After he said that as someone stated it would have been very defensive and a downer. Something like yours is what he should have done. Crap like that's happened to me and I always roll with it. It's a c…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:57 PM
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Not really. It's contrived. Maybe it would work. OP was never going to do it. And she reckons it's all ok. He just went weak at every point. I think he responded to her too quickly in text. Should have waited ages and come here first. She's over looking it all, possibly only because she likes attention. It's just not his strongest position. I still like the comment though.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:36 AM
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No. Just no. You can't get by in life or with girls just by cracking jokes. It's funny but it's transparent. There's many variables yes but via inaction you lower both yourself and herself. If I am unsure about a girl I make sure joke because it's not important yet, and predate. But you're better off leaving as my other post, the situation until terms of engagement improve. I do that with tinder girls, unproven, who cares. But you still need to plan your exit, and instead of joking passively/agg…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:59 AM
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Dump her on the spot (OP essentially tried to do this with silence and cutting things short - I don't know how people are not glad about that EDIT: my opinion has evolved on the whole situation in later post). Happened to me. She was livid and her friend hit me up a couple months later, knew them both. Said she did it to get rid of him she said but later at my place after more stupid shit I told her to leave. Another time with my new girl she saw me out, actually with 2 girls, first she danced l…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:35 AM
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It's not my intent to argue with you or anyone and I apologise for that, but fair shake of the stick, so they say. I believe of course the red pill to a fairly large degree. But at the same time you have to appreciate there's many laws in the universe. We don't walk around choosing to believe in only gravity and light but not conservation of energy and momentum as an example. The red pill is useful but I don't think those who put it together intended it to be used like some do. Nor can it explai…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:32 PM
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We can tell you're just cracking with the ladies... and if I am bp, which I am not, then we have a lot of people asking me for advice on here. Can't give a girl a little lovin? What? Just in case she turns you down. Weak, bro. At some point you have to slip the chick a ring. I would never say go down on one knee - I would love it if you pointed to the spot I did. And if you were not an incel I would be glad too. __ Think - how are you going to slip her a ring if she has to ask you like in O.P's …
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:19 AM
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But not complete power right? Why study red pill if it's ordained ahead of time
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:32 AM
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Yeah the actual reason is it's too clliche unless it's like an expensive ring, all done before and the guy is rich, even then. Don't be surprised if you get blown off. But maybe such a guy picked the wrong woman in the first place or he messed up the timing. This aspect is the least of people's here worries though. None have a chance at marriage even if they wanted to, then shitty USA laws and various countries. You don't need 1000 pages of red pill reading to realize that. OP merely committed a…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:27 AM
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Yeah, what's the alternative? Have girls ask you for marriage? It's a lot of words but the message is clear. How emasculating would that be? No. Wait. You're already emasculated. Did you take your red pill this morning?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:15 AM
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Oh right! So if you say it then it's true? Said like a true cultist. You need to delude yourself to get by. I know where the line is. I don't need you to define my existence. Bet you start chanting at some point.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:30 AM
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Well op drew what he thought was a logical conclusion. You may not read my big comment. But your red pill is not guidance here, others maybe. He asked if women should ask men. This is what you want to directly understand? Sorry. Thought it was too simple. Ok. Actually you might want to make sure you read my other comment. There's no way. We might ask why you cling to red pill if you are so apathetic, is this not just the epitome of blue pill to blindly follow every extension. But here we are, so…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:25 AM
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Unless like 6 weeks later you set her straight. Do you guys even think?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:28 AM
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Since when does the red pill ignore the world? If you want to lock yourself away so be it. You're not the only person alive. You're dealing with women, start at least appreciating what they're like. He asked if it's beta. It's not outright. I've had several girls want to marry me and have my kids. Will you kindly get bent? Never have I gone down on one knee, nor would I advise it, but nor would I say do X and only X. You were probably reading looking for that sweet RP essence. Sorry the world's …
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:52 AM
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It would stand to reason you would think that. But you can be open and honest with girls in your life and have hand. You'd need open communication and a decent chick but there's plenty of times. And a strong sense of self and core so toxic boundaries are never reached. No need to limit some guy on here. And your name is empathetic apathetic. I think we both know you're hurt and have strong maybe polar opposite views but a different version of you could see that there was a fair bit of moderate r…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:29 AM
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What. the. fuck? Dude - you're asking the chick to put up with your shit and your good points and/or their limits for the rest of her life - its not beta. ​ Unless you mean a marriage rejection - I wish there was more discerning, and differentiating. Nah, man, its not beta. Its a genuflection. (yes I had to look up that word when I thought to use it myself after reading). Following tradition/culture is not beta either. Sometimes it's lame, and paying too much respect to her in such a process wou…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:56 AM
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My ex girl said that to me once don't get buffer. It's a nonsense. Sure there's a limit but it's probably a stereotype and don't listen to what she says about that too much. Watch what she does. Though given every one is different I bet some mean that. My answer is everyone has a type(s). We assume every chick wants to deal with that. I doubt it's a hard and closed case though. People can change their minds.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:12 PM
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When I use tinder I get inundated quickly. I don't hook up could not be bothered. I get enough sex via the app on the way to finding a decent one. Pictures are key but don't expect miracles just because you're on it. Hope your LTR doesn't find out haha. Uninstall that shit man. You like invalidating her or what? Grow some balls and work on her. That's why you're on it or dump her already. You don't want your question answered or maybe you do. You should be saying who cares. You've probably just …
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:55 PM
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Except it's good yes but just another sausage mate. Unless we get and keep great women it's nothing to them. Life is the same. Don't get complacent. And be grateful. This (OP) is decent introspection. There could be more of that in the world. There are whole businesses and marketing designed around people taking it easy and many different lives to lead. In the past many surviving now would be dead or worse off. Really, being in the top half is a great life.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:39 PM
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I can only go on my own experience with slightly narcissistic mates and it can be annoying to say the least - however people have handled it well, no life wreckers, just sometimes rolled eyes. There's a history but its not uncomfortable too much. You won't have to worry unless she like moves in with him, or latches onto him chronically and starts shadowing him 24/7. You got to think that you won't cross paths that much in reality most likely. No former girl has ever done that to me though. But f…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:22 AM
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She's human. She's probably realised "you know what I could make an either bigger effort". You know what's up. It's pretty simple. Because sex is automatic for her and guys, this was not disconcerting for her. She probably gets it. This made things far more interesting, she's backing herself, and hopes it's all worth it. Also it's not like you previously had a fantastic relationship. She's trying to make things better, but she's also being calculating. She could throw this all back in your face …
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:23 AM
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Well marrying up, trading up, and branch swinging have always been a thing, maybe more prevalent in these times. But to some the degree or intensity of it isnt a big thing on their radar. They probably agree with those things but not the depth of the concept. Not everyone wants to cheat or trade up, etc. It is human nature. But obviously that person either doesn't give it much credence, thought, or think it's an over blown concept. Sometimes when you read things someone may seem to apply too muc…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:17 AM
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Ah ok. It'd be a non related person. Well in that case you seem comfortable in your self and direction pretty much. You probably just need a new challenge or a health check up - maybe there's stress even if you handle it just fine, it could turn into a long term problem. Not saying there is. But a new challenge is very common in all walks of life at any stage. Something that excites you again. Something new and different. You don't sound like the sort to simply want to exist. You probably miss t…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:02 PM
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You can ignore my advice if it doesn't suit you, thats ok. There's no single way. If you have that kind of relationship with her where she would accept that, then do that. Its only my perspective. Well, as to weakness, I don't know - capitalize on it. Its a relationship and you're status is just complicated at the moment. You clearly don't want it to be that way, and you are thinking a lot about it. Yet here you are going on about frame control when you don't probably need to play games. The del…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:00 PM
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Because you looked up to him you thought him better in certain ways and he is 2 years older, this is an issue over deep insecurities over the way you felt back then, as if he now has control over you. And the dynamic of your slightly needy relationship toward him. He might be the leading friend perhaps. You're good friends? Then be a good friend and drop those feelings of inadequacy rooted in the past surrounding her. Now it's too close to home it's your chance to say who cares and be a good fri…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:12 AM
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Just like the whole populace it's for normal reasons and any reason. Though it's true some do so to advance their career or due to efforts in advancing it where marriage was a result.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:50 AM
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I have a more simple perspective. You like her. She wondered if she should still break up. You probably said of course not. Don't be silly. Didn't you? It was an outside source/impetus she used. That would have tested her conviction. To my mind she just wants to see if it's worth it, and if you're playing ball after second thoughts. It's normal for girls even guys to doubt things after some time wondering compatibility. The above is not being beta. But she damn well has a hide for asking this of…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:12 AM
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I'm glad. Cos it took a bit to write haha. I thought I would expand on the soft next. And maybe you would get perspective because who knows exactly what she's thinking. But the flip side of soft next is to let the bad die down and remember good. She may or may not change her tune of course we know the Sarah girl was nothing but it relies on her perspective even if you're persuasive, which is the other 50%. Maybe don't leave it go too long, being visibly in the wrong according to her. Get her whi…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:18 AM
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Seriously what do you expect. Quit manipulating them. Beths not happy, understandably. Sarah didn't make a big investment of herself on said trip. She is probably blissfully unaware of underlying things. I wonder why Beth is like this. This is not what she wants. You've come here for more manipulation. You want the "right" reaction. But no one can go back and change your actions and intentions and what you said to her or gave her the idea of. To her you've definitely done "something". Now you do…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:50 AM
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Saw your other post don't mind my former. Yes too, chicks and dogs, some of them, can go bonkers over them, it's like the dog is the boyfriend
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:59 AM
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Do you really regret the dog? Not everyone's home or lifestyle is set up for dogs. Was it that? I miss my dog
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:58 AM
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Because you came here, do you have in life support from people close to you. And while they may not explicitly listen to your problems, do they at least offer some kind of support or direction as friends often do just in regular conversation? It can be more instant feedback, even if you broach a conversation with a store keeper or something in a light curious manner. You had a tough time and plateued, looking back you could be relishing taking the next upward step but you may think that "hill lo…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:50 AM
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Increase dread lol. Come on man. Sounds like a great chick. She likes to mix it up? But you don't...Yeah some guys think it's an insult. Tell her she's a hell of a woman. Some of my hottest fucks have been into a girls hand for instance, you can still do everything. And watching her get you off and turned on, wish this was in you you sexy bitch. How could you not like that. I never asked for them I just let them happen.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:15 PM
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Honestly, the wrong direction a little bit. You know tough love kind of crap, man. Its not ideal I think. Thats just me. You wanted to know how to stop being a try-hard - and thats to get a better idea, a better way, and to maybe try something different. You're very unsatisfied maybe, sad because of girls and girls won't be the ticket out of it. Do you cure drug addiction with drugs? No. But you need to develop. And everything about you. Get a thicker skin. It will only come from life experience…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:12 PM
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Thats ok. This is somewhat of how I am too. I misunderstood you a little bit. I know for myself for many years I only had saturday to actually go out with girls and it was often a hard choice with what to do, who to see exactly and if you 'picked the wrong one', and it often came down to a choice (and still does a little haha) of who is MOST likely to put out. Yes I could have went out later on fridays too but then you start to completely cut down your enjoyment of the weekend, so I rarely went …
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:48 PM
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You're being pathetic right now. Snake oil salesmen told you to approach and you did it. How happy are you? You just sound so deluded. No one makes magic wands. You're not alpha and you never were and at this rate you'll never be. Get a grip. Women only care about themselves, just like men especially when you don't know them that well. You want to trade on that? Lol You bring your own value. Stop this crap man. No woman ever sprinkled magic pixie dust on your head after sex to make you alpha the…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:16 AM
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What the fuck are you doing to yourself, man? Why are you approaching or even considering it. It's so lame. Are you handsome? Why are you on the soldier- approaching game thing? Those guys are faggots. Whoever came up with cold approaching as a mission was snake oiling you. At least go where these bitches are drunk lol. If you're unattractive or undatable because she wants higher socioeconomic trappings or someone with a lot of skill/success in life or crazy good looks, why the hell would she wa…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:00 AM
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Happens to me when I lose interest. I'm not as busy though or focussed that I can't fit some women into my life more. If you have little time then you're listening to them too much. Their sob stories are pathetic, cold unadulterated objective look, that. Though temper that with they might see you having little time but devoting some to them as a sign of your growing/potential commitment. You don't need to feel guilty unless you actually did listen to one too much and made like you cared. You sai…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:06 AM
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Nah she just has to be in your looks class. Or if she's above, depressed a bit. Game can make the difference or attitude but not always. Most of my tinder dates have proceeded seriously quickly to sex. Many of those girls either don't want a relationship or don't want to muck around. Like, you could say oh well when they see me that is, but that's their state of mind. They want fun. In saying that many are open to relationships if handled right. It's not just about sex unless she's closed off to…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:53 AM
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It's kind of the truth for everyone regardless. Some more some less but it's the truth. Maybe you're not good with women and you're merely thinking about sex. Well you have to focus. That's what I think he is essentially saying, correct me if I'm wrong. You can still improve just don't think about it so much. Sounds obsessing. You really want it so much but can't do it to the level he's on about. And he's been there. That's what's ahead of you. Be balanced. You can still improve even if a girl g…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:42 AM
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Lol! Did some slut hit you up? Why did you make the question so hard? Interesting it's up to you really. You could always both take a day off school or work to fuck. We don't know her and if she takes it every day. To my mind one could troll dating apps at any time especially when/if she dumps your ass but now you're taken don't mess with that shit.. Fuck the abundance mindset people. Don't waste this chick. You already know you can fuck at will with other girls. A lot of guys are just getting t…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:34 PM
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That's ok, thanks, but we are just spitballing too. You know her better than us and you write as if you really like her. She's young and you're young. School is a hectic time. Give her some time. There's no sure fire way though you can see from my post there are "ways". Don't hound her or nothing about it all, but since you have access to her keep it that way. Don't over play or under play your hand. She could leave this guy at any time and be lining you up as a replacement. She could lose inter…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:27 PM
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sure
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:08 PM
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Less conversation my friend or more pointless fun conversation and don't be afraid to relax and be quiet sometimes and more statements than simply addressing her. More conversation stuff at end... It's not what you're asking I think it's how it's prepared and packaged.... It's as simple as that even if by all accounts and your writing style you're an absolutely stand up and handsome guy. These hoes don't appreciate that as early on like you may remember/understand. Let her start carrying the bur…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:21 AM
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That's it, someone was in her/his hole. Who cares for anything further. Don't torment yourself. It's not worth thinking about, it's probably better to see the lawyer and go and fuck singles of your own but for heaven's sake if he's feeling up to it and without her knowing preferably. Tell her verbally about breaking up with her, being separated, and try not to get into any fights. When he chooses to do that we don't know but those are the best things to do. The counseling is a mistake and I hope…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:17 AM
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Bro. You wrote that all out some just to show proof, good effort but it's clear. She fucked him and that's the perceived truth even if it's only ever 99%, except here it's clear. And It's over. No ifs, no buts, this moment. Over... It ended that day she did that. Leave this relationship immediately but hopefully not the house. Why? Because this girl is leaving the house, hopefully maybe don't put her on the street. Do not tolerate that. Tell her it might be best if she left. She's pissed at the …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:15 AM
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You'll fall in love with your hand. Unless you're creepy and ugly then keep jerking but find a woman asap. At least then when you slam her a lot the deceased drive is actually lost for a good reason and can pick up again inside you because that honey is turning you on. But sure jerk sometimes, can't hurt especially when she's way too much effort or has a headache. Just don't let her catch you. She'll be pissed off or you have to ask her to help out which she may or may not want to do by that poi…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:49 AM
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Would it hurt you REALLY to fuck her at least once. Edit I re read the post. You've got to tell her you're not interested in her then she'll make up some crap. Then really you've spoken to her for this long it's kinda rude now. She's probably just thinking you're good at gym and she's buddying up to you lame as it is. The world can be about more than sex. You've just got to put boundaries in place to her interrupting you. You get to the gym and just want to focus I know how it is. I'd like to co…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:29 AM
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Want to help you out. Women often but not always these days since they're more like guys than ever oddly, be seeing multiple people at once - at the east another guy is talking to her, fucking her, or trying to talk to her....so you got to get in fast and establish control, a beachhead, however you think of it. More important than ever. And its why I do this and go for girls who are readily into me more often than not, because I have options and she has options and we just hope we found each oth…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:13 AM
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she throws a condom in your lap
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:09 AM
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ok you think she might think you're gay or something? Did you turn down some kind of advance or not push things enough? I was going to fuck this crazy chick in the back of her truck one day and she had a bed in it for us, and all I did was finger this crazy slut and throw away the condom she threw into my lap (because maybe she poked it or something and I couldn't find my wallet in the dark and wasn't going to.... she got the gays feels and was quite angry even though she was pleasured. Then sud…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:37 AM
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There's so many options for girls and they are pickier than ever. It's not that they're undesirable it's that they're blotted out to a degree or completely. I see it myself. Girls are much harder in general by the numbers to make stick. Believe it or not but not every girl is flip floping around over guys. It's social media too. It's also single mothers, and it's girls more willing to leave relationships... Of course all those types are technically available but are more keen to date around fuel…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:19 AM
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That's an interesting posit. I'm more a realist. Yes the world can be dangerous, deadly, unfair etc and it's organised chaos, but also IF nothing is set in stone or rhyme or reason other than maybe biology or a missing God, then that's neutral, not brutal and life is what you make it. There's nothing holding you back in that sense except unwillingness to be happy, compete, learn about it, etc. It's not just a burden or weight, one can thrive in it instead of just survive. A quick look at maybe D…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:18 PM
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You need to see someone who is a professional to guide you through this drop in life appreciation even if it's your doctor or learned close one you can open up to. You should be seeing the world in full colour. It's really pretty damn good. Best of luck. Because my friend and I don't think this is condescending, we're trying to help, if you could motivate yourself to try to see with wide open eyes you would never need to ask the question to which you forgot the answer to. So you don't need to sa…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:35 AM
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Hope to contribute some help. I feel you. Nah man it's not and you're right. Its not that RT's book is a bad book, it looks quite good. But maybe its more like a snapshot and well the world is a market. I have not read it, it couldn't hurt. I am one of those guys no I'm not a male model but I can go on a date each week and often more if I wanted provided I have put in the time to find or come across the girls to date and when possible I like to have a girlfriend provided I have a girl who is gre…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:58 AM
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I always like these scientific things. But it's hardly mysogyny alert. It's reasonably explained. Men also tend to have larger heads due to testosterone, and frames to boot. Women can be happy maybe they have larger breast areas and butts, hips, etc. This is nature and good. In terms of brain power there's less upper outliers for female smarts though they do exist and women are more readily applying themselves, but due to nature and dimorphism it's only reasonable to expect male brain power on t…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:08 AM
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Thanks. It's pretty messy
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 12:44 AM
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Thanks for putting that up. It's interesting. But I think it's obvious, but most men think they're in for a decent chance because society-monogamy. They forget or downplay competition or try to cheat it. They refuse to compete or become entitled, partly because of male dominated societies and customs. But we know as guys if a guy is horny and can he'll pick the most beautiful feminine and sexy woman. Girls do it too to men, square jaw, angularity. It just so happens such men are busy fucking eve…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 03:52 PM
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Come on, the article was bitter and from a place of hate. I don't disagree with your run down but it was way off base with how I feel about things. And also the broad generalizations in the article show a lack of awareness in general. It was just a bad article painting things in a bad light. It's ok to laugh a little at such pickup attempts, but it was so overblown. The embarrassment level he's claiming is overblown. He is on about a false dichotomy too. No I don't think they had a big chance wi…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 02:19 AM
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You're thinking too much. You have undaunted uncertainties. Let's address them in order.. You have a chance to have a great day. I can't tell you what to say at each moment but there's important things in my life that I do and girls love it. It's manning up to her and get you two into couple mode, and it's charming as you're going to be there for a while, it should help her open up to you and be at ease. First.... That stuff is in your mind already. You know it. Rehashing it now is bad. As you m…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:29 PM
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That's ok. Just some things I've picked up over the years.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:25 PM
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Known some Israeli army people. It only lasts a short while. You'll be out if you want and you're only 19 now. Heaps of life and different circumstances for you to come. Knuckle down and try hard at all you do, pretend to like things now. It's not your end game. In saying that set an alarm for the morning and go to bed at the same time each night. Don't procrastinate or stay on your phone in bed. When you wake up go outside and get some fresh air for a bit. Eat as good and healthy food as you ca…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:09 AM
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Absolutely spend time with her and enjoy her. Sleep over and all that. Enjoy your life and the people in it. Don't worry about the hurt man babies.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:58 AM
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Well the total answer is a veritable cold shoulder. Assume they're interested but take a good hard look Things can also change In the ideal world you would forgo their attentions and get that from your LTR. You're her ass now. If you're committed to your LTR it's ok to hang with them ,"sometimes" and to a dramatically lesser degree... they're not a priority. You like your LTR? Don't fuck her up or mess around with other girls because you like the attention. Keep them round if it's not getting in…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:26 PM
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Yes.. but well, they're happy for those couple of hours they're out, wait till he needs to do the garden or get the kids off to school then try to turn her on when he has to wake up for work early.. Anyway..... It's time to go steady or attempt to with a girl. You need to feel it But ok.. Make sure she's submissive to you, nice and compliant, compliments what you're about even if just a little bit. It's time to see if it all agrees with you for a while. You don't have to turn into a total monoga…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:43 PM
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That's interesting. Fresh example. I had a bad date booty call tonight that I don't want to contact or see again who I never met before but we set up a date a while back, stopped right before sex. Zero to sex is not easy but she was into me then not. She was a bit dtf but really nervous and I probably put her off. Yes, me. No one is an expert in all women. Grab your salt. Maybe cut your losses mate, not due to my thing but think about it. Didn't know what I did wrong. Chick was super nervous any…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:08 PM
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Like it matters. She found it smooth. Just girls who do it for me. Girls like you. I've also said no only you and I'm glad you like it. Or only girls I like. It's a double edged preselection and she wants to know she matters. Make her matter. I once said to my daughter there's been many girls in my life honey but your mum was the one who mattered most in response to a question. She swooned and sighed, eyes lit up and I promise you her heart nearly burst out her chest. It's of major importance. Y…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 08:45 AM
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Second date, she came to your house to liven up her night, see my comment for a different perspective, not a fan of demanding in this regard. Many things in her life. It would have been better to pick another night but whatever it was happening.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 08:35 AM
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Why the hell didn't you do it with her or give her time to finish. It's crap on her part but at least she wanted to be near you. That's your perfect opportunity since she is creating distance and sexual tension, though she really just sees it as easing into things... To then distract her while she is doing said homework. You could have made it a very sexy situation. And you could have taken an interest in it however mild. So she does her homework for a bit who cares. Check her out, get close bes…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 08:11 AM
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At the risk of sounding controversial - why can't she say she had a bloody good time - twice - and leave it at that. Sorry. I'm being a man. I'll just shut the fuck up. My long term partner way back when was so turned on but so drunk in bed at the end of the day, she said if she fell asleep just keep going, because you know baby I really want to please you. Yeah well I woke up and sometime during the day she was all You didn't keep going did you! She slapped me playfully and said it wasn't cool.…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 06:46 AM
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Good one in light of the list. It's what I do. Don't feed them promises. Anything they want they bring it up and it can be subtle, so as an active participant you should be alert and handle these things. But the impetus is with them. Just that if she gets happy with a beta she may just subsist on you and end up with him, so at those stages in order to continue the alpha beta but never too beta line blurs, but no analogy is ever 100% accurate. You can't blame someone for wanting a chance at their…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 06:21 AM
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This is a very good comment. Don't believe women on anything until they do it. Funny how roles reversed. Years ago it was don't believe men as the narrative, now it's don't believe anyone. Talking about anything isn't reality, just like dates need to exist, you never know how reality pans out and even then it's messy so here talking about this shit is no demonstration to how things really are when it boils down to it
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 06:17 AM
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You don't have to be on the offence to get chicks it's just that the author used to be majorly passive aggressive and so feels shame for that. Between 8 and 13 I was passive aggressive but you grow out of it. You just have to act on things. It's not even about game. Having a good job, good life, good times and a focus on yourself goes a long way. You don't learn shit in bars but that article actually was more than worthless now I think about it. Two random girls and a narrative based on assumpti…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 05:50 AM
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Ending up giving a counter tip at the end of my review. Got to be careful when labeling the whole. Plenty of lovey losers have their women leave, and plenty of plates leave their men. Is there a right or wrong way? And plenty of both sides don't get the woman in the first place. Different things work. I think heartiste can be too ideological. This is not the way to look at the issue truthfully. But the article does have some excellent insight. You just cringe when you see that stuff. The terribl…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 04:17 AM
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Oh they're out of their minds. It's just mental gymnastics. Probably to get away from their own issues and blame men for everything. Some people will never be happy and women love to complain, so feminism was always bound to come up. Remember they live their lives through men, as much as we live through women (not as much us probably), we're a social species. But changing men only gets you so far. So I think they over compensate a fair bit, becoming extreme. And they misrepresent on a lot of occ…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 03:27 AM
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Well yeah some women only like very tall guys so it's a standards thing but don't get hung up on it. It's like us if we walked around the world with only fatties. Women can be petty by our standards but it doesn't make them bad. Both sexes have similar amounts of standards in different regards.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 01:03 PM
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I am not a fan of this video, could barely watch it and did not. its lame but I guess there's no shame. I was just bored witless. are they drunk? they seem alright people but I dont know, such video's are lame. Maybe she looks down on him for this video. Seems like she is grasping at straws a lot. As if she knows - and I bet she doesn't now care for the video's purposes what was what in a public sense. He's spending time inflating his ego to strangers and she's probably throwing up inside. Thats…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:06 AM
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My opinion is you don't need Monk mode or anything. You just need to find something that interests you and maybe one day take a chick with you to do it or some shit. You're needlessly seeking fulfilment in these women, and them in you. Lead your life man, no pussy it's just flesh is going to fulfil you. It's just sex. Stop being so narcissistic in all this and live and experience with bitches again - a little. A little goes a long way. You're almost certainly depressed. Find another hobby, so ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 04:22 PM
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Does this guy hate himself or what. It seems like a ruse to let people know how great he thinks he is. Sorry it just comes across like that. Books obviously not for males though. I'm not sure why women would follow his advice. Most men shouldn't if we're being honest.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 07:48 AM
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I mean know when its time to leave. Sex is one thing but it also happens outside the bedroom too - a relationship. It was a crap relationship I don't care how many times she jerked him off, it was lame as all hell. They should have been rutting like pigs. Yeah chicks come on to me a lot once we're into the swing of things; its pretty clear what each of us want to do early on, especially if you sit beside her at some point preferably right away and you hold her hand and shit. Of course they are i…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 02:44 AM
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Haha. Whoa this got heated. Whats socrates got to do with common law anyway? Its a pretty cut and dry case this - you're just misguidedly adding things in that are not applicable at all. That was his living arrangement and his position to decide who came (which he did) and who left) which he did, at any point. They stayed well past their welcome-date - much like you. It's not my desire to argue with you. You said what you said and I don't want to labour the point to death. Direct your anger at h…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 01:38 AM
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Like lunaluis said just here, you got to smash it or leave it, or know when it's time. It surprises me he never pushed this chick. It would have excited her. Failing that the relationship disintegrated on him. He'll rue it for the rest of his life. Me I'd be calling her up but really he's a cold fish to her now.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 10:40 AM
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Can't believe in four years he didn't penetrate her once. He's a lousy person to do that to her, let alone her him. The frustration. I think they'll get together at least once to bang. They should fuck all night. Pity the guy is dense as, and lame to boot. Honestly I would have forced it out of her. He was her bf so it would have been so easy. Just stupid. By the time she realized she was being lame for denying his devotion to her was a major turnoff. Things have clicked for her but not him yet.…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 07:49 AM
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I never said it wasn't cowardly in a manner. It's his home. Who do you think you are? You don't set the rules and they broke all of them. His own sister was a bitch to him. He did give them some space, he left a bit then he came back and got rid of them. Get lost, man. What you propose is not acceptable. These people didn't give a rats arse. He didn't owe them any hospitality after that.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:51 AM
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In a studio apartment. Nah, that's being wrong. What is it, a dorm? I'm being perfectly calm. I laid it out fairly reasonably. They didn't just fuck that's the least of what I'm on about. He was living an intolerable home life in his own place because of two others It's a freaking studio apartment how hard is it to clean and follow simple rules? Two people don't just fuck and you celebrate that... Mofo grow a brain. Pussy or lack thereof has ruined your thought process.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:48 AM
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Then think about this. He looked up to that guy just because he could talk to girls ok. Subs like this pathetic sub make me realize how good I have it. He was let down by a flawed role model at a low point in his life when he needed it most.. Imagine how he felt. And all some of you dickheads can do is praise the pussy to the exclusion of everything else. Being able to have sex with willing partners is only one aspect of life. There's plenty of others. I've always had girlfriends and when I don'…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 06:39 PM
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What....? The......? Fuuuuuuck? Mofo they weren't paying, making a mess, if he has a bond you can kiss goodbye to it, and they were pretty rotten people to live with. They have their own responsibility. OP deserved better treatment. They were almost assuredly not on the lease. He owed them nothing. And they disgraced themselves and shirked every decency at every turn. Wow you're a hard marker. Guy was essentially transient when they met and he continually fell short of the bar so he ruined his c…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 06:09 PM
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Is this a script you've programmed into the vast chasm in your life/self? Put yourself in that situation. You drove him around gave him free rent and gave him your sister on a silver platter. Then they go and alter further the whole dynamic and peace of your living arrangement. That's what it's about. I don't care someone got laid, millions of alphas and betas are screwing right know as we type and read. Sex does not only come to alphas. His lifestyle spiralled out of control. He was being used.…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 05:54 PM
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None of that stupid shit matters. It was his home, his sister, his life. This guy came in and didn't give a shit about any of it. Doesn't matter how droopy he was to let it happen to him. There's a difference from being alpha and being a fuckwit. The op needs only to man up. You wouldn't go in there and high five him for being alpha. If you had any sense you would have kicked his balls in during their sex. Stuff the pussy it's only one aspect of life. This is about a home and being taken advanta…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 05:40 PM
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This chick was out of her mind. She was being an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 05:32 PM
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You did alright but ffs, stuff that for a situation. No doubt it naws at you but that guy was a piece of shit. He deserved swift dealing with not time. At least they got what was coming to them. Hopefully she realizes exactly what she did to you and how you feel. You probably did it as best you could in the most timely manner available to you but if only it could have been instant. Where were you when he was tuning her up? She definitely dropped her pants quick. You knew what he was like, why di…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 05:09 PM
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See my comment elsewhere for my opinion. I take a very dim view of this situation. They ruined his homelife. They don't deserve understanding. They used him essentially then put it all back on him. No decency. They deserved swift and potent retribution, curbing of behavior, firm boundaries, being kicked out. Platitudes are not a good idea toward him, sure what could he do maybe, he was weak and recovering from weakness and unable to respond. He needed a can of whoopass but had nothing.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 05:07 PM
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I would have beat the crap out of him. First night? Beside your head? If I wasn't strong enough I would have found a large piece of wood and wrapped it in a blanket. Fuck that man. It was keeping you up, is disrespectful. This guy was using you. You taxied him places, gave him a roof. He thought you were a drip. Then he slips it in your sister the first opportunity - and threw caution to the wind in case things became uncomfortable between them. You were not creative or resourceful enough. You c…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 04:57 PM
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Note: Brand was doing a lot of GRAND-STANDING. He was being entertaining, but that aside. I like what you wrote a lot. So good one, and she probably wants to get down more before she hits the wall; its my opinion she would have always been like that even from a young age, and now she is just whipping her own little pony trying to get ahead with sexuality as best she can, in a use it or lose it sense; its her body/choice. But don't underestimate that it could have had more to do with the relation…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 01:35 PM
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You can still play computer games dude. It's ok. But maybe you'd prefer doing other things which is ok too. You gotta mix life up.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 10:41 AM
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So you grew up under this shroud where it wasn't as it seemed, and only now can you feel more whole, tying up loose ends and getting closure from at least your old man. I can't imagine that. But it's never too late my man. That stuff washes off on the young but you seem much more wise now. You might benefit greatly from watching alpha male strategies on YouTube. The guy I just nod too, it's like my father reminding myself all over again and my uncle's. They are great role models. The guy is soli…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 05:30 PM
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I do agree with you to a certain extent. You're better off leaving her to not worry so much about your problems, maybe keeping her informed and bear the weight. Many problems, not all, especially when it's not of her making or to do with her are unnecessary to burden her with. Naturally a husband and wife will talk but it's wise not to expect her to hear an endless barage of problems or issues that suck the life out of things. I mean it was always like this when I was growing up. And your buddie…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:37 PM
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I'm not saying being a bit rough with communication isn't without it's merits, but this article was a bit off base. You see what he's driving at, but generally I don't think the issue is worth discussing. There's a time and place for doing this. Guys don't need to sugar coat things at all and in my family we do rough communication, and with girls you can be direct and all but there's a certain point where that kind of thing you can imagine it's of limited use and presumes many things. There's no…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 05:46 AM
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its a simple concept. It just gets way more discussion time than is necessary.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 03:08 AM
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I love it when I turn up to a date and just listen to her. She will be touching me too without prompting. Girls read what modern guys like. Many know to touch you first. They love seducing you or at least making it very easy for you and these days it's expected. So anyway if I just have to listen well and I do, and I can rib on her and be fun, it's easy to kiss her and fuck her in short order. Listening is underrated. But a lot of the red pill is meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 09:11 PM
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I agree it's useless. Especially if many guys here are not empowered. Let's not be naive. That weekend she would have ridden that dude's cock again and it would have been great revenge sex for her too. She's no idiot I bet. I hope she did and had a good time to boot.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 09:09 PM
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You need to tell the other party in many places but not all. Which let's face it, it's what he should have done to limit her hamster to her place of work at the least. He could say he did mention it to her I suppose. But just think of how much cock she rode in that car. She called him from home saying come ride me baby, I bet she was comfortable with this guy while also having zero respect for whatever the relationship had descended to. He drove it twice since then, there's probably cum on the s…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 09:03 PM
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Lol that's it. When she gets a rise from some guy a car means nothing and any mate guarding is in vain, it's all set up wrong. As guys we'd probably do it too, so I don't know why he expected differently. For him it's just an open and shut transaction. But if he wants to keep a girl he needs to change next time.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 08:59 PM
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His major problem was trying to manipulate her into staying and being with him via a lot of gifts. We don't know how she contributed to that effort beyond her pussy. But it would have been opppressive. I'd never do it but he can't be faulted for keeping an eye on things to that extent really.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 08:57 PM
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I say above essentially he's probably a creep of sorts. He could be very rich but it's not the most common or believable story. Even if not a creep he probably drove her away from him as it is. Can anyone blame her beyond the massive breach of trust, since she was obviously over it. For him though if true I'm glad he got out unscathed. If he's going to support a girl where it hinges on loyalty to that level he'll need cameras. Really he just needs to make better choices or up his game. This mofo…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 08:30 PM
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Lol yeah even night vision! She still rode the cock. What's the point of this fellow other than pride. Sounds made up as in that's what he wanted to do instead of did. And he contributed majorly to her actions of course. Then he filmed her without knowledge for ages. Maybe we should say good on her. If that's his personality. Was probably very paranoid anyway. And a bad match. Yes that can excuse her if he was bad to her and the story was real. Just maintaining skepticism. It's unverified.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 08:24 PM
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Did I mention in this. Hypergamy is the new Buzz word. It's a thing but it's overstated. Think of it like gravity. It's a law or concept but don't get worked up about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 06:12 PM
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As per others maybe only mildly autistic if at all probably a guy looking to contribute. That's ok.. it's good that happened to OP. But we don't need to over state or even understate it. Maybe he was unsure of a traditionally taboo subject. But don't be so quick to link them up. It's only natural to assume. Moreso she had to disassociate sex talk with other more pressing concerns, and think about herself more and you. Iow it's not always the sex talk though we rationalize it so. Talk about food …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 11:54 AM
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Try to see the best in people. Develop some sympathy/empathy or tolerance to the problems. You don't need to solve them in order to enjoy people in the main though sure some problems explicitly inhibit any interaction/enjoyment with some girls just like guys in reverse, and you don't need to settle down with them either. But you are right - there's a lot of damaged young girls out there. Its a society problem. At one point girls had their heads screwed on earlier than guys for various reasons in…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:40 AM
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Hypergamy and it does exist, is not always and does not have to be a dark cloud hanging over things. Yes, its there, but so is beauty which is a thing, feelings which are a thing and other things besides. Some people see all these things as toxic but it does not have to be so. Fun and fulfillment, happiness or contentedness, enjoyment, can exist in the same place as death disease, destruction - I mean just look at the world around us with germs and pestilence and natural disaster - humans find a…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 06:30 AM
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That's interesting. Maybe he is just searching for answers that don't need questions in the first place. It could be someone doesn't like the burden of being needed more than they're willing to accept. It's responsibility. And it conflicts with the notion that when people give to you they're investing in you thus becoming closer. It's possible someone who likes intimacy at arm's length would feel like this.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 05:24 AM
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This. Keeping a woman and getting a new one are the same thing. It's indivisible. Logically we just like to categorise things. And many people on here are internally conflicted. The system may be cynical and cold biology but it doesn't mean you can't have fun and fulfilment and move forward. But I do think too much dwelling on that must take a toll on him in some way. They're separate aspects of life. On the flipside tolerance and understanding over cynicism is very important, to accept it and m…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 05:10 AM
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Shit if you can't tell your wife who the fuck can you tell. This is stupid. No need to worry people needlessly though or make them a dumping ground. I mean you need to own your own problems. Who is this guy/what question. Partners support each other.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 08:11 AM
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I like the guy. Sometimes you can get caught up in weaponising the circumstances and come off as a preacher, but dramatic shifts happened. The rug went out from under society, and what was ceased to be. This allowed the underlying nature to assume greater control in society as we realise it across generations and define it in a modem sense. It probably doesn't have as much sway I think because in life we also need to be practical. Such as increased uv rays versus sunscreen. You don't shun the su…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 05:24 AM
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Roosh again misses the point entirely of being a proper human being. Can we take him seriously at this point. Women flip flop all the time some more than others. The article is not nuanced enough and is just entertainment. I was not entertained. Don't try to understand just hold to your own. This OCD about truth means nothing. It assumes women, human beings, know what they're doing 100%. They're only half the puzzle. This guy ignores women full stop. It's a failed and flawed thought experiment o…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 07:48 AM
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The article like all truth is kinda right but totally wrong. It's a concept of a reality. Don't be the lie, of course try to be as honest as possible. Sometimes I think such things set men up to fail. Good for you
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 07:47 AM
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That's bullshit and you know it. Do you even know who you are? He doesn't want to pretend. Good for him. That you vehemently disrespect that is another thing entirely. It's like you're scared to reveal who you are or something. It's not lying it's all intertwined. Maybe you got the wrong idea. Some girl you just met no you don't need to spill your guts, but in general, to live a real life, get to the point where you're not the lie yourself. Forget her lies. Be happier.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 07:41 AM
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Why is he even doing this. It sounds futile and whimsical. Guys might be able to change their behavior but girls will keep doing whatever it is this fucker didn't like about them in the first place. I know a lot of people on this site hate women or specific things about them, hell I don't even come here at all, but wake up - most women are pretty decent, there's dead-beat women out there sure too. Most girls know what they want more than men. And part of the reason is they are dished up a lot of…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 01:52 PM
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Thats right. Its where my attitude spills from in these things. Its only fair and reasonable, because lets face it - you live with someone for long enough in a relationship (usually its by law 6 months I think where I am) and you either buy the food she eats on week/day and she the next, etc, you pay money to clean her clothes and she you - where does it end? You would think such laws would make people more responsible but people either don't look at it like that or forget. Then a judge would ha…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 01:32 PM
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I dont know about other people, I mean I've been doing this be a man thing a long time as my default lifestyle all my life as have many I'm sure here, girlfriends expect more of you usually but always at least 50/50 if possible over a long period of time because then its just rude but in general girls I meet have no trouble paying for me. I moved in with my girlfriend late teens, we never had trouble with this crap - how old is that guy? I don't want to judge other peoples choices for whatever r…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 01:09 PM
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The girl I am currently seeing, looks at me like this all the time. I have never thought about it because my crazy ass gf back when I was 18 who I dumped one day when she was giving me bad vibes and cried and tried to mitigate what was happening (after she conived every other girl round me) gave me this look a lot. I had to tell her to fuck off and leave and ask her to never see me again... in the wrong she knew she was and so I never did. Wasn't hard for her maybe because she was transient real…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 03:22 AM
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