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the desire to validate their own existence by imitating misrepresentations of success. Now the natural impulse to reproduce is "imitating a misrepresentation of success". Whats next? Eating as a manipulation of marketing to consume?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:18 AM
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All the "advantages" people say applies if the only alternative of being single is being miserable with a partner. You all sound like boomers lamenting of getting married. A relationship should be an enriching experience of mutual growth, enjoyment and cooperation, not a money drain, stressful situation where you lose freedoms. If that's too much to ask, then it speaks volumes about the current situation of our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:10 AM
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with that of other men who have replied to me who have said that they were flattered that gay men found them attractive Most guys here have self esteem issues. In real life, most men don't care or even feel disgust (and not always because homophobia). I'm not going to argue that women find men who catcall them attractive. I'm just against this notion that gay men hitting on straight men is the same as straight men hitting on straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:00 AM
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It's still a false equivalency. Straight men love to be catcalled by women because it's reaffirming about our own sexuality, it brings joy as we're not used to it. . Being catcalled by gay men means nothing as we're not attracted to men. It's like asking a lesbian if she will consider awesome being hit on by guys. It doesn't even work to gauge attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:43 PM
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On the other hand we have women telling to be upfront from the beginning, otherwise you're manipulative. And many women don't have a problem with a hot guy being sexual from, literally, the first second.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:35 PM
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You don't have to slap people with your paycheck to make them know you have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:28 PM
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You end up with vague advice still like “don’t send unsolicited dick pics”. That is good advice This isn't even an advice, it's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:08 PM
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You almost never see men wanting to stay at home and look after their children Because we know women won't tolerate that. It's the same with tall women. Most men don't have a issue with that, but women does with shorter men, so most men don't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:04 PM
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Have you ever been catcalled by gay men? Would you think that it’s just as awesome? False equivalency when you compare straight men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:59 PM
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But body positivity has very little to do with men think ... not hating themselves because of what men think. Pick one. But yes, giving your unsolicited opinion on women’s bodies is fucking rude and they’re right to call men out on that. Well, I agree. But while we are increasingly calling out men for this behavior, we don't do the same with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:55 PM
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You literally made a fucking international movement because men don't like fat women. What the fuck are you talking about? Women are on the first line to demonize men preferences, you literally make protests in real life because of "impossible beauty standards". But men go to the internet to complain about women's preferences of something people can't change and "oh, no, you can't complain because...".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:54 PM
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Friends will never solve loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:32 PM
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The gender that, on the easiest pandemic humanity had to face relied on prostitution to survive... that's the gender is gonna make a better world. LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:18 PM
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Why is exactly is a low birth rate a bad thing, again? Infinite population growth is not possible, it has to level off somewhere. Why is now wrong? Ask China.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:10 PM
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Older people grew up in a world that every girl didn't have tiktok/insta/tinder in her hand 24/7 at the age of 18 or earlier. It's like a Boomer saying "shake the manager's hand and ask for a job, no resume needed. Don't bother with that online apply BS", ya ok Boomer. Women here literally have boomer mindset with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:43 PM
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Oh so you think decent treatmeant should be given out only for very attractive women only Yes. Women don't have any consideration for men, so it's fair game. You're not entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:37 PM
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It's not hypocrisy because it's not the same thing. You may believe it's the same thing because both men and women are human... but this like trying to equate a regular African man, who managed to become billionaire, with Elon Musk. Both are African, but that doesnt mean both have the same merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:06 PM
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What's your point? It doesn't change that making a woman paying you for sex is a fucking male fantasy. It can't be compared with a woman doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:55 PM
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Because it's predatory, taking advantage of vulnerable people in the same fashion drug dealers do. You must to be in a really bad place to pay thousands of dollars for escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:53 PM
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Also, if you're the woman paying, does it means that your dick should have less worth to women as they don't have to invest in it? Quite the opposite. No woman pays for dick, so that's an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:31 PM
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Ok boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:41 PM
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Most men could not survive solely providing for a household. They literally can’t even afford it. Most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck with both partners working and not being able to afford a $500 emergency expense. It's almost like the labor force doubled in the last decades. The 1% are very thankful of women getting into the workforce. No wonder why top men finance feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:47 PM
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I'm financially stable, fit with no kids. No one cares. and mostly get hit on by younger men who think I am the same age. Nice try though lol Too old and too naive to believe those guys think you're younger, lol. Milf fantasy is mostly about an easy lay. There is nothing special about being hit on by younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:45 PM
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No, it's quite the opposite. Older women are ridiculous easy to fuck to the point it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:25 PM
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Sure ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:24 PM
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The age difference doesn't seem like a big thing when everyone is over 35. It's always after women hit the wall when it isn't a problem, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:13 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:02 PM
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Women shouldn't give one man her 20s So a men shouldn't give a woman his 30s. Better put some money in companies selling antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:50 AM
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From personal experience men cant tell lol You think they don't know, so you're easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:47 AM
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It helps to detect the poison. That's the only positive thing about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:00 PM
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Are they "a little too young" to vote? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:25 PM
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I'm pretty sure OP will ignore this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:24 PM
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When a teen creates an Onlyfans account, the same women outraged about the age gap don't blink an eye. That's when you see the hypocrisy because 18yo get advantage of men all the time. I'm pretty sure Leo's GF is doing that, but as Leo is also getting something good out of the relationship, then women seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:23 PM
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With all due respect, you don’t get to decide how women should feel about being approached by strange men because you’re not a woman and are not vulnerable to the same risks. "With all due respect, you don’t get to decide how white people should feel about being approached by strange blacks because you’re not a white and are not vulnerable to the same risks" Ah, I love when feminists sounds like white supremacists by just changing a couple of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:36 AM
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But why would they want to be exclusive with somebody if there's no difference between them and a friend? I'm speaking about asexuals. It's almost as if physical intimacy is more than just sex. I don't make out with my friends or cuddle with them naked, after all. Buddy... those things usually end up with sex in a normal relationship. Not all the time, of course, but it's literal torture cuddle with your naked partner all the time without sex. I'm simply saying that there's ways of being physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:48 AM
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Exclusivity? For asexuals it could be an advantage. But for most people it's the opposite as they're torturing themselves in a sexless relationship while they can't look for other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:22 AM
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Because I’ve never met a man who wouldn’t be pleased to be with a woman who’s successful, provided she ticked all the other boxes in terms of what he’s looking for. The problems only arise once the disrespect starts pouring in. Most of the complex women have (being tall, breadwinner, etc) aren't caused by men insecurities, but women arrogance. It's not that we don't like tall/high earner women, it's actually a fantasy... but women usually disrespect men beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:04 AM
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How does this reflect on "modern women" when most modern women don't want stay at home husbands? Well... when you ask women here about if they'd like a stay at home husband, they usually say that they're ok with that and ACTUALLY it's better for marriage stability. But we all know that they're just virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:01 AM
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You get to understand where this sick question comes from: the absolute lack of empathy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:02 PM
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Yes. End of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:57 PM
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Oh, my apologies, ambassador of all women of Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:21 AM
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Spot on. Exquisite explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:39 PM
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they have ONS criteria and wife criteria. First, men will fuck ONS and wife material from day 1. Maybe this is the root of the confusion women have about this topic. The big difference here is that being a ONS material as a woman is insanely easy. While being a girlfriend material is harder in comparison. For men, being boyfriend material is relatively easy... but being a ONS is almost imposible. That's why we don't buy this bullshit where being boyfriend is superior. Many men got at least one g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:08 PM
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I can't get such frustration. If what they say it's true... why they fucking care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:23 PM
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I can concede that younger women are sick of being hit on by olf creeps. BUT our point is not that you WILL hit your peak at your 30s or 40s. It's that you HAVE to peak when older. What women here don't say is that those old creeps were just creeps when younger. They're basically some of the boys they're rejecting right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:21 PM
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Wow... This is fucking painful to read. Most men believed this bullshit. Guess how they ended up redpilled 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:47 PM
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Women here are really salty about this issue, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:25 PM
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this whole argument feels like intellectual masturbation over a non-issue. Tell that to women complaining about the age gap and treating it as if it were a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:42 PM
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If women can be easily manipulated by older men into something REALLY personal and dangerous as sex... what can we expect about something more complex as politics or credit access? Indirectly, women here treat other women as stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:56 PM
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Many people here (especially women) literally treat age gap as some kind of child abuse under the argument of "she isn't mature enough". Just look at the reactions when Leonardo Dicaprio comes into conversation, he's basically a pedo for them. They're not just advising to look out for red flags, it's that the age gap is directly a red flag... which in my opinion is ridiculous as relationships are more complex than that, but hey, it's the same people who say we don't have to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:53 PM
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I will stop supporting age gap relationship IF we treat younger women as a REAL children with no right to vote, open bank accounts, etc. It's ridiculous that a 22yo is immature to decide who to fuck... but she is an adult to decide which politician will fuck us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:47 PM
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I'm pro abortion, but this argument is ridiculous. So, we could disconnect people in coma because "they cannot live on their own outside of the ICU".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:09 PM
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Because women are the most vocal about being child free, especially when it comes as a political statement from feminism. When you're on the public scope, you will find opposition. There is no conspiracy of men wanting to subjugate women and blah blah blaj6.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:03 PM
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Women here: "Women aren't a monolith" Also women: "A lot of men aren't worth the effort" Well, we can say the same about women, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:02 PM
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And then you answer that men aren't entitled to sex because of a dinner. Well, women aren't entitled to the relationship either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:14 PM
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Don't forget the networking (friends) as a shortcut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:13 PM
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So hypergamy is good for women but not for men? Weird. We aren't entitled to sex, but they're entitled to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:38 PM
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Men have an issue with tall women because women have an issue with short men. Men wouldn't mind a taller gf, that's actually a fantasy for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:06 PM
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What a second... he literally said the same you did, and he need to go out more... But not you? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:33 AM
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What would you consider "average"? (though I would say plain looking or just normal looking woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:36 PM
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This girl particularly is not "way out of my league"... she is a pretty normal woman, which with a good personality would make a nice girlfriend. Nothing spectacular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:05 PM
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I'd place that 1st girl pretty close to the "goddess tier" (if you will) in looks. Sorry, buddy, but this is the reason why women overvalue themselves. She is a 5... 6 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:57 PM
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It's not popular because it's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:47 PM
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While it is possible that women with economically dependent husbands are simply more satisfied with their relationships than their economically dependent counterparts, and therefore less likely to engage in infidelity, the relationship between relative income and infidelity was not medi- ated by relationship satisfaction. Thus, a more plausible interpretation is that women’s increased fidelity is the product of women’s efforts to counteract their own gender deviance, validate their husbands’ mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:47 PM
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For women, breadwinning decreases their chances of cheating Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:40 PM
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While the woman is a boring and unambitious person, right? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:38 PM
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Exactly. We don't see too much "women philosophy".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:34 PM
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Scenario B isn't blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:26 PM
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This isn't hard to grasp people... Not for women, you know, the empathetic gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:22 PM
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It doesn’t take much effort for car to travel 50 miles. It’s a lot harder for a bike to travel 50 miles. At the end of the day, same mileage. At the end of the day it takes a good body, health and the correct mind condition to make 50 miles in a bike. Almost nobody can do that. It's incredible how you shoot yourself in the foot with such analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:17 PM
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Well... it would depend of how pretty the woman is, anyway. Pretty women have the luxury of being quite crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:23 AM
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I love how women have a radar... except for those men who manage to use them as a sex toy 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:16 AM
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A perfect example of how men amd women have a different perception of things. I don't have a sex doll, I think it would be annoying to masturbate with that and the maintenance...still, I wouldn't mind a woman having an equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:44 AM
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But the biggest way to be attractive is to be calm and emotionally stable and kind. Doesn't the redpill exist because men follow this bullshit advice in the first place? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:18 PM
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and limit their opportunities. And here we go with conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:54 AM
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Because men are horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:51 AM
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Exactly! Women are even crappier partners as they don't have to make an effort in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:50 AM
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I’d say 2000-2015 where we tried to see if men were interested in egalitarianism and relationships Someone inform all men that we got tested without knowing, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:46 AM
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This point you are making conflicts with the common belief that women don't get into relationships with men they have been friends with a long time. Common belief hold by women. Men are usually destroyed for wanting a relationship from friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:42 AM
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I have MANY friends who said that they were grossed out by older men... just to date older men. I don't believe women here. They're so DESPERATE trying to deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:24 AM
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Of course it doesn't matter, because you KNOW a man won't get the same reaction, so you won't face what men have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:27 PM
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Whenever people try to compare different things when it’s possible to compare similar things it makes me feel like they are trying to pull a fast one. "Similar" ha. You KNOW it's not similar. An average dude posting a picture in a speedo won't get the same reaction as an average woman posting a picture in bikini.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:26 PM
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Laughable. The most unstable women I met are the older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:07 PM
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This. Why would I need someone once I reach the sweet spot in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:48 PM
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Being attracted to a literal adult is the same thing that being the town bicycle. Uhm...ok? Have a nice day, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:45 PM
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Since I've met tons of younger women saying that older men are gross... and then fucked those men.... really, I don't believe women in this subject. Maybe not the majority, but there are enough women willing to sleep with an older man. It's all dependant of what you want from certain age. Commitment with younger women is out of the equation, so yeah, that's the wall for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:03 PM
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Since I've met tons of younger women saying that older men are gross... and then fucked those men.... really, I don't believe women in this subject. Maybe not the majority, but there are enough women willing to sleep with an older man. It's all dependant of what you want from certain age. Commitment with younger women is out of the equation, so yeah, that's the wall for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:53 PM
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We kept talking and she told me that the next month she would be turning 39! You need a visit to the ophthalmologist. Even actress don't look 25 when they hit 39 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:45 PM
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The same way women have unrealistic expectations from men. People dream with being filthy rich all the time... what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:33 PM
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The stupid "boyfriend > hookup material" take. Yeah, whatever, you break the rules for this guy specifically. That's the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:27 PM
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it helped make cities more productive and actually increased wages. Productive? Yeah... the question is who benefits from such productivity. Salaries aren't increasing according to the cost of living. People could live with just one income, now even two incomes aren't enough to form a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:25 PM
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Another woman who don't understand the concept of the wall. The wall is about commitment from the men a woman wants. For sex, you can find dudes that will fuck a literal corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:17 PM
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and contribute more to society than their wombs when women were completely capable. Contribute to halve salaries by introducing twice the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:53 PM
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and contribute more to society than their wombs when women were completely capable. Contribute to halve salaries by introducing twice the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:53 PM
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and contribute more to society than their wombs when women were completely capable. Contribute to halve salaries by introducing twice the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:53 PM
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If a man is bragging about all the sex he had, the consensus usually is that he’s gross. Because he's lying for sure and that's pathetic. Men with high N count have another vibe. They don't brag about something that became normal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:22 PM
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They're liberals until sexual liberty doesn't benefit them exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:11 AM
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It doesn't matter because those women have the same impact incels have in the dating scene: nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:03 AM
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It's useless. Many women get desperate with age as their options are decreasing, especially if they want children. Others are just Ok with being alone, it doesn't matter anyway. The easiest hook ups are with older women, not younger. One of the main complaints on the manosphere is how, when you reach your 30s, dating becomes easier with women you don't actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:46 PM
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If a 18yo woman are too immature to know who to sleep with, the they're immature enough to decide who will run the country. You can't have adult rights and agency when is convinient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:38 PM
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Of course they can. It's a lower risk since older people have the experience to recognize signs and behaviors of manipulative people. (laughs in Tinder swindler)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:34 PM
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This nonsense is out of hand , tell me where to find "passport girls" Go to Latin America. You will find plenty of woman dreaming with a gringo (not a passport bro). They're not "passport girls" because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:31 PM
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Who should women listen to? Women don't have these Kevin samuel type people, who should we look at? Or are we born knowing it? You can't see it because the female equivalent of manosphere has been mainstream for decades. Even the United Nations promote female role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:33 PM
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As someone said here: lack of privilege is not a problem. Ugly women gets regular men experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:23 PM
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Buddy, not being fat IS THE BARE MINIMUM for women. What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:36 PM
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Dude, let them wipe out themselves from the gene pool. The world is too cruel to let selfish women to make this decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:26 PM
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I was talking about regular guys, anyway. Women love to say that most men are awful... Without understanding that they're equally awful. It's just that men want sex that much that they will tolerate any kind of bullshit. We're not ready yet for sex robots, but many men don't have a problem with prostitutes. It's just that it's too expensive to get regular sex that way, so they still look for regular women with sex in mind. If you take sex out of the equation, with men getting it from other sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:06 AM
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You're talking about outstanding people to make it seems that something is not difficult perse. Promiscuity is a male fantasy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:52 AM
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You really have a problem with the Apex Fallacy. Most men can't "easily get it". And no, they wouldn't have a need to do that, that wasn't the point. expensive substitute OP's scenario is about sex bots becoming affordable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:42 AM
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You always bring above average men to this conversations in order make it seem like being a promiscuous man means nothing... but that's the fucking point You have to be "conventionally attractive with rich parents", or work a lot to being on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:23 PM
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I don't know you, man. If you have a talent since the beginning, it doesn't make it less meritorious. The vast majority of men can't be promiscuous, that's the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:21 PM
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Women really overestimate their value, thinking that only losers will rely on sex robots, so things won't change. If regular sex with prostitutes were affordable, many men would have an easy time dealing with women... the same way many women are getting an easy time dealing with men, as many things women used to rely exclusively on men are now replaceable. Today, women look for men mostly for companionship. They don't have tolerate men's bullshit because of money, protection, status, whatever...…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:34 PM
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they deserve to be shamed for being promiscuous. They don't deserve being shamed, but they aren't also entitled to commitment if this is a deal breaker for many men (men aren't also entitled to that either). My problem here is that women have a HARD TIME grasping the difference between men and women being promiscuous, pretending that both scenarios are the same thing. And here your have a point: men promiscuity is earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:14 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:14 AM
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War or an economic depression are perfect ways to make women forget about equality. But I wouldn't like to face those thing, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:56 PM
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Plus the red pill sub is full of men who can't get laid or even get ANY attention from women and are trying desperately lmao And civil engineering program is full of people who don't know how to make perfect buildings... What's your point? Of course the red pill is full of men who can't get laid, that's the fucking point. That most of those men are too lazy to put the effort to improve themselves, because hating is easier, is a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:22 PM
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Some people want to overtake companies, it doesn't means than most of normal people play under the rules. Translation, because I know you'll say that women are not companies: most men aren't violent, and most play under the rules of the current dating market where women make the final choice and men act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:38 AM
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Exactly. When I don't give a shit about certain woman, it's when the things run smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:58 PM
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Incels is the new H*tler or n@zi. Once the word comes into discussion, you've won.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:40 PM
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Avoiding high #s doesn't have any logistical or tangible benefit, really. You can't even determine if someone has one if they dont tell you Of course you can't see that, because you don't have to deal with those women AS A MAN. Women have a really, really hard time understanding the male point of view of sex and relationships. It's normal when the dating market revolves around you. Women try to understand men the same way companies try to understand employees. I understand why you wouldn't date …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:35 PM
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People here talk about being young, fertility and blah blah blah. I'm 29, and I'm beginning to meet women with enough red flags to make a soviet parade. It's an attitude, personality and trauma thing. Usually, women in their 30s are becoming a less suitable partner... besides the fact that they reach the age where attractiveness is slowly decreasing, so you're prone to get a bad deal from both sides. Casual sex? I've had no problem until now, but I'm aware that some women in their 30s believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:04 PM
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People nowadays do a lot of things that are not in line with what is "evolutionarily" necessary or safe. The reason why we have an epidemic of mental issues. Full access to porn doesn't make safer everyday use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:41 PM
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According to men with real experiences or according to women to love to virtual signal in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah, but the point was that you cannot trust what you observe. People won't show their miseries in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:49 PM
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It's just unfair that we have terms like "fatphobia", while short men can be openly shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:14 PM
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However in the real, observable world Well, it's pretty lame that you OBSERVE, instead of actually interacting with those people. Most people aren't happy, they're just... existing. Not strictly depressed or unhappy, maybe, they're just in a boring routine without a better purpose. You can't ask them out of nowhere if they're happy, most people have this "I'm fine" answer by default. But if you ask them if they like their jobs, which is where you spend 2/3 of your time and energy, you will get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:53 PM
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It's always funny when women bring this argument. It's EXACTLY the same argument white supremacists bring to any discussion about racial issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:50 PM
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They're hesitant to date because some angry dudes online, while we have to face a literal cultural swift towards women anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:24 PM
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I was never vain, my grooming as a bit meh, I just started getting frequent haircuts about 1y or so ago (which made quite a bit difference) and then stopped there. I had a skincare from my ex but dropped it out of lazyness as well, I didnt shave or trim that often, etc. I dress like a 10yo, always going for the comfy, jeans and t shirt, etc. I washed my hair with water and a random shampoo Men tend to be more practical, especially when young. We can perfectly live with the same t-shirt in a room…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:56 PM
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If you have a hot body, then you're not average. Find someone to teach you how to dress, or spend a bunch of time trying to find your style (and be open to healthy criticism). It takes time, but worth the effort. Hot body without fashion is like having a Ferrari in the garage. You can also consider some skin care routine as you're young (most men ignore this thing). People can't guess my age (I'm 29) and that will become an exponential advantage as I get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:51 PM
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How feasible is it for an average guy? If you're open to fuck ugly woman, pretty easy. But if you have a stomach, then chances are really low. Normal looking women have many filters for average guys, so unless you rely on illegal practices (for example: waiting for her to be drunk enough) or immoral (exploit a vulnerability), then you have to play the relationship ritual. You have to be outstanding in some area, not average, to bypass those filters and be the exception for some woman to get casu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:11 PM
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I've never met a virgin woman who demanded their partner was a virgin as well. It's mostly male virgins who say this. You gave the answer why. Being a virgin serve no advantage as a man (women don't demand/want them), and from certain age it's a liability, because it means lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 09:36 PM
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Exactly. It's pretty naive to ask this here and expect a honest answer. Women say they'd like Tom while fucking Sam. Like saying "you will make a woman happy someday" or the boyfriend material. That's why no men buy this bullshit of "high N count dudes aren't desirable".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:25 PM
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I agree, thanks for proving a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:42 PM
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All the highly attractive ‘Chads’ I know aren’t into settling down and are more adventurous Sure, and the rich are really happy with this late stage capitalism 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:52 PM
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Most women aren't worth being traditional. We don't want 20th century rules with 21th century behavior. The current state of the economy doesn't help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:35 PM
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The thing is though that most modern women don't seem to have many hobbies, interests or points of discussion other than social media and liberal talking points since both of those things are popular. Many also listen to the same boring popular music and watch the same boring reality TV shows. Or Tik Tok! I am not interested nor will I ever be interested in Tik Tok People here, especially women, will tell you that this is a lie and you can find tons of interesting women. Yeah, it can happen, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:18 AM
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You're talking about stories developing more than a century ago with rigid social rules among the rich. The point was depicting the poor side as liberating from those stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:17 PM
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You're missing the point. 50 Shades is literally female (sexual) fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:07 PM
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I'm the manager of various restaurants in different spots of my city. I know what I'm talking about. Yeah, more women are open to pay the bill, some of them even fight with the guy for it... but it's nowhere near to balance things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:03 PM
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Good lord... Life is more complex than "just do A and B to solve this". Context is important to understand why some people are poor or, in this case, unsuccessful with dating. Yeah, people should work their way out of their misery, but it can take times, tons of effort and even part of your spirit (in a non religious way). In the meantime, you're making sacrifices and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:54 PM
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Pal, Lizzo would win the fattest person contest of 1900 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:48 PM
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Most women dont give a fuck if their friend/colleague/acquaintance is overweight, because why would we? Its not like their weight affects us Good way to summarize that women are selfish and egocentric. We actually CARE about our buddies and tell them to hit the gym because we want to see them thrive. It doesn't affect us, but we know how damaging is being fat. Confidence doesn't come from thin air and pretty words. It comes from effort and self development.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:45 PM
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Because when men talk about a problem, they're looking for a solution. So unless there's some health issues, it's always the correct answer to provide a solution. Watch what you eat and exercise more. Added bonus of making you healthier on top. That reminds me the difference between men and women when talking about their problems. With men you offer a solution and that's ok. With women it leads to frustration because they just want to complain and being listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:39 PM
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I mean men HATE fat women Bullshit. What we hate is being pushed to be sexually attracted to fat women, in the same fashion women hate when incels cry about women don't desiring them. And men won't have a body positive movement because we know it will change nothing. Society doesn't give a shit about men struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:35 PM
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Oh, I love Reddit and its parallel universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:20 PM
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"Why are you poor? Just work, LOL" The rich
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:18 PM
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Depending who you ask. I believe the sweet spot for average dude who work on himself is between 30 and 35. MAYBE it can be extended to your 40s, but I don't think it gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah, and I can theoretically become Mark Zuckerberg before 30. You're just spilling bullshit. Most men CANNOT peak in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:43 PM
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as the male ideal life It's ideal as you get older, not for men in their 20s. No, one will ever sit here and convince me jumping from relationship to relationship to relationship constantly is healthy behavior. It's healthier than dealing with older women or being alone, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:43 AM
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It could be the case that the reason you are more outgoing is because of your privilage as a woman. You don't have to deal with nearly as many people being immediately hostile to you as a potential male version of you would have to. I was about to say this. Women being more "emotionally intelligent" it's just because they have a free pass in social circles, not because some kind of nature. Women without social lives are weird as fuck and scared of every interaction. They're more pathetic than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:21 PM
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I've never had this problem in my long term relationships because I screen for women who are highly attracted to me from the jump. Oh, but women here love to say that "boyfriend material" is sUpeRior to "hookup material"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:37 PM
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Well... Let's say I don't buy everything sold by both sides, despite I consider myself redpilled, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:31 PM
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The most attractive guys are the ones who hook up the most in college, it would not be men who are hardworking. You missed the point. Basically, you can't see what is behind "chad", you only observe. But that's ok, those men don't usually explain their process with women, they have their bros for that. You see "chad" the same way resentful incels see them: from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:07 PM
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As a man with "Chad" friends and father, I have my doubts. Another dude answer you about how getting a good body is not easy. But I can also say that developing the emotional intelligence to deal with women isn't easy either, and that's not a thing you're born with. Good looking men aren't Gods, they have mental issues, insecurities and can't read minds. They also face rejection. "Chad" is not born, they just have the tools, adequate circumstances and enough drive to deal with life in their teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:03 PM
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You've never met a hot dude, right? I mean, on a personal level. Having a pretty face/hot body is not enough to get a high N count as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:42 PM
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isn't going to change that I don't pretend to change anything. I just don't want to be sold the idea that "oh, dating at your 30 is a better deal".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:33 PM
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It’s nice to have the strength to say “nah I’m just not feeling it” and not see someone again. Nice like the boring adult routine, yeah. Maybe it's because you have bad experience in you youth, but I miss excitement of those days, even if I didn't get the best of that time. Now everything is awfully predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:15 AM
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Bruh, you really need to think about how people grow and change That's the point of growing together. A lot of my single 30s friends, men and women are finally getting their shit together enough to pursue something “forever” Yeah... that's bullshit. As we get our shit together, we get more comfortable alone. It's not just women, men also can turn less enthusiastic. Dating at 30s is boring as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:06 AM
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There is a difference between finding a life partner at your early 20s and then growing together, and finding a "life" partner from your 30s. No, thanks. Life is too good to become a second table's plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:50 AM
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Those men usually live with that and focus on other thing in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:35 PM
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Then what accounts for all the guys who say they can get hook ups with girls but then complain those girls never want to be in a relationship with them? It doesn't work 100% of the time, and for men who don't usually face rejection, it can hit their ego hardly, so they amplify the experience while failing under the effect or desiring what they can't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:33 PM
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Hook-up material usually don't need a relationship to the point women need a coping mechanism to deal with them. Boyfriend material try for whatever means to become the first guy, even if it's for the sake of having an easy time finding a girlfriend. Make your conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:26 PM
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A woman in her late 20s and 30s is probably more likely to love their partner because they have a more concrete understanding of who they are and what personality traits and values mesh with theirs vs the more fleeting infatuation and shallow traits sort out by very young adults that are still finding their feet. Bullshit. Men in their 30s can confirm how lackluster women are at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:13 PM
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Because you should just wait to modern women to magically approach you, otherwise is predatory. Predatory in ☕: Know your place, loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:10 PM
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The friendzone is full is naive guys who bought this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:15 AM
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You can have amazing sex with a guy who worships the ground you walk on Yeah, princess, wait for the red carpet 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:35 AM
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Apparently women met more men who punch holes in wall than men themselves. And then they ask why we think they like assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:18 PM
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"Only 20% of population is unemployed" People underestimate the implications of these percentages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:06 PM
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Don't feed the troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:03 PM
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Ok, you're living under a rock. Let's ignore the body positive movement and how men are evil for "imposing imposible standards" upon women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:04 AM
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Why do men get so pissed that us women like tall guys? Because you literally made a movement in TWO continents with repercussions on big corporations and academia just because men don't like fat women. We wouldn't give a shit if our preferences weren't labeled as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:18 PM
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Women lead in this type of work and initiatives because women are actually the people who "lead, protect, and provide" for their communities. This sub is hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:35 PM
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What in the 9 hells would I want a hyper masculine man for? Even just thinking about such a relationship is mentally exhausting, we'd be competing all of the time. I doubt he'd be able to see me as a complementary equal the way my current lover does...if anything, a hyper masculine dude would likely think I'm trying to usurp him. And to be fair, I would be to some extent because 2 masculine personalities do not mesh well in a long-term relationship. Now you understand why many men hate the curre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:02 PM
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They would have SEX with you DESPITE having a boyfriend, not because of it. Especially since, depending of the context, it gets harder to find a good single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:03 AM
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I can cherry pick horrible things feminists say too, and many men do that so I bet you don't believe when they say that women want to kill men and all of those stuff. The manosphere has a cesspool of assholes and sick dudes, that's not a secret, but that doesn't also mean that you should demonize lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:34 PM
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Men standards are on floor literally Dude, no. I'd rather being a monk than fucking a ugly woman. Some men may fuck them, but nothing else. You're overestimating the desperation of certain dudes. Men have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:23 PM
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“The government should give me a 19 year old girlfriend. Women are horrible people. Today I saw an ugly woman with a handsome boyfriend so I punched a hole in the wall. Women who aren’t virgins are horrible”. I love when cherry picking is so blatant 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:12 PM
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Three options: He is a teenager 2 and 3: He actually don't care or he is a retard because it takes 5 seconds to google "pussy anatomy". I refuse to believe that a functional adult man doesn't know how a pussy looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:26 PM
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Which leads me to believe they don't want to They don't care. It's not like the clit is behind some sort of secret passage. It's just dudes don't care about the pleasure of certain women. The "men don't find the clit" meme it's just to make women feel better, because the other option means that they're seem as worthless by the men they had casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:30 AM
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But women are always saying that men don't know how to find the clit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:21 AM
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Men high N count Isn't seen as a red flag because IT REQUIRES ACTIVE EFFORT Women have a hard time understanding how this "double standard" comes from. Men can't just get naked and increase automatically their N number. And despite how much women here claim that it's a red flag, the thing is that virgin (and not manslut) is their recurrent insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:48 PM
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Basically the feminist ally equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:36 PM
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Or you have victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:09 PM
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Sort of. But it can happen with men too. For example, many dudes here love to claim that they will have a relationship with an ugly woman with a good personality. Maybe they're no lying, but I'm sure they're picturing a chubby girl or the Hollywood nerd, not the actual UGLY woman. People won't admit their true colors in dating because it's basically full blown discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:30 AM
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Because we're taking about women who ACTUALLY get certain men for casual sex, while claiming that "boyfriend material" is superior. We're not talking about women who can't or don't want to fuck certain guys. Fantasize? Yeah, no issue with that. Meanwhile, most men won't get an IG girl for casual sex, anyway. But if one men manage to do that and then he treats the "girlfriend material" poorly in comparison, then that's awful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:46 AM
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No. I'm literally saying the opposite: Do with your pussy whatever you want, you're an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:21 AM
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as far as the law is concerned As far as law is concerned we shouldn't be having this discussion because legal adults can consent for relationships. you can vote at 18 because you have completed X years of whatever arbitrary education. Rights have nothing to do with arbitrary/enforced education. People can vote because it's a right for every adult citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:18 AM
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Lady, most adults don't even know how to budget and many of them end up as debt slaves. By that logic, we should impose tons of restrictions on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:40 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Women can have sex with whoever they want or don't have sex at all. What women cannot do is pretending to be treated like children or adults when it's convinient. If you want to be treated like children when we talk about sex, then you have to be treated like children for anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:35 PM
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Yeah, but I'm not Harvey Weinstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:27 PM
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Women here love to claim that their brains aren't fully developed until 25 to attack the age gaps. Ok, I will happily stop fucking women under 25 when those women don't have an impact on how we run society. Until then, they're consenting adults
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:29 PM
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being able to vote and being forced to have sex are very different things. By voting you're making a choice that will affect a country, or even the entire world in the case of the US. If women between 18-20, as a collective, aren't capable enough to make their own personal choices about men, then they can't have an impact over the destiny of millions of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:23 PM
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I don't like Andrew Tate, but I'd love to see the backslash to this insanity we're living right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:48 PM
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A 18 or 20 year old shouldn't even be allowed to marry Then, they shouldn't be allowed to vote or any other adult stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:42 PM
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If you read people here: everything is predatory, sinister and has a plot behind. Women here make you believe that you shouldn't be doing anything at all. But then, they don't want to make a move 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:54 PM
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Buddy, I'm an immigrant. After some years you understand why natives don't take certain jobs. We take shit jobs because we have no option and, compared to our homeland, it SEEMS like good money. In the long run it will crush your soul while you realize that the salary isn't really a big deal. You better break the cycle or the cycle will break you. My grandpa (an Italian immigrant) literally crested a factory in the 60s im his early 30s. I'm nowhere near to that. Many people thrive during the pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:56 PM
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Again, I'm not contradicting that. Of course the west is stronger economically compared to other places. The thing is life has become harder. More and more young people are living with their parents, while we're coming from a past where one person could sustain a household... or maybe both parents worked, but both could buy a house. The thing is that forming a family was easier. My dad landed a job in TWO big corporations without a college degree in the 90s. Now go to r/recruitinghell to find ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:20 PM
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I'm not contradicting that, it's just that you're overestimating the prosperity of the US and the first world in general. "Too prosperous and strong"... ehm, we're coming (Venezuela too) from an era when one person could sustain a household.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:05 PM
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I wonder if the women who are saying that the white is the best are the same who say that the "boyfriend material" is the best 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:20 AM
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Now in a country like Venezula As a Venezuelan, you would be surprised about how many deja vu I've had in western capitalism. I'm not saying that western society will become Venezuela, but we shouldn't underestimate how fast a society can decline. Aside social issues, people are struggling with the current economy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:14 AM
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It can be a date... or just chilling with a friend... or she is just taking advantage of you. Context is important. I know a woman who literally invite me to her place for no other reason than chilling around. I enjoy the time, but the first attempts to get close to her didn't get response, so I assume she is just friendly. All those signals you can read on a woman only works on the premise that women are a monolith. Behaviors that can be read as a signal of interest in one woman, can be just no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:54 PM
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I'm not saying "immediately", but (unless you're religious or inexperienced) if you aren't open to some intimacy in a reasonable time, I will think you're just being friendly or not really interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:14 PM
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Women would understand the difference between fasting with food in the fridge and starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:27 AM
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You can weed out guys who just want sex AND guys who thinks that you're not really interested in them. The only kind of guys who can wait forever are those with little to no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:33 PM
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Don’t believe any woman that says that. Unless she’s extremely religious AND always had been for her entire life, she’s not that interested if she hasn’t slept with you within 3-4 dates. This closes the whole point. Something feels strange when a woman have sex easily with a guy, but makes wait the "boyfriend material". Women here love to lecture about how risky is having sex to them, just to say in another post that they have sex with random dudes because "they don't actually matter" and you sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:29 PM
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Another analogy. When people work their job, they expect a paycheck for their time and their boss doesn’t say: “I thought you were a strong and independent lawyer or whatever?” There is a contract with an specific outcome: money = job. In dating, there is a POSSIBILITY of an outcome. Like an employee pays, and then I claim that he is not entitled to me doing a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:13 PM
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No. It's because women have a free pass for doing stupid shit now, while in the past their behavior was deeply judged. Maybe, because they're risk adverse, you don't usually see women doing dangerous stupid shit, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:58 PM
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Exactly. Dudes won't fuck anything, that's a lie. There were even jokes about you have to be drunk to fuck the ugly chick in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:00 PM
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Fishing/hunting with some enormous fish or deer It must be an American thing, lol pics with beers in their hand with friends, ugly closeup selfies, etc. I realized the equivalent: shitty social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:48 PM
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Yeah, the same way I have a job and average people have a job. In the past, people could land a good job without jumping through an obstacle course, companies didn't rely on tons of online applications. You can get a job whenever you want today, yeah, but most are just shitty jobs which most people wouldn't take if they could survive otherwise. Same happens with the dating scene, but as men won't die without pussy, many won't approach shitty women despite how desperate they might sound here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:42 PM
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Try to gaslight whatever you want. Feminists have being fighting for DECADES the concept of masculinity, deemed as toxic, so last generation of men grew up with that idea in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:48 PM
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As someone once said "pictures of her smiling with equally hot but not hotter friends, a picture of her outside with a meal, a picture of her sipping from a glass, a picture of her with golden foil numbers balloons on her birthday, a picture of her in a foreign country with sunglasses, a picture of her in a bathing suit, "I love adventures, travelling and am ambitious". If you've seen one, you've seen em all." What is the equivalent of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:32 PM
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Well... Wasn't the point of feminism to emasculate men, on the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:50 PM
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Women saying "I see average couples everywhere" it's like recruiters saying "I see average people with a job" to gaslight about the shitty conditions of the job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:37 PM
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It's easier to emotionally scam a woman. It's easier to financially scam a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:33 AM
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but there are also a lot more male complete dumbasses than female complete dumbasses. I don't know. In the last years I've seen women doing stupid shit in equal quantities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:30 AM
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Modern women make decisions with logic, reasoning, and analysis. What a fine jokes you read in this sub 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:28 AM
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Just look at the "golden retriever boyfriend" for example. As if "boyfriend material" and "nice guy" wasn't insulting enough, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:44 PM
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You are really underestimating the impact technology is bringing to social dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:27 PM
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So, saying an object is superior to women is bad... but saying an object is superior to men is ok, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:23 PM
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Perfection doesn't exist... for anything. We have to adapt to what we could get on a given moment. Does that means we have to "upgrade" a partner once we reach our peak? No, if both sides adapted properly to live together (that's what a relationship means, after all). Besides, it's pretty narcissistic pretending to wait for the winner on the finish line as if you were some kind of big prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:41 PM
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How bold of you thinking that YOU are the best a man can get at his peak, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:39 PM
1

If I saw someone fix their own phone i wouldn’t ask if they fixed it themselves. I’d say “wow I could never do something like that. That a great skill to have” What a minefield you put on yourself, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:24 PM
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We have literal newspapers talking about old women loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:05 PM
1

Yes. It seems like guys here thinks that a "ugly" woman is a plain Jane, a chubby girl with a cute face or the typical Hollywood nerd. A ugly, a really UGLY woman is someone you can't even see to the eyes, not because you're nervous, but because she's repulsive. She needs a really outstanding personality to minimize this repulsion. And probably because of this, most men don't even realize how an ugly woman can be, because they're invisible at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:37 PM
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There is a significant chunk of women who (especially after age 45) even if they have offers of moving in or marriage, decline them but because they value their independence more (often they've already had a marriage or a series of long-term relationships or both). It's easy to make a choice WHEN YOU HAVE A CHOICE. Many women can decide to have a partner... and then decide to being alone because they got tired of the first choice. Women who can't manage to get a partner (because they're ugly, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:35 AM
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It can work on a subconscious level... maybe. Like porn, you're not actually fucking, but you can still get erections.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:37 PM
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I tell them to date that chubby shy chick that would find him a catch, and they reject her immediately. The same way men aren't entitled to women, the "chubby shy chick" isn't to men. They deserve better I will speak for myself: I don't deserve, I want better and I'm working on it. If I don't get better, well... bad luck. There are other things to do in life. even though everyone around them can look and go "Dude she'll make you happier than you've ever been and change your life if you just let …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:34 PM
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EXACTLY! The parallelism between job market and dating market, and how both evolved to worse, is astounding. . Most people have a job... it doesn't mean that the job market and companies recruitment process sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:58 PM
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The issue is that many women generalize men based on top-tier men experience. Feminist is literally a movement of resentment against top tier men because they believe all men are the CEO of Big Corp moving the strings of the world while fucking the secretary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:31 PM
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That remind me of this: https://twitter.com/MrCoolBeans23/status/1211872682288934912?t=45vxzSSDxFc9Lozu7I7kmg&s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:26 PM
11

Not exactly, because guys who are doing too well are keeping women on the app, making other men pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:19 PM
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If I wanna to be gaslighted, I'd write my former boss, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:10 PM
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Well IS IT a joke? Because when women say it it usually is a joke. It is a joke... until it isn't. Radfems don't have enough power to enforce their hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:28 PM
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I think it's a obvious that attractive guys don't enter into my argument. A random woman approaching you in a party is not the regular guy's experience... not at least with a decent woman. In that case is the other way around: woman deliberately take action under certain advices women share among themselves... and the man thinks everything happened naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:58 PM
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You're missing the entire point, so let put an example of a social interaction that comes naturally: friendships. You interact with people and, without realizing, you end up as friends. It comes without a DELIBERATE intention. God, you can even befriend a woman ACCIDENTALLY to the point is a nuisance for many guys. The friendzone meme comes from a situation where guys know how to befriend women, but not how to create attraction. We have material/groups/however about how to make friends, yeah, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:49 PM
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You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:57 PM
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Uhm... I'm friend of muscled up men, I admire them and working on replicate their results, I'm not whining about them, lol. I'm not even complaining about women preferences. My answer comes because you make it seems like building muscle isn't something special, like... everyone can do that? Yeah, and technically everyone can study quantum psychics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:02 PM
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Are you kidding, right? Muscle is one of the most expensive things the body can create. It takes months to see some changes and years to make a significant difference. You need discipline, strong exercise and good diet. It not just eating less and taking a walk around the park, which is what most people need to lose fat... AND STILL most people fail on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:27 PM
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And majority of women dont choose LTR partner by muscles. No. But it helps MASSIVELY with the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:55 PM
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This is like saying that Professional subs and communities are for people traditionally very bad at jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:33 AM
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we should adopt either an Eastern or Middle Eastern model of treating women because the Western model “isn’t working” Funny, because the east has the biggest incel population, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:11 AM
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As RGL137 said, women are not passive, but reactive. "He's giving me signals" is what you said first. And guys usually have take the initiative and read signals correctly to decide where to move. "Escalate" means where to move to increase intimacy. Men are constantly thinking what to do in order to get the appropriate reaction, hence why almost every guy has to ask, at least once, what to do under certain circumstances. Even "chads" have to ask sometimes, especially when they're into a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:07 AM
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When you (as a man) are a teen. You know when boys are girls are naive enough to don't understand what's going on. I had my two first gf ACCIDENTALLY this way. Now, as an adult, I would die dry if I let things happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:57 AM
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To me sex has always been something the two of us are naturally moving towards together, not something he’s “escalating” to or “trying” for. Women are really unaware about how dating process is for men. Nothing "naturally" happens. We have literal subs (no redpill) of guys looking for literal instructions. With time, those instructions are internalized enough to do point you do them without second though. The only place where things happen naturally is in movies... and MAYBE when you're a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:03 AM
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Girl, turn off the phone and touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:55 PM
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The 80s are claiming this argument back. Now it's quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:48 PM
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When I say "being lusted", I mean by women in general. I have being lusted after dealing with the whole dating process... and that's the whole point of this "casual vs boyfriend material" issue. The latter is inferior as he has to work to get what he wants, while the former can expand his options just by showing himself. I don't see my buffed friend complaing that women just want him to fuck. He can be both fuck boy and boyfriend whenever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:42 PM
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Add your name to the list of people Oh, I'm literally shaking. I'm not going to waste my time. You literally cry because some dude stare at you, and then you dare to say that men complaints are "so tiny". I'm leaving, keep talking alone if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:11 PM
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Add your name to the list of people Oh, I'm literally shaking. I'm not going to waste my time. You literally cry because some dude stare at you, and then you dare to say that men complaints are "so tiny". Just... shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:10 PM
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"One person", lol. Literally the fucking government 😂 https://www.reddit.com/r/policeuk/comments/tiz95s/intrusive_staring_is_sexual_harassment/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:00 PM
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How naive of you thinking that the big actors are working towards "gender equality".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:59 PM
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Being "boyfriend material" itself is easy. Almost every guy has been bf of someone, so it means nothing. What all men wants is being lusted because, casual sex aside, it attracts women to your orbit and they do 2/3. My buffed friend just have to drop his IG to find women, both women who just wanted to fuck and women who genuinely cared for him. I can only find the latter... after making sure they know me enough (which obviously takes time). I'm glad to find those women, but it's an inefficient w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:42 PM
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Says the gender which complains because a guy STARED at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:05 PM
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Half-truth. Some guys have genuine insecurity, other don't like some attitudes high N count women have. If a high N count woman doesn't develop those attitudes, her past actually doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:58 PM
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It never occurs to them that women are perfectly capable of making their own adult decisions The only people here who say adult women can't make their own adult decisions are... women, lol. "Muh, b-but the brain doesn't develop until 25"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:54 PM
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You didn't understand. . You said that there are more young women who want to commit than young men. That's bullshit. At best, both gender don't want to commit at all when young. AT BEST. But if I had to bet, I would say more young men are open to commit young than women. But of course, that's not the top tier of young men, so they don't count, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:13 AM
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Especially at the younger ages. This sub never dissapoints me, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:27 PM
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Sounds reasonable. But women here love to pretend that "boyfriend material" is superior to "casual sex material".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:24 PM
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A friend of mine got inseminated with the seed of a 6'4'' blonde, blue eyed 25 year old man with broad-shoulders, a a buff body, and a college graduate from a highly esteemed College I'm fucking tired of seeing so many ugly and fat and short dudes when I go back to the USA to visit my parents. I really love the classism and racism of this woman. Such honesty is really rare around here. I just expect that you're a proud member of the a*yan race.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:49 PM
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Lady... The redpill literally exist because men are crapped on to death. You just can't see that because "muh, men's privileges" and Apex Fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:34 PM
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You're not getting negative words about your ability to get on with it, then. I'd be grateful for that. What the heck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:32 PM
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I've seen ACTUAL PREDATORS (and scammers) pursuing older women because how easy is to deceive them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:32 PM
2

Well it's negotiable until you display a nice guy behavior, Until you being too nice* Sometimes "no" is a "I'd rather lick my own anus then kiss you" and sometimes it means "yes, but I want you to try harder than this" I'm an adult. It's "no" or an enthusiastic yes. It's quite annoying trying to guess what a certain action does mean, especially in this time and age where you have to watch your step with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:32 PM
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True, but female attraction is, in fact, negotiable. Fuck, no, haha. It gets to the point that the general advice is if she says "no", then move on. You have nothing to do there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:54 PM
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The analogy point is that women don't know how to "fish". It doesn't come from a vacuum, but from the fact that men following women advices are condemned to failure. It gets to the point where you can even give a woman the literal control of your dating profile, only to watch her fail miserably. Women DON'T KNOW what happens in the background. From their perspective, things "just happened" while the man had to move every single string to make things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:49 PM
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They literally get fucking DEPRESSION.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:40 PM
2

This. I would love to see how both looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:39 PM
2

An autopsy of a Muslim and a Christian would not reveal any difference. Other than the skin color the corpse of a black and white person would be the same. Wrong. Bone structure is different and black males are well known for having more testosterone and muscle-building (aka, they can be stronger). Muslims are a cultural and diverse group. In that case we can see the cultural differences, which are becoming prominent recently because of the World Cup. My point is that, the same way man are woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:04 PM
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Well race and religion doesn't make people more dangerous but being male does? Why? Because strength? Predisposition? Because both can be applied to black people and Muslims, anyway. It's so stupid that, when you have prejudices against men, you're ACTUALLY having prejudices against black people and Muslims too. Also more men are killed by men than women so please be careful out there yourself. "Also, more black people are killed by other black people than white people" Jesus, it's amazing how y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:02 PM
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Insecure men don’t go after young women. They go after women past their prime because that’s all they think they can get. Correction: insecure men got after older women because they're EASIER to deceive. It's laughable when people here say that younger women are more manipulable vs older women who know how to spot red flags. Bullshit! I've met actual predators who go after older women because they can sell commitment to women who have a hard time to find it. The sweet spot to them are older wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:11 PM
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Lastly, I haven’t seen this mentioned. It’s that as you age, the good matches get paired off and married. Specifically family values. Say you want to start a family, By say 30, most good family minded women will already be paired off. You have to look for younger women not already paired off who match your values since that’s when they aren’t taken off the market just yet. It’s as simple as supply gets crappier as you age. Selection bias. This! People here ignore the fact that, when you finally …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:56 PM
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Almost all of the women I know in their 30s, 40s and 50s are in great shape, have their own money and are heaps of fun Ok, that make me laugh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:33 PM
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Well, my dude, unless you are Jesús Fucking Christ or Buddha himself, most people expect at least some courtesy from niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:19 PM
0

??? Yeah, men can't have preferences, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:54 AM
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Women evading accountability is a literal meme and we have a WHOLE FUCKING MOVEMENT claiming some kind of force (patriarchy) for all bad things happen to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:44 AM
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Young women are real, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:38 AM
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The assumed premise with these posts is that the amount of beauty possessed by younger women is so much greater than the amount possessed by a women in, say, her mid 30s It is. Why do you lie yourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:24 PM
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Your mistake is thinking that a sane man will marry a 20yo woman in his 40s. Nope. At that age, the only sane option is being alone with occasional fun with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:14 PM
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"Would you ride a pegasus and travel the world, having amazing adventures without worrying about airports?" This is how the question sounds. What you're asking is basically if dudes here would wife up the perfect woman. It's not the woman having sex with other dudes what gross out most men. It's the POTENTIAL effects that promiscuity can make on a woman (and men, but that's another story).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:30 PM
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What experience? Being pumped and dumped until the point you're a single mom. Sure, enjoy the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:16 PM
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So... Your friend is a right wing, and somehow you think right wing = red pill, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:15 PM
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Lady.... You're the bottom of the barrel, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:37 AM
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Exactly. We're not that complicated, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:14 PM
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You have a point, but that perception doesn't exclude guys who want a genuine connection with a woman. Guys are told that they have to be upfront about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:44 PM
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Oh, but we're usually told that befriending people and then wanting something else is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:24 PM
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What I meant if that what you said actually happened with H**ler, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:11 PM
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So a counter example would be, someone who is viewed as a big war criminal who wants to take over another country. That person would be admired by men and thus women too. What that person is doing isn’t really making the world better but because he’s admired/fear/respected by many he’s going to be seen as attractive. "Example", lol. I see what you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:36 AM
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“I’ll take anyway” “I don’t care about makeup / body hair etc” If the woman is gorgeous per se, yeah, lol. Most dudes only think about pretty women, underestimating ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:58 PM
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That’s true but the hypocrisy here is that men say they don’t care about imperfections like saggy boobs or stretch marks or pubic hair and that they’re way more forgiving than women when it comes to appearance. For sex* Men usually have high standards for anything else. But any women that’s not a 10/10 model or doesn’t have perfect perky boobs or isnt hairless from the eyebrows down gets bullied and attacked by men Welcome to the internet. People (women too) are assholes when they're anonymous, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:32 PM
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Shes still painfully attractive Her make-up weights more than the paint in my bedroom, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:26 PM
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Unless you're a monk or asexual, it's extremely difficult to have confidence while being a virgin after 25 (or even before). Its not just the sex itself, but how you interact with women in general and it can be subtle at times, sometimes really evident. And it becomes harder to hide as you grow older and women expect you to know how the game is about. Jesús, I even remember having sweating hands in college when holding a woman. You don't control that shit. But after sex, the difference has been …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:56 PM
1

That's why nice guys end up into the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:01 PM
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Good question FOR WOMEN. We're tired of being told that being nice is attractive or "boyfriend material", lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:44 PM
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Lack of experience can't be hidden once the action begins, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:21 AM
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and for her to just be cool. Oh, she will be absolutely fine with you being a virgin. She just won't have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:16 AM
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If there is a possibility, go to a GOOD prostitute. Lack of experience is impossible to hide once you're fucking. I can't just imagine how awkward it could be once she realizes you're a virgin. I would love to say that you may find an understanding woman with little to no experience. No gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:14 AM
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As most men aren't worth the sex, most women aren't worth the relationship. That doesn't mean that women don't want sex and men don't want relationships. But let's be real: as most men don't know how to fuck, most women don't know how to be an interesting partner. The only thing that keeps the gender dynamics unbalanced it's the primal urge we men have for sex and most of us can't control that properly. As most men can't get casual sex on a regular basis, or pay for a prostitute, they desperatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:42 PM
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The thing is, as a single with a low sex drive, I still would love to have someone in my life but I absolutely don't want to go through the nightmare that is finding this person and seducing her (which is the just marginally less frustrating than an unfulfilled sexual desire). It would be interesting if men had the same sex drive women currently have, as men have to initiate almost always.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:12 PM
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That doesn't make the bar higher, but more specific. Just go outside and you will find a woman whose values coincide with yours (or, at least, you won't have conflicting values). Average dudes can get a girlfriend with more or less difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:06 PM
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Men are settling for relationships because they're desperate for sex, and then they're complaining. They created the mess they're in. Men are complaining because it's hard to get regular sex, not because they're settling. Women have a really high idea of themselves because of men's horniness. But if men weren't giving a shit about sex, they won't even bother. Most women aren't worth the relationship the same way most men aren't worth the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:01 AM
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I'm not going to feel sorry for an adult who can't even ask for what he really wants. Everyone want things that can't be realistically get done. If both genders were honest about what they REALLY want, humanity will become extinct from bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:29 PM
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Are most men asking for casual sex instead of relationships? No, but that's the point. They know they have more chances asking for relationships. Getting casual sex on a regular basis requires a set of attributes, some hard to cultivate (charisma, muscle, sometimes money), others you have to be born with (physical appearance, like height or facial structure). You have to be outstanding in certain aspects to the point a woman will make an exception for you (breaking all the rules she built around…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:54 PM
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The sex bar is waaaaay lower than the date bar lol If that were the case, most men would be having casual sex instead of getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:06 PM
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Not with a 30yo woman and family plans. Child free men maybe won't have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:57 PM
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just that those are the parameters that would make us interested in a sugar relationship Everyone would be interested in receiving money/gifts/travels for doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:54 PM
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Really, some women are this delusional 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:34 PM
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I think lots of women would be open to it if they didn’t have to have sex with the guy. Free money for doing nothing? What a deal, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:33 PM
1

You're basically implying that we are becoming poorer, so we have to look for a relationship with a financial lenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:03 PM
1

This sounds depressing as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:16 PM
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Dude, we had the easiest pandemic in human history and we saw modern women throwing themselves into prostitution en masse. I laugh when I read how women would thrive and the world will become a beautiful place if men ceased to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:20 AM
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It's funny how we came from annoying conservative idiots to annoying "liberal" idiots when talking about what two adults do in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:04 PM
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Thanks! Fortunately no one was harmed and the problem was settled peacefully after some conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:41 PM
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You really have to know that hiring a hit man is exceptionally rare. Not in my home country. Yeah, I know I'm exaggerating, anyway. But it's funny because it's the top of a sequence of crazy women. why did he dump them? Because he isn't stupid and acknowledged the problems of the age gap for LTR. The younger women were just casual and he made sure to be clear about his position. At his 40s, he reached the sweet spot of enjoying being alone and finding young women to have fun with (not only sex).…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:37 PM
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It's a long story, but let's say my dad dated both older (35-45) and younger women (22-30). When the former were obsessed, paranoic, insecure and liars to the point where one of them involved a hitman, the latter were a bliss, uncomplicated and straight to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:28 PM
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Well, if you're young you somehow proved your own point. You have to be this naive to believe that people can't be manipulated for voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:30 AM
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Older women have much more to offer Yeah, a fucking headache and a hitman trying to kill me. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:59 AM
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Voting... an individual’s choice... don’t involve another person manipulating the situation I stopped here just to laugh 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:56 AM
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because nobody really talks about one-night-stands. This is something worth mentioning, because it changes everything. If we're talking about LTR prospects at mid 30s, then I agree with women here. But ONS (or casual sex) are very different, and even by the sugaring way (the easiest) or your own method, it's possible to make things happen. If both are aware of the nature of the relationship, why should be anybody else's problem? A man looking for eternal love after 35 is a fool. Things gets REAL…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:40 PM
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It doesn't matter. Virgin is used as an insult against men in the same way "whore" is used against women. An insult regarding sexual experience which each gender seems as a bad thing to the other side. Virgin, as a insult, it's a proof of the disdain women have to men with no sexual experience. The same way whore does with promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:14 PM
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You found the sweet spot of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:37 PM
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Ok, Mone, nice joke. You have permission to go outside to play with other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:33 PM
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We say we don't want single moms, but you respond saying that we're lying because we ACTUALLY want to prey on them as they're vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:31 PM
1

Nah. I'm half-way to that. But it's quite funny to see the classism in your answer. Many women are so convinced that their status is THAT important to men, that finding out the truth is hilarious. Yeah, it can be relevant, but not the way women think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:29 PM
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"How dare you to date those peasants?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:13 PM
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She's living under a rock, presumably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:08 PM
0

Well... the same way women harvested some hypocrite benefits from feminism, men are doing the same. That's why TRP motto is "enjoy the decline".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:51 AM
-1

No one is forcing them to pay Sure a lot of those women in OF are being forced into prostitution 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:42 AM
2

I'm tired of men on the internet making their rock-bottom standards MY fault and MY problem. It's YOUR PROBLEM. Go outside and touch some grass? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:31 AM
1

This a concept most women will never grasp. Besides the fact that they can get company whenever they want. Thirst can bring desperation in desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:27 AM
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This a concept most women will never grasp. Besides the fact that they can get company whenever they want. Thirst can bring desperation in desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:25 AM
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I don't know. It's actually easy to spot the sexual tension (or lack of) from a compliment. To those women saying that men complimenting each other would help... it depends. A man's compliment over appearance(*) is meaningless. We know that and that's why we don't compliment on that. But we actually compliment on other things, more related to skills, and we do it a lot. (*) Unless you're a gym bro, in that case you're complimenting the skill and discipline to develop such physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:18 AM
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but actually seek them out bc they are more vulnerable and easy to abuse. Men are predatory if they want women, or secretly predatory if they don't want them 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:58 PM
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What's the point of these questions? We ALL know here that women can say one thing and do the opposite. I've met fit guys in their 40s with no problems getting women in their 20s (they also get women in their 30s and 40s, for those speaking about "predatory" and blah blah blah). You won't find the answer you want here. But relax, there are enough women who don't think that a age gap of four hours is big enough or that 22yo is being a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:20 PM
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As a straight guy... I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:51 PM
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BOTH genders have been historically object of admiration since ancient times. Just look at NAKED statues and paintings. Both can be equally attractive in their own way. Unfortunately a combination of capitalism, Christianity, men horniness and homophobia made women's bodies an exclusive object of consumerism We had statues of literal naked dudes on public squares for the admiration of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:55 PM
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I agree with the title, but not with the reasons, lol. After 40 (more or less) it's a headache. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:22 PM
2

It's ironic how much feminists treat women like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:28 PM
2

This. From my dad's stories, I always thought the 90s were the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:34 PM
0

We still don't have true equality to the point where women are allowed to have power. No equality for shitty jobs that keep society moving, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:48 AM
1

I am concerned about if it gets to the point of exclusivity and he requests to not use condoms. You can discuss all the options to prevent pregnancy before getting serious. If condom is not negotiable, that's a respectable choice. Try to see how much he listen your concerns on the topic. If he values you enough, you can find a solution for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:42 PM
2

Won't argue that, as men and women have different perception of value for themselves and the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:02 PM
2

She didn't make me play by a different set of rules. That's important. Quite important. I don't mind a woman with a hoe phase IF she doesn't make rules for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:59 PM
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I have never used a man for sex to hurt them. No, but it sounds like you classify them as inferior compared to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:44 PM
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Why do you assume I care how the men view it? I have been sarcastic. Most men don't mind if you rank him below "boyfriend/husband material" and just use them as fuck toys. Actually, it's quite the opposite. Most men don't like to be the "boyfriend material" when a woman has a "fucktoy material".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:42 PM
2

they're only useful as fuck toys. That's terrible /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:32 PM
1

And this is why TRP exist, to warn men in their 30s to this kind of traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:29 PM
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The same dangers women claim about being a housewife... magnified by the emasculating effects of staying at home all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:45 AM
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Easy mode is tempting, but I couldn't live that way without considering its dangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:15 AM
1

Literally a man maid, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:51 PM
4

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:54 PM
8

For sex? No, quite the opposite. For LTR? Ha! Women swear they can hide it, but the same way most of them "smell" insecure guys or virgins, it's possible to notice when a woman has been promiscuous. It's pretty rare when a woman can effectively hide it. Sometimes the guy himself is pretty naive/desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:52 PM
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By incel meaning "involuntary celibates"? Yeah! Many men don't approach because shyness and/or being afraid of finding a minefield. But if you mean those angry idiots which nothing to offer... then nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:38 PM
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I was using AshookaNaga's logic The logic is about demands, not about what actually happens. If women can make demands about equal distribution, men can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:33 PM
1

Ok, that made me laugh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:56 PM
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By this logic why should women shave legs and arms if a man does not? Why should she dress up, wear some make up, heels, waste couple of hours on beautiful feminine long loose hair and her looks? If a man does not. Since you insist on 50/50 on dates a woman can also, like a man, go to a date with him unshaved everywhere, including upper lip, with simple jeans and tshirt/sweater, no make up. And if they start dating and have sex why should she waste tons of money on sexy and beautiful lingerie if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:55 PM
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So, should I pay full bill because some idiots don't split the chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:49 PM
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You make the rules, we play the game. Praising to promiscuous men have its roots in women's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:08 AM
5

Thank you for such accurate answer about how you don't understand men. Next participant!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:13 AM
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And the ultimate: gaslighting men after obviously toxic behavior. The favorite on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:52 AM
3

Maybe, but we know most women have a difficult time understanding why men are praised for getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:08 AM
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The same way men aren't entitled to sex, women aren't entitled to relationship. No, it's not immoral. You don't have to be upfront, just don't promise romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:07 AM
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Your premise is bad because it ignores the context and social implications. You're just taking two unrelated stuff because one is an easy thing and the other is a difficult thing to do. Novadina analogy is also bad because It implies a tool which anyone can use for cooking... as if men could get sex just by buying a "slow cook". My premise is that we have THE SAME END with two different and NON-INTERCHANGEABLE routes to get it. The Key and Lock analogy can be problematic, as I don't think women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:54 PM
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Guys are constantly beaten over the head with height requirements so lots of them will figure a taller woman must want a really tall guy. So maybe guys figure that if you are 6’ then you would never date a 5’10 guy? This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:05 PM
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Is a slow cooker a “bad lock” because it makes cooking too easy? Should we shame people for cooking that way? And praise people who cook a harder way? Bad analogy. A better analogy would be something like a chef who makes an elaborate meal VS someone who can get said meal at request.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:59 PM
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Let put it this way: What a man does need to get laid? What a woman does need to get laid? The answer to both questions summarize everything. We may argue if we should shame women for being promiscuous, but women can't pretend to have the same treatment men gets when they do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:31 PM
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So? Leave them alone, hopefully the cougar fantasy will die that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:06 PM
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This. A woman was honest enough here: it's all about MEEEE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:06 PM
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Not much difference between me and a lady his own age. Predator, huh No, actually. Not much difference. Both old, lol. .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:03 AM
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Not really when good prostitutes are expensive and cheap prostitutes are dangerous. It's helpful when you're too horny and with no time to game around. But it won't help you to get sex on a regular basis, unless you have plenty of money (which you can use to leverage your game, anyway). I actually believe that VR and sex robots will change the sexual power dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:56 AM
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As if a 27yo is gonna be quite different from a 30yo guy. But you do what you want, better have crazy filter out themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:42 AM
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You're trying to rationalize when most women here come in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:40 AM
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30yo is THAT old? Good lord. At this point, a predator will be a man 3 hours older 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:39 AM
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Exactly. That paragraph is a good picture of our empty society. Like this girl here saying that now we can have an "Instagram feed to be proud of"... C'mon! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah, I know women despise the gender roles and this is a fantastic state of things. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:09 PM
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but there are plenty of feminine women left in the West if you know where to look, friend. Yeah, but most of them have partners, precisely because they're few and most men have an inherent interest on them. And to be fair, "they" are trying to kill masculinity and that's also working, albeit probably not as well or as rapidly. Agree. For one side because feminism convinced many men that masculinity is unappealing. On the other side, masculinity is a set of values hard to cultivate, neccesary for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:07 PM
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Like what? Why do you find interesting women while "most" men lack of personality? Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:54 PM
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Maybe I just know more interesting women than you, because that describes only a small percentage of the women I know 🤷‍♀️ Funny you say this after stating that "most these days don't even really have much of a personality outside of social media, video games, porn, and sports"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:51 PM
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If anything, you're less secure, because now there's two people who need to stay employed to avoid hardship instead of just one. Some people are literally waiting for their parents' death to take the house, because property is absolutely unaffordable now. The prospect of a stable life is currently non-existent and people are just filling the void with "porn, videogames, films and streams" (quoting OP).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:45 PM
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Pressure or just lack of spine to tell grown-up women to get a life? The only pressure you get to support a woman from your family is when we talk about mothers... And I would agree, including fathers too and depending of how good they were as parents. But my sister? HA! She fortunately doesn't believe I have to pay for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:52 PM
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They already know they aren’t wanted by men if men aren’t even approaching them in the first place so why would ugly women approach those men lmfao Because you have to try something instead of just waiting for charming prince? Men won't approach ugly girls, but sometimes they can appreciate other traits. Into the radar of women that are way out of their league. Leagues are skewed and doesn't mean anything. Men give their shot, sometime works, sometime doesn't. It's part of the game, but I know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:43 PM
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Ehm... The question in supposed to be a meme for entitled bitches with a shopping list for men. You don't actually ask that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:13 PM
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Men feel it's hard to get women because ugly women don't make any move. Women here say that ugly (or even average) women are invisible to men as a counterpoint to how average men are invisible to women. But at least men try to get into the radar. Men won't actively look for ugly women... but who know what could happen is an ugly woman makes a movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:39 PM
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Nothing. Feminism made that all the outstanding traits women had simply became extinct. Now women just become... people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:32 PM
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i find dating men to be far more exhausting than dating women Why? People usually say the opposite, especially bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:14 PM
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Oh, I know. You're talking about an inconvenience (taking the initiative in dating)... and of course an inconvenience is a "man's job".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:08 PM
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It's the man's job I love it when "it's the man's job" when said job is inconvenient. The same with feminism wanting top office jobs. Shitty jobs, which keep society functioning anyway, is "the man's job".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:56 PM
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Women pursue men they want pretty aggressively Yeah, a 9 or 10 in looks, otherwise we wouldn't have this meme of how men don't get signals. I only have seen this aggressiveness on my buffed friends, those who inspire the raw desire which is part of TRP narrative. The "boyfriend material" doesn't get this kind of aggressive treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:52 PM
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Dude, I've worked in hospitality. You would be sick of watching how creepy older woman treat younger men. I had this friend, 19yo, small to the point he looked like a child. Older women don't give a shit as we don't have social rules (and sometimes even law itself doesn't work) against female pedos. And yeah, it happens more frequently from older men to younger women. But people always ignore that older women can be absolutely gross too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:39 PM
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maybe we should copy them and write daily PPD posts about how 30+ balding wrinkly male whales are post wall, repeat how ugly we find fat older men like 10000 times, and speak for all women about how we want to fuck young hot masculine pool boys. I literally see this kind of post every week, wtf? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:28 PM
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Active listening. Not listening to respond What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:48 AM
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Women should be more honest about our physical preferences too, you'd be surprised we don't love old, balding, promiscuous men with emotional baggage either. but they'll be screeching we're shallow, horrible and unsupportive if we so much as mention it Pretending that women aren't vocal about these preferences is laughable. In any case, you're not honest about other things (like this "boyfriend material" bullshit).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:48 PM
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So, women between 18 and 24 are children. Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:46 PM
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They literally made a political movement to shame men for no liking obese women. Now liking healthy woman is predatory 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:42 PM
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Average women have plenty to offer Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:24 PM
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Then, don't say they don't have a problem with that..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:18 PM
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In men the first, in women the latter. Men don't need virgins, women need beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:15 PM
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if you want and get a virgin, good for you. Yeah, let's pretend women here don't say that wanting a virgin is predatory 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:00 PM
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We live in the best times for society. Sure, when most people can't even afford a living and the perspective for the future is so bad to the point that they're deciding to not have children. But yeah, when you are privileged you will say this is. "The best time". Yeah, the best time to run away and enjoy the decline inside your tech bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:57 PM
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In 2022 you can now be proud of your cultivated Instagram feed. The absolute state of our empty society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:42 AM
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I hope to create a bubble strong enough to endure such disaster. We're living in a dystopia, right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:37 AM
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Sure 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:15 PM
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This user has so many stupid takes that it can't be real, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:43 PM
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Yeah, and keep telling yourself that woman have some kind of moral high ground, and not that you're as shitty as any other human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:05 PM
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Yeah, ATM isn't an object, sure 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:02 PM
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Most (western) men can't fight, are addicted to video games and or porn, don't enjoy same things women do, don't understand the female psyche, don't know how to pleasure a woman on and on What is then is the utility of man to a woman in 2022? Men's servitude hasn't been enacted under the Supreme Feminist Global Government, take it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:14 AM
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As a woman; were you an adult after 18 or when your brain fully developed. She surely didn't vote until her brain was fully developed to... you know, decide over the future of a fucking country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:08 AM
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True, and most men around 26 have figured out all the tricks manipulative women employ. All the bullshit and gaslighting (like this post) becomes evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:02 AM
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Nice horror movie you got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:47 PM
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And instead we're seeing how much happier and satisfying lives are when we do what we want and care for ourselves. That's why the consumption of antidepressant has increased, especially in older women. An absolute sign of being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:39 PM
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Men have preferences, but can't speak about it openly (especially with other women), unless said preferences benefit women somehow (like body positivity).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:23 AM
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An interesting exception. If any guy try to say whatever those songs have, he will be destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:05 AM
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The idea of sleeping with someone with a huge age gap is sexy, I’ll admit. Hell I did it to cross it off my bucket list. It was ok, but again, the conversation part was challenging. I'm afraid of this, as in my late 20s I'm seeing women in their early 20s as immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:16 AM
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Common? No. Anomaly? Either. Women here love to depict 30yo men as balding losers out of shape. Some redpillers also love to depict 20yo women as thirsty girls for daddy's dick. The truth is, at least in my experience and friends older than me, that there is ENOUGH young women who can date a dude in his 30s IF he has his shit together (good shape, groomed, a career, socially intelligent, etc). If you ask me, the limit is around 35. Since that point, you better start forgetting of starting a seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:39 AM
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And it hasn’t actually affected the dating market or made women beg those men for attention, correct? It will be the same with bots. No, but that wasn't my point, I didn't even say that an alternative would flip the dating scene. Prostitutes or sex robots can't substitute real interaction with woman, though they can help with sexual urges. My point comes from the fact that woman can substitute the main INSTINCTUAL reason to be with men (resources), while men can't do the same with their equivale…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:25 PM
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They think prostitutes are "dirty", and feel shame for having to pay money to get sex. Maybe in the US. Where I live (where prostitution and sex is part of the ambience), most men don't care about it. That is why they will also feel the same shame for having to pay money to get a sex robot. No, because this could be done in complete privacy. Some men can feel intimidated by a prostitute because she is a person, so they could feel judged. But why would you care about what you're doing ALONE with …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:48 PM
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Prostitution is the closest thing men have right now and it doesn't seem to change anything Because, despite how many men says that prostitutes are cheaper than dating, that's actually untrue if we're talking about GOOD prostitutes (women who are into the business with all regulations in check). The bottom tier of prostitutes can be as cheaper as a couple of bucks... but I wouldn't look into that for obvious (and sad) reasons. Do you think sexbots ever will be more affordable than prostitutes? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:30 PM
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Did you read the "expensive" part? You can ignore the STDs, you still have to pay hundreds or even thousands of dollars per month to get regular sex with prostitutes. Few men have this option. Besides, despite sex with prostitutes is actually safer than casual sex with random women (at least in countries where it's legalized), most men have a stigma on prostitutes. It is not about the facts, but perception and fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:11 PM
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More women study political science than men. The reason why women aren't talking to you is your blatant misogyny. The absolute state of politics today, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:28 PM
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Same with prostitution: expensive and risky... plus more complications. It's not an option for everyone and, to be honest, if I had the resources to go overseas and living comfortably, I'd be having sex regularly at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:18 PM
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If I was mega corporation with lobbying power I would push feminist lifestyle on to women too and keep milking the cow. Most people are too naive to believe that feminism is actually Feminism ©
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:04 PM
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When I say the "natural advantage" is sex. As men have lost their natural advantage (the ability of getting resources), women still keep theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:51 PM
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It doesn't seem that dating market is much different in countries with legalized prostitution Again: prostitutes are expensive and always carry the risk of STD despite regular checks (e.g. oral is always out of the equation). You can't rely on them for getting sex on a regular, healthy basis. Plus, we'll need a lot of time to pass before sexbots will become widely affordable or even come to the market. Unfortunately. Until then, the dating scene is rigged. The quality of people greatly depends o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:44 PM
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It will change the way men pursue women. Prostitutes are expensive and risky, so you can't rely on them to have sex on a regular basis. Technological alternatives could be expensive too, but eventually will become accessible. Once a man can satisfy himself properly, he doesn't have to throw himself into dating scene with the instinctual need of regular sex, as women now don't have the instinctual need of resources. You underestimate how much this would change the dating scene. Most women are awf…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:56 AM
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The pendulum is on the other side, as women now have the natural advantage in the dating scene (the same way men had it in the past). The only way to balance the dating scene is giving men some kind of easy access to sex through virtual reality or robots. Then, both genders will look for each other for the same reasons (intimacy, romance, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:24 AM
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so they have a more equal footing in dating scene lol. The game is rigged now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:07 AM
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If you lower your standards because you humbled yourself enough to accept it’s your league you’ll act completely normally and no one will be the wiser you lowered anything I'd rather die alone. The only way is self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:49 AM
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Nope. Economy is one the verge of the abyss and we're getting less opportunities than before. We haven't recover from the last recession and now we're getting into a new one. I'm doing quite good, actually, compared to the misery other people who can't even afford living.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:58 PM
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"Everyone is stupid, but me" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:11 AM
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Good lord. Are you living in the 50s? Conservatism is literally shunned in public discourse in the same way stuff were labeled as "satanic" decades ago. People can lose their jobs for ACCIDENTALLY making a "conservative" sign https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/502975-california-man-fired-over-alleged-white-power-sign-says-he-was/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:06 AM
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Modern life is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:54 AM
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It's harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:26 AM
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and in every “virgin” question thread. The virtue signal to male virginity is one of the most laughable things here and shows how women are disconnected from men issues. The same women who complain how men can't make them orgasm, are the same who try to say that inexperienced men are a good thing 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:30 AM
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To tell young men that they don't need women, and that relationships with women will often be a trap for them would be a radical message It's "misogyny". The opposite is "empowerment"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:04 PM
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imagine if suddenly all men on earth stop ''simping'' all at once, give out zero attention on their socials etc. women would lose their minds and they'll see somewhat of (most average ish) men's POV When women try to have the "male experience", they literally get depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:58 PM
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As I told in another comment: this isn't even the case. They can fuck normal dudes, but those dudes had to make big efforts to get sex while women just have to wait to "things to happen". They can't even imagine the struggle normal guys have. And when they try to see how it is with fake male profiles or dressing as a man, they literally get depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:17 PM
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That isn't even the case. They can fuck normal dudes, but while those dudes had to make a big effort, women believed that "things just happened"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:14 PM
1

You're missing the point going to the fantasy territory 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:12 PM
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Women have a difficult time understanding the key/lock analogy because THEY DON'T KNOW how hard is getting sex as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:24 AM
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Apex fallacy. Most men aren't as experienced, and many of the experience they have is about what they COULD get, not what they WANTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:05 AM
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But the men here think that is the dream. Having options is a dream for men. You can say whatever you want about hook-up men, the truth is that those men have a foot inside the door most dude can't even open. Being able to get sex easily means that you can upgrade the relationship or leave it without any drama if you're smart enough. It means having the absolute power over your sex life, instead of depending of luck and the magnanimous concession from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:40 AM
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It's delusional to expect honest responses here. Of course women (and people in general) won't admit a shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:43 PM
1

You look salty for someone "happily married and with a kid" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:07 AM
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They are making promises they know will get them sex and then bailing once they get what they want How do you know that? Men can change their minds, you're not entitled to a relationship because of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:42 PM
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You literally threaten to burn down the US because it was made illegal in some states to have an abortion. Don't picture women as "the best parent". Women would kill their offspring in a glimpse if it weren't so complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:21 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:02 AM
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Not at all. Women raise their sons to be nice, considerate, respectful, gentlemanly, compliant, peaceful, and passive. These are not things that young women chase after. Those are the guys who get ignored. As I said, women are experts rising virgins men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:14 AM
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No. Men had shitty attitudes before feminism. What feminism did was releasing shitty attitudes from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:09 AM
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it’s why “men’s rights” activism has never and will never go anywhere Such cherry picking while most of the current world is the result of men's activism. Men's rights activism is in the same stage early feminism was, being ridiculed, and the conditions both have to deal are entirely different. and why feminism has been as successful as it has in such a short period of human history In the peak of 20th century when EVERYTHING was developing quickly like no other time in human history. Besides, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:04 AM
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Where is the portal to 1950 you're coming from? At this time and age, women are having the same shitty behavior. There’s hardly an abundance of single dads, which shows you just how much men enjoy loving and giving selflessly. Yeah, because women can't run away from the baby while the baby is inside them. Instead, you have to literally threaten to burn down the US because you can't have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:52 PM
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Lady, you're literally spitting bullshit here because of problems solved by men during thousands of years. You can complain about how uncooperative are men to do household's chores and how they must to adapt now, sure. Claiming that men don't solve problems is pure ignorance. Sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:37 PM
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No. Women want their sons to be "nice guys", sweet boys and blah blah blah. Women are experts raising virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:32 PM
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Women on PPD: Women are not a monolith Also women on PPD: You don't think like me, you aren't a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:08 PM
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Women like to help. Totally unbiased opinion 🙄 Women don't give a fuck about being helpful, the same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:45 PM
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Any time men are asked to do something useful they complain and bitch Blame modern, effeminate and deconstructed men. Men has been problem solvers since prehistory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:37 PM
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I'm still unlearning a lot of shit in my 30s. What are you unlearning and why it has been a difficult thing to do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:34 PM
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