LordVesperion Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Tall 31yo black dude from Canada struggling with women - dating apps have been useless lately. Can I DM someone for some looks advice? Imagine how bad the situation is getting when even tall guys have it rough. No shade intended, just calling it like I see it. Honestly, I think dating has shifted back to real life.	/r/seduction	30/07/26 07:50 PM
1	3 dates and won’t do anything more than kiss That's true, it's sometimes a strategy to not appear as a hoe and be seen as girlfriend material, especially common when they're past the age of 30.	/r/seduction	18/07/26 07:44 PM
8	This isn't the way I thought my late 20s/early 30s would be. \| WhereAreAllTheGoodMen This is so crazy it almost sounds like satire 😅 He couldn't make it to rescheduled date because it was check notes raining on his side of the bridge?! 🙄	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/07/26 06:08 PM
0	Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af ngl Where do you go out usually? I mean it's hard in big cities, I'm a typical rugged looking man and I don't get much looks in Montreal but bring me in a smaller city where women love the outdoors and it's another story.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 04:53 PM
4	Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af ngl On dating apps, I just get likes from the bottom of the barrel women so I just completely given up on apps. I get attention from beautiful women in real life.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 04:40 PM
19	Why would a girl agree to a threesome? In the carribean they have these all-inclusive trips, I don't know what they're called. Like you get unlimited alcohol, food etc	/r/seduction	13/06/26 05:40 AM
48	Why would a girl agree to a threesome? My ex was straight but she was down for a threesome, when we had it with a unicorn we found in an all inclusive hotel, she stopped at some point to say: "this the best night of my life" I thought I knew how to eat pussy until I saw that girl eat my girlfriend 😅😁	/r/seduction	13/06/26 05:16 AM
27	How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay? "When I look at you, I'm not sure anymore if I am"	/r/seduction	03/06/26 10:06 PM
34	Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20s One thing no one has mentioned yet is that women are usually way less into hookup in their 30s when they're usually looking to settle down and have babies. Also, women on dating app in their 20s may find you attractive and may hookup with you in real life, but on dating apps their age range is probably narrower, since they're already getting ton of matches they don't need to expand it. (>5 years)	/r/seduction	25/05/26 06:08 PM
37	35 and wasting my life away Just want to note that there is nothing wrong with hanging out with friends, you don't have to be on the grind to find women 24/7	/r/seduction	24/05/26 07:07 PM
1	I Heard A Dating Coach Say That A Woman Making You Wait For Sex Is A Manipulation Tactic…. Depends on her past.	/r/seduction	14/05/26 12:39 AM
5	My biggest problem with dating is that so many men are not equals to me. The problem with these women is they conflate being bitchy and opinionated to being "strong".	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/05/26 01:33 PM
1	If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate? I don't know if that can help you see things differently but words are not the only way to flirt.	/r/seduction	04/05/26 04:48 AM
3	the compliments seem to be endless but yet still single? Funny women are extremely rare, there are just no social incentive for them to be funny. It's not a tool that they need to succeed. She's just like most women who rate themselves a 10 out of 10. If she was all that she would have been snagged a long time ago.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/04/26 04:35 PM
11	Where Are All the Gym Chads? She's at least 35 just by looking how sunburnt her chest is. And did some of you really not noticed there is a filter?! You do understand that your ears don't glitch in real life, do you?!	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/04/26 09:28 PM
-12	Have you noticed a prejudice against you based on nationality in seduction? It's probably only because these guys have more game than you. Most central/eastern europeans are quite reserved compared to their "bubbly" usa-ians counterparts.	/r/seduction	19/02/26 01:53 AM
5	Is grabbing her hand to check out her nails considered flirting? For it to be flirting, you would have to say something that can escalate the conversation. Like "I bet you give amazing back scratches with that" or something like that. Note: as usual, you have to read the room to see if this comment is appropriate for the situation.	/r/seduction	27/01/26 02:29 AM
32	How to pull women on a cruise What kind of women are we talking about? Are there really hot women in their late 20s early 30s taking cruise?	/r/seduction	24/11/25 11:06 PM
3	Had an off day socially, and it threw off the vibe with people I usually click with. Can I bounce back? There's nothing wrong with an off day socially.	/r/seduction	05/11/25 07:03 PM
1	No reply after strong interest the night before? I appreciate your loyalty to your friend, if a similar situation occurs again, pay them a cab or an hotel.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 02:41 PM
27	10/10 Girl At Bar Yeah your initial comment made a bit sound like you could be the jealous type. I think you can recover but you'll need to keep your frame.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 03:04 AM
24	Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice. How are you even questioning yourself if you dated 80 women in a year? Some dude can't even get a match on apps to save their life, let alone a date.	/r/seduction	30/09/25 12:28 PM
1	Preselection demonstrated in a candid vid Who is Marlon?	/r/seduction	16/07/25 10:53 AM
1	How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence? I just want to let you know that this is a great question, looking forward to reading the answers here	/r/seduction	13/07/25 04:10 AM
20	How to remove the guilt of a failed approach You approached, you tried, there is no failure here.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 05:06 PM
26	50 first dates, they all say no "spark" He got 50 first dates, probably doesn't look too bad in the first place.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 02:31 PM
1	"Deep Conversation" is a bad bad idea in early stages with women. I agree and I think it has been a mistake of me recently.	/r/seduction	17/06/25 12:49 PM
1	When other dudes blow you away Stop giving gifts to women.	/r/seduction	24/04/25 04:47 AM
1	What’s a good frequency for texts that “ping value into the void?” If your texts to the same girl constantly "ping value into the void" the frequency should be Zero, my dear friend.	/r/seduction	25/03/25 06:18 AM
-1	How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material? Yeah you're right, I didn't want to sound insensitive. It's just that sometimes you don't know, what if it's the first date, you say you're not looking for anything serious and then things change?	/r/seduction	22/03/25 03:57 PM
0	How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material? Tell them after, problem solved.	/r/seduction	22/03/25 01:27 PM
19	Best Jobs for Maximizing Seduction Opportunities? It's probably the best.	/r/seduction	13/03/25 02:50 PM
10	Best Jobs for Maximizing Seduction Opportunities? Military? Can you explain?	/r/seduction	13/03/25 02:49 PM
1	Where Are All the Good Shanghai Men? Not a single video in this clip is without a beauty filter, that shit is driving me literally insane. The hypocrisy is just off the charts and I can't believe I don't see more comments about this on Youtube and here.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/25 10:43 AM
2	Where Are All the Good Shanghai Men? For me it's the beauty filters: just the first chick is filtered to high heaven, not even a single blemish or imperfection and skin as white as chalk 🤣 If these women looked like this, they wouldn't be searching for a partner lol. And it's like Bill Burr says: men don't call out women for these lies because they want to f*ck em.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/25 10:39 AM
1	Alcoholic beverages are destroying your game, Stop now and have full control over your actions and become a more skilled seducer Great post. Note for guys who plan to stop: after having relied on alcohol for so long, you might suck at first. Keep at it, this shit is like a muscle, the more you work it, the stronger it is.	/r/seduction	27/02/25 09:22 AM
36	You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day. Agree 100% Everytime I'm in a tropical place, I see these old white dudes and women having reddish and leathery skin caused by too much sun exposure. It looks terrible. At the very least protect your face!	/r/seduction	27/02/25 07:55 AM