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LordXerces/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/16 01:04 AM
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Red Pill ExampleLordXerces/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 09:17 PM
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Blue Pill ExampleLordXerces/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 03:18 AM
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Red Pill TheoryLordXerces/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 04:39 PM
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LordXerces/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:45 AM
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LordXerces/r/askTRP12/03/14 06:42 PM
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Blue Pill ExampleLordXerces/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:37 PM
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DiscussionLordXerces/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:36 AM
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Off TopicLordXerces/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:28 PM
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LordXerces/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 12:04 AM
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LordXerces/r/PussyPass25/06/15 07:53 PM
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LordXerces/r/askTRP08/02/14 01:52 AM
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Blue Pill ExampleLordXerces/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:18 PM
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Blue Pill ExampleLordXerces/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:07 AM
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LordXerces/r/askTRP29/03/14 09:32 PM
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This is /r/asktrp, where idiots ask idiotic questions. /r/TheRedPill is the main sub.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 02:30 AM
1

Welcome to the anger phase. Enjoy the contempt and bitterness. Try not to murder anyone. You'll grow up one day, sonnyboy.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:54 AM
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Keep your mouth shut. Be extremely careful making friends. You won't be working in a hospital - you'll be working in an unsecured minefield. Befriend the quiet girl and you'll summon the jealous scorn of the alpha women. Befriend the alpha women and the others will attempt to destroy her. You will become a tremendously rare commodity and not just for sexual reasons. One shred of flirting and the entire workplace will know. Be stoic, show no emotion except superficially, do not share opinions, re…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:25 PM
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SMV is, in essence, the phenotype of success. When evaluating a potential mate, we want to know how successful that person is. Since we cannot evaluate something this complex algorithmically, we sort to heuristics. There are a number of indicators that we process, either consciously or unconsciously. Looks, are an indicator of genetic material. The quality of genetic material is corrolative with success. Better looking men tend to do better. IQ, which is tremendously inheritable, is the primary …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 09:34 AM
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"Her dick was too small"
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:48 PM
4

Define brown.
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:54 PM
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Can't help you unless we know what she told you.
/r/seduction30/11/16 12:31 AM
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He ain't your friend. Ditch the fucker.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 10:47 PM
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I wasn't arguing that the guy should have done otherwise. He handled it perfectly.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/16 05:46 PM
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While I don't see the use of a woman card She knew well that if she had been a man and tossed that burning log into the water, she would have been at risk of getting physically attacked. Since she's not, however, she can do whatever she likes!
/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/16 11:03 AM
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It's easier to feel frustrated or angry towards the things we don't understand rather than the things we do. We all have different interpretations of what The Red Pill actually is, as it's an evolving philosophy, but in my eyes, part of reaching the stage of harmony and acceptance is understanding, and part of understanding a person is the ability to empathize with them. The inability to empathize with and understand women is funnily enough what creates nice guys and sexual failures, much like i…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 12:03 AM
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No such thing as good revenge. You've clearly never experienced the joy of a good revenge.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:29 PM
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It's nothing more than a product of biological hard-wiring. It's not malice, it's not stupidity - it's nature. Take note of the individuals who seem get swallowed into every new "spiritual" trend, whether it be The Secret, astrology, tarot cards or palmistry. Would you characterize those people as lead by the brain or lead by the heart? Does rationality usually dictate their actions or do emotions? Men are thinking creatures with the ability to feel. Women are feeling creatures with the ability …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:27 PM
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But this older boy charmed me away Yep. Pay close attention to the phrasing. It was never something she did, it was something done to her. She was the victim of being charmed. Such a cruel world.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:12 PM
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That's not entirely what I mean. I've seen other online communities who associate themselves with the Red Pill sphere. You can imagine /r/theredpill, only on a different website. The shit I've seen has been pretty fucking atrocious too.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:57 PM
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Being aloof works because your behavior states that you have nothing to prove to anyone. People will often skim over the things that are directly presented to them. When something is acting elusive and hard to get, however, people often automatically assume it is of higher value. It has to be personally sought out. It's a chase, instead of an offer. You're more more likely to purchase something you had to seek out yourself instead of something a salesperson shoved in your face.
/r/seduction19/12/15 03:11 PM
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It can be done. If anyone contacts me it could probably be set up.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 03:07 PM
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There probably are Red Pill podcasts. Question is if there is a podcast related to the Reddit community, which is quite a different community from the other Red Pill communities. I'd be surprised if there isn't one, but I'd be interested in participating if there is not.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:50 PM
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"lol ok" Then move on.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:48 PM
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5'9 isn't a disadvantage, it's a lack of an actual advantage.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 01:43 AM
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I guess in my stoic state I was still in the process of sifting through the emotions of disappointment and frustration while unconsciously and minimally releasing tension. This breach of frame didn't go unnoticed. Pardon me for prying, but I still think the actual cause of your turmoil is still relevant to know here. Were you going through personal issues? Was the hardship in any way caused by the girl? Or was it? Is it breaking frame when one is unable to hide the existence of turmoil? I think …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:30 PM
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Being labeled a player is the best thing that can ever happen to your game. Use that shit to your advantage.
/r/seduction02/11/15 02:53 PM
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There's a large difference between being an adult cry baby and acknowledging your humanity. Biggest issue with your post is that you never disclosed what the emotions you were experiencing actually were. Being stoic does not mean turning your heart into stone. It means that you can accurately assess and prioritize the significance of the things your heart tells you. She asked if everything was okay. Was everything okay? More importantly, was it any of her business?
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:35 PM
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A bald man with a beard and an eye-patch is a man you can trust.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:18 PM
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I don't give more of a fuck about Jlaw than the next man here, but stupidity and oversimplifications ought to have their limits.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:56 PM
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What the fuck is this retardation of a statement? Did you even think before you typed that out? What you are suggesting is that because the world "discovered" that she had a sex life, they all of a sudden lost all respect for her. I saw the leaks, and they simply displayed a normal relationship with her boyfriend. Here's another comment you made below: nobody's gonna be attracted to her personality if they know it's just some slut playing the ditz on camera By your logic, if the leaks showed her…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:19 PM
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One thing is dealing with the shit test, another thing is to prevent people from saying that type of stuff. Sounds to me like you're not radiating enough positivity, and you're making people genuinely upset. It's fine to be full of yourself and to be smug as long as you're making people smile and laugh. If you don't, you just end up being the guy in the room that no one wants to talk to. It's a quick path to social isolation.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:53 AM
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Mudd.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 10:30 PM
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If you're trying to change, you already have the mind of a winner. You're just a little behind schedule.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 03:54 PM
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Lift! Lift! Lift! It will not only make your frame much more imposing, it will also do miracles to your face.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:23 PM
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How glorious is it that every Blue Pill response here completely avoids the actual content, and immediately proceeds to say "lol 4chan tho"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 04:53 PM
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Best answer in the thread.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 07:54 PM
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LTR is negotiable. Marriage is an emotional suicide pact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 05:06 PM
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Then I'd make the assumption that you haven't met a lot of nice women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 06:06 PM
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You don't lift weights to burn calories. You lift weights to build muscle. Race walking isn't going to make your biceps grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 06:04 PM
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Yes. If men who want sex from a woman do not receive sex, they should withdraw attention, leave her alone, and find a woman who will give them sex. That changes everything then. You are saying that if you are in pursuit of a woman and she does not reciprocate, you should move on. That is something entirely different and changes the entire structure of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 05:24 PM
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Race Walking burns more calories than vigorous weight lifting. None of us are lifting weights to burn calories lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 05:22 PM
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I could ask you the same thing about men. And funnily enough, you'd be able to list the exact same things that I will list now. They have consciousness They have memories They have experiences They have personality They have emotions Are we done? No? Okay. You can form bonds with them You can be friends with them You can joke with them You can play games with them You can eat food with them You can have conversations with them You can go on holidays with them You can learn from them You can shar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 04:30 PM
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I would think that, money is all she wants from men. Men have other things, but all she wants is money. No where is she saying men are only good for money. But it is heavily implied, and you would assume that such a woman would be ignorant, bigoted and misandric. In the same way, when you profess "no sex; no attention", people will make the assumption that you are ignorant, bigoted and misogynistic. That's exactly my point. Assume men and women are equal. Good assumption. Women have nothing spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 04:23 PM
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Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 04:05 PM
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What does this mean? Why do people always draw this conclusion. Perhaps it could have something to do with how you phrase yourself. When everyone smells like shit, check underneath your shoe. How would you react if a woman said "men? No money; no attention"? No. I'm saying that all I'm interested in from women is sex. Indeed, you already established that. Women are no more interesting or special than men. I wonder how you'd feel about saying "men are no more interesting or special than women". K…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 03:57 PM
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Because their governments FORCE them to. Provide a few examples of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 03:40 PM
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no sex, no attention. So, you are essentially saying that the only thing women are good for is sex. And you started out so well!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 03:38 PM
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Someone hasn't been paying attention in TRP class.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 02:05 AM
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I like Joe Rogan, but he has a lot of content. Can anyone recommend me some good Youtube videos of him? Clips or JRE, doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 11:46 PM
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The worst part about weed is that is making being bored okay. Stoners will waste years of their lives doing nothing, because boredom will no longer stand in the way of productivity.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 09:47 PM
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This guy right now I swear.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/07/15 02:38 AM
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Yes, I'm a proud Swedish cuckold.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/07/15 12:43 AM
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I don't think you realize how retarded you sound.
/r/TRPOffTopic02/07/15 12:30 AM
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This is something to look up to? Fuck off.
/r/TRPOffTopic01/07/15 09:33 PM
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House MD, True Detective, Breaking Bad.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 09:13 PM
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That would be an issue.
/r/seduction19/06/15 05:17 PM
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There is nothing preventing you from escaping the 20% range. If you make the choice to improve, nothing can stop you but yourself.
/r/seduction19/06/15 04:31 PM
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Mark Manson is the hero we need, but not the one we deserve.
/r/seduction19/06/15 04:31 PM
1

Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:09 AM
2

Moral of the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:28 PM
1

Certainly. I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:21 PM
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The Red Pill openly advocates the death of idealism. It's one of it's main selling points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:36 PM
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I see where you're coming from. I distance myself from it because I think it's simply wrong to intimately associate myself with something I don't fully agree with. In my experience, it's much better to take what you learn and incorporate it into your own personal library of knowledge. That way, I get to be an individual, and not a person with a label.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:33 PM
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What a unique situation, a person's own morality is in conflict with nuances of the law. Alert the presses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:31 PM
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There are underlying tones of spite and bitterness to be found in TRP, but that's a long mile away from what can be called hatred. If TRP existed 50 years ago, it would probably make the front page of men's magazines. We live in a culture where masculinity itself is seen as a problem that needs to be fixed, and where men themselves are seen as problematic. TRP has a lot of issues in itself, but the hatred it gathers is simply a matter of the right place at the wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:29 PM
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That depends on the individual. I personally think that female-on-male rape cannot be compared to male-on-female rape. While male rape is obviously a problem, I do sincerely believe that female rape victims often experience more trauma as a result. Since the two are not really comparable, as men and women function very differently, especially in regards to emotion, trauma and sexuality, it's a difficult topic to discuss, and it requires a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 04:01 PM
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If you go through my comment history, I made an AMA here not too long ago explaining all of my view points. A lot of people found it enlightening, so perhaps you will too. Paging /u/lift_mdfk_lift and /u/protopill too, if they're curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 03:58 PM
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I think the important question here is: Why would he "come forward"? If I was passed out drunk and a woman stuck a dildo up my ass, I would have tried to clear that up personally, not report her to the police. If I couldn't settle the score for any reason, I would probably have said "that fucking bitch ..." and gotten on with my life. I am not suggesting that this should be way to deal with rape. I am suggesting that your comparison is reasonably stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:45 AM
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Nonsense. Sometimes it boggles me how certain arguments are even allowed to escape one's lips without taking just a brief second to even evaluate what one is about to say. Every single person uses "techniques", not only in dating, but in daily life. The extreme majority of men who are currently on the sexual market will utilize techniques they have learned to improve their odds of getting laid. While there is an imbalance, the same can be said for women. Should I be spiteful towards women becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:38 AM
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We're not talking about beliefs, we're talking about behavior. And to profess that humility is a universally desired trait in sexual interests does not only suggest that you strangely believe that everyone is like you, it is also relatively false. While I'm not a Red Piller, I've explained my stance on gender dynamics to women before, and the response has been increased attraction. The Red Pill is not a study on what HolyGhostof300 wants, it's a study on what women want. And if you'd also like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:29 AM
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What distinguishes a naturally desirable/masculine man from a Red Piller? Do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:23 AM
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Look for a deeply submissive girl. They are rare, but exist.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 10:49 PM
2

Do you want a fucking cookie?
/r/askTRP23/05/15 09:57 PM
1

And what is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 05:41 AM
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np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/337ieb/the_red_pill_changed_my_life_i_later_abandoned/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 01:47 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/337ieb/the_red_pill_changed_my_life_i_later_abandoned/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 01:36 AM
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It's an interesting place to be as an ex-TRPer. To me, both sides are equally right and equally wrong in most regards, so it's cool to shed a little light on matters from an outside perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 12:44 PM
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Wow, holy shit, what a story! It's almost hard to believe. Incredible!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:47 PM
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I'm not actively looking to fuck with people's emotions, regardless of the relationship I have with them. If I'm dating a girl, I'll tell her the truth. If I'm selling a package, I'm not looking to deceive the customer. It'll probably just end in reclamation anyway. If she's not okay with it, then that's fine. Plenty of more fish.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 01:06 AM
2

I agree, your philosophy is equatable to something that came out of the mind George W. Bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 07:34 PM
4

Missing the point or purposely avoiding it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 06:39 PM
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Cute. The assumption that there is nothing in between. Then again, it's common for someone sucked into a fundamentalist ideology to make that type of statement. Either you're a Red Pill fuck-machine or you're a butthurt, beta doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 05:51 PM
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One of the biggest issues of people who bathe in detrimental fundamentalism is the assumption that every person is alike. This is particularly evident in those who have barely begun to grasp TRP. If you had bothered to take a minute to check who I am, you'd be aware that my experience with TRP pre-dates yours significantly, and you could have avoided making yourself look like a fool. Too late for that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 03:27 PM
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I don't think you quite realize who you're talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 02:38 PM
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That must be quite the dark, depressing world you live in there. I almost pity you, but then again, I'm sure you've your own ways to see a glimmer of light through the cracks in the darkness, here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 02:21 PM
12

Not sure if sarcastic or spending too much time on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 01:48 PM
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This speaks loud volumes of how a Red Piller views relationships. Completely stripped of human emotion, utter disregard for intimacy, all fibers and neurons replaced with mechanical clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 10:36 AM
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When it comes to looks, I don't really care too much, as it has been my experience that while it can be nice to look at something beautiful, the external is rarely what makes things last. But everyone has a type regardless, right? Brunettes and redheads (can't stand blondes) Healthy amount of curves (can't stand skinny bitches) Freckles and beauty marks (the more the merrier) Breast size matters very little to me. I could find an A cup just as attractive as a double D. The shape is what matters.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 10:32 AM
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"Safe space". That term makes me shudder. The SJW movement is actively working towards turning every place on Earth into a McDonalds ballpen. They're constantly portraying the world as a dangerous place where words can give PTSD if you're not careful, and more and more people are swallowing these delusions of fear and paranoia. God bless Generation V(ictimhood).
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:27 PM
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2edgy4me
/r/askTRP07/05/15 01:20 PM
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Saying she has a boyfriend is just her trying to distance herself from the inevitable guilt. Disclaiming all responsibility, because she was such a wonderful person and told you that she has a boyfriend! In her mind, that makes it more okay to cheat. Now that you know of her boyfriend, all the responsibility is in your lap. If she cheats now, it's all your fault. The girl sounds like a complete slag anyway. Make her a plate. However, you need to tread carefully. When you do date her, make every …
/r/askTRP07/05/15 12:13 PM
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As the owner of a massive donger, I'd be pretty annoyed with the question itself and I wouldn't take you seriously either. Guess we'd be the least serious couple in town.
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:28 AM
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Cut toxic people out of your life Treat your fellow men with respect Be the friend who pulls the rest of the group up, not drags them down Be a leader who people benefit from following, not a tyrant who demands unwarranted obedience and respect Live your life so that you function as a role model for the rest of your pack Finally, but not least ... Bros over hoes
/r/askTRP05/05/15 10:13 PM
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NYC is GREAT for daygame ... Until you end up in a feminist Youtube campaign.
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:06 PM
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If they ask you something like this, you're already in. This is an incredibly strong IOI. Just go in to close the deal. I'd just go with "then it wouldn't really be a secret anymore, now would it?"
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:05 PM
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My best friend is a woman. She and I have a great friendship - she loves me, she respects me, and she cares about me. She doesn't, however, have sex with me (these days), so that's why she's my "best friend" and not my "girlfriend." It's amusing how blind you are to the difference between platonic love and romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 03:47 PM
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Comments on /r/videos for this one are all strongly RP. It's how it always is. People will preach TRP philosophy until "Red Pill" is mentioned. Then people scatter like mice.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:25 AM
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I'm not a sexologist, but I still discuss sex. I don't have a degree in literary history, but I still discuss books. "We're not scientists!" seems to me like a way to discredit the arguments that come from it, simply because they're very hard for the opposing side to constructively rebuke. Indeed, human psychology is complicated, but a major element of /r/purplepilldebate is human psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 05:31 PM
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If you're not gonna take the time to properly read a person's argument, then you have no place trying to dismantle it. Read his argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 05:26 PM
3

I don't know if this is a joke question or not, but most men will react either positively or neutrally to TRP. However, it does depend on how you phrase yourself. If you simply state that you believe that most men have lost their balls and pride, that they allow themselves to be walked all over and that the current state of gender dynamics is miserable and chaotic, then most men will nod in agreement. If you start spewing bullshit about how inferior women are, you will get a more appropriate rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:42 PM
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Feminist/SJW hysteria is becoming mainstream. Bashing anything that can be called misogynistic is the new past-time activity. Drop a decade or two back in time and nobody would care about TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:58 AM
4

Mud.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 04:55 PM
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Don't assume someone is "extremely beta" just because they discourage infidelity. People have different views on what's right and what's wrong, and it is not necessarily an indicator of whether or not someone is beta or alpha. Most people perceive me as brutally "alpha", yet I don't go after women in relationships because I have my own moral code. To me, you sound like the type of person who is trying to entirely replace himself with a cardboard model of the perfect Red Piller. If your friend th…
/r/askTRP28/04/15 09:28 AM
3

This is TRP. We over-think everything here.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:54 PM
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It would imply that the girl you are dating is rare because she is actually into you. You imply that her "good taste" is rare.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:50 PM
1

You got a source on that?
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:22 PM
1

As long as you stick to the general TRP mindset, nothing's preventing you from having a long-lasting, healthy LTR. Just make sure to stay true to yourself as a man, and not over-think everything. Good luck.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 11:03 PM
4

You either go Dark Triad, or you follow the rule of maximizing your own benefit, while minimizing the pain of others. There's a big difference between healthy self-interest and sheer egocentrism, and you don't need the latter in order to be happy.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 10:59 PM
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she's texting and taking selfies and shit. Interrupt her then. Can't argue with this one. If she's obviously wasting her own time, go make her time worthwhile.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 10:55 PM
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Misconceptions can sometimes arise. But still, the fact that your source of motivation stems from her and not independently is worrying.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 10:50 PM
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Your happiness is not something that should be dependent on her. It's something to be shared. The most healthy relationships have a dynamic in which both parties are happy with their lives as two separate people, and the joining of those two parties creates something even better. It's silly to suggest that no happiness should be derived from a relationship, but do not make yourself dependent on that happiness. I don't even have to tell you how dangerous that can be.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 10:28 PM
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Your mentality has more to say than you think. One may work towards a good cause, but if it's worked towards for the wrong reasons, the cause itself is corrupt. What will happen if that girl leaves him? Will he just fall into decay? His mindset is dangerous because it depends on something that could disappear in a heartbeat. He is investing his happiness into her and not into himself. Once she disappears, his happiness will disappear along with it.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 10:15 PM
2

Gyms aren't for privacy lol. Maybe it's different where you're at but here at Gold's everyone spots everyone. That's why I made it clear in my post that it will depend on the type of gym. I agree with you that the gym isn't an ideal place to ask out a girl - nobody goes to the gym to game. What I'm saying is when you see a 9/10, approaching her in less than an ideal place is better than not at all. What the hell is an ideal place anyways? There's no such thing. Hot women don't go to speed dating…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 10:06 PM
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I don't even know where this idea stems from. Was a target group of 1000 rapists interviewed? Most actual rapists simply have extremely corrupt ideas about female sexuality. There's a reason why most rapes are committed in countries were there are enormous divides between the genders, such as in the Middle East. These men believe that female sexuality works the same way as male sexuality does, and so their string of logic does literally not extend itself further than "man, if a sexy girl came ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 09:56 PM
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Saying that is like a sales person saying that the customer will certainly be glad they got approached, because of all these wonderful deals they got. It's a nice thing to tell yourself, but it's still a rationalization. OP still has a hundred other venues to choose from. My entire point here is that it's better to choose a space which is not dedicated to privacy. Approaching in the gym is not a horrible crime against humanity, but it's certainly less than ideal for someone still uncertain about…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 09:47 PM
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You have zero obligation to pay for anything. She's a person, just like you. Just because it's the unfortunate social norm for men to pay for women's stuff does not mean that you're under any kind of obligation. Pay for someone if you want to be nice. Don't pay for someone because you want to get into their pants.
/r/seduction23/04/15 08:37 PM
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People certainly use that as an excuse, but in this case it's not an excuse - it's an actual reason. I am not commanding OP not to approach in the gym. I am sharing my perspective and giving him factors to consider. Breaking social norms is underrated, but it is also underrated to consider the experience of the people you interact with.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 08:35 PM
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The rule is three rejections = you back off. Try one more time, and if she makes excuses again, give it up and move onto someone who is actually attracted to you.
/r/seduction23/04/15 08:26 PM
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You have a false and toxic conception of what masculinity is. I will tell you right now what your least masculine trait is: your insecurities. Being a man isn't about being tall, having a deep voice or having a big dick. Being a man means not giving a fuck about any of these things and grabbing life by the tail and fucking it in the ass. Someone made a statement on TRP recently that really hit me. "An un-masculine guy is like a fat woman. Both are complete and utter physical turn offs." And? So?…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 07:57 PM
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While the dissent of this comment will be predictable, I'd personally stay away from approaching at the gym. Some might insist that the sexual market exists everywhere, but the gym is generally considered a space where you can chill the fuck and have no one bother you. Most people hate being disturbed during their work out, and that goes regardless of what you've got between your legs. If you still want to go through with it, I'd say get whiff of the vibe of your gym. In certain gyms, people sim…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 07:34 PM
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You know why they do it right? They phrase it in a horrible way(obviously wrong) so that guys who have the pussy on the pedestal can take it off more quickly. I want you to consider an alternative theory. Red Pillers will try to portray it as you wrote it, but I believe that's only a superficial reason. I think much deeper down, they allow themselves to behave like this due to an underlying resentment for women in general. Remember, I am not a social justice warrior, a feminist, or anything alik…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 05:25 PM
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It got too long for me as well. I love civil debates among smart people with different viewpoints, but I have fucking burn marks on my fingers. Out of curiosity, since you're purple, what do you think of the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 04:48 PM
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No. The way you phrase it, you do not seem to dehumanize. As I have explained numerous times, my biggest issue with TRP is not their theories, but how they are presented. People are way more similar than they are different, in the bigger picture. Indeed, most women do respond a certain way to a certain man, and most men respond in a certain way to a certain woman. Certain people also respond in a certain way to the scent of a fresh hamburger. One thing is to state the above, but another thing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 04:41 PM
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Nope. What I'm noticing are Blue Pillers throwing uncritical praise and Red Pillers trying to convince me that I never really understood Red Pill, or, that I did, but never left at heart. I've even been called "extremely alpha" in here. In other words, I see Blue Pillers siding with me, and Red Pillers in denial about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 04:45 AM
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The jews like seeing white men get screwed over We're upvoting antisemitism now?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:15 PM
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Think of it this way. If you were on a date with a girl, and you really liked her, but then you had to go away for a while, do you believe you could possibly lose all interest in her in the span of a few weeks? I don't. If I was infatuated with a girl after a date, it would take me at least a month before I had completely changed my mind. Text is only for logistics, if you are to stick to the TRP model. Do not text her. The attraction is still there. Once she returns and is available, ask her fo…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:13 PM
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You have no choice here. Save yourself the heartbreak and give her the ultimatum. Think about what's best for you. 1) You tell her that's it's okay, you can go LTR. Things go fine for 6 months. Then you hear less from her. She tells you she was at this really wild party last night. You grow suspicious. Things continue to collapse. You spend night up, wondering if she's sucking another guy's cock at this very minute. A few more months pass, your anxiety keeps rising, and eventually the relationsh…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:09 PM
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In high school, your friends will determine what 99% of your social life will be like. If you want access to the girls, hang out with the guys they hang out with. Read TRP religiously and understand every fundamental so that the other guys will respect you, and it's easy access. The only downside of this might be to abandon your old friends. Also understand that your old friends will probably react negatively to your shift and tell you "you've changed, man ..." Try to find a good balance. Don't …
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:04 PM
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In a situation like this, where dread is applied, you cannot break frame. You broke frame. You were doing good, but you let your emotions get to you, accused her of cheating (which you should never do) and broke up out of jealousy. There's no wonder she's scared. You were beta, then a cold son of a bitch out of no where, then back to jealous beta. Turbulence like that is scary for anyone you have an intimate relationship with. It makes you look volatile and unpredictable. You never took dread ga…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:57 PM
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Correct, they don't shit test me. More than anything, I get comfort tested. It's generally accepted that the more insecure girls are of you, the more they will shit test you. One of the main reasons why I've been with this one girl for as long as I have is that she has barely shit-tested me, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:58 AM
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I'm currently in a non-monogamous relationship. She is monogamous to me, I am not monogamous to her, and that is accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:52 AM
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I used to handle them in pretty canned ways. I'd memorized so many of the common ones, and was always on guard. Now, I just don't care. I really, really don't. If I know that a girl is shit testing me, I usually just tell her to piss off in one way or another. To me, my day isn't long enough for someone to stand around and ask me retarded questions. If a girl begins shit testing, I walk away. I rarely "handle" shit tests any more, because I value my own sanity and time over the chance that I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 10:49 AM
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Let me be clear. I've never said that TRP is a religion. I have, however, pointed out, that it functions very much like a religious cult. I've also mentioned how it functions much like any other type of fundamentalist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 06:30 PM
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Yeah you don't know what they are. Maybe you read the sub a few times and said "yeah that works for me". I don't think you really spent the time or effort needed to really understand TRP, thus your unability to understand AWALT, and really your inability to understand TRP at all. You never did the work that you have to do to be RP, you just said "hey I'm RP now", so it's no wonder you compare it to a religion if all you did is claim to believe. http://np.www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22kj…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 06:20 PM
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I'm glad to hear it. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 05:23 AM
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Read the thread to find out. My fingers already have third degree burns from all the typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 05:06 AM
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I've always had this wild idea of a community that adheres to certain TRP core principles, yet discourages antagonism and encourages moral behavior. A man can dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 05:04 AM
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It's sadder how far you're willing to stretch your argument to try and make this analogy. Red pill is something you do. Religion is something you believe. You can kick out all the philosophy and just take the action and be red pill and see it's benefits, all that other stuff is just an explanation why. It's also silly you're pretending to be RP when you clearly don't know much about it, namely the difference between AWALT and NAWALT. Not necessarily. There are people who have faith but do not pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 02:12 AM
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You know that you don't have to "remain" in the TRP sub to be "Red Pill", correct? I started "swallowing the Red Pill" long before there was a Reddit sub and even before the release of The Matrix from which the analogy could be drawn. As a matter of fact, many TRPers recommend "remaining" in TRP only as long as it takes to get your wits about you and then going out and living life with some newfound knowledge and gaining valuable experience. At the end of the day, they're just words. Certain peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 01:48 AM
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We carry a message that you may be blind to. That is indeed how I felt once I stumbled upon the Red Pill. As many others, I also had the "eureka"-moment. I felt like I had been blind all my life, and that now, my eyes were truly opened. It's sad how reminiscent that testimony is to others who fall into the grasp of religious cults. If you want something YOU have to earn it Indeed. And in order to earn it, you must know the methods to achieve it. All of your troubles have been caused by a lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:12 PM
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I think you're getting a little too hung up in that now. I left TRP about a year ago. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:04 PM
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yet I still consider Red Pill useful. So do I. Is my understanding of Red Pill incomplete because of that? Must I "fucking hate" whores in order to consider myself a Red Piller? No, but it is a common sentiment in Red Pill circles. Therefore, willingly remaining in such an echo chamber is not something I want to do. As a matter of fact, I subscribe to the notion that sexual strategy is amoral. "Fucking hating" anything is generally a moral stance. How do you reconcile that RP's stance is that se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 11:01 PM
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Reality is one thing, and the concept of reality is absolute. Human behavior and civilization is not absolute, and evolving in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:53 PM
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It is foolish to think women can overcome thousands of years of genetic history in a century. Just as foolish as the abolition of slavery? Just as foolish as new laws which humanizes civilization? Some might argue that it is ingrained in human nature to kill and rape. Yet, as a society, we have move further and further away from our biological impulses. What part of virtue do you not understand? Female domination is just messing with there hormones for no reason. I understand the definition of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:52 PM
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Why don't you just see trp as a resource where you read a bit and make up your own mind? Actually, I do. As I've said multiple times, I allowed certain elements of TRP to become a part of who I am, and thus I live in accordance with a few of their principles. Why do you make assumptions about what cultish goals trp tries to achieve instead of just reading a bit and then applying what you like in reallife? Because I can do both. Feminism has good merits as well. Equality and opportunity for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:41 PM
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https://blueollie.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/triggered.jpg?w=320&h=371
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:36 PM
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PART 2 I don't begrudge economists talking generally about consumer behavior simply because I don't fit their exact profile - I get that I may not be that way, specifically, but that most people probably are. Nonsensical analogy. There is a difference between a marketing firm mapping out common denominators and an ideology insisting on an absolute truths. Except that they don't, something that men and women both would benefit from understanding. Not even close to how women are hypergamous. How m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:32 PM
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PART 1 Yeah, you give a reductionist view, of which only three qualities (stoicism, social proof, and fitness) are even valid. My intention was not to cite every single aspect of the ideal RP man. Since you automatically assume that I'm no true Scotsman, take a look at my post history back from a year ago. Women like strong men. I've never, ever met a woman who was attracted to weak men (they may put up with weakness in trade off for other qualities, but weakness is never attractive, IME). And m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 09:55 PM
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While AWALT is the core principle, NAWALT is the mockery of those who refuse to accept it. I'm just using it interchangeably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 08:04 PM
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Trust me, it is. Just acxept this Alright, fine. I acxept it. AMA over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:05 PM
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You mean All Women Are Like That, get your acronyms right, N is for the negation Not. "NAWALT" is used mockingly. "AWALT" is the core principle. Your attempts at testing me are cute. I agree that plate spinning or more specifically harems can be somewhat superficial but it is the evolutionary ideal for men. Well without the babies its all just pretend so I'll give you that. Here we go into pseudo-science again. By claiming the biological history of human beings to be your evidence, you are essen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:02 PM
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Because people will allow themselves any tone they want as long as they believe they are preaching the truth. Saying that all niggers steal isn't racist if it is an undeniable truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:37 PM
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is it an ad hominem attack to say the founders might have been over eaters or at least pro over eating? No, but to me it is irrelevant. I only care about what is true or not. A paralyzed midget could have created a fitness program. If the program works, I don't care about who developed it. narcissism is a description of a certain behavioral pattern - selfishness, vanity, using others as objects, dehumanizing others. Good people can fall into fundamentalism. I think it's unfair to portray all TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:34 PM
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There is some truth to this. Many of the principles of TRP have never left me, and I believe that in many ways it changed me for the better. TRP does not deserve the amount of hate it receives, but it is, meanwhile, understandable that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:30 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/wjANVCD.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:28 PM
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You get that #3 reflects the personal preferences and actions of TRPers and not the RP concepts, right? Nonsense. I may accept that some users already have this view even before becoming Red Pillers, but TRP does nothing but encourage this sentiment. Professing how stupid sluts are is an applauded past-time activity. Stories of slut "justice porn" are usually the most popular topics in the community. I think that the RP model of sexual dynamics is the most accurate that I've seen, which explains…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:27 PM
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Why can't you just read over at /trp and be like "this makes sense...that doesn't make sense. Gonna try this...not gonna try that..." without making it some kind of religion for you? That's a very good question! The problem is that TRP actually functions very much like a religion. We carry a message of truth that society is blind to. In order to be saved, you must follow our teachings. All of your life, you have ignorantly lived incorrectly. All of your troubles have been caused by a lack of bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:21 PM
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My opinion is that I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:11 PM
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What do you think represents the "ideal" Red Pill man? It will always vary to smaller degrees, but the fundamental elements would be amused mastery, stoicism, wealth, social proof, fitness, and a callous regard for women. There are many RPW who don't see themselves reduced to such a state, despite their following of the "TRP philosophy." There is a lot written on "LTR/Marriage Game" that doesn't rely on such sweeping reductionist attitudes. Do you think that that is the philosophy's "end goal", …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 06:10 PM
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I'm not interested in making ad hominem accusations about the founders of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 05:39 PM
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I see you're trying to test what I know. That's fine. Accusations of "well, you never really understood it" (i.e no true Scotsman) was to be expected. NAWALT/AWALT suggests that all women (yes, all women) function the same way on a very primitive level. Just as a dog will always chase a ball, regardless of which dog it is, all women also possess the same instinctive functions. The term itself mimics beta men who will be quick to defend women with "not all women are like that!", but they always e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 05:39 PM
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And that's fine. In this thread I've already recognized the strength TRP is able to provide to men, as I've experienced it myself. After all, I will always feel like I'm in it's debt, as following it did miracles for me in the situation I was in. I'm a person who is generally interested in philosophy and self-improvement, and never in my life has anything been able to change me so radically for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 05:29 PM
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I do. TRP offers certain men a chance to be immoral by hiding behind the meaningless word amoral. That is not at all to say that all TRPers are bad or immoral people, but I do believe that TRP will always have a major appeal to those who are already cold and callous-hearted and enjoy the idea of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 05:26 PM
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I have always made fun of the term, but I believe that actual toxic masculinity is applicable to TRP. While the stoic masculinity that is advocated can be very beneficial for some, there are certain elements of their ideal man that do not resonate well with me. If you were to follow such an ideal, you'd end up a very hollow and empty person. The behavior and mannerism they advocate is simply not a natural state for most men to be in, and could potentially be dangerous. I find myself ridiculous f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 09:01 AM
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Seems to me like we share the exact same view. I do believe that excessively sleeping around is more psychologically detrimental to women than it is to men, but the reasons for this were rarely ever discussed when I was in TRP. Everything you mentioned is on point. The source of all the hatred for promiscuous women is indeed jealousy and insecurity. I don't necessarily object to some of the arguments they use for their claims, as most of it is scientifically undeniable, yet this is actually wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 08:46 AM
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Not a clue. I'm not educated on the matter, nor do I know much about finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:50 AM
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If liberalism is blue and conservatism is red, I'd say I'm purple when it comes to politics as well. I'm not American, so I cannot shed any light on your domestic politics (beyond the fact that it's repulsively corrupt), but I'd say my views are quite average. I'm for legalization, gay marriage, abortion rights, and so on. I'm skeptical towards American imperialism and one of the many Europeans currently questioning the validity of immigration systems. Anything else, you'd have to ask me to spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:42 AM
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Indeed. Good summary. every problem you see becomes a nail for the hammer you've armed yourself with. Not only that, but things that were never a problem start becoming problems, and the causes of previous problems suddenly become accredited to the enemies of the new world view. Confirmation bias is something I left out, but definitely something I did consider once I began to shift away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:34 AM
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Behind every opinion, the same man still remains. I'm not what most people would deem ethical in the first place, so I suppose I'm still a bastard, regardless of colored pills. What I can say, however, is that TRP did make me more of an asshole than I enjoy thinking back at, and I was utterly ignorant to it at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:08 AM
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I left because I began to notice patterns of cultism. I had always been anti-SJW, but I began to recognize that TRP possesses the very same patterns as those they claim to be an enemy. In essence, both TRP and feminists look for something and someone to blame for everything that is wrong in the world; or rather, everything that makes their lives unfair. While TRP philosophy holds certain truths, it's brutally apparent that most of its followers are emotionally invested beyond logic and reason. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:03 AM
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I have no idea what the fuck I just read.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:25 AM
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We are definitely in agreement then.
/r/seduction06/03/15 12:20 AM
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I'm a big fan of Manson myself, and I don't see how that quote contradicts what I said. My point was that an attractive lifestyle has major benefits, but if your mental game isn't where it should be, it only matters so much.
/r/seduction05/03/15 11:03 PM
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I'm sure there's some truth in that. And yet I see posts on r/seduction every day from guys who are in shape, good looking, social, have a good job etc and they can't meet women. Obviously, because no matter how in shape, good looking, or socially competent you are, there are some factors that, if present, will repel women like pepper spray. The men who meet all those criteria are sometimes the type of men who women find utterly creepy, primarily because they completely over-think game. They bec…
/r/seduction05/03/15 09:02 PM
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It does make a difference, and it does so in two ways. First, it matters internally. If you are in shape, have money, a good education, an impressive social life, interesting hobbies, you will radiate happiness, security and confidence. A successful man will behave differently than an unsuccessful man, and his behavior will be much more attractive to women because of what is happening internally. Second part is external, which some might argue matters less. Women actually do find successful men …
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:06 PM
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oh right sorry i won't i promise phew i was really close there thanks
/r/seduction08/02/15 11:04 AM
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What the fuck? All he was suggesting was that women are more socially perceptive than men, which is completely true. That's not magic.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:21 AM
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While it's obviously not the whole answer, it does carry some truth. It's only in recent years (in the historical perspective of hundreds of years) that women have become an authority figure for boys.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:18 AM
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Wow. If a girl asked me out to go geocaching as a first date, I wouldn't even need the first date.
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:20 PM
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That's probably because he is super nervous.
/r/seduction25/10/14 12:20 PM
1

Value is more attractive than looks.
/r/seduction17/09/14 08:03 AM
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Think of it this way: I think you'll agree with me when I say that you are better off without your shitty ex-girlfriend. The fact that she cheated on you was almost like doing you a favor, because it exposed her as a lousy human being, and if not that; certainly not girlfriend material, or anyone who should be in your life, not to mention that close to you. Fuck her. Same logic applies here. If a girl you meet wants to cheat on her boyfriend because she met some random guy on the street, then yo…
/r/seduction14/09/14 07:32 AM
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What is? That they have boyfriends? If you're approaching a lot of girls and they all have boyfriends, I can guarantee you that at least 50% of those are fictional. This is one of the many reasons why some guys ignore the "boyfriend" excuse; because it might just be that - an excuse. If I kept having this problem, I would probably start ignoring it. If she's really serious about her boyfriend, then she'll fully reject me sooner or later anyway.
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:27 AM
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Why be an evasive little bitch? Every action has an outcome. What type of outcome is desired here? Less hassle? Doing stupid shit like this puts you in a pattern of avoiding difficult situations. In addition, doing stupid shit like this also devaluates her as a human being. How about actually telling her that this is not what the two of you agreed upon, and if it starts developing into something else, you'll walk. First of all, it'll increase your value to her like crazy, and she will start resp…
/r/seduction14/09/14 05:38 AM
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Is this happening frequently, or was this an isolated instance? If it is the latter, then don't beat yourself up over it. If a girl had an actual boyfriend, then I would have lost interest as well, simply because that's who I am. Perhaps you're the same. It's difficult to give you any real advice here without knowing what is going out beyond the approach you described.
/r/seduction14/09/14 05:30 AM
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You should be at the stage now where you don't have to ask Reddit for advice. The reason why you are doing just that, however, is because of self-doubt. You are doubting your own judgement. What is your judgement telling you? Your judgement is telling you that you signed up for a deal, and now the terms are being changed without your consent. Perfectly logical, right? So, why is self-doubt knocking on the door? Understand that sex is an explosive bonding mechanism, chemically. She's a single mot…
/r/seduction14/09/14 05:23 AM
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Once upon a time, your female friends thought of you as safe, because you were nice, effeminate and unattractive to them. Now they are bitter because they've lost their "guy friend", and probably remind them of the guys who have broken their hearts. However, there is one thing to consider here. A lot of guys who transfer into more manly men often encounter one bump on the road. This bump is going from being a nice guy, to the exact opposite. So the transformation usually goes something like nice…
/r/seduction14/09/14 05:02 AM
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You are right. It is a step in a very positive direction for you. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction09/07/14 08:24 PM
3

Do not mistake a forced abundance mentality for a legitimate alpha mentality. That takes time, young padawan.
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:37 PM
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"Bad behavior"? Find a different fucking girl. If a girl gets bitchy with me from the get-go, I leave. Why would I bother trying to get into the pants of someone blatantly obnoxious? I was hoping the pick up community had surpassed the era of solving girls like puzzles and moved onto finding (good) girls to connect intimately with. Guess there's still some remaining dirt laying around.
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:38 PM
3

Problem solved.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:52 PM
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Ah, yes, the good old Serial Killer Stare Method.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:52 PM
3

You really need to read Models.
/r/seduction13/05/14 03:43 AM
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The choice to be vulnerable is strength.
/r/seduction13/05/14 01:07 AM
0

And how are you gonna change all of that now?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:34 PM
0

Why did you let the same thing happen to you twice?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:55 PM
1

Thank you for your response. You need to address the problem to him. Don't do anything half-way. Just dive into it, heaven or hell may come, but it's better than postponing the inevitable
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 12:51 PM
5

Respect.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:47 AM
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I am a TRP man and not a TRP woman, but I will try to offer my advice. I'm not attracted to him when he's high or any in any way intoxicated. My attraction and appreciation for him just fled all at once. I felt so totally turned off, I almost wanted him to leave. I didn't know how to process the feelings or what to do. For the next 40 hours until he left, I was irritated by almost everything he did, even when we were sober. I hid it as well as I could and made sure I was making effort to be grac…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 01:16 PM
2

Assuming I wanted to employ every tactic in the book, what would I do? The mose TRP material you read, the more ammunition you will carry. How should I react when she says negative things about me in public? I am not a TRP guru, but here's my two cents. Look at her, not emotionally affected, just mildly surprised. Look at her with a look that says "oh, really? hm .. that's interesting" and keep staring at her. If she looks at you back and says "what?", just smile confidently and continue the con…
/r/askTRP13/04/14 04:43 AM
2

Read the post instead of just the title.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:38 AM
2

Not a bad idea at all!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 02:27 AM
3

Brilliant, thank you so much for your input. I feel inspired again. One last question, though: How do you become independent from technology, internet, computers and so on? I have a bit of an internet addiction, and it's very tough to break. It's consuming a lot of my time and usually fucks up my sleeping schedule. If you feel like such a question is not worthy of your time, I completely understand. Again, thank you for your answer.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 02:26 AM
2

While this is a completely legitimate guide, this conflicts with me. I am a musician, which means I am dependent upon heavy socializing. Isolation is the very opposite of what I should do, as networking is a vital component of the lifestyle, and you cannot perform without a band and without fans. Social media also plays a big role, unfortunately, which means refreshing Instagram/Facebook can actually be beneficial. How should a person in my position adapt to monk mode?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:12 AM
1

When your perspective of reality becomes twisted into a perfect, ideal fantasy, the truth may look cynical once it is revealed to you. Allegory of the Cave, by Plato.
/r/askTRP12/04/14 08:31 PM
1

oh god
/r/askTRP12/04/14 01:25 PM
1

Oh boy. This sounds pretty bad. My only advice to you is keep reading TRP material. I could have written you a long list of things to do (and not do), but blogs like Heartsie and Therationalmale and Returnofkings is a much better source. The first truth you need to accept is that this process will be extremely tough on you psychologically. Even if you execute things perfectly, you will be walking the damn gauntlet until the finish line. Most importantly, the most valuable truth to swallow is tha…
/r/askTRP12/04/14 01:21 PM
2

Women dress to compete with other women, not necessarily for men themselves.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 10:17 PM
4

A small amount of women are insane, the rest are just women. Once you learn how their engines work, their behavior won't look like insanity anymore.
/r/seduction10/04/14 10:06 PM
3

That doesn't matter, you can still train your forearms.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:42 PM
0

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=bpd
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 08:25 PM
8

Some women do, but they are rare. The same could also be argued about men, to a certain degree. You have plenty of men who aren't really passionate about anything at all. Nearly every woman I've ever dated has had interests. Painters, musicians, singers, and many of them have been extremely talented and passionate about what they do. It all comes down to where you look. If you search for gold in a pile of shit, you've already set sail for disappointment. Creativity and intelligence is a major-tu…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:59 PM
10

Which is where TRP picks up.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:46 PM
4

Good, there are few things I enjoy more than being properly corrected. To put it in simpler terms, my point here is that women are hard-wired to, for instance, use manipulation over physical violence, seek out alpha males, prioritize resources, are incapable of loving unconditionally, be hypergamous, and all of the other traits that are often discussed here. Within the same connotation, AMALT too. If you believe this is false, I would in fact love to see a rebuttal.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:02 PM
1

I wouldn't really know, but check out the book Sperm Wars.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 12:25 PM
11

Holy fucking jesus, how many times does this have to be repeatedly explained? AWALT does not imply that every single woman is identical, or represents some conspiratorial type of singular hivemind. AWALT in that every woman is nearly identical in their instinctive, primal nature, and that their subconscious engines are alike. You have smart women, stupid women, classy women, shy women; but their psychological framework is similar, regardless.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:08 AM
1

???
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:14 PM
2

It's simply too much. It looks like you've spent twenty minutes trying to conjure an answer. The point is that whatever is thrown at you just deflects off.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:13 PM
13

The guttertrash women you usually find at clubs, yes.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 08:58 PM
9

If saying this works like Bad-Bitches-Be-Gone, Ill make sure to be shouting this at all of the parties I attend. Nothing more rancid than a used up pussy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:06 AM
4

Welcome to your new life, son.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:45 AM
3

Here's a reference.
/r/seduction04/04/14 02:33 PM
2

I'm a hermaphrodite.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:49 PM
1

Intuition.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:50 PM
1

Nope, not in this case.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:16 PM
0

Nope, not in this case.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:11 PM
3

Yeah, she seems like an honest enough girl, to be fair. The engine of her gender betrays her.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:43 PM
8

Be your best self without interacting with her directly and look for IOIs. Let her come to you
/r/seduction03/04/14 02:32 PM
2

It's the first sign of how strong solipsism runs in the individual woman. If she expects you to constantly know what she is thinking and even gets mad or upset when you do not read through her lines, you've got yourself a highly ego-centric woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:36 PM
5

For what it's worth, I'd just like to tell you that as a man, posts like these are a silver lining around the raincloud.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 08:56 PM
4

Oh my god. Why am I only seeing this for the first time now.
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:48 AM
1

Yeah, I'm calling bullshit on him being asleep aswell, but regardless, she is not responding to him and the likelihood of her crying rape is stupidly high.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:32 PM
1

I sincerely doubt that. If what he says is true then she probably felt violated and traumatized over what he did, despite how blatantly innocent it is, simply because society teaches us that any incident where a very distinctive "yes" is called, it counts as rape.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:30 PM
2

Well first you need to understand the true meaning of AWALT. AWALT does not imply that all women are the very same entity. What it means is that all women run on the same operating system biologically. There are great women and there are abhorrent women, but their instinctive nature is almost identical.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 11:32 AM
3

I don't see where the "losing" part comes in. If he really is your best friend, then you should respect the decisions he makes. If you think his behavior could be potentially harmful, then yeah, you should give him a talk, but otherwise, do not attempt to control him.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:47 PM
1

Yep. You're only going to get a ton of different answers. Every man is different, and every man works on a different moral agency. The only thing you can do is what you think is right.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:43 PM
1

Welcome to the world of stupid women.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:41 PM
2

"He's my...um, my new boyfriend." You did this guy a favor. Had they been together for a year or two, I would have just left this girl to find another. But you did this guy a favor by showing him that this new girlfriend of his was the very opposite of LTR-material. Hopefully he'll think twice before committing to a slut from now on.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:39 PM
29

Well, what did you expect when you came to a subreddit which has about 98% male participation. Reason and logic galore.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:30 PM
2

I'm not entirely sure what you mean by this.
/r/askTRP30/03/14 06:39 PM
1

Yeah, I've caught myself doing the same. If I get the vibe that a girl is completely ordinary, regardless of looking great, I will just play with her because I really don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP30/03/14 12:38 PM
1

This one is really good aswell, and I would use that if I noticed that the girl was particularly submissive or masochistic. Cool shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 06:50 AM
1

Correct. I'm glad someone finally got it. James Marshall is incredibly good.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 06:46 AM
1

Elaborate on this?
/r/askTRP29/03/14 11:39 PM
2

I know, it's sad as fuck, haha. Obviously, looks function as a spectacular bonus, but that's really it. If she hasn't got something interesting to put on the table, I'm outie.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 09:52 PM
1

Reward positive behavior (the apology), reinforce prospective positive behavior while she's in a state of weakness. "The next time you are feeling 'stressed and tired', wait before you contact me."
/r/askTRP29/03/14 09:04 PM
1

This belongs in the /r/seduction alley more than /r/trp.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 08:56 PM
1

Very true.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:19 PM
18

Bingo, you got it right. But in addition to what you said, treating women like garbage is only going to come back and bite you in the ass in the long run. Treat women as well as they deserve to be treated, while at the same time understanding the intricate engine of their nature. Judge a woman like you would judge a man if necessary. If a person is being is being a bitch, rude or otherwise a shitty person, then treat that person accordingly. Masculine traits does not equate the traits of an assh…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:47 PM
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I absolutely can. The thing is, all women want to be ravished. Also, most women would like to be ravished by strange men every single day. The problem occurs when if she allows herself to do that, she will feel slutty pretty quickly. Even the sluttiest of sluts refuse to admit that they are sluts. There's a little bit of whore in every girl, and the easiest way to bring that whore out is to not judge her if she does so. Allow her to summon her most sinful self and let her know that you are total…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:01 PM
4

A plate - respond callously and sexually. A girl I'm emotionally invested in - reciprocate. An ex - block number.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:55 AM
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she was not "this kind of girl" "I know, I can see you have a good heart" Boom, onto the fucking.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:47 AM
2

Yeah. The solipsism was overwhelming. I was crying on the floor while she walking around in our apartment, audibly sighing at how pathetic she thought I was. And thank you.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:08 AM
4

Haha, I like your attitude.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:05 PM
13

This is what we call beta-orbiting. How do I start treating her now and how do I get over the fact that she just took a shit all over my self-esteem? You don't do anything at all. She isn't the problem, your mentality is. Your obsession with her is providing you nothing but pain. As men, we tend to ride the high of the obsession. We all long for purpose. That's in our nature. Your purpose is to win her over and make her yours, but that will never happen. As much as it sucks to hear, once you're …
/r/askTRP28/03/14 10:45 PM
4

Wow, if all women followed the type of advice posted in this thread, the world would be a better place. Great contributions. Do what is told here. Provide your feminine comfort while encouraging his masculine strength.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 10:37 PM
1

Um ... You should probably delete this post now, bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:11 PM
0

True, but keep in mind that emotions are not necessarily synonym with weakness. There's a difference between sharing your struggles as a man and whining to her like a child.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:03 PM
1

Remember, nobody in the world gives a fuck about you. People are strange When you're a stranger Faces look ugly When you're alone Do you not give a fuck about your family? Do you not give a fuck about your best friends? Do you abandon them when they hit bottom? Never underestimate the brotherhood in your fellow men. Stranger, on the other hand, rarely give a fuck about you. Everyone has their own agenda. But at the same time, do not discard the kindness in people. A few years ago a complete stra…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:52 PM
0

I sincerely believe this depends. If you've gone into the LTR as a completely stoic and hardened man, then the girl you are with will find it highly unattractive if you expose your weaknesses. On the other hand, if you entered the relationship as a more emotional man in general, it will seem more consistent to her if you do it. While we can all agree that the animal in women are attracted to masculine traits, the amount can also vary, dependent on relationships with their fathers for instance. T…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:45 PM
1

Um, I think you are misunderstanding me here. Do you really think I would have hung out consistently on TRP if I didn't accept these fundamental truths? The classic "I wasn't a sexist before I understood women" : http://imgur.com/N2UvuhX[1] Well, that was a complete waste of time. Thank you for that. I know how hypergamy works. I know how solipsism works. What I said was that claiming that it is literally impossible for any type of marriage or LTR to work (i.e no betrayal) is absolutely absurd, …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:28 PM
5

On mobile, but Google: How to hold conversation like a man by Nick Sparks.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:00 AM
1

Careful with this. It might increase attraction, but this is too hard if youre looking for more than plate spinning
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:22 AM
-1

Oh, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:39 PM
5

I'm sure you're smart enough to understand what I'm trying to say here.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:39 PM
0

what
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:08 PM
3

That is all dependent on the woman, but I believe you are right. If no woman can ever be trusted, ever, then show me scientific proof that there has never been a case of a lifelong marriage or relationship where cheating or violent betrayal did not occur, and I will go with the argument. But that is not to say that you shouldn't always be on top of your game and remain vigilant.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:57 PM
1

If you're fucking other women anyways, why bother hanging on to the one who wants strange dick? Or at the very least, demote her to plate status. Because why would you give her that? Why would you show her such an intimate gesture of affection such as sex? She practically went up to your face and said "listen, I am losing my attraction and respect for you, I was wondering if I could somehow cheat on you, but I want to find a loophole. Can I just do it instead?" If this was laid upon me, I would …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:58 AM
3

You're... you're kidding, right? I completely sympathize with you by asking that question. It seems absurd at the surface. However, consent should obviously be present here. We are talking about a beautiful, mutual dom/sub relationship, not an abusive, power-broken relationship. If this still reads like braille to you, I suggest reading up on true dominant/submissive relationships. They're quite cool. OR you could develop the skills necessary to sleep with multiple other women, keeping her attra…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:53 AM
3

There is truth in what Ill is saying, but the truth is not always that literal. Let's say that a man and a woman is in an open relationship. Let's go for the swinging type. If the man treats the woman more like his own property than a free, open soul, it can definitely work. If the man already has immense psychological and sexual power over her, she will feel like the pleasure she is getting is a result of her relationship with her man. Once again, this will only work if the man is an alpha. The…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:53 AM
2

That goes for both of them. The epitome of a cold-hearted bitch and the prime example of a lost, beta male. This is some Shakespearean tragedy right here.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:13 AM
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My theory is that swinger relationships only work when there is either a highly present sexual dynamic (sub/dom) or when the male is actually an alpha. In addition, there is a difference between polygamy and swinging.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:11 AM
0

You can keep your proof. You found the dread game part abusive, yet, I repeatedly said that my dread game was intentional. What was creating dread was simply the fact that I was highly popular, had high status and was very popular among women. I couldn't have intentionally caused dread, because I didn't even know how the concept worked. I never intended to make her jealous, but to do otherwise would have been impossible because of who I was. But yeah--that's the part that I found to be disconcer…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:03 AM
1

I was genuinely curious to know whether or not that would change your opinion on me at all. I was never emotionally abusive to her. What I pointed out in the story was only what could be relevant to this sub. I actually treated her really well. I was never Dark Triad with her. And you know what? I would love for her to now find a great, caring person. But she will not find that. She is out there now, looking for someone dominant. The fact that she was with a beta for so long only amplified her u…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:15 PM
1

... Take psilocybin once a month LOL
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 03:19 AM
2

You're being too vague. One thing is being "desensitized", another thing is how women perceive you. Do you really think desensitized is a word that will come to their minds? Aloof, distant, confident, alpha. That is how you are perceived in this case. Do women find that attractive? Yes. But then what happens when you really are desensitized and you lose all interested in women? Or worse, when you can't get it up? Then you stop giving a shit about women, until you once again do. Stop thinking abo…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:53 AM
1

People are overthinking this beyond belief. Sexual dimorphism. Women are perceived as more nurturing than men. There you go. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:46 AM
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If you read this and filled in the name of a woman as your goal, you are doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:41 AM
2

If I could do anything differently, I would have gone back three years and rejected her, as long as I could keep the knowledge I have today. But to go along with your hypothetical question, if this girl was an absolute keeper, I would have kept prioritizing myself. This does not mean that I would have treated her like disposable garbage. This means that I would have kept on building myself and my own life. Once I tasted the sweet, honey taste of her poison, I let everything go. My life changed d…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:23 AM
2

Women serve themselves. So do men, until they don't. That is where my story begins.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:19 AM
1

I never claimed that rape fantasies were a warning sign. But they do say a lot about a woman. Not all have them, but those who do are a special breed.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:15 AM
1

Once I broke up with her, I suggested therapy to her. Does that make me a better person in your eyes?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 01:40 AM
0

She wanted me to rape her. Well, rape her. She felt like now that we were no longer together, it would feel real if I were to take her by force. Believe in the fiction all you want. I can't say I care.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 01:39 AM
1

Well, then thanks, man! The worst part now is that I am left with nothing, and I have everything to rebuild. Friendships, careers, SMV. Everything has to be rebuilt from the bottom up. It'll take a while, but I'm confident that I can get back up again.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:58 PM
8

The fact that my story is so unbelievable that it could be considered a work of fiction is a great compliment. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:56 PM
1

Perhaps. While I was still on my alpha behavior (which was about 1/3 of the relationship), she would constantly blurt out how she didn't deserve me and she couldn't grasp why I even wanted her. This also got very annoying after a while. And I'll be completely honest, none of my dread game was intentional, and I rarely shoved any real dread in her face. That's just how I was. That's how my life was. The dread was constantly there.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:40 PM
3

Well, you should tell your story and link it to me! I'd be interested to read it.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:38 PM
2

So do I.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:37 PM
2

Well, it's a bit more complex than that. When I lost my balls, my status and preselection was lost with it. And looks and status don't necessarily determine what type of girl you get. It determines the type of girl who becomes attracted to you without any need for game or even effort. Average men can still nail a 10/10 if their game is off the charts. But, then I suppose they wouldn't really be considered average either.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:36 PM
0

Well, I think it is safe to assume that about 80% of us are American, if not even more. I'd also guess that the majority are 25-40. Teenagers do pop in here every once and a while, but they don't last a day.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:15 PM
3

Thank you for reading.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:57 PM
1

You're going to be such a cool bro in life now! Can't tell if sarcasm or stereotypical bro guy. Thank you, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:55 PM
7

Yes. When we first got together, I got out quite quickly because I just couldn't find any real substance of depth in her. With all of my exes and lost flings, I'd sit down and fuck their brain for hours. I'd get to the bottom of them. I could have them breaking down about abuse and tough life in thirty minutes. That was my thing. However, with Jen, that just didn't seem to lead anywhere. Oh, sure, daddy was an asshole, and she had never liked herself, and she was fat, but I never really found an…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:51 PM
21

Losing your game once you've "got the girl", are in a relationship, or even are in love... well, that makes you the male equivalent of a girl who gets married and then gains fifty pounds. That is incredibly true.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:43 PM
8

This is incredibly important, because it serves as a reminder that if you suddenly become someone other than the person you were the second she fell in love with you, you're fucked. I was hard, stoic, and aloof. I became soft, open and needy. Does the homeless person deserve to live on the street? Does the alcoholic deserve to be an addict? I don't think so, but they sure as hell made choices that put them in that situation. Well, the homeless person knows what alcohol might lead to. I, as with …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:42 PM
16

Yes! Absolutely. I've learned a countless number of lessons from this relationship. But the most important one is that you must never invest all of your happiness into one person. Sure, if you're in an LTR, share your happiness with her and give as much as you can, but never become too emotionally dependent. As a man, your body, mind and life should always be in perfect condition. Never make women, or a woman, your number one priority.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:36 PM
1

Close.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:58 AM
16

I don't blame you. If you found this hard to read, imagine how it feels to look back at it with first-hand experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:22 AM
21

This girl was a complete follower. She was utterly dependent on a strong man to guide her. So regardless of how much of a keeper she could have been, without that guidance, she went completely astray. She will probably be a keeper for someone else. Despite my story, I am very glad that I will not be keeping her, just because of simple differences. To me, what you're proposing feels like suggesting that when you've had a car for a while, you should test the quality of the car by running it into a…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:19 AM
6

Is that Oscar Wilde?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:10 AM
29

"Respect women. Women love a great, caring guy." All in what I was taught as a child. Trusted what I had been taught, instead of my gut. This is what happens when you've indoctrinated to believe that being a man is taboo.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 03:57 AM
3

She sure was a catch.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:54 AM
11

Not All Women Are Lamp That!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:01 AM
1

How about focusing on yourself instead of trying to lecture everyone to become more like you. If we're talking about self-improvement here, I'd begin on getting familiar with narcissistic and grandiose personality disorder. And if you really want to help people (which is clearly not your intent either way) and get your point across, try something a little constructive the next time.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 06:43 PM
0

You're still implying something negative about the thought here, when this place is only about positive thoughts for the male identity. And if you don't think that people are motivated by self-interest, you might need more life experience across the board. Well that's a crock of shit I've ever seen one. This place focuses on positive thoughts for the male identity, but there is also a huge limelight on the negative and hypocritical aspects of women. I think the one who needs to read up and self …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 06:30 PM
0

Someone has a fighter spirit! Good! This is not a representative sample of TRP. I also suspect you're new, even using the "swallowing the pill" phrase coming up. This means you're probably in shock and bitter from your old beta mindset being broken up each time you come here. Of course it is not a representative sample of TRP as a whole, nor did I ever claim my opinion to be shared with everyone. But it has been a recurring theme here lately of many disillusioned men who have almost given up on …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 06:09 PM
15

Here's the difference. The good guy is nice for the sake of being good. Being good is his principle. The nice guy is nice as a means to a goal. He doesn't really care about principles, he only cares about an outcome. You can be alpha as fuck and still be a good person. The alpha, however, is not a pushover and is not desperate.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:03 PM
1

FL Studio is more common for producers of that genre, but perhaps I need to learn more about Ableton. I was about to try it for myself once, but some fellow producers discouraged me from using it. And I do have a Soundcloud, but it could be traced back to who I am, so I'm reluctant to provide it on this account. If you ever want lessons in FL Studio, PM me as I do them online.
/r/askTRP18/03/14 03:16 PM
1

FL Studio. Never heard of anyone using Ableton to compose house, hip hop or dubstep before!
/r/askTRP18/03/14 02:18 PM
1

What DAW do you use?
/r/askTRP18/03/14 01:53 PM
2

Hip hop, post-rock, psybient, alternative metal, trip hop, djent, classical, groove metal, house, alternative rock, dubstep, avant-garde, electronica, post-metal aaand .... Slowcore. You?
/r/askTRP18/03/14 12:30 PM
1

"Now why would I do that?" "What's in it for me?" is what you want to convey. Saying it comes off as pretty childish.
/r/askTRP17/03/14 07:11 PM
5

Yeah, and people like me ignore that part. If I wanted to know how to bang chicks then I would head over to /r/seduction. I was never unaccomplished with women (still to this day I have never been rejected and always gotten whoever I wanted), but TRP taught me some very valuable lessons to add to my repertoire that I have been completely unable to find anywhere else. TRP takes the advice we have been taught all of our lives on how to be successful with women and translates it into something comp…
/r/askTRP17/03/14 06:58 PM
2

Martial arts, further knowledge of music production and theory, social skills and outdoor survival. That would be the list for me. It could be something completely different for anyone else.
/r/askTRP17/03/14 06:02 PM
9

As people are already starting to talk about their success with women, I'll share a different perspective. Shortly after finding TRP, I found the courage to break up with my ex. We had been together for over three years, and it made realize that I don't have to be a doormat and that happiness can be found in other places too. TRP made me find myself again. Before my relationship, I was very RP. I was a good person, but I didn't take shit from anyone, especially not from women, and scarcity was n…
/r/askTRP17/03/14 04:45 PM
2

I strongly disagree with this. While a less accomplished girlfriend might be alright, a girlfriend with lower intelligence is a nightmare. Girl B might be desirable for some men, but I dated girl B, and dear god, never again.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:54 AM
6

Smart and sane for me. No question.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 12:43 AM
10

Gorgeous - smart - sane. Pick two.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 12:24 AM
6

Scroll down to Anti-Dump's Machine. Although it's a whole lot of trouble to actually execute, I learned a whole lot from reading this. I hope it can serve useful to you to. No shit-tests required, same goals achieved. Oh, and the page I linked? Incredible resource.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 12:22 AM
2

Yep. It's not that they're masochists. They find great comfort in a man's guidance and in his embrace. If you thought your life was confusing, imagine what it's like to be a girl. Irrational impulses, overwhelming emotions, misguiding thoughts and hormonal overloads. Praise be upon those women who recognize the balance a man can provide for them.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 12:12 AM
0

If you think "alpha" is synonym with "asshole" or "douchebag", you are way off the path, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 11:00 PM
4

An ex-girlfriend of mine, while I was still in my blue pill days, told me that she wanted a guy who would put her in her place and completely dominate her both physically and emotionally. Not sure which basement you speak of.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:47 PM
5

You have a whole, broad world out there to discover, my boy.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:03 PM
16

Disrespected is a stupid word to use. Emotionally and romantically dominated, yes, but disrespect is quite specific. Being put in their place, on the other hand, that calls for some tingles.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:02 PM
1

You need to build yourself towards the mindset of "lol, who the fuck is this girl and why should I tolerate even a second of this?". That mindset comes with a good mind, a good body and a good life.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 09:43 AM
1

Um ... It was neither TRP or TBP. It was just ... Weird.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 09:33 AM
32

Oh my god, Thunderf00t. I had completely forgotten about him. I used to be an avid subscriber to him a few years back. I'm glad he's still going strong. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:58 AM
22

It's extremely difficult for most to understand, but it's a very fascinating mentality. Disturbing, but fascinating. Most prospective cuckolds start out being insufficient in bed, and many of them have some underlying homosexual desires. A lot of them get off on participating submissively, such as "cleaning up" the bulls, in other words, licking up their cum, and it is not unusual for them to drink the bull's cum out of their wife's pussy. Low self-esteem, extremely low SMV with a dash of bi-sex…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:44 AM
1

Alright.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:23 AM
1

It is indeed understandable. And I would not exclusively define TRP as a sub of sexual strategy. There is more too it than that. Self-improvement is an important theme aswell.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 10:43 PM
1

Which I surely did.
/r/askTRP15/03/14 10:16 PM
2

You are right, but he's only seeing this issue in women, which is why this needs to be addressed.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 10:16 PM
9

Came here to say this. OP has a problem with painting things in black and white. "Fucking hell, are all women this uninteresting? They're all the same." That does not go just for women. That goes for everyone. TRP is nice and all, but don't let it get to your head.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 06:10 PM
-1

"A person who is not yours".
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 06:08 PM
1

Yep, Sweden is going down the drain fast. I wonder if the effects could be reversible.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 08:58 AM
3

Talk to people you trust as much as you can. Vent to them. Use them as a support system until you get over it. Do this, but do not make the mistake of venting to everyone. If you have a good social circle, you will have some friends that are more emotionally open and deep than others. Some friends are just happy-go-lucky type of fellows, and burdening them with your problems will exhaust your resources with them. Speak only to the ones you know for a fact will listen and spend their time mending…
/r/askTRP14/03/14 10:46 PM
3

Here you go.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:37 PM
3

I'm not making a black/white judgement on female educators. Let me once again emphasize how kindergartens in my country are from the ages of 1-6. So I'm not entirely sure that I would give kindergarten workers the honor of being called "educators". Let me also emphasize that not all female kindergarten workers are bad. I've met plenty of wonderful women in my line of work. But at the same time, it's a statistics game. 30% of women have been great, 95% of men have been great. It's that simple. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 09:10 PM
3

He literally means /r/asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:45 PM
1

This was pretty fucking dumb.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:44 PM
2

Very good point.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:23 PM
1

The good "passive" game is a by-product of self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:30 AM
1

Yes, it would, but the point is to not over-do it. Take it in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:29 AM
1

If by "suicidal" you mean highest HDI, highest GDP, highest HPI, then yeah, sure.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:28 AM
1

9th century? You only have to look as far as to the 1800's to begin to notice a staggering difference in the way we perceive women.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:26 AM
3

Yup. You are measured but how many women you fuck, not by what you have accomplished as a human being.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:24 AM
0

I am not in the US, and that woman was the closest thing I have come to a psychopath in my kindergarten work. Beautiful, fit, half-asian, half-white woman in her 20's. I would not be surprised if she ends up being responsible for the death of a child. Just thinking about her gives me chills.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 11:23 AM
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I did, but considering how this was on TheBluePill and that they were addressing a specific thread and not just gossiping about us in general, I thought these newly-enforced rules did not apply to something like this. This is a classic feminist/blue-pill example. If mods want to remove this thread, I will not protest.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:50 AM
1

Zero fucks are given. The experience has been beyond amusing. All I care about now is keeping my employer on my good side. If I get fired from the substitute firm, I will be taking this whole ordeal to the media and even to work ethic groups, because then it will be an actual scandal. For all I know I might even be able to sue.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:44 AM
1

I'm not entirely sure the situation has improved. I ended up being fired from said kindergarten for literally being too masculine, and I am not even paraphrasing. I was told I was too manly and dominate, that the staff had felt threatened by me, and they wanted to hire a woman instead. +1 points to an equal society!
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:37 AM
1

Yeah, about that ...
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:22 AM
1

I see your point. The reason why I allowed myself to ask her is simply because I couldn't give two shits about what she believes about me, and her lashing out only served as ammunition for me in case things were to go sour in the broader picture.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:20 AM
1

My post. My favorite part Multicultural kindergartens... At first, this might seem illogical to some "Hear me out, fellas. It might not be bad to expose your children to the coloreds!" Also: A KINDERGARTEN WHERE 5 YEAR OLDS CARVE WOOD AND ARE EXPOSED TO OPEN FLAMES????? WHAT THE FUCK KIND OF CHILD-ENDANGERMENT SHIT IS HAPPENING AROUND THIS MAN??? No. Dropping a bunch of toys on the floor and ignoring the kids is a recipe for black eyes and fucking bite wounds. Teachers do not do that. Kindergart…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:15 AM
1

You were asking for validation, and she wasn't about to give it to you. I wasn't really seeking validation. I was genuinely curious to hear what she had to say. I knew what she would be throwing at me would be entirely negative after the way she had behaved towards me throughout the day. Other than that, the matter is now settled. Your last input is exactly what I did!
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:03 AM
1

All I have done is to take a completely objective standing in the matter. Let's say that I've been in forty different places. 20 were great, 20 were terrible. Of the great 20, 80% of them had a noticeable and present male staff, and the 20 terrible had many of the red flags I mentioned. That is not to say that I haven't met many wonderful and hard-working women during my work, but it's sadly uncommon in this industry.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:00 AM
3

Glad we have that settled then.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 11:41 PM
2

Holy fuck.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 11:37 PM
2

Guilty? Over what? You are giving her exactly what she wants. You are spending quality time with a person you like, are you not?
/r/askTRP13/03/14 11:24 PM
1

It's not that I care (Truly) But you're that girl (With sharp teeth) Who grabs at the walls (And pulls meat down) Well here's my new address 6 6 4 ... oh I forget
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 11:16 PM
3

Good.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 11:09 PM
3

Good, because I do not want to be in them.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 10:57 PM
3

I would not like to be in your shoes.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 10:48 PM
2

A real man wouldn't be insulted by the word loser because if he was in fact a real man, it wouldn't carry any substance at all. Real men aren't called creeps either.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 10:36 PM
1

Socratic is truly a key word for how I interact with the children. I had never thought about it like that before.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 10:23 PM
46

Fuck "game". While it's good to carry some ammunition and not be completely clueless, the best game for you is success and self-improvement. Women should never be your first priority. Your own happiness should be.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:58 PM
2

"Creep" is a synonym for "loser", which just so happens to be the most insulting word you can call a man.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:36 PM
15

No, and thinking that is it is could get you a restraining order. Being called a creep is an indicator that your SMV is at the very bottom.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:24 PM
109

A creep is a direct man with low SMV. A stud is a direct man with high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:34 PM
2

It could be, but whatever it is, it is not a conscious decision. I suppose these types of women are just naturally attracted to this type of work. But at the same time, few of them "dominate" the children. That would actually display some enthusiasm. Instead, they are simply deadpan.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:27 PM
1

Nothing, because you think kindergarten means preschool.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:09 PM
2

Because music is emotional, thus emotional people are required to compose it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:24 PM
1

I suppose I'm one of the few who care more about what type of world my son will grow up in than myself.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:21 PM
1

Nope, the climate here is closer to that of Skyrim.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:26 PM
1

Well, I'm glad you got to the core of the problem. You have no idea what a kindergarten is. Thanks for clarifying that. Your posts finally make sense now.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:54 PM
2

If what I said was bullshit, then you're taking a drive on Bullshit Highway 88 in your Bullshitmobile.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:53 PM
1

Are you fucking serious? I hope you realize the ENORMOUS difference between a school and a kindergarten, yeah? Multicultural schools are fucking horrific. Multicultural kindergartens are often brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:51 PM
1

I live in Europe and in a highly multicultural country. Most immigrants are from Somalia, Pakistan, Iraq, Iran, China, and so on, and thus, there exists many kindergartens who have a 50% ethnic / 50% immigrant children, or even 80% ethnic / 50% immigrant. I cannot explain this, but these kindergartens often have fantastic children. Perhaps it is difficult for an American to understand.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:49 PM
1

The south? Not everyone is American, my friend!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:44 PM
1

Nothing to disagree with here. But be aware, these women barely treat girls any different from the boys. One thing is the danger of your son becoming messed up because of the way he is treated, but the most dangerous factor here is the neglect. The men I have observed and worked with have been very vigilant and active, while women have demonstrated spooky signs of apathy and recklessness.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:43 PM
2

It comes from the fact that I have worked in countless places, and I am yet to find one man who did not execute his job perfectly and was very welcoming and helpful towards me. Simple. If I were to be less humble, I would have said "in every single instance".
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:38 PM
1

Good question. I would say that it's because I did not swallow pills of any particular color up until about two months ago. What I am writing here had been my impression since day one.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:37 PM
1

And the jet engine was invented for the purpose of mass murder. That does not take away from the result. Not sending your kid to kindergarten is a terrible idea, because children need to socialize with other children, a lot. I appreciate the history lesson, but the bottom line of what you are saying is nonsense. Good kindergartens exist, and there are some that I worked in that I would definitely send my children to.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:35 PM
2

Done.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:32 PM
2

Correct.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:32 PM
2

First of all, I work with children between the age of 1-6, not 4-8. I have never worked for a Montessori, although Montessori schools do exist here. Not sure if we have Montessori kindergartens. I know there are some kindergartens who have Christian values, but I live in a highly secular country. I would not recommend home-schooling to anyone. Children need to learn how to socialize. The socializing is way more important than the curriculum. I am not entirely sure what you mean, but kindergarten…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:31 PM
3

Honestly, I wish I had an answer, but I don't know why there are so many terrible women working with children. I wouldn't even know where to begin. It's still something I'm trying to understand.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:28 PM
6

Never drink and Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:26 PM
10

First off, I am in Europe, and I imagine men in kindergartens being a bit more socially accepted here than in the US. I've always enjoyed spending time with kids, and getting the job wasn't difficult at all. On the subject, I just had a pretty absurd incident this week where I got fired for being too alpha in a kindergarten with 30 female employees and zero men. The hive-mind felt threatened and intimidated by my presence and wanted someone else. She literally told that my presence was too domin…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:23 PM
3

The children are always near a vigiliant adult in these types of settings.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:34 AM
3

I haven't argued with any of them. I have held frame and smiled and let their attacks on me fly right by. The way I deflect them is fueling the fire, and it's so utterly entertaning because they don't expect me to do it. They expect me to fall to my knees in beg. Instead I respond calmly and smile to everything they throw at me. It feels like I've been put into some TRP virtual reality testing facility. As long as I don't lose my job with my subsistute company, I am having a fucking field day wi…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 10:59 PM
3

The problem is that they can easily contact my employer and ask for a new substitute. If they do this, it can also drastically decrease my amount of work in the future. I am easily disposable to them. My plan for tomorrow is to actually praise everyone for their incredible efforts and tell the boss that I feel very inspired to be working with such experienced people - It will come as a complete mindfuck to her, because it will utterly contradict the negative feedback she has been getting about m…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 10:41 PM
6

This is a lot like I am. I'll be the best friend they've ever had, but if they cross any boundaries, I'll let them know in a calm manner. Without any boundaries, they will have no respect for you. A good-hearted balance is key.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 10:23 PM
15

5 stages of grief: Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance You are at stage 2, my friend. You've lost the part of your life that made you the most happy, and you are in mourning. The 5SOG can be applied to a lot of things in life, and ugly breakups are particularly applicable. What you are going through is so ridiculously common that you have no idea. I have went through almost the exact same thing as you, and I know how fucking crippling it is. What you need to do is be thankful. "What? T…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 09:59 PM
2

This is extremely important because you attract based on your style. If you dress in urban, hip-hop clothing, you'll attract slack, stoner girls. If you dress punk, you'll attract vegans, activists and outcasts. If you dress elegantly and sternly, you'll most likely attract women who are attracted to firm and hard men. This is of course a huge generalization, but I think you get the point. Go with a reflections of who you are, but always do it with style.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 09:47 PM
6

This has been the card I have been playing all along, and now that I've cooked up a plan, I will continue doing this.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 08:50 PM
7

Yep, this is a pipe dream. These women will flip their fucking shit if I do this.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 08:48 PM
2

You can rarely attract with beta traits alone, and alpha traits do the job ten times better, but a combination will make you a whole lot more desirable.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 12:21 AM
1

Or just cheat and play in a band instead.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 11:15 PM
6

It's bleakly startling. Unlike most here who find the progressively feminized society disconcerting, I see it only as somewhat frightening. The consequence of how our society is morphing is a distruption of nature. If our species was supposed to be gender neutral, then it would have been so inherently. This type of evolutional distruption will mess up future generations. It's already apparent today, and the process has barely even begun. Men are becoming women and women are becoming men, the lin…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 01:52 PM
4

It's clear that you are speaking from experience, and I'm glad you've learned from your mistakes. And you are definitely right. I'd just like to add that for your next relationship, focus on "prong 2" aswell. Do the shit your want, with little compromise. It will keep your SMV up with your girlfriend, it will keep you healthy and sane, and it will keep you from becoming dependent on her. Never forget about yourself, because in the end, you are all you have.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 08:37 AM
1

I understand your reluctance, but it's simply the truth. If a woman cheats, part of the thrill is the cheating itself, and another motivation is that they distance their husbands completely from the act, as if the husband was never there in the first place. Cheaters suspend reality from the affair. If a woman wants to surpass the cheating, she will most often ask for an open relationship. Cuckolding is a much more complex puzzle. The one who gets the most pleasure out of a cuckold relationship i…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:46 PM
2

It really isn't an extension of the feminist mindset. You are overthinking it. Sexuality lies in the subconscious, while concepts like feminism are conscious thoughts. If a woman truly hates men so much that she wants to feed her husband some other guy's cum directly from her pussy, then she is fucked up beyond all repair. Most women are not like that. Believe it or not, the majority of cuckold relationships come to life through very perusasive husbands. Just a quick Google will give you a count…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:14 PM
1

The only part you are missing is that cuckolding is an extreme type of femdom. It is the ultimate humiliation. There are of course those women who are simply talked into it by their husbands. I've seen this happen. But then there are the actual hotwives who gleefully fuck other men and agonize their husbands with it. There is your difference. That is when it becomes true femdom.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:29 PM
1

Trust me, there is no trend to neglect the animalistic nature of female sexuality. That's one of the key fundamentals here. Of course it's a female fantasy for some, but if it is, then said woman is into heavy femdom. If she proposes to her boyfriend/husband that she wants to cuckold him, then she's extremely dominating sexually. Anything that has to do with cuckolding is not normal for human behavior. And honestly, the same goes for the woman in that case, she is also suffering from some kind o…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 06:45 AM
2

We've all come to this place for a reason, my friend. We're tired of the confusion and misery.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 06:42 AM
5

It's simply to do with the fact that most men feel like their value is way underneath the 9's and 10's, so nobody approaches. 95% of men expect immediate rejection when attempting to flirt with an absolute bombshell, and the flawed logic is that they must get hit on all time time. James Marshall said that most supermodels are actually extremely lonely and some even turn lesbian because no men ever approach them. This is also a reason why there are a lot of models with very low self-esteem.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:38 AM
1

Gotta remember that not all of cuckolding involves race. For the cuckolding relationships that do involve race, sure there's white guilt. But that is only a personal flavor within the fetish, it does not define the fetish itself. And saying it's a woman's fantasy just seems wrong. There are way more men into this fetish than women.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:33 AM
0

You'd be a loser within sexual evolutionary terms, for certain. That's why I said the term "loser" is vague.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:31 AM
4

My father is Red Pill as fuck, and he served as a fantastic rolemodel for me when I was growing up. One of the first things my father told me was the difference between men and women. That women are entirely different from men in every regard. Never once did he portrey them as inferior. I remember every time he met a woman, whether it was at 7-11 or in the shoe store, he would turn his charm on like a switch, and make the woman giggle. Every single time. No exceptions. And the prettier the girl,…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 04:06 AM
11

Well, "loser" is a vague term. Cuckolds are suffering from a mental illness, in truth. I think some cuckolds have some underlying masochistic tendecies, but the majority of them have their self-esteem in a ditch. I'd pity them more than I would berate them, because they truly need help.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 07:23 PM
2

Yep, to the fortunate few of us, finding this place is like rebirth. It is only when you have lost everything that you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. It's only when you've lived through your worst nightmare that you begin to live the dream.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:03 PM
27

This is one of the most important concepts to grasp to avoid being absolutely miserable in your first relationship. I went along with the unconditional love idea in my first one, and it's kind of insane to think that it just doesn't fucking work. Women outrageously despise it, and no one has ever told us this. It's like we've been engineered to believe that food is bad. It's all just so extremely counter-intuitive, because again, unconditional love is a completely broken concept, and it won't wo…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:15 PM
0

Good and evil are often seen as some sort of abstract "forces" by most people. But in reality, good is what in beneficial to our species, and evil is what is destructive. The things that hurt us hurt our species, thus it's seen as evil. It's all about survival.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 12:55 AM
1

If you are interested in keeping the discussion going, read my response to this guy as it sums up what I would have responded to you aswell and I can't be bothered to write the same thing twice.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 03:49 AM
3

Let me tell you something. I wouldn't go as far as to say most of us, but many of us want the same thing as you do. In summary, a best friend with tits and a vagina, right? Would certainly be wonderful, wouldn't it? Unfortunately, that is just not how the world works, and thus you are left with no other choice than to either be miserable or adapt to reality. You mention that things used to be different; that our society has gone to shit. But what you need to realize is that the dream you describ…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 02:53 AM
1

Very enlightening post, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 02:23 AM
1

He played it in accordance with what makes him happy. He chose to stay true to his principles above getting his dick wet. You might want to read his other posts as your advice is kind of irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 02:12 AM
1

Let us, for the sake of argument, assume that every woman has a certain threshold when it comes to loyalty. The ones who are, in my opinion, free to bang, are the ones we commonly refer to as sluts. With sluts, it doesn't really matter who you are. As long as you're fairly attractive, there's a 70%-80% chance that she will cheat. If you fuck that girl while she's in a relationship, and she shows little sign of hesitance nor remorse, then I would wholeheartedly agree that "banging" her, as you so…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:55 AM
-3

Alright, here's the deal. I'm going to take this hammer into one hand. Now I'm going to take this screw into the other, and point it directly towards your forehead. This is the screw, and I'm going to hit it really fucking hard: Most women are the opposite of your fairy tale princess. However, there is a minority of women who can become your fairy tale princess if you act in accordance with what is taught here. As terrible as it sounds, women need to be put in place. They need to be lead. Most i…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:28 AM
2

What brutal regret did you have to go through?
/r/askTRP28/02/14 01:19 AM
3

If the girl in OP's story was making out with him, I must have missed that part, but that is actually kind of irrelevant now. Of couse I would agree that if she is making out with him and even escalating further on her own initiative then she's a cheating piece of garbage. If that is the case then I understand your confusion. What I was arguing with Archwinger was a different type of scenario where the man is the one initiating and encouraging the infidelity from the start. This is where we reac…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:16 AM
20

It completely depends on what you want in a woman, because what you want in a woman is what you actually need. Trust your gut. If you truly need a smart girl, do NOT settle for anything less. I settled for a girl who had a lot of terrific qualities, but lacked intelligence and was extremely ignorant, and I don't even mean that in a condescending way. I've met children who have had a better understanding of how the world works. It drove me crazy for the first year as I started to feel like I was …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:07 AM
2

Not only that, but the consensus always seems to fall on what is beneficial when it comes to the concept of hypergamy. In one instance, women are instinctively programmed to be whores and cannot control themselves ("accept the nature of women") and within a different context, women need to take responsibility for their actions, with a touch of NAWALT on top. Once again, the consensus always comes down to what is beneficial for us and gets us off the hook, and the insincerity of that perpetual di…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 12:39 AM
8

Who exactly am I giving advice to? I'm sincerely trying to understand Archwinger's point of view and I'm interested to see what he has to say as I enjoy his posts.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:10 PM
0

If you are comparing women to children then we have a possible problem. Should women be free from consequence and not have agency, or should they be held accountable for their own actions? This is a blue pill thought process in that women can't be held accountable, unless I am reading too much into your argument. As sentient beings with reason we should be held accountable for our actions. I have seen plenty of comparisons between women and children on here, and while it's a stretch, I believe t…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:07 PM
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Well, I agree with you in the context that you have put it in, but what if you reverse it? What if she hasn't checked out of the relationship at all, but you are becoming the temptation for her instead? There are countless examples of women who suddenly discover that they are unhappy in their relationship because of that one guy she has met, and there are close-to-zero examples were that one guy's intentions are entirely platonic. So, while you are correct in your context, what you describe is n…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 09:11 PM
2

I agree. While I can't attempt to shame someone out of creating affairs, I just find it bothersome when someone attempts to justify the action. I've done it before. I've stolen girls. Every single time I did, I acknowledged that I was an asshole. There was not a single point where I attempted to justify it, or pulled the whole "well if I don't do it ..." fallacy. I stopped doing this entirely for the exact same reasons as you. The pussy isn't worth the damage I will cause onto others. Even more …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 08:22 PM
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I hate to pick an argument with some as renowned as yourself, but I'd truly like to understand your reasoning here. You point out that not fucking her doesn't "help" her, but you would agree that actually convincing her to fuck him would do a great deal of damage, wouldn't you? Honestly, this concept that being involved in an affair is free from moral responsibility seems awfully flawed to me. If you don't care about morals and integrity, then good on you for admitting it. Then I can't argue. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 07:58 PM
2

I don't think you have it quite right. He has one thing that makes him who he is, and that is confidence. Now, certainly, a lot of that confidence has roots in his natural cosmetics, but that level of confidence can become a part of you if you dedicate your self to improving. I know people who are ridiculously more ugly than James and have slept with an equal amount of women, if not above. Besides, he's not actually that pretty, he is just extremely well-groomed. He doesn't look very tall, he's …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 07:30 PM
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Hearing stories about others can put things in perspective, and I believe that was his intent, not to "stroke his ego". Unless he's masochistic and his own misery serves as emotional masturbation. Which I doubt.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 07:17 PM
2

This guy is like the Nelson Mandela of seduction. It's practically RP with a coat of blue paint on top. I feel both confused and inspired.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:32 PM
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What you are going through is normal. You need to keep calm, do not contact her. I know it feels unfair that you couldnt scream out at the top of your lungs what a moron she has been, but if you contact her again or even change your standpoint now, you will brutally regret it. Its all emotions, so keep them in check. Regarding the porn, this is also normal. You are still sexually attracted to her, and thinking about her and masturbating to the thought of her having sex with someone else is a def…
/r/askTRP27/02/14 07:21 AM
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We're not talking about women, we're talking about general knowledge of how the world works. And I'm not entirely sure how you can whiteknight a culture, but okay.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:41 PM
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Good on you for throwing overused terminology my way. Would you like some applause? To turn the tables, there wouldn't be any point in pointing out what you did if NAWALT wasn't true to some extent. You said that Asian women aren't submissive. Wouldn't that imply that submissive women are more present in other continents? We're not talking about the nature of women, we are talking about culture, and what you did was throw every single Asian culture into the same basket. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:53 PM
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What a generalizing crock of shit. Asian could be Japanese, Korean, Filipino, Malaysyan, Thai, Chinese and so on. It's like saying that all European women are cold and narcissistic just because you've dated some girls from Ukraine and Russia. In addition, a percentage of Chinese and Korean women who are raised in the west are often adopted, and in many cases, adoptive parents are batshit crazy, thus raising equally crazy children.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:26 PM
2

So how exactly does your man keep you in line?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/14 09:19 PM
1

Well, being with her certainly hasn't helped.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 09:33 PM
5

The biggest problem here is that you assume she's right. While it's easy to get blinded by the stereotypical "alpha/beta"-dynamic, it could very well be that she's cheated on him in the past, or broken him to the point where he's become paranoid. It goes without saying that this guy should have broken up with her ages ago and rid himself of his agonizing co-dependency, but regardless, you should not take her word for it. Remember that women are dictated by emotions and impulses. For all you know…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 06:49 PM
1

I wish you would elaborate further on this in a new thread, because it's so damn accurate. A lot of people don't understand this. The entire point is to be free from women, not to pursue them to make you feel better. Throughout history, shit got done. Men pursued their own goals instead of mindlessly chasing women. The concept of romance hadn't even come into existence. Love was way more natural and pragmatic. That has all changed into finding "the one". Do not enslave yourself. Be free and be y…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 02:59 PM
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Yeah, I think OP misunderstands TRP completely. It's not like TRP turns you into someone else. TRP helps you evolve towards your full potential. It is about treating yourself with respect, standing up for yourself and understanding the nature of women. Humor can be fluently integrated into your game aswell, using it to tease and neg. Just don't be a clown.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 02:48 PM
5

Yep, truth be told, it's more a human thing than a female thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 07:17 PM
3

For a sub-reddit about how to be a man, there sure is a lot of talk about how and what to swallow.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:43 PM
9

There is something I believe you missed. At the end of your post, you mentioned doing non-sexual activities to increase the bond. That part is both great and goes with out saying, but my addition would be to make even those activities sexual in some way. Although it's difficult, treat her like you did on your first date. Stay mysterious, assume attraction, toy with her, tease her, stare her dead in the eye. Game her, playfully. Let her know that even though the two of you are now sharing your li…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:45 PM
1

I will next time. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:24 PM
2

Honestly, I'd love to suspend my messiah complex for just a little bit, but it's shit like this that makes me wish people would preach TRP on the street with a fucking megaphone. You can call him an idiot, you can call him a blue pill, beta pussy, but in reality, this guy is suffering from the twisted indoctrination of an emasculated society. Truly suffering. We would just chuckle, shake our heads and get out, but for OP this is an incomprehendable nightmare. One thing is to refuse to acknowledg…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:19 PM
1

And that is exactly why I am here.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 03:45 PM
7

Common fucking sense right here.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:31 PM
1

I feel you. As Ive explained before, the problem with TRP is that a lot of the philosophy comes across as cold and heartless, thus, the cold and heartless find solace here. On top of that, many live up to the negative stereotype aswell as a lot of men here are bitter fucks with a vengeance. Ive been lied to and cheated on aswell, but unlike a lot of unfortunate fellas, I dont automatically declare fatwa on half of the earths population. Some of the generalizations that occur here are flat-out pi…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:20 PM
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Sex is way more psychological and emotional than it is physical for most women. What gets to her is not your performance, but her attraction to you. Her previous lovers probably attracted her emotionally more than sexually, and thus, sex with you is vastly different. None of her previous lovers made her properly horny. The greatest lover in the world can fuck a woman senseless, but if she's not aroused, she will either feel pain or nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 10:07 PM
2

Those were warning signs that they had insufficient chemistry, not that she was insane.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:33 AM
2

All women work the same way instinctively and subconsciously. In that way all women are the same. But to generalize all woman as being a single entity ... Okay, bro.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:49 AM
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I can't really tell you because I wasn't there, but there must have been some warning signs when a woman is this detached from reality.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:01 AM
14

This serves more as comedy than it does as a cautionary tale. Every woman is different, and this one just happened to be out of her fucking mind. How he didn't see the warning signs is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 09:24 PM
1

I can only speak for myself, but for me, I had to stand face to face with my greatest fear to overcome it, and that was to break up with my girlfriend of three years. Your question is so vague that it's difficult to answer. For what I wrote specifically, about LTR, the only thing that ever worked for me was letting go. I now treasure the mistakes I made with her and I'm looking forward to whatever might come next, although the process was hell.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:46 PM
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Your daugher is very lucky to have you, and I'm happy to see that you've found the light in the darkness of your life. You should be very proud. What I was trying to convey was that the trauma she might endure by being brought up in a very negative and dysfunctional marriage might be worse than the trauma of divorce. But that is not to say that I believe you should file for divorce now, only if it becomes unbearable. This actually reminds me of myself, in a way. My parents divorced when I was ve…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:07 PM
1

This is so important. Although it might be completely invisible to you, the dynamic between you and your wife will be etched into your daughers mind subconsciously. If the marriage is dysfunctional, that will affect your daughters future relationships and her view on men, permanently. That trauma is way worse than the trauma of divorce.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:45 PM
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To me, this has very little to do with women, and more about life in general. No matter what you do, things can always go wrong. Shit can always hit the fan. Believing that you are or can be can be bulletproof is to not live at all. Take chances, and make the best of what you got with the resources and knowledge you have at your disposal. You can control yourself, but nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:02 PM
1

Letting go of control is the equivalent of letting go of fear in this instance, because you fear losing control.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:56 PM
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The 5,500 day thing sounds a bit like an excuse. I could be wrong here, but it honestly sounds like a rationalization. It's like an addict saying "I can't quit now because [X]". You can always leave. I understand that you care very much for your daughter, but is the sacrifice really worth it? If you manage a somewhat clean divorce and shield your daughter from the drama, I doubt it will be too traumatic for her. You've been selfless for way too long. It's time to take control over your own life …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:50 PM
0

Unless you are being sarcastic, which I sincerely hope you are, the only way you could be right would be if there wasn't a single example of a monogamous relationship in recorded history.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 02:16 AM
1

What keeps being brought up is the accusation of sociopathy. The reason for this is that TRP attracts sociopaths and assholes. There's no getting around that. TRP often enforces views that are percieved as cold and heartless by society, thus the cold and heartless find solace here. There are a lot of people on here who do in fact hate women, men and boys who grew up with malicious mothers, who now have a very messed up relationship with the opposite gender. This is why it's important to not beli…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 12:07 AM
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While your story is sweet and I am truly happy for you, I think you got it wrong. The "unicorn" is the girl who will love you unconditionally despite your beta behavior. What you have done is take a good girl and make her better. Without the alpha characteristics you are now displaying, the good girl would have gone astray. There is no such thing as a unicorn, but there is such a thing as a good woman. The good woman needs a man to remain good, not a boy.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 11:46 PM
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This is a pretty ignorant mindset. Monogamous relationships aren't some kind of delusional dream. They become a delusional dream once the man loses value. A relationship is very possible if the man remains higher value than most other men.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 06:37 PM
4

As with everything, you have to come to your own conclusions based on what you find logical and based on your own experiences. Although Redpillers have common perspectives, everyone is different. When it comes to loyalty, I believe it depends on the relationship, but the bottom line is that in most cases, women love attraction. They love passion. They rarely love you. Although a lot of people disagree with me on this, I, again, believe it comes down to the type of relationship you have with a wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 06:32 PM
4

Watch House of Cards.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 03:41 PM
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I had to double check that this wasnt called "what Ive learned from House of Cards".
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 12:06 PM
1

I've learned something today. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 10:20 PM
2

Yep, this is a key principle, not only to TRP, but to life in general. Love someone with all of your heart, but never invest all of your happiness into one person, especially not a woman. I made this mistake, like many others, unconditionally giving myself away and finding all of my satisfaction in being in a relationship. You cannot have a functional relationship with someone else until you have a fulfilling and joyful relationship with yourself. If you rely on a person for happiness and that p…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:46 PM
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Plenty of marriages work, you just dont hear about successful marriages as much as the broken ones. Remember that complaints are louder than the success stories. When we're satified, the need to tell the world is not as intense. Keep your head up.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:46 PM
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Came for porn, stayed for completely irrelevant life story.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:05 PM
1

If you leave her, you trade away a selection of traits for others. I doubt there's any real red pill answer for this. Ask yourself, would you be more happy now without her than with her. And besides, you could always tell her to do more stuff beside bingewatching TV.
/r/askTRP08/02/14 04:55 PM
1

As everyone else is pointing out, you are taking a major risk. However, if you choose to do it, and only you can judge if it's right, make her yours in the process. I have no idea what the sexual dynamic is like in your relationship, but do not let her think of the sex as freedom. Make her think of it as if you are taking her on a sexual adventure. Throw her to the dogs. Silently judge her performance. Reward her when she's been good. If you wish to maintain your dominance over her, however you …
/r/askTRP31/01/14 02:54 AM
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