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| 1 | CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic.That's a lot of words just to say "I lack the ability to make a counterargument" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | MRP/RP LTR behavior spotted in literature. there is nothing new under the sun [long]I read more books in a week than you have in your entire lifetime. If you're gonna comment on my shit keep your gross autism in check pls thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlHow bout Dem apples https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psypost.org/2017/10/young-women-convince-men-want-use-condom-unprotected-sex-instead-50030/amp A new scientific study in published in The Journal of Sex Research suggests it is common for young women to convince their partners to have unprotected sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlBUT if the man doesn't use a condom, he is ALWAYS running the risk that he didn't do EVERYTHING HE COULD to avoid impregnating her. If the woman allows herself to be penetrated without a condom, same thing. She didn't do EVERYTHING SHE COULD to avoid being impregnated. It is a reciprocal transaction Clearly it's you who is literally out of your mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlRape is illegal is it not? If she did not consent to being penetrated unprotected, she would not be in that position. Accountability for ALL or for NONE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controljust that men are shit at being accountable. Yeah tell that to the 600,000 women getting abortions every year lol SPARE ME | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlIt changes OP's view because OP seems to be laboring under the (somewhat commonly held) delusion that only men should be accountable for their sexual behavior. Ban abortion and make men pay? Is that what you are saying? That is what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlIt's only irresponsibility when men are irresponsible. Women have no responsibility to be responsible after all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlWe talk a lot about poor menz being stuck paying for a kid they didn't want and it's only fair (stomp, stomp, tantrum) they should be able to opt out of fatherhood financially. I would bet a neat sum that by and large, the vast majority of men are themselves responsible for what they've gotten into and need to stop acting like innocent victims. If the RedPill and such has exposed the clandestine nature of women, why would you expose yourself to such an easily avoidable risk? Agency for all, or a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media inflated the value of the average girl? To blame for sad state of modern guys?Another aspect is to this is the sheer expansion of scope of available partners. As a man you're no longer competing with just the girls she is around in person, but with any guy she could possibly encounter online. Kind of analogous to how we know compete in a globalized labor market. Survival of the fittest indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I think women should offer a paternity test to the father of their child without being asked.I also don't understand how recognizing that it's possible, even if highly improbable, that someone else may be the father is so insulting. It's fake outrage to protect the ability to exercise the unconscious desire to engage in a dualistic mating strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsI can basically pinpoint the exact BMI at which I become a viable sexual option to women, an insight I gained from fluctuations in weight over the years. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | 23 year old r/sex poster no longer wants to engage in casual sex. She now wants to wait "weeks or months" before sleeping with a partner. Would you wait for her knowing the foregoing? Why or why not?I am kind of in this mindset where I don’t see why sex has to come before a relationship, but I fear men won’t make an exception for me now that I am no longer a virgin, but I still value sex the same as I did before. I still want to only sleep with a man that I am deeply fond of and not just take a risk, sleep with someone, and hope it works out. I’d rather have some confidence that it will work out before sleeping with the guy. Your reasons are perfectly understandable, but I wouldn't. I don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | The bar on male physical attractiveness is set so high. Why do women rate most men as physically unattractive?You're being judged on a photo online, as it's pretty difficult for a man to express the other factors that are attractive to women (dominance, charisma, etc.) over a digital profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: TRP as men's liberation (and AF/BB as an observation of freedom)You're the perfect workhorse! (Who cares if my wife's getting nailed by other dudes I get to fuck other girls!) God Bless You and your ilk....this whole scam society wouldn't work without it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you really not understand why women don't want to be your "shit deal"If women en masse accepted that men only value sex and not commitment they'd simply stop having sex with anyone but chad and opt into single motherhood FUCKING DO IT ALREADY!!!!! STOP LIVING A LIE LIVE YOUR DREAMS INSTEAD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4 AFCs: When you say you want “empathy” from women, what does that look like from her and how does it help you?Guy: "I'd rather not be the guy a woman settles on for stability after she's had all her sexual adventures and fun. Makes sense, right?" Lack of empathy "Insecure Misogynist!" Appropriate amount of empathy "Yeah that makes sense, well you're free to not settle for being settled, and there's nothing wrong with that." (Credit where credit's due, a couple of responses did offer up substantially that. But seriously, read through the thread and "Insecure Misogynist!!111!!" is a much better reflection… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Men are systematically oppressed into taking the loosing dealDamn you had me till Just got to deal with it OP and not give women the sympathy they so often beg for "Man up and just deal" is how things have gotten to the point you so eloquently described, and they will only get worse until it's rebutted en masse. Or, well, until the hypocrtical house of cards becomes wholly unsustainable and falls under its own weight, but somehow I doubt that will be a very elegant conclusion . Ah well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | A persons upbringing and level of family dysfunction is a better indicator or relationship reliability than n-count.Dated a girl n=0 and a crazy amount of that stuff you mentioned so I can definitely confirm that those factors are way more important. (Sample size of n=1) I don't have a preference for lower n because of relationship reliability, though (I realize some do) I have that preference because I have a visceral ick reaction to high n and because it makes me feel less special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | After having discovered RP and/or becoming more successful with women, have your standards increased?I agreed to an LDR with a woman I had known for a while after we crossed paths again, reconnected, she was at times almost obsessive with how into me she was (like, I had never felt so perfectly loved, before or since), she was considerate, kind, and poetic, and when she asked me to be in a relationship, I agreed, because that's what I wanted too. And then, within about a week, switch flipped. A couple of resucitations here and there as I desperately tried to save things (pretty haphazardly in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?If it isn't totally imagined, it would be because he's seen it as a reaction to his presence enough times to know what it usually is stemming from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating fucking up the minds of men? Is it better to stay away from it?Could it be that online dating disproportionately (but not exclusively) attracts the image obsessed? Basically making it a bimodal market where some of the people who "win" are willing to go to any length to do so, while the rest are frozen out but unwilling to "win at any cost"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about porn?If you look through that OP's post history, she is also posting porn. So umm hypocritical much? Like porn is exploitative of only women who don't look like her? (She claims to look twenty lol). At least true sociopaths are good at hiding their "naked" self interest! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Is the Cock Carousel real?When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why was there so much backlash for women over how she wants to treat her husband?They see her as a scab. If she's doing it, then other guys reading it will be like "why can't the girl I'm with do it?!" And they're right...there's no reason. If a guy wants a girl like that, he should date a girl like that. He shouldn't try and force a girl who isn't like that into being like that In the same way, a girl shouldn't force a guy into housework egalitarianism if that's what she wants ....she should just be with a guy who also sees the world that way I swear to God half of relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women want rights without responsibilities, and the best example of this is their support for maintaining family laws whose object was to prevent widow(er)s and divorce(e)s, and their minor children, being cast into poverty (back when wives were property)It's easy to laugh at the injustices you're not subject to Laugh away kiddo Look how brave and correct you are! You must be the first woman to ever laugh at men complaining about being screwed over /FUCKINGSARCASM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | If alpha/dominance behaviors can be learned, why are they valuable as fitness signals?actual value And what would you say actual value is determined by? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Menopause is not the age of infertilityProbably one subsidized by captains of industry who want a giant army of spinsters to work in their white collar salt-mines. The greatest trick the corporate overlords played on women is convincing them that making PowerPoints about market penetration is more fulfilling than raising a child | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The UK's NHS reveals that one in ten are mistaken about the identity of their fatherI should hope so! CRIMINALIZE WOMEN DOING ANYTHING AT ALL THAT MAKES THEIR GINIES FEEL GOOD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The UK's NHS reveals that one in ten are mistaken about the identity of their fatherI don't care about men cheating because they can't falsely delude a woman into thinking her DNA is being passed on. A woman committing paternity fraud s basically murdering a man's genes Accordingly, these lying whores should be executed on sight and if there is any justice in this world they (and only they, not the men) will be HASHTAG SLAUGHTER THE WHORES there happy now lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Right that's fine, but thing is if a girl is really into a guy she'll put everyone else on hold. As a guy, that's the guy you want to be in my opinion (if you're gonna commit to her that is, otherwise, who cares) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?I didn't see that as him making an ethical judgment but rather a practical one....I could be misreading it though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4M - do you expect “assumed exclusivity” from women after the first date?Ideally the first date is magical. If it is then great. And that's what one should hold out for, in my opinion. A person with whom that happens. Sometimes you need a second date to find the magic. By the 2nd or 3rd date I know if there’s no magic to be had. This is a standard vetting process for women. Right. But I don't want "standard". I want magical if I'm going to give up my God given right to spread my seed even temporarily lol. Sure she'll know she can exclude in 2 or 3 dates. But if she's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4M - do you expect “assumed exclusivity” from women after the first date?You can only commit to one girl....might as well be a girl who was so into you from the first date she stopped seeing anyone else It is a thing that happens, every day. That's the guy you wanna be in my humble opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Even high SMV pretty girls someday find themselves into someone. If that guy is a fuck yeah, many of them will indeed stop seeing other people, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what is the longest (ie most dates) you've gone/would be willing to continue dating a girl without sleeping with her? Or without any physical contact?My top score in "without sleeping" department was.... eeer.... somewhere around a year. Impressive! Was it worth it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Lol which is exactly what I'm saying! And the other guys in the thread have been saying! It's a signaling mechanism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?if she likes Office Guy enough Also very relevant. Now let's take the converse ...if she doesn't like office guy enough, she won't cancel. If I'm office guy, why would I want to pursue a woman who doesn't feel a "fuck yeah" level of enthusiasm about me? What's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?The information being what the woman tells her lol. Yeah, she could be lying,.or obfuscating, or whatever. And that is my point: that's always possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?That is true, you can't really know anything about anyone for sure when it comes down to it....and yet here people are attempting to make decisions based on the information they do have. Idiots! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?She owes Office Guy her loyalty Lol postponing a date (the Saturday one in your example) for some time in the future to see how things go with the Office guy (assuming she enjoyed that date) isn't tantamount to swearing a blood oath to the Office guy lol. Just do it serially rather than simultaneously. That's my preference and at least some women do choose to date that way, which is fantastic--there is soup for every pot! Just as an aside, at a broader level, the point of dating is to establish … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?In their 20's women should live it up and get all that life experience. That just means that in their 30's, men should do the same. So a man in his 40's and a woman in her 30's are a good long-term match by those rule The real redpill lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?If after date 1 other men so much as exist in your eyes I can do better That's the key right there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:31 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?A girl dating one person at a time isn't a unicorn lol. Maybe uncommon, but not ephemeral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?but she shouldn’t? As I said I've no qualms acknowledging the ethical equivalence. That is a given. But if all else is equal, I'd choose the girl who hasn't been dating around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?But who am I to turn down free dinner and drinks, especially with guys whose company I enjoy anyhow? 100% agreed lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?I really don't mean this in any bad way whatsoever, but if that's all it is, why not , you know, just hire someone who is....specifically there to fulfill that role? And maybe even sleep with her after! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Oh no what you're saying totally makes sense from a global perspective. What I'm saying is yeah I will be dating around but all else being equal might as well pick the girl who didn't sleep with anyone else if that is an option available to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Right that's fine, but all else being equal might as well pick one who hasn't been seeing anyone else, if that is available to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?They somehow just picked up on that by my demeanor • They liked playing the big swinging dick with pretty girls • They were trying to impress the bartender or waitress But for months....on a specific girl....who they are not sleeping with ....is the part that is rather confusing. Unless I dunno maybe you were the prettiest girl who would accept their company lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Nah I agree it's his fault. But fuck is it his fault. So gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 05:11 PM |
| 16 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Why not just pick a girl who isn't seeing other people? You can only be monogamous with one person, after all...might as well pick someone who wasn't seeing other people at the same time, even if you were. That may be a given person's best strategy, if that sort of thing is important to them/their ego It definitely is to mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:55 PM |
| 20 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Spending money on dinner and drinks for someone else for months without getting laid, I mean, I am impressed when a woman is able to secure that , and you certainly have no obligation to turn it down, but my God why would a guy do that? Mutual enjoyment of company would suggest splitting the bill lol. Anyway, I also believe that everyone should use their powers, gifts and abilities to their maximum effect...as you seem to have very much done! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Spending money on women is a sucker's game. Lol exactly this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:42 PM |
| 24 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?No sex, just them buying me drinks and dinner It hurts my ego that a man would tolerate that for months lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:27 PM |
| 27 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?+1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?There's /r/pornfree. And that's just on Reddit. I'm sure you can find other anti-porn, yet not-anti-masturbation groups if you look for them. Even Gary Wilson himself (the speaker in the TED talk video) has stated that he's not flat-out against masturbation and believes it can be healthy in moderation as long as pornography is not used as an aid. Interesting ...yeah apparently some of these folks even swear off sex. It's good that others have seen the wisdom in not throwing the baby (literally l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireIt's irrelevant whether you specifically hold the viewpoint I attributed to pro-choicers; what is relevant is that enough of them hold that viewpoint to lead us to this point where an abortion ban with those exceptions is insufficient QED We done here or do you have more meany words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireAttack the argument not the arguer Remember, in a democracy, some legislators and voters will disagree with you and HaTE WOMeN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireI did. you're using a strawman. If that's all pro choicers cared about we would have a law that says "abortion is banned except for rape, incest, and life of the mother". That's been on the table for decades. It's not enough for them, because they want to absolve themselves of personal responsibility The end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireRape and incest COMBINED account for 1.5% of the 600,000 abortions performed every year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are not ready for relationships because they still live at home..Human courtship existed before money existed. This is a great line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Actually the best thing for nature is to sterilise the entire human race. Oh God you're one of those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Except for a few that use it for sports. Lol how does it help with sports | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Right what I mean is it is not new | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, tell me about your unicorns!No woman had ever made me feel more perfectly loved and cherished, more special, more lusted for, or more thrilled to be alive..... ...until she asked for, and I agreed to, be in a committed relationship with her. Like a light switch, it all shut down immediately, within days. I notice the same thing seems to happen in many other relationships, just in much slower motion. Lesson learned. Never commit. It has served me well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, tell me about your unicorns!My unicorn taught me there are no unicorns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?booze This one doesn't seem like the others...isn't booze timeless rather than unique to this time period? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?What a world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 09:28 PM |
| 0 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)Thing is, how do you avoid fucking around when the person you're dating might secretly be, if there's no agreed monogamy in place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)Some people have the self-control to date prospects one at a time, which is arguably less trashy. I do not, because I don't like making unenforceable unilateral sacrifices (whose to say the girl isn't dating other people unless monogamy is explicitly agreed) but I can see why some people would because "morals" or whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?The last group is bigger proportionally - in both senses of the word - but the last group is the substantial. But there doesn't seem to be a half-way house - there's not much of a cline, just either X or Y. Kinda echoes income inequality ..hollowed out middle class with extremes of haves and have nots The exception being the perennially skinny guys in the middle. But they're basically fat guys who don't gain weight if that makes sense. Haha yeah totally, there's a category called "normal weight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?I'm not sure what it is but there is absolutely something there. I think we're in a period with so many novel stimuli that people will have to test for themselves what works for themselves and what doesn't until the science catches up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: would you date or LTR a woman who had worked in the sex industry if she never had sex?A stripper? When I was pretty young, before I'd developed gut instincts against that sort of thing and thought "hey no big deal", I went along with it this one time. It was a terrible mistake. I've never been treated so outright disrespectfully/manipulated by a woman before or since. Hash tag not all strippers, I'm sure, but there's so many women out there Why risk it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?8.5/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Science can't catch up because there is no control group of young boys and men not watching porn. LMAO there's gotta be some guys who don't ...maybe. It is a real issue though and is behind the popularity of the nofap movement. I feel like this issue is in need of a third, less intense perspective than nofap that goes something like "hey bud, have you ever gone a few months without porn before? Give it a shot and see if you feel different! (See if you even can!) " I dunno, something like that...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?I was reluctant to consider that possibility, since I see porn in a mostly positive light. But I’m starting think it might be somewhat true. Yeah and there's always been this messaging around it emphasizing concepts like "healthy", "perfectly normal", etc That’s specially the case when I go for too long with more extreme porn, it feels like normal porn and sex aren’t exciting enough. Reminds me of that episode of South Park where Randy gets addicted to porn and they run out of internet. The good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?It’s like anything else. Some people can’t drink without getting addicted, some can’t. It doesn't make alcohol inherently bad. I feel like marijuana is a really good example of this. Yeah, it's only "psychologically addicting" and the past hysteria was dumb, but so is treating it like it's harmless for everyone the way they insist on it now. My issue with porn is that kids as young as 9 are now being exposed. That was probably fine in the days of playboys and bootleg VHS movies. Today there’s so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Well, I think theres may be some latent factor Agreed...this is my take as well. Your point about marijuana also reminds me, even though everyone says marijuana isn't addicting or is only "psychologically addicting" or whatever, it can definitely become very destructive for some people Again, maybe latent issues at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?An earlier fat dude with a death grip dick was probably just silently disappointing any partner he had. Today the bar is raising in terms of expectations Ohh very interesting point ...being shitty in bed was nbd before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Finally, i think death grip is a much larger masturbation related issue than pornography. Isn't death gripping a tale as old as time lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: From The Guardian "Is porn making young men impotent'?Surely it isn't a negative impact for a man who, in the absence of porn, would not be able to get laid anyway. that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Do men have an "epiphany phase" where they want to settle down and have kids, in the same way women do?part-time So three days a week instead of just weekends (which is two days lol). Is that ant different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Do men have an "epiphany phase" where they want to settle down and have kids, in the same way women do?no matter what. Well, other than divorce/breaking up I reckon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 02:36 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, what are aspects of “gender equality” you’re knowingly hypocritical about?tips fedora | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 04:35 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are aspects of “gender equality” you’re knowingly hypocritical about?female black widow spider and the female preying mantis and scowl with jealousy. More like the other way around....once the spider is dead, it's dead, but humans keep the male alive so it can be put to work and have its resources harvested and transferred to the female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are aspects of “gender equality” you’re knowingly hypocritical about?I also prefer men to walk curbside What's the idea behind this one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Do men have an "epiphany phase" where they want to settle down and have kids, in the same way women do?Sorta echoes Tucker Max's "reformation". Once the most hated man on the Internet, former “dick lit” douchelord Tucker Max has rebranded himself as a self-help guru teaching men how to fall in love. But are we ready to take him seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Do men have an "epiphany phase" where they want to settle down and have kids, in the same way women do?I suppose I had a reverse epiphany. No need to impinge on my freedom, make the state a participant in my life, and subject myself to the hostagedom of a modern woman and her culture-imposed brainwashing to have kids. Instead, it seems to me that it's far easier to just knock up a girl or three, work out co-parenting and visitation, pay them child support, let them do all the hard work for most of the week, play dad on the weekends, boom done genes propagated. I'm not "married" to this viewpoint,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 02:12 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, what are aspects of “gender equality” you’re knowingly hypocritical about?So either we’re all bad, or none of us are The tldr of gender dynamics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Masculine-feminine polarity is crucial to a great relationshipWhy not indeed....men and women alike will increasingly decide to opt out from the sham altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you aspire to be a leader of men or a fucker of women?I think the OP covers this phenomenon: Leader of Men is a very traditional type of Office and he tends to be able to marry the top of the FSM. think captain of the football team/head cheerleader. its status attracting status, prince marrying the appointed princess. what TRPs and mgtows dont understand is that this Chad archetype "alpha" can be VERY beta with women, he is ADMIRED by men and desired by the top women for the STATUS he confers onto them, not because he is so "Sexually attractive" th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you aspire to be a leader of men or a fucker of women?I used to have the misconception that these two kinds of attractions are interchangeable for women. I think a lot of us here grew up with that misconception. I feel like we are the middle children of history lol, and that maybe future generations of men will grow up knowing better. So that men can pursue precisely what it is they want. Once aspired to the former, then the latter. What made you change? Pretty much it was figuring out that status attraction isn't sexual attraction, which took some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you aspire to be a leader of men or a fucker of women?Once aspired to the former, then the latter. I used to have the misconception that these two kinds of attractions are interchangeable for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Why TRP/MGTOW/MRA are allies of feminism and enemies of Gynocentrism patriarchy.I don't know about "allies"... Maybe more like "adaptations"... A great example is black community in US. This model raise less and worse children and get replaced in history. Aren't the lower classes producing more children than the higher classes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Masculine-feminine polarity is crucial to a great relationshipThe wife/mother/manager/matriarch aspects have been completely erased. Women are doing the erasing. Much of these are now considered "unpaid labor/not my problem". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Should women intentionally have children out of wedlock ?Worked for some of the Kardashian-Jenners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Should women intentionally have children out of wedlock ?If every marriage was so unfortunate, they presumably wouldn't have gone through the trouble of shotgun weddings lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: what is an alpha?Now you might be right about some people, but I definitely think there are others who mistakenly believe that being driven etc. is the best path to some varieties of "instant gratification" Why else do you think there are so many posts everywhere that amount to "I pay my taxes and have never been in jail where my vagina" But you are right about me, path of least resistance to instant gratification. is my jam and I know it. Tried it the other way. No bueno. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 02:01 AM |
| 2 | I can't get out of my own head. Approach Anxiety.Do you like being choked during sex or do you have other kinks? Have you considered fetlife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: what is an alpha?Lol totally like Chappelle said "if a man could live in a cardboard house" or whatever, but maybe the men working jobs/obeying the law just mistakenly think that that is their best strategy? Like nice guys who complain about assholes getting laid....why are you still being nice? Try it the other way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenSome women would and have viewed the idea that "women with abusers should have vetted better" as victim blaming. It seems pretty clear you don't agree with that, but some do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenI don't think that's what was happening in that discussion Azn said "trust but verify" Reluctantly red said "women won't like that" in the sense that women won't like the insinuation that their plight was avoidable with proper vetting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what is an alpha?What is masculinity (and, e.g., is masculinity contextual or universal)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyand before you say "oh but if you did get another one, then the current one leaving wouldn't be a big deal right?" WRONG! Because what would be your plan for this new one then? Flirt with another chick or get another new one? Then the circle just repeats itself, so whats the point? Might as well just stick to the original one and saving all these troubles huh? I think you're perhaps unclear on RP's goal. It is indeed for the "circle to just repeat itself" in the form of spinning plates indefinit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenSo you would also blame a woman for being with an abuser, because it is her job to vet properly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:04 PM |
| 3 | What proof is there that women "want privileges without responsibilities" ?Are you actually kidding me? Completely unprotected sex is not a privilege? It's not an asymmetrical privilege | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What proof is there that women "want privileges without responsibilities" ?given the number of men who are shocked, shocked that unprotected sex will sometimes result in a baby, Lol that's rich considering there are 600,000 abortions a year Apparently some women are shocked too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what is an alpha?the WOMENS alpha is the LOVER, the fucker of women, the despoiler of other mens chaste daughters and wives, really the "men's omega". he has no MALE status, he is the sneaky fucker, he is Black Jack Davy. he is the criminal and the pimp. he is a SCAB on the male hierarchy of honor. Is that pretty much it: lacking status, being willing to break laws, and having tons of sex? Like basically any guy could do that--there must be something more to it, and I think you agree (maybe it's a "je ne sais qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:50 PM |
| 0 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenYour picker is broken and trashy is trashy. Would you blame a woman for being with an abuser? I think enough has been said about why you're wrong about awalt but I can't imagine you would apply your reasoning about "pickers" to women. Because you are a hypocrite. Prove me wrong! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenWould you blame a woman for being with an abuser? It's the same damn thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenIt's a guide for men, not for women. Has it occurred to you that the audience is coming into it with the notion that "well, if she decided to be with me in the first place, it'll be fine even if I become a loser"? That's what women used to do, after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:39 PM |
| 3 | The word "alpha""beta" are confusing and should be replaced with "lover""provider"."dildo" "blanket" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)I calculated it for the UK and on an average salary (~£30k) you pay £500 per year. PER YEAR. Wow forreal? This always seemed pretty crazy to me but I assumed it was a similar story in other countries....very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.she can get an abortion Not for much longer. Not in America. Illegal or legal, women will always find a way to have control over their own bodies. Ah yes, in the same way that a man can skip out on child support but can go to jail for it Good. EQUALITY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.I'm saying we can let the pro-life people win now because she already consented to having a baby when she had unprotected sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.She consented to said leaving of sperm in said vagina by allowing said body, over which she has control, as you say, to be penetrated unprotectedly by a human penis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.The man deposits his sperm. He ejaculates and voluntarily leaves his sperm somewhere. Not without her consent, so long as rape is illegal. Once she consents to unrotected sex, she consents to baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Why is women’s hypergamy bad for men? Do you want women to go for poor men and abusers? What about single moms?Anything that stands in the way of gettin that dick wet as frequently as possible with as fertile of pussy as possible, and doing so on the man's terms, is "bad for men". The reasons you've stated are why hypergamy is "good for women", as though that should be enough to conclude it is not "bad for men" Solipsism much? Also face plastered all over /r/whereareallthegoodmen so that her future employers and family can see it. LMAO future employers yeah fuckin right have you even visited that sub the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 08:22 PM |
| 0 | How does the orgasm gap between straight men and women affect sexual behavior and sex drive?I wonder if there has ever been a time in human history where there wasn't an orgasm gap If there hasn't, how can we say for sure what impact it has, when there is no comparison state where there is no gap? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 08:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about older women (30+) dating/sleeping with young men (18-29)? Does it make other guys insecure?No I meant the double standard is sick lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 04:09 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about older women (30+) dating/sleeping with young men (18-29)? Does it make other guys insecure?I don't let the opinions of third parties have enough influence on my life to care about labelling them as "sick." Fair enough. I like to both do as I please and call a spade a spade, but you do you boo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:24 PM |
| -1 | How do you feel about older women (30+) dating/sleeping with young men (18-29)? Does it make other guys insecure?The double standard is funny though. Funny....you don't think it's sick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about older women (30+) dating/sleeping with young men (18-29)? Does it make other guys insecure?so why shouldn't they be picky about the men they want just as us guys did throughout history? Lol if you're going to use "living women deserve to benefit because other women who are dead suffered at the expense of living men who in no way benefitted" at least get the history right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.Because men are thirsty enough to want any pussy. Women don't want older men. Get over it. Sounds like equality is a fucking dumb thing to allow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)"just fucking leave the country if you need an abortion" New pro life argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.If the laws weren't there, there would be much more rape, is my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)we don't tell women to freeze their eggs and get a tubal ligation as a replacement for abortion do we?! That's a great pro-life argument though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.I'm not saying that it's factually correct to believe that a polite reaction will result, but rather I'm explaining my perspective on how one comes to believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.How so? Isn't precisely what I'm describing happening? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)Right back at ya kiddo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.I'm talking about at the societal level and not that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)It's the principle. It's unjust (we don't tell women to freeze their eggs and get a tubal ligation as a replacement for abortion do we?!) Whether it's abortion or child support, I will not rest until one of these is banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:49 PM |
| -1 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.Isn't it good delude yourself sometimes. Just in case if crisis is not all that horrific? No. I think it's better to do what feminists do and exaggerate/whinewhinewhinemememe because whining and exaggeration is how you get what you want in 2019 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:48 PM |
| -2 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.but I really can't understand the hysteria over the public reaction to approaching women. Man is raised pumped daily with the message that men and women are equal Man sees women approaching men, sometimes persistently and without regard for boundaries, without negative result Man approaches woman (maybe in some imperfect way) Man is criticized/shamed/whatever Man expresses hysteria at disparity ...confusion ensues? You get the society you pay for It is a risk you take in every human interaction,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)Put a fucking condom on and stop whining That's what they'll tell the women in the back alleys once abortion is banned! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)there is no playing going on From the NPR article Right. Each state does it differently, but Texas will determine what a noncustodial parent's income is. If he says zero, well, there isn't zero child support, there will often be a presumption that he should be working full time, full year at at least minimum wage. So the judge will often set what's called a minimum wage order, and it's about $215 a month in Texas, which is about 20 percent of your net income of that. So here is a father who is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:34 PM |
| -2 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.to mimic the stupidest parts of feminist to make your dumb points I don't see how else you get rid of it than to mock it for the sham it is. Of course male sexuality is predatory! The only thing stopping men from raping nonstop are pesky laws. That's why we had a patriarchy. To protect women Now they think they can replace a functional system with, oh I dunno, shaming men into taking responsibility for strangers they don't care about? The whole thing is fucking gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:30 PM |
| -3 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.Have you ever, even ONCE , in your entire life, heard of a woman shamed as a pedophile for hitting on an of age, younger man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)I will rejoice when the women dying in back alleys are told "don't make a baby" when abortion is banned Oh wait, can't say that because only women matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 07:08 PM |
| -4 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.People would be rioting in the streets if a woman were shamed as a pedophile for hitting on a younger but legal-aged man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)No u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Guy gets publicly humiliated by a group of girls for hitting on their friend yet according to AITA, he's the bad guy.What you have to understand is that our entire society is geared toward women's pleasure, women's comfort, women's autonomy, women's confidence, women's feelings The whole society is built from the ground up to ensure that they have to endure as little hardship as possible So to anyone who thinks "holy shit no one would ever tolerate a 31 year old woman hitting on a legal adult man being shamed, how could this happen?!" Just remember...if you're a guy (which presumably some of the AITA commenter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 May 2019)Forcing men to pay child support for unwanted children is a human rights violation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.For one thing, we'd also lock that person up in a mental institution Maybe that's what should happen to women who seek abortions. Yeah, you get one, but you're locked in an institution indefinitely Which is precisely what is on the table for men who don't pay child support! Perfect. Equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | The men whom a woman would have casual sex with VS the men whom she would have a LTR withHow would you interpret it if a woman agrees to have LRT with you but not casual sex? (especially when she is not against casual sex in principle) I would especially interpret that as "time to find someone else" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.The woman doesn't have to go through the horrible process of pregnancy/childbirth because she still has control over her own body. "The same" meaning unprotected sex You can't have it both ways Either consenting to unprotected sex is consenting to parenthood for BOTH or for NEITHER | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyOnce survival isn't that difficult, the next step is to become neurotic about survival | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Please see above. It's the principle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyPretty much. Personal responsiblity should be for ALL, or for NONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How much would you pay a year for a good 'wife' service?Well they keep talking about how difficult and dangerous it is. Or maybe it's not they but their advocates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:44 PM |
| 7 | "Sexually assaulted or Raped" statistics purely attempt to make people believe there is more rape then there actually is.That escalated quickly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:23 AM |
| 3 | "Sexually assaulted or Raped" statistics purely attempt to make people believe there is more rape then there actually is.What kind of fucking world is it when a man can’t fondle a woman against her will? A relatively new one? That's what I don't get about women who say things like "you shouldn't have to teach a man how to respect women". Well when the definition of what constitutes (admittedly, a minimal level) of respect changes every ten days, yeah, you've (not you specifically, the royal you) got some splainin to do, so either do it, or shut the fuck up and file your charges so we can have a trial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyWe've got the internet now and easier foreign travel Let them flee Fine by me You are just going to have to deal. Actually, it looks more like women are the ones who will have to do the dealing from what you're describing. That's good. Payback is a bitch The men who benefitted from the past, and the women who did not, are DEAD I surely didn't get to do the thing with the stuff . So I could give a flying fuck about whatever context women use to justify their whinewhinewhinemememe That shit is ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyYou're just going to have to deal. Nope, I'm really not, actually, because we live in a democracy. The democratic process can take away all of women's hard earned gains in an INSTANT MAGA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Trauma care doesn't prevent a baby from being born that would otherwise be born. Abortion is not trauma care because a woman consents to pregnancy by having unprotected sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlySo in other words, pro-choicers support abortion rights because they want women to be able to have pregnancy-free sex. Which would be a fine justification in a society in which it was not also demanded that men unilaterally fund women's (for now) sovereign reproductive decisions through 18 years of involuntary support payments on penalty of imprisonment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.I did answer the question you asked Ok but how does that translate to abortion should be illegal? You don't seem to understand that there's a difference between being given an answer and being given the answer you want. Ah well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThe consequence of childbirth lol, not the abortion itself, the thing were debating, as its own consequence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyOh no, I know exactly what they meant. In my opinion part of debate is also expanding people's conception of what a certain principle constitutes. Men have ended up in the position of unilaterally funding women's unilateral reproductive choices in the first place by being far too charitable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyI mean bodily autonomy in the same way that opponents of slavery mean it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Because abortion prevents a baby from being born that would otherwise be born. Since there is no sound justification for allowing that (given, as we agree, that a woman can avoid unwanted pregnancy by simply avoiding unprotected sex), it should be prohibited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyargument is logically inconsistent. If a man subject to a child support order does not work to earn, he is put in jail. His liberty is subject to the use of his body for labor in furtherance of making said payment. In which way is this logically inconsistent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Any woman not wanting to be a parent can simply avoid fucking without protection Problem solved! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyOr you legit can't understand that paying child support doesn't take away one's body autonomy, and you should really question the way you think then. It 100% does. Maybe you should question why you only care about women's autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Great, she consented to giving birth the day she allowed the same. We're all good here on the abortion ban | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyof which it can not live independanty should be forced to provide it at its own detriment. Interesting since that is precisely the obligation involuntarily imposed on men forced to pay child support for 18 years to fund a woman's sovereign choice (for now). Happens every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Not really. It makes it a lot more sane knowing that , hey, if I have sex with this woman, that's that, she's gonna have a baby and we're in this together in agreeing to have sex. As opposed to some kind of petty dictator who holds the fate of the remainder of his life in her hands. You can argue whatever you want, but the nose face spite one is unavailing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyWhat I am arguing is why do people buy into the false dilemma narrative that we can't both protect the unborn and make a better world for the born? It's not a false dilemma, true, but it's also not hypocrisy to decline to care about both. It's just about different priorities. And from where I'm sitting it's basically a liberal caricature that "well if the state can't help you live a better life you're better off with no life at all!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Lol....I definitely don't think that can be ruled out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestly. But there is a glaring hypocrisy in the "pro-life" movement when they don't give a damn about people being put to death (sometimes innocent people, no less) by the state, or troops and airplanes killing innocent ex-fetuses abroad while trying to kill terrorists (who were aggravated by our invasions in the region). Pro-lifers have zero to say about cops killing unarmed black people. There is no hypocrisy, because what pro-lifers have to say about all of those people, about all people, is "let t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThey don't seem to be arguing for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyBut in a world without abortion, not all 600,000 of the aborted would never have gotten to live even a day Surely you're not arguing all of them will die in infancy if not aborted, not that poor people who die early would've been better off never having lived at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThe overwhelming majority keep living. Suicide going up is not equivalent to the overwhelming majority don't keep living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThey'll live They wouldn't otherwise Hundreds of thousands That's good enough for me , and it's way better than never being born at all Do you know how I know? Homeless people and poor people and hungry people do not all kill themselves, so whatever life they have, no matter how shitty, it's better than not existing for the vast majority of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyMost pro-lifers do oppose them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyI agree that quality of life is different than life itself, but you cannot deny that quality of life is incredibly important. It is not so important that people should be denied life altogether to avoid merely the potential of a bad life If that were true, we should just go for the cull so people with poor qualities of life need suffer no longer And obviously I don’t agree with “culling” people. You’re not culling people by aborting fetuses before they’re able to feel pain If pain is your only i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyAre you suggesting all poor or hungry or homeless people kill themselves ? The statistics demonstrating their existence proves they do not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyOh sorry I thought we were talking about dangerous jobs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are the college rape statistics so high in the US and UK ?That lordbolton guy started a comment the other day with “as long as rape is illegal...” In order to emphasize that women are voluntarily in charge of whether or not they are going to carry a child to term from the beginning to the end of the process, not in order to advocate for rape being legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyYes, to the extent that any number of suicides is too many But not all poor kill themselves Not all hungry kill themselves So therefore, the overwhelming majority of people prefer a bad life to no life at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyEven so, why don’t we put our resources into improving the lives of those who are already born? I think we should, but I don't think it is a prerequisite to being an intellectually consistent pro-lifer. That would be like saying "how can you support laws against murder when you're willing to let people go hungry". Nope, sorry, "quality of life" and "life itself" are not the same. Do you believe in quantity of life or quality of life? If so, are you aware of a concept called...overpopulation? So … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestly"a lot of" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyActually, the reason why infanticide is seen bad is because of social conditioning. Well at least supporting infanticide and abortion would be intellectually consistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.As part of a broader level playing field in life, which is what society seems to work so very hard to move toward (except only when it benefits women, because reasons) But I don't see a future where society stops wanting to unilaterally punish men for sex. That urge is built into so many other parts of feminism and societal standards now. Ergo, pro-life seems to be the more realistic equality endgame in this regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyfetus is not equal to a fully-functioning individual. Neither's an infant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyIn the same way, the system needs parents to pay for their children because the state couldn't support every single human for 18+ years. 1/3 of American children go hungry. It's more like so that the state could say it's doing all it can to prevent starving children while not foisting it on taxpayers. It's not a real solution. Like most of government, it's a farce meant to keep the peasants they rule over from making too much noise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyWhen did the lie begin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What's YOUR explanation for RP observations?Hahah that ending was so shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlySomeone can pay for him. He can pay with his savings, he can take a loan and pay. Sure... all those options are not available for all people. But as I said before, there is nothing wrong nor illegal with people having the legal right/option to do something and living in circumstances that make the use of that right impossible. You're being extremely disingenuous and I can't figure out what your motive is for it. Why did they get rid of debtor's prisons then? Ah well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What's YOUR explanation for RP observations?It's like the island on Lost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What's YOUR explanation for RP observations?Human nature is too complicated for some group of non-experts to summarize it in a few sentences based on their anecdotal experiences. Lol an odd perspective to take for someone who posts to a sub like PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlya lot of people do! Citation needed Do you not think that there are many more who WANT to but aren’t able to? Aren't able to, because living is better than not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionBecause they are different animals than the animal that I am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:53 PM |
| -2 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.Ok. Well, this idiot thinks that if women get to fuck around without worrying about the responsibilities of parenthood being involuntarily foisted on them , either men should also be able to, or women should not be able to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What's YOUR explanation for RP observations?But a bunch of idiots throwing darts at a wall is not the way to go about understanding human sexuality. It is if it gets them pussy, for that is the specific purpose for which they are attempting to understand human sexuality. Someone made a good argument yesterday that just because it works doesn't make it true. But it working does make it useful Who knows, maybe the reason is that following it leads to imitating dark triad traits And scientific studies do show women prefer dark triad men for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyMen are 13 times more likely to die on the job than women. I demand more women die on the job before your argument can be taken seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyHe can be imprisoned The why of his imprisonment is what makes it slavery He can be imprisoned for not working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyonce all the kids alive are getting what they need. A miserable life is better than no life at all. If it were not, all the people with miserable lives would kill themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (25 May 2019)Feminism: what do you get for the woman who already has everything? More everything! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionThe difference is I am a human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyI realize you're trying to go down with the ship of your argument here but prison is a distinctly worse character of consequence In the way you mean it, yeah, every phenomenon has a consequential effect But not all of those are JAIL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyBUT THERE ARE NO DEBTOR'S PRISONS lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:13 PM |
| -2 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.there is nopossible cognate to this with men. 9 months 18 years of labor to involuntarily fund a woman's sovereign choice on penalty of prison is only not a cognate in the realm of solipsism. If time period doesn't affect severity then why do more severe crimes incur longer sentences? Whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlythey are free to use their body in any way as long as they are paying The latter negates the former. They're forced to use their body for labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Moratorium and Abortion Megathread.incest Lol did this slip in there on a "bad people I don't like" train of thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyAnd that is what makes it so ripe for overturning That shit is a straight up fabrication unseen since the aggregate effects on interstate commerce test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlySo other than sex, how else does pregnancy happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyNow you're implying that the only purpose of being pro-life is to prevent consequence -free sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyMen are obligated to pay, they are free to use their body in any way as long as they are paying. But they are forced to pay, so they are not free The same goes for taxes tbh. If you make below a certain amount, you don't have to pay any taxes! Men in a child support context on the other hand often have income imputed to them, so if they don't earn that much money and pay child support based on it, they go to jail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThey prevent conception, they do not undermine the already conceived, and that is I assume why most pro-lifers do not oppose them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyYou're technically correct in each response but I think you know very well what I mean. To give you the benefit of the doubt. They support abortion so that women can have sex without having to have a baby. Free of that specific consequence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThat's true, those tactics are incredibly misleading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyThere is no situation where a mother or father is obligated to put his/her health at risk and give them the free use of a part of their body for 9 months to save their children's life... unless we are talking about a pregnancy. Men are obligated to involuntarily fund the woman's reproductive choice for 18 years in the form of child support on penalty of imprisonment It is slavery pure and simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyLOL the non-abortion consequences Jesus Christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionlol, Roe will not be overturned and there will not be a constitutional amendment banning abortion. But keep dreaming. Time will tell. RemindMe! 5/25/2022 Also, you can't stop the abortion pill. You can't stop people from murdering or raping or stealing, so why even have laws against them? Well, because it'll happen much less than if it's legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | A proposal for equality in abortion rightsIt is today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | A proposal for equality in abortion rightsIt is currently lopsided in favor of women Pretty soon, it'll be lopsided in favor of men And then someday later on it'll go back to being lopsided in favor of women again Lather rinse repeat till end of civilization, with increasingly shorter /more rapid/more violent swings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionYou value human life in particular. Why? What is inherently valuable about a human embryo over an animal? Because I am a human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: between the two camps, only the pro-life camp states its true justification honestlyforced to carry a pregnancy to term Which cannot happen without sex Ergo: consequence free sex Seems pretty straightforward to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:22 PM |
| 3 | A proposal for equality in abortion rightsAnd when it is, what you end up with is pendulum swinging instead of stability. The pendulum is currently swinging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 3 | A proposal for equality in abortion rights"The doctrine of equality! But there is no more venomous poison in existence: for it appears to be preached by justice itself, when it is actually the end of justice." Yeah instead what we've done is make equality mean whatever it needs to mean in the specific context in question in such a way that it benefits women at the expense of men Equality! Feminism when convenient | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:19 PM |
| 3 | A proposal for equality in abortion rightsThat should not be the basis of our laws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | A proposal for equality in abortion rightsVaselgel Goddamn right, if they ever actually release it! or a vasectomy potentially irreversible, so not so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionI would call my post correct, sensible and surprisingly measured, considering what I'm talking to. Likewise ....classic "it's ok for me but not for thee" that your kind engages in. "Oh I can be as uncivil as I want because I'm fighting on the good team, but God forbid I get back what I'm dishing out" The current reactionary wave will end at some point, these things always come in cycles. Lol indeed, and the liberal wave endured for 50 years. Even some fraction of that will plenty of time to corr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What's YOUR explanation for RP observations?what actually knowledgeable people believe What do actually knowledgeable people believe, other than some subset do AF/BB, are attracted to dark triad, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How did your pair-bonding ability change as your n-count got higher?The self diagnosed bipolar chick raised by a narcissistic single mom and was molested by the mom's boyfriends has all kinds of emotional baggage and "rebels" by fucking ever guy that comes along. Or shuts down by avoiding sex altogether. None of this stuff is blanket applicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionAngrily blasting me with a shower of spittle isn't going to change that. What the fuck would you call your post? Whether or not it is murder is a matter of opinion You disagree. Great. Tell your friends to move to the Midwest so the Supreme Court isn't 9-0 conservative and maybe you can have abortion legalized again after 75 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionLol could you connect the dots for me on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortion"muh incel" I've had plenty enough to know that it's not worth ending human life over. It's either murder, or it isn't. Take your bad faith and shove it up your strawmen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortion"muh hypocrisy" Yep no difference between humans and animals The bad faith of these arguments is fucking DISGUSTING AND PERVERSE You should be ashamed of yourself that you even thought to type that in public. But why would you have any shame? You believe eating a fucking burger is the same, is equivalent to human life! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionWhy would you think for a moment your desires or interests are at all comparable? Not the OP but every adult human started off that way. Also, can you please explain why you don't give a shit about miscarriages? Miscarriage is not a deliberate act. Abortion is. This is in such laughable bad faith, as are most anti-abortion arguments, that it's a wonder anyone listens to them in the first place. Oh wait, they do listen because consequence free sex feels gooood. I would have a lot more respect for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionMiscarriage is not a deliberate act. Abortion is. That argument is in such laughable bad faith, as are most anti-abortion arguments, that it's a wonder anyone listens to them in the first place. Oh wait, they do listen because consequence free sex feels gooood. I would have a lot more respect for a movement that stated its motivations honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionMiscarriage is not a deliberate act. Abortion is. This is in such laughable bad faith, as are most anti-abortion arguments, that it's a wonder anyone listens to them in the first place. Oh wait, they do listen because consequence free sex feels gooood. I would have a lot more respect for a movement that stated its motivations honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | You can't use naturalistic arguments against abortionif you dealt with other factors What would that even look like? What kind of policy changes instantly get you on the order of 600,000 additional births a year? (And consider that other factors could also be dealt with which to encourage those ~600,000 to have their own children in the future). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 04:24 PM |
| 18 | Do you experience post nut clarity? How does your mood change after sex?Also do you ever feel like a different person after sex? Like your hormones contaminated your higher thinking, but now you are free, yet only until the oxytocin wears off? Yeah sometimes basically immediately. And occassionally even so far as disgusted depending on how sweaty things get lol....arousal suppresses the disgust it turns out. It's like what was all that for?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Because selfishness is an individual thing. Which, in the aggregate , means that if there are fewer women in a city women get what they want and men are miserable, and if there are fewer men in a city men get what they want and women are miserable. A subreddit with half a million subscribers did not shape the dating dynamics of major American cities and college campuses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Lol if men and women's interests weren't inimical to each other, it wouldn't work that way Hence, they are enemies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youUmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)Lol complaint creep, like lifestyle creep but for complaints | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 01:03 AM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?How is your explanation different from "the sexes are enemies"-- I mean it's different in tone, but in substance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:57 AM |
| 7 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youThe higher my n has gotten, the more it has mattered to me. (Like what this guy said To a low n man, it is impossible to understand what it's like to be disappointed by a 9. Or that you could get a random girl pregnant, block her number and never think about her outside of your worry she'll see your car one day. I'm the hypocritiest of hypocrites, I reckon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?With no pain causing/underlying it? Lol even the Quentin Tarantino characters have a backstory of pain. It is very difficult to ever really know what another being has gone through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?LOL I don't doubt there are some such people I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?That's true, but generally there's some pain coming from somewhere to trigger such a tendency to believe that "maturity = cynicism" Could be the pain is coming from errant chemicals, but often from painful experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:04 AM |
| 3 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?The metaredpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Flat out sensible points, no doubt. I guess the issue is that it can be difficult to distinguish between some women absolutely have the nefarious motivations that TRP ascribes to them (i.e. withhold sex as punishment, try to gatekeep older men out of jealousy etc.) And much more innocuous, and men misinterpret it because they're viewing female actions through the lens of male psychology. because the signaling act is the same in many instances (e.g., lack of sex in a relationship ..is this punish… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | At bottom the abortion debate is really about women's attempt to escape their biological imperative to be more selective when choosing a partnerApparently Also not eternal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 10:45 PM |
| 7 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?That's a very good argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?At the end of the day, the red pill is a strategy for getting men laid, not an accurate method of describing the world. Why would it work if it were not describing the world accurately...isn't the proof in the puddin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:52 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?I think RP gives themselves too much credit for "seeing the truth" - it's just one particular interpretation of reality that appeals to them. What's the real truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?They often accurately describe what women do, but the why is entirely off base and drenched in male solipsism. What's the actual "why" for the doings you're thinking of as mischaracterized? Like for example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Username checks out!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?There are two questions at the end of the day Is RP true or false If true: does regularly acknowledging the truth make one's life better or worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?It encourages people to see the other sex as the enemy For example, how else do you explain that the cities/environments which are best for women to date are the worst for men (e.g., San Francisco Bay area), and vice versa (e g , New York)? Enemy does not mean war, but it does mean conflicting interests. Do you disagree that women's and men's interests are in conflict? Did you reject RP because you think it's false, or because truth makes your life worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:44 PM |
| 3 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Totally fair. For one thing, not everyone who faces a given catalyst will be catalyzed into cynicism. For another, there are degrees of catalysts. Like this post on relationship advice yesterday where a woman had had four different relationships where an ex of her partner has cheated with the partner and/or ruined it, including one where the guy gave her a near fatal STD infection. And then now partner #5 wants to be friends with his ex and is acting weird. I mean sure, small sample size, but at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youI can see the logic. It just never resonated with me on an emotional level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | At bottom the abortion debate is really about women's attempt to escape their biological imperative to be more selective when choosing a partnerJust once I'd love to hear an anti-LPS argument that couldn't be used to outlaw abortion. Men deserve to be punished for the consequences of sex while women deserve to be absolved of them. That's about all I've got lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | At bottom the abortion debate is really about women's attempt to escape their biological imperative to be more selective when choosing a partnerAt what point precisely does a potential life magically 'poof' into an actual life? Argument for conception: You could pump a sperm or an egg full of nutrients indefinitely but it ain't turning into a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 08:23 PM |
| 6 | What would it take for you to switch from bluepill to redpill?Most people need a catalyst to see the world cynically rather than rose coloredly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 08:16 PM |
| 4 | At bottom the abortion debate is really about women's attempt to escape their biological imperative to be more selective when choosing a partnerMaybe we should kill all homeless people as well according to your logic. Even more damning, if a bad life were worse than no life at all homeless people would be committing suicide en masse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 08:14 PM |
| 3 | At bottom the abortion debate is really about women's attempt to escape their biological imperative to be more selective when choosing a partnerIs it better for millions of children to be born to uncaring or unfit parents? Better than never having been born at all? Probably, because otherwise, such people would be killing themselves, as would the homeless, the impoverished, the hungry and so forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youThat's not true. Per RP women are wrongly believed to be more romantic and men are wrongly believed to be less romantic, whereas the opposite is true. RP does try to guide men to break through that impasse because it is not generally beneficial to men to be that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 4 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youI think a girl that has experience enough to sample and know what’s out there, and still choose you over them makes it more special. I tried it, and my brain just didn't process it that way. I believe that's what it comes down to. Different people process different stimuli in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 5 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youjust in a bad mood Those are the worst ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to younot meant to be an insult by the way, just that life is inherently meaningless and nothing matters at all, is the bigger picture. I 100% agree. That's why I see no point in doing anything that doesn't make me feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 07:26 PM |
| 8 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youYeah. Images. So now I avoid except for casual. It's a very simple, straightforward solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 07:25 PM |
| 6 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youSo? I'm content. What's your problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 6 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youIt’s kind of sad that how meaningful sex is for you is more dependent on her history with other men, than your history with her. A colorful history on her part is too emotionally overwhelming for me to allow me to create much of a history with her. In the longest such relationship I had--with a high n partner-- the more history we created, the more painful it got. So I'm not sad. I tried it the other way, and that led me to know what I need. Makes me wonder if RP men’s revulsion and insistance o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 06:06 PM |
| 2 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youIt fades somewhat over time, evolving more into gratitude that when I have sex with her I don't have to endure the overwhelming feeling of horror I've gotten whenever I've tried to make a relationship work with high n-count partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 06:01 PM |
| 3 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youMaybe. I feel like attributing meaning to just about anything is hamstering on one level or another, but I don't necessarily disagree that this too is so. It's all about the feelz, and the feelz are good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 05:59 PM |
| 6 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youIt's this overwhelming feeling of power, like wow she has never/rarely done this before and I'm the first one/one of the first ones she chooses to experience this with. Awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 05:50 PM |
| 26 | what does it mean for sex to be "meaningful" to youI like to feel special Sex with women with relatively lower n counts makes me feel more special Sex with women with relatively higher n counts makes me feel less special and puts icky images in my head As a younger man I was open to any number, but my experiences taught me that this is how I react So now I account for it accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 05:13 PM |
| 5 | If your LTR had ONSs before you. How do you cope with the fact that there are still guys out there who got her in bed in such a short time? Maybe telling all his frienda about it?How do you deal with stuff like that? I don't at all lol Anyway how long did it take you to sleep with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about dating a man who is only dating you because he is unable to have casual sex.I just don't understand if you didn't think feminism worked, why the fuck are these men doing the same play but expecting they'll get what they want as well. Enjoying the decline while oiling the slide. Feminism has made the world a certain way. TRP is a response to it, to help men make the most of this shit situation. Who gives a fuck about accelerating the slide? What would you rather have men do, martyr themselves in a futile attempt to reverse it? Simply belieeeeveee that they'll be able to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | If sex is such a high priority, what's the point of a relationship?didn’t work for me Like, you didn't build any muscle, or building muscle didn't help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Women can get sex or relationships way easier than men, but is it higher SMV or because many men are thirsty and lonely?It's true that most have to be beta buxx unless they are male model hot. That isn't really a big deal because that is to be expected like hot ass is expected from us. Can't speak for every guy But I'd rather pay a hooker (at least it's honest and straightforward!), or fuck whatever level of girl considers me hot, than be some girl's betabux. You seem to think that it is some kind of great privilege to be a walking atm for a woman, and I'm not entirely sure why you do. Maybe even you aren't sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Freaks & Geeks & Extroverted ComfortBad bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Freaks & Geeks & Extroverted ComfortForever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Freaks & Geeks & Extroverted ComfortI'm assuming PPD is filled with a bunch of ppl who are more "higher IQ" than not, pumped into "gifted" / "advanced" curriculum in primary school, and fellow nerds as kids, so! Q4All: When did you realize you could have fun and be high achievers? I actually learned that I can't lol I let that shit get way out of hand, basically went from one extreme to the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?Liberal arts college campuses come to mind lol. Heavily skewed ratio towards women in those, like 2.5:1 or even 3:1, and many of the men are gay anecdotally. Not really sure of any other ones. Heh yeah rural/frontier towns would be great for women in theory but there's a reason they are never that many women there....women don't do well in isolation like that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?I would imagine post wall has an impact regardless, but yeah if you're a man, best place is New York, and if you're a woman, best place is the bay area in California. I mean a large part of it is gender ratios, but I believe there are other factors at work as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?Lol oh yeah the one where they torture the mental clone to make it do shit for you. Dark af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?I am not picking up another nigga's socks EVER AGAIN. Whoever comes up with a commercial solution to chores is gonna be like a fuckin trillionaire Smart home anyone? Alexa cook me a rare steak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?I bet I could get laid in a morgue full of dead women, but it will probably be the 0.5 one. r/brandnewsentence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?Lol fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?I don't know why women expect to have any success in NYC. Its' the worst place for a young woman to date. Lol true. It's interesting, it's also the best place for a young man to date.... I guess gender interests are really very oppositional when it comes down to it. It's amazing that people are able to make it work even for medium lengths of time, much less decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Nope that gotcha moment will actually come when abortion is banned and women finally understand what they've subjected men to for these decades...disparate responsibility for the same carnal act. It's a disgrace, and women and men alike will look back on it with profound shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Accept personal responsibility like a woman. Don't fuck if you don't want a kid. Hashtag ban abortion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?Plus RP is bullshit, nothing gets easier for men who don't put in the work I think you may misunderstand RP. The getting easier is predicated on putting in the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?As if those threads aren't filled with women counterposing their dating issues lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?s your so-called "partner" telling you you can't have sex with others. People are getting married less than before, and cohabiting is pretty unstable and often ends in short order I dunno. Seems like what's coming to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?also don't do this whole "exclusivity" thing where there are apparently some things you can only do with one singular human being so the concept of "trading" becomes moot. Free agency is the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?And frankly, rape does happen and quite often. Citation needed Body autonomy is not financial autonomy. Until men are an incubator and have to risk their life to carry a child to term and give birth, then again, it will never be equal. Women are an incubator for 9 months (if they decline THEIR OPTION TO ABORT, that is) and can give it up for adoption anytime, all at THEIR WHIM. MEN ARE BEING INVOLUNTARILY ENSLAVED FOR 18 YEARS ON PENALTY OF JAIL Frankly I’m done with this conversation. I’m tired… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?Oh I’m sure. It won’t really turn into more single parenthood whilst men still sleep around with barely any consequences in the majority of cases where they choose not to be part of the child’s life. So long as rape is illegal, the woman's consent is needed to sleep around. If that was really the case, why would they risk abandoning? And why aren’t women creating these court cases? People take risks lol. Opting out should be as legally riskless for them as abortion currently is (but won't be for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?The p value is too high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?I reckon "the wall" isn't what either men or women think it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Older women of PPD (preferebly 30+), how's dating for women at your age?https://humanparts.medium.com/the-dating-deadline-25ddb2f2314d My girlfriends and I sit around our favorite Brooklyn restaurant, red wine flowing, lights dim. We’re all in our late thirties, have jobs we love, friendships we cherish, passions that keep us up at night. And we are all single. It’s not news that New York is a terrible dating scene for straight women. My girlfriends and I have been enduring bad dates for years. At one point we coordinated a weekly meeting to review a Google spreadsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Why are men more homophobic than womenTotally agreed this should be more like purplepillFREEbate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why are men more homophobic than womenThis is like the written version of a trap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?thousands of men abandon their children. They're one court case away from enslavement on penalty of prison . Doesn't really sound like a legitimate option to me. Plus how ridiculous to want to ban abortion and cause even more men to father they don’t want. Sounds very smart. Men and women will make better choices knowing abortion isn't an option at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menYou: Men love women and will do anything to make women happy. Also you: Men pushed women even when we had no means to push back. Selfishness is your nature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 07:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.Checkmate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?Men don’t carry babies. How can you in anyway think this will ever be equal? When abortion is banned, it will be equal. And frankly, thousands of men avoid being a parent and abandon their children. A baby having your DNA doesn’t mean shit I don't follow the relevance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menAbortion will never be illegal in America , at least not Constitutionally, it would be like bringing back slavery, won’t happen . Roe overturned Constitutional amendment banning abortion (which does not rely on the popular vote, of course) Done. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men Whose Partner(s)/Ex(s) Have Had An Abortion: What Was Your ExperienceNot for long | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?And frankly, abortions isn’t an option for some women due to a number of factors. And for that subset of women they have the option of not having sex at all to avoid parenthood, which is what is currently imposed as the option for all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.For some women, it is, in the sense that they look at their lives and they see that there aren't any marriageable men around, but all the same they find a lot of meaning in the idea of being a mother and motherhood and all it entails... so they just go with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?I love this rebuttal as if mothers aren’t literally raising children and usually working also. And they do so after having been empowered to unilaterally make the post-sex decision of whether to bring the child into the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:13 PM |
| 13 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.Isn't this what is currently happening? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Repeating yourself doesn't change biology. And nothing about biology stops laws from demanding equal personal responsibility. The democratic process plays itself out, and if at the end abortion is banned, it's banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menThe only thing worth debating is when the embryo is considered “valid” , not its hypothetical future life 600,000 abortions a year, and the children they'd go on to have, and the children they'd go on to have.... Thank God this issue will be decided by the Supreme Court and state legislatures (who will undoubtedly pass a constitutional amendment banning abortion) and not popular vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Great personal responsibility No problem with an abortion ban then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?You may say so, but a man forced to labor on penalty of prison for 18 years will say that no, actually, bodily autonomy is very much on the table for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?To them, it’s not an option. Being pro-choice means women can also feel free to be repulsed by the idea. Then she should.keep her legs closed until marriage, not force a man to fund what is, again, HER CHOICE. Either don't make men fund the choice, or don't give her a choice. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.No. It was in response to . Because she wouldn't be in that position if it wasn't for your sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?As did she. Great. Ban abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.BOTH men and women should have the opportunity to opt out post sex, It's called adoption. If the woman doesn't consent to adoption the man is still on the hook. So no. Yeah women also know how babies are made, so no problem banning abortion! You and feminists are so funny, and yes, I think you're no better than feminists. 47% of American women are pro-life, 3 of the 5 writers of the Georgia bill were women, the person who wrote Alabama's bill was a woman, and the Governor who gleefully signed it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?That’s bizarre logic, though. If a person is an idiot and gets their leg broken, you don’t ban him from the medical treatment necessary to get his leg reset. But you do charge him for it. Not every possible or known medical procedure is permitted to be performed. And there is no right to medical care, even life-saving medical care. I’m not saying men should be the only person that has to pay. These arguments are stupid because single fathers also exist and women also abandon their children somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.either BOTH men and women should have the opportunity to opt out post sex, or NEITHER should. Yeah women also know how babies are made, so no problem banning abortion! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?I feel that either BOTH men and women should have the opportunity to opt out post sex, or NEITHER should. Yeah women also know how babies are made, so no problem banning abortion! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?they presented with an opportunity that they followed up on willingly because they wanted to, and then bailed out on facing any repercussions for it? Yep. But again, a man can't force a woman to get or not get an abortion yet. So parity requires either that abortions be banned, or men be given the right to opt out of parenthood post-intercourse as women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menOnce abortion is banned, all men deserve to get their wallets sucked dry by the pregnant woman Till then, none of them do. "Her body her choice etc." HER GODDAMN WALLET | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menthose liberals steamroll you. They're going to have to win Michigan first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menLol Canada, like every liberal says after a republican wins Turns out it's not so easy Most women will just stop being irresponsible with their vaginas. They're not going to move to space Canada lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menrealistically Assuming that the assumptions facilitating said realism remain in place (ie, that abortion remains accessible to those not in poverty in the way you think it will) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?I take the opinions of winners much more seriously than losers. If a man is trash seeking trash, I don't take his complaints seriously at all. Why would it matter whether you take his specific complaint seriously? The women are choosing beggars--It is self-evident that they are demanding more than they're offering. Do you think most of us are even aware of what unwanted men are writing on their profiles? Yes you get 10 or 15 good years where your magic vagina means you don't have to deign to kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menshe shouldn’t have a say on my body too. Since no one should have a say in your body, you may have to abandon society if enough people become pro-life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?It's worse to be raised by a single mother even if you're not poor. But there's no room in your little brain for anything other than "down with vaginas!" so why bother. Hash tag cage women as sex servants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menI don’t see how you can be a deciding factor on my body. It's called democracy. That's how. And lest we forget , most pro-lifers are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?And my point is apparently that was enough. Think about for a moment the difference between that (however little regard you may have for its significance) and nothing at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menNo, as you so aptly put it they are sitting by and letting it happen (the ones in power, at least) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menFantastic argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?Society is not meant to be a filtering mechanism for putrid fucking vaginas to find alphas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:33 PM |
| 9 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?It's takes a special level of cognitively dissonant stupidity to drone on about how men should be able to "financially abort" and have nothing to do with kids they fathered and in the same breath lament the number of boys being raised by single moms who will be forever fucked because no one is there to teach them to be men. So long as rape is illegal, women control whether sex happens. Women have free birth control available Women have abortion available Women who carry to term out of wedlock, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?but do you think the fathers were ever home taking care of their children in the 50's, 60's, 70's etc.? hell no. they went to work and came home after the kids were asleep. so what about that teaches 'masculinity'? Whatever it is they were doing was working, apparently. The risks of being raised by a single mother have been consistently studied. That doesn't mean every single-mother household turns out poorly, but on average, they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Do moms raise their sons to be beta?Men go to POF and seek the comments of the bottom of the barrel then come back online and fill r/wherehavethegoodmengone Sour grapes because the men who cope like that were never good men The posters don't have to be the good men for their observation to be correct, that some women are choosing beggars. In any event, does it really matter how one arrives at the truth? What if the grapes really are sour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menI understand why women really enjoy the current system (I’d favor it too if I were a woman) Yeah we've let women run amok with their nonsense. It can't last forever. And it never does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Anyone Here: Would you rather date/marry a woman who has a lot of career success early on and not focused on dating/hookups much or a woman who has taken the time to travel/find herself/experience life and made very little money but dated/hooked up a lot?Slightly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menWe have a source of perpetual children who just care about having a good time with their rotten vaginas. Accordingly, only men deserve a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menForcing a man to fund a woman's sole, sovereign reproductive choices (the current framework) is punishing men for having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menNo u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menThen nothing is an issue. We should just have a free for all society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:10 PM |
| 12 | Anyone Here: Would you rather date/marry a woman who has a lot of career success early on and not focused on dating/hookups much or a woman who has taken the time to travel/find herself/experience life and made very little money but dated/hooked up a lot?Yeah the woman version is "I'll choose...cats" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menI think what women have done to society is a disgrace. Decent women are ashamed despite not having contributed to it, and in 40 years, all women will be ashamed, of this madhouse their selfishness and degeneracy has created. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 05:00 AM |
| 5 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menWomen are barely even using those uteruses, which is the only thing they are even good for in the first place. Worthless. Like, not even replacement level fertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menI would guess not too many. For now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menBetter orphanaged than never born | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menNo woman would. a woman needs accountability like a fish needs a bicycle. Disgraceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menBetter believe it! Why rent when you can own? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Anyone Here: Would you rather date/marry a woman who has a lot of career success early on and not focused on dating/hookups much or a woman who has taken the time to travel/find herself/experience life and made very little money but dated/hooked up a lot?I would probably relate better to the latter but for ltr/marriage girls that slept around are a hard no from me dawg, so I guess the former | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:50 AM |
| 0 | CMV: White lies and soft delusion are necessary for maintaining excitement and fulfillment in romantic relationshipsForreal I think if men universally got behind it you could get a few women to vote for it too and boom...done. sanity restored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menTime will tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Say there was a highly-religious Muslim takeover, how will you navigate in the new dating sphere?Fuck the Afghanistan one takes your breath away. Horrifying ....like a coffin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menLol. And hence why men will soon be regulating women's bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menUmm what, men are hovering over them while they answer the survey? "ewwweee know what yerrrre gunnna tellleemm" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Say there was a highly-religious Muslim takeover, how will you navigate in the new dating sphere?Ah interesting I wasn't aware of that evolution. But the black get up of modern Iran presumably is not universal to the Islamic world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:43 AM |
| 0 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menI know right! Personal responsibility is so important. That's why abortion needs to be banned. MAGA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Say there was a highly-religious Muslim takeover, how will you navigate in the new dating sphere?Certainly not to that full getup where you can only see the eyes, but that's not all of the Muslim world. I would say it is somewhay comparable to the less extreme getup? (Granted perhaps the head covering was optional in Victorian times). In this latter comparison I guess I'm not seeing how it's especially humiliating, as it seems more just like an aesthetic difference than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menIt means I get to enjoy your suffering held up by hope indefinitely. Kinda makes me horny. I get off on the idea of fucking a superior man in front of an absolutely cucked one like you 🤤 You really need to get therapy for your childhood molestation. It's leaking everywhere. So if this is so universal and timeless and it results in men supporting women, why have these particular pro-women policies only been around for a few decades? Why have men incrementally relinquished power to the "weaker sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menMen love women and will do anything to make women happy. So if this is so universal and timeless and it results in men supporting women, why have these particular pro-women policies only been around for a few decades? (Not to mention primarily in the west lol) You are gonna have so much egg on your face when all your rights get taken away 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Say there was a highly-religious Muslim takeover, how will you navigate in the new dating sphere?A lot of times I'll be reading posts about wanting old school sexual mores/chastity/modesty for women (sexuality, dress, virginity before marriage , etc.) And it really strikes me...a lot of it sounds very similar, at the least rhyming in resonance, to conservative sexual mores in other countries, including Muslim countries But then again, many of the same people advocating these policies also take issue with the places that actually enact those policies. Isn't that something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menIf you were truly great, you wouldn't need artificial measures to hopefully get you power. If women were truly equal to men, they would not have needed to resort to over a hundred years of whinewhinewhinememe. Only time will tell how this ends. What about the white women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menWomen simply have all the control on this issue. Married men aren't going to use condoms with their wives. Women have a much wider range of birth control methods to choose from. Including abortion. Against the will of the father. They are funding women's sovereign choices on the backs of men. It defies all reason and it will not go on this way much longer, regardless of which variable gets pulled to change it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menspecific parents are held accountable for the consequences of their own sex (via child support/abortion). Pick one. How is abortion holding them accountable? Child support would still be there in an abortion ban | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menThey'll live They wouldn't otherwise Hundreds of thousands That's good enough for me , and it's way better than never being born at all Do you know how I know? Homeless people and poor people and hungry people do not all kill themselves, so whatever life they have, no matter how shitty, it's better than not existing for the vast majority of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menor those who implement them will all die Thereby ending abortion and women's rights! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menPro-lifers are literally heroes to the unborn children who would otherwise not be born and will get to experience life once abortion is banned That's enough by itself. That they saw fit to end this massacre. Do you know how many abortions are performed each year?some substantial fraction of that's how many lives will be saved, directly attributable to the pro-life movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menConsidering men are committing suicide and murder because of their madness due to sexlessness, this is a war that can go both ways. Women can vote too and legislate male bodies if and however we choose. And yet they aren't. I wonder why? You can think that being a sick fuck on a one way parent trip is your reality but you'd be wrong. It's not my reality. It's the reality. It's happening as we speak. Women don't even need the law to erode your numbers and will to live and this is why these male c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menTime will tell. RemindMe! 5/22/2022 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menWhere the fuck did that come from, you presumptuous prick? Like really basic sexual education probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menNice rant. Has nothing to do with my comment. You want equality, carry the babies. Oh you can't? Then shut the fuck up. Or shove equality down women's throats even though women carry the babies. See below: And you all need make up your minds. Either politicians are controlled by ev-ul feminazis or they're not. You only wish: Most Americans disapprove of the Alabama abortion ban. Most also support upholding Roe v. Wade. The Supreme Court doesn't operate by a popular vote. Neither do consitutional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menmany women see too. More women than men are pro-life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menThat's not an argument. Men are voters, and elected officials, and they can thus legislate women's bodies if and however they so choose, if their ideas attain sufficient support through the various political mechanisms. Which is interesting considering that, again, more pro-lifers are women than men. Maybe it's time to start realizing that pro choicers need better arguments than "muh uterus muh choice". It's not working anymore. It doesn't speak for itself. We live in a post-shame society now. P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menThat's not an argument. Men are voters, and elected officials, and they can thus legislate women's bodies if and however they so choose, if their ideas attain sufficient support through the various political mechanism. Which is interesting considering that, again, more pro-lifers are women than men. Maybe it's time to start realizing that it's time to come up with better arguments than "muh uterus muh choice". It's not working anymore. It doesn't speak for itself. We live in a post-shame society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menBut that's not how it will work, the government will just pay for them or will force the fathers too, just like now that seems like weird cutting off your nose to spite your face Not sure I follow. In this way both men and women are being held accountable for the consequences of sex. That's what I support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" mendo you really want EVERY out of wedlock child conceive to HVE to be born? Yep. Personal responsiblity for all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:41 AM |
| 12 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menThe letter of the law should come down extremely hard on men for their offspring. Society is not responsible for your lack of personal responsibility. My taxes already pay for fat men and vasectomies. Keep your bastards they are your problem. Once abortion is banned, I will go even further and say men's financial support obligations should begin from conception (idea stolen from some other commenter) But until then, you can take your desire to unilaterally punish men for sexual intercourse and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.You're talking nonsense on PPD but you're not turning pussy down because she isn't a virgin. It is even worse if you fall in love I will not have a relationship with a girl whose had more than 2 partners Of course I'll fuck her if she has more lol I'm not a gay.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" men-Legal abortion -Legal paternal surrender We should either have both, or neither Personal responsibility for ALL, or personal responsibility for NONE The incongruency of selective personal responsiblity really grinds my gears I doubt this is a very popular set of opinions, but that's what I believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.Welp, I'm glad we live in a free society where you can have your preferences and I can have mine. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend castrated an 'alpha' in the walgeens parking lot.She sounds like a real nice lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | If you had to implement social policies/programs to solve the male sexlessness problem ..that doesn't infringe on people rightsReally Putin the Cow in MosCow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 09:31 PM |
| 0 | If you had to implement social policies/programs to solve the male sexlessness problem ..that doesn't infringe on people rightsHaha git em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.You were happy to throw fertility in my face and that is what men do. You try to use biology to strike fear and pressure but we had to adapt to what you are now. We are not dying over lack of sex, men are. Lol did you even read the article? Both men and women are making bad choices that make them unhappy. In the case of many women, those choices are tied to the window closing on their fertility. Yes, not all women want to have children. But some do. And some find themselves aging out of the oppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.I'm saying that many of both men and women are unhappy with this current state of affairs , just for different reasons and on different timelines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | If you had to implement social policies/programs to solve the male sexlessness problem ..that doesn't infringe on people rightsbecause you finally pulled the plug. Too far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | If you had to implement social policies/programs to solve the male sexlessness problem ..that doesn't infringe on people rightsTake away welfare and the same irresponsible idiots that always have will keep getting pregnant and need to feed themselves and their spawn ....if they can't get a job, they'll earn their keep on their backs like their prole foremothers did, whether that's prostitution or marriage with an ickyperson Either way, good for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.I see guys begging to beta buxx and being upset that it isnt that available an option anymore lol Lol no u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.. I see guys begging to beta buxx and being upset that it isnt that available an option anymore lol Lol no u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.Why can't I care lol because I'm not one myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:30 PM |
| 3 | If you had to implement social policies/programs to solve the male sexlessness problem ..that doesn't infringe on people rightshttps://www.buzzfeed.com/sarahhan/average-american-woman-2018 r/nottheonion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.What's good for men isn't always good for women lol Opposite too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.I wonder what kind of effect the manosphere will have on this dynamic....maybe lots of men who otherwise would've settled for being a BB if they didn't realize the dynamic will now be unable to bring themselves to stomach it because they've digested the reality and found it distasteful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Shouldn't men be happy that some women settle for BB? If no woman do, a large proportion of men would not have any chance with any woman.At least back then she was a virgin (or close to one?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Relationship history more important than n-count?I think it's a generational thing. Now that people are getting married later , LTRs are filling in that gap in time, and so they've become held to the standards of some sort of pseudo-marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: White lies and soft delusion are necessary for maintaining excitement and fulfillment in romantic relationshipsThere's research that shows that female libido drops with relationship duration. I don't think there's any evidence you can stave this off by remaining more "mysterious," it just happens regardless. No matter how closed off you are emotionally, you'll still become familiar and less exciting over time. Makes marriage sound like a wonderful idea! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: White lies and soft delusion are necessary for maintaining excitement and fulfillment in romantic relationshipsBut as any man who has taken this risk knows, once the illusion is dropped, there is almost no getting it back. Only women have the luxury of being loved post-honesty. Unless it's about sexual history lol Rest is true. It's exhausting. Many men can realize a much greater return on that amount of work in casual sex. Even a different casual sex partner every month is more satisfying than fucking the same girl every week for years on end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desire. How banning abortions will make things equal is beyond me. Personal responsiblity for ALL, or personal responsibility for NONE Simple. You don't seem to get if you ban abortions you and every other man out there will be on the hook for child support as now the woman has to have the kid. As it should be. Personal responsiblity for ALL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireso you can have your revenge on women It's just equality. Personal responsibility for ALL, or personal responsibility for NONE Simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireAnd/or RBG croaks while Trump is in office, thus making the conservative majority....conservativer....upon her replacement. It's a very distinct possibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireThey are interpretations of the law. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 09:09 AM |
| 1 | How is wanting a rich man more shallow then wanting a tall and handsome man? Money means work ethic, height and looks means genetics?inherent talent, like artistic ability. Definitely Like, singing well Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Average single women are usually not delusional about their "market value" (RMV), they have just decided that being single is better than what they can "afford" for a relationship.My God you can't be serious There was rape back then too That work for you also chief? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How do I respond when people say " girls are just people like everyone else. Just talk to them like you would friends".Women are just people! They are human just talk to them like you would your friends or family I think it's whatever you have to tell yourself to not be outcome-dependent. Nothing short of the woman being less attractive than me worked for me when I was starting out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Being sociable, being personable, being charismatic, and belonging to higher status social circles boosts an otherwise average dudes’s SMV -- is that an accepted observation?I've been on PPD for years and so I've exchanged photos with a enough self-proclaimed "incels" and "average chumps" -- the overwhelming majority of them aren't ugly. It's glaringly obvious to me the reason they suffer is because they lack the qualities in my title, but let them tell it, it's because "they don't look like Chad." I think it's also worth noting that much of these positive personality characteristics are not in one's control. Sure you can put yourself out there and you can try, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireAnd that is exactly what we should tell women who complain once abortion is banned: "keep your legs closed whore" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireHe has to pay, and he has no say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 10:54 PM |
| 0 | How does the disparity in makeup use between women and men affect the current dating landscape?I've gotten women the nice way too. it wasn't for me. Whomever I get, however I long I get them, getting them on my terms is better than any other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireI wholeheartedly agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How does the disparity in makeup use between women and men affect the current dating landscape?A fraction of a fraction of men adhere to this. So what? It is a large enough fraction to affect the fraction of single people below the age of 35 Explain the prevalence of jealousy for bad boys? How is being jealous of their success equivalent to being them? That jealousy breeds toxic male behavior in an attempt to mimic what they think women find attractive. See 'the dark triad' and see how a lot of young guys inflict themselves on women because they think being an asshole is what would finall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireroe v wade is settled law and isn't being overturned bro lol Plessy v Ferguson was also once settled law, bro People assume that the arrow always point in only one direction "oh sure they overturned that but the original decision was made by poopyheads" or whatever you sound like a hysterical woman in a pussyhat rn They're right about that one thing. That's why all these states are scrambling to line up these test cases. Once RBG croaks, with a conservative majority like that.... Anyway, only ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desirethat's what was stated by roe v. wade Which will soon be overturned. Laws are made by people. They can be changed by people. Enjoy while it lasts, I guess? you're free to have sex with and ejaculate inside men and transwomen who don't have a uterus though! And women are free to scissor or whatever nonsense they do amongst themselves once abortion is banned! Equality. Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Exhibit A to women's societal obsession with blaming men for everything: more women than men are pro-life. Why do so many women think blaming men for the anti-abortion laws is the way to go?Keep on waiting then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How does the disparity in makeup use between women and men affect the current dating landscape?Then explain the popularity of The Red Pill and its PUA forefathers. A fraction of a fraction of men adhere to this. Explain the prevalence of jealousy for bad boys? How is being jealous of their success equivalent to being them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How does the disparity in makeup use between women and men affect the current dating landscape?Considering that getting laid is not how women perceive sexual success, I'm not sure what your point is. My point is that women are willing to race to the bottom (make up) to achieve their version of success while men are not willing to race to the bottom (become an asshole) to achieve their version of success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Exhibit A to women's societal obsession with blaming men for everything: more women than men are pro-life. Why do so many women think blaming men for the anti-abortion laws is the way to go?Are the women allowed to make open misandrist comments and jokes? That's like half of women's comments here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Exhibit A to women's societal obsession with blaming men for everything: more women than men are pro-life. Why do so many women think blaming men for the anti-abortion laws is the way to go?Edited | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Exhibit A to women's societal obsession with blaming men for everything: more women than men are pro-life. Why do so many women think blaming men for the anti-abortion laws is the way to go?Lol does every post have to be about everything (but only when it's convenient to your argument, and definitely not if it isn't)? I'm wise to you, poppyblu Now to your point, are the pro choice men also blaming men specifically? That's not what I've seen. I've seen women blaming men And you know damn well why pro choice men wouldn't blame women even if justified. Because they're mostly pussies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireHeh maybe then they'd actually do something effective about it. Squeezing another $50/month out of Cleetus on penalty of prison isn't keeping anyone fed. Both ends of the transaction involves money spent (enforcement, imprisonment) that would be better used feeding children directly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desirethe laws we are even capable of putting in place. Laws are made by people. The parameters of laws that can be made are also made by people. The momentum for such changes may take years or decades, but once it's there, they can be changed in an instant. Let's look at the term "should." In general, public policy doesn't run in terms of "should." It runs in terms of "must." What falls into the "must" bucket can also evolve. Right now we view it as government's role to prevent kids from starving, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: Exhibit A to women's societal obsession with blaming men for everything: more women than men are pro-life. Why do so many women think blaming men for the anti-abortion laws is the way to go?https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/2019/5/20/18629644/abortion-gender-gap-public-opinion It also showed that men and women are equally likely to describe themselves as pro-choice, while women are slightly more likely than men to describe themselves as pro-life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Exhibit A to women's societal obsession with blaming men for everything: more women than men are pro-life. Why do so many women think blaming men for the anti-abortion laws is the way to go?It's like someone standing up to their bully by punching someone totally different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireAnd the way the laws are going, neither will she. She will either have to keep get legs closed till marriage or bear a child Those are the same options men currently have with regards to parenthood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireRegardless of what your personal position is, I'm talking about consistency. Personal responsiblity should be for ALL, or it should be for NONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desirePersonal responsiblity should be for all, or for none | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desire"I don't even get to have a say in whether my child is born or not" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How does the disparity in makeup use between women and men affect the current dating landscape?They are just bitter about the effects of their own practices. If women stopped using makeup across the board, men would still trend heaviest around the prettiest faces and ignore the rest. The distribution would be the same because their behavior occurs relative to available beauty. To your race to the bottom point, it's well known that assholes get laid more, and yet men don't all act like assholes Maybe it's only women that race to the bottom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireWhy should the laws countermand biology's unfairness? Laws are to treat everyone equally. Soon enough, men will realize this, and they won't vote for such laws any longer, and such laws will be gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How much would you pay a year for a good 'wife' service?I would think even one year of not having to be a prostitute would be worth it. But then again if they felt that way they could just get married! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desirePeople make stupid decisions, And when women make them, we sayy "aww pooor woman we wouldn't want you to suffer any consequencessssss for your stupid decisions!!!!" And when men make them, we say "pay up or to to jail you reckless bastard' That's profoundly hypocritical. Thank God they're banning abortion and mandating personal responsibility for all "Let them starve" Lol but "don't let them be born at all" is a perfectly acceptable solution when it comes to the goal of women getting their rocks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireFOR HER GODDAMN CHOICE The only solution is to take away her choice. Then it will finally be fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireA doctor can refuse to perform it even if you insist on it? That's what they're there to do. They can try to coax you or talk you out of it, but it's a service and she's a customer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireWe literally know intimately the details of the poor's suffering in the first world (through technology, statistics, news pieces, social media, etc.), we know a third of children (in America)and hungry every night, and yet we do nothing, despite having abundant resources. No one actually cares about starving children. They just don't want to look like they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desiret’s still her body though. So her body, but his money. Got it. Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 03:18 PM |
| 3 | What does the sex/dating life of the average man look like?How many people do I typically need to fuck to fill the void in my soul? It's goddamn infinite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireHis sperm. He can pay for his child. Then he can decide whether she terminates or not No wonder abortion is about to be banned Women have been operating a scam, and some people (men and women, btw) saw through it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireyes, but the law will chase down the man and she has an abortion as an option Not for long! Then it'll be truly equal Personal responsibility for ALL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireIf men didn’t whine about how “condoms don’t feel as good Hypoagency much? Aww poor helpless women who can't handle whining 😥 Abortion benefits men who don’t want to be fathers as much as it does women who don’t want to be mothers. Except when he actually wants the kid and she gets rid of it, or when he doesn't want the kid and she keeps it. If men don't have a say, they shouldn't have to pay. Her body. Her choice. Her goddamn wallet. Hash tag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireIt's as much an option for women as a vasectomy is for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireif we hammered in to boys the lack of power they have in whether their partner keeps a pregnancy the way we hammered to girls what pregnancy and birth are, then there would be a lot more men against abortion than there are now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desire. If you don’t want to pay it, wear a condom or get snipped. Great, condoms and sterilization exist. We can finally stop wasting all this time and money on all these pesky debates and ban abortion . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireIn 1844 in britain, the law changed so fathers no longer were responsible for their bastard children, previously men were responsible and went to jail if he could not pay, and the state would pay in his absence. Many men could not pay and the driver for the law change was cost to the state. This was reversed in the 1872 due to the rise in baby farming, and the number of infants left out dead in the streets. Women would get jobs and pay someone to look after their infant, who would take their mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireThe world would be in a bad place if male sexuality was not kept in check at least a little because you are not responsible enough to honor your own responsibilities. Abortion.... Rampant single motherhood (which didn't exist in such numbers before abortion) despite abortion.... You're talking about responsibility? I am so fucking sick of female hypocrisy No wonder women were oppressed for millennia Because if they're not oppressed This is what you get You get a goddamn mess. You get men held ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desire"women are wonderful", meet "women are infallible". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Child support is not a need, it's a woman's desireYou officially have zero responsibility to pay for any children the women you're fucking have. Condom usage drops off significantly, pregnancies skyrocket, Lol or the women pick their partners more carefully, maybe even holding out for marriage because that creates separate legal obligations? Condom usage drops off significantly Not if the woman says no. Rape is still a thing you know. So is abortion. Hypoagency much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Q2W: trade off between good looks and confidence in a manI'm saying someone that is peak Chad lookwise but for example doesn't want to be the designate driver because driving makes him too anxious. CMV: Whenever there is a substantial disparity in a couple's attractiveness, the more attractive partner has a hidden flaw on the basis of which they're discounting themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.Oh God it's working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 12:03 AM |
| 3 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.A real man would buy me jewelry as well. Feminism's most powerful weapons: guilt and shame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 11:53 PM |
| 2 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.Men do the same thing, probably if not more than women when you take into account the amount of men who complain about their wives. Lmao did you take into account the number of women who complain about men, including the cottage industry of daily articles identifying every act in their relationship as unpaid labor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 08:59 PM |
| 5 | CMV: There isn't any TRP "cool" advice because it's not needed and is actually detrimentalHe looks as good as he possibly can? Like, not even putting on some weight? Maybe. In which case there's nothing left for him to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 03:38 PM |
| 5 | CMV: There isn't any TRP "cool" advice because it's not needed and is actually detrimentalThat may be, but without giving it a few years of sustained effort, he can't know what his maximum potential is. It can be shocking, and in all cases it puts one in the best possible position to succeed. Who doesn't want that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 03:32 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There isn't any TRP "cool" advice because it's not needed and is actually detrimentalVery, very slowly lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 03:24 PM |
| 3 | How is wanting a rich man more shallow then wanting a tall and handsome man? Money means work ethic, height and looks means genetics?It's no longer prostitution if you turn the camera on or get a marriage license | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 03:18 PM |
| 16 | How is wanting a rich man more shallow then wanting a tall and handsome man? Money means work ethic, height and looks means genetics?Because she actually feels sexual attraction for the attractive guy. There is a group of women in society who suppress sexual disgust in exchange for access to money. They're called escorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 03:02 PM |
| 11 | CMV: There isn't any TRP "cool" advice because it's not needed and is actually detrimentallooksmaxing This is like 97% of the ballgame for people who haven't done it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.A "sex-addict" is just a man who actually has the means to fuck in the way other men would if they could. And sometimes it's a woman, somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Are there any positives for a man to become vulnerable again and fall in love?You've already had the feeling, and seem to have decided it's not worth the trouble of dealing with the fallout, which happens most times (you either get married or break up, you either divorce or die). Ostensibly at some point in the future you will decice again that it's worth it. I think this is the cycle that plays out for many anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingyou'll probably be just as jealous about them waltzing as you would be about them grinding/street dancing. Can't speak for everyone but in my view grinding is distinct from those other dances because it's pure sexual gratification (though I may be projecting lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 01:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingAnd yet, men are more likely to cheat than women That gap has closed significantly in recent years to the point of being nonexistent. If that's eschewing monogamy, so be it. If that makes you happy, find a way to make it work. Indeed :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingthis shit is never talked until things get real. Yeah....of course I bet that guy will bring it up for his next relationship. Once bitten, twice shy etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:59 PM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a year for a good 'wife' service?have no fallback Couldn't she just resume what she was doing before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingBut a guy "keeping his options open" by intentionally flirting with other women is not cool. He can control how he approaches women and what his intentions are when he does approach them. I'm not "keeping my options open" by being out in public. I'm also not going to immediately state "I have a boyfriend" the second a guy tries to talk to me. That doesn't even phase guys at times, btw. And yet the asymmetry remains. Because one day, unbeknownst to him, all a woman has to do is turn off her avers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 05:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingHaha that's true, but in the case of grind dancing a girl's effort is directly causing the boner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingYep...definitely been there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 04:05 AM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a year for a good 'wife' service?Let's say she makes $80,000 a year sleeping with whatever number of guys One guy offers to pay her $80,000 a year to be exclusive to him Is that not a better deal? Safer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 May 2019)Nah it's not projection lots of women use travel as an excuse to ho around "doesn't count teehee" The funny shit is, they don't need an excuse! They live in fucking America. Thus making them the worst kind of ho arounder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingI say this as a guy who's had multiple LDRs. Lol. What's the TLDR on what you learned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingLol it's more like a curb your enthusiasm /Seinfeld social expectations kind of thing, I'm good fam...but she did give you good advice! (The interest the thread's gotten suggests it is a topic with many takes on both sides, which is interesting) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingVery obsessed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:24 AM |
| 3 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingBecause of this, lots of women see no wrong in flirting with guys, but they hate the idea of their bf approaching randoms. Makes monogamy seem quite disadvantageous to men, because assuming that both parties play it straight, the woman can always be shopping. It's like CMV: It's not cheating for a man to flirt/try to keep his options open because women are doing that automatically anyway lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingthe only choice we have is are we going to be the guy waiting for her or are we gonna be the guy rubbing our boner on some other dude's girl? Ya goddamn right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Now that having children out of marriage is no longer certain doom for the child, does it make sense to be so tight-assed about "cheating"?That's not so bad I reckon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:14 AM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a year for a good 'wife' service?It's because muh freedumz, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingLDRs are cucky as fuck. Given that all of the foregoing can happen even in a non LD relationship, seems to me like all relationships could be properly described as cucky as fuck ("girls night out!") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Are double standards in dating ever unfair?Lol best believe it. Can't be blamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingAnd the middle class? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingDancing with someone else isn't cheating. How about getting a lapdance at a strip club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Now that having children out of marriage is no longer certain doom for the child, does it make sense to be so tight-assed about "cheating"?Lol if laws weren't the only thing stopping rape, there wouldn't be so much argument about defining what rape is. Don't see that much with other crimes like theft or murder, whereas even in America until a few decades ago (give or take) there was no such thing as raping one's wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingLmao nah, more like the one where they're holding each other and the girl is rubbing her ass or her crotch against the guy's junk standing-lapdance-style | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Now that having children out of marriage is no longer certain doom for the child, does it make sense to be so tight-assed about "cheating"?The incentive to suppress rape is apparently quite high. The market just doesn't seem to be there for suppressing sexual jealousy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Now that having children out of marriage is no longer certain doom for the child, does it make sense to be so tight-assed about "cheating"?Right, suppressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 08:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingits not a vehicle for sexual release lol For some people it is lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 10 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingI think those are distinct from club "grind dancing", whose sole purpose is quite apparently sexual gratification (but hey, who knows, maybe I'm projecting) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Now that having children out of marriage is no longer certain doom for the child, does it make sense to be so tight-assed about "cheating"?I mean to say it's biological and innate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingTotally . As I understand it they're also more tolerant of cheating generally. sounded like this was an American abroad but who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingWho is more deluded if they think it's a sustainable idea: the guy or the girl? Or is it equal delusion? (Or whoever is the lesser value party is delusional?) Like, people agree to this all the time (military comes to mind for one thing). Is one side crossing their fingers when they agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:11 PM |
| 9 | Now that having children out of marriage is no longer certain doom for the child, does it make sense to be so tight-assed about "cheating"?Sexual jealousy exists irrespective of the rules surrounding cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:05 PM |
| 6 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingArgentine tango, blues dancing IMO those are distinct from the "grind dancing" at a club, whose sole purpose is quite apparently sexual gratification (but hey, who knows, maybe I'm projecting) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingRight, and also those cultures are more tolerant of cheating generally. I got the sense this was an American abroad but maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingImaginary because long distance or imaginary because not marriage? (Or both? ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingf the girl genuinely didn't think it was wrong cause of culture differences, then it is more pardonable Interesting you brought this up. I wonder what the difference in perspective is between MC/UMC v working class, or regional I've got a sample size of one for southern girls raised working class think it's insane that anyone would think this type of dancing is inappropriate. But then again, there's probably bigger problems happening in those communities (it's outright known that men will be che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How much would you pay a year for a good 'wife' service?It's not prostitution if you're married right lol? What a great idea I mean you'd wanna get away with paying as little as possible, which in the case of an average escort would probably be her opportunity cost for not having to be an escort anymore? (Ie whatever she was earning as an escort, paid by the one guy) (Though I guess many of them do it for "muh freedumz" so maybe they'd demand a premium) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingI don't get jealous though Not about anything? And you stay faithful on top of that? Must be nice lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:32 PM |
| 4 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingShe needs the enjoyment of the crime as well as the validation that she's done nothing wrong or it's someone else's fault Literal chills reading that lol I think the world is too cruel for some people to be able to tolerate Maybe that's what natural selection is! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingThe one time it came up for me, this girl was like "I can't even imagine anyone thinking this is inappropriate, it's just dancing!" Idn there's been all these posts about class lately maybe it was LC upbringing/different value system | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingLol nah I wasn't there. She told me about it the next day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingNah all she did was grind danced with another guy Just hated the visual. Esp. because she was very prude. It's like, I'm waiting on you but some other random guy is getting his dick hard off you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingYeah! I mean, that's true. Pretend to be monogamous and keep fucking around is also an option for winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingSure but if the guy doesn't tell the girl he's cheating, she assumes he's not cheating, and further assumes that she's getting away with her cheating while securing his fidelity. It's cuckoldry all around. (Except for the rare instances where she truly knows that he truly knows that she truly knows that he truly knows that they're both only putting on a show of monogamy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:22 PM |
| 11 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingI think what constitutes as cheating should be established by every couple This is true, but somehow I have a feeling most couples don't talk about this until it comes up later. Maybe I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingAre you really breaking up with a girl if you found out she danced with a stranger and nothing else? I didn't, but I wish I had lol. Since then I just stated my expectation up front, but now for the reasons I put in the OP I don't even think it's realistic to expect anyone to stick to that in current year (particularly women because of the dynamic of a club) So why be monogamous at all if one's boundaries are sure to be violated? Many people go through life compromising, accepting "good enough",… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 4 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingCheating is also a lot more tolerated there if I am not mistaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingI have a feeling most couples don't talk about this until it comes up. Maybe I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingBrutal. Lol that's why in 2019 a man should never commit. It makes a guy look dumb to even pretend like he expects women to not violate boundaries, even if he's out violating boundaries himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 4 | CMV: "Intimate" dancing with other people while in a relationship is cheatingEnthusiastically participating (Grinding on a guy for sexual pleasure is definitely cheating). Is there any kind of nonsexual grinding? For me, generally speaking, as long as there's no explicit sex involved, I'd be sympathetic to a single moment of weakness. I also would recommend to ladies to not ask stupid fucking questions like this, because OF COURSE guys will be upset. Lol the kind of recommending I took from this is guys should state up front that grind dancing is cheating (reverse as wel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Are double standards in dating ever unfair?Men who want their girl to put more effort into their appearance but won’t do anything for their own • Women expecting “protectors” when they’re not willing to smack a bitch for their man • Women wanting men who have a car when they can’t drive themselves • Men wanting “a girl that can cook” when they can’t do shit in the kitchen • Men wanting low n count because high n count women “can’t bond well” yet they themselves have high n count •Women wanting men to get their hints and mind-read despite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.They will impute income if they choose Meaning "you OUGHT to be making x amount of money". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Yeah, it damn sure does matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Women aren't having enough children. They aren't It 's their only job It is and they're failing at it." They are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.They only want to punish women for anything they do. Oh that's rich. Give women the sovereign right to decide whether to become a mother every step of the way and then allow them to involuntarily force men to fund that sovereign decision of hers on penalty of prison. Yeah someone is being punished alright. It's MEN. Once abortion is banned, and personal responsibility is for ALL, it will make much more sense to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.More voters are women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Unless you live in a different world, no one has financial autonomy. Every time tax comes out of your pay check, you’re reminded of that. It is voluntary. If you make less than $12,000 a year, you pay zero taxes. On the other hand, if a court decides you are capable of making more than that and paying the corresponding child support, you have no choice but to work to earn said amount on penalty of imprisonment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Men need to be more responsible with their bodies and choose better women to lay with. Society shouldn't have to suffer because you couldn't keep your dick in your pants. Women need to be more responsible with their bodies and choose better men to lay with. Society shouldn't have to suffer because you couldn't keep your legs closed. And once abortion is banned, they will be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.He has zero safe sex options? I thought condoms existed. Great so let's ban abortion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.with no contact with their biological father, "financial abortion" Not the same thing? No contact doesn't mean they're not forced to pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Yes because women are not raising children alone, totally not a thing at all. No one HELD them accountable, because abortion is legal When it isn't, then men and women will be held equally accountable. Yes because women are not raising children alone, totally not a thing at all. Can’t wait for all the uproar when abortions is banded and taxes rise as more children are put into the system or more parents are left with a single parent. Single parenthood is already high with abortion. If anything, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Why hasn’t the male birth control pill been rolled out yet? They're trying. The side effects aren’t nearly as bad as the side effects of the female pill when it first came out and now. They're actually way worse. Do you even Google? Maybe instead of trying to grapple with women’s choice and bodily autonomy, you should redirect that energy to achieving the real solution, which is male autonomy in fatherhood. Would be a lot easier to shoot blanks if you don’t want kids and don’t want to be stuck p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Men are rarely held accountable for fucking And in a world where abortion is legal, women are NEVERRRRRRRRRRR held accountable. Thank God they're banning it, since accountability is so important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Are double standards in dating ever unfair?Do you have double standards in dating? N count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Yeah I'm good with the ban abortion, full responsibility for all route as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.and to argue them as if they are equal is ridiculous. When you can go to jail for not paying, it is equal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.If they don't believe in abortion, them they can choose to not have sex--which, again, cannot legally happen without their consent--until ready to conceive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:27 PM |
| 8 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.That hedonist attitude Then ban abortion, and make biological fathers pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:56 AM |
| 12 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.blaming everything on the women. Ok, then men should have a say in whether she aborts or not If men don't have a say, they shouldn't have to pay Hash tag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:27 AM |
| 9 | Biological father should always be held responsible for child support, otherwise every tax payer is BB.Having sex with a woman is not a anodyne act, contrary to what liberals like to believe. If you have sex, you should be held responsible for the consequence. It's not a woman's sole decision to have kids unless she raped the man. It is her sole decision in a world where birth control and abortion are legal (and her sole decision) and rape is illegal (legal sex happens only with her consent) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 02:22 AM |
| 2 | If women tolerate solitude better than men, does that mean that they will discard BBs for the state without looking back?Maybe at first, but soon enough it's not very consistent for said average man, sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/19 12:09 AM |
| 6 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyYou'd have to ask them, but my guess is men actually relate to other men in a way they do not to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 02:11 PM |
| 17 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyWhat incentive does a man have to mentor a woman he can't at least imagine having a chance of fucking? That's the game. They're taking their ball and going home now. What do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyOr really you don't like how women can stand up for themselves nowadays Why would any man genuinely like having less power than they used to? This is what I don't understand about "racial/sexual privilege understanding" expectations. What kind of people are expected to genuinely love giving up power they used to have, or saw their fathers have? It's insane to me. and all the people who could be converted into saying "yeah this is awesome!!!11!!!" by the use of shaming appear to have already been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyMost people survive without mentors Not without whining and moaning about it in public and news articles, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 12:50 AM |
| 7 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyThey are BOTH BAD. People losing their livelihoods frivolously and people not having their valid complaints taken seriously are BOTH BAD. Rape victims not getting justice and people whose reputations are falsely tarnished...BOTH BAD. And finally, the two are inextricably linked to each other. Till we install surveillance cameras everywhere, each of the two types of harms will lie on a spectrum, where trying to fix one causes more of the other. Not every problem in the world has an elegant, simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyAll of womanhood isn't the single white female. Alas, it's the only part of womanhood anyone seems to care about. I wonder why that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Men are afraid to mentor women after #MeToo and it hurts us all: studyBetter than no mentor at all? No one's entitled to a mentor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating in America is so casual. In France, men tend to commit instantly. But do they really mean it?Interesting, when I was reading I thought that maybe they're just hustling the girls with romance bombing while dating other women too (it wasn't stated in the article but I've read elsewhere that in France infidelity isn't as taboo?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Heh that's pretty awesome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:30 AM |
| 3 | to what extent is being a father biological? (non-adoptive)I'll be getting a paternity test before any such event | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Well, it was the case for me. You mean your eat pray love was asexual? Heh train was exaggeration ya know stand-in for "OMG hooked up with dreamy foreigner" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.You can still Eat, Pray, Love without putting out. Yeah like technically, but come on, you don't really believe that. I'm sure many women leave out their sexual exploits from their descriptions but a great deal of the time "Find myself" = "have a train run on me" maybe it happens on just one of the nights, or a few of the nights. But that's all it takes to make the male sexual-possession-jealiusy-spidey senses tingle Plus the way you describe men as only desiring sex, kinda confirms they are not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] "Men will date a nice lower class woman"Sorry I'm not sure I follow. Courting is for chaste women. There are very few chaste women left. Even for men who can provide said lifestyle....court whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] "Men will date a nice lower class woman"Do you patiently court that woman like ther story books stay with romance? If you don't do any of that and you're expecting sex from between dates 1 and 3, why the ongoing complaint about not getting the picture perfect wife in that story? In the story books/past they also weren't putting out to other men quicker than that at some point because social mores/no birth control yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Heh I suppose, not as much effort required for round 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.In what way is "women who truly understand male nature wouldn't put out before commitment" inconsistent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 03:44 AM |
| 3 | to what extent is being a father biological? (non-adoptive)Nah I just don't want to raise a fraud baby. To all who think otherwise I say tough shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 03:16 AM |
| 3 | to what extent is being a father biological? (non-adoptive)Heh yeah fair I realize now the statement is too extreme. More accurate: never paying child support for paternity fraud baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.So what power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 02:22 AM |
| 8 | [Discussion] "Men will date a nice lower class woman"A girl that MAGICALLY has all the markings of an UMC princess that grew up in the hood/trailer park. And well even if the girl does somehow end up being like that and having the markings, it is very possible that it is an act that will not be sustainable in the long run, or will be overwhelmed by the demons of a troubled upbringing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.This assumes he is especially interested in sleeping with her a second time rather than some other girl for the first time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 01:51 AM |
| 3 | to what extent is being a father biological? (non-adoptive)like you made the choice to date a woman with kids or adopt a kid? Heh yeah saying that as an absolute statement was pretty extreme, I was only thinking about deception when I said it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects.Nah you don't really sound like the "image-death" demo I'm describing to be honest So you are saying these behaviors are a given for people who want to live this way? Only for some folks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects.. I don't understand why so many men see this as a bad thing. It's not the working hard and creating a good, comfortable material life. It's the fear and paraonia of wanting to maintain the appearance at any cost, like everything from if a dirty dish is left on the table one day and you have company over everyone's gonna think you might as well be back at the trailer park!!111, to if the guy gets laid off and hits a rough spot "oh no trailer park" It's the bending over backwards to play the clas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:54 AM |
| 6 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.If a woman can learn to place less emphasis on physical attributes That seems like a tricky path to a dead bedroom if whatever random unique attributes this negotiated desire is based on happens to fade or rearrange over time But so it goes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:47 AM |
| 10 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.what about the women who do hold out? If you're in a situation where you're successfully holding out on sex until commitment in 2019, you're either an exceptionally high value woman, or the guy holding out is an exceptionally low value man (Or religious stuff. That could work too). Personally I think it'd be nice in a way if we lived in a society where all women held out on sex until commitment. But we do not. It is what it is, and it's certainly nice in its own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:32 AM |
| 2 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Haha consider clicking on the link. The kind of men who are pumping and dumping like mad men in New York City are not the same men who are statistically reported to be lonely and miserable. You know, you don't need to commit yourself to fucking one girl for bonding and friendships in your life. You want to think men are so much more than their dicks when it comes to women, go right ahead. It's so nice though when women understand men on a more...realistic level. Although if all of them did they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects.I credit my career for putting me in front of the kind of men I wanted to end up with. I would have never stood a chance in hell competing with models for the few men who date down in any serious capacity. Sounds like class, and specifically being a part of a higher one, is pretty important to you.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:26 AM |
| 0 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Once the man has had sex with the woman, he is the gatekeeper of commitment Simply repeating the claim doesn't provide any basis for it. Once the man has had sex with the woman, he's gotten everything he needs out of her and will leave her high and dry unless she's one of the topmost women he's ever had (and even then it's no guarantee). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Tom, went to college, met a nice girl and got married at 25. Later down the road they had two children, who they heavily invested in, giving them all the best opportunities in life. Toms children went on the have careers and children themselves, and when tom is 82 on his deathbed he is surrounded by family and filled with pride. His daughter is an art teacher at a local school, and shows him the drawing of the children in her class. His son is a lawyer, who sits by his bed and tells him stories … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:13 AM |
| 4 | to what extent is being a father biological? (non-adoptive)would you consider continuing to raise the middle child? is it moral or immoral for a guy to decide to ditch the middle child, assuming that it should be the real bio-dad's responsibility or solely of the mother's? I would literally rather die in jail than directly contribute so much as one red cent to the upbringing of another man's biological child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:49 PM |
| 33 | The notion that men are the gate keepers of commitment is laughable.Once the man has had sex with the woman, he is the gatekeeper of commitment Since most women don't hold out on sex for commitment anymore.... Occam's razor it and the conclusion is the population of men whom women are willing to sleep with are the gatekeepers of commitment That some will part with that commitment easily (just as some women will part with sex, for which they are the gatekeepers, easily) doesn't make it any less true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Do you believe a society where women single highhandedly bare the responsibility of raising and caring for the next generation will be successful? Nope. Thank God most of the MC/UMC are conformists who will keep pumping out conformist children primed to keep the wheels running I see this as a tragedy of the commons kind of strategy. Yes, you may create more offspring, but they are more likely to be criminals, drug addicts, or welfare recipients themselves if they don't have a good start in life.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Single men die 10 years earlier than single women. Maybe women select healthier men for marriage? And accordingly,.maybe those men would be even healthier without the burden of marriage. Also abandoning your children doesn't set them up for success, and evolutionary, you want your children to have success. It does set them up for evolutionary success, since poorer folks have more kids. The upper classes aren't even reproducing fast enough to replace themselves! I don't see the logic. Adapt to mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.On average? You do? I mean statistically, they abandon more (I guess women's version of abandoning would be giving up for adoption, while men's version would be not participating) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.. I was more overwhelmed with him in the house than the decade I've been raising our daughter on my own. I think this is the nash-equilibriumed future of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Because she's more likely to be emotionally bonded to the baby, and thus the one most likely to be saddled with a vulnerable infant and need help with said infant, and for whom being left high and dry means either doing all of that alone or taking the emotional hit of giving the kid up for adoption. That's all. If she's fine with either of those then obviously for such women it's like inapplicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.No they won’t. Affluent, college educated people are the only demo with increasing rates of marriage. And decreasing rates of reproduction. They are not even breeding fast enough to replace themselves! Thus the men cannot leave. Cannot? Did they not inform you of no-fault divorce laws lol. Yes I know they divorce less. The poor will keep fucking themselves literally and figuratively. The values where father recognize their guidance and presence is just as, if not more, important than their genes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.men should really pitch in around the house more, or their wives might sneak off in the night, leaving them alone with an infant." Which he can then give up for adoption Kid still lives! Most of the pairings you're talking about--broke guy with multiple babymamas--are a completely different demographic than married couples complaining about household management. More often the parents never married, may not have even lived together; the relationships are apples and oranges. In families like the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.I say we had a good talk :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Second, why does she “need” him more “especially if she nags him to contribute”? Because by nagging him she's making it a worse deal for him, a worse deal which he needs less (might as well just pay a maid for whatever benefit he's getting if she nags him for his contribution) Did you think that comic is directed at poor baby mamas? Because it isn’t yet that demographic is apparently the metric you’re using to base this whole argument on. The working class are the canary in the coalmine, and arg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Poorer people have always had more children, and it's always been less likely for each of those children to reproduce themselves. Not necessarily because the children died of malnourishment, either. Living to adulthood isn't a guarantee of reproducing. But again, for whatever reason (actually, it's the welfare state), poorer people are reproducing in fat disproportion to richer people, and that itself also exponentiates The suburban princess daughter you raised grows up feminist and thinks she's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.But soon enough, they very well may begin to do so. Equal division of labor and fighting over it etc. is a new addition to the optimate caste when viewed by the frame of reference of the long-enduring values you're mentioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.She's complaining about how overwhelming everything is even with having someone there to help because he has the audacity to ask what needs to be done. Ok. Now subtract him altogether from the household, and child support= halve his existing financial contribution to the household (of course accounting for his lack of contribution to the household mess) She was overwhelmed before? How overwhelmed is she now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.For something like this there is no good reason to other than not wanting to look bad. That whole social striving. It's so transparent and gross how much women do just to not feel lower class. Much easier to just stick with uneducated /lower class imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.If a woman has young children, she needs him more than he needs her, especially if she nags him to contribute, for the reasons I've stated. I think as a lawyer you may be seeing this through "I make enough to pay people to solve my problems if it came down to it"-colored-glasses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.On another note, I believe it is attitudes like this that are contributing to huge decline in women having children and getting married. A decline in educated women having children. The poor/uneducated ones are having them just fine I haven't wanted children for a while now, but lately I've been reflecting and came up with another reason for why that is: it's too fucking risky. It's not attractive to be a single mother. Women know it, men know it. So once a man has gotten a woman pregnant, somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Now, if you want to reproduce with slow women and have your kids be genetic trash, go ahead knock yourself out. The "smart women" aren't having very many kids, if you haven't noticed. What the fuck good are they then? To nag and be more difficult to knock up? LOL please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Subtract her from the equation. How overwhelmed is he? He's off creating another baby This is literally what working class men are doing. Why are you accusing me of fabricating this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Lol they apparently generally don't give up the child, right ? And even if she does, kid still lives. So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.I'm just telling the truth. She's complaining about how overwhelming everything is even with having someone there to help because he has the audacity to ask what needs to be done. Ok. Now subtract him altogether from the household, and halve his financial contribution to it (of course accounting for his lack of contribution to the household mess) She was overwhelmed before? How overwhelmed is she now? You seem to thiink this is some crazy thing no one does, but again, this is exactly what poor m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.She's (and you're) complaining about how overwhelming everything is even with having someone there to help because he has the audacity to ask what needs to be done. Ok. Now subtract him altogether from the household, and halve his financial contribution to it (of course accounting for his lack of contribution to the household mess) She was overwhelmed before? How overwhelmed is she now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.How many times do you think he can get away with that until 1) he gets a bad reputation Go to different locales and 2) he becomes bankrupted by child support payments? Can't bleed a turning Having any kids at all would be a dealbreaker for me, and many women. 2 kids from 2 different moms, and any woman with half a brain will stay away. Just don't tell the new women about the old kids till you've gotten your baby popped out of her This is all the kinds of things poor men do, and apparently it is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Odds are the kid will live. By using a r, spray and pray strategy you can afford to lose a couple anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Because you know I'm telling the truth and you can't handle how scary and fragile life is. She's complaining about how overwhelming everything is even with having someone there to help because he has the audacity to ask what needs to be done. Ok. Now subtract him altogether from the household, and halve his financial contribution to it (of course accounting for his lack of contribution to the household mess) She was overwhelmed before? How overwhelmed is she now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.She's complaining about how overwhelming everything is even with having someone there to help because he has the audacity to ask what needs to be done. Ok. Now subtract him altogether from the household, and halve his financial contribution to it (of course accounting for his lack of contribution to the household mess) She was overwhelmed before? How overwhelmed is she now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.I don't see a counter-argument there. At least say "descendant-maximizing isn't the point" I wonder how many men would agree if they fully thought out the implications of that rather than let all this hang around abstractly in the psychological ether like most people do about most things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Spamming this comment over and over again doesn’t make it any more convincing. I don't see you making an argument against it. I am not above and beyond grateful to him for not treating me like shit after we mutually agree to start a family and i don’t expect the same from him in a similar situation either. Because it’s crazy. He is not responsible for my “survival”’either. We support each other but we are also both capable adults... This is all irrelevant to the descendant-maximizing condition. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.He can renege right after birth What's she gonna do kill it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Once the baby pops out he can leave and make more babies and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Women suck my dick plenty lol Guess their character detectors are broken They can't intuit that I love to actually point out reality to strangers on the internet Once the baby pops out he can leave and pop out more babies and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Once the baby pops out he can leave and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! This is survival at stake This is everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.That sounds reasonable. But for women complaining down to the fraction, They do well to remember that if they push too far: Once the baby pops out he can leave and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:50 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Once the baby pops out he can leave and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.But you're the most vulnerable. You have the most to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects.They're the kind of people who will fuck over anyone at any cost just so they don't "have to go back" to their trailer or feel like they're slipping or whatever. Paranoia. That's not every person who strives for a better life But there are such people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Once the baby pops out he can leave and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Once the baby pops out he can leave and the baby will survive because we don't let babies die anymore (women can work, welfare, etc.), AND poorer children grow up to be adults who statistically sire more children, so more descendants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.He can leave you high and dry at your most vulnerable. Many men do. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Feel free to discuss or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: in complaining about chore imbalance or whatever, especially in the context of there being an infant, women forget the man is already sacrificing his best reproductive move of leaving her high and dry and using his resources to impregnate another woman.Fewer. It's fewer resources, not less. Fuck you lol It may also interest you to know that reproductive fitness isn't actually measured in offspring--it's measured in descendants. Leaving your offspring to the whims of fate is actually a poor reproductive strategy, as it decreases the chance of their surviving and thriving to reproduce themselves. Have you noticed that poorer people have more children? It's pretty hard to be so destitute that the child dies in a place like America. This is the be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects.The vast majority of people die in the same class as they are born in. You can aspire to be UMC and desire millionaire men exclusively, but that is similarly horrible advice for women who want to be millionaires. Like you said, these guys will fuck low class women but not marry them and the stats don't lie. You will likely die an unwed, non-millionaire. Yeah class strivers are gross. It'll come out eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects.This is bad advice for women who were not born into the class they aspire to end up in. Class strivers are gross. It'll come out eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP, is there like any cool TRP advicePepperidge Farm Remembers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".I've conceded many times through out here that "I'm weak" isn't the only acceptable explanation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 11:35 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Tough shit. Accept or starve. O r you know , don't be a mooch and earn your own money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".It's by definition not cheating if it's acknowledged and in the open. Because there is consent. It's not hidden. What gatekeeping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak"."it was exciting" is a perfectly acceptable response, as is "because I wanted to" or "because I can". "Muh emotional needs" is not, in my opinion, since then what the person should have done is break up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 11:05 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Lol......fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".If they choose to stay together despite open knowledge of the extta-pair copulation, then that is no longer cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 11:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".I just have trouble drawing any other conclusion than "people facing relationship problems who cheat instead of breaking up are cowardly afraid of being alone". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online?The people who put on an act is who I was talking about in my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online?Is it? What good is an act ( that, by the way, sometimes involves screwing people over using legal but unethical, or generally grey area white collar tactics) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online?Does it though ? It's all an act. What good is an act? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Sure, it's not a legal question. But if they did it because of drunk (essentially a temporary weak), they ought not say "I felt neglected", because if they feel neglected they should break up, not cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 09:43 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Because whatever justification people offer for cheating means they're obligated to break up rather than cheat. They're denying another person mating opportunities that person is passing up on in reliance on their partner not cheating. It's murdering another person's genetic legacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 09:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".If they didn't care they would simply break up. Now you can sit here and say "they didn't even care enough to break up" but now we're getting into the theatre of the absurd. That would be the thought of some needy borderline personality disorder case whose whole life would be torn asunder if they had to reckon honestly with their own neediness. But at any rate another acceptable answer would be "because I can". Or even "because I felt like it". Or "I didn't care about the relationship" (if true)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".They are mentally weak because they choose cheating instead of breaking up. Breaking a promise this important, on the basis of which someone is giving up their right to otherwise spread their genetic legacy, is especially bad. It's not like "you promised to give me a lemonade". It is weak because you're not a hostage. You're not a captive. All you have to say is "this is not working for me" . No more monogamy. No stealing the other person's mating opportunities while indulging hour own. Poof. Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online?Hm yeah that makes sense, I was mostly thinking of middle class, and for exactly the reason you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 08:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Lol if it's agreed on upfront, but then it's not cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Nobody cheats in a relationship because they were happy. If you got cheated on in a relationship, feel your feelings but take a big step back and take a good hard look at your relationship objectively. Were you happy? Was your partner happy? Was your relationship the best it could be? And be honest with yourself about this. Does anybody deserve to get cheated on? Well, that's not my question to answer. If you were shitty and neglectful to your partner, some would say yes, and this how stepping o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Yeah like "I was bored", "because I wanted to", "because I could", seem acceptably honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online?Always wondered why that is. Seems like it would make some sense to marry down a socioeconomic class or two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Haha the Ross and Rachel conundrum. Yeah I think that's different. But personally that's why I also don't understand why people even accept things like breaks, or accept others cheating if they find out, or actually, if they even sneeze the wrong way People are so goddamn replaceable now!!!! For fuck's sake we can travel anywhere, meet and date people from all over the world, like, I think we are seeing the last vestiges of people thinking there is anything unique about the people they date that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Well yeah, it is weak to promise something and then, instead of freeing the other person to also fulfill their alternative imperative by breaking up with them, to secretly fulfill your own, while they aren't . That's weak and it's also immoral. You're literally killing another person's potential genetic legacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Yeah something like that works, or "because I could", "because I wanted to". Something honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online?God sometimes I fucking hate the specific segment of the middle class and the working class people who strive for it through the "image at all costs, I ain't never going back" method....a bunch of striving, snivelling, FAKE COCKROACHES who will do anything to preserve their fake social standing points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | How do people manage to stay in unhappy marriages/long-term relationships for years?Arguably taking sunk costs into account 0% of the time would be as fallacious as taking them into account 100% of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".No one has to accept anything, even the poorest of the poor. If anything, I think some of them are better at holding fast to their boundaries because they're not gonna stay married to perpetuate "muh social image" God I fucking hate the "image is everything, ain't never going back" contingent of the middle class....a bunch of striving, snivelling, FAKE COCKROACHES who will do anything to preserve their fake social standing points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:21 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".LMAO it's a dog yeet dog world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Nope, at least not to my knowledge lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Of course it's relevant The noncheating partner potentially gave up on other opportunities to mate relying on their partner doing so, opportunities (and time) that are now gone No one owes anyone monogamy....EXCEPT PEOPLE THAT PROMISED IT!!!! Because the promisees are acting in reliance on the promise and sacrificing mating opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 3 | How do people manage to stay in unhappy marriages/long-term relationships for years?Sunk cost fallacy I think sometimes the sunk cost fallacy isn't a fallacy. People don't live infinitely and not all units of time are equal...younger units of time are far better at attracting mates in many cases because of energy and fitness, for one thing. And people aren't great at rationally analyzing their situation and its alternatives. So arguably, in the "grey area" in which most relationships and marriages reside, taking sunk costs into account is maybe not fallacious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".And the ones that openly say that, that's acceptable, because it's at least true. Similarly to "I did it because I could". Cool. But "muh emotional needs" is horseshit. The answer is break up . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".So she or you, respectively, should break up with the other, if you're not being provided whatever thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Then why promise monogamy at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 06:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".I'm kind of agnostic on it. Personally what bothers me about the thought of forgiving cheating myself is that a. I gave up on other opportunities to mate relying on my partner doing so, opportunities (and time) that are now gone and b. Staying with someone who cheated is an opportunity cost against just finding someone else who hasn't cheated, which is both emotionally easier and makes it more likely for me to spread my genes So basically the problem I have with forgiving a cheater is that it fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".But women will stay bc sure he isnt attractive bit hes still rich. How else will a cheater support her lover's baby? Haha yeah, but the problem is she'll never say that! Actually, maybe that's always the underlying reason, and "muh emotional needs" is a cover up because no man is going to agree to outright fund a lover's baby Damn r/natureismetal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:47 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Yeah "I did it because I could" definitely also acceptable, much more so than "muh emotional needs" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".But it is a lot more respectable to be honest and say because you could. Those convoluted sob stories you hear from people, acting like they’re unique and just discovered sexual feelings, are so embarrassing. Right on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".If you can't supply fidelity, don't stay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Do male misogynists - actually - exist?Femorrhoid Lmao the whole incel thing, it's all fake isn't it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".There is no truthful justification for cheating instead of breaking up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:23 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".I know enough wives who are more than happy that their husbands have mistresses, because it "saves" them from sex. I know a couple who can't have sex because of a medical issue, but who are otherwise happy. I know at least one couple where I heavily suspect the husband has a cuckold fetish None of these are cheating, are they? Unless the mistresses are secret? When I was cheated on by a past boyfriend, I did a lot of analysis - both of myself and my behavior, and us as a couple. I learned some v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Do male misogynists - actually - exist?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.If you live in the west, you are in your relationship voluntarily. You are not a hostage. Sure, if you're not married. If you are, there's a hell of a lot of legal and financial reasons that make extricating yourself from marriage wildly difficult (as there should be, IMO) MRP wouldn't exist if it were that easy to get out OK....the conversation is different for unmarried v. married. That I can agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:06 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Like I said in the other thread, 100% of the responsibility for cheating is on the cheater But I think both partners need to do some thinking about why and how the stage was set for the cheating, TBH. That's not an excuse or a rationalization, it's self reflection and understanding The stage was set because someone was too much of a child to break up since they were unhappy. That is the cause of cheating in 100% of cases of unhappiness-cheating. Not changing their status to single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.Should people beak up rather than cheat? Absolutely This is the vacuum. If you live in the west, you are in your relationship voluntarily. You are not a hostage. If "not being happy in the relationship" makes for a different kind of situation, then simply "losing attraction" would be enough, standing alone, to take you out of the vaccuum. If you don't break up instead of cheat, every reason for doing so is equally invalid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak"."I was weak" is not an explanation, as much as it is an admission of wrongdoing. Exactly I think we'd all prefer to be in a company of the honest cheaters than dishonest ones. Yeah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:53 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Some good ones in the thread, I also thought "because I can" was on the right wavelength | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Yeah! It's insulting. And yet every day people are out there with "muh emotional needs". Ah well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Haha indeed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".Saying "I was wrong" or "I was weak" "because I could" takes the act and contextualizes it in reality. Ok, it's true, this is a fallen world where people do bad things. Explanatory lies take the act and synergize it into something much more toxic, making it seem like there is something specific/unique about the couple's situation that makes it justifiable. So no, in this case I disagree, because cheating itself, unlike things like murder, is a dignitary harm, and what happens after the cheating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:46 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".I did it because I could. So what?" Absolutely. Also a self-authenticating response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:42 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Trying to justify, excuse, explain, or otherwise provide a reason for cheating is worse than cheating itself. The only acceptable explanation, because it is the only truthful one, is "I was weak".They were weak because they cheated instead of breaking up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.Not you specifically lol. The royal you. There is a world of difference between, for example, "my husband piles the dirty dishes in the sink for me to put in the dishwasher" and "my wife has been neglecting my emotional needs for 2 years" Stop trying to say that all problems are equal. They're not, and it's disingenuous to say otherwise When it comes to cheating, all problems ARE equal, because the option of breaking up is always there if you're residing in a western industrial democracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.It's disingenuous to say that there's any kind of problem where cheating is a better option than breaking up, because if a problem is "bad" enough on the spectrum of problems, then what the fuck is your ho ass doing not breaking up? All cheating is exactly the same. The difference lies in whether the cheater owns up to being too constitutionally weak to break up first, or if they'll instead make up nonsense that conveniently casts themselves as one of the "better cheaters". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are chores woman's duty?So it's pretty clear that the FSM is a pointless game to play, that it's just a thing you get sucked into but is ultimately meaningless and petty, or even harmful and sanity-stealing at worst --and there is apparently zero to actually be gained from being at the top of it (at least climbing male hierarchies pays increasingly better money lol?) If you were raising a daughter, how would you inoculate them from caring about it? Is it even possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.Lol, on the other hand: practice makes perfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Would you be interested in being a guy that that has a 1000 sexual partners?Why stop there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 11:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.Unless you're with a complete sociopath, cheating doesn't happen in a vacuum. Both partners share responsibility for "setting the scene" (so to speak) the vast majority of cheating is a symptom of larger problems in the relationship As I said, every relationship has problems. That you are asserting there are some occurrences of cheating that "don't stem" from larger problems in a relationship, and that such people are sociopaths, is an attempt to make a distinction without difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 10:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.It's trying to make a distinction without difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 09:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.I mean I guess that's "technically" cheating, but damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 08:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.What was her justification for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD give other women way too little creditwho hate all types of women Which is its own, distinct type of person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 08:04 PM |
| 0 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normWhy wouldn't men just go for the former? It's easier. And certainly more men have it in them to do the former than to be exceptional at the latter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD give other women way too little creditOr they do fine with women and are simply expressing their view on the type of women they select. Yes, it's pretty obvious: women with high n counts should be with men that are fine with that. And it's clear that not all men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 06:30 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.That doesn’t mean that both parties didn’t contribute to a flawed relationship, however Every. Single. Relationship. Is flawed. In one way or another. Accordingly, if that's what we're going by, every single relationship has susceptibipility to cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.silly op. World = bad don'tcha know?" Why do you find this to be an unsatisfactory explanation?' It is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.most people cheat at some point lol Why doesn't everyone cheat all of the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:37 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.Anyone can point to a problem in a relationship (since all relationships have some problem or another) as being sufficiently bad to "justify" cheating (since there are presumably other people in relationships tolerating the same problem without cheating, or breaking up instead of cheating) Are those people who deign to specify a justification for cheating in their minds really that much better than the ones who do not? What's the cutoff point for a problem that sufficiently justifies cheating (a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | The new gender gap: 28% of men have not had sex in the past year while only 18% of women haven'tCS modifications exist but I’ve only ever done them to decrease the amount - it usually can be modified if there’s a substantial change in circumstances of the payor. They payees can and do also go to court to increase the amount if the payors' "access to funds available for child support" increases, or if the payees' decreases (though maybe income can be imputed to offset this in certain cases). This increased or decreased amount, respectively, constitutes a change in circumstances as much as t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Briffault's Law applies to men as wellhow overrated it is with condoms on Shame this is buried all the way down here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Or pick a wife who had a less colorful one. Or don't have a wife. All valid options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normLmao you divorce raped her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normNice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:33 AM |
| 2 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical norm• (Also, btw, you should ask yourself WHY this opposing force broke down, who did it, and why? And its clearly worse off for women (as research shows, as every decade since female life satisfaction has fallen) so why do the people in charge keep propagating it? If you answer that question for yourself, you will find some truly fascinating truths) Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normLol indeed. I know I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:57 AM |
| 2 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normOr, you know, decline to use femininity to their advantage! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:52 AM |
| 3 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normBy the way, American men are just like American women with the added loss of being too weak to lead anything. Your complaints come as a result of your collective weakness. No one chooses to be born, or where they're born, or when they're born. Strength and weakness are circumstantial. In my book, the strongest act a man can take is to cast off the nonsense and do whatever it takes to maximize pleasurable feelings most easily. The days of self-sacrifice for the community are long, long gone, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normThis is why we are never going back. MAGA might have something to say about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:41 AM |
| 2 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normLol well I rather liked your TRP post, figured it was meant for PPD given the errant "Atlas B" reference. Anyway, some things are worth sacrificing for, but no one should aspire to be a thankless mule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normGoddamn man work hard, effort, sacrifice, be strong .. Keep it Some people are more than happy to stick to whatever gets their dick wet easiest, hedonism, pleasure The working class guttersluts (who are the only ones having babies anymore by and large) aren't all fucking "muh alphas". Do that, go to Asia, do whatever gets your dick wet the most quickly for the least effort. That is all that matters! Unless you believe there's a God waiting to pat you on the back for all your "strength", there's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:26 AM |
| 6 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normWhat's so bad about easy mode? As an American I wonder sometimes if it's a uniquely American thing to demand masochism and sacrifice as the only legitimate way to live life, like some Puritan self-flagellation. Fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normSo go to some Asain country where you'll get the path of least resistance. What's so bad about the path of least resistance? As an American I wonder sometimes if it's a uniquely American thing to demand masochism and sacrifice as the only legitimate way to live life, like some Puritan self-flagellation. Fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 04:22 AM |
| 15 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normOne thing though: poorer women have the most children. Who are they fucking? Surely not literally all of them are getting with the best looking/strongest men available to them Maybe the arbitrage strategy need not mean going to another country, but rather men dating women in lower classes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 02:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: What's happening in gender relations is not a decline, but a return to the historical normWhat's happening now in the SMP is simply mirroring trends that are happening all about society. Increasing stratification and polarization. In America in particular, the middle of society is rapidly disappearing. The middle class is fading in favor of a large proletariat and 1%er economic ruling class. Fuck beat me to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy?Just keep going on first dates till one of them fucks you. Don't commit unless she gives you what you need. All of this is pretty simple for anyone who isn't impatient or a pushover about their boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 02:29 AM |
| 8 | Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy?but what if she's polyamorous, bisexual, and allows the husband to have threesomes with her and her girlfriend? But I disgress: If a slut is good in bed, fucks you sooner than most girls would, lets you sleep with other women, It's still not worth the ickiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/19 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Bullshit reasons about the sex decline and what are likely the real reasonsPotential reason number 4: Women only date alpha males. because of Potential reason number 5: Dating Apps. I think this one plays a role. Dating apps generally suck, especially for men who are usually the majority in said apps. Women do have an easier time on dating apps on average because they're often a minority so there are more men to choose from and also because men are more thirsty in general and many of them will approach even women who are not conventionally attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 09:43 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each otherSounds lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Are conservative women an example of NAWALT?Castration, or threat of imprisonment (maybe bribery). I don't see how else you could accomplish that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal with non-virgin women withholding sex?What is "bad" differs based on your interests. in some women's locker rooms "he didn't commit to me after he fucked me" is "bad" and makes him a "fuckboi". But from a guy's perspective, there's no obligation to commit. In reality, no one is entitled to sex, and no one is entitled to a relationship, but that doesn't stop anyone from complaining about not getting what they want. Locker rooms aren't co-ed. Neither are sociosexual interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 03:02 PM |
| 0 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfactionThe Reddit respondents suggested, but they're forgetting that unmarried people also have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | What's the deal with non-virgin women withholding sex?What y'all forget is that TRP is about male sexual strategy. The point is to encourage and explain why the man should be downloading tinder and finding a girl who does want to sleep with him instead of waiting around for a girl who doesn't want to. And yeah, it uses locker room talk to get the point across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:53 PM |
| 3 | What's the deal with non-virgin women withholding sex?No one has to do anything. For example, if she doesn't want to sleep with him, he doesn't have to waste time with her and can go on a date with someone else. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Are conservative women an example of NAWALT?Men want looks. And that's something we too need to fix. Through what, castration? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | What's the deal with non-virgin women withholding sex?People on these subs like to make fun of a woman who is easy but then complain about women who aren’t No it's women who are easy for some men but not others, whatever the reason is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:26 PM |
| 4 | What's the deal with non-virgin women withholding sex?Whatever the cause is, the solution is pretty simple ...keep going on first dates till one of them sleeps with him right after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Be the shithead and NEVER marry. Women are strong and independent so make them prove it. Couldn't agree more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfactionWell sure -- but if the study is to believed, then on average, being married is not a good step for one's sexual satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfactionLol I think it's the nature of the arrangement itself, best laid plans be damned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?If you’re a man considering an LTR and a date decides you don’t meet her attractiveness threshold then she’s done both of you a huge favour whether you realize it or not Very true--sometimes the alternative is far, far worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Like if we take this logical argument and repackage it as emotional one, maybe we can trick your emotional self into going along with it? If someone had to logic their way into a relationship, with the absence of attraction, it’s going to end badly It's like she's asking these women to arrange an arranged marriage for themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?The little thing comes out of her. The man can leave her and the baby high and dry and starving by just not being in the same location. What do you want to do about it...imprison men who don't make enough money to support the child? They're already doing that, and we still have the highest childhood poverty rate of any western industrial democracy. Tell me, what's your grand plan for making men more responsible? Because from where I'm sitting, it doesn't work that way. Rubbing yourself to righte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?If she doesn't want to be a single mom, and she doesn't want to get an abortion if she gets knocked up, what the fuck is she doing having premarital sex? She's going to raise her bastard on $200/month of child support? Calling such a woman mentally handicapped doesn't even do it justice. She is imprisonably stupid, a danger to society and herself and her poor bastard. Not to mention, if every guy just starts giving a fake name, these women will never be able to collect another dime of child supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?As for the actual support of the child : We need to eliminate child support because it's not really child support it's baby mama support. We need to have 50/50 custody. Also if females have the choice to an abortion and putting the child up for adoption, men deserve the same options. That way men won't be extorted and females will have to pick better men. We can't keep subsidizing females bad decisions. We also need to control female's primal base instincts. Imagine if we let men act out their p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Except that she doesn’t get to say “didn’t want a kid, I’m not responsible, I’m walking away” does she? It's called an adoption, actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?That's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?In the case of the ones that are unwanted by the (unmarried) father, he should not pay a single red cent. No one forces a man to walk away from his kids, but if these dumb whores keep letting themselves getting knocked up without getting married, that is precisely what will keep happening. Maybe all premarital sex should be punishable by death like in the sand countries. Tell me that wouldn't eliminate single-motherhood and its attendant problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?The state forces him to, currently, in the form of extortion mandated child support, to fund a choice he had no say in. It's a disgrace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfactionThat is an arrangement in which they actually want sex. Marriage is not an arrangement in which they actually want sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Unless both: (1) rape is legalized and (2) abortion is made illegal, the creation of a baby is completely the woman's conduct. She consents to sex, unmarried, and is impregnated. She consents, or doesn't, sovereignly, to an abortion or adoption If she declines those, She consents to raising the bastard alone Mark my words, one day, one way or another, the law will reflect this plain reality RemindMe! 1/31/2025 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 11:14 PM |
| 2 | New study shows unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfactionThis is literally the most condescending sentence I've ever seen. Well played! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?He's expressing exactly what you're advocating for. Her body. Her choice. HER GODDAMN WALLET | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?"men are responsible for women's decisions but women must be free to make her own decisions" I tell you these people have got to be mentally ill (not just that commenter, I mean the sick society that agrees) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?She chose to get pregnant out of wedlock. Do you agree that men should have a say in whether she aborts? Christ!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?You might be interested in r/antinatalism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Men have never cared about their bastards. You can argue that they should start now, but it is fruitless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Well surely then this would only be a problem in such states, with restrictive abortion laws. But it isn't. It's a problem everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?She picked someone who would not commit to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Women aren't allowed to abort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?The fault is on the woman if she chose to carry a child to term out of wedlock. She decided to gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?women have no duty to produce children Who said they do? Her body her choice etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Possibly, but how to account for the fact that this kind of thing still happens among non-religious people, and in areas where abortion is legal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Thing is, this kind of thing still happens among non-religious people, and in areas where abortion is legal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Many of the guys saying that have little opportunity. They'd be eager to marry. They would marry her. And she could avoid having a child out of wedlock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 11 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?The fault of the scumbag is on the scumbag, not the woman who thought he wasn't a scumbag. The fault is on the woman if she chose to carry a child to term out of wedlock. She decided to gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?Most men who curse single moms seem to be upset that the woman had a kid with someone else instead of them because he would've been willing to get married. Instead, she chose to have a child out of wedlock and gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?your body, your choice, your wallet get an abortion of give it up for adoption if you can tafford it Now if only that could be made into law | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:22 PM |
| 13 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?There's this thing called marr-. Nah actually never mind, this comment explains it better than I can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Right exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?To your point, casual sex never has a dead bedroom, no? Maybe men understand that that's the best case scenario but are too lazy (and/or life gets too much in the way) to work for what they really want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?If you're going to live long-term with someone, you have to do the long-term work. No matter how hot you are. Nah I agreed it gets to that point eventually Of course in every pairing the woman gets there eventually but perhaps it takes longer and is a more gradual decline into outright nagging if the man in question is the most attractive/sexually arousing of their past sexual partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?How does that negate my point: that there won't be a "procreation-only" sex situation if abortion is repealed because there wasn't one before abortion was legalized? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Sounds suspiciously like "you'll learn to love him with time" She basically advises women to arrange their own arranged marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Is this something you've ever done or is it a hypothetical solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?Yeah because every time sex happened before abortion it was because she wanted a baby. Nope, no accidental pregnancies resulting from just wanting sex ever happened ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?But do they find them the most attractive/sexually arousing of their past sexual partners, and how might that perspective (whether or not they are the most attractive/sexually arousing) impact desire to pick up dirty socks vis a vis nagging them to do it? Of course in every pairing the woman gets there eventually but perhaps it takes longer and is a more gradual decline into outright nagging if the man in question is the most attractive/sexually arousing of their past sexual partners Like in oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?I don't mind being the latter as long as I am getting her best. I want the same treatment her previous partners got or better. If she is not willing to bring that to the table then I am out. How can one ever know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: Is AF-->BB a coincidence driven by maturity/experience, a panic driven by declining attractiveness, or a deliberate manipulative framework to have her cake and eat it too?still don't get the panic over this. Like It's emasculating I still don't get the panic over this. Like.. Men do the exact same thing. RP men advocate doing this. Sleep around with hot crazy promiscuous party girls, settle down with nice girl with her head on straight even if she's not as physically attractive. TRP is a response to women's liberation and out of control abiltiy to get all they want out of the marketplace at the BB men's exoense. And no, TRP does not advocate settling down, so the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Do some women want a 'strong, responsible' man to take care of things, so that they don't have to grow up? Or is there a different psychology going on?Feminists are angry at women who dare to so much as stay at home to raise their child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 04:04 AM |
| 5 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)Time will tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 03:20 AM |
| 0 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)All it takes is one or two election cycles and all of it can be restored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)The long con. "Justice for thee but not for me". The gender relations equivalent of DiCaprio showing up to a climate activism conference in a private jet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 01:17 AM |
| 9 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)Coulda fooled me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)What you are seeing is generational karma in action. I believe you're suffering from the just world fallacy. There's no cosmic arbiter. Shit just happens. And there are many American men who feel the pendulum has swung too far in the direction of women, and that it's time to swing it back the other way. If and when enough men feel that way, we have an election, and poof Goodbye feminism. Or parts of it. Like how Trump didn't lose his election despite the release of his decidedly anti-feminist re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)Lol why because there's some kind of cosmic timer to make sure that this takes exactly the same amount of time? For one thing, we have the internet now. For another, whatever power women are accorded is by the courtesy of men, since they are stronger and more aggressive, and lasts only so long as men continue to extend said courtesy. That is why you do not see feminism as a compatible phenomenon with developing world countries: if enough men aren't living well, ain't no one gonna be living well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)Sorry about females in the west getting "over empowered" guys, but if it wasnt us, it would be you. The pendulum can always swing back And the harder it goes in this direction The harder it will in the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 12:24 AM |
| 16 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism (11 May 2019)Just give upper middle class white women their 3% raise already so we can move on to something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.spending one night in his robotic mansion. Giggity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Hypocrites, Period. The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. Yes, poor people striking, because they would also pay themselves poorly if they were the employer are HYPOCRITES | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 4 | How exactly is womens sympathy/empathy going to help these lonely men find love/intimacy/sex?In a world were women could empathize with the plight of men ...instead of getting a "ewww. no way in hell loser" when he asks her out ...he will now get "you're so brave for putting your heart on the line but unfortunately you're not my type"etc.... In the end it's the same result. No hugs, no kisses, no love , no intimacy and ...most important of all(no matter how much you guys try to pretend it's not what you want) ......no pussy. Not sure this is what is even meant by sympathy when others ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Should a woman focus on her SMV?What if she doesn't want a guy to like her solely based on looks? "Let the clock run so I'm older" seems like a bad way to achieve this particular goal, when there are other ways in her immediate control to "minimize" her looks in the present if it's important to her that she's not being judged based solely on her looks (e.g., perhaps by not using all the maximizing strategies women usually use?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 01:00 AM |
| 3 | How much actual effort do you put into getting laid/dating when you're single?every single girl i know who is actively looking treats it like a part time job. This sounds absolutely exhausting. My God are relationships that important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Does male sexual attraction change in an LTR?It's happened with every relationship. Solution has always been simple. New girl. Lifting definitely helps achieve that goal, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 09:07 PM |
| 12 | Do men really care about the decline in sex?Not all sexless men are miserable, and not all miserable men are sexless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Do men really care about the decline in sex?Equality! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Does male sexual attraction change in an LTR?There's a point, maybe a month or so in, where I'll realize I'm just going through the motions. I still have the urge, but when it's actually happening it's kinda...meh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex"Ruh-roh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex"Sure, that's true, but I mean the things that have changed that they're searching for explanations for, like the less sex in the article, may be explained in large part by the faster pace (and associated hecticness) of modern life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 12:00 AM |
| 2 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex"Women are more desirable for casual sex than ever before because 1) they give out sex for free As for #2, you can't fuck a degree. Who gives a shit about muh education | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Men: How much effort to do you put into personal care?should really know that many women care, not only of the face of their partner but how they present themselves. I've gone through wildly varying phases, but I've found that my physical fitness has been the most relevant variable in that regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Do men who aren't having sex actually want sex that badly?The people who want a thing and the people willing to do what it takes for them to get the thing never overlap perfectly. And for something like this it's especially true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Discounting people with problems doesn't make problems go away.Interesting you put it that way...that's always been my personal take on karma itself. It's cause and effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 05:05 PM |
| 7 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex"Not to mention random mass shootings...there was another one just yesterday in Colorado. They're terrorizing us all individually and uncoordinatedly, but terrorizing they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 03:08 PM |
| 7 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex"boredom bone Lol Beginner population control: abstinence-only sex education Advanced population control: Substantial distraction through smartphones and Netflix | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex"South Park | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 02:57 PM |
| 22 | British Medical Journal: "People are having less sex""sheer pace of modern life" I think this is underestimated as an explanatory factor for lots of changes happening. We tend to gloss over it, I think, because we've simply adapted to it little by little over time (some better than others of course), like frogs boiling in a cauldron, but that adaption comes with imperceptible sacrifices that add up over time There's a book from the 70s or so called Future Shock that theorizes about the impact drastic improvements in technology will have on people'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manospherebeing partners If they make the same or similar money, he is not a provider. Regardless of gender, if there is an income disparity, the one making more money is a provider. They are elevating the other partner's quality of life. Staying at home and earning nothing is just one manifestation that can take. You can pretty it up with equality-sounding words like partnership but it does not change the underlying reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Discounting people with problems doesn't make problems go away.The only way to fix this systemic and cultural problem is to revoke the womens right to vote. And there is absolutely no chance the western world would ever manage to do it. Not with that attitude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Discounting people with problems doesn't make problems go away.How so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereI'm just taking your statement to its logical conclusion: as long as the woman is earning something, she is providing for the man as well, no matter how much more the man makes. Because romantic relationships are just like parent-child relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men are always obligated to pay for you?Never heard of her before the whole clip was so good! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereOk, so woman earns anything above $0, man's not a provider for her, gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentRight. If he's "not ugly" enough that a girl wants commitment from him, he is "not ugly" enough to be some girl's Chad. Granted it may be an uglier girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Discounting people with problems doesn't make problems go away.Nah. I mean, maybe the single mothers would have fewer children since they're not incentivized to pump out more or whatever , and more would go hungry , but without the social structures in place that prevent it, the problem would persist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:06 PM |
| 14 | Discounting people with problems doesn't make problems go away.Sexless dudes: But I need validation Sub: Have you tried drinking, drugs, and partying Wut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 05:00 AM |
| 14 | Discounting people with problems doesn't make problems go away.Freedom ain't free. Obviously there was a time in the past when there were fewer single mothers than today (or it wouldn't stand out as a problem), but the structures that kept that in place curtailed freedom. Any solution to the problem necessarily starts with curtailing freedom. And no one wants to do that. So here we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Do women really need emotional connections to have sex?i definitely felt "a connection" of some kind with every man i slept with, but it was exactly the type of feeling seduction behaviors are designed to elicit How is it possible to feel seduced if you already knew on a conscious level how and why you were being made to feel seduced ? Or is it in retrospect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereI agree, some men want commitment when they're younger and others do not. But do these women really want it? Why would they stay with someone who isn't committing to marriage if they did want it? Surely it stands to reason that it's not a priority... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 10:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereA provider need not be a sole provider. Lest we forget, even with all the muh equality, men are on average still the higher earning partner. The man making more money gives her a higher quality of life than she would otherwise have. Ergo, provider | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereThis is true. It's easy to forget that advantages that are frontloaded do not necessarily equate to happiness, and indeed could easily be reasoned to detract from happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereThey didn't realize that lifestyle isn't actually available to every man lol. Though I would say that it (or some version of it, a life of casual sex basically) is potentially available to many more men than who are currently making a valid effort, just by the fact that 70% are overweight or obese alone. (Similar stats for women, but as you may have already noted they're able to be more choosy so it's a different story) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 09:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereThat's a different story of course. I think some men would, and some men wouldn't. But yeah, that is definitely relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereLol one thing too is the pill also happened around that time. Maybe the pill was an accelerant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereThat's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereI think someone on PPD once posited it started with Hugh Hefner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereMuch of your argument relies on the angry online MGTOW. Fact is, men are simply more likely to express their frustration with any number of things in terms of anger. That does not mean that the lack of a corresponding WGTOW (which is not nonexistent, to be sure, but definitely not as verbal or pervasive) proves that the cat ladies are happier. Their despondence may simply be expressed differently. Such as through rapidly increasing suicide rates compared to before (though I agree there are many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereThat thread needs a sticky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereIf anything, if this "evidence" proved that cat ladies were so unhappy unmarried that they killed themselves, you would also be proving that men opting out of marriage increased their rates in suicide. Only if not being married made men as unhappy as it did women, much less your implied point that cat ladies must obviously be happier. Women's rate is increasing faster. Point is, there's no way to know for sure, but it certainly isn't in "favor* of your proposition that cat ladies are obviously/o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereMan relatively work less and have less responsibilities. Reminds me of the documentaries on the matriarchal Mosuo tribe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 06:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereCat ladies are objectively more content in life than angry MGTOW. No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereTrue, but as you described in your other post only a minority are "lovers" (though who knows, maybe many more can build themselves up to be one if they align themselves with the new paradigm) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 06:36 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereMen are decrying marriage because women are making it a bad deal in part through actions like racking up high n counts and then wanting to settle down with providers after they've already burned through their youth, doing those things sequentially, instead of simultaneously and in reverse (marry young when they're still beautiful get wealthy fuck the pool boy) like the good ol days. Why be a provider to a woman whose youth you did not get to enjoy? You're right that men are upset because the pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting any sex, complain about not getting the validation they like to receiveHah yeah I was thinking of that too. I think the truth is no one really knows for either part...as with most things in life, people tend to fall into this or that because it seems like the thing to do at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting any sex, complain about not getting the validation they like to receiveLet me ask you a question, what do you think what defines a husband? One might similarly ask what defines a wife while daily articles are pumping out about how anything beyond her showing up constitutes "unpaid labor" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Why care about people's double standards in dating?those aren't as bad I would argue that that itself is a double standard which violates your own apparent value system of double standard = bad I may also view those morally differently from each other, and provide them different moral weights than you do, but I'm also not the one asserting that double standards are immoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menOk, the study is wrong....but why is porn the mechanism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menFor shit with a much more tangible connection to violence look at radical islam or white supremacism. Incels/omega males become sad lonely nerds, they generally don't kill people. According to South Park, the latter is the pipeline for the former | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I had a depressed boyfriend for years who would sob on me and demand lots of attention on his bad days -- which I willingly gave, because I cared about him and wanted him to feel better. The resentment started when I went through a rough patch of my own and he refused to provide any level of comfort whatsoever. I never tallied up my "unpaid labor" or even referred to it as such until I realized how utterly unreciprocated it was. And I never would have if he'd kept up his end. I know how frustrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Part of a relationship is that you do things for each other , for free, that someone you aren't in a relationship would charge for, because, among other reasons, it benefits both of you. Fixing the garage door is also technically "unpaid labor", for example, but thinking of it that way is deeply problematic. You end up with two people just invoicing each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentFemale sexual attraction wanes over time in monogamy, quicker than the man's does. That's what you're signing up for in the long run with monogamy. It's not a lifelong sex party. Monogamy is for stability and companionship and in many cases to provide a stable home for children. And that's why long term commitment is at odds with getting a woman's sexual best. I think our society suffers from trying to "have it all" when having it all is contradictory and infeasible. ✓Exciting sex life ✓Stable m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why care about people's double standards in dating?Double-standards by definition are unfair, and people typically think things ought to be fair, so that is why it bothers them. Would you agree that woman preferring men who make more money than her (or taller than her, or stronger than her, or whatever) is no more or no less "unfair" than a man preferring women who have slept with fewer partners than he has? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Why care about people's double standards in dating?How is it contradictory or a double standard to say "hey you're free to date however you want, but I'll personally judge you for it"? Would you agree that a woman preferring men who make more money than her (or that is taller than her, or stronger than her, or whatever) is morally no better and no worse than a man preferring women who have slept with fewer partners than he has? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Why care about people's double standards in dating?Would you agree that a woman preferring men who make more money than her (or taller than her, or stronger than her, or whatever) is morally no better and no worse than a man preferring women who have slept with fewer partners than he has? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Yeah and no one would ever refer to it as "unpaid labor" because that would be fucking nutty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why care about people's double standards in dating?I think the only route to where you're trying to go is to frame it as something like "CMV: A woman preferring men who make more money than her (or taller than her, or stronger than her, or whatever) is morally no better and no worse than a man preferring women who have slept with fewer partners than he has" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Everyone understands that you do emotional labor in a relationship -- the problem comes when one person does all the emotional labor. Framing it as unpaid labor invalidates it from the start. No one pays anyone for anything they do in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentThere are options if a man's goal is to be someone's chad: work harder at being attractive, or date uglier women than the ones willing to give you boring ol commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why care about people's double standards in dating?For me its about logical consistency. If you hold others to a higher standard than yourself, your opinion is irrelevant. So is a woman preferring to be with a man who earns more money than her hypocritical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentSo the solution is be someone's Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentYou're right, that makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentIf he's sexy enough that a girl wants his commitment, he's sexy enough to be some other girl's sexual best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:12 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentFair enough. Isn't it harder though? If you're a guy and you want to get a girl's sexual best, we're talking about a metric for how she behaved for maybe at most a couple of hours (or as little as 30 seconds lol), like in the video in the OP A guy's best commitment would have involved days, weeks, maybe even months of active, perhaps expensive, perhaps extremely devoted courtship. It's harder because it's a higher, more extended, perhaps more rigorous ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 4 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentIf a man can't inspire that on his own then he will never get it. From that specific girl. That doesn't mean he can't get any girl's sexual best. So basically men do not want a woman's sexual best, they just want to do whatever they want with her and have her pretend that she likes it. Not even the guy referenced in the OP story wanted that. He specifically rejected that idea when she proposed it. Men do not want pretend. My take on it is if you have to commit to the girl to get what you want, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentYou can have companionship without commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentI also never said it was wrong. I did say it's more difficult. Also, the subject of this thread is the former...maybe consider making one about the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)you want to give nothing back These articles say nothing about reciprocation or evening out things. They simply say it's "work" they're not being "paid for". It's not "he doesn't also listen to me", it's "go pay a stranger to talk about your problems instead" Any woman referring to anything they do in a relationship as "unpaid labor" sounds like a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentNot necessarily and that doesn't justify pretending one is just downright awful and the other is a-ok. Don't you think it's ikely, and perfectly reasonable, that a man would think whatever is in his best interest is "ok" and a woman would think whatever is in her best interest is "ok"? Isn't that what the entirety of these discussions on PPD amount to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentAmen to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentRight...and getting a woman's best sex is much easier than getting a man's best commitment. A man giving commitment lessens the likelihood of getting her best sex. A woman giving sex lessens the likelihood of getting his best commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:45 PM |
| 4 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentThe guy doesn't get her best sexuality and is constantly frustrated and the woman has to live with a guy she isn't deeply attracted to and thus resents him. Boggles my mind why ostensibly sane people continue to voluntarily subject themselves to this kind of misery, other than they simply don't know there's another way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentIt's just wanting her best sexually, it may be she's never worshipped anyone as a sex god. It's as reasonable as anything else, but I would also argue that it's not realistic, because commitment is definitionally safety. So if you are a guy and want a woman's sexual best, odds are you will not get that through commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:33 PM |
| 3 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentOk, so how does a girl avoid the scenario of not getting any commitment whatsoever from a guy she sleeps with, much less "not having to wait longer than other girls in his past did for his commitment", if she slept with him before he committed? Once she's slept with him, he may have gotten all he wanted, and that's the end of the story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:30 PM |
| 4 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentPoint is, when what you're asking for is of far longer duration, you're necessarily at a disadvantage, which is why "women should avoid men who committed sooner in previous relationships" isn't really a functional strategy unless it's paired with "hold out on sex until you get commitment" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:20 PM |
| 5 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and Commitmentwould be men to avoid under similar logic. That's true, but thing is, sex can be much more temporary. Unless she's one of the rare women in current year who refuses to give it up without commitment, the man has gotten what he came for, so to speak, and is long gone. There is an asymmetry when what you're asking for is 30 seconds of pleasure versus years or perhaps even a lifetime of singular commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:10 PM |
| 6 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and Commitmentand I allow the same freedom to my partner. Who has the freedom to leave if he is unsatisfied, presumably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 8 | An aspect of AF/BB: Men and Women have a fundamentally different thought process behind Sex and CommitmentMen don’t want to be seen as only being the safe option. This is true. But related: isn't marriage/long term stable commitment definitionally making yourself the safe option? It's all bundled together with safety. I don't think it's possible to have it both ways, especially in a society where you don't have to marry to have sex. Sex tape guy in the story was the woman's FWB. As a guy, if you always want to be the adventure, maybe you can't ever be more than a girl's FWB. If he'a not getting what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)only ones who do all those things The way the complaints are framed indicates that they don't think they should have to do it at all. It wasn't "he should listen to me more". It was "he should pay a stranger to talk to instead of me" With that attitude toward anything but the bare minimum of showing up (as borne out in other "unpaid labor complaint" articles), what good is she to any man at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Exactly the point I am trying to make. You can't characterize everything beyond the bare minimum as "unpaid labor" and expect to have a healthy relationship. Even if the goal is to strive for more balance, that is a disgraceful way to express it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I seem bitter? Oh that's rich, coming from someone who apparently supports women complaining about literally anything they do in a relationship beyond bringing their youth and beauty as "unpaid labor". Have you ever seen even one article where men bitch about not being paid for carrying the load in their relationship (presumably you agree that at least some men do so)? Spare me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men?2019 Does it reset to "000" in 2020 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Because really, what are you bringing to the relationship? Some money? Sure, but she can make her own. Some sex? She can find that easily, and probably with hotter guys. Some sperm? The ability to call herself married? Honestly who gives a shit. I don't disagree. Any woman who thinks any contribution to a relationship beyond her (increasingly un)pretty face merits a math problem should just casually fuck hotter guys rather than waste some guy's time (and her own) complaining about every single t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I ask this question because I see that many men are saying that they need to protect themselves from women, not work with women or be alone with then. Surely you don't think only women have the right to protect themselves from situations that make them uncomfortable... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)The more expectations women have, the more standing up has to be done. The expectations are growing exponentially. The number of men properly able to stand up to women is, accordingly, declining exponentially. It's much easier to just wantonly demand more than it is to stand up to said demands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Haha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Right but they seem to be implying there's some other guy out there who will give up their God-given right to spread their seed just because she shows up, since apparently showing up is all she's willing to do, since anything beyond showing up is "unpaid labor" (as termed by not just this article but others, and not just emotional but other categories) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)What would you say is an example of a legitimate , commonly experienced critique? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Like personally? I'm well past the point I'd ever make the mistake of sharing even a single non-utility-bearing emotion with a woman I'm sleeping with or want to sleep with. However, I take issue with this trend of women considering every single thing they do in a relationship to be "unpaid labor". Relevant thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bkt9g9/emotional_labor_exists_because_there_is_a/emjff4o What IS a wife for indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I'm offering my perspective for discussion and rebuttal. If that's not of interest to you, you know where the block button is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Damn that really sucks. I can't help but imagine that writ large there were many 12 year old daughters of divorce who were resorted to as therapists for the same reasons, who then grew up to have that same line in the sand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I don't know. What's your take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 03:25 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)God middle class women are the worst...always striving or whatever, ashamed of potentially falling down to working class . I don't know why middle class men don't just marry lower class women and call it a day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Ok, so are you saying that in reality, there are zero bases on which women's conduct in relationships merit criticism? Or are you saying that in reality there are, in fact, bases on which women's conduct in relationships merit criticism, but they just don't get written about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Lol fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I was thinking through something along these lines, in that, other than money, how else is a man going to add value? Which then got me thinking, maybe this whole assoratative mating thing is not a great strategy---maybe guys should "marry down" earnings wise, and in fact, maybe this is where the "threatened by women with means" thing comes from. Makes you wonder ...why aren't guys marrying down in income instead of parallel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)✓Figure out what to replace the old checklist with ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Ah yeah that's also a good point, men only valuing the sex doesn't mean that's objectively the only value she brings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I'm talking about only women's needs being given public importance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)You said what I was trying to much better than I could, really. This is what bothers me. If the only value add women need to bring is sex--It's basically like servitude for sex, and in a world where you don't even have to marry for sex anymore, the thought that a guy would choose to sign up for an expectation of "unilateral value add just for sex" sounds cringey and humiliating, well except for the few wonderfully aligned super compatible hetero couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)That's what many men told the feminists when they started all their whining that eventually got them their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)The oppressors never think the silence of the subjugated is cause for concern. The privileged never see their privilege. Isn't that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)There's nothing to paint FACT: There are tons of mainstream articles commanding men to improve their conduct in their relationships with women FACT: There are no mainstream articles commanding women to improve their conduct in their relationships with men So, either women are perfect in their relationships with men, or only one side of the story is told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)You don't think complaints have more legitimacy when there are articles talking about them? Why do people even cite articles when making an argument if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Can it really go on like this forever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:53 PM |
| 11 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Couldn't get here any faster! Truth is for people living in comfortable western democracies, no one really needs anyone else anymore, certainly not the way they used to need them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Username doesn't check out :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Well actually, it is, because the messaging sets the window for what is socially acceptable to complain about for individuals as well. What kind of complaints are "legitimate" and what kinds are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Men like me don't have a megaphone! Were there in fact more mainstream space for the complaints of men, rather than just the dark corners of Reddit, maybe you would be onto something. But nope. It's all "men's expectations are awful" this and "why is no one paying me to take care of my partner" that. When this shitshow finally ends women are going to be horrified that they weren't more thankful for how good they had it. This unilateral concern for women's needs surely can't last this way forever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)God forbid they ever dare complain. They don't ever stop complaining. day or night, rain or shine, articles like this keep being pumped out, arguing to lower their burden and raise men's. They should simply stop being in relationships if their "compensation" isn't enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Do you listen to yourself? You're getting hysterical over something I didn't even say. I'm not climbing up on some "men are monsters" cross because you don't want to admit what's repeated here daily: men prize looks. . I've repeated that throughout this thread, actually, but that is just describing the reality, and is certainly not a justification Women who bring that, and maybe other stuff, have options. As do good looking men. Not exactly groundbreaking unless it doesn't fit the victim du jour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Is it? Can you name even one expectation that is socially acceptable for a man to have of a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Women believe that simply giving a man a chance is the valuable product being purchased. It is so true, and so humiliating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)But you see, you're not allowed to expect sex anymore. That's the new normal. So there is an asymmetry. Women are being held up as ones who should both have no demands placed on them in relationships and be able to demand without reciprocation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Oh that I agree with. Women should stop wasting men's and their own time on shitty relationships that please no one. And fucking women casually is the best decision a man can make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Some people overestimate their ability to read others as a defense mechanism to quell their angst at how unpredictable people actually are. The only real solution is to not be invested in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I mean, ok, not everything works out for everyone, but you still play your best hand. Better than the alternative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)No are you? Fair =/= normal Men complain when their efforts aren't rewarded with sex. Women complain...well, it's not quite that they want to be paid for their unpaid labor. They just don't want to do it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Man treats woman unfairly: MONSTER!!!! Woman treats man unfairly: meh who gives a shit she's hot and there's plenty of replacements available if he gets too uppity Lol does anyone ever listen to themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)not my mom lmao It's all making sense now 😕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)It's a financial agreement. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't entitle you to anything. "Relationship" is just a status, and you don't get to have any expectations about what she'll do for you based on that status. You're not entitled to sex with her. She'll give that to you when you earn it. Being in a relationship and expecting sex is for pigs! She's not your slave. You're not entitled to her cooking, cleaning, folding laundry, or doing anything like that, you dirty pig you. Along t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I'm not sure what's worse...not doing it at all, or doing it and then creating a mental invoice for being paid for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Lol the tldr of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Even so, how has weaker enslaved stronger? Seems absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)That's a good point. One can only hope the trend increases so silly things like relationships no longer interfere with true happiness! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Women will increasingly be whiny and unsupportive (in number, and in magnitude) . That's about it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)And men end up doing much more paid work. If the people were talking about are married or in a relationship, which is the topic of our discussion, all of that work benefits the pairing mutually. Including the excess paid work the man is doing. In short men and women are spending similar amounts of time contributing to the vitality of their household. That's unfair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Lmao checkmate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Nope trying to understand women as a whole seems like a waste of time, Lol odd perspective for someone who regularly posts to purple pill debate to hold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Ask men why they don't describe their unpaid labor as unpaid? Probably because sex feels good. And money isn't a replacement for it. Men complain about not getting sex in return, rather than money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)So if you add up paid and unpaid, the total were pretty close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Totally agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:15 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)more traditional husbands You would think, but if they're looking at it as "unpaid labor", whose to say they won't see "traditional wife" ly things like cooking and cleaning as unpaid labor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Even the ability to work on them successfully is a genetic positive. All these things add up to the sum total of "what you gave to offer" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Well that's certainly a combination you see more often . I assume it's because there are more younger women in the world available who are willing to compromise on looks when it comes to commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)It's true. There is inherent risk. Maybe it's a stupid risk. Can't be avoided from my perspective. Just managed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Doesn't have to be a young "model" to be a younger model, so to speak Whatever resources he's accumulated over the years alone will be likely enough for some younger woman or the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Lol if they could "easily " get a better one...they would. Sometimes a person's faults /restraints are not visible. Maybe she's neurotic or not socially adept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)It's innately asymmetrical ex ante because the woman is aging and the man is giving up on the opportunity to fuck younger and tighter. Now if a woman is going to bring out a slide rule to measure all the non-looks things she brings to the table, I mean seriously, what good is she? Perhaps the man won't divorce her usually, he'll just accept his fate and check out. And contribute even less. Which leads to more articles. And eventually the woman gets fed up and divorces (as noted by other commente… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)It can be common and still lopsided, hence the reason for the complaints. Don’t be dense. So by "normal" you do mean "fair", right? Don't you think it's interesting that they aren't asking for financial compensation? What? Men do unpaid labor and don't ask for money, despite all their other complaints. Maybe there is some truth to the caricature that men are expected to be workhorses are and women are all golddiggers deep down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)You know this isn’t about normal relationship expectations. How can it be both abnormal and typical of relationships? If you look through this thread and in many of these articles they complain that it is typical. So from whence does this "normal relationship expectation" come? Apparently the "normal" is "expecting significant unpaid labor from women". Now if by "normal" you mean "fair"... Men complain about plenty of shit. And there’s plenty of men around the manosphere complaining about how mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Basically the way I see it is enthusiastic consent is both a pretty good metric to minimize the possibility of false accusations and the most likely situation to have a good sexual experience. If even that fails, well, I did the best I could in being cautious in feeding my hunger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)they're either below average, or they're not playing their cards right. They're not hot enough to be able to get away with not bringing anything else to the table. If they were hot enough, they would more than likely know how to play the cards ( save for some exception like autism or childhood trauma) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Why don’t you ask red pillers who constantly complain about women and AWALT this and AWALT that why they still choose to date women To get their dick wet, and (for the most part) not much more. So it's temporary. And not much to lose. Etc. That's why it isn't analogous. You’re going on and on about how these women have toxic views of relationships but apparently to you she’s got to make up for aging with increasing levels of caretaking. The article isn’t about regular old give and take in relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I mean it's not just this article. There has been a trend of women characterizing anything beyond "showing up" as "unpaid labor". That seems pretty self-centered to me, and I've yet to find one single article where men characterize the unpaid things they do for their partners as "unpaid labor". Surely you've seen that there are at least some men out there carrying the majority load of their relationships, emotional labor and otherwise . Why aren't they complaining about it by wondering where the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Don't you wanna know what kind of day you're seizing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)"get over it" and "argue anonymously about the ways it is unfair on the internet" aren't mutually exclusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)She has to offer something other than looks for there to be something other than looks to be of interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Lol...not likely. Not with any effort incentivizing such a change being categorized as unpaid labor and secretly mentally invoiced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I think the freedom to show anger is rapidly being phased out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Oh sure, hence specified "financial". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Are you saying the interviews are fabricated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)You must be hot. I hope for your own sake you stay that way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)You're not doing anything besides showing up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Say what you will about men, at least they don't silently create financial invoices for the nice things they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)So if it's typical, why do women persist in getting into relationships and their compromised, negotiated misery? Why not just https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bknxq1/discussion_women_are_feeling_increasingly/emi620x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I don't even disagree. Why aren't more women becoming cat ladies instead of settling for compromised, negotiated misery? Why not just https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bknxq1/discussion_women_are_feeling_increasingly/emi620x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)That's fine, but women seem to be arguing that anything they offer beyond that should be characterized as "unpaid labor". So where's that leave things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)What is the purpose of being in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)you're inventing a problem that doesn't exist. I think the remainder of your comment describes the problem The women are the ones who get fed up and leave and contribute to all of those statistics like "70% of divorces are initiated by women" and "single women are happier than single men". They don't get fed up in isolation. Something(s) happens (or doesn't happen, as the case may be) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Do you think that this is typical of modern relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:49 PM |
| 12 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I'm observing that women are literally arguing that anything beyond showing up with their (increasingly un)pretty faces is "unpaid labor". It is itself an invitation to outsource | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)But didn't you say that this is also a typical kind of relationship ? And if that's true, why do women bother with relationships at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I mean, perhaps I'll take your word for it, but it seems to me to be more like a union. "Shit, I should be getting health care covered if I'm going to work in a mine" Complaints that wouldn't be made before, perhaps that lingered subconsciously I dunno | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)How bout you put down your pitchfork for a second and tell me where I'm wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Don't take the bait. Stop reading feminist articles. These women exist. They're real. And other women will read articles like this and be persuaded to its point of view, and you won't know which kind of girl you've landed until you are actually invested enough to consider making the terrible mistake of emotionally confiding. Media messaging real consequences. There are powerful multibillion dollar corporations with more pull than some nations to attest to that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Honestly, they really should, because they're of no use in a relationship. Stop wasting other people's (and her own) time and go get what she really wants Grrrrrlll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)So if it's so lopsided (I note that the comment you're responding to stated this as a generalization, rather than "some" or "many"), why don't women just stop being in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)rarely thinks about sex, but when he does he takes it out on his sex doll I can't even fathom it! I'm with this guy's take: we can talk philosophically about ROI all day or do you want to "go ghost" or "MGTOW," but in the end, just as women's genetic and biological hardwiring is undeniable, so are yours. And while the majority of women prefer to stick their heads in the sand when it comes to this reality, at least men acknowledge we want women, we desire women, and its the most important thing w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden. Somehow, with emotional labour.If one day women all think that the only thing they should contribute to a relationship is their (increasingly un)pretty face, and anything beyond that is "unpaid labor", might as well pay a whore. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/19 06:31 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)They're declining in looks every day, which is the thing men care about most. Women who don't compensate for that in their relationships by contributing in other ways (or "unpaid labor" as they like to call it) will ultimately end up unhappy anyway because the man isn't stupid....he knows she's getting older, and will act accordingly if there's nothing else keeping him satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)"boyfriend" is just another checkbox for the millennial to check on the adulting properly checklist ✓useless humanities degree leveraged by tons of debt ✓master's degree to legitimize the useless humanities degree leveraged by even more debt ✓job title that allows her to credibly claim she is contributing to society ✓some dumb shmuck with zero expectations that she contribute anything to the relationship whom she can parade around as a fiance Mission accomplished!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:25 PM |
| 10 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Because in my view that is the conflation made by the article and its correspondents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Women who feel this way about relationships, who look at it and see percentage calculations, ought not be in relationships. No one says they must work 40 hours and also be in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Does MGTOW encompass sleeping around ? I'm starting to think maybe it's not such a bad philosophy. Ok, I'm MGTOWplussleepingaround | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 8 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Ok, fair, but these women exist. They are not fabrications. They are out there in the world coming to these conclusions about what a relationship is. And other women will read this, and some of them will think the same things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Tattoos and piercings = damaged?Yeah I would agree that it can be inaccurate objectively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Tattoos and piercings = damaged?I think it's a socieconomic class thing ultimately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | My mom's thoughts on TRP and hypergamy10/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/19 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4all which countries do you think red pill strategies would work better or worse in comparison to our own?Hahah definitely Djibouti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4all which countries do you think red pill strategies would work better or worse in comparison to our own?Tuvalu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that the MRP men only try fix their marriage after the sex dries up?happy wife, happy life111 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 10:11 PM |
| 9 | Why is it that the MRP men only try fix their marriage after the sex dries up?"a man would live in a cardboard box if he could still get his dick wet" But in all seriousness, men trying to get maximum sex for minimum effort is a tale as old as time. I have no idea where these perfect husbands who continue putting in optimal effort for the same boring relationship as it drags on through the years even come from. Abusive childhoods? Are they closet cases? Like, from whence does this energy to even partially replicate the euphoria of new relationship energy arise? Goddamn ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Male Hamstering About Age GapsThat's my point. They risk getting in trouble. It is being shamed out of existence, whereas the reverse, pathologizing of male sexuality , is full-throatedly endorsed by society. It is a disgrace. Shame EVERYONE for sex wanting, or Shame NO ONE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Male Hamstering About Age GapsYeah yeah some random guys on the internet and angry boyfriends call women sluts (only to be shamed for such a transgression by the overwhelming majority of polite society, unlike the pathologizing of men's sexuality that is given wholehearted endorsement by mainstream messaging) and that undoes the entirety of the multibillion dollar media offensive of women's sexual empowerment /FUCKINGSARCASM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?The majority of the women in America are white (for now)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?They're not even having babies anymore. The instincts are losing even the shred of legitimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?Whichever ones get you what you want most easily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Male Hamstering About Age Gapsusually because they’re immature Was Mrs. Macron "immature"? How Emmanuel Macron's parents discovered their son was dating his 40-year-old teacher New biography reveals shocked reaction to new President's illicit teenage affair with the woman who would become his wife Wouldn't want you to be applying your standards unfairly or anything .... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 12:47 PM |
| 9 | Male Hamstering About Age Gapseverything and anything to justify sleeping with women they find hot, The only reason they try to justify it in the first place is because, like much of male sexuality, it is unjustly pathologized (while the entirety of female sexuality is glorified). It needs no actual justification. If you don't want to see a world where older men fuck 18 year old women, write your state legislator to have the age of consent changed. Dat pussy way too fucking good for something like shame to actually act as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP is the one platform that gives low value men good advice on how to improve themselves yet instead of being promoted, it gets scorned.So from my perspective, they are men who engage in telling lies to eachother, wanting to manipulate women to be with them (Not denying there is such a thing as "Good" manipulation. But come on! The way they do it is morally wrong on any level) Manipulation is manipulation. What makes one form preferable to another? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | "Women only want one thing and it's disgusting.""Every" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | The Greater BetaSelf improvement is still work, work which many (with exceptions of course) men presumably would not do if they were already getting laid, or getting laid to their satisfaction. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | The Greater BetaThere's no way to reconcile "avoid becoming a plowhorse" and "I have to make a lot of changes because without those changes I am not currently getting laid". One way or another, pussy will and always does extract its price The best that can be done is optimizing. Not putting forth even one iota of effort toward ends that do not serve you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should do whatever they want and not listen to anything men say about how to get a man. It’s the only way to find a good true partner in life.Do people tend to change themselves if they're already able to attract the kind of partner they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/19 02:14 PM |
| 12 | Why shouldn't women pursue sex with the most attractive men now that men are no longer getting married?The lecturing is also on both sides despite the sides splitting apart and women "not seeming too interested", such as: "Why won't men just grow up?!" "Where are all the good men??" Old paradigms die hard. But in the end, die they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/19 01:09 AM |
| 16 | Why shouldn't women pursue sex with the most attractive men now that men are no longer getting married?They would want to marry under different societal circumstances. They are hoping perhaps to obliquely bring those circumstances about. It's no more quixotic than "no one should judge me by my past [number of partners]!!!11!!!" or "beautiful at any size !!!11!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/19 12:06 AM |
| 15 | Why shouldn't women pursue sex with the most attractive men now that men are no longer getting married?Men are opting out because women are making it a bad deal in part through actions like racking up high n counts and then wanting to settle down with providers after they've already burned through their youth, doing those things sequentially instead of simultaneously and in reverse (marry young when they're still beautiful get wealthy fuck the pool boy) like the good ol days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: why does "fat acceptance" apply only to women?It's not a threat. It's an observation. You still didn't read what I said. You read what you wanted it to say. Let's try it again. Past oppression is irrelevant. Women are no longer oppressed (in the west). It is disgraceful and shameful, an insult to the actually oppressed, that they pretend otherwise. That is what we will look back in shame on twenty years from now. Spending billions of dollars and man hours so upper middle class white women can close a three percent wage gap. You're the one w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: why does "fat acceptance" apply only to women?Man those women's boots are being licked clean! Nice job. The backlash against feminism is a significant part of why Trump won. It won't stop at Trump next time. No matter how much disgusting men like you continue shining those feminist boots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you sleep around with women more if you had the opportunity to?GOTCHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: why does "fat acceptance" apply only to women?I'm exhausted by your illiteracy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it more cringey when girls try to stand-out than when guys try to?Reckon....damn near killed em! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, what would you do if you suddenly woke up in a female body? For this thought experiment the change is permanent.Lol nothing is forever! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: why does "fat acceptance" apply only to women?If you go back and read the thread I was responding to I'd guess it's because society as a whole is still dealing with thousands of years of relentless misogyny that we are only recognizing and addressing in the past few generations, and so ment's issues are on the backseat. And I was responding that, generally, the pendulum is swinging, and will swing drastically if we keep fighting over past, now nonexistent oppression. This was not about the original specific topic. Anyway, thanks for the lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Very new to this, and im probably asking this question in the wrong subreddit, but can someone give me a detailed run-down of the meaning of each of the different pills? whether its here on in a personal message.How you look determines everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Men who care about "n-counts" and history are low status and insecureToday I learned not wanting to date a prostitute makes me "low value" Nope, people in current year definitely aren't losing their fucking minds. Nothing to see here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is a proxy for being a “slut” and it is okay to be insecure about dating “sluts”.Nah both bring out the ick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Men of PPD, what would you do if you suddenly woke up in a female body? For this thought experiment the change is permanent.Straight up nonstop hedonism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: why does "fat acceptance" apply only to women?The men who would do that have never been on board with women achieving equality. They may pay it lip service, but they are terrible shit humans. Many of the ones who previously were in the ambiguous "don't really care either way", which is probably a pretty big pool, are starting to see feminism as an evil, and that trend may grow. Of course I have no interest in debating the truth of this, but my argument did not imply that the oppressions were in the past or that they are not ongoing. Only th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Is it more cringey when girls try to stand-out than when guys try to?It's called r/niceguys I reckon "I'd treat her way better than those jerks!!1!" etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | How did Disney lie to you?That'd be sweet you totally should! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?But nihilism. Everything is finite no matter what we do. If there is no incentive of an afterlife, squandering everything for immediate benefit is just as well as literally using none of it, because either way it will all be destroyed eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 01:22 PM |
| 4 | What’s your opinion of the claim that swipe dating apps like Tinder have raised women’s standards for looks on and offline?but there are a few people who could take a lesson that even if a hot chick says something bitchy to you on an app, it’s rarely personal at all. I think the same could be said for And you don’t need to react in a nuclear way. I mean he could make it personal by replying in that stalkery creepy PM nice guy way but that is a choice. Neither is required, bitchiness on the woman's part is as unnecessary as going nuclear on the man's part, and both stem from the diametrically opposed frustrations eac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 05:44 AM |
| 4 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?Right totally....that's what they do today/since birth control. That's the transition though, it's not how it worked before birth control made the cost non-prohibitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?Fair. But for one thing the positive feelings of anticipation of what the experience will be like might be higher ..like oh man this gonn be gooodd. Also, there's a study that said women report higher frequency of orgasms the more masculine and symmetrical their partner is Though caveat --a PPDer pointed out that the sample size is only 100, so mileage may vary on how true the results are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?When it comes to whether something is "good" or "bad" subjectively, emotions are facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?I mean it's the same kind of back and forth that happens with criticizing the rich for spending on frivolous shit, for example. Like objectively, there's nothing wrong with anything. We're all bags of meat on a floating rock precariously hurtling through space with no decent explanation as to why any of this exists in the first place. But along the way to try and impose some perceptual context and order on all of this chaos, people make what are basically arbitrary judgment calls on what's "wron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 02:29 AM |
| 2 | If you could sum up your goal in studying redpill ideology into one sentence, what would it be?Not with that attitude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?Yeah it's now non-conformist after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 02:26 AM |
| 7 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?LOL. RIP those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 02:02 AM |
| 27 | CMV: Men Over 30 Are Low RMVThis is probably true objectively, but as far as perceived value, many women are simply not going to fully grasp all of this in terms of what it means that a guy is single at 30. Especially in their first go round or two with dating a man over 30, and given that it's widely known both men and women are settling down later than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?AF/BB is a load of old bitter claptrap. Is it though? It seems more like it's just happening sequentially now instead of simultaneously like before. Even such luminaries as Her Eminence Sheryl Sandberg have condoned what has already become reality. Fuck around and have fun with the top, low-commitment men while younger (at little cost--yay birth control!), settle down with a stable guy a little later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?If there's no consequences to sex for women anymore, we should surely be seeing more men having sex. It's actually the opposite. Incels are at their highest rate historically (30% of American men aged 18-30 haven't had sex in the last year, according to recent research). Fewer men are having sex. Yet women are sleeping around more than ever before. Which men are having all the sex? This would be true if all men were equal. But alas our founding documents are illusions meant to inspire and not ir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Some men bring the AWALT behaviors out of women .... even good ones?Maybe you're both right, in that after awhile of marriage perhaps the only motivation a man has to not be a blob is the opportunity for new pussy rather than the same ol pussy, so being a able to cheat is the incentive for the man to change, but a side effect of what actually rekindled the woman's attraction, which was the change itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.It's been cited 78 times. Any study that doesn't involve literally recording their brain can have holes poked in it one way or another Anyway, you said you received "zero studies", and now you have one. Believe whatever makes you happy :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.PDF available here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 3 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.Men's masculinity and attractiveness predict their female partners' reported orgasm frequency and timing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.For example, there are CEOs that are dyslexic. Such a CEO might think "if I can do it, anyone can!" For one thing, just becsuse it's possible doesn't mean it's likely. For another, there may be other uniquely positive qualities that you, or the dyslexic CEO, have that are not being considered when just analyzing the lack of typically present traits (in the case of the CEO, maybe he's exceptional at seeing connections between concepts in ways other dyslexics, or non-dyslexics, aren't) And that do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 02:48 PM |
| 10 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 02:31 PM |
| 5 | How did Disney lie to you?Disney didn't lie. Everyone just thought they would grow up to be the hero We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off. Less related God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What are TRPers actually saying when they proclaim that women should "stop wasting their youth" and "choose a mate" sooner?It's like this: it may not be right for everyone, but it is right for a lot more people than who are currently doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 01:31 PM |
| 3 | If you could sum up your goal in studying redpill ideology into one sentence, what would it be?I want to get as close as possible to wielding the (male equivalent of) the same sociosexual power a woman is able to command. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Is it me or is partner count not the issue; the issue is whether she's attracted to youIt's not like choosing a virgin or low N woman is necessarily better. She could easily cheat on you or leave you just like a high N woman could. Plenty of stories of both of those happening if you look around. It's just icky, plain and simple. I don't buy into any of the logical explanations that get thrown around, but for me it's more just like a visceral reaction. I've tried choosing/dating high n women. It may be alright for some guys but I am not one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 01:14 PM |
| 3 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.This sick, hypocritical society must be remade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | A lot of hate from the redpill/incel/and other communities towards women comes from feeling cheated, when they find out that despite what they were taught, men and women aren't equal and play by different social rules. The Opposite is also true for many man-hating Feminists.The very reason why men are "taught" these false things about women is also the reason why they're not going away. What reason might that be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: why does "fat acceptance" apply only to women?it's feminists make EVERYONE miserable. it's an interesting concept....how does it persist despite it making so many it purports to help miserable? Seems absurd....others in the thread also mentioned this idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 12:49 PM |
| 1 | What are TRPers actually saying when they proclaim that women should "stop wasting their youth" and "choose a mate" sooner?Who said anything about just because? By your logic you might as well disfigure yourself before searching for a partner to make sure he's not motivated by those mean ol' erections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.Really good point. It's funny, I think that saving money/spending wisely involves exercising a similar kind of willpower as staying healthy...and it seems like some (not all) people who work top tier, stressful jobs end up blowing their money on maintaining a certain lifestyle. I think they call it lifestyle creep or lifestyle inflation. It's something that happens to many time poor people, where they end up compensating by living to the extent of their means, or even above (Fun fact: apparently… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.Glad to hear it! That's really the best of both worlds at that point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.As a general matter, though, there are clearly people who aren't able to strike that balance. Yes, they could, they ought to, whatever. But they do not. A willpower deficit. And so here we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.I think many guys hope for a better outcome than "at least one person will have me", you know? Like "at least one person I'm strongly attracted to will have me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.Ah good point. But then also in collegiate circles the threshold of attractiveness (anecdotally of course) is even higher. So if you're part of the 27% obese you're totally fucked , but even if you're merely overweight, it may be "slim pickins". Hard to say though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.Interestingly, Among men, the prevalence of obesity was lower in both the lowest (31.5%) and highest (32.6%) income groups compared with the middle-income group (38.5%). Still pretty high among all groups, and that doesn't even account for overweight but not obese, which even itself isn't particularly attractive either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.It is what it is. Gotta get that dick wet etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Given that there are direct tradeoffs for many men, perhaps men are better served to pick improving their looks/health than sacrificing those for career, especially when it comes to dating etc.we can talk philosophically about ROI all day or do you want to "go ghost" or "MGTOW," but in the end, just as women's genetic and biological hardwiring is undeniable, so are yours. And while the majority of women prefer to stick their heads in the sand when it comes to this reality, at least men acknowledge we want women, we desire women, and its the most important thing we want in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 11:00 PM |
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