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I do sort of agree. In my experience, physique helps more than anything I have a friend who is 6’1-1/2 while I’m 5’11-3/4. He’s also an animal in the gym and is naturally lean. I’m stronger. But he is 8-10% body fat throughout the year, while I am sitting at 12-14% In every other metric, I outperform him. Funnier/wittier, much more confident (he rarely approaches women), better face card by most people’s standards (including his own), work harder, much wealthier (own my business) But when we go …
/r/seduction26/07/26 06:40 PM
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True, and it’s not even beauty Me and my boys have a saying “ah rats! Fooled by the platinum blonde once again” Because platinum blonde sticks out. You see it and try to get a look at her face Often times, she’s chopped, but the bright hair makes you double take and think you’re looking at a baddie before you get a better look at her face
/r/seduction23/07/26 03:44 PM
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This right here is the key to strong inner game and de-pedestalizing women It takes practice. But you have to deal with your own shit and examine your uncomfortable emotions that cause you to react to things like beauty Being in scarcity mindset is just an abundance of fear. Fear is an emotion that most people rarely choose to experience. Instead, they push it down and that fear creates fearful thoughts, because they don’t deal with the underlying fear The more of your underlying fear you deal w…
/r/seduction23/07/26 03:42 PM
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The nuance is that women usually don’t actually get over it. They just shove the emotions down and distract themselves with new dick Men don’t have the same options and are generally forced to face their pain Hence, heartbreak can be a very beautiful growth phase if you allow it The same applies to women, just… most women rarely do it
/r/seduction22/07/26 07:55 AM
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I suppose nobody cares, unless you’re in it to improve… then you might want to improve your game so you’re not relying on cheap tricks
/r/seduction21/07/26 02:21 PM
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Yeah, I don’t disagree I don’t see a problem with leveraging what you have working in your favor. But if that’s your only thing to get women, then you’re going to fumble most of them without understanding any of the fundamentals
/r/seduction21/07/26 04:35 AM
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I mean I would just ask her what hers is if anything. Don’t just add it out of the blue You can also tell her to add you. I like doing this better because it creates a little bit of investment on their end
/r/seduction21/07/26 04:34 AM
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If you show them that to flex, you’re going to look really pathetic Girls do like clout, but not if you’re bragging about it. It’s best to let them discover this on their own That said, you can manufacture “letting her discover on her own” by creating the conditions for her to “discover it” without you flexing it But honestly, if you have to rely on instagram clout to get laid… you prob have much bigger problems to worry about. Using clout to get laid is NOT game
/r/seduction21/07/26 02:17 AM
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Okay. Fine then. Continue to throw your hands up in the air and stay stagnant. It doesn’t really affect me either way. Not sure why you’re in this sub tho but that’s fine. More women for the rest of us
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:59 PM
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Naw. That’s now who you are Many people confuse the advice “just be yourself” because they think “what if who I am is a socially awkward dude who doesn’t know how to talk to girls?” The problem is, you’re not actually being yourself when you talk to women. You’re being too caught up in what to say, rather than living in the moment. How do you act around friends, family, coworkers? I’m sure you have a much easier time expressing yourself. That’s who you need to be when talking to women
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:24 AM
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Wdym by that last sentence? Can you expand
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:17 AM
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I’m being facetious with my exaggerations. Chill out In any case, if a dude won’t commit to a chick, it’s almost always because he thinks he can do better. Whether that’s true or not, we’ll never know. But let’s not pretend like there aren’t many girls punching above their belt with guys who won’t commit You don’t have to be an incel to understand a woman’s mating strategy is going to get her in situations like that naturally. I’ve had plenty of girls agree to casual but then got hurt because th…
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:12 AM
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“I’m hurt that a Chad way out of my league pumped and dumped me” Lol
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:20 AM
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Agreed. However, jumping to something else is more unhealthy than hanging on Your best bet is to let go and face all that pain inside you You’ll naturally get more confident and less emotional as a result. Shit tests become easier to pass, you don’t fear putting yourself out there as much, etc I’m convinced the reason there’s the trope that most women past 30 have so much emotional baggage, is because they hop from one thing to the next, never taking time to actually feel their pain Women think …
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:20 AM
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Is that quote something from her comment history? Lol Your message is so true
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:16 AM
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There are ways to protect yourself from this. Attachment is a choice. Well… it’s subconscious. But you can make a conscious choice to actively stop yourself from getting attached until words line up with actions It’s not easy. Takes work. But very possible
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:15 AM
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Yeah, true. Also, women move on easier than men from relationships. In fact, they are significantly way more likely to end a relationship than men Whenever I see posts/comments like this, I assume it’s some girl getting plowed by some guy way out of her league, hoping he’ll commit
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:14 AM
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That’s solid. But drop the “ur” and use “You’re” It will hit harder if it seems like you’re the mature one
/r/seduction15/07/26 03:38 AM
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I wouldn’t answer the question. But I would def respond so she can actually take a long hard look at herself and feel the sting of your rejection “Tbh, I’m not interested in women with low integrity. Have a nice life”
/r/seduction14/07/26 06:25 AM
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He said she posted their date location etc
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:16 AM
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You may have rights regarding her posting your location (of the date) That’s seriously a safety concern
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:34 PM
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She’s not anonymous. You know her
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:27 PM
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I would personally ask her about it first and then every diplomatically tell her you’re not interested in girls who post you on the internet without your consent This way, it’s more likely she’ll feel bad about it and consider fixing that behavior in the future If you tell her to fuck off, she’ll just feel vindicated and keep doing it to unsuspecting dudes
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:26 PM
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No way do you like anime?? Whats your favorite Japanese dish? Let me guess… Tokyo? No.. Nagasaki!? Well I take it you didn’t move here for the cuisine… Is it true that in Japanese culture, men don’t care about pleasing women in bed? That’s a red flag. Well… a white flag with a red circle in the middle. But still red nonetheless I just typed these out instantly. Just think of things you associate with Japan. Could be ramen noodles, sushi. Whatever. Blurt out whatever comes to mind. The key is to …
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:22 AM
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Wife up a chick who bi and bout it
/r/seduction11/07/26 07:54 PM
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OF
/r/seduction11/07/26 07:52 PM
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Fr. Learn how to speak womanese. They’re almost never going to be overt bro. If they are… they are probably a sex worker or going to steal your kidney
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:28 AM
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In my experience, there might be a few girls in the group who are open to you, but if the least attractive girl in the group lays claim on you, the other girls will just back off bc they don’t want to upset their friend That’s usually the only time I really get cock blocked except for when a friend just doesn’t like that her friend is getting attention and tries to convince her friend why I’m not a good choice
/r/seduction10/07/26 11:38 PM
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It happens to me all the time. I was at a festival and I always warm up with mids (well, slightly above mids), but I was getting rejected all night. Then said wassup to an only fans bimbo and she was a big fan. Gave her a shoulder ride. She showed me her titties. Got her number. 9/10. I was shooketh Then an 8/10 I hollered at ended up coming home with me that night and she’s still on the roster
/r/seduction10/07/26 12:43 AM
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Also, you could get rejected by 6’s all night and then suddenly, the 8/10 bites and you go home with her It’s not as deep as OP is trying to make it
/r/seduction09/07/26 06:33 PM
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I’m a little further behind on my cut than I should be due to a fractured rib I got during the cut. Maybe 15% body fat. But I’ve got decent muscle mass to the point people call me ‘jacked’ even though I wouldn’t really call myself that. I’m aiming to get down to 10% so my bottom 2 abs come in When I was lean last year, I had girls bumping into me and shooting their shot a lot more
/r/seduction07/07/26 04:50 PM
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Sorta. More important than anything is the energy you bring to the interaction. Confident, self amused, not looking for approval, unfazed, playfulness. At least for me. I know other people’s game is more serious. I tried that for years, and it wasn’t until I watched people like me do in field, that I started to really find my groove with pick up
/r/seduction07/07/26 04:47 PM
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Robert Glover
/r/seduction07/07/26 06:42 AM
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Naw bruh that’s some incel thinking. Careful. It’s a slippery slope Accepting yourself is what allows you to step into your rizz How would any woman want to be with you if you a not even accept yourself, ya know
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:53 PM
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Get in better shape I didn’t really notice the confidence gains till I really took the gym more seriously and being more intentional with my time spent there Now I spend less time there than I did all my 20’s, but look monumentally better
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:51 PM
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You think that’s better than accumulating mass? I’m at 15% rn. Been a few years since I’ve been down to 10. I have decent mass but I feel like I could develop my lats and shoulders some more for sure And it seems like a skinny guy with not much lean mass is just going to look like a skinny guy, even at 10%. Just like a shrimp dick lol Curious to hear where you’re at
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:48 PM
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Take the pressure off yourself. Release any attachment to outcome. You’re not talking to her because you want her number or to get her naked. You’re talking to her the same way you talked to the ones you’re not attracted to Literally, if you can just treat every woman like a 6, you’d improve your results. Basically, she’s cute enough to fuck… but you’re not going to go out of your way for it if she’s making it difficult
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:46 PM
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Body fat percentage helps. But even more so, locking in I worked out most of my adult life. But I did the bare minimum to not get man boobs. I wasn’t really training or optimizing my gym sessions The biggest thing I learned after locking tf in, is you really don’t gotta spend much time at the gym to get in above average shape I used AI to optimize a very simple meal plan I could follow daily to cut calories smart and still get protein. Then I also used it during my bulk to optimize my workouts t…
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:44 PM
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If you follow the steps in this short article weekly, you will learn to master an abundant state over time. It doesn’t happen overnight. But your confidence will develop and you’re insecurities will start to vanish I highly recommend reading bros full novel too. But this short article is a great place to start
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:40 PM
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That’s my friend too. He has almost zero game, and doesn’t really have the confidence to approach chicks He does fine once they approach him or I introduce him to girls I meet. But I’m always like got dayum wtf, why can’t I play on easy mode? He’s 2.5” taller than me so I’m sure that helps. I’m not tall but not exactly a short king
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:37 PM
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I think you can covertly open with their looks. Just not usually wise to be overt about it. I’ve used “oh my god I think I’m in love” a handful of times and had it work great
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:32 PM
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I thought the same but learned to use the tism rizz’m to my advantage. If I typed out some of the shit I’ve said, most guys here would clown on it. But naw dude. It works. You just gotta lean into the charm of who you authentically are and be unapologetic about it. I literally just blurt out whatever comes to mind The last girl I fucked, my pickup line was literally “hey, purple!”
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:30 PM
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True but sometimes it’s just that night. She may have vibed with your energy one night, but not another I got rejected by this chick who was built like a porn star one Friday. The next day, I sorta bump into her at the same event and I just said “are you following me?” She giggled and we got chatting. I made a joke about her rejecting me and she asked my age (I look younger than I am). She told me she thought I was 23, and she wasn’t into guys that young. Ended up smashing and was one of the bes…
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:29 PM
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Read Dating Essentials For Men. It will help you fill in the missing link
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:21 PM
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I mean, it would help to know where you’re struggling exactly However, I’ll say this. The single best thing I did was to read (and very seriously) implement a book called ‘Letting Go’ by Dr. David Hawkins. The book has nothing to do with game but teaches you how to heal your insecurities and become more confident. Here is a short valuable synopsis of the underlying principle of the book Your confidence won’t happen overnight. I takes practice implementing the technique. But it really does start …
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:21 PM
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Hit them with the “show bobs n vagene”
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:10 PM
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Lol this is such cold hard faxx I still remember the day I decided to raise my standards and stop fucking 5’s Life changing
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:09 PM
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That’s fair. I try to avoid it mostly but can be nice when I’m really horny but sorta brain foggy and not feeling like gaming Can we DM? I’m morbidly curious about substances in general and have questions about mexidol
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:06 PM
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But then aren’t you just relying on alcohols liquid confidence as a crutch? How can you actually improve if you’re leaning on that crutch?
/r/seduction06/07/26 10:53 PM
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Naw. You just gotta hit em with the tism rizz’m I’ve been there. You gotta keep going to get better at it. I gave up so many times. Threw in the towel and accepted defeat. So glad I finally pushed through to where I’m at now and can just say wassup to some shordies A good book on acclimating to approach is ‘Dating Essentials For Men’ by Dr. Robert Glover
/r/seduction06/07/26 10:48 PM
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Binary? So 0 or 1? Aka, numbers? Lmao
/r/seduction06/07/26 10:45 PM
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This short article will teach you how to cure your neediness and mindset issues and have you feel more true confidence than you’ve ever experienced in your life It doesn’t happen overnight. You gotta continually follow the steps laid out. Took me a year of putting in the work to have a noticeable transformation but it really does teach you how to deal with anything life throws at you It’s somewhat of a plagiarized excerpt from a whole ass novel called Letting Go by Dr David Hawkins. I highly rec…
/r/seduction06/07/26 10:44 PM
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Hoeflation
/r/seduction28/05/26 02:50 AM
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Pretty much what I just said but yeah
/r/seduction23/05/26 05:57 AM
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Girls rarely have no way of knowing you’re packin My dick size has benefited me exactly 2x ever in helping me get laid because my gf would tell everyone When we broke up, 2 of her friends wanted to see what the hype was all about Outside of that, I’ve never gotten laid because of it. It’s only beneficial once they’re experiencing it
/r/seduction22/05/26 08:43 AM
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I just had this convo with my FWB because she asked me what my type is I asked her if she thought the men her friends bring around are hot and she visibly cringed and said “ew no” Then I asked if her friends would think I’m hot and she said “no, the one you met that’s seen you is into short Mexican guys. You’re not her type” Went on to mansplain to her that men aren’t as strict about their type as women. Men may have slightly different ratings for women, but we generally agree a hot woman is a h…
/r/seduction22/05/26 08:36 AM
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Someone gonna step up and tell him why?
/r/seduction15/05/26 10:33 AM
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Wym? I do it with every girl I meet unless I really see potential
/r/seduction15/05/26 05:17 AM
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Why don’t you just casually mention that you’re not looking for anything serious when it starts That way there’s no surprises
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:49 AM
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That’s… not why she stopped seeing you my guy
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:43 AM
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What area you in?
/r/seduction29/04/26 12:50 AM
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This post is ChatGPT coded asf tho lmao
/r/seduction28/04/26 03:44 AM
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Lol I will next time chill
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:09 AM
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I mean, I’m not worried about the risks at all. I guarantee she’ll be about it. Chemistry is off the charts I just don’t want it to send the wrong idea
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:58 AM
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If you say it while you’re still on a date, it’s needy I usually hit up a girl 5ish days after our date and say “would love to see you again” I think the ‘really’ can be interpreted as needy from some girls but I don’t think it’s that big of deal if you’re not actually conveying neediness
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:48 AM
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She has a child
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:46 AM
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Wait so you don’t even date/hookup anymore?
/r/seduction20/04/26 10:44 AM
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Literally no girl knows if you have a short birth giver until she sees it So yeah… you can
/r/seduction20/04/26 05:57 AM
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Yup. Just a girl living out a hoe phase Last girl it happened with, met her at a party. She was the hottest girl there. played hard to get but kept finding reasons to circle back around to me and when I told her she could come chill at my place, she accidentally blurted “I haven’t decided if I’m going to have sex with you yet” and I just said “who said anything about sex? I just invited you over. Your mind’s in the gutter” Her eyes shot wide open and she gasped because she knew, I knew in that m…
/r/seduction17/04/26 05:20 AM
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Then why not date someone else? It’s not that you have to rush into marriage, but you also don’t have to rush into sex If you see potential, ride it out and see what that looks like without sex first Once she trusts you, she’ll be the one to initiate sex
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:20 AM
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All ages
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:58 AM
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Huh. That last tip is really good thank you
/r/seduction09/04/26 04:39 AM
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Your next thing to work on, is to overcome the embarrassment you might feel from rejection It’s all in how you handle it. Oddly enough, once you can transform your energy to that of a guy who isn’t phased by rejection, you are less likely to get rejected because your bringing that energy to the interaction and women will subtly pick up on your energy Anytime I get rejected by a girl, I just jokingly say “my heart is officially broken, I’ll never recover from this. I’m still in love with you thou…
/r/seduction08/04/26 02:11 AM
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True. I have 2 friends who are absolute chads and mog on me, looks-wise. They are 6’2 and 6’4. They have chiseled jaws and abs. Much better physiques in general But they have zero game. Granted, many women approach them out of the blue. But I have better game and am talking to way hotter women because they don’t have the balls or humor Girls think I’m funny and the 6’4 friend is like the opposite of funny
/r/seduction25/03/26 07:23 AM
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I mean… girls already know you want sex. But that doesn’t mean you come out the gates with sexual openers. You can say “god damn you look fine as fuck” and that doesn’t mean sex. What girls don’t like is talking about sex without a little banter first. Take a few minutes (at least) to connect with them I had a hot blonde bimbo I met. She was looking for a friend so I told her to get on my shoulders. Her friend starts recording and she’s getting wild up there. She flashes her titties to her frien…
/r/seduction21/03/26 12:46 AM
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Find your own style of game. It’s prob just the incels that have infiltrated this sub saying to hide your intent. That is never a good idea. Even if you approach indirectly, you have to make your intent known at some point or else she’ll think you’re a pussy
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:20 AM
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I can’t help it if this yields the best results So far, no one is attached. The whole purpose of this post is to ask how I can prevent that from happening because I want to be a genuinely good dude
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:55 PM
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Def not leading anyone on bruh
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:54 PM
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Biggest tip I can give is to find your own style of rizz I tried to copy other people for too long but have had the best results just being my unfiltered self, but bringing confidence to the interaction It’s hard to describe because everyone says ‘just be yourself’ and for years I was like — well being myself is not working. Mostly because I was so scared of being myself that it would be immediately obvious to the girls that I was an imposter But I eventually realized I’m naturally flirty and pl…
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:53 PM
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Can confirm. It’s a load of fun going around and making an ass of myself joking and being very direct with my intentions Cuts through so much of the bullshit. I can’t believe it took me so long to pick up my balls and just do it. Low key addicting and I already can’t wait to do it again
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:48 AM
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Unc puttin us on game Thx g. Yeah that’s my motto too. I don’t wanna damage girls. This particular chick really is a great gal, but ik we’re in different stages of life
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:47 AM
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4 women about 250x each. They were all ugly. Next question
/r/seduction28/08/25 09:09 AM
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69
/r/seduction28/08/25 09:08 AM
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Nice! You’ve already accomplished solving part 1 of the problem!
/r/seduction13/08/25 07:31 AM
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I’m not sure what you mean. I just gave you examples for exactly that. Be playful and facetious with your answers and then rapid fire out another question back to her. Don’t give her time to ask much, and if she does, keep it playful
/r/seduction09/08/25 09:03 PM
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The reason you get intimidated, is because it’s not genuine when you approach a group. Do you have an attachment to the outcome. Somewhere in your mind, you’re hoping to get a number, or eventually have sex with her. Your subconscious thinks “ I have to put on my extra hot girl game” instead of treating the hot ones exactly as the 6/10’s. If you shift your mindset to approaching just to spread joy, then you can drop your attachment to outcome. You’re just making conversation with a stranger, and…
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:19 PM
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Learn to read body language. If she’s not feeling you, she’ll prob exit the conversation or just give a courtesy laugh. If she starts asking questions without giving you any chance to ask, then 1. You’re not leading like a man. 2. That’s usually an indicator of interest if a girl you approach is asking you questions. The key is to give a quick answer that is playfully or jokey and then ask a follow up. For example, if she says “how old are you?” You say “I just turned 14” OR “celebrating my 121s…
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:12 PM
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lol Because you have a dirty mind?
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:07 PM
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This advice is more for newbies who just need to get out and start approaching without overthinking it. If you’re all caught up on what to say, calibrating, etc… you’re less likely to approach. Better to just start approaching and assess where you can improve later. At least that’s what worked for me. Touché though, I’m exaggerating when I say don’t offer anything. However, the point is, to give a quick answer, and then go into another question to get her talking. She’s going to sense your inter…
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:06 PM
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Mostly, I do not recommend canned openers but it doesn’t hurt to have them in your back pocket I just flirt with EVERYONE. More so, I am playful with strangers (men and women) everywhere I go and it helps build the social muscle
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:37 AM
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You don’t offer her ANYTHING about yourself. She doesn’t need to know anything about you. It doesn’t matter. She’s sussing out your vibe to: First, see if you’re safe. Second, see if you’re confident. Third, determine whether or not she’d ever consider letting you put your penis inside her. It doesn’t matter what you say. Girls forget your opener. All that matters is that you actually say something and be confident. See yourself as the prize and you’re spreading joy and fun vibes (at least that’…
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:16 AM
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Coffee Shop: “Okay… if someone orders an iced drink in winter, do you trust them less… or more?” (If they laugh or answer, follow with a smirk (side smile that communicates “I want to fuck you”) “Because I was just about to, and I need to know if that’s a red flag. Bar: “Alright, settle something for us.. if a guy orders an espresso martini, is he classy… or just compensating?” (Wait for her answer, then smirk) “Damn… I was about to order two” Gym: Hey, not to be that guy… but if I collapse mid …
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:01 AM
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I didn’t do anything to mess it up. Women know if they are open to fucking you within the first few minutes of meeting you. All you have to do is not talk her out of wanting to fuck you by saying something stupid.
/r/seduction22/02/25 07:50 AM
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So why aren’t you approaching men then?
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:16 AM
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Let adults, adult.
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:15 AM
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Just curious for the sake of being curious. Which I suppose could include both of the above listed reasons. I don’t think “down to have threesomes” is an inherit quality that makes someone good for marriage. I dated a bisexual woman for 8 years and we had threesomes but unfortunately, she was not marriage material in the long run. On our first threesome, I orgasmed after only a few minutes inside the other woman (with a condom and pulled out). This hurt her intensely, as she was used to having v…
/r/seduction30/11/24 06:25 PM
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Is it because has a goatee or his average body?
/r/seduction30/11/24 01:18 AM
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Totally unnecessary but I’m curious. Why is she your ex?
/r/seduction30/11/24 01:10 AM
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It’s better that you make the account and manage it imo. Not him. I mean… he can make one too and see who has better success. But usually, women are more disarmed when it’s another woman instigating the whole thing, because they don’t have to worry about whether or not it’s fully consensual.
/r/seduction30/11/24 01:08 AM
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Naw. It’s much funner to go exploring for women together ime. It creates deeper intimacy between the two of you. Whether you strike out or succeed for the night, you bond over going out for a night and checking out girls you both find attractive, and then trying new things to seduce them. You may fall in your face a couple times, but part of the fun is learning what works and what doesn’t work.
/r/seduction30/11/24 01:06 AM
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The club/bar is a great place Outside of that, there are sex clubs for this as well. Most of the crowd that goes there are in the swinger community, but there are still plenty of single women in the swinger community. Some clubs, you can have sex at the club, others are just for kinksters to meet one another and take home or exchange numbers. In any case, if you plan on meeting a woman outside of the sex club; just know that it will work much better if YOU as the woman do the approaching and sed…
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:56 AM
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We love a good femcel
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:01 AM
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Are you okay? You said you’ve given up on women. Why even be in this sub? I’ve never paid for sex, but I don’t have an issue with it. Especially for men who put too much weight on finding someone to have sex with. Heard many stories of men who got a hooker and it finally eased their nerves around women since they weren’t virgins anymore. And yes, I’m more than okay. I’m great.
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:00 AM
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Get a hooker
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:01 AM
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You have a lot of unresolved emotions you’re carrying around. You need to give yourself space to start fully feeling them. It’s not going to be comfortable but you need to start addressing all these emotions you’ve pushed down since childhood if you want to get over your neediness and propensity to fall in love with your eyes right away and fabricate an intricate love story in your head. Go read Letting Go by David Hawkins.
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:50 AM
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So she turned him down still? Well shit, 5 times a day, you can’t help but respect it. Even if you don’t find his approach calibrated. He’s putting in the reps. He’s bound to find some good quality women strictly by statistics alone. That’s 1,825 approaches a year. One is bound to sleep with him at that rate. Curious… what is your approach?
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:06 AM
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In all fairness… that’s because many women (even if they mean it at the time), say they want casual but then get attached after getting some good dick and a guy who treats them well. All that oxytocin be messing with their emotions. But beyond that, most of these women are just lying and saying they’re down for causal, but in reality, they’re just being “pick me” girls, hoping deep down they’ll change his mind or “tame the stallion” Not saying this is you. Just offering the perspective from what…
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:02 AM
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Fasho. Many men will be taken off guard when they get a compliment. That may get home and wonder “was she into me?” And still continue to scratch their heads. That’s why it’s important to engage them in a bit of a conversation. If they’re interested, they won’t end the convo early. They may continue in a friendly polite matter and play it safe until the convo has gone on a few minutes. But even then, if you’re feeling the vibe, just say “you seem cool. We should hangout” You’re still not risking…
/r/seduction26/11/24 01:50 AM
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You might not be as attractive as you think you are and batting above your league. Either that or the guys are still clueless, and think you’re being nice. In any case, you don’t have to be forward and lay down your cards when you start a convo with one. It can be as simple as “wow I like your haircut, who do you go to?” Or “those are cool shoes. Where’d you get them?” Some men will still have half a brain and not pickup that this is an invitation to flirt. Many have been brainwashed and shamed …
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:08 PM
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That suggests a lot of shame in your body. When you clear that out, you will begin to not feel unworthy as much anymore over time. But it takes a lot of work. And tbh, the work never ends. You don’t reach this magic day where suddenly you did all this work and you get to stop doing it. You have to continue to make processing your emotions a very regular part of your routine. Eventually, you’ll get to a point where you allow yourself to feel emotions all the time, no matter whats going on around …
/r/seduction25/11/24 03:28 AM
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Below 6’2 is not a short man. 6 ft is tall. Hell 5’10 is taller than average. You’re going to have a real hard time. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:39 AM
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6’2? Haha… and you say you’re picky because you refuse to be heartbroken again. It sounds like every guy who’s 6’2 is breaking your heart regardless. Even if just a little bit, each time. You’re def gonna have to lower your standards to like 5’10 if you wanna get snatched up anytime soon. I say that as a 6’1 guy. 5’10 is plenty tall. You’re clearly still not over your ex who fit this “standard” and carrying it into each connection. Go heal.
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:39 AM
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Sounds to me like you’re still carrying around the previous heartbreak. That emotional baggage will inflict itself on every relationship if you don’t finish healing it all. Gotta take time to fully feel your feels
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:26 AM
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You’re probably not as attractive as you think. Most people overrate themselves by 1-3 points. So perhaps you’re a 6 or 7 trying to get 8’s or 9’s and they aren’t interested after sex. Maybe try batting a little bit lower just to see what happens. Your best friend is likely an 8. I know a chick who’s a 5 but legit thinks she’s a 9. Also, if you get infatuated, you’re probably giving love bombing, clingy, needy vibes and suffocate whoever you’re seeing. You know how girls don’t like to be pedesta…
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:23 AM
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No you don’t have to think. You just have to feel. Your thoughts will not be rational when experiencing emotions. Hence why it is important to disregard your thoughts during these meditations. You can observe your thoughts and notice what comes up, but most of your thoughts will be untrue. They are simply triggered by the emotional pain you are experiencing. So just focus on feeling all the things you wish to heal.
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:43 AM
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You’re wasting your own time too. It’s okay to not be over her. Most of the emotion coming up isn’t new emotion about her. It’s old emotion that’s triggering your ego because of things that happened in childhood that also triggered rejection or loss. This is a divine opportunity to heal your inner child. Heartbreak can actually make you so much stronger if you choose to lean into the emotions and just surrender to whatever comes up. Women often just money branch or distract themselves from their…
/r/seduction23/11/24 10:00 PM
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The “Letting Go” technique essentially means to become aware of a negative emotion or feeling, fully accept it without judgment, and allow it to pass through you naturally without trying to resist or change it, essentially letting the energy behind the feeling dissipate by simply observing it; it’s a practice of surrender to the present moment and the emotions within it, allowing them to run their course without interference. Key points of the technique: Awareness: The first step is to become co…
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:50 PM
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The “Letting Go” technique essentially means to become aware of a negative emotion or feeling, fully accept it without judgment, and allow it to pass through you naturally without trying to resist or change it, essentially letting the energy behind the feeling dissipate by simply observing it; it’s a practice of surrender to the present moment and the emotions within it, allowing them to run their course without interference. Key points of the technique: Awareness: The first step is to become co…
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:42 PM
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drunken breakouts in some public place and embarrassing yourself Speaking from experience, are we? Haha. I’ve had my fair share of that. It’s amazing what fully feeling your emotions can do. And most of humanity just doesn’t do it. But if you master it, it will put you in God mode where you just don’t have as many worries or stresses about life. You live a fulfilling and happy life and none of that emotion is being harbored in your body and triggering you. I’m glad someone else gets it.
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:34 PM
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Embrace that fear! Feel it fully. I’m not saying to verify that fear. But feel it all the way. Clearly you’re not over her, so you shouldn’t even be wasting your time with other women. It’s going to end up fruitless for you. Sit with that fear. Imagine you’re very worst fears coming true, and whatever uncomfortable feeling in your body comes alive because of that thought… Lean into it and just feel it. Close your eyes so you can give it your full presence and awareness. The more you do this, the…
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:31 PM
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The book will help you a lot. And it takes practice for sure. But yeah, just think about something that makes emotion come alive within you. Maybe someone cut you off on your way home from work and there’s anger that was triggered. Maybe your boss asked to see you in his office to review your performance and fear was triggered that maybe it was a negative review instead of a positive review. Maybe stress was triggered when you were asked for that homework that was due a week ago at school. Fully…
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:30 PM
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Frustration is just another word for anger. A more subtle version of the same emotion, because it has been pushed down and stored in the body. It would serve you well to lay down and close your eyes a few times a week and focus in on that frustration. Locate where the feeling of frustration is manifesting in your body and bring all of your awareness and presence to that uncomfortable energy. Feel it fully. Lean into it. Don’t become it though. You don’t have to BE frustrated to FEEL frustrated. …
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:25 PM
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Lol. Girls from dating apps will rarely agree to come to a dudes house on the first date.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:40 AM
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The reason why most men and women have a whole face, and eventually mature past it. Is because they realize it is fruitless. You’re not going to meet many quality people that way, or experience genuine connection. I could hook up with 5’s & 6’s a few times a week if I wanted to. I’ve lived that life. But I’m done with it and since I know I can do better, hooking up with them is unfulfilling.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:39 AM
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What emotion comes up when you experience loneliness?
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:36 AM
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My dude. Just take time to heal. Stop comparing yourself to your buddy. I did the same thing after a break up. I went for Chad mowed and pumped and dumped as many hoes as possible. Guess what? that validation I got was short-lived and unfulfilling. I was using sex to numb out the emotions. I didn’t want to feel about the break up. And eventually, when I met a woman who knocked my socks off, I fumbled her by not being willing to commit and all of those nasty emotions I had been numbing out, final…
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:35 AM
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You must be in your 20’s. The confidence we as men feel then is largely just arrogance. Not true confidence. Anytime you get rejected, take the time to fully fill whatever emotion invokes. It’s not new emotion. Most of it is emotions from childhood that is triggering us in a similar way and we allow it to define our worth. It’s a never-ending feedback loop and spirals into self-loathing. However, the more you feel your emotions, the more you heal your emotions and are no longer burdened by them …
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:31 AM
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The only person that can define your worth is you. No matter what anyone says, only you can choose to fall into their frame about you. I highly recommend you read the book letting go by David Hawkins. The audiobook changed my life.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:28 AM
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Feeling down on yourself and like less of a man suggests an abundance of shame stored in the body. Like I said before, shame is an emotion. Most men are shamed these days just for being a man. Or for having sexual desires. The best way to clear out that shame is to fully feel it every time it comes up
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:23 AM
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Getting in your head during dates suggest an abundance of fear in your body. Fear is actually an emotion, believe it or not. So is stress. The m healthy way to deal with emotions are to feel them fully. Most of this fear is not new fear. It’s old fear that you’ve pushed down and is creeping below the surface. But gets triggered each time you do something that stimulates your nerves a bit. So for now, the best thing you can do is work on yourself. Take time to be with yourself. Lay down on the be…
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:19 AM
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Ask questions they like to answer on the dates. She should be doing 80% of the talking. That’s how you remain a mystery. That is what will make her want to see you again. Because you spent so much time, asking her about herself, and talking about things she is passionate about. Yet she knows nothing about you, so she has more incentive to meet up with you again to get to know you. But here’s the catch… You don’t actually reveal much about yourself.You just keep asking questions and make sure she…
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:13 AM
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How long was your relationship? If it was LTR, 3.5 months is not enough time to heal. If you’re trying to bounce back or “win the breakup” like most of us guys do when we’re younger… it’s fruitless. You gotta feel all those painful emotions. The fear. The shame. The guilt. The anger. The grief. All of it. You gotta feel it to heal it. If not, you end up carrying this emotional baggage into every new connection with a woman and they can sense this. The fear or separation anxiety is what causes ne…
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:11 AM
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No. quality women you’d take home to momma won’t sleep with a dude until exclusivity (or at least several dates). Girls who put out on the first date are for recreational use only imo. They know what it is. They’re not obtuse. They chose to have sex without clarifying their intentions with you. That’s not on you. Many of these girls are just in a hoe phase and aren’t going to be good LTR potential anyways until they’ve gotten it out of their system.
/r/seduction09/11/24 08:51 AM
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I think for the majority of people in the world, regardless of their ethnicity, they prefer to date someone from the same culture. Not saying it it’s right or wrong, just an observation
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:01 AM
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I’ve used “I don’t even know what to say because I’m so taken aback by how attractive you are. But I just had to come over and say hi. Whats your name?” Used something similar twice so far and it went great.
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:07 AM
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Lol. Dude. How is that anger
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:06 AM
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“Hey. I’m not gonna lie, because of the 2024 social climate, I’m actually terrified as fuck to approach a woman knowing I could be violently rejected in the worst way, or publicly humiliated posted on TikTok. But shit, you’re so attractive and I just had to come over and see if you’re a vibe or not.” Be confident in your vulnerability. If a woman still shames you after that, you just respond with “Man I’m sorry someone hurt you so bad that you felt the need to be rude instead of flattered. A sim…
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:03 AM
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Or you could ya know… just got out and approach
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:59 AM
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Yes exactly. When you try to impress her, when you try to earn her trust… you are not being authentic. You are being what you think she wants you to be. Most women just want you to be you. Even if you’re not her type, she’d still prefer you just be the real you. When you are anything BUT that, you are actually being manipulative (not necessary intentionally), and here’s the thing… if a girl doesn’t fuck with the real you, she’s not right for you anyways. I used to worry about being suave/smooth/…
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:58 AM
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Best advice I ever got… Stay off the url… do it irl
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:52 AM
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Oh absolutely. Those are always fun situations when they happen. And they’re not super common, but when that do happen, you can still fuck them up. However, when she’s super horny (around ovulation time), she’s willing to look past more fuck ups
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:05 AM
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Basically, she was in heat. She was horny, and OP happened to be available. Right place, right time. It’s not so much that he was suave, so much as he didn’t do anything to mess it up.
/r/seduction05/11/24 12:27 AM
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You will have better chances in your 30’s than 20’s. So if that’s your goal.. you may as well just get an escort or two I’m in my 30’s now and if I could slap some sense into my former self during my 20’s… it would be to learn to be genuinely happy without a woman and just focus on my life’s purpose and not waste so much time trying to get bitches Funny enough, once I did that, women senses my non neediness and that I was happy alone working on my goals. Now I don’t even go out of my way to hook…
/r/seduction15/08/23 03:02 AM
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I wouldn’t say “backfired” but once had a chick not see the smirk on my face and seemed to be having a bad night and said “FUCK YOU!” And I just responded with “fuck me yourself, you coward” and me and my friends all laughed about it so really no big deal
/r/seduction15/07/23 07:18 PM
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This is the first woman’s take in this thread I actually agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:35 PM
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Guys praise other men for fucking any hot girl. Not just younger ones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:32 PM
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Personally, if the woman isn’t going to approach this as an adult and expects me to do everything and be entertained like a child, I don’t care. I’m not interested. Which is why she should be chasing you. You only hit her up once a week to hang out for the first few weeks and if you do everything right, she’ll start chasing because it drives her mad that you’re only hitting her up once a week and she wants to see you more Also, there is a difference between making your attraction known/courting …
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:31 PM
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Men GET to do everything Change your context amigo Think of it this way… women don’t actually have choice. They have the illusion of choice. But at the end of the day… they only get to choose between the options that present themselves. Sure, that’s nice. But imagine only being able to choose from whats available and never being able to go after what you think you truly deserve. That is the experience you get as a male. You get to choose who you approach
/r/seduction31/05/23 05:03 PM
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why would she want some random guy talking to her All women don’t want random guys talking to them UNLESS they’re attracted to them. But women have types. So if you’re not one girls type, you’re sure to be another’s. You just have to take rejection gracefully if it happens and be willing to walk away feeling like it is truly her loss. If you see yourself as a prize, you won’t attach your value to whether or not she rejects you The truth is, women crave men approaching them. As long as they’re at…
/r/seduction31/05/23 05:01 PM
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You don’t accept being scolded. If she tries to scold you, she’s in her masculine and trying to dominate. You simply respond playfully with “well the phone works both ways babe. I been waiting on your text all day” The ideal position to have her in to keep her long term, is to always have her doing the chasing Women don’t like simps because it’s feminine energy. You are depriving her of being the simp when you start simping. If she’s simpin… you’re pimpin
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:57 PM
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It wouldn’t hurt to switch it to “you look like a vibe. I had to come over and see what you’re about. Whats your name?” Then just ask a few basic questions like where she’s from/where she lives/where she works. Then after a few minutes just say “well I gotta run but we should hangout sometime” If she’s receptive, pull out your phone and say “here put your number in my phone” while giving her the phone. You gotta assume the sale
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:53 PM
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Try grindr. That line would work on every match
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:50 PM
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That’s not a problem at all. I’m neurodivergent and used to hold my tongue a lot but now I’ve gotten into the habit of blurting things out and being authentically me. I’m so authentically me most of the time that I don’t have a filter and due to my fucked up childhood, let some pretty dark twisted jokes slip out At the end of the day, you want a woman who is down for your humor. Girls who can’t pitch and catch with you will be boring in bed anyways. Just be you and own it
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:46 PM
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I have found that if you can say something slightly abrasive, it will get their attention. This catches them off guard because they’re not used to men treating them poorly if they’re hot. When they look your way and make eye contact, you give them a little smirk and they realize you’re being flirty My favorite one at the bar is “ugh! MOVE!”
/r/seduction31/05/23 04:43 PM
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Only formerly mildly fat tho. Formerly obese girls usually come with some significant baggage
/r/seduction21/04/23 03:24 AM
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try to get them to come to church “I can fix him”
/r/seduction12/04/23 04:30 AM
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They discovered game before Neal Strauss. Haven’t you seen them peacocking in a their videos?
/r/seduction12/04/23 04:28 AM
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I’m not a redpiller haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:48 AM
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Right but anyone spending time on that subreddit does not have a healthy view of relationships. Sorry to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:47 AM
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Wait did you just link a r/FemaleDatingStrategy post? I’m sorry but that is just femcels and I can’t take any of that seriously as an argument when it’s just bitter women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:37 AM
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Do you shame people who go out to hike? Is easy. Hiking is not easy Do you shame people who go out to movies. Is easy Yes. If they overindulge in watching movies or doing something like playing video games all the time and not doing anything with their lives, I will silently judge them. I’m never going to say anything to their face. But yeah, I will have my judgements about overindulgence Men shame women for fucking because they want to control them, how easy is to do something is never used as …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:35 AM
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Fr that’s like asking a woman to rationalize why she prefers tall men who aren’t bald
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:28 AM
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I personally don’t care much about body count but if you’ve slept with 50 people at age 30… I know we are probably misaligned. Not because I think you’re a bad person, but because I myself have more self control than that. Good sex comes from quality, not quantity. A woman who went for quantity is less likely to be great at sex in my personal experience. Usually the women who have had steady partners and a body count around 10, are usually the best sex of my life. Hell, some have had less than 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:26 AM
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Not familiar with Kevin Samuels but I think Corey is great. What work by Kevin do you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:14 PM
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Go read How To Be A 3% Man By Corey Wayne bro. It’s good o’l fashioned dating advice that focuses on character and confidence building rather than shitty PUA gimmicks or manipulation. Will Change your life. It’s not redpill. It just teaches you how to understand women with a non nihilistic approach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:06 PM
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Oh totally. That’s what I meant by “falling for every inch of her soul” I still have a lot of love for her, but as she began to drink her life away, I had to take a step back and reevaluate they type of woman I wanted to continue living with
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 03:00 AM
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Oh neat. Thanks for explaining Yeah that totally checks out I dated a woman for nearly a decade and she always looked beautiful, even when she looked ugly (i.e. woke up from hangover with throw up all over) I don’t think wife goggles are necessarily because of the gradual changes. At least in my experience, it was because I had completely fallen for every inch of her soul So even as she gained weight and aged, I still saw her as this divine source of femininity that added so much value to my lif…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:57 AM
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My advice to you is to first, find out what you’re genuinely passionate about If you already know, then start spending copious amounts of times doing it Repetition is the mother of skill. You keep doing something enough, you become a master. No one is born with innate talent This will give you more passion in your life, and you will naturally be more prone to expressing more passion in your day to day life Next, focus on your feminine expression. This could mean makeup, hair, fashion, or even ho…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:47 AM
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Insecurities. Neediness/clinginess, women who don’t genuinely love themselves. Women who aren’t very stoked to be alive, and lack passion. Women who lack genuine self expression and femininity. Women who are unhygienic. Women who don’t take good care of themselves in general (skincare, diet, gym, etc)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:34 AM
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What are wife goggles if you don’t mind me askin?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:25 AM
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Coworkers or corpses?
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:03 PM
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I think I’m shadow banned
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:06 AM
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just order a soda. the girl won’t know
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:12 AM
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yet you can’t be arsed to explain how they dont go together?? Being charming IS being direct. They are not the same definition but by being charming, you are also usually being direct in your intentions and actions
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:06 AM
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i can somewhat agree but many people consider me an 8 or 9 and i struggle so hard with OLD. But I can crush it irl
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:03 AM
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care to share your OLD strategy? I have the opposite problem. I do much better in person than online
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:01 AM
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I’m fairly confident I’d be able to land a hot girlfriend with a 3 inch dick. Im sure you could land a girl who has a 4 inch dick too
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:29 PM
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Hahaha. Name calling? Man, they really gotta vet out the 12 yo’s on Reddit
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:54 AM
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Yeah… that’s literally what I just said
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:05 AM
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I never said it was my job to keep her safe. I’m just acknowledging that it’s a legitimate thought that goes through a woman’s head that we men are not always present to. Women back off when they sense neediness because they instinctively fear a man who will not stop when they say no
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:52 AM
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mike mehlman He got a book?
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:32 AM
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Yes. Don’t mute a girls social media unless you are actively talking. You can watch the ones you’re not talking to yet because it gives an opportunity to respond to her stories and slide her DM’s. But once you get talking, my new strategy is to mute them so I don’t become overly invested and thinking/fantasizing about them
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:11 AM
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Yup. This exactly
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:08 AM
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Well said. I think a hard concept for us guys to grasp is that women genuinely feel threatened for their life almost every single day. Most men don’t really have to worry about meeting a new dating prospect for the first time because there’s no potential for their life to be in danger. The reason they flake or back off is because they aren’t trusting your masculine ability to keep her safe and be okay if she rejects your sexual advances in person. I don’t look at it as playing games at all, I ju…
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:05 AM
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but unless you specifically point her into the bedroom Wym by this?
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:58 AM
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Nice! The takeaway for me is to remind myself to not invest too heavily into a woman I’m talking to, until we’re official. I genuinely feel unattached to the outcome at this point so I’m thankful she cancelled so I would have the opportunity to stop giving a fuck before I was overly attached to an outcome and then REALLY hurt when I didn’t see it through yo fruition.
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:13 AM
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See, that’s just it. I finally reached a point where I really don’t give a shit about the outcome. I’m not pretending not to like her or playing games. I’m just responding at my own pace with no attachment to whatever comes of it. There was a power imbalance, and I’m respecting myself by letting her work for my attention, and prove that she’s engaged enough not to bail on me again, before I even consider making plans with her again.
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:43 AM
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Kinda. My buddy actually called me out on it recently. He was like “I can tell you’re single because of how much you been posting lately” I told him, “naw, it’s actually really just me tapping into my self expression and not giving af about what anyone else thinks of it” I’m flexing on social media to some degree, but I’m also just trying to do it in a way that’s authentically me. You don’t see all your dating prospects posting about the low points in their life. They are only posting the highli…
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:45 PM
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I should preface by saying this I only showcase the best aspects of my life. But I also genuinely try to live a fun/interesting life in general as much as I can. For example, if you’re doing something fun like hiking, traveling, boating, going to a music festival… you be sure to add that to your social media story and show the great time you’re experiencing with others. Women like men chase their passions
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:26 PM
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Tbh, I appreciate the words and I think most women are going to shit test you in one way or another to test your masculine strength. I don’t blame her, she doesn’t really know me at all yet and I was coming off needy. Imo, That’s okay if that was a turn off for her and she felt like she should back off to feel safe about meeting a new guy for the first time. I’m not happy with the way she went about it, but it’s understandable if she felt like that was the best option in this scenario. I’m not m…
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:15 PM
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In 2022, we’re pretty quick to label things ‘toxic,’ ‘gaslighting’ &’ manipulative’ but what I’m experiencing for myself is simply self respect. I’m unwilling to give her more energy than she’s willing to give me. She’s not wrong for not wanting to give me energy. And I’m not wrong for not wanting to give anything else in return. Nothing toxic about what either of us are doing. Just the age old tale of seduction.
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:59 PM
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“The best negotiating position, is the ability to walk away and mean it”
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:55 PM
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or just move on. Right. And what I’m saying back to you is that this is my way of moving on.
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:54 PM
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Haha. I’m getting called toxic by people. And that’s okay with me. My interpretation of it is ‘self respect’ ..something I’ve lacked most my life. I’m doing no different than you should do with all genders, including friends. If they bail or aren’t showing up in the relationship… I’m not going to keep reaching out. I need to be as important to them as they are to me or else that’s not a sustainable relationship. If people wanna call that toxic, then I’ll happily accept it
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:51 PM
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I’m sorry my sharing hurt you. For me.. If she genuinely had to cancel, that’s 100% fine. Not a big deal at all. What was irritating to me was that 1. She texted to cancel and it seemed like a pretty bogus excuse. I would have definitely appreciated a call unless it was an emergency. 2. She didn’t attempt to reschedule at all. I don’t care whether you’re man, woman, or something in between… if you cancel, it’s on YOU to reschedule. I only want to spend time with people who are just as excited to…
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:38 AM
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You understandably misinterpreted my post. You should consider reading the edit I made for clarification. But regardless of who… I don’t reschedule when ANYBODY cancels on me, man or woman. I want people to feel as excited to hang out with me, as I am them. If ANYONE bailed on plans within an hour of the set plans, it’s 100% on them to reschedule or flex to make something work since THEY bailed on the plans. This is also a great way you can test a woman’s attraction level to you. If she offers t…
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:31 AM
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I’m not trying to guilt trip her at all. I should clarify that I’m only matching her energy or less, from here on out. I responded to her positive energy and then took it up a notch cuz she was showing excitement for our plans. That came of needy and had her back away. Now, I’m just not giving her any more than she’s willing to give me. I’m muting her social media so I can mentally move on from her, and keep other prospects in mind.. because I def narrowed down on this one too much. That was my …
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:23 AM
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Yes this. That’s what I’m experiencing with this girl in this moment. Today I woke up for the first time and really felt like I was over it and over her getting back to me or not. I legit felt like I had moved on from it and then sure enough, she hits me up. I just had to stay really strong. I’ll also admit that I was flexin’ my spontaneous & fun lifestyle extra hard on my stories this whole time, and I feel like just showcasing my life and my authentic self on my social media has attracted a lo…
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:13 AM
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Why? What about that movie?
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:11 PM
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What if he’s a cuck and he wants to watch y’all get it on while tied up in the closet?
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:10 PM
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Id be weary taking ANY dating advice from a woman, if you’re a man. Not because I’m sexist, but because often what women think/say they want In a man, is rarely what they respond to. Think of it this way… you wouldn’t take elk hunting advice from an Elk
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:07 PM
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/r/seduction17/04/22 02:23 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:40 AM
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/r/seduction15/04/22 07:56 AM
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Here’s why
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/20 06:22 AM
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waiting for pussy Welp. Time to cash in my male feminist points for some poosay.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/19 02:47 PM
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Excellent point friend
/r/seduction28/09/19 01:18 AM
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I see your point and I also Think that if this narrative is true… It’s not necessarily unmanly to indulge in feminine past times. Take sex for example. Men love having sex and they hardly ever do it for the result of having a child. They mostly do it because it makes them feel good. So even if it is a feminine experience, it’s not necessarily feminine of the man to like sex or like whiskey etc. men fucking love femininity. Indulging in a whiskey or a cigar could be comparative to indulging in a …
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:46 PM
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racist men
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/19 10:05 PM
3

3 years?? This is /r/pussypass for sure
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/19 10:04 PM
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No no my first time was incredible. A super hot cougar milf randomly took me by the hand into her Beverly Hills mansion and lit some candles and I lasted 34 hours. She told me I was the best she ever had and that I must be a god in human form. To be fair, she was right. Now I only have sex with 10’s because my standards are so high. Source: am definitely a #3 and not a ‘fkin liar’ /s
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:09 PM
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Please don’t delete this. I’m saving it as a LPT
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 04:58 AM
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I like the analogy but fuck rentals...There’s a reason blockbuster went outta business. Why rent your relationships when you can stream them
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 04:52 AM
1

Where at??
/r/MGTOW202/03/19 07:13 AM
2

Diet??
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 12:36 AM
2

Dude. I think you’re right. Sexual pleasure is all they have to offer. Let’s abolish women and all go be gay together! /s
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 02:07 AM
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Prenups really aren’t enforceable??
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 12:47 AM
4

Even back then... AWALT
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 10:20 PM
2

Right but like... what if you were living with your cousin or just a roommate who was a chick? How do they treat that?
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 07:57 AM
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/r/Justiceporn
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/19 01:02 AM
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Knowing them, I wouldn’t be surprised if a women wrote it and they pretended it was a man
/r/PussyPass10/01/19 04:36 PM
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