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| 11 | Men are shamed both for failing at sex and for succeeding at it.One time I was called an incel and a fuckboy by the same woman on a date. It was pretty funny. She was a radical feminist and we spent most of that date arguing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | One of women's biggest advantage: In-group biasCan you explain how this meddles up statistics? It paints a picture that women either, directly or indirectly, kill men at a similar rate if not more compared to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:44 AM |
| 0 | One of women's biggest advantage: In-group biasI think you can make a strong case women are more likely to kill men than vice versa in relationships Homicide only counts for 39 percent of domestic violence related deaths Suicide counts for 41%, 17% for corollary victims, and 2% for law enforcement deaths When you include all these, Men are MORE likely to be fatal victims in relationships with domestic violence/abuse related deaths Source: https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/11zjlu3/whos_missing_from_the_conversation_of_int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 09:30 PM |
| 0 | "Your value is what you can get" is a useless tautology that purely serves as a thought-terminating cliche.I agree with this. Hopefully this is something red and blue pill can both get behind Boys and men are under represented at every level in education yet girls/women receive significantly more gender based scholarships Boys are marked down and face systemic discrimination in schools across the world due to teacher bias "An OECD report on gender in education, across more than 60 countries, found that girls receive higher marks compared with boys of the same ability." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 08:11 AM |
| -1 | "Your value is what you can get" is a useless tautology that purely serves as a thought-terminating cliche.It's really not that hard. I'm noticing more and more people on this sub and reddit as a whole losing attention span | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.I'm not going to say women don't face any disadvantages. Your point 2 is probably correct. There seems to be a motherhood penalty But from my perspective it seems obvious which gender has on average, the safer, longer, and more lucrative life I'm absolutely willing to change my mind if someone can present me with sufficient data though I commend you for acknowledging women have some privileges. That puts you leagues ahead of most people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.87% of homeless deaths are men. 92% of workplace deaths are men. 95% of police homicide victims are men. 94% of detained children worldwide are boys. Less than 1% of abuse refuge is for men. 74% of suicides are men. 81% of homicide victims globally are men. 73% of deaths from drugs are men. 97% of military deaths are men. 96% of the incarcerated population are men. Men have no bodily autonomy rights. Huge percentage of boys are circumcised without consent. Men also face conscription in war time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedMen mostly murder other men and it's often in the context of gang violence. When it comes to violence and death in relationships, I think you can make a strong case women are more likely to kill men than vice versa Homicide only counts for 39 percent of domestic violence related deaths Suicide counts for 41%, 17% for corollary victims, and 2% for law enforcement deaths When you include all these, Men are MORE likely to be fatal victims in domestic violence/abuse related deaths Source: https://np… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Forced fatherhood is a huge problem that is rarely ever acknowledgedSame here. I never understood it either. Does it really feel better for women when we don't use condoms? I've even had women try and take the condom off in the middle of sex. Absolutely breaking my boundaries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women live life on easy mode.But we're talking early on during pregnancy. We insist she has a legal right to terminate a pregnancy. Why wouldn't a man have the same right after conception? Do you think men should be forced to financially support a child they never wanted? In the US 9 percent of men have experienced an intimate partner attempting to get pregnant when they didn't want a child What about in cases of rape. Even when men/boys are raped they still have to pay child support. Surely you don't think this is equality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Women live life on easy mode.From a practical standpoint, it's a valid point, but in terms of rights and freedoms, it's not equality. Pro-choice arguments focus on body autonomy and reproductive rights, yet men in the U.S. lack reproductive rights and often face circumcision as boys, with hundreds dying annually Women seek men's support for abortion rights, but rarely do women publicly advocate for paper abortion or oppose male genital mutilation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Women live life on easy mode.Why are you afraid of men having access to a paper abortion? Do you think men should be forced to pay for a child they don't want? Do you think women should have accountability when they choose to carry a. child to term when they know the father doesn't want it? "Consent to sex is not consent to a child". Do you agree or disagree with this statement? "If a woman doesn't want a child she should keep her legs closed. Not murder a baby" - every conservative "If a man doesn't want a child he shouldn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Women live life on easy mode.I'm a progressive. I absolutely support the right to an abortion but I also support the right to a paper abortion as well Baby trapping is absolutely a thing. Condoms don't always work and women can lie about being on birth control. I've personally been lied to in this manner "Consent to sex is not consent to a child". It was a feminist woman who told me this. I'm just applying it equally. This is very slowly gaining support in some progressive Scandinavian countries We can accept that 9 months … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 04:18 AM |
| -1 | Women live life on easy mode.Polls in the the United States show that women aren’t that much more likely to be pro choice. 55% of women identify as pro choice vs. 48% of men. It's funny you bring up Roe because women still have significantly more reproductive/parental rights than men. Equality would dictate that men should have access to a paper abortion Even in a case where a boy was raped by a pedo-file he was forced to pay child support to her. Absolutely disgraceful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.Well, we actually started dating when I was 24 and she was 19. Maybe that sounds worse? idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:20 AM |
| 8 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.I think you're right. I've dated some women who were significantly older than me and they basically said what you're saying. Most young women who go for older men just do it because older men are a lot more confident and mature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 06:29 AM |
| 9 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.I don't think it's a big deal but I've also been called a pedo for dating a 20 year old when I was 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 06:15 AM |
| 24 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.You would be surprised. I know a handful of women who deliberately go for guys 5-10 years older than them. In the US, about 10 percent of marriages the man is 10+ years older. About 1 in 5 marriages the man is 6+ years older | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:50 AM |
| 2 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Your level is who you can get But neither side is getting what they want. Apart from a tiny percentage of guys Dating is a market and it's currently breaking. That's my entire point If someone is selling a potato for a million dollars and no one is buying it then they need to lower the price or embrace a world with no potatoes You're saying, "People just can't afford these potatoes because they are not good enough. Nothing wrong with the market and the pricing" If you're happy with a world with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:31 AM |
| 5 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Women want men far above their level. Men typically stick to their own level unless they want casual sex The woman going for the top guys are NOT getting the commitment they want. They have DRASTICALLY overestimated their value and how much men desire them. I've seen this with my own friends trying to chase literal millionaire guys If these women were so desired they wouldn't be so chronically single Men who just want their match don't get what they want. Women who want the top guy don't get wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 02:52 AM |
| 3 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Women can keep gunning for that top guy if they want. Just can't expect them to commit Big difference between being desired for sex and actually getting a relationship. These top guys absolutely do not desire the average women enough to commit I'm not sure why you are struggling to understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 02:19 AM |
| 3 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?The "test" just happens in natural conversion. It's a social experiment I've asked my male friends the same thing and most of them would be happy to date their female counterpart. It just proves that it's women with the high standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:11 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?I'm explaining how the 80/20 rules apply. Women are not any more special than men but will demand a high quality man without being high quality themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:08 AM |
| 3 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?The average women and the average men are both equally undesirable. They are perfect match for each other. Women just don't want to date their counter parts A very simple test I've done is when a talk to a woman I describe the male version of themselves and then I ask if they would date them. 9/10 times they say they wouldn't Describe the man as only 1 or 2 inches taller than them, replace her phone time with gaming time, and keep income the same. You would be amazed how many women would scoff a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?A growing number of men harbour no ill will towards women but are frustrated with their lack of romantic success. Many of them identify as incels. When people spread hatred for their identity it only pushes them further and further into the black pill It's become a catch all term by used by misandrists for 'men I don't like'. It's lost its meaning to an absurd degree. I was once arguing with a Fwbs and she called me an incel when she got frustrated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?Good lord. Incel is short for involuntarily celibate. If you don't like misogynists just say that. No need to sexually shame men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 11:26 AM |
| 51 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Yep. I know a lot of bi women, I've dated many and most of my FWBs have been bi women as well. Virtually all of them only date men and have relationships with men. I've asked them why this is the case and they normally don't want to admit it but when pressed they will tell me how much harder it is to date women It's particularly frustrating when I talk to bi women who have a lot of misandrist beliefs but still don't want to admit how much happier they are dating men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:42 PM |
| 19 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.That 80% figure is wrong. 80% refers to the proportion of divorces caused by lesbians within the same sex divorce rate in general. Not that 80% of lesbians divorce But the point still stands that Lesbian couples have over double the divorce rate of gay male couples and by far the highest rate of domestic violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I agree it can be tough for women to sift through so many options. But I feel judging compatibility through texting is hard, which is why low-commitment dates like coffee or a walk can help. I once scheduled four back-to-back dates in one afternoon, and two turned into long-term FWBs On the flip side, I’ve wasted time messaging only to find out we’re incompatible or I was catfished. Women also tend to be flaky, which is why many men push for early dates. Virtually all the bi women I know tell me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.I know I got less matches, less dates, and less sex. What more is there to know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:45 PM |
| 8 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.You're completely wrong. Most men don't read women's bios because they will get rejected about 95-97 percent of the time anyway When an average man swipes right they only have a tiny percentage chance of matching. Why would they waste their time reading 100s of bios to match with 1 or 2 people? You're asking for a huge amount of labour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.This is exactly my experience too. I have a LOT of experience on dating apps and did all sorts of experiments. Having bio either didn't help me or was actively detrimental. If you're going to do a bio make it very short and funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 08:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating apps work perfectly fine and the way they should; there is no actual way to improve them.Exactly this. There's a website called photfeeler which I used to rank my dating app photos Attractive score is almost perfectly matched to trustworthy score and smart score Or just talk to women in real life. Often the guy that women say has a great personality is literally just a hot dude lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 07:55 AM |
| 5 | Would you want to know if a woman expects you to pay on the first date?I totally agree with you. Expecting messages like the OP mentioned is absolutely not how dating works at all But I'm just curious, 190 first dates and if you're paying for all of them that's looking like around $10k. Why not just build a roster of FWBs? Then you won't have to have so many first dates It just seems cheaper and easier. With the amount of dates and lays you're getting it would obviously be easy for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | The Age Gap "Issue" Is a Modern InventionThe divorce rate argument is terrible unless you plan to use it consistently. For example, lesbians have by far the highest divorce rate. Gay men have the lowest. What does this tell us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period...She may not want A man but she does need MEN as a group. Women reap far more benefits from publicly funded institutions than they contribute. Further more, women are incredibly averse to doing certain types of physical labour. Most of which is absolutely vital for the function of a society One more thing, although less relevant these days, but without men countries would be mostly defenseless. Ukraine is a great example. Droves of women simply fled the country. Men were forced to stay and fight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:06 AM |
| 2 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThis is actually gold advice. It doesn't just apply to dating either. It applies to men, the workplace, friendships, and family relationships Be the guy that people simply enjoy having around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 06:27 AM |
| 2 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsSource? There was a popular study going around which turned out to be fabricated data. The person who was pushing the narrative that women are happier single (Paul Dolan) retracted his statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What you're saying is not hyperbole at a all. In fact It's categorically proven. Women-are-wonderful effect You notice this everywhere when you pay attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:13 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Haha, for real? I remember reading his stuff many years ago when I was new to dating. Come to think of it all his advice was shit and didn't get me anywhere lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActSick profile! You're 100 percent above average looking and your profile is showing off wealth, status and a great vibe. It's no wonder you're doing well I'm good looking so can sometimes pull similar attractive girls but normally I'm just kept as fwbs while they aim for wealthier men. Actually, they are probably going after guys like you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or ActAm I missing something? I don't see your profile anywhere. It's possible you are simply underestimating your good looks/profile quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy?I understand if they have those values and I have respect for people with philosophical conviction However, to force another individual to financially support you because those are your beliefs is wrong and exploitive Furthermore, how do your reconcile beliefs? Many people are misanthropic and believe it to be unethical to bring more children into the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:51 AM |
| 6 | Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy?The baby will only be born at the discretion of the woman If she chooses to have the child knowing the father does not want one then it should be her responsibility. Not his | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:08 PM |
| 5 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?Ehhhh, I'm talking from experience here. I used to be pretty shit at talking to anyone but I was jacked enough and looked handsome enough in the face that it really didn't matter My awkwardness and shyness turned into "cute", and "safe". And other men I know who are good looking enough are actively rude and it still works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 09:02 PM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsThe irony is when I was 19-21 years old I couldn't get a date with any girl my age. Now I'm 26 and was matching with dozens and dozens of 18-19 year old girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?But of course women would be less likely to divorce a man because she is relying on him to provide for her. If she is married to another woman there is little financial benefit. Hence why women end marriages with other women Of course there can be more reasons, for example, lesbians having the highest rate of domestic abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?That sounds like a decently strong incentive for women in particular to avoid divorce as much as possible, if we’re only talking about money. But that suggests women divorce women more because they don't get financial benefits. Gay male married couples earn the highest median income while gay female married couples earn the least Anecdotally, many of the bisexual women I know only date men. When I press them for a reason for this some actually say it's because its far cheaper to date men as men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?But If women are experiencing sharper declines in household income isn't it because they were not earning as much as the man to begin with? Isn't it just a proof that divorced women are reliant on their men for their lifestyle? it is reflective of divorced women unable to be successful financially on their own merit Most of the richest women to ever live are either divorcees, or widows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 01:56 AM |
| – | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.Haha I'm doing okay bro. I'm in a committed relationship and my last 2 gfs split everything. Great woman are out there it's just hard to find/competitive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.To exploit someone is to take unfair advantage of them. I would say it meets the criteria. There is really no reason for western women to not split the bill. Women are simply taking advantage of men and treating them awfully | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 06:17 AM |
| 16 | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.Most guys just pay because it's what's expected of them. One time I asked to split and my date made it into a scene. Other times I've asked to split and then I never heard from them again And another time my date offered to pay but I insisted on paying for the whole thing. Later on, she confessed that she really like how I paid for it all This is why you might find that men will just pay with no questions asked. I've heard from bi sexual men who told me that dating women is expensive. They prefe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 12:34 AM |
| 33 | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.I agree, I've also been on well over 50+ first dates and only a few women have offered to pay for me. Vast majority don't even offer to split and when they do it seems out of politeness Ironically, the few women who offered to pay or to split where almost always conservative or sort of the anti woke/feminist types I've dated plenty of outspoken feminists and they are the ones who MOST expect me to pay and try to hold me up to gender roles. It's actually super interesting to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 08:34 PM |
| 6 | Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience?On the dating apps as a man it's absolutely brutal. Increasingly competitive. You have to be the top 10 percent of guys. However, If you can crack the top 10-5%, then the apps are like a cheat code From what little clubbing experience I have it's extremely overpriced and not much fun. I can't imagine many people are hooking up or forming relationships at clubs. Mostly people stick to their own groups. I've used dating apps to hook up with a girls late at night who just got back from the clubs. C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women100% I've seen it with my own eyes. I helped women do the messaging and matching. The hardest thing is getting women to drop their standards and consider the average man. This means matching with men who play a lot of video games, overweight, don't make much money, etc. This also means actually investing and being engaging in the dating process. If a woman can do this it instantly puts her waaayyy above her competition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenYou are right I totally agree here. In vast majority of cases anyway. I think it doesn't have to be exactly 50/50 though. Say for example, she makes it up in other areas I've been seeing a girl for a few months now and she doesn't make much money so I'm happy to pay for most of our outings. She makes it up by giving me gifts, makes me food and drives me around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenIf you think the average woman can't get 5 guys chasing her then you are delulu. I've seen my friends on dating apps and Instagram. These average girls get soooo much attention and chasing it's actually insane Most women will only swipe on the top 3 percent of guys and then wonder why those men don't want a relationship. It's comical at this point I've even coached and helped a few woman friends find a good match on dating apps. Two of them are in a happy relationship now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenhttps://www.npreddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/18h7k9g/how_heterosexual_couples_met_oc/ I'm using this data which is 4 years behind and doesn't take into account that ages 18-29 are the most likely to use dating apps. Of course there are exceptions like in your case though, which is great I would say in society it's been slowly getting harder and harder to date without using apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 08:43 AM |
| 0 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenOver 60 percent of relationships start online now. For younger people In my age bracket it's probably closer to 70-80 percent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 08:26 AM |
| 7 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenThe average women gets 1000+ likes on dating apps within days if not a single day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenTit for tat. If they use me as an ATM and entertainment then I will use them for their body. I won't be manipulative or dishonest though Oh, and I'm perfectly happy being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenThis reply is perfect. Remember guys, women will never understand what it's like dating as a man If you do ever score with a baddie, just pump and dump. Save yourself the money and the stress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 03:54 AM |
| 48 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenThis is not true at all. Multiple times I've broken up with women who were genuinely attracted to me but did not plan anything or really put much effort/investment at all into the relationship or dating. Hence why I ended things. They were genuinely hurt from the breakup This is correlated with how attractive the woman is. The more attractive the more she feels she doesn't have to do anything. "I am the prize" mentality A lot of men want the 9/10 baddie but I'm telling you, most of the time it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 01:54 AM |
| 3 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menSo? Should men not advocate for themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:00 AM |
| – | This Platform Coddles Women and Shames MenI've been wondering the same thing for awhile now. The empathy gap between the genders is huge. I feel like the only women who care about the disadvantages men face are mother's who have sons. It's very sad Women think more collectively than men and have a strong in-group bias. Women have an advantage over men when it comes to language and have been weaponizing language for decades. Women also represent a much stronger voting demographic With these trends, I'm getting super worried about how thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 02:43 AM |
| 21 | This Platform Coddles Women and Shames MenMost women aren't stupid. They can see exactly what's going on. They just don't care because it works in their favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 08:13 PM |
| – | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.Oh yeah you're right it's not inherently wrong. What I found annoying is how women are dishonest about it I've seen this happen countless times. Women will say something is creepy but when an attractive guy does the exact same thing they feel like it's hot or romantic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:22 AM |
| 40 | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.But remember, if you're an attractive dude, most women will throw their "rules" out the window. Become hot and you can use dating apps, yoga/pottery/whatever, bars, clubs, or just approach on the street If you're hot. It's not creepy or harrasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.No, men don't get to opt out of a woman's pregnancy because they're not the ones who are pregnant (except for trans men). Why does it matter who's pregnant? It's his child and he may not have consented to having a child. There's cases of boys being raped by adult woman and and still having to pay child support. That's wrong and represents inequality I think baby trapping is wrong. My mate's gf lied to him about being on birth control so now he has to be on the hook for child support for 18 years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.Yes! and that's why there's inequality. Males don't get the chance to opt out during the women's pregnancy because you don't think men should have that right or decide if they want to be a father or not If a man gets raped or a woman pokes holes in a condom or lies about birth control, you don't think the man should have any rights or get any chance to opt out This is where there is inequality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.You don't know how to answer a basic question. Women can opt out of of responsibilities during pregnancy by getting an abortion but men cannot Therefore, equality would be if men had access to a paper abortion You're not engaging in good faith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.Non sequitur. We're talking about a fetus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.Equal rights would be if men could do a paper abortion when the child of their partner is a fetus Explain how this is wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 09:40 PM |
| -2 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.Same difference. Equality would be if men could do a paper abortion when it's a fetus After the child is born, then both parents have equal responsibilities. Hence, men CAN NOT unilaterally abdicate parental responseabilites This is not complicated what are you misunderstanding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 06:47 AM |
| -4 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.Women CAN unilaterally abdicate parental responseabilites by getting an abortion. Therefore, why shouldn't men be able to unilaterally abdicate parental responseabilites during the pregnancy window? Once the child is born then responsibilities apply to both equally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry.If only you could see the messages I get when I use shirtless pics on tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to menIn this case yes. It has absolutely nothing to do with the topic we're discussing. Furthermore, it's out of context and is only used to demonize men. similar to the 13/50 argument used to demonize black people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:16 PM |
| 27 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to menAnd the rates of abuse in females/female relationships is staggeringly high A bi women that know was in an abusive relationships with another woman. She told me she didn't know what to do. She felt they she had no one to turn to for help as it's not normally believed that a woman could physically abuse their partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 01:03 AM |
| 7 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to menHomicide only counts for 39 percent of domestic violence related deaths Suicide counts for 41%, 17% for corollary victims, and 2% for law enforcement deaths When you include all these, Men are MORE likely to be fatal victims in domestic violence related deaths Source: https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/11zjlu3/whos_missing_from_the_conversation_of_intimate/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to menThe vast majority of homicide victims are male. Further more, we're talking about IPV. Get your misandrist shit out of here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex”The thread you're talking about is asking if sexual needs are a MUTUAL obligation in a RELATIONSHIP It's very rare that people think women should be sexual slaves to men. Only a small percentage of people in the most unhinged communities think that If you think 51 percent of men feel they should be entitled to women's bodie whenever they want then you need to touch grass and get off the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 08:38 AM |
| 4 | Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex”There was a "chadfish" experiment involving a Chad with a swastika tattoo on tinder. It was wild. The amount of matches the nazi chad got and the way the women fawn over him. Completely proves your point Naturally, they banned r/chadfish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 07:22 AM |
| 10 | Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex”The post is asking if sexual needs are a MUTUAL obligation in a RELATIONSHIP Every relationship I've been in me and my partner will take each others sexual and romantic needs seriously. We owe it to each other. It's a part of having a fulfilling relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex”women go on more dates and have more romantic experiences with men that men do with women. Huh? How's that even possible? It takes two to tango Also, most women have absolutely no idea what dating is like for men. My fwbs last night told me that men have an easier time getting laid on dating apps. The ignorance is absolutely staggering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hold men primarily responsible for romance in marriages?Go ahead and compare divorce rates between lesbian relationships Vs gay relationships. While you're at it compare the rates of domestic violence between the two as well This is anecdotal but I've know over a dozen bi girls now and I've asked them all same thing. How come you almost always only date men? I normally get some answer along the lines that it's simply too hard courting women and takes too much energy maintaining those relationships I've only known a few bi men but one thing they all h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 09:00 AM |
| -2 | Women simultaneously benefit from traditional gender roles and modernity, but only where it suits themOP is being hyperbolic but his point stands. In virtually every country men represent almost all workplace deaths. We're talking 90+ percent here. Men also do significantly longer hours The last factory I worked at was split into two sections. One department had air con and one didn't. Guess which department was entirely men and which was almost entirely women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Love bombing vs feigning low interest“i don’t want to scare her off or make her think i’m clingy or desperate so i played it cool” and your second statement is “i did what the redpill says” But that is exactly what the redpill people say. Being desperate is one of the worst traits you could have as a man when it comes to dating My whole point is that you cannot always be your genuine self because it makes you less attractive and kills your chances for a relationship. So when is it manipulation and when is it not? I've done the oppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Love bombing vs feigning low interestyour actions were entirely driven by avoiding making her uncomfortable rather than trying to control her emotional response. This sentence is completely inconsistent. I don't know how you can type this out and not see the contradiction I think showing restraint to not seem desperate and potentially scare her off is very different than acting a certain way to get a reaction out of her or to get her to attach herself to you. I was doing EXACTLY what the redpill people tell me to do to avoid seemin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Love bombing vs feigning low interestWhere is the line between manipulation and courtship though? I was once head over heels over a women so my genuine reaction would've been love bombing, constant texting, acting desperate in general. Instead I played it cool and tried to not seem so desperate. This resulted in a fantastic long term relationship. It ended due to other unfortunate circumstances but we're still good friends to this day Was I being manipulative by feigning interest and playing cool? Did I do something wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?Yeah I actually mostly agree with you. I do think women have innatly better language skills than men but I think that's only a small part of it This reminds me of a streamer called poopernoodle. She had such severe anxiety that she had trouble leaving her bathroom. She would eat her noodles out of the bathroom sink which is the same sink she had shat in. During that time she still managed to have a supportive boyfriend. I can't imagine any man ever being given this much leeway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 03:57 AM |
| 13 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?A surprising amount of autistic women are so good at masking that you can barely even tell they are autistic. It's very likely you've interacted with many without knowing If I remember the data correctly, autistic women are equally likely to be in a relationship as a neurotypical women. Autistic men on the other hand are wayyyy less likely to be in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?There's literally a term for this. It's called transmaxxing. Super interesting. Being trans comes with it's own issues so not sure if the benefits will outweigh the cons I do know a lot of guys in tech who put down non binary in their bios just to increase the chance of getting a job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?I've only worked in male dominated fields and I used to feel like I wasn't taken seriously or felt treated poorly all the time. I know tons of other guys feel that way as well I've seen women get treated poorly the exact same way a guy in her position got treated poorly. The difference is that she thought it was due to sexism and the guy thought it was due to him being lower status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?Which bomb threat are you referring too? My understanding is that there have been many. This is from her AMA: "There've been times when I have tried to stand up and it was only about ten years ago that I was asked to go to Vancouver with Senator Ann Cools and we arrived with a very radical feminist group threatening to bomb the venue, so the place was crawling with police. That is not a happy platform with those kind of threats. They're not going to listen to you because in their orgasmic rage a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:22 PM |
| 9 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?What really frustrates me is how this is all terrible for women. A huge percentage of men in prison for sexual violence were victims of sexual violence previously. Helping men and boys will help women and girls in a roundabout way. It's a win win "Results: Of the 100 male inmates who participated in this study, 59% reported experiencing some form of sexual abuse before puberty, and all such instances occurred before or at the age of 13 years. The first episode of childhood sexual abuse began at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:12 PM |
| 11 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?It's the same old same old. Wait until they learn about Erin Pizzey, the founder of the first womens shelters. She knew from the beginning that abuse was perpetuated fairly equally from both genders so after founding the first shelters for abused women she attempted to do the same for men. She was then met with bomb threats and death threats for even trying Or Mary koss! Works with the FBI and other government institutions in data collection in regards to sexual violence. However, famously denie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:50 PM |
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