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I’m not a tate fan and you don’t need to be one to know that porn and masturbation is damaging to your life in the long run.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:32 AM
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when did i say you should go chasing women in hopes for some pussy? i never said to devote your life to chasing women. i’d encourage you NOT to do that. you’re the one who interpreted it that way, not me.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:29 AM
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there’s even women in the nofap subreddit who share stories of their masturbation/porn addictions as well.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 11:56 PM
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bullshit. more blue pill rhetoric being spread by the media to keep men enslaved to their minds and emotions. work out, eat a good diet and you won’t have to worry about prostate cancer. masturbation kills your life ambitions and drains your soul and energy. i know. i struggle with an addiction. my life is in shambles. every man should be abstaining from masturbation and not be enslaved to their sexual desires.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 11:55 PM
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What can me and other women do to help? Have some empathy for us. Most of you just see us as horny monsters that want to assault you or use you for sex in relationships. And if not, you see us as wallets. Women don’t seem to think that we can struggle or go through hardships simply because we’re men. You don’t seem to think that we can also have mental illnesses like depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, or ADHD. You only see us as the problem in the world. Try to respect us a little more. We’re h…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:12 AM
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they turn everything into a backstabby playground. they can’t stand peace and are addicted to drama.
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/23 06:11 PM
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Because left wing feminism scapegoats men as the reason behind all the problems in the world.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:35 AM
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Never again will I actively seek a relationship with someone who sees me as the problem of society. I’d rather die alone.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:14 PM
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used to be. not anymore.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 07:11 PM
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Feminists will dislike men preferring 18 or 19 year old women (who are of legal age), and then support people identifying as whatever age they want. Twisted hypocrisy.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:32 PM
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I’m actually quite aware of that dichotomy. Which is why I think modern day feminism is quite useless. No law is going to change anyone’s mind about anything within society, especially about issues such as racism, sexism, homophobia, etc. Those are people’s individual feelings and opinions, and unless you want people to become mind controlled, there’s nothing the government can do about it. What do you want them to do? Create a law that says, “Don’t be sexist or you will die!”? I think feminism …
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 12:38 AM
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Because we’re biologically wired to be horny nearly 24/7 in order to reproduce with as many women as possible. This leads to many men just trying to get sex any way they can with whoever they can, even if the girl isn’t successful or nearly as physically attractive as the man. Women are biologically wired to go after the most successful, financially stable, potentially aggressive, and physically strong men because they seek stability and security. This only makes up a much smaller percentage tha…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 01:57 AM
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No, but it raises my skepticism a ton. Pair bonding with a woman who has a high body count is more difficult, and she’s likely to be very emotionally unstable. I think it takes a serious spiritual reawakening for her past attachments to go away. Of course there are some who do that. No Not most, but a fair amount. Enough to make me distrust the system. Men seem to be guilty until proven innocent, and I’ve personally had false allegations made against me. Yes, especially some jobs with highly tax…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 01:39 AM
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Because they’re biologically wired to be attracted to those men and are projecting THEIR dating struggles onto men. Because they never hold themselves accountable for anything and it’s always men’s faults.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 12:45 AM
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thanks
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 09:38 PM
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I never want to marry. My question is, what would potential consequences be if we were to simply cohabitate with children without being legally married?
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 05:42 PM
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how do i set up a cohabitation agreement and ensure it can’t be nullified by some dumb loophole?
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 03:03 PM
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No, it’s a genuine question. What exact male exclusive rights are feminists in the US fighting for? If I’m just a misogynist, please enlighten me. I’d genuinely like to learn.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 04:41 PM
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this is asking about rights men have that women do not. men can’t get abortions. this answer doesn’t apply here because abortion is purely a woman’s right.
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/23 02:04 PM
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I didn’t make this tiktok. Just sharing it here. You can read the captions.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 07:56 PM
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bingo. they don’t even realize they’re belittling themselves
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/22 12:51 AM
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in our society, mothers are the more respected parental figure because they’re more likely to win custody in court.
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 03:08 PM
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I guarantee you other girls say worse shit about her behind her back.
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/22 03:33 AM
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Because some women like feeling small and some men feel emasculated when dating a girl taller than them. I personally wouldn’t mind being with a tall girl. Doesn’t affect their personality at all and it just means my kids would have a larger chance of being tall too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:43 AM
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I’m just waiting till marriage 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:22 PM
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I agreed till the last paragraph 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:00 AM
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Bro, just hit the gym. Season your chicken all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:37 PM
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big emphasis on respect
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 05:34 PM
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Yeah, sad truth 😔 However I have no problem keeping that standard myself, so I intend to hold my partner to the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:34 PM
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25 yr old virgin > 19 yr old virgin. More wisdom and life experience, but can still pair bond with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:01 PM
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lol
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 09:55 PM
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In this scenario, the former slut for sure. So long as I don’t hear any specific details about her sexual “adventures.” Would rather not have those images in my head. The problem is finding a former slut who has completely changed from her former self AND doesn’t resent you. The problems men have with women who’ve slept around have more to do with their mental and emotional stability, along with their ability to truly pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:16 AM
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lol and then if they were married, she could end up with half his finances 😂
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/22 04:41 PM
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narcissists have definitely existed before feminism, but it has for sure lead to the rise of even more female narcissists. Women acting like this can quite easily be attributed to feminism…
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/22 04:39 PM
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nah bro i mean i agree with u.. i mean she’s capping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:43 AM
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yeah this definitely 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:39 AM
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that they are simple and relatively similar for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:10 AM
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Did you grow up with a sister or a female cousin? If you did, you’d realize they are not that complicated at all. In fact, many of them are very simple and extremely uninteresting. They like to seem complicated in order to feel important. Many have different personalities, but at their base temperament they’re similar to any sister or female cousin you’ve ever had. Often times your feelings for an attractive woman and your attempts to attract her blind you to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:15 AM
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The single motherhood rate is the biggest crisis in america at the moment. Young boys and girls have no masculine influence at home to teach them discipline and strong values. The sheer amount of criminals that come from single mother homes shows that women are not as good at raising children as you think, and that a father is just as important as a mother. The problem is the LACK of masculine men who don’t stay with their children to raise them. I do agree that men leaving them and their childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:31 PM
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nah cuz it’s usually the less attractive girls whose friends boosted her ego through the roof who approach guys. most attractive women already get attention from plenty of men, so they see no reason to approach a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:24 AM
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The term incel is now associated with dudes who can’t get laid AND they hate women and other dudes who can. A person like that is actually pretty rare. Most dudes who are virgins aren’t misogynistic. They simply can’t get laid. The insult they really mean to say is virgin, but they either don’t wanna look bad for virgin shaming, or they’re really projecting onto you. Lots of feminists hate men and other women due to the fact that no men give them attention. There are more femcels and misandrists…
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/22 02:03 PM
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If I wanted to pay a girl to have sex I’d just hire a prostitute. 🙄 some of us would like to get to know a girl without spending twice the amount of money we usually would on a meal. haven’t even started dating yet and the girl in question may already be making your life more inconvenient when any partner should be doing the opposite. Says a lot about a girl, especially if they have their own job and money. Ridiculous entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:30 AM
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Precisely. The sexual desire of men has been deemed as shameful or perverted, but in reality it’s a sign of a physically and mentally healthy man. A man who has no or little desire for sex is likely batting depression or other mental illnesses and is likely a broken shell of himself. A man can solely desire sex from a relationship, yet still treat the woman with love and respect. The problem is when men use women for sex, then treat them like shit for the rest of the relationship. I think if we …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:59 PM
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not 100%, but it definitely helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:08 AM
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they try to date as high up as possible even if it’s unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:34 AM
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lots of women are comfortable being single because they get attention from men anyway. their egos are ridiculously boosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:43 AM
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Porn is extremely easy to access… onlyfans doesn’t help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:39 PM
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I think he means that many women are attracted to the asshole, arrogant, “alpha male” personalities and charm that rapists tend to have. (Before knowing they’re a rapist.) Obviously no woman will be attracted to a man once she finds out he’s a rapist… 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:00 AM
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i agree with everything except the past parts about porn. Men who watch porn simply have poor self control. I myself have difficulty quitting… it’s bad for you and destroys your brain. But going through the day constantly horny is FAR better than screwing low value girls. You can turn that sexual energy into motivation and you become more successful. I actually think malevolent women despise men who take part in no fap. Those men are focused on themselves, not watching porn, while simultaneously…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:06 AM
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agreed. marriage is useless now. if someone NEEDS a legally binding contract to stay with you for the rest of their life, they don’t love you anyway. prenups can easily become invalid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:17 PM
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the problem comes when the women believe sexual attention makes them high value, and then their ego increases tenfold. Men are too desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:28 AM
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The latter. Most men today are weak and are seeking relationships because they’re lonely or need emotional support. They really should be going to therapy and learning to be independent. Source: It used to be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:27 AM
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pretty much…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:26 AM
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They don’t provide anything in a relationship when it comes to your OWN success and happiness. They might make things more enjoyable or convenient, but they don’t solve any of your problems. You could say they provide an emotional connection and support, but let’s be real… they perceive any man who needs that as weak. You’re better off going to therapy or seeking spirituality. Better to be on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:24 AM
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It depends on which aspect of the woman he’s lowering his standards for. I’d gladly lower my standards (in terms of looks) for a 7/10 girl who has a great personality and morals, rather than date a 10/10 narcissistic brat. I don’t think men should lower their standards when it comes to promiscuity. Sad to say I’ve personally done it. Was down bad enough to date a girl who was widely known as a hoe. It was hell, and I’d never do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:46 AM
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Honestly? No. I wouldn’t feel like my life has purpose. All those things seem like small, insignificant tasks that should be basic life skills everyone’s capable of doing. If I had no purpose other than basic house chores, I’d feel like my life was meaningless and I’d fall into depression. Then the depression would cause me to be too lazy to even do the house chores, creating even more conflict in the relationship. It would likely end in a breakup that would’ve mainly been my fault. I also highl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:17 AM
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keep in mind, 6 inches is larger than a vast amount of men. If you break up with him just over size, you’ll have a hard time finding a man who has all his great qualities IN ADDITION to the right penis size for you. So what’s the bigger factor here? the chemistry, (as you said in the first paragraph), or his size? there’s a major difference. if it’s just his size that’s the issue, ask him to use dildos that can fill you up enough… this is seriously shallow. at least talk to him about it before p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:14 AM
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“emotionally stable” is the more important part. most guys aren’t out of college until they’re about 22 anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:58 AM
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A man should be emotionally stable and financially independent before considering a relationship. No woman is the solution to all your problems. Find spirituality or seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:48 AM
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Exactly. Just because there might be 10 other men who will pay for a first date, doesn’t mean they’d be willing to pay for a 2nd. Lots of guys use the first date as a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:41 AM
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You say men invest in things they’re serious about, but money isn’t the only investment. He’s also investing his TIME by asking you on a date. In 2022, if you’re going into a date not expecting to pay for your own food unless you have a good time, you’re basically saying your time is more important than his, and that would set the tone for the rest of a relationship if you decide to take things further with a man. You’re already saying “i’m more important than you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:28 AM
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Nah, a great deal of it comes from poor/ghetto areas where they just have unprotected sex and then an accidental child is born. Men walking out on their family after AGREEING to have children is probably the least common scenario 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:06 PM
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Exactly… abortion is pretty easily available in or around major cities where lots of criminals live. Yet the single mother rates are still ridiculously high. They choose the thugs and criminals because they perceive them as stronger and better able to protect them, then complain that modern men ain’t shit when the thugs pump and dump them. Then if they get pregnant, they keep the baby to make the man pay child support… then they wanna complain about women’s rights and abortion being restricted i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:56 PM
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Overly drawn - on eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:44 PM
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Men really shouldn’t go out of their way to pursue women/go on dates, and should just focus on their career/success. The woman should show interest and do the pursuing, especially since a decent amount of relationships only seem to fail when the woman is unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:39 PM
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I agree that they can, but those personality types in men and women are pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:33 PM
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