LostFYI Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Conversation quality drops after first date	Conversation	LostFYI	/r/seduction	23/09/21 12:17 AM
3	Get her to spend the night after club	Field Report	LostFYI	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:52 PM
0	How to goof around with girls?	Outer Game	LostFYI	/r/seduction	25/02/22 11:56 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
295	11 Panty-dropping Date Ideas You drop into tilted towers, chug some shields and instead of fighting, you lock yourself in a room with your teammate and voice chat about what's really been going in your life, how that made you feel, how life should be like to be happy and what you enjoy about playing with him so much.	/r/seduction	09/05/23 11:18 AM
3	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. Some just don't engage in sex until they're in a relationship "Good girls" if you wanna have it	/r/seduction	23/10/22 12:36 PM
1	Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date? When the time is right, can be after 1h in the park, can be after 4h when we leave the bar, can be never. If you learn the power of attraction, eye contact and reading situations then yes, it always goes into your favor	/r/seduction	24/08/22 02:57 PM
0	How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance? Bro work on yourself and on your social skills. Whilst developing these you will inevitably speak to women, get more comfortable in doing so etc. Remember: your the forger of your own luck. You are not set to be shy forever. You can change! Just put in some self reflection, self therapy, real therapy whatever. Think intensely about your mental health and what life you actually want to live. Then start actively working towards your goals.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 09:40 AM
8	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it I think they do realize, but why would they care? Everyone is forger of his own destiny, I wouldn't care about other people, who I don't know, either So get ahold of yourself	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:51 AM
3	Need help with flirting in a nightclub In this case I agree, but he was lost at this point anyway, so buying her drinks would've been pointless. And I wouldn't say buying a random girl, you've met 5min ago, a drink is a good tip. If youre on a date, sure, but I would never buy drinks for a girl in the club. Either you vibe or you don't. A drink won't change a thing.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:47 AM
3	Need help with flirting in a nightclub buy drinks yeah you'd like that, don't you	/r/seduction	20/07/22 08:01 AM
49	How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman? The reason I want an older woman (30s-40s) is because they can help teach me how to pleasure a woman the right way I can only speak for myself, but for the first few times you will have to deal with basic stuff, like positioning & positions, stamina & how to not come as fast (cause oh boi, you will) or how to properly touch a woman. It took me quite some time learn how to pleasure a woman well. (and even then, girls like it differently, having good sex with one woman doesn't necessarily translat…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 06:46 AM
7	How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman? he means sleeping with an older woman taught him as much as sleeping with 5-7 from his age would have done.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 06:38 AM
6	I feel like I’m not getting anything from my partner anymore. This. It's one thing to talk about what you're like and how you like it, but there must have been a time where you two were flirting and you would feel the tension building up. You need to stimulate her mind, get her in the mood, remind her of how you two got together or how the ignited flame has been and rekindle it. Easier said than done, I know, but maybe you shouldn't be in such a "demanding/expecting" position, but rather create a better environment, that leads (silently) to what you wish. …	/r/seduction	13/07/22 08:37 PM
1	10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dude I've got these to add: Don't chase chicks, they will start running the opposite direction Make decisions and stand by them, sent a risky text? Don't overthink it or try to play it down afterwards, stick to your opinion, what you said is what you meant If there is a opportunity, take action - nothing will come flying at you without action	/r/seduction	22/06/22 09:22 PM
1	would you date someone that’s slept with your brother? All these comments are too harsh imo. You love her, does she love you? If it bothers you, talk with her about it (that it bothers you), maybe take some days distance, think about it (not the act, but how you can deal with it - emotionally) and then make a decision. Either you can look past it and focus on what you two have now, or if you can't get rid of the bad feeling / can't overlook it, quit it with her. Its okay to not be fully able to deal with this stuff emotionally. That's something you …	/r/seduction	22/06/22 09:40 AM
5	How do you initiate touching on a date? If youre sitting next to each other talking, I find myself touching her while gesticulating on the knee or whatever, just to create some proximity. Later that evening either put my hand on her thigh or arms around the shoulder. But its also important to pull back from it and create some distance again, that shows your not needy or anything or value gesticulating / making your point over touching her. (Push/pull) Just don't stress yourself about such actions. If they come naturally or playful, sh…	/r/seduction	17/05/22 07:53 AM
1	post-hook up question for guys, do you think about it a lot after hooking up or you just move on since you already get what you want? He probably does think about it. When or how often we cannot say	/r/seduction	12/05/22 10:20 AM
1	I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly (or later) after meeting without much in return You really need a shift in your mindset. Regardless of looks, you need to approach a date in like you had to decide whether you want to be with that woman. Don't put her up on a pedestal. Most women know they can get sex easily and being needy for sex is one of the most unattractive behaviors you can display. Therefore, at least in your mind, see it like she needs to convince you of herself and not the other way round. Attraction is something very important and cannot be forced. You first need t…	/r/seduction	29/04/22 11:50 AM
3	How does a sexual market works - Summary for males and females This sounds like an ultra capitalist us-american take on dating lol. My impression from middle Europe is that, while there are certainly so called gold diggers being with old rich men, these are the minority. Regular (also hot) girls still prefer wealthy men for sure, but when dating in their own age group they have realistic views about it. They look more after personality to build a connection and and bright future together, financially speaking they're fine with "above average" (still middle …	/r/seduction	12/04/22 02:26 PM
5	How to dress attractive on first date as a male? This depends a lot on you, your wardrobe and her. There's no perfect fit for a first date. Some women like casual business, some prefer Chill Fit or an alternative style. Heavily depends on the person (or age) behind it. Just dress the best as you can. When you're looking the best you can get in your opinion, that's it. (still keep to yourself / it simpathic, if a 17yo shows up in a suit to a date that would be weird lol)	/r/seduction	29/03/22 08:13 PM
12	[deleted by user] congratulations. You are moving too fast, when either of you feel like it. There's no general speed limit ;) Enjoy your time and learn for yourself	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:57 PM
44	Weird technique that actually worked doesn't matter, had fans	/r/seduction	02/01/22 01:48 PM
0	[deleted by user] I feel like this post is dedicated to the older generation or autistic people, that have a hard time connecting emojis to feelings/moods In my experience girls all have their own emoji usage and one is not really applicable to the others. There's some intersections, but imo you cannot put a guide out there that is universal to all ladies. Just go with whatever emoji you find the most fitting and own it	/r/seduction	14/12/21 01:35 PM
2	[deleted by user] Stop taking response time as an argument for making up your own thoughts to what she might be thinking / feeling about you. She said she'd love to. Take that for granted! No need interpret anything further into her texting behaviour. She's made her ground clear, stay in slight contact and take her on a date when back in college (which is when?). Only then it will become clear, if you can develop attraction or the two of you vibe/sympathise with eachother The fact that you guys snap/text eachothe…	/r/seduction	09/12/21 03:07 PM
1	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm It is almost exclusively created before. HOW you kiss her, whether with or without asking won't change her mind if she wants to kiss you. Basic laws of attraction is all that matters. (not you but you replied to it) There’s a dark hormonal instinct most women have that wants you not to ask for permission, that wants you to just take control That is more the case for submissive women imo, which are the majority, but I bet there are a few that highly appreciate the kiss question, cuz it makes them…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 10:23 AM
3	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Well explained. I'd just add to that the classical "arm around the shoulder" is in most cases uncomfortable and especially when watching movies it is great to still pull that move, but after a few seconds tell them that it is uncomfortable and rearrange your hand to grab her latissimus or hip. That makes her having to lean into you aka closer body contact, closer to actual cuddling, close face positions to go in for a kiss later	/r/seduction	07/12/21 10:14 AM
5	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Username checks out If you're already making out you can grab some ass imo. Going straight for the V would be very awkward tho	/r/seduction	07/12/21 10:08 AM
1	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Prolonged eye contact is a powerful weapon	/r/seduction	07/12/21 10:06 AM
5	Girls never check me out..? Real life attraction is much more than just looks. You need to display confidence, lifting helped me a lot. Also incorporating a zero fucks given attitude. Don't look for attention / be needy for some, put yourself above anyone else. (not in interactions ofc). For example, since you say encounters on the street. I tend to check them out from far, but keep my head straight, almost ignoring them even when they're very hot. I'll let them see me check them out just before we pass each other, if at a…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 09:28 AM
2	For men I feel like thats mostly a late teenager symptom. I know more 19 y/o that do this than 24 y/o for example. At some point they will learn what & who is worth their time and it will fade out into a more normal way of "socialising"	/r/seduction	28/11/21 04:30 PM
2	When she says, "Hey you" that means you're in right? ... it's a more playful opening. Can be into you, can be just be friends with you or her thing No one can tell off just this information	/r/seduction	18/11/21 04:14 PM
2	Get her to spend the night after club So you either approach them outside, talk to them for a bit & then go dancing or directly on the dance floor. There must be attraction between you two for this to work ofc When dancing you dance with her playfully initiating a body contact like with salsa or whatsoever - just the classic arm around her waist thing. When she’s enjoying it too you’re pretty much set, get that deep eye contact ready and just kiss her That was my experience, mostly me having the lucky side of just dancing together, …	/r/seduction	12/10/21 08:22 PM
1	Get her to spend the night after club Go ahead	/r/seduction	11/10/21 11:16 AM
2	Conversation quality drops after first date YES, thanks for your insight! I guess just picking up the conversation, getting into things to talk about was my problem.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 09:13 AM
1	Conversation quality drops after first date Thanks for this reply, maybe i should've mentioned that this isn't going for a relationship, since im moving in a couple of days. But i of course i wanna learn and improve on my actions for the next times. Totally agree with you, the cooking & movie thing was spontaneously, but for that matter totally OK for me / us.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 09:08 AM
3	Having tons of success! I'm 6'1 & good looking and havent had any close female contact for 4 years. It's a personality thing, just stop propagating bs on here lol Edit: that changed btw since i started working out, gaining confidence & working on my social skills	/r/seduction	07/09/21 10:36 AM
3	Having tons of success! He was tall before but didnt get all that. Yes, it definitely must be the height	/r/seduction	07/09/21 10:16 AM
1	[deleted by user] Work on yourself before dating. Theres lots of personal development advice out there, but in order to get someone else to like you, you have to do so first. That + training in social interactions, start with dudes to befriend them, if that makes you feel comfortable and move on from there on.	/r/seduction	07/09/21 10:14 AM
1	Hard to get If it starts right at the beginning, it might come over as not so much interest OR too clearly for me to head out, cuz im not doin that. Especially when seeking out a relationship playing that games isnt very helpful cause you should work together to achieve one. (but surely some teasers in that direction can spice it up) On the otherhand lets say if i get to know a girl on a party and we flirt quite heavily and get the feelings that this is gonna be the more of a sexual relationship, its more l…	/r/seduction	07/09/21 10:11 AM
1	Need tips with how to maintain and create tension on text/ real life Eye contact, tilt your head a little downwards while maintaining it comes over as very flirty. Little playing with your hair or the occasional belly / hip touch. Thats what comes to my mind first, together with talkative skills (which you need to train / get help from other ppl that know how to flirt with men)	/r/seduction	07/09/21 10:01 AM
2	Reddit is anonymous, so no need to lie: be honest and tell me. How old are you? How many girls have you had sex with/dated through cold approach? In what time span? And how attractive do people consider you? M23, slept with 4 woman (1 one year relationship) 1 of which through tinder, the rest I had got to know through friends. Did my first cold approach last week, but I was so nervous that I ended the conversation too early after asking her out. Working on that	/r/seduction	01/09/21 08:18 AM