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Update on that ex-friend: After finding out that she's been trying to smear my name against all my friends, I've been wondering what I should do. Right now, I feel like since I owe this person a debt of gratitude, I should do nothing and consider that debt paid back. Does this seem fair? Or should I try to respond back?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 09:22 PM
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Congratulations!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 04:35 AM
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I got reminded of a game I really hate today. Emily is Away. I named it one of the worst games I've ever played. I've always wondered if there were RPers out there who would recruit guys using that game, because if you knew what Emily was like in that game, she's basically everything the RP says a girl is. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 02:35 AM
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goes to Google search She's 52?!? O_O Then again, I have a friend who looked late 20's and she's 46 so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:13 PM
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33 out of 100. What's funny is at least 20 of them were because of the very SJWs that like to call me "privileged" when many of them probably would score higher on this than me. I could go down them one by one, but it would take too long. And before anyone asks, yes, I am a cisgendered male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 05:51 PM
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I miss kale chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:06 PM
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Yup. Long story short, she wants me to post another. I know though about the 90/10 rule that should be done on Reddit. That's why I'm trying to hold off for a bit. I'm even gonna ask a Reddit admin about it and if it's ok, I'd post it anyway. >> A couple of my friends are confused, and two of them are really pissed. But I don't want to cause trouble with someone I legit looked at as a friend I could trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 01:30 PM
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I would but now a new issue has come in. The person who had helped me through it just blocked me and deadminned me from said FB groups tonight because I'm having to help my girlfriend out with some things. I was a day or two from finishing up and I'm more along the lines of "What just happened?" than really pissed off... I dunno what to do. It's something better saved for PMs honestly. I plan to make a YT video about it all though very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:56 AM
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After getting my girlfriend settled into my new place, I finally have to head back to work. My focus has been awesome the last little while. :) I also skipped weight training for a week, but I should be going back to it Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 03:19 PM
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Desperation and sadness as in online was only for guys who couldn't date someone RL for whatever reason. Now it seems it's easier to find someone RL than online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 04:56 AM
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I found my special someone a couple weeks ago, so I'm officially off the market, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 04:54 AM
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Zero. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 04:47 AM
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No, Youtube channel. One of her videos showed up on an advice sub I read frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 04:16 AM
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I feel like if people look past that they'd see substance in her advice, especially with other videos. She posted this video mainly because I had told her I was trying to learn RP stuff after my last ex dropped me the way she did. And it made her want to know more about it, so she made a video on it. I guess it's just one of those gimmicks going on Youtube too. My gimmick on Youtube was always being this analyzer of many different things when I ran a gaming channel. I networked with two other gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 04:04 AM
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Yeah, she explained in a video a while back why she dresses the way she does. I will say that she had given me a lot of advice that has helped me out. She gets a lot of crap tho from other hapas for whatever reason. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 03:40 AM
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In all fairness, I do agree that if you can't deal with someone at their worst, you shouldn't be around at their best. That should be for guys too however, something a lot of those women tend to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 04:27 PM
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People are nicer overall here than back home in Las Vegas for sure. But overly friendly? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:55 PM
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I don't see that. Most people usually are to themselves in Atlanta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 01:43 PM
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I'm half-Asian? Kind of an issue there. #6 reminds me of myself with the exception that I do have decent social skills, but because of my look, I rarely got a chance because of the "I don't date Asians" phrase. If a friend of mine didn't introduce me to Facebook dating groups that were designed specifically for Asian men, where I found my current girlfriend, it'd probably be a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:06 PM
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That everyone assumes #6 is either lowest or second lowest of the eight makes me feel even more insecure about myself. X_X
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:51 AM
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Purple pill, male, straight. I have sacrificed sleep already. My life would be easier to sacrifice than a kidney tbh, mainly because in many ways I'd rather die than deal with surgery. I'm sure that will change because that's the same way I felt with needles until I was diagnosed with Crohn's Disease. I wouldn't sacrifice my life goals though, because that is what is going to keep us afloat. She'd probably do all that for me, plus any organs she has available. Which I would tell her not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:50 AM
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Sorry I've been busy guys. Working with a friend of mine who had really helped turn my life around. Met someone last week on a trip and we're dating now. She's one of those southern belle type girls and we're just happy to have met each other. She was having relationship problems with a guy who didn't seem all that interested in her because of something due to her medical condition. Now that we're together, he's trying like hell to take her back. Kinda sad to watch. Things are going okay for me …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:54 PM
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Ok... what the hell did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 12:27 PM
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It was technically Rossville, Georgia was where my friend lived. But my hotel was up in Chattanooga, Tennessee. They take their traffic seriously dude O_O. Traffic. Serious business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 11:00 PM
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Hey guys, I'm back from my trip to Tennessee. I had met someone online and she happened to live about 2 hours away. So I took an impromptu vacation and it was pretty fun. I didn't have my computer on AT ALL throughout. What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 08:23 PM
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If 7 is considered bad I probably should just kill myself right now. :/ Not like I haven't been trying to raise it either. No wonder I don't like going out in public very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:35 PM
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I've worked out for a month plus now. Still don't see much improvement. Guess I'll ask again about this in another 4 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:28 PM
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Sounds like the story of my life in a fucking nutshell >>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:35 PM
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Kindness/Sweetness - Especially since I'm as screwed up as I am. Loyalty kind of is packaged into this. Fiscally Responsible - Not into gold diggers, thanks. Intelligence - Carry a conversation at least Similar interests/tastes in music, life, etc. Attractiveness - Long as I'm mildly attracted to her, I'll be happy. 1/2 are essential. And if they have those two and two of #3-5, I'd be a happy camper. And before anyone asks, I have met women and am talking to a few that check at least 4 of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:11 AM
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Sorry guys, was in a bad mood yesterday. Things really are getting better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 01:36 AM
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I would like to see the results for males in comparison, to be honest. This feels a bit too one-sided. Either it would show we have a lot of shitty people in this world or actually prove another claim from TRP. Either way...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 01:29 AM
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I am thinking I belong probably in the Northwest US if anywhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:56 PM
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I'm starting to wonder if my delving into RP was only a result of me suffering from severe emotional deprivation. And the reason I'm not able to follow through very well is because of that as well. I've mentioned here before. I don't have a family, I was disowned by parents for not meeting expectations. I have very few people I could even call people to talk to, let alone friends. I came here because I was rejected by someone who claimed to be my potential soulmate and my psych wasn't helping at…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:15 PM
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Wherever "my people" are, it certainly isn't the country I live in. Probably why I should focus on making my way to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:05 PM
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I recently saw this. https://ifstudies.org/blog/want-to-avoid-divorce-wait-to-get-married-but-not-too-long/ It put a little insight into things... and a bit of a scare as well. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:35 PM
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I think this is one of the downfalls of marrying after 30. People tell me its advantageous to, but most marriages I've seen post-mid 20's felt very loveless, like they were marrying because they felt they had to in order to conform to society norms rather than actually wanting to. I don't think I could deal with something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:50 AM
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If I were any uglier, I'd probably just not go outside and go back to getting delivery for my groceries/food.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:32 AM
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God, you have to remind me. The last anime I've watched was Clannad several years ago. Watching it reminded me of the love I feel not just I, but so many people need, but in reality we'll never get. I still cry thinking about it, and is part of the reason why I stay away from watching anime now. (Don't get me wrong, I LOVED the show.. it was just it's not reality, it's fantasy.) And I do feel like part of that is because of human nature, and part of that is because of modern trends seeing mutual…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 10:57 PM
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I wish my college of Engineering was 10:1... lol. In the graduate school, there were 94 people in the Master's and Doctorate program... no females. Also, I was the only U.S. Citizen for the first 2 years I was in the program. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 11:55 PM
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Met someone today who has made me second guess "the wall" everyone keeps talking about. There is this one woman in a fb group I am in from Germany who put up a video of herself on there and lots of guys started messaging her like crazy. She looked 30, tops. Found out she is 47. O.O Wow. She looked legit younger than a girl I was dating the other day who was 23. I don't get it sometimes. Great friend to talk to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 08:19 PM
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I wanted to give a thanks to RPers, PPers, BPers and NPers (no pillers) here for helping me out through a dark period in my life. Life has gotten a LOT better for me since I first came on here, and have been learning that my SMV/RMV really isn't all that restricted simply because of my ethnicity, which had been my biggest fear. I met a new friend who has been helping me out better myself, including in fitness. She introduced me to a FB group to prove that I'm not as undesirable as I've been told…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 06:05 PM
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Alright, alright. I'll keep it slow. That being said, I am starting to see the difference and really liking it. Between here and help from my new friend, I've been doing a lot better than when I first was here, physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 12:47 AM
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Bench Press.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 12:46 AM
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Moved up to 75 lb. on one of the barbell lifts today. Pretty happy. :) But my arms are shaking right now after that. Lol. I know, can't rush to 100 lb. but can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 05:28 PM
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This is such omega male projection. most average guys have casual hookups if they want them, at least in college and definitely in the age of tinder. if you're absolutely unable to find any woman who's interested you're not average. if you're decently attractive and casual sex is still outside your grasp you almost certainly come off as awkward and antisocial around women which makes you, still, below average. There are a ton of reasons average people can't find someone around them: Ethnicity, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:32 PM
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I dunno. As a PPer, a little understanding has helped me make a few friends, and given me energy to get a move on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 03:07 PM
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Thank you. hugs back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 03:06 PM
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Yeah, you'll all know about it on the Off-Topic threads. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:31 AM
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A little better? I mean for the moment, it's definitely better than where I was before the ex dumped me. I'm still waiting for my workout to start paying off and to stop refreshing and get to work on my project (which should be very very soon, within a week I think).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:29 AM
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That's kinda why I'm going down the RP road in a way 6 years after first learning about them. So that I would never let something like my ex happen to me again. Friends tell me I seem to have a knack for finding really terrible women. I honestly have no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:24 AM
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I had an issue with that just tonight. Some bigtime Youtuber was attacking one of my friends (who is a smaller Youtuber) calling him autistic. He was going to be the "bigger man" and let it go. He knows while he would do that, I would go and get savage on the guy. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:23 AM
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Trying. I have something I'm working on now, but the debate here is just too good to pass up. I don't mean to attack her statement, I'm just trying to show that a little compassion doesn't mean that the dog is going to bite you back. In my case, showing any sort of affection would heal a couple of my emotional issues. Some people who know me actually know this (like someone from a meetup group I go to and my landlady) and have started to hug me more, which has given me more energy as a result, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:22 AM
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Completely. The "better person" stuff just gives the culprit a free pass to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:17 AM
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They disowned me for a whole slew of reasons... ranging from not getting a 6-figure job to being engaged to a girl my parents didn't approve to being diagnosed with Crohn's Disease and their miracle treatment for me not working. So no. Thanks to them, I have EDD (Emotional Deprivation Disorder), PTSD, anxiety, and depression. All being aggravated by my most recent ex-girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:14 AM
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That we stop seeing this amount of misogyny and misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:13 AM
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I don't think of hatred towards an entire gender. I just see things that are proven true that have traumatized me and further aggravates my pretty unstable emotional condition. And I feel like no one cares. The worst feeling in the world is knowing that if you died tomorrow it would be months before anyone found out. And that's how I've felt after my last relationship. It was like no one really cared, no one came to help me, I wasn't allowed to call it "hypergamy" even tho it clearly was because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:13 AM
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1: Dated a couple weeks in college. She cheated on me twice at that time. 2: Dated 15 months. She left me because of a family situation and my mom drove her away. 3: Dated 15 months. We got engaged and I lived in Canada where she was for 2 months. She promised she would come back with me to Atlanta but never did. I went back alone, a month later she dumped me without warning. 4: Dated 7 months. Drove me absolutely crazy the entire time and I was miserable, but stayed because a subreddit here rem…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:08 AM
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Isn't understanding the first step to fixing the broken issues between them? Though I would admit that I'd like to see some RPers do the same and cross the aisle as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:07 AM
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I get a few matches, no conversations. I swipe left/right about 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:38 PM
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Then you probably need to go to AskTRP. You'll get all the popcorn-eating stuff there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 02:49 AM
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If I get to that age and I'm still single, I'll just buy a sexbot. >>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 02:46 AM
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Pretty much how I felt. It's very difficult to say something isn't happening if you see too many secondhand experiences or in my case, actually having it happen to you. A couple of the women are insensitive here, but overall, at least they're honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 02:37 AM
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How has browsing this subreddit (or others that discuss sex and gender issues, namely the two pills) influenced your opinion of the opposite sex? How has it influenced your opinion of people on the opposite pill (not sure how to word that more succinctly)? I found myself drifting towards RP because of experiences in my life. PPD is the first gender issue sub that has tempered that down a little bit. I feel like only people on the RP side truly understood where ex-hopeless romantic kind people ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 02:34 AM
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Hate that I had to take it light working out today, but my left knee felt a little buckled and I haven't been feeling all that great. -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 05:35 PM
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Nope. XD I did give "Depression Quest" a bad review. That could be the only reason tho. And my friend (also blocked) is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 05:09 PM
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She has my gaming channel blocked from her Twitter for some reason. I never even mentioned her. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:07 PM
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Japan would be a sort of good example of what you're thinking. http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24614830 This is just one example. I'm trying to find the article that showed it a few years ago, but there is a growing culture of men there who refuse to date anyone around them. In the article (that I'm trying to find), it states that women are becoming increasingly aggressive in trying to date men. However, the result has been that apparently according to recent reports, even the women (and some m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:32 AM
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They don't IP ban?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:16 AM
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You can be a centrist and still hold strong beliefs. I'm a political centrist, but I hold strong beliefs with 2nd amendment rights, education, healthcare. (Pro-gun rights, more funding for education, pro-socialized healthcare).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 11:54 PM
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Ooh, interesting. $$$ Back to making my project. If ya can't beat 'em...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:25 PM
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I would think class/status does trump gender though. It's all about the $$$. But on relatively equal footing status-wise...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:18 PM
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This is a class issue. Why isn't it in a political sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:04 PM
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I've only ever bounced back and forth between INTJ and ENTJ in my life. It's worked for me alright, although how strong those letters are depends on my point in life. Right now I have a weak T and a strong J and there were times when I had a strong T.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:55 PM
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Except they're not. From personal experience and what I've seen, I notice that RP is right more than they are wrong. (Looks, hypergamy, choosiness, etc.) And what we call "wrong" is technically inconclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 02:10 PM
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Clearly this is a given. I think some areas of Social Justice/feminist aren't bad, maybe even favorable, so I don't think killing them both together would do many favors, not to mention you can't really do that. How would this work? You'd have to change the psychology of people as we know it, wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 02:40 AM
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So maybe I should try the city instead of the 'burbs? I have been having pretty bad luck outside of the city area.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:12 AM
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Looks like there's a history of abuse. If it were a matter of her doing it for kicks, I'd totally throw the book on her. In this case, I think she should be punished, but upbringing needs to be taken into account. Outside of murder/rape, I know men under the system given the same leniency for a first-time offense if they had similar backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 11:17 PM
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I usually am on here a lot simply because I'm on the computer a lot. Waiting on someone to put up a video too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 04:57 PM
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I think the 'way out' of that situation is to build a startup company of your own, which is what I'm doing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 03:22 PM
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Oh, I wasn't pining over my ex-fiancee. It was over a girl I met who told me she saw me as her potential soulmate, then dropped me 3 weeks later for a guy who had more Twitch followers + was better at Overwatch. That was back in end of Feb. Hypergamy at its finest. That was the day I shifted from BP to PP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 02:50 PM
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A good portion are, but some do fine socially. There was just a stigma there. On top of that, software engineers don't make much where I was from. I know some that were working for Konami for under $40k/yr which if they're working 50-60 hours a week is a ripoff to me. My job was something like $65-70k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 02:30 PM
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I have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 12:39 PM
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Just saying, for anyone saying that, they need to see the old show "Married with Children". Remember NO MA'AM? XD I legitimately wish I could go back to a time when I could laugh at that and not feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 04:23 AM
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I got around 2k on Youtube before quitting and around 400 followers on Twitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 10:14 PM
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I was unsuccessful. I did (and still am doing) tutoring on the side for monetary reasons and that might have contributed to me not being able to dedicate my time to it as much, especially towards the end. If you meant how I got into a relationship, online. And the girl was from Canada. We visited each other 4 times a year and after I got laid off I stayed up there for the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 09:42 PM
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Not a fan of RooshV, but I'll check it out regardless. But yeah, now you see why I took the 2 year hiatus then. I'm only recently gone back to my old field. I'm studying/working on stuff as I type on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 08:21 PM
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Still better than having 1 engineer under 33 out of about 50 married, 4 out of 50 in relationships, and more than half of them virgins I'd think. Still, I'm a little surprised. I do know my friend (who's a female streamer) had a partnered streamer hit on her and he was in his mid 30's/single so... hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 08:07 PM
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I know how to flirt. I've been in a few relationships and flings. I can be social. Seems the only things I was missing was working out, and... I have no idea where to begin on looking better and stuff. Normally, I'd ask, but I'm pretty sure it's different for me because of how I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 08:00 PM
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I meant just that. I shouldn't be going straight to DT, being an asshole, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:44 PM
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So I guess an experienced RPM wouldn't be telling me to get plastic surgery to remove my ethnic features? That was one of things that turned me off about it back in 2011/2012. I will take it easier then, both in working out and maybe I might not have needed as radical a personality change as I had first thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:48 PM
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So weird. The RP of PPD and the RP of the places I used to go to when I first heard of it (which were mainly Asperger's back when I was diagnosed and the Social Anxiety forums) are vastly different. Has RP evolved since 2012?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:41 PM
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Men & women in general, I wouldn't know. I know in my case, I would've fared MUCH better 20-30 years ago where being Asian and having a software engineering career wasn't nearly as stigmatized as it is today. I've even asked coworkers about that too back where I lived and they were surprised at the difference. Those that were 40 or over had married their significant other for 15+ years while almost anyone around 33 and under were single and most virgins if they weren't transplants from the North…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:36 PM
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I too have noticed that the typical RPer here is a lot more grounded in reality than the people on RP boards across the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:07 PM
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13 days without a depression attack since I've made the decision to turn my life around and start looking into RP stuff. Today was the first day it happened. -_- For everyone who told me RP was b.s., hey, that was the longest I've gone without feeling depressed or anxious since my ex-fiancee broke off our engagement 2 years ago. So I have a question regarding "Dark Triad" stuff to anyone who is RP. Is "dark triad" necessary? I'm wondering because two of the three traits of the Dark Triad I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:05 AM
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Oh God yes. It's one of the things that's kept me away from there and moved to here. -.- It's one of those things where you can agree with the basis but not like its implementation or solutions (or lack thereof). RP is an example. Clearly the basis of it works, but the way people act in ask TRP, are... lacking support? Probably why most of the questions I ask about it are on here, because the solutions/advice is more sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:20 AM
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Any extreme can have cult-like leanings. The leaning in question especially is when a differing point of view is brought up, personal shaming/attacks follow in order to change their mind. This is found in just about every extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 10:07 PM
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I believe any political extreme can classify as "cult-like".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 10:06 PM
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God I hope that's not what pickup lines are like these days...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:01 PM
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So basically stay on low weights? I kept feeling like it was starting to get easy for some reason. Guess I was wrong. I just am sick of doing squats and pulls and only using the tiny 5 lb. weights w/ the bar. So I tried moving up to the 10 lbs last session and while I was ok on the pulls, I might have pulled something on the squats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:00 PM
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He was asking that women aren't dumping men for their genes. I just made a counterpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:54 PM
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Haha... no. But I don't talk with my exes after we break up. That's the big reason why. So I'd be bad evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:51 PM
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Actually... I was rejected once because the girl didn't want to, and I quote, "have babies with a guy that has nerdy genes". Then there's all the race stuff. It gets kind of uncomfortable and annoying. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:50 PM
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Almost every relationship I've had except the last two.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:49 PM
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I'm 2 weeks into the workout stuff. I think I overdid it on Friday in the weights. Tried to move up in weights and kinda pulled a muscle in my arm. Trying to recover now. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:12 PM
1

I live in the South too. Barely anyone talks to me here to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 04:27 PM
0

Except in some ways it kinda is. How many assumptions do people make over a guy who is still single past a certain age? They always assume he has some kind of problems when it could have just been a result of one (or multiple) of those bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 02:40 PM
1

Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:02 AM
1

I mean I don't know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:36 AM
1

Culture? What ya mean? I moved from Blue to Purple because TRP's talk about women being hypergamous was basically textbook what has happened in my life, and especially to the letter in my last fling. So now, I'm trying to better myself through it so I don't let that happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:41 PM
1

"Holding frame"? That's a new one...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:28 PM
1

Being partially correct is better than not being correct at all. At least that's how tests I've done have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:27 PM
1

Yeah, so I grew up thinking that such things didn't matter long as you loved someone. Clearly society says different. I probably would've studied less and tried to pursue more in the social/dating scene had I realized this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:21 PM
1

5 years? Then yeah, I would've been incel from 18 to about 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:09 PM
1

God, they actually say that? Wow, no wonder I ended up in depression so easily...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:07 PM
1

I'm a little bit uninformed here, so I'm not to sound like a moron, but what qualifies as an incel? A virgin? Being without a relationship for a year plus? 5 years plus? 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 07:07 PM
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Except you know, their advice has almost never worked in my life. Hell I went purple because of a fling with a feminist that found someone more popular and was better at a game than me. Me giving her space, not pressuring her, only drew her away from me. My friend even said one of her biggest issues with me was being too nice and not trying hard enough on top of being bad at the game she likes and not being popular enough on social media. Hypergamy much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:43 PM
1

Pretty much. I always feel like if one side gains too much power they screw things up for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:25 PM
1

Ok so I know this is weird, but in the past, I've heard the phrase "toxic masculinity" being referred to over things like men regularly beating up their spouses, treating them like they are property, and raping for control. Things that are antiquated to the general population. I didn't realize that such a thing has been made so broadly until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:01 PM
1

It's not fascism, but the entire 2nd half plays out like a PSA as to why you should vote conservative rather than why women destroy nations. It's kind of hard to take seriously, but hey, at least he said it was just a "general sense" rather than saying AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 03:47 PM
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At least he's stated that its a spectrum and he stated NAWALT... but overall a lot of this feels so sensationalistic it's hard to take seriously. Most women date within their own race based on studies. So generally women don't date "the enemy". The only exception was Asian women and he uses them as an example (and even then I think the majority of them date within their race). Except for the 80/20 rule, the rest of this plays out like a pseudo-PSA to vote conservative because women vote liberal …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 03:38 PM
2

The vast amount of information I get on RP, anti-RP, feminism, dating, even fitness and the like is priceless. More analysis, less circlejerking and writing talking points in caps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:48 AM
2

I dunno. Could be both. All the racist overtones and stereotypes of such I have dealt with in the last two years alone over my looks probably doesn't help one of those cases though, sorry to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:23 AM
2

One thing I noticed with all my LTRs/flings was they were all very big on creative skills. Artists, musicians, etc. which is weird because I'm very math/logic oriented. I wouldn't know where to start myself on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:12 AM
1

I'm working on a non-gaming website and yeah, working on a game as well after that. Thanks, I'll do what I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:10 AM
1

Primarily PHP, but I want to go back and refresh myself with C++, Java, and learn Python, and Unreal Engine 4. Get enough tools in my kit and get back to being a dev. Failed on my Youtube/Twitch venture because I wanted to make myself more appealing to women by being a Youtuber/streamer but I didn't quite make the cut. So, going back and hoping that being a dev doesn't wreck my SMV/RMV as much as it did in my hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:47 AM
1

They married in '83. Dunno what the average was then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:45 AM
1

Pfft.. I made this account for the sole purpose of dealing with that issue on another subreddit. Found this place and I rarely post there now. Call me a magnet for trying to learn about other people and sort of an optimist for thinking maybe if I tweaked myself a bit my ethnicity wouldn't matter. Should go check on that sub though, see what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:38 AM
1

Wow... I live in the South, and the profiles are never THAT bad. What meetup groups online are there to meet girls? It seems like options have gotten pretty closed these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:36 AM
3

Is that really considered race-baiting? I thought this stuff was a given considering all the "I don't date Asian men" I hear in my life lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:32 AM
1

Oh man, that must be what clingy is like without the being kind and sweet part. Eesh. I'm more of a wanting a super-sweet kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:27 AM
2

My parents were 22 years apart. My last fling was with someone 10 years younger and all my friends lost their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:24 AM
1

I've been doing a lot of refreshing old subjects so I can get back on the dev path while getting myself better on my current job. I'm trying to finish up all the math stuff by next week so I can focus more on the programming. Good luck on your blog. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:22 AM
2

My last two dates were terrifying and my last LTR is now the typical psycho ex. I'm a math buff so I know that the trend lines have only gotten worse for me as I've dated older and society tells me that the minimum age I should be dating now is 25. My last LTR was 27. The date who dropped me over a dream she had was 30. The date who dropped me over what foods we ate was 32. Not saying AWALT. I've had a couple RPers also mention that it's because online dating sucks ass and I should start going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:08 AM
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I refused to be like that. And I have the half-Asian handicap on top of it. Still got in 2 LTRs and a few flings. Tho I admit, my confidence is pretty shit. Thanks for reminding me, I gotta get back to my studying/refreshing. EDIT: Eh, who am I kidding? I can multitask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:59 AM
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I would think that every guy but the bluest of blues and the uninformed would know to avoid such a situation. /u/abicus4343 probably has seen that other side. I can vouch for her. I've seen waaaaaay too many sob stories from fellow engineers. I guess in a way, I should consider myself somewhat lucky there. First divorce average being 30 and all. Better alone than divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:49 AM
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Oh geez, that sounds like my ex from last year, but she acted anything but clingy around me... lol. Insane would be a better term. Most of my friends still think she's insane to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:44 AM
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To be fair, that's probably because most of the guys here are RP/PP and know better than to get into a situation like that with those kinds of girls. Girls can't really avoid thirsty guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:43 AM
1

Lesson learnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:39 AM
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I know that if I'm still alone by the time the first ones are expected to come out (by my mid 40's), it would be a VEEEEEERY tempting option over society's "rules" of me dating someone in their late 30's/early 40's. Because I'm already dating late 20's/early 30's now and it's near impossible to find someone single that isn't on OKCupid/Match, and if there they tend to reject me over the dumbest stuff. And that's even before they find out about my ethnicity and what I do. So yeah, like I said, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:38 AM
1

I don't remember ever being that. I was taught clingy was being overall too nice of a guy. And for girls, literally "clinging" to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:36 AM
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Men: Never date someone 5 years or more younger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:34 AM
1

I did that for relationships/dates and got called clingy by women. I've stopped doing it since.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:31 AM
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So basically, they think that Oneitis is not appealing, but enjoy the attention they get from it and find it horrible advice to go the other way and treat them like dirt. But I'm not telling you something you don't already know. :P EDIT: Though to be fair, the general consensus amongst the girls there is kind of wavy. I've heard of the belief in "many soulmates" before from friends as an example. Though I'd say it's more like hedging your bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:24 AM
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Clingy to a point. Not following you to the bathroom clingy, but someone who actually seems like they give a shit about you and not ready to jump into another guy's arms at a moment's notice. Someone who does (good) surprises for you when you don't realize it to brighten your day. Not the crazy stalker-ish girlfriend type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:23 AM
1

I watched a documentary once about men who are "married" to dolls. I assume it's something similar except a little more physical and well, if you think that's out there (and it is) it's gonna be multiplied by tens of thousands when the first sexbots come out, and plop another zero in there when they gain the ability to carry conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:19 AM
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Couple things that make me think otherwise. Friends from Europe have told me Middle Easterners have problems with dating up in that continent due to increasing tensions. That goes for men and women. Domino effect. If you're still loveless by the time you are 30-ish, it's really hard to find someone you can relate to with that. Not to mention you are 99+% of the time a very awkward person socially and probably have serious confidence issues because of a lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:16 AM
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Same actually. Lol. But I think the main reason for many people getting sexbots is loneliness. For those people who have difficulty in finding a mate or love, they'll try to find it through a sexbot, which will likely be simple-minded at first, but give it a little while and AIs do get more complex over time. Being someone who many women wouldn't date for a variety of reasons (Asian-looking, formerly in programming field and going back to it, not muscular enough, can't drink, etc., oh and most r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:06 AM
1

I don't know about exploiting men in all aspects. The reason I've rejected most aspects of feminism is the reason I've rejected many cultural/counter-cultural movements in my life. Double standards in more ways than one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:02 AM
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I know 3 guys in open marriages. Combined they have had a total of 0 partners, even long distance. Their spouses on the other hand have combined for double digits and even moreso long distance. I'm actually the only one I know who's had an open relationship of any kind that has had someone interested, if only from long distance. So yeah, of course the feminine view would be more positive... for the reasons pretty much anyone Red or Purple is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:25 PM
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It's not. I'm thinking about doing something on certain hot topics that we've talked about over the last month or so. I'd have to lay it out and then work on the data after collecting it all. I'll have to put my programming skills to work too so I can make some nice customizable stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:03 PM
1

Thought about doing a survey of sorts not just to do some findings, but to put some of my stuff in my Statistics refresher course to good use, so it'll stick with me. Do we need permission to do that on the subreddit or can we just do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:58 PM
1

Had a question that is sort of on this topic but didn't wanna make a thread about it. Is being an "asshole" considered a TRP idea that should be followed? I used to think that it was a given that it is but it seems even amongst RPers here it's not the case. I ask because when I was first introduced to RP 6 years ago on a social anxiety board, one guy's advice to give was "Be as much of an asshole/sociopath as you can be." and another saying "Don't be racist, but use racist overtones just to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:50 PM
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I'd like to see a random survey of people (women and men) over the ages of them and their significant other. That actually gives me a good idea...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:54 PM
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I don't know if it's really shifting to the right for me more than I've always been centrist, and lately I've developed a lower tolerance for the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:05 PM
2

Still not a Trump fan though. Don't think I ever can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:39 PM
1

That's not a bad list. Hopefully one of them isn't having to like the same foods as you, as one person did to me. XD Seriously, where are the women with short req lists? I seem to find people with a laundry list of them and are picky as hell. Must be the OKCupid...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:57 PM
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Gonna be honest, I don't have to be forced to understand anyone. I see it from both sides but I do think the reds are more in tune with what society is doing, while the blues are more in tune with what society is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:55 PM
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I didn't need steroids to turn republican. All I had to do was just not hate Trump as much as my friends and everyone thinks I'm a Republican now by default. lol. Tho I think from just a couple weeks of working out/lifting twice a week so far I'm already starting to feel changes in my viewpoints/behavior. I've made one of my friends (bisexual guy) a little uncomfortable with how I act/talk... and I've cared less and less each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:08 PM
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I've heard that happy stories like that are rare. The usual case is the male is desperate and the woman wants a provider for their kid so they marry out of compromise and convenience. Not love. Then the guy is on the hook for child support once they divorce and divorce rates for 2nd marriages are much higher than 1st so the odds of divorce are in their favor. Admittedly that also comes from observation bias. Of the 5 men I know who dated and eventually married women with kids, 4 are divorced, 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:49 AM
1

I remember a story a while back about something regarding an epidemic of men having to pay child support for kids that aren't even theirs. That's probably why... setting yourself up for that risk is something only a beta would do because they're desperate. Though my psych has been telling me that is b.s... but I'm hearing otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:12 AM
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It would have to be someone extremely special (or maybe a widow) in order to convince me to do that. Usually, they carry so much baggage it isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:09 AM
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Not really. Where I was from, while engineering was stigmatized for men, the women didn't have the same problem. During a summer college entry program the summer I started college, one guy had told me before I became an engineering major, I should be in a serious relationship I don't plan to leave or married. I laughed at his comment until I experienced it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:41 AM
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I think 1, 2 and possibly 4 could be honest depending on the person. Unless you're of the belief that AWALT, then you'd probably think only 2 is honest. 3 sounds deceptive though regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:12 AM
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Pfft... a girl I'm sorta interested in rn is 4'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:34 AM
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Here's to hoping my working out is enough. I keep hearing I would look attractive if I worked out more. Let's find out. But all honesty, I have to disagree to those who say that looks isn't everything in a guy. From personal testimony, I had at one time a really high-paying job, but my looks (mostly race) and choice of career got in the way of finding a date because prejudices went over any amount of money that I made. Even today, I have difficulty finding a date simply because I "look" Asian. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:23 PM
1

I wish I knew where to even begin meeting people. Right now, I'm using the gym in my apartment complex until I look "normal" enough. I play board games at a restaurant where there are people there, but most of them are married. I was told to try going to the city more often (once the I-85 is fixed because one of the bridges collapsed recently) and meet people there, I dunno. I've tried OKCupid, have had 2 dates so far, both have been pretty bad. Got me convinced the older a girl is, the pickier …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:24 PM
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Someone mentioned to me several years back (and this was when the ratio was even wider, like I heard 6:1 then) that the reason is because males can look like females easier than females can look like males. Operations for female-to-male transsexuality are... not as effective I believe? I mean there are stories of female-to-male transsexuals able to still give birth as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:02 PM
1

That's just the steroids. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:59 PM
1

I thought that Purples were in the majority here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:17 PM
1

Maybe, if I ever get back to the field and my body can handle it. Also find it weird that so many devs/engineers are RP and so few are BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:28 AM
1

The only ones I know are usually in serious relationships long before I met them or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:54 AM
2

What was it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:52 AM
1

We'll see I guess. I'm only a week in. I'll talk to ya in 6 months and see how it is after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:34 AM
3

Natural appearance > all is what I've been learning from PPD. Physical fitness is either 2nd or 3rd depending on who you ask but if you still look bad after working out, it's not gonna matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:04 AM
1

Someone kind and caring, not controlling, at least moderately attractive, loves me for me, and who won't try to use me for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:10 PM
1

For a second I thought we were talking about keno, which sucks as a game in terms of odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:55 PM
1

Real talk here. The thread regarding IT/dev people has left me pretty depressed since I'm about to head back to that field very soon. I left the field two years ago to pursue a dream of mine. I became a tutor but moreso I had a Youtube/Twitch dream that I couldn't do with the crazy hours being an IT/dev person. I had recently been let go of my previous job. Also, I have/had a huge talent for programming/developing, but I never really fit the mold of the typically developer. I'm a little more ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:09 PM
2

I've only recently started going down this rabbit hole. I can't say I'm "happier" yet. It's only been a week or so. A few of my friends aren't too happy about it either, but that hasn't made an effect on my mood. I just think that after being beaten down for a decade-plus doing it their way it should be time for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:05 PM
2

This is honestly making me even more depressed going back into the world as a dev.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:04 PM
1

And this is exactly why I left IT two years ago to pursue a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:02 PM
1

I think he was referring to "good men" who marry young. Don't think he said that people who married young are automatically "good men".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:03 PM
2

110010110111000001010... I mean... yeah, I guess you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:47 PM
3

What if you are unhappy and artificial intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:21 PM
1

I'm PP. But this kind of relates to me. Yeah, I miss it a lot. Sometimes it bugs me, but like prodigy said, what can you do? If I could time travel, I'd have never been an engineering major, I'd have gotten in more fights, and probably would've not been so nice. Then things would've probably turned out ok. But you can't time travel yourself back to win the person you know you were meant to be with if you weren't a worthless piece of shit, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:16 PM
1

Ohhh... that would make more sense. It would be weird that 1 in 10 cases would end up with both parents paying each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:06 AM
1

Oh. I assume RP tradcons don't do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:04 AM
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No. I just first heard of it from there. Just thought it'd be an interesting note.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:04 AM
1

79.6% and 29.6% is 109.2%. That means in 9% of cases both parents get a support award? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:01 AM
1

I keep forgetting, what does "spinning plates" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:58 AM
1

I first learned of RP when I was at a social anxiety forum and later in an Asperger's forum (I was misdiagnosed with aspies) about 5-6 years ago. They spread like wildfire over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:56 AM
2

The depression was created because of being treated like crap constantly, which I much later in life found out was because of my looks, upbringing, and certain career choices in life. So I feel like if I treat the depression first, those things are still there, and something will happen that would knock me back into it. It's already happened once (Went to see a psych 2012-2014, got better in 2015 because life got better, life got worse several months ago and I'm back). I assume this is why no me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:22 PM
3

I am diagnosed with a form of depression, something pretty severe. Even simple debate tends to trigger me sometimes and ruins my day at times. Makes me wonder why I'm even here, mainly because I want to learn more about this topic on a personal note.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:06 PM
1

Quit putting words in my mouth. That's offensive. I really haven't seen much encouragement over females in STEM fields until recently. She even showed that this isn't a problem in other countries. I think you're just trying to bring someone down who's trying to see things in a different light rather than just what society says. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:03 PM
3

I assume you have to call a doctor and find a quote. I know for me eyelid, jaw/chin alone was a couple g's in 2011.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:26 PM
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Really? I dunno then. I would love to see more women join the STEM fields. I want to see women do well in it because I have seen so many smart mathematical/scientific female minds go to waste in favor of as you would say, the old boys' club trying to undermine. I'm sick of colleges being 95-5 males for engineering and people from all ideologies/viewpoints discouraging women from even dating or being friends with an engineer, let alone becoming one. You wanna talk about how miserable it is to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:23 PM
1

Yeah. Two things about plastic surgery that scare me tho is going under the knife in general sucks to me and can I maintain this for life? I heard stories about how people have to do maintenance every several years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:22 PM
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I think the vast majority of people here regardless of pill would love to see women take STEM careers. It's just a matter of how do we encourage that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:10 PM
1

Yeah, I tried. They don't have a barbell over there. Just a smith machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:12 AM
1

Oh... well. How would I deal with this for the lower end exercises?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:58 AM
1

Is there a way for me to set that up outside of the rack? It seems like it's stuck on the rack for some reason to me, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:49 PM
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I must not know how to get the barbell off of the rack and set it on the floor yet then I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:24 PM
1

I did first day of weight training today. Feeling kinda embarrassed. So I couldn't do the 2-day split training workout because they didn't have the barbell set up for that. So I went with the machines instead, and here's what I ended up with... Abdominals (70lb) 2 reps x 15 Bicep Curls - Start with 5 lb. dumbbells, can use machines when you graduate to 8 lb. Seated Chest (35lb) 3 reps x 10 Vertical Butterfly (30lb) 3 reps x 8 Lat Pull (50 lb) 2 reps x 8, (60 lb) 1 rep x 8 Leg Extension (50 lb) 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:55 PM
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First day - Walked 2 miles at an average pace of 3.3 mph. I was really tired coming out of it. Looking forward to first day of weight training tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 12:08 AM
1

Everyone made fun of engineering students where I was, and they were basically undateable because of bad rumors about them, so for the most part we all just sort of stuck together. Esp. the CE/CS/EE crowd. ME/Civ were a lil better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 12:06 AM
1

Usually, yes. Depends on the woman though to be fair. Though the number of women who liked my accomplishments over someone else's smack talking in my life I could count on maybe two hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:57 PM
1

Computer Science & Computer Engineering. Master's in Electrical Engineering on top of it so technically three.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:54 PM
1

Good luck. Almost everyone I meet in RL is taken for one, it's hard to meet women in general even through meetup groups for me, and even if I meet someone, they're usually disgusted by the way I look. And it's not like I have poor hygiene either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:44 PM
1

I have a good friend from Canada who's the same way. But she's not very interested in me and visa versa, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:41 PM
1

Technically wouldn't the last two be TRP, just on a more natural level?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:38 PM
1

Only been on 2 dates online dating thru those services and both have been disasters. But I don't know of any other way to meet women at this point in my life. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:37 PM
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^ This. For some it takes just one person. For some it's decades of pain and betrayal with dozens. I've been convinced having been a former BPer until a lil while ago, that a guy who remains BP has just gotten very very lucky in the people they meet, or you don't live in the US/UK/AUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:33 PM
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This is perfect, thanks. :) And yeah, I can't really go much more than twice a week, at least to start. Now my only issue is what weights do I start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:41 AM
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Except I'm only good for twice a week. How would I split that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:10 AM
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Thanks. My Crohn's hasn't really held me back near as much as my EDD/depression have. But I've moved on from a traumatic experience I've had (that turned me from BP to PP in the first place) and I'm trying to get back on track.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:27 AM
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Remicade, B12, D3, and a multivitamin. Also since I have a cold temporarily on Zinc 50mg. Currently not anemic tho that can change easily with this. I sleep 6-7 hours a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:25 AM
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Ah, that makes a little more sense. That's the one where 130 is the Mensa cutoff right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 12:36 AM
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36 is dependent on direction. In each row one goes up, then left, then right. So the bottom one is definitely pointing left. The large bar also changes colors. (In mine the large bar must be blue). I then followed a diagonal pattern so I can see how the colors change with each direction, and that got me finding the red being the 2/3 filled bar. Giving me my answer by process of elimination from there. Just to double check I took the shortest one using the same pattern and found that the missing …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 12:03 AM
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33 is the Vertical figure 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:59 PM
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That's what I'm planning. 5 days a week, only Friday (my day off) I do the full walking + weight training workout. My schedule is looking like this: Mon - Walk Tue - Weights Wed - Rest Thur - Walk Fri - Walk/Weights Sat - Rest Sun - Walk All exercises will be 30-45 minutes, depending on how I'm feeling. Walking I'm planning on going between 3-4 mph for a pace. For whatever reason the added stress could do a number on my intestines and plus I'm not as high on energy as I normally can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:55 PM
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Starting tomorrow, I'm going back to my process of changing myself completely. I had already done a few days of walking, haven't started weight training, but had to pause for several days because I was sick. I'm wondering if there is some kind of a starter weight training thing I can look at (and whatever it is because of my Crohn's I'll have to go slower). Then I have people who tell me because of me being half-Asian, all the being fit in the world isn't gonna help my image any so I dunno.. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:57 PM
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I've only heard of IQ tests based on 100 being the mean and sigmas of 12 and 15. And you convert accordingly. So for example, getting into Mensa would require a 130 IQ on a 12-sigma test but that's like 138 on a 15-sigma. 138 -> 114 sounds like a really low conversion or a really low sigma... lowest sigma I've heard was 12. Forgot the name of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:55 PM
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My score is 139. And I was heavily distracted while doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:53 PM
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I know I cannot. Maybe some can, but I know I can't. I've been so devoid of love by parents, other people, etc. I'm psychologically messed up probably beyond repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:24 AM
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I think this pretty much summed up a lot of why many of TRPs beliefs seem alluring to people like me. I have been burned so many times in my life by women, and my most recent one kind of being the last straw, that I feel like it is in fact a problem with who I am. It's now ingrained in my head to stop being so nice, stop being so kind or loyal to people because these are now negative traits. Not just with relationships either, with friendships as well. But I can't change out of that, no matter h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:00 AM
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I'm on your side dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:33 PM
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Maybe short-term. But long-term I see this benefitting TBP, mainly because of what you just said. People will be more aware of RP tactics and be prepared if they feel someone is on to them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:06 PM
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Probably because the general public KNOW that many in TRP are misogynistic or act like misogynists. Not many are willing to see many of today's modern feminists as misandrists, at least not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:03 PM
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Ah ok, I misread that. That makes a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:01 PM
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Wait a sec. TRP hates men on the spectrum? Just wondering because I was misdiagnosed with Asperger's for years and when I was on the AspieCentral forums in 2012-2013, TRP were recruiting people there like wildfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:09 PM
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Does anyone know a good way to be more awake during the day so I can do proper work? I sleep 7 hours a day, I nap 15-30 minutes once a day, I take vitamins (for my illness) and yet I STILL am tired all the time. It's frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:08 PM
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Mega Bulbasaur confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:01 PM
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Scenario A. I feel like I could do anything if I had someone like that by my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:13 PM
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RP: I don't believe AWALT. I believe more AAWALT (almost all women are like that) or MWALT. I think I liked /u/clarityofdisaster using EWALT. I might use that one instead. I think there's always exceptions to the rule. Also, I don't like many of the PUA tactics. It makes me uncomfortable and a lot of it comes off as problematic for a healthy LTR or companionship. It is even becoming a problem increasingly for short-term one night stands because some people actually read this and are of it. BP: T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:05 PM
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I just realized I've really been missing pizza bagels in my life, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 09:32 PM
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Wasn't there an OKCupid experiment a while back showing on a scale of 0 to 5 men's ratings of women was like a bell curve, but for women, almost half of all men got rated a 0? I'll have to look that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 04:30 PM
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It's honestly both. Like if you fail, you can always get up and try again after your heart's broken for a bit, and it's made easier if you have a support system cheering you on. A lot of men not only don't have that support system, but has people telling them they don't have any problems and they should just "man up". You'll almost never hear that being said to a woman going through the same thing. That's where the bitterness comes from, I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:13 PM
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I dunno if it's a matter of how to act for me. It's more than awkwardness, which I actually don't have anymore. For me, it's continuous bouts of depression, never feeling you're good enough, and those feelings being affirmed when no one likes you because of how you look. And if your life sucks, your life sucks. That's one thing I feel a lot of psychologists really don't get, that you can take all the meds in the world to "get the edge off" but if your life sucks and it keeps sucking because of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 01:48 PM
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I had an ex-friend with a similar story. Worked his ass off his entire life. He got a decent job making 70k out of college and a girl he liked back in high school suddenly started dating him. They married within a year. She cheated on him not even a year into the marriage after that, divorced him, and he owed a $2,500/month alimony. I know last I checked he was running off to another country somewhere. He stopped talking to me because he thought I wasn't supportive of him at the time, but I assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:57 PM
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This might be something sort of related to what you're saying but I learned from my psych that I have a variation of something called Emotional Deprivation Disorder. I assume for people that have something like what I have, it would take more than self-improvement to get out of being depressed. Antidepressants don't work for me, been on at one time 4 of them at once and no effect. It would require actual action from others to help people like me out of that situation, action that most aren't wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:51 PM
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Hey question. What would your advice be for someone entering their 30s and how would it differ from college?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 01:05 AM
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Maybe there's a cure for Crohn's in there somewhere. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 01:03 AM
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Ok, I guess I can see why having too high of an n could be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:38 PM
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What's the difference between a BP and RP environment? I just assume environments are the same all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:38 PM
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Probably why I moved. lol. Admittedly I haven't gotten many issues regarding my profession since my move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:05 PM
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So the half-asian thing I can't control, unless I wanna get plastic surgery or something. But then you still can't really get all the traits out, and in some cases you'd just look weirder. Not to mention costs, pain, etc. I just use things like wearing a hat and sunglasses at all times to hide the most revealing traits about me and it usually works. I do get the "kinda/pretty cute for an Asian" comment a lot though which is probably why I've done as well as I have to this point. And yeah, engine…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:00 PM
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I've heard the same about European women as well, but they seemed more open overall. Maybe it's just an American/Canadian phenomenon I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:56 PM
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The belief that RP = sociopathy, at least in the case of my friend. For me, turning PP meant I realized that many of what RP said about women were right and I made bad life choices in life in pertaining to finding a mate. Some I couldn't fix at birth (being half-Asian), some I weren't aware of but my parents would've disowned me if I turned back (being an engineering major instead of following the path to go pro in poker but surprise they disowned me anyway), and some were me thinking that the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:50 PM
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Not every BP is like that. I had gone six years knowing about RP and rejected it and had only really been in 3 LTRs and a fling since then before turning PP. I have a friend who learned about it the same time as me who is STILL BP who has admittedly been in even less LTRs at that time period than me (one with a woman 20 years older than him) who could basically classify as incel. But I do agree that they are based on one's own experience mixed in with their moral codes and views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:39 PM
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I had been looking at an article about it this morning, but it didn't seem to be very relevant. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-fitness/201411/does-getting-older-make-you-pickier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:54 AM
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Don't you mean for every 100 unmarried men there are 88 unmarried women? 44.9% being female means that there are less unmarried females than males. Also, I'm pretty sure men are very picky before 25. (I was sort of admittedly.) I'm talking like early 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:48 AM
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Interesting thought actually. I always thought though if you get more demands you restrict your pool and make it tougher for yourself. And it's already pretty tough after 30 unless you plan to date younger. I remember watching this one show, maybe it was Dr. Phil, and they were talking about a 30 year old virgin who had stupid-high expectations of what he wanted in a girl. And their advice was to lower expectations by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:45 AM
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I can understand the first two of those standards. Maybe the 4th even. I'd say 4 of the 5 could be considered sensible standards. But I'm talking about things as little as what foods you eat. Like seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:42 AM
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I think that's why Purple Pill (lean blue, red, or straight purple if you wish) is the ideal place to be. I think AWALT is b.s., but AAWALT (Almost All Women are like that?) Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:27 AM
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I'd think usually?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:25 AM
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I went from blue to pure purple. A lot of the things RPers said would happen to me as a BPer had came to pass and were dead on. But I'm still not of the belief of AWALT, tho it's gotten harder and harder to disprove for me. I've also gotten a lot more depressed as of late, but that had nothing to do with PPD. It's been a bad last couple months.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:41 AM
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I would want to see if she would be more interested in doing some of those things she did in the past with exceptions. If not I would assume she isn't really that into me after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:47 AM
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Much of what I'd talk about here is personal testimony, because that's usually the most telling experience of all, followed by sources from media (preferrably mainstream).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:18 PM
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That would mean what happened to me a month ago then isn't true, when a girl that I loved and who I thought loved me dumped me for a guy with a higher status (hypergamy). So should I start denying my eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:11 PM
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He was reading the bill itself which it says its under the condition of clause I, lines 18 on and clause II that clause III is performed which consists of that on (bb) the statement in question. So unless they changed the wording of that law... Not to say it still doesn't sound shady. It's just not a nightmare scenario for the hopeless romantic who gets rejected by some bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:31 PM
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I'd put that 1st or 2nd. Toss up between that and intelligence were it on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:10 PM
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Ok, this makes things a lot better. Thanks for bringing it up. There's still a gray area that needs to be dealt with here, and putting responsibility like that in the hands of an institution to me is still pretty shady and ripe for abuse, but at least the outright blatant unconstitutionality of it turns out to not be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:20 PM
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Apparently 2 states already passed it. New York and Virginia. EDIT: My bad, looks like they have to be found responsible for it in order for it to get on their record. It does cross that gray zone that they changed "no means no" to "only yes means yes", but that's another debate entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:05 PM
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I was just trying to indicate what I thought was meant by what boobear was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:57 AM
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Then it would affect attractive men too because they are saying that all it would take is an accusation to get it on the transcript?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:55 AM
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Doesn't mean we can't try to make it as fair for all people as we possibly can. We can't stop nature, but we don't have to start a systematic dehumanization of ugly people for it. The law, regardless of where it is, should try to be as fair as possible for everyone, regardless of who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:49 AM
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I'm assuming because an attractive person can rape someone and likely be ok. But an ugly person could look at a girl the wrong way and have an accusation in their permanent record, or something like that. The only thing is, I believe this is injustice. She is making it sound like this is just and fair, and I hope she's just being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:44 AM
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Oh, I remember that now in college. But the student justice court was only for minor things. Anything major that involved a felony or worse went straight to the state AFAIK, at least that's how I remembered it told to me back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:27 AM
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Are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:26 AM
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They don't send a rape case to an actual court? What? Geez, my head spins when it comes to college stuffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:22 AM
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I hope you're being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:17 AM
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Convictions, maybe. I don't know about transcript, but whatever a permanent record is, I can see that, and it should be happening to be honest. Accusations, no way. This is not going to deter frat boys from having non-consensual sex with college girls. This would ensure the nightmare scenario of some shy, nerdy engineering student being accused of rape for just looking at a girl the wrong way, and having his reputation destroyed forever. In other words, this is so ripe for abuse, you'd think it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:16 AM
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I'm going to say that it seems like, at least to me, men say things that make them look pickier, but are more willing to date women that don't meet their expectations than the other way around, from experience. Plus, people do eventually date on more than just looks too. Personality's a thing. But most men I know, me included at one time, can be much pickier than 2.5%. The ideal woman appearance-wise for many of my friends in college was restricted to maybe 5-10 women in the entire college of ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:17 AM
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I'm more trying to prove that not every guy is out trying to ruin girl's lives or has some asshole persona. Some guys try to be real too, know what they want, want to find that kind of love, get burned one too many times, and then start wondering if what they're doing is wrong. They try to get some opinions, and they're blamed for everything under the sun rather than people wondering if the girls they're with are just shitty human beings in general (because apparently girls can do no wrong to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:47 AM
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Isn't that what the entire subreddit is about though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:34 AM
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I don't know if I do or not. I do know that people like you are why people like me start taking what TRP says more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:33 AM
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Of course it is. It's always the guy's fault. And people wonder why RP doctrine spreads like wildfire, however offensive it may be sometimes. >>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:26 AM
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Yeah. I texted with her quite a bit actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:46 AM
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Thought that was just Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:35 AM
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Yeah. OKCupid. She was older than me (32), and was going for a PhD in Physics. I felt like something was up from the start, and I guess my suspicions were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:35 AM
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I had to cut up #11 in two and you'll understand why in a bit. Intelligence (Mandatory) - Hate to break this to ya, but if I can't have a meaningful conversation with a girl, it goes downhill quickly. Age (Very Strong Preference) - This was a lot lower before a breakup with a girl in October, who was my oldest girlfriend to that point (28), and pushed even more by the date who stood me up last week (32). My best relationships had been with girls who were 21 and 25 at the time. I feel like for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:33 AM
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Oh I forgot to mention. Maybe we should have a permanent off-topic thread as well. It would lighten up the mood a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:17 AM
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Nope. Just blocked me. End of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:15 AM
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I haven't just been rejected. I've been tricked, betrayed, lied to, cheated on, given the runaround, had racist insults hurled at me and had been publicly attacked by one person being accused of stalking her. My psych notices these issues and have said that my depression is very much aggravated because of these things. I have nearly zero support for this. I would clearly get angry because of this. I've dated maybe only one girl in my life like you. We got engaged. It broke off because the distan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:33 AM
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Yes, but to a point. Maybe no more than 4 or 5 of them so that other new topics can be talked about here. See /u/RockinSocksReborn. She's got it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:32 PM
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My phases are a weird pattern and are based toward how often I can get my medicine. Right now I'm in a bad phase, but I get my medicine on Friday and I'll most likely be back to normal next week at least physically. Then I have the issue regarding the girl who dumped me (the hypergamy issue I mentioned on my first thread here) that is still looming over me. That's added stress which has made me feel worse physically. Feeling like I'm spinning my wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:18 PM
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I'm suddenly feeling even worse after reading this. I'm 30, and I've always had this nagging feeling time keeps passing me by and I keep seeing how true that is. I feel like if I'm still where I'm at by 35, despite my best efforts to get out of it, I should probably kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:08 PM
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To be fair, it looks like no one goes there anyway XD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:52 PM
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I'm not a very strong T however. My N and J are strong. My T is weak and like I said, I'm split in the middle between I/E.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:51 PM
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I always assumed that RP was a certain structure, depending on if you're PUA or MGTOW or whatever else there is. I know most RPers back on a social anxiety forum I went to almost all gave me the same advice. Get plastic surgery (I look too Asian), work out, quit being nice to people (girls especially), quit your engineering job, etc. I could be wrong about that tho. I noticed a lot of the RPers on this reddit have different views on certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:36 PM
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That was my thoughts. It seems like most of the RPers/BPers here are more moderately RP/BP and are willing to admit a few of the opposing issues from the other side could possibly be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:34 PM
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You didn't. I don't know if I can take most RP advice, but I am thinking about trying to work out a little more. I always thought from others with Crohn's that it was a waste of time but my doc told me that I'm not as bad off as most so it might still be beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:30 PM
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Far more lighthearted than another question I had for one. And two, it doesn't involve RPers and BPers trying to bite each others' heads off for the most part. It's mostly just about the advice working for the health of someone is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:28 PM
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I don't know the exact name of the workout routine. I have severe Crohn's Disease and while I'm not as bad off as most with the illness, I am told by my doctor to try to take it easy. I've been thinking about going back to walking regularly which I heard could help a bit (start a new game on this one AR game that I used to do that got me fit but still having somewhat of a gut for a little while), but that does nothing for muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:22 PM
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So basically like politics, but with gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:05 PM
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INTJ or ENTJ. I'm literally split down the middle for I/E.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:57 PM
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I'm 30. I'm still looking. Never really had much sex (not by choice, part of it was my family upbringing), only 4 relationships, still looking. At my age now, people tell me I should start looking into dating someone with kids. So unless dating someone who has kids from a previous marriage/relationship is your definition of a dream woman, then the latter rarely exists. If I could do it over again, I'd be the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:34 PM
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Nope. My grandmother was even more cold and bitchy. And my parents cut all contact to any distant relatives from us because my family tree is just that fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:31 PM
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It's weird though. My mother was cold and bitchy. And I ended up the exact opposite. O_o
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:01 PM
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I would kill for a girl I met in my life to be comforting to me. That's the most wonderful feeling in the world knowing that someone cares. WTF is wrong with that guy? I also tend to be very physically affectionate too. I am diagnosed with something called Emotional Deprivation Disorder I am told by my psych and it might be a reason behind my harsh upbringing and my parents eventually disowning me. I've heard the same things... the only difference is I'm a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:59 PM
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I have had my heart broken multiple times. It has gotten to a point that every time I do get my heart broken or I am alone for too long without someone talking to me I can barely function. Meanwhile, the girls that broke up with me or dropped me are usually a lot happier, show no signs of depression, and find their next relationship much faster than me. I'd say within a few weeks, if not immediately after, like the last one did. For me, I'm lucky if I find a new girl to date within a year or two…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:43 PM
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I'd replace 30 with 35. You'd be surprised how little of a difference a girl in her late 20's is to someone in their early 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:34 PM
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I haven't been around long enough to see what it's like, but I find this is one of the few resources where you can find counters to RP or BP arguments, RP especially. I used to be on a social anxiety forum, and RP ideology (mostly PUA) spread like wildfire over there because there was very little to counter, especially when the way a lot of the females treated the males over there were really bad. Got really bad after half the females on the forum said that being a virgin was their biggest turno…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:09 PM
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It's not super difficult for me. I've been in only 4 relationships, but 2 of them were with pretty attractive and intelligent women. Though my biggest issue has always been they seem interesting in the beginning then turn out to really not be after friends point out things that I couldn't see earlier (like my last one who isn't one of the two btw). I've learned that I definitely need a woman who won't play games with me, and those are rare to find regardless of age and at least from experience h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:01 PM
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As someone who's parents disowned him, I can sort of empathize. Sorry man.. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:53 PM
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That... would explain the last girl I liked then..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:16 AM
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I was supposed to go on a date today. I got stood up. Funny thing was, I called it. And for the first time, it actually didn't hurt... that much. Mainly because I expected it to happen. I think I've been burnt so many times though, I have come to expect it and sometimes that just makes me cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:09 AM
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I was born with supposedly high IQ. I would trade it in for looks in a heartbeat. My life has been hell many times because of my intelligence and many times because I don't look like a movie star, whether it be difficulty finding a job, social life, romance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:40 AM
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To be fair, I think it probably was, but I'm new here and rarely am on Reddit, so I don't know how/if multiple flairs even work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:27 AM
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