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LostInVayne/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:26 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:17 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:47 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP09/06/19 11:16 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:45 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:30 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:44 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:06 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:35 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:14 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:21 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:36 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:26 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP09/08/19 01:14 AM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:54 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP07/04/19 06:54 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:33 PM
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LostInVayne/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:12 PM
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Lmao this has to be a troll
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:38 PM
3

I agree with you on this. However, we can all agree that it's impossible to know whether she's cheating 100/100 or not unless you snoop on her phone/stalk her. So what about knowing whether you're paranoid or not, how would you go about that?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:15 AM
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How do you deal with the trust issues though? I sometimes overthink a lot of over-exaggerated scenarios just from the smallest things and basically just withdraw regardless of how good the woman is.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:47 AM
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I am fucking dead haha
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:27 AM
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This just made me realize that all the relationships that I had were with women who live in a divorced home, or their father died at an early age.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 03:38 PM
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Unlike everyone else in here, I do think she's wife material.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:35 PM
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What a brilliant comment
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:20 PM
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Not that she told him, he's incapable of arranging a threesome with the scarcity that he has for her.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:59 PM
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Did y'all not read what I wrote? lmao
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:23 PM
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Haha, now I really wanna know.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:16 PM
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He's my brother actually. But what are you talking about?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:12 PM
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Really? Is it the fact that she jerked off to another girl or?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:01 PM
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That's what I got from what you said. I agree, the worst thing that could happen to me as a man, is to come off as a faggot.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:05 PM
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2 months
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:10 PM
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This sole situation would make one see it as if she doesn't have respect for me?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:40 PM
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You wouldn't agree that it's a nexting situation?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:39 PM
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Yeah, we all are.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:31 PM
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How come all marriages are not the same?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 08:09 PM
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Alright, I am just gonna act like I ain't even seen what she removed
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:04 PM
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Well shit, she removed it after I left it on seen
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:58 PM
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Yeah she just removed the message because I left her on seen
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:56 PM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:46 PM
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Jesus
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:00 PM
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What am I supposed to do? lmao
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:11 AM
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I am staying not reactive to all of this. Even when I was with her I kept two in the kitty. And I currently have 3 girls on rotation. But this one just hit me.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:41 PM
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I know this may be overdramatic, but for once I really don't know how to deal with my emotions now.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:38 PM
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To be honest I just talk to any random girl the way I'd talk to any girl. My friend introduced me to an 8/10 and before I got to talk with her, he told me that she's not really like other girls and she's "hard" to deal with and not really sexually open. I just dismissed what he told me and went about what I do with usually and she's as sexual as anyone I have ever met. From the way you asked me your question it's like you're treating girls differently according to what they mean to you, "ltr, pl…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:42 PM
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For example, past experience with a guy, or a big revelation from a chick who I was emotionally invested in telling me that she'd be having sex with girls and she won't count it as cheating(makes you realize that she rationalizes a lot of things as not cheating). But as bad as these are, it made me learn to just have fun with girls and see how fickle they are. And basically now every chick tells me about her kinks because I let them know no matter how "taboo" they think it is, it's their own liv…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:49 PM
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My exact same thoughts.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:11 PM
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Women naturally tell you what really goes in their mind if they feel like you don't judge them. All women who I am with share with me every little detail without me even asking. At first, it really stung me because of some revelations about them. But if you're not too emotionally invested(as you shouldn't be) her opening up to you is always the better choice and you get to know more about them. I remember every time I and a girl are having some kind of deep talk she starts rambling about not jus…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:10 PM
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I have a lot of success with brown/black girls. When it comes to white girls it's not as successful.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:55 PM
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I am currently in an Islamic country, this is all horse shit excuses. A girl I used to fuck once started telling me about my uncle who used to date her, she told me in disgust, it was pathetic how much he "respected" her. She would tell me that they barely held hands and they never did anything sexual. Because he took her "seriously". I wish I never knew these things about him, however, it made me realize whether in a religious or non-religious country female nature is always in place without ex…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:46 PM
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Finding new chick is mostly the better choice, but if a girl is playable why wouldn't he take it? EXs are the easiest girls to get back with especially sexually.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:08 PM
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You asking that makes you the finest simp
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:05 PM
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Why exactly do they not?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:09 AM
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"The amount of over analyzing we do as Men over these dumbass women is fucking unbelievable"
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:42 AM
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That is fucking true
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:00 PM
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ROFL
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:59 PM
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Exactly my dude. See the thing about all of this is that you can literally rationalize how great her body is however you want. Just him posting about this, I could literally rationalize 4 girls that I know just on the top of my head that "look"/feel like her. It's all just a mental masturbation. No girl is perfect or special, this dude is just head over heals for this chick.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:21 AM
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I am not in a similar situation but what you said made me think about something I am currently going through. Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:47 PM
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That is exactly what I was asking about. I know as much as top boy game is great. A girl saying this may indicate that she needs some comfort. And I am willing to give that away for a companonship.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:13 PM
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How do you mean tease her about it?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:49 PM
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I like the conclusion that you came with. Because she really does bring out a lot of her past experiences. One thing I have noticed is that I stopped reading a lot of TRP material and been just practicing that I almost forgot that this is a shit test. A great reminder for me.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:31 PM
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I see. Don't you think that'll make me in a weaker spot though? Allowing something like that to happen, can lead her to think I am not really firm with what I say and stuff like that.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:56 PM
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ROFL
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:55 PM
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I agree with you. I already told her that I wouldn't have something like that. You think just saying it popped in my head again, and letting her know it's okay for her to experiment?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:42 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:44 AM
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Yeah, she's at that age. She's not at fault thinking what she's thinking, rather I am at fault for getting in a relationship.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:44 AM
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Haha, yeah I see it how it is. I will just tell her it's okay to be experimenting now and demote her.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:41 AM
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You know the thing is, after I told her that I do consider it cheating. She said that she never looked at it from my perspective, and now she understands and would never do it. Which made me just question her honesty even more.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:39 AM
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That's a great way to put me in perspective. Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:03 PM
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I guess I am a dumbass.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:58 AM
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I did imply exclusiveness with her. But does that mean I don't get to talk to other girls? The reason I am saying there were no messages that'd make her reaction like that because there really aren't any.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:58 AM
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Yeah. Her mother and father divorced at an early age.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:06 PM
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No it's not pot. Yeah, I will reach out for a professional.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:50 PM
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What you just said is exactly what am going through right now. I see things just as simple as animal wiring and that when it comes down to reality we're all the same people, and I realize it can be toxic to my personal experience. I will definitely check out the video.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 09:04 PM
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"You'll start becoming paranoid of anything a girl does." ​ That actually sums up my last relationship with a girl. I was reading too much between the lines and thought that I knew what she was all about, so I treated the relationship accordingly. Definitely dislike how it ended because I became cold and distant "for no reason" as she had told me. Regardless, I knew that I did something wrong there and then because I actually applied what I had learned here, and if it wasn't for my fuck up, I wo…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 11:56 AM
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The thing about it is that I literally told her not to say any of that shit to me
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:38 PM
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Exactly my question man
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:31 PM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:47 PM
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You know, I just thought about your comment. Do you genuinely believe there is any female worth committing to?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:51 AM
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This is something I am very proud of my father for. Even though we're not the richest where we live, but we live life debt-free with all our needs without excess. His father forced him to make particular choices in life and basically lead his life without taking care of him. He is in constant need of betterment and looks at things from a broader perspective. ​ I am sure he'll live the day I will make him stop tiring himself from work, for I will take great care of my family.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 11:30 PM
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Yeah, Algeria, how'd u guess?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 10:34 PM
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I am not. I am a native Arabic speaker, I speak French too and a bit of English. I spent about 7 months last year in Moscow and loved the place but I was communicating in English only there so it slowed me learning the language. And now that am back to my country, I find it harder to jump right back in especially because I wasted a great chance at learning the language
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 12:55 AM
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Interesting. I am currently learning Russian, it's a bit of a difficult process for me
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 11:53 AM
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I like the information provided in this post, but I don't really believe in the sentiment that people should learn from other people's mistakes. I believe in learning from trying and experiencing. If I haven't been fucked over, the information that I possessed wouldn't be as practical, and I sure as hell wouldn't be able to be natural or improvise by my own.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 06:09 PM
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I appreciate an honest opinion.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 09:46 AM
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I don't understand people who talk about subjects they're not informed about. I lived in Russia, France and Algeria. All of these countries have diffirent type of girls. Nothing is black and white. Algeria is an islamic country, do you know what'd happen if a girl is found to be having sex, and even so regularly? Girls do have sex there and there is no denying that, however definitely most of the poll is sexless regularly. In France they're very open sexually, and in Russia they're as hypergamou…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:13 PM
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Exactly what I meant.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:30 PM
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I am genuinely interested in getting broader perspectives. I pointed out in my post that I don't associate myself with women like these. Some follow TRP because of how it improved their game, in my case I like it because it makes me think.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:59 PM
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Yes I would
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:56 PM
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This just shows that drinking is one of the biggest red flags in a woman. I have made out with a lot of females that are in relationships because they were "tipsy" But really not. I am only one month sober now, and I am going to countinue on being sober.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:53 AM
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If the sarcasm went above my head dismisss what am about to say; I speak 3 languages(Arabic and French fluently, English above average) and currently learning Russian(below average) It's a difficult language for me, is there a way you've been following?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 01:56 PM
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I partly disagree with you. Wether you're in a relationship or not, women will always throw comfort texts now and then. Especially when you're getting inside her pants. So you deal with them accordingly and make her feel "comfortable" By not activating her ASM
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:10 PM
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Isn't this comparing men to women? TRP has taught me that what's mostly wrong with men is that they compare themselves to women and act/react accordingly. Aren't we supposed differentiate between the two genders? We communicate overtly, females covertly. We're rationale, they're emotional... I love the game analogy presented here and I relate to it 100/100 as I spent a lot of time playing video games, however I think the loop here is that you're bringing a perspective that we react the same way …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 12:40 PM
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I'm sayin' that's what this is all about, right? Clothes, bankrolls, and hoes
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 09:37 PM
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I am exactly 5 inches small, not gonna lie I am insecure about it at times
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 08:07 PM
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Haha, can you link me to the small penis post? I have a small pee pee and need reassurance
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 10:51 AM
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Let me first say that following a certain "advice" to get over a certain situation isn't the approach you want to go about. You want to fuck other girls because you have a dick that requires some fucking and sucking. From what I know, this pattern only makes your situation worse, because even if you're fucking multiple bitches you're just doing it to forget about a girl, it may work later on but nothing inherent about you changed, you won't learn anything of this experience. Now that takes me to…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:03 PM
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I have family in Canada. And why can't I work in Canada? I am not going on a tourist visa.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:12 PM
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The most valuable thing I learned from The Red Pill is that if you're out there experiencing with these dynamics and playing the actual game, you don't need planning or beforehand responses to a girl. I used to have a really strong ONEITIS dilemma and wanted to fix it, it took me about six months of reading TRP and nothing changed, just a broader perspective. But once I went out and fucked with girls and saw how easily you can read a bitch, I finally learned my lesson. I still have a lot of shit…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 09:49 AM
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I agree with you 100/100
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:05 AM
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The girl is 22 my friend 26 and I am personally 2 years old
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:05 AM
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Do that, should be interesting
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:49 PM
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I think that's a problem I still go through. I fucked this chick multiple times, had other girls too, but still expect her to act like a girlfriend
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:55 PM
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First off, this ain't a problem in any way. There is no right time for ejaculating, you're the boss, if you came, it sure as hell was on time. The second thing not everybody is like you that's a lie. Each person has a different type of "excitement" the first time. You blow your load fast, someone else doesn't get a boner, I got a boner and lasted a lot, however, couldn't cum, which was very fucking annoying. There are a lot of stuff you could be doing to stop this, but it'll suck up your mental …
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:56 PM
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her saying she slept with her ex is super convenient lie considering your actions. That's exactly what I thought. I highly suspect that she actually slept with her ex that night. Even tho I'd say it's a shit test, OP's story is a solid FR which a lot of people, me included need to be reminded of the experience.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:30 PM
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I used to be very stressed when a girl comes dancing near me. Girls mostly expect you to advance and take the first step. Don't hesitate, just a small choosing signal and go straight to the girl. Grab her hand, and see her reaction, if she rejects you just move on to the next one. I know that looks do matter but it mostly works every time. Don't be like one of those dudes dancing by themselves because they're afraid of approaching. I am all for having fun on your own, but to be afraid of a pussy…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:38 AM
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I like to call it; a sacrifice for the gods. I mostly fuck 5s 6s. A lot of people claim to be fucking 7s 8s 9s regularly but I call bullshit on that. I live in Moscow center, a lot of beautiful girls live around here, you see a lot of 7s, but to say you're fucking them on the daily means your dick and looks game must be flawless. Fuck whoever you want ma nigga, ain't no shame, just wrap that bad boy.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:31 AM
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Ну блядь. Много русских здесь
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:18 AM
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This post resembles a lot of what am going through right now. I have a decision to make which is parting away from all the people I know, including family, friends, and girls I genuinely enjoy. To pursue my life goal. Reading this makes me realize what I wanted to do but never faced. Truly appreciate this.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:09 PM
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because that's what they find attractive in men. They assume we find the same thing attractive. Brilliant way to put it
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 09:44 PM
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What does it say about a man who gets turned on seeing his wife/girlfriend get railed by other men/man?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 02:50 PM
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I agree and disagree with you at the same time. Black women are hard to land if your appearance is weak, however rarely white man approach black, especially beautiful women. So I believe that its about the way you carry yourself and how unphased you're about their presence
/r/askTRP25/06/19 02:26 PM
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Yeah. You know I learned from this experience that social media is really bad for communicating. The girl was all over me when we were texting briefly and meeting more, and once I invested in communicating through social media, shit hit the fan. So from now on I am taking the text for logistics only tip to heart. Because there are so many ways you could fuck up texting
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:31 PM
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Damn, I got hit by the most ridiculous flake excuse. "Oh Gosh..Just woke up." Lmao I really did fuck up with this one
/r/askTRP23/06/19 10:04 AM
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Where can I watch this documentary
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 11:09 AM
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Just gotta wait and see what happens. Once I fucked her, I am totally bouncing.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 10:11 PM
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I actually do have that in mind. Don't you think I cockblocked myself by not escalating? After all I guess tomorrow will show wether she's up for sex or not.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:47 PM
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I agree with what you said. But what would you say about the said date that we're having tomorrow?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:42 PM
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Damn, I felt like I was really in The Matrix movie for a second there. Can you elaborate more?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 12:16 AM
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I can see how can that play out very well. Much appreciated
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:00 PM
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I don't fully understand the "exhibitionist side"
/r/askTRP09/06/19 11:47 AM
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I just read the eulogy post he shared. I don't read a lot on his forums, but what he wrote touched me in a deep sense
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 02:09 PM
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Interesting. I don't think I would have learned the game by myself or developed a sense of awareness about it. Too much programming. I am still on a daily basis struggling with my old self after a year
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:51 PM
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It's a grey area. If you know what you want, and get what you want, paying for dinner/drinks is okay, I can even argue it's another way to assert dominance. But if you're paying for extra shit that you have nothing to do with, and buying gifts, and overly overpaying then I'd rather fuck a hooker.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:39 AM
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At first you can see the story and then, it disappears
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:44 PM
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I partly agree with you. I have been in different clubs like you mentioned in Moscow(it's not legal though here to have sex inside the club, but you can with an agreement from the female) , and seriously women there are the hottest females I have ever seen in my life, and I have seen a lot of them. Victoria secret tier. And I enjoyed every signle moment there. ​ One time I brought a plate with me to this club called Burlesque. You can pay 2000 rubbles(30$) for "free" drinks throughout the entire…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:19 AM
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Yes, she knows that I do.But not specifically 3 women. She knows that I am not exclusive with her. It is a lesson that I learned by stupidly lying
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:32 PM
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I wrote that in such a hurry that I only noticed how vague it is when I saw your comment. So I lied about what I used to work as (value). And not knowing some people that I really knew, because I was trying to get her off my circle.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:20 PM
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I lied about what I used to work as (value), and not knowing some people that I really knew, because I was trying to get her off my circle. ​
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:19 PM
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My grandmother is spanish, so maybe that
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:36 PM
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When people realize that you're a foreigner, the usually tend to ask of where you're from.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:25 PM
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Interesting. I find this theory intruiging. I do agree on what you said, I can't afford to pay give a shit about everyone. I'll definitely read more about "circles of importance". Have a good day
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 10:59 AM
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That put me into perspective. All the people who I am personally friends with never disrespect me, however the disrespect comes from people who "don't matter" aka people who I have no relationship with. I appreciate your response
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:43 PM
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You're right. What do you mean by working on myself though? Getting more confidence?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 04:55 PM
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Hey, so I started reading about TRP about 2 months ago and I find it exceptionally educative. I apply whatever I read on girls that I am in contact with, and I am currently doing well with one of the hottest plates that I have spinning(she was playing the "friends" cards before). However, ever since I started reading about TRP, it took me into a broader perspective which is dealing with everyone in my life and not just women. For example I start noticing small details when talking to guys. Such …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:36 PM
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I always thought that Tumblr is the definition of a life improving tool. Now that you assured me, I'll definitely head there. Thanks acidbath6464
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:27 AM
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I had to go on the old version to pay attention to it
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:04 AM
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