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It's like going to a theme park with her that she already visited 10 times and it's your first time there. Not the same experience as the first for both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:57 AM
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In Europe inmigration has skyrocketed crime. A sign of countries failing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:47 PM
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People are more busy trying to find food
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:30 PM
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For some males the offer and demand ruined their chances. At some point they are willing to accept anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:03 PM
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I should remind you that people usually starve under communism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:56 PM
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Declining population will bring anarchy and war, as basic services get worse and worse, plus less men performing police and military jobs to defend the place and maintain order
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:55 PM
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You should compare moral norms back then and now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:51 PM
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I've heard India is a really good place to visit for western women. If you like being mass raped
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:48 AM
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It could be that western media is so pervasive than even in those countries their society is becoming more like the west. Focusing on hedonism and inmediate rewards rather than the continuity of the society and its values
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:47 AM
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It doesn't matter because the alternative is a country stopping to exist. Then it's anarchy and many less rights than the uptight country
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:39 AM
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The problem is that the price can delete said country. It will be hedonism until the end. And then it's over Not to mention other problems, like increasing crime rates the more the country falls apart
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:37 AM
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Yes, leftists in charge of education and massive enforcement of feminism caused this scenario to occur
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:18 AM
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Problem is, if the 1st world countries collapse due to massive population decline, we will start having 3rd world conditions. Even more if we are bringing people from the 3rd world in big numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:16 AM
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People are mad because these countries will crumble with such hedonism And bringing 3rd worlders in mass will only turn our countries into 3rd world countries, as we are seeing. In the long run things will self correct if the 1st world collapses and it becomes anarchy, or theocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:14 AM
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Contraception + Hedonism + Feminism convincing women that creating a family is the worst fucking choice they could ever make I only wish this was happening to other regions of the world, not the west
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:11 AM
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I don't know why a father wouldn't want to become involved in raising his son to avoid him becoming a loser (in love, relationships and the gym) (at the very least)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:52 AM
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I think it's nigh impossible teaching a safe choice guy to become a risky choice fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:50 AM
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Have a pretty face and clean skin, with no acne etc... Dress well enough, and half the job is done. The social skills barrier will be lower if she's already into you, and you will require less self confidence than if she's totally cold towards you. I've seen guys barely fit and barely putting any effort scoring with hotties that were all over them If that's not your case, becoming athletic at the gym helps a lot. At least it helps not to look like a nerd loser (you can still be an athletic nerd …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:39 AM
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I got a gf for a month and a half despite being kinda autistic myself, and it was imitating what extroverted guys do. Still it was exhausting and I felt disgusted with myself for being so fake The relationship was doomed anyways, but for some time I managed to still be loved despite of not putting effort to fake anymore. But she was visibly bored to death sometimes. And the spark was lost eventually So pro tip: DON'T be yourself. And deal with the anxiety of being discovered, plus the constant e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:33 AM
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The problem is always unattractive men objectifying them. Or the possibility that it happens It's never hot attractive men making them sex objects
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:07 AM
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The classic "it's doomsday, we cannot get out and we are going to die anyways"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:05 AM
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It all depends on how good sex we are having. If the answer is none, then we have a problem Otherwise, I would not only allow her to watch porn, but also if she had a hot female girlfriend she wanted to bang, I would allow it (not men though)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:01 AM
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Everyone is bad at taking the initiative. There's lots of risk involved However, women usually can play passively and still get partners
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:54 PM
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The Risky choice, because I can always revert to the safe choice. Unless I were a different person and I were forced to remain risky. In which case I probably would, since it's no obstacle to still having children and having lots of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:51 PM
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I don't want a nightmare of a relationship, so 1 That said, I still would try to make her happy as much as I could. So probably that's the reason I'll never find 1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:19 AM
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I was the kinda aspergy outcast in school and highschool. Worst time of my life. It wasn't worth it the few chances of awaking attraction in some girls for acting against the rules Also, I probably should say that it's easier to be interesting to girls with lack of experience. The others are either looking for real chads or providers. No regular men or weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:51 AM
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Leadership > Looks + Neurotypical > Very good looks and goofiness > Normal and shy > Ugly I leave rich outside of this because gold-digging is not attraction but transaction. Just like luxurious prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:50 PM
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You don't seem to know how cruel people can be. Not to mention other males trying to get into her pants
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:38 PM
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I don't know what you mean by changing who you are In order to have that first girlfriend and two other dates afterwards, I had to mimic a personality different to my real own It was exhausting and disgusting (because I understood that nobody loved me for who I am) However, while that first girlfriend still liked me, and I dropped the mask, I felt relieved. Briefly, because eventually everything went to shit. We weren't very good to eachother to be honest Still, I felt an inmense and impossible …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:01 PM
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Certain OF girl proved she could have sex with 100 men with no consequence. They were tears of joy, and certainly there wasn't any damage to her psyche
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:21 PM
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If she leaves her current line of work and we live where nobody can tell who she is, then yes She looks like she needs someone supporting her low self-steem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:05 PM
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Provided she's 5/10 , personality can make her much more attractive if she acts feminine, happy and cute
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:02 PM
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I was very insecure about my attractiveness, and girls my age seemed disgusted by me. Older women were much warmer and affectionate No need saying I never was a Chad Also, two of the best experiences I had that I remember were with women 10 or 20 years older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:53 PM
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Who could have thought such laws exist in the most gynocentric state?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:28 AM
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Same, it happened to me when I got my first and only girlfriend at 24 I felt normal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:23 AM
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Young men also prefer milfs Ironically, many women who complain that men only want younger girls don't like to play the "mommy" role for these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:20 AM
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She could be a waitress or whatever job Or even a hpusewife if she's dedicated and honest to that job
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:53 PM
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Why going to such extent when candidates to receive the RP always appear naturally in numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:03 AM
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Looks and social status in the social groups she's in You don't have to worry about [current popular actor], you should worry about the talkative guy that is the social center of her group
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:21 AM
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She's an adult. Deal with it That should be the logic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:44 PM
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It depends on me actually believing that AI has some kind of real sentience, or not Although being very hard to tell, if the behaviour is very very very human, would make me throw caution to the wind at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:41 PM
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I guess it depends on which group of men you are If you are out of women's radar, most likely you won't receive bad interactions from them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:30 PM
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Too much porn. That's why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:24 PM
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And lots of negative reinforcement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:13 PM
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My mother with borderline disorder ruined me, my father is incompetent at life, and I live in a country with zero opportunities for long term unemployed people (also I finished my studies when the 2008 economy collapsed) So, yeah, my life is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:13 PM
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And the water is dry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:41 PM
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Women love chads who incidentally are nerdy too. Very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:18 PM
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But then the problem is those who being their authentical themselves look apathetic, nerdy or weird Those are being told to fake it till they make it. And now it seems that faking it is never an option My opinion is that they are implicitly being discarded, as a faulty genetic line, but they aren't being told that straight forward. They are getting told not to act in any way that could end their current situation in a positive light for themselves So, to be honest, if you are like that, keep fak…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:22 AM
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For this society? Never
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:19 AM
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Those telling hard truths are simply reacting to the current dating scene. They might be bullies but I'm sure they want to prevent others from committing the same mistakes as themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:17 AM
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She is responsible for the situation, and always had the opportunity to stop They are debasing themselves too for low quality sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:15 AM
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Still they act on the demand side of thr supply/demand ratio of this market Take a more extreme example. The USSR after the 2WW. Very hot women had to compete over very mediocre men, since so many died
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:23 AM
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But at the end of the day even nerds try to establish contact with girls. Another issue is that they are gatekeeped hard, since dating trends work against them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:20 AM
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Also women are trend chasers. Social media has been engineered in the last 10 years to destroy our society through them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:03 PM
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Women could change their approach if competition increases. For instance, that passport bros were far more common and succesful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:02 PM
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5, 6 and how you deal with social groups in person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:59 PM
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I don't even get what's the point or reasoning behind your post. What the hell is the "Women are wonderful" concept? And I don't know about red pillers, but anti-woke certainly didn't follow the "women are wonderful" bias
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:16 PM
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I still can't understand that men and women love differently For us, love is something directly related to the persona, her physical beauty, her personality, her past... But it seems that women also take into the ecuation your money, social relationships, status among your peers, career.... things that to me sound external and unrelated to the person at all If I had a Ferrari, why does that matter to a woman? At best it's just the cold reality that I have money, but again, I'm NOT the money I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:31 PM
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I should begin talking briefly about my previous date (the first was my first girlfriend for a month and a half, then two hookups with two different girls, and the second was the one that accused me) This chubby girl at my class that was quite sexually liberated. By the time I managed to kiss her she didn't object to me touching her thighs and even her pussy. We almost had sex at her home, and I still don't know why after we were naked in bed and about to do it she simply stopped. Perhaps she no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:25 PM
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Training conversation skills for asperger-like dudes is almost hell. Like teaching a blind man to dodge bullets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:10 AM
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Mostly platonic teen love for a month and a half
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:56 AM
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I'm indifferent and I get nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:56 AM
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I couldn't care less what women think about my job or the money I earn I would care if it affords me a comfortable life, and the job is decent enough I hope to be in a LTR with a good employment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:15 PM
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My daily experience They never cared about garbage collection as long as the truck appears
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:26 AM
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Women never cared that much about logistics and resources of any other industrial scale operation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:54 AM
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Anyway, a DNA test can be made without the mother knowing, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:50 AM
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It's usually the cheaters, the would-be cheaters, the siblings and/or friends of cheaters the ones that protest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:43 AM
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One way or the other, if the country collapses due to population decline and/or importing savages to patch the problem, women's rights will be affected. In the end, that will affect birth rates aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:59 AM
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To sum up. People with conflicted lives look for an exit to their current situation. Whatever that exit is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:40 AM
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If they give birth to children and take care of them, we could avoid the population collapse without importing criminals and savages
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:30 AM
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And you spend soul coins that were given to you at birth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:20 AM
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My experienve at the job market
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:19 AM
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Also, health issues these days due to years of high stress (and aging)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:17 AM
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My experience Kinda asperger my whole life Weirdo at school, bullied, and eventually kinda anti-social Some opportunities I missed at highschool due to lack of knowledge about dating and paranoia about being lured to more bullying (one girl kinda hot pressed her boobs against my back, but I did nothing) Fast forward to my 20s Learned to be more normal. But no girl liked me being normal and nerdy Learned PUA theory and created a fake personality. I got one girlfriend and two dates. The second one…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:15 AM
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Also I discovered that being myself never attracted girls since highschool ended
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:25 AM
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The only things I know about dates and relationships are You are supposed to know what women "truly" want/need without them telling you Negotiation, logical reasoning and taking away the element of surprise ruins the mood A relationship where everything goes smoothly without issues causes them distress due to lack of emotional stimuli So, no wonder why men don't communicate. Also our side being the one having problems finding opportunities to date and needing to perform perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:23 AM
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Born in the 88, but I barely participate Still, I consider myself quite inexperienced in dating, although I had a gf and two dates when I was 24 - 25 Still, RP is basically the continuation of PUA mentorship that worked for me back in the day Being yourself and waiting for The One never worked for me. And it was very soulbreaking that only becoming an actor with a fake personality works for dating in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:13 AM
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I met a feminist hot girl and she was as conventional as you could expect, daddy issues included And she went after the conventionally hot guy, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:07 AM
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And less effective the more the political pendulum swings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:20 AM
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Basically RP and manosphere I pretty much doubt there will be any group that includes BP or feminism that will address the most controversial concerns And I've seen many women considering this rather unstable social environment as an opportunity they should profit to the limit RP and conservatists are gaining pick me female influencers and users in any case
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:18 AM
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Despite my many faults, I very rarely offer my material resources to women unless I'm 90% certain they love me I might simp in other ways, but if I have to spend money the answer is no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:43 AM
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Good guys should refrain from putting more effort into society and letting the world rot Let's see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:41 AM
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I've already checked your entire original post. You can't accuse someone of not paying attention Another thing is that I wanted to point at what ypu said here, which sounded hypocritical given it's RP tier advice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 AM
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Caution there. It sounds like an advice for men on how to treat women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:21 PM
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Would you reject him based on his unskill at sex, or the general smoothness to approach women? Because being a virgin can easily be solved with sex workers. You just need to say they were ONS, and only mentioning like 5 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:43 AM
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Also, if you aren't attractive enough and/or can't improve your smoothness when talking to them, you are a lost cause either way I'd say attractiveness have an easier fix than personality, which is more nebulous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:38 AM
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What exactly made him better in bed? Taking longer to cum? Lasting longer exercising? (moving himself) Knowing your weak spots? Emotional connection? Situational kinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:35 AM
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Are they shaming length or girth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:30 AM
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Men are too busy being worried about their gfs cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:29 AM
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The only ones who can get it just asking for it are probably 9 or 10's Everyone else has to complete these absurd rites. Besides, we would also want to find something extra in her for a longer relationship In fact (x2), most men (not 9's or 10's) would want a longer relationship because they can skip being single and hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:10 PM
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A normal man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:06 PM
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If 18yo are pedo material, then menopausal women are just teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:52 AM
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Talking points? Nothing, probably. But people that find each other hot end fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:51 AM
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It depends. Having a young mind is important too This is more of a spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:22 AM
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20 - 30, or 35 at worst Not gonna lie, 18 works too, but it's going to be difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:00 PM
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The passive element, the one that receives attention and has the biggest potential of choosing another option, is the one that has to put less effort Usually, women are the ones that have more options, but when it's the opposite, there are women debasing themselves like you wouldn't believe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:59 PM
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Not gonna lie. My biggest issue is knowing when and how to defend my image in public situations. The lack of respect from others is something that keeps escalating little by little, if you allow it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:56 PM
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After 40, unless you are a teenager that wants the MILF fetish I'm nearly under 40 and I want fresh meat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:54 PM
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I know how that shitty argument works. Only if the guy is hot is wanted attention They are dehumanizing men. Imagine that I kick out women from a certain place, except the hot ones
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:29 AM
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Asking heterosexual men to equalize being desidered by gay men to heterosexual women being desired by virtually every heterosexual men Bad faith comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:30 AM
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Perhaps, and yet the blue pill advice rarely if ever gives them results. RP advice is reliable to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:20 AM
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Man, America is really fucked up Glad we don't have those here yet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:43 PM
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Feminism will never provide a better system for loser men Women already have proven what they choose when they have infinite options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:16 PM
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You are not allowed because you don't fight back for that right. Me neither, but I try
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:11 AM
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Simply join a course or any activity with women. You have your opening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:08 AM
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I haven't been using them for 15 years or more Yes, they were already superficial in the past, and I don't look like the grunted alpha man that seems to succeed in them I'm following my own path elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:07 AM
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Speak more with women Trying not to take them too seriously Daring to be a bit inappropiate in a fun way (or so I think) Trying to make physical contact something casual, instead of creating a barrier of air around her than I can't ever cross Trying to be invested in their topics of conversation My biggest fail so far is not being able to mantain my frame of self-respect when somebody treats me like a child. Also not being excitingly fun. And much less looking hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:59 AM
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Women get much more protection from the welfare state. Even disparity of laws in their favor. Like the issue of divorces in the US No, you cannot pretend that population isn't connected to the economy, or even the job market. People not doing basic stuff like enacting the law or protecting against foreign threats means trouble ahead But yeah, blame the rich alone. As if that ever helped communist states
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:54 PM
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I don't know how people like you can change, because I'm trapped in those poor social skills and I cannot change no matter how much I want to change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:50 PM
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Yeah, in hypergamous relationships is a must
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:18 AM
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Adopting doesn't pass your genes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:11 AM
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In the long term, population decline will make welfare states become unstable or collapse. Thus ending the benefits modern women enjoy It's like climate change. As long as it doesn't burst in my generation, I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:46 AM
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It doesn't seem to work if population is collapsing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:30 AM
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Men don't care about women's education level or earnings. They care about being filtered by hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:12 AM
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For the time being There's no warranty it will be always the case if society collapses through lack of replenishment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:54 AM
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There's a big pool of votes for whom addresses their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:52 AM
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Only western societies. Classic dictatorships will do fine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:29 AM
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Kids aren't a luxury. Only in decadent societies that will disappear through lack of births
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:25 AM
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Society will crumble if badly planned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:14 AM
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Because you discover how women really are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:07 AM
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No, but as long as she is a good person and prioritizes real relationship before loyalty to the ideology, I'm fine with it On the other hand, some people, probably women too, dislike that I'm too flexible with my beliefs and tolerances
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:12 PM
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Your reward is getting erased from the genetic pool Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:00 PM
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I always recommend hitting the gym Being visibly strong helps a bit, and strength is useful in many other aspects of life Plus exercise is good for health
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:04 AM
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I think only some fathers who had lots of casual sex can lead by the example Attitude and rizz cannot be taught otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:02 AM
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I think eugenics is forbidden
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:56 AM
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Birth control + Loosening of morals + Dopamine addiction and tolerance (thrill seeking) + Lack of real perils (in 1st world countries)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:13 PM
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Even if I could I would not offer LTR straight away, only casual and we'll see how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:42 PM
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Very attractive men don't have to follow rules
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:39 PM
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You haven't ever stepped into the real dangerous places of the world Your mental landscape is your city and social media
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:37 PM
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Cheerful and spicy. And hot And petite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:30 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:50 PM
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In other words, your expectations are your safety plan It can't happen. I believe...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:24 PM
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Because the natural order isn't fair, and men oppresed women because they can. For thousands of years The only thing that changed is that men granted rights to women on their own good will. Also creating a safe world for them too. Women these days took all of this, and got greedy, also thinking these rights cannot be revoked if they piss men off enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:23 PM
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Yeah, it feels really unfair that some people have so many sex opportunities of any kind, and extreme sessions too, while others rarely get a piece of vanilla at a high cost
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:14 PM
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Very worst case scenario: men stop granting women rights A hateful future is catastrophic for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:17 PM
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The core idea is that hating men eventually leads to those rights being taken away Keep a pragmatic mind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:14 PM
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I would say I want casual because I can't tell in advance if someone is fit for LTR Besides, I'm not hot so I never get interactions. Sue the fuck boys, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:33 AM
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Seeing the answers, and women not getting the point of OP's post, I see a schism between sexes the size of the Grand Canyon Either we help eachother, or it will be selfishness for all. Men actually were too generous, but it's never enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:50 AM
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I disagree. Men can accept the downsides of a woman they used to worship, as long as she corresponded the attention and was good to them Not the fuck boys, but I want to believe you know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:16 PM
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I can't tell how many men suspect cheating, but I can say that most of manosphere followers are easily triggered There's a baseline of reason. Women cheating have far less consequences these days, and they are having far more casual sex in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:58 AM
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That, unless you have awakened her emotions, she will approach dating with the same mindset as someone who buys a car And you can expect the relationship to be tgat cold at the core
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:55 PM
1

Some men also chose sexlessness because when they discovered the harsh truth of what women like, it shook them to the core. It disgusted them (also probably men that thought about relationship like a Disney movie)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:02 AM
2

Well, you can be BP if you are a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:54 AM
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I get what you say Doing something cringeworthy because autism, lowers your score in her eyes permanently by a certain amount. Do it several times and you are out Also autism makes more difficult to vibe with her and create "fun" situations (I don't mean sex, I mean making her emotions race)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:52 AM
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Probably if men had so many opportunities as women, they would act carelessly about dating anyone or just flirting everybody. Perhaps ask the top 10 - 15% of men to see if that's the case
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:25 PM
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So men lose their sanity by the point they realize they should have been doing the opposite Some cannot change the labels in their heads that were placed there most of their lifes Just a glipse of the real reason of why good girls get hot at the "despicable" opposite of them, and they just snap Others who know this but cannot improve themselves to be stronger than other men, get depressed until they refuse hoping to live
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:12 AM
2

Basically insecure non-dominant men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:08 AM
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If a woman had a sex life of 2 average looking guys and one hot guy she wouldn't be promiscuous and at the same time she would have reasonable standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:22 AM
1

I have my doubts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:12 AM
1

I barely have experience, and I need more. Simple as that Also I would want to have children, and I don't have that many years ahead, so the other option is open if I trust her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:13 PM
1

I don't ignore 5/10 and above Some 4/10 could even pass if their charisma is gold
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:11 PM
1

I still refuse using apps that give my group a 0% chance. Real life allows other skills at first impression
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:00 PM
3

Why bother? If you are unattractive she will already show zero interest in you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:04 PM
1

My most romantic ideal is that the girl truly enjoys whatever romantic plan or even move I do for her I don't want her to feel forced to enjoy it, but also I don't want to feel like an unlovable fool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:48 AM
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Are you really hot? If not, reject apps. Go for real life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:46 AM
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They want excitement and wild sex. But that doesn't often comes paired with being a responsible man In fact, most of the responsible ones aren't wild at sex (also because they seriously lack in practise for obvious reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:33 AM
2

I don't live in your country. Here it's 10%, and it has been even worse most of my life. Not to mention how dangerous the streets are these days in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:18 PM
2

I know people with girlfriends that can't get a job, own their own house or start their own family Population is declining at an alarming rate One has to be an extreme leftist not to see the problems happening for lots of people. Many don't give a shit about patriarchy or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:05 PM
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I lust for some class mates of mine. Some of them are quite mid overall. Their attitude and kindness do work wonders for their appeal In fact, these days, as long as they reach the 5/10 I ask, I'd rather them being good persons and treat me nicely. I've seen way too many attractive women that are cold hearted monsters inside
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:00 PM
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Protip: Women are still open for dating even if they have a partner. You will learn this by experience They are always open for the possibility of a replacement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:03 PM
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It means she wants that Chad becomes more romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:40 PM
1

Not exactly. The few civilian girlfriends I had, provided me awful sex experiences. The first one being great at the platonic phase of love, but awful at sex, and delayed it as much as she could. By far my best ones were with sex workers. I had a very good relationship with two of them that also resulted in great sex, unlike most of the others. At 22yo or so I decided that enough was enough, and got rid of my virginity with sex workers for the first time. I wish it would have been different, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:37 PM
1

Women have a dominant masculine partner first, with optional tenderness as a secondary goal Men are much more basic than that. I've known men going to have lunch at the same restaurant, asking the same dish, for years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:28 PM
1

Patriarchy doesn't exist beyond the major orthodox christian churches (if anything, Rome too)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:25 PM
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I don't think most men want anything else on a woman besides: being average looking (at worst), decent person, showing him kindness and tenderness (also sex too)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:23 PM
2

It sounds like the male - female ratio in society should be 40/60 for things to be more or less balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:31 PM
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Quick note: passive aggressive men choose to do so because they are unfit for more conventional aggressiveness. It's actually painful for them, but the only tool they have Nobody really wants to be playing the passive or passive-aggressive roles if one has another option
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:50 PM
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It's not they critize un-manly men, it's just they are horny and break the rules for dominant men (whether good or evil) Time will tell how most men will react once this become common knowledge and parents educate their children on what women really want, instead of what they should want I anticipate a more violent world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:29 PM
1

Then it's a lose-lose scenario. Or mediocre at the very best with option 1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah. Sex workers should have the right to have paid leave once a year, and if they get sick. And retirement Of course, they would need to pay taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:04 PM
3

Modern feminism is just subversive deep state propaganda. Not a real accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:06 AM
1

Option 1, provided sex is great too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:05 AM
8

Today, on facts pulled out of my ass...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:37 AM
1

Women hate competition They don't feel jealous of girls nobody wants
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:34 AM
1

As far as I know, you can go to trial in Spain to revoke it. With an official DNA test of course
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:18 AM
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In other countries the certificate can be revoked if it isn't yours
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:56 AM
1

I don't care about how much she earns Half of the common expenses for each one, and done
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:10 PM
1

Well, women avoid men with loser reputation I know by experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:20 PM
1

A stupid obsession given that paternity tests exist. And they are cheap and easy to hide from her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:10 AM
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It's nothing new. Probably there are several companies selling those kits for a few hundred Two tubes for samples with preservation liquid Just brushing the inside of the mouth with a cotton stick Each sample in a separate tube (kid and adult) Send to the lab, wait for results (probably even online)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:42 PM
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Personally I would always run a DNA test on my own between the child and me. She doesn't need to know. Also, it's affordable, accurate and painless. You only need to rub a cotton stick on the inside of the mouth to get some DNA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:53 PM
6

I don't think the mother would consider allowing him to see the child if he doesn't pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:49 PM
5

I've heard is no more expensive than 100 or 200 euros anyway. The test I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:47 PM
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Lucky us that affordable DNA tests exist today, and they can easily be used without the consent or knowing of the mother. Also painlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:44 PM
2

Not a native english speaker, so I maybe I understood it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:45 AM
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I had a "friend" (not really a friend, just a close work colleague) who was really fat (also disabled and needed a crutch). And yet he had exceptional social skills, and the need to mingle with every social group. Also an extraordinary sense of humor He managed to bed another girl who worked with us, sometime when she took a break from her relationship to "find herself" or something like that. The usual, you know. She returned to the relationship time later to marry the other guy Anyway, my "fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:48 AM
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If I ever get a girlfriend, remind me to never allow her to ban me from accessing porn or playing sexy characters in videogames Nah, I won't bother you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:44 AM
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Main reason of why they treat eachother like shit most other times. Mostly if one of them is really beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:43 AM
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1 - You are already shaming those males, although probably for other reasons. No change, really 2 - Same thing 3 - Ban capitalism. It will work this time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:41 AM
2

Nobody ever competed about me, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:35 AM
1

50% your body, 50% your social ability to not being a doormat (well, and also being interesting. Not just rough)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:32 AM
1

I think people care more about punishing those serial killers with no access to women, rather than caring about women. Those men are still competition (I'm not saying that we should protect women even more from their mistakes) (Not less either. Just making sure the monopoly of violence of the State reigns above criminals)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:28 AM
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Do you mean trading places but becoming a woman? Or trading places and remaining a man, but somehow harassed by nymphos or something? I guess it would be difficult to manage getting proposals from different people at the same time. How to deal with the ones that I don't like? How to deal with the ones I like but can't stand eachother? How to deal with the ones that don't accept rejection just like that? In general I think it would benefit me, but it would be a headache. Probably so bothersome th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:26 AM
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I can accept a chubby if she has good sense of humor and makes me feel desired Proportional boobs are also important too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:18 AM
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0 / 3 I'm impressed with myself. That's almost like a flawless defeat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:15 AM
1

I only find logic in contracts that deal with the material belongings of each person. Not menial tasks or the times we have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:13 AM
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Remember that sexual desire is irrational and cannot be forced At best you can convince people to have sex with you, but they won't enjoy it And for sure I don't enjoy having sex with someone that finds me disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:11 AM
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Thanks a lot It would have helped adding a, perhaps, 3b option about Age. Because the patterns change a lot based on the age of the participants. Girls looking for sugar daddies. Boys looking for sugar mommies. People of the same age in their late 30's. Or early in their 20's....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:05 AM
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