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Do you think "anti-fa" is right to punch "nazis"? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 07:27 AM
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Is it my fault I get beaten up or the fault of the "violent" bikers If the bikers beat you up they are indeed violent people. No sarcastic quotations needed. And yes, that would be the fault of the bikers, absolutely. You're so quick to make sure the man walking into a bar bears responsibility for his actions, yet paradoxically remove all responsibility from the people actually committing the violence. The bikers are perfectly able to make decisions for themselves, they're not animals who are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:12 AM
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That's extremely hard to believe. Even a woman way below his league would be turned off by a frank request for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 08:40 PM
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Depends. Are you a man who is attracted only to women and passing transwoman? You're definitely straight. You could be attracted to Lola Bunny too and no one would accuse you of being into beastiality. That's because the Lola's human, female characteristics are fundamentally what attracts you to her, not her ears. People are thinking way too much about porn categories here, where transwomen are specifically fetishized for being different from cis women. And in that case, yeah, you're probably so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:57 PM
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I'm trying to say that each sex has their own pros and cons to deal with. There's no counter-argument to that statement because literally everyone would agree with that. It's meaningless. I'm not side stepping anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:57 AM
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rhetoric and hyperbole are common communicative devices on that forum. Again I understand that, and TRP should be criticized for that. Just like TRPers would similarly criticize SRS for using language such as "all men should die" for the same rhetorical purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:09 PM
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I don't disagree with you, it's just a pointless thing to bring up. Who can be an impartial, omniscient judge about which political candidate is the best for X country? No one can, that shouldn't preclude us from arguing about it because: a) We enjoy it b) Perhaps we can influence someone else's worldview or have our's influenced c) There are real world consequences based on the candidate most people choose. Like right now in this gender debate, many institutions have decided that women do in fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:05 PM
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Well that's kinda the point of this place, we can argue about these things. And just because this we always think the other side has it better. might be true, doesn't mean one side isn't wrong (and we can argue about that, yay)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:43 PM
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O
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:41 PM
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Well yes I agree that the whole post was just emotional gasoline for other people in the sub, but that's exactly why it should be criticized too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:27 PM
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Meh, fashion for women is so much more varied and allow you to be more creative and expressive. You also have the option of dressing like a lot like a man for that same practical utility we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:25 PM
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Under that line of reasoning you have no idea about the inner workings of women's lives either. Why argue about this at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:21 PM
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I feel like Americans have a really strange idea of what uncircumcised dicks look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:22 AM
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I think they care what men think. I think they care what women think too though, so basically everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:16 PM
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I'm in my third year. I don't really understand the concept of a solvable math problem that can't be programmed into a computer. Like of course a person has to solve it first, but then it's just a matter of instructing the computer to use the exact same steps you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:27 AM
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You don't use programs to model your theories and data? I'm actually doing a double major in CS and Math right now, a lot of my professors are basically amateur programmers on the side to do their research.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:06 AM
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Fair enough. I always assumed there'd be lots of overlap between computer science and math, so that's very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:57 AM
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> near gender parity > 43% what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:50 AM
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A degree in electrical engineering is like the best possible degree to get into the modern tech boom...I'm really curious where you heard that, it sounds ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:46 AM
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Fantastic post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:44 AM
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There's more crime and lower incomes in rural areas, if that's what you mean. The income gap isn't massive, but incomes in urban areas tend to be pulled down by recent immigrants who have the kind of upward mobility rural Canadians don't. I'm not sure what you mean by the white community. Rural communities are mostly white or native. Native communities (especially in the north) have it the worst when it comes to teenage pregnancy. There's still class differences in cities, so it's not a proxy fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:38 AM
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Well I stand corrected then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:24 AM
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http://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2015/11/13/455883665/cdc-more-women-than-men-are-obese-in-america-and-gap-is-widening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:52 AM
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Hey our Canadian accents aren't sexy but they're intelligible to basically everyone who speaks English. Meanwhile in England the BBC accent seems to be a myth, nearly everyone sounds like they need Netflix subtitles underneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:51 AM
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Well they're not really paying attention to the fat guys, because they're not interested in them. If they're not fat, all they see is a disturbing proportion of fat women. But in reality the SMP is distorted by fat women because there are more of them. http://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2015/11/13/455883665/cdc-more-women-than-men-are-obese-in-america-and-gap-is-widening And then there's this completely irrational movement that seems to be growing, that suggests fatness is hereditary/unchangeab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:41 AM
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The number of overweight young women is higher than it is for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 07:16 AM
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If I was re-born in Canada specifically it would be as a white woman for sure. Being an ugly woman would be worse than my current situation but I'd take my chances and roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:51 PM
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I like the idea of a 'financial abortion' that gets bandied around reddit. As long as it's done through some legal process early in the pregnancy, after which you lose your right to do it. Because it would incentivize women not to keep the baby, in cases where the father doesn't want it. People are always talking about how child support is necessary for the wellbeing of the kid, without considering that it's child support that allows that kid to be placed in such a situation in the first place. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:38 PM
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Apathy isn't any more virtuous than hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:34 PM
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Yeah you have a point. Juries aren't all-male even if judges are likely to be men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:33 PM
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Boys start getting horny sometime between 11 and 13. They can't exactly fuck girls at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:21 PM
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but mainly looks and intelligence Everyone would do that. I think intelligence and looks would need to be on opposite ends of a scale to be balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:07 PM
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People are allowed to focus on different things at once. Why would you ever complain about the lives of men in the west, when men in poor countries are doing back breaking labour for 12 hours a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:06 PM
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You'd have to learn a new language, adapt to a new culture, deal with racism. Immigration is a financial investment you might not even be able to make if you can't work (let alone to freedom to apply). If you were in a war torn country like Syria you might not even be able to physically get out of the country. No way your life would be better than a western born man. A white woman, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:04 PM
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I think if there is no success the assessment is inaccurate Well here we just disagree, because I don't think success has any bearing whatsoever with the assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 08:11 AM
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Well sure, but I don't think success with the opposite gender determines that. I honestly don't have any trouble believing internet stories about average looking guys having trouble with average looking women. Because I see it all the time irl too. Anyway, short of people providing their pictures, we can't do anything but take people at their word (or not) about their self-described attractiveness. And you're going to have attractiveness brought up in discussions about dating. So I don't see any…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 08:03 AM
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That's a natural result of the power imbalance between men and women in dating. Men have to be the ones to ask a woman out, and she gets to respond (a more powerful position) with a yes or no. The man has implicitly said that he wants the date to be a success by taking the first step and the women gets to be just a participant and judge. You have a good point though, I should adopt that mindset more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 07:28 AM
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"I'm a 6 but only 2s are interested in me!" Then you're not a 6 But that can happen though. If as a man you're not confident or whatever but you're still physically a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 07:24 AM
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Like I said men don't have a collective consciousness. That's not how it works. Do girls in school who gossip and bully other girls benefit women? Do inner city young black men shoot other young black men to benefit their class? What you're saying doesn't make any sense, because the world isn't rational. The men in power and those who vote for them grow up internalizing assumptions about male criminality and putting that into action. I agree, if women were in power, maybe prison sentences would …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:45 AM
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It's not women's fault I never said it was. It's simply an aspect of life where men have it harder. As are most aspects of life, I'd argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:29 AM
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That's not really an industry that every attractive women can take advantage of. It would get too crowded. Like sure, those streamers are getting paid simply for being pretty- but it's such a small subset it's not worth considering overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:19 AM
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Context matters! They are both no longer true. Fair enough Women get custody of the children after a divorce, so the men get a raise after a divorce. Getting custody of your children absolutely outweighs that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:16 AM
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Who votes for harsher prison sentences? MEN. How does this change the fact that men as a group face a disadvantage due to this? It doesn't. We don't have a collective consciousness that is looking out for our interests as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:14 AM
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That's very relevant to the question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:08 AM
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I don't think MGTOW will ever have any kind of importance or impact on this side of the Pacific Ocean. Japan's a whole different society that has much more pressure on men than North America does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:06 AM
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Those music videos with sexy women, teenage girls being told to have anal sex These are really, really, stupid examples to show how men are supposedly favoured. Can you name some actual examples? Meanwhile men in the US get much higher prison sentences for the same crimes as a woman. This is never really brought up by feminists in gender discussions. (Despite feminists claiming they are enough for men's rights as well). But about 1% of the adult population in the US is in prison right now- that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:05 AM
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Women have always been forced to sacrifice their lives to take care of their husbands' lives This isn't the case anymore. Women who do choose to stay home nowadays have much easier lives than their working husbands, thanks to technological advancements that make housework easy. Unless they have like 6 kids that is. Men are not the ones who lose in divorce. Well of course women who are living off their husband's paychecks would have lower incomes after a divorce. That doesn't change anything abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 05:57 AM
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Calm and thoughtful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 08:32 PM
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"We all have biases and use motivated reasoning to dismiss ideas that run counter to our internal values." Agreed, not much to say here "I strongly support trying to understand how and why people think the way they do." Yes "Being emotionally unengaged helps us better reason about the facts." Unless you're doing a debate for a school project or something, I don't understand how you can argue about something while being emotionless about it's subject matter. What impulse is there to argue about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 08:20 PM
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How is that a position of strength then? I'm just confused as to what you are doing differently than all these other erroneous methods of revealing vulnerabilities. Do you state your flaws matter-of-factly and emotionlessly? I seriously don't understand how you can do this from a 'position of strength'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 08:06 PM
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"Vulnerability from a position of strength" doesn't sound like vulnerability at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:08 PM
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Michelle Obama was never hot but she's definitely above average for her age. Melania just looks strange. Like an alien with those beady eyes and the unnaturally smooth, likely-pumped-with-botox face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:10 AM
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Trump got cucked by Trudeau Obama didn't get cucked by Trudeau #nuffsaid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:02 AM
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Isn't that the case for literally all beta bux as well then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:58 AM
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None of those immigrants share an opinion on societal norms even slightly related to those we have I'm literally a non-western immigrant and I find this laughable. We're no less equipped to adapt and thrive in Canada than the Italians and Swedes and what have you of yesteryear. I mean, feel free to believe otherwise, I don't really want to argue about this. Just know it's factually an extreme, white supremacist political opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 02:27 PM
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if women wanted assholes they could go on r/Incels and date there I can guarantee you that 99% of incels posters are genuinely nice people irl, their ugly thoughts and words saved solely for the internet. This "nice guys are the real assholes" meme is such a poor one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:46 PM
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I guess it's because the concept of a man who is an asshole to most of the world, and only sometimes to her, makes her feel special? It helps that assholes might share many classically attractive traits like being confident and aggressive. And (like you stated yourself in the OP), the idea of changing them gives them a sense of purpose, feeding their egos. It seems strange to us as men because being kind, gentle, etc.. are some of the most attractive traits in a woman. But that's almost entirely…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:44 PM
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and then stayed as part of the religion even as it moved out of the desert. Exactly. It's an event that just happened. There's no significance to it outside of that. There's no simulated universe you can run where this is guaranteed to happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:32 PM
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Yes, sometimes there isn't some society serving rational for all the things people do and their social norms. How in the world is that anti-intellectual? Why is unleavened bread so important in the Christian world? It's just some weird ass tradition from the desert. We don't have to ascribe some cosmic significance to it. Or tie it into some pop evo-psych, like TRP would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 07:26 AM
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I have but only on the internet or on some form of media, never irl. Of course I'm in my 20s so that colours my perspective. I'm sure 40 year old men who do the same get more shit. Still, there's no way it's on the same level as slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:52 AM
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Yeah a ton of people here keep saying that. I have no frame of reference. But it seems like a pretty sad state of affairs if true. I'm just starting to live life at 24. I'd like a serious girlfriend but there's no way I'm marrying that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:51 AM
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There really isn't any rational rhyme nor reason to many of the social developments throughout history. That said I do think the suppression of female sexuality was about social order, creating these family units of worker bees so whoever was at the top could profit. Allowing people to make large families with a relatively simple chain of property inheritance. I think most of us can agree that the west is slowly declining, and many western countries will be gone or almost completely changed with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:49 AM
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I mean you can concoct as many ridiculous analogies as you want. A rich man still benefits from a buyer's market, even if he's not looking at the majority of houses for sale. It's just a reality that women have an easier time in the dating world. I'm a bisexual man- I know exactly how easy it is. The number of old and unattractive guys who hit on me on grindr doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:41 AM
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Any young, healthy, somewhat descent guy can easily get laid. They can, nothing easy about it. Especially for shy or socially anxious guys, of which there are plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:37 AM
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It is an abundance that is nearly useless or completely useless. Abundance works to women's favour even if she doesn't like most of the options. Because there's an unequal balance of power created, and men have to do the more difficult of aspects of dating in the initiation and the chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:30 AM
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I've never seen that happen. I mean sure, if you actively brag about how much you have sex with women, you'll get branded a douchebag. But if you're a man who's pulling lots of women, you'll be venerated by other men and respected by women. I've never seen 'player hating' outside of movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:23 AM
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Seriously what is the issue with a business owner choosing who they want to represent their business? The problem is that those ridiculous, randomized examples you're using won't (and don't historically) represent reality. A certain class of people might be consistently disadvantaged and passed over for jobs. You have to think about it on the macro level. Black Americans for example already have a very hard time finding jobs against equally qualified white applicants. Can you imagine how much ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 02:50 AM
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This actually happened for black slaves they actually invented things and proved themselves despite being spit on by society I don't see what your point is here. That's a terrible way to run society. In that scenario, womens' contributions to the field will be extremely low compared to mens'. It will just be a self-fulfilling cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:39 AM
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If they committed the same crime under similar circumstances, why shouldn't they get the same sentence? Are there any stats that show women have lower rates of recidivism?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:36 AM
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All business everywhere depend on the government for security, regulations, infrastructure...I hate this idea that businesses are this sacred concept that the government can't have any influence over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:31 AM
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People romanticize less time consuming and important things in their lives. I don't think being a stay at home mom is even remotely as difficult as having a career or anything. But I can 100% understand parents, especially new parents, talking non-stop about their kids. I can talk non-stop about a new video game I've been playing...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:26 AM
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Is this supposed to be limited to Americans? A lot of these questions seem very US centric. Like a political question that asks me whether I'm a democrat or republican. Should I answer neither, or put the party that I would vote for if I was in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 05:26 PM
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And only men on the extreme end of "small frame" scale would have trouble looking averagely attractive at low body fat I agree in an objective sense. But unfortunately, women's perception of 'average' attractiveness is skewed. I was saying not being fat is not a guarantee to be hot. Well then I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:59 PM
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How do you explain that men are bigger than women when men have lower body fat percentage than women then? I mean yeah, the exact same thing you've described. Muscles, height and frame. But the differences between two genders are much larger than the differences between any two women. Only women on the extreme end of the "big frame" scale would have trouble looking averagely attractive at low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:34 PM
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I think a discussion about what she's described as in the books is irrelevant- it's fiction afterall and George is free to describe as many unrealistic body types as he wants. imagine a girl her width but normal height with low body fat This just seems like another version of "I'm not fat I'm big boned" to me. The kind of woman you're talking about would be pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:28 PM
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This is Brienne of Tarth's actress. If she were shorter, she'd have a "pretty girl" body-type easily. Of course she isn't shorter and her height lowers her attractiveness quite a bit. But she's also 1.91 m tall (6'2.5). That's a huge difference from the average female height. Meanwhile, men of average height are looked at as short.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:09 PM
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Men have to put in much more effort into being attractive than women do. Putting time into your appearance isn't as difficult as making lots of money, getting game, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:25 PM
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Yes absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:21 PM
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Everyone cares about societal expectations, I don't believe anyone who says otherwise. Unless they're mentally ill or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 09:49 PM
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it's because they feel good from all the positive feed back they are getting from the world when they look pretty, men included. I think that's precisely OP's point. They wear make-up to look good for others to get those benefits, not just for their mirror (as is the common claim).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:00 PM
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Blue Pill is mostly just modern feminism, are you going to tell me feminism doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:49 PM
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average guys can get casual sex too... Not effortlessly like you seem to be implying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:42 PM
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You're completely misrepresenting what DGAF means in this context. It means don't put so much importance on a single woman or sexual encounter. If you've slept around a lot, you're much less likely to care what a woman's response will be when you approach her. If you're a virgin, you're likely pretty nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:38 PM
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Women are expected to drink less I've never heard anyone express this expectation. smoke less Well I don't live in France or the 1960's, no one here actually smokes except maybe 1 at the bar on a weekend. This isn't an issue to anyone. generally expected to have more self control when it comes to food and not be fat Well appearance is more important for women than men. It's a bit of a double standard, absolutely. At the same time though, 'not being fat' isn't something difficult to do. It's far …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:34 PM
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I don't think of my sexuality as this super important part of me and I'm not a self hating homo. It's just not one's business but my own. If I can sense a woman I'm dating would be okay with that then I'll tell her, fine. If not I'm not going to end a relationship over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 09:01 PM
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If you being honest about who you are as a person and the stuff you like would cause the girl to be disgusted or turned off by you. I'm just handicapping myself then. How many women aren't disgusted by it? 1 in a 100? I have no problems living my life with family or friends, hiding my sexuality either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 08:49 PM
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No one is making prostitutes a public part of their lives so it's not quite equivalent. Though it is the same if you're bisexual or you've had homosexual experiences in the past. If you're not an idiot you won't tell a woman about it. That's burned me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 09:01 PM
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It doesn't really matter in the end. If you're not an idiot you won't tell a woman you've seen prostitutes in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 06:01 PM
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Celebrities are just an ironclad example of why your argument doesn't work at all. Men who sleep with prostitutes come from all walks of life, including those who need to pay to get pussy and those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 06:00 PM
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I understand that. Just saying your first point was bullshit- 'Men who sleep with prostitutes are admitting defeat". Agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:53 PM
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Ok? That's a different point entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:52 PM
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Seeing a prostitute is admitting defeat, admitting to the world and to yourself that you're not good enough to obtain real enthusiastic sex with a partner who genuinely desires you. Not really though. I mean it is in many cases, sure. But paying a prostitute to come over is super convenient, and has an exact monetary value. Versus whatever it costs in money or effort to get laid 'properly' which the man might not feel is worth it. Rich celebrities who could get any woman they want do this all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:47 PM
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I was too. All the guys on my team were skinny. You're just slowing yourself down with extra fat on you. Unless you have the diet to match, no one is getting any kind of fat running 100km a week. Lifting weights is efficient, yeah. People who are skinny fat aren't doing rigorous active sports though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 07:34 AM
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It will make you skinny, not skinny fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 06:58 AM
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I understand BMI doesn't work well for very muscular people. But otherwise if you're overweight I quite frankly don't believe you can almost see your abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:48 PM
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I get your point. I just dislike the normalization of fatness in our societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:45 PM
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In what world is overweight not considered fat? No point moving the goalposts here, overweight women aren't attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:17 PM
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Maybe. Being fat is unappealing in a way outside of looks as well, but if we were compatible in all other ways it'd be nice to not have that social sting of dating a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 06:07 AM
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What does having hangups about his height mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 06:05 AM
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These days women have more money than men. Where did you get this idea from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:09 AM
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Single mothers are women who raise their children entirely on their own, without a father at all or a father who is very rarely involved in their child's life. It's not the same thing as a broken marriage/relationship where the child is still raised by both the mother and father. I'm pretty sure I, and anyone else who wants to be a father someday, will want to participate in raising the kid. Regardless of marital status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:35 AM
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I tend to ignore women I don't feel I have a chance with. It's a bad habit but I have it nonetheless. So yeah, my standards would absolutely change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:11 AM
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A lack of sex shouldn't make you suicidal. I wonder what you think should make you feel suicidal because I'm quite sure lack of sex is one of the leading reasons in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:03 AM
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It's complete hyperbole to refer to university education as "brainwashing" though. Being exposed to leftist ideology and then adopting it isn't brainwashing. In the same way men getting "red-pilled" by going on the subreddit isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 10:28 PM
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would you date a woman under 3' tall.? Maybe? I certainly wouldn't put that on my dating profile in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 07:40 PM
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I really don't see how it is insulting but I am not in that position. What? Would you not find something like "I won't date any woman smaller than a C cup" to be insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 07:29 PM
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I don't date guys under 6 foot I really wonder if men post these kind of arbritrary rules on their straight dating profiles. This line has become a meme because it just comes off as really insulting and entitled. Like are there any men that write "I won't date any woman smaller than a C cup?" Because I do sometimes see this on gay profiles, shit like "you must have a 7 inch dick" and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:35 PM
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Everything I've read about it suggests it is in fact extended to men. But the reason why women are so much more involved in it seems fairly obvious- image has a greater impact on the lives of women than men. A fat woman is judged on her body much more often than the equivalent man. Als I really wish people would stop comparing fat women to short men. The two are simply not equivalent at all. You can't change your height. But being fat is directly indicative of a poor lifestyle and can be 100% ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 06:55 AM
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That would probably be a good idea. Though keep in mind reddit is much more male than female, so if half the OPs really are women, that means...something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 03:16 AM
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Of course you're going to read more drama on a forum about relationships than you are with irl friends. Go to a female dominated relationships forum and you won't see anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 07:15 PM
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I would rather an emotionally close conversation Maybe you and I have different conceptions of what that is, but it sounds draining as fuck. I have like, half a dozen total of these conversations with the people around me each year. Talking about depression and such with every girl I meet would be tiring. just dryly ticking off any similarities It's interesting how your framed talking about mutual hobbies this way. Like, do you think this way about conversations with your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 06:38 PM
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Sperm jacking is inevitable given the right circumstances. Have you ever heard of someone actually doing this? If you're not a basketball star I don't think this is a realistic fear for most men. But if truly do fear it get a vasectomy. Female hypergamy can and does exist simultaneously with the CC ride. How do reconcile this idea with the fact that men cheat on women more?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 11:59 PM
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I thought that women and men were mentally the same, and ultimately had the same wants and desires. Now I know that they exist in fundamentally different dating worlds. Whether this is because of biology or social upbringing or both is irrelevant, because the difference exists. I thought all I had to do was 'be myself' and put myself there to have a fulfilling sexual life. I thought that kindness and empathy were inherently attractive, and how convenient because that's how I defined myself as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 05:57 PM
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The 'nice guy' isn't a bad personality trait from a male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:30 PM
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legit sexually assaulted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:43 PM
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Well every other day you hear about a faked SJW plot Meh, only if you hang out on anti-SJW forums. I know a lot more women who were actually sexually assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:28 PM
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Celebrities are outliers, not worth discussing in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:49 PM
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its like drinking natural orange juice x100 times than drinking that sunny D shit. That's the entire point. Better to drink sunny D than to go thirsty. A prostitute is a robot. She's hardly a human being because she's an actress. Who takes actors seriously? We're full of shit. Eh, some prostitutes are very good at their job. Which is why they get paid by people like Charlie Sheen, who likely has no problem getting enthusiastic and hot women. That's besides the point though, it's better than noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:44 PM
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Well yes, Trump supporters think the claims were all made up. I believe them, because of the number of women who stepped forward and their stories matching up with Trump's character, words and past actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:38 PM
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Girl, theres a difference between a man's chest and a woman's big hanging titties xD Come on now. There are societies where boobs aren't sexualized and a topless woman isn't any different than a topless man. And I'm a man btw. if you consider these things 'issues' of the 1st world that are more important than the shit women in third world countries go through Who said I think these issues are more important? Who said I can't care about both at the same time? It's not a serious issue that I can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:35 PM
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You're exactly right, it is an option. But many people, rightfully, believe it's wrong to inflict something like that to another person. And of course it's much, much less ideal than simply paying a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:18 PM
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Incels crave sexual and romantic validation, not sex. They're not asexual though, they still have sexual urges too where physical pleasure is the main goal. Fulfilling those sexual desires is still good for them. And besides, you're assuming that it's impossible to get sexual validation from a prostitute and that's not true. A prostitute is a human being, not a robot. You're still getting some of that physical intimacy and hormonal changes that regular sex would get you. essentially the male ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:16 PM
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I think men are definitely more open and vocal about their attraction, yes It's not just that, it's that gay spaces allow men to both approach and be approached. It's a more equal playing field for everyone. Then their SMV is still on the same level. Chad is still attracted to that girl. Well not if they're not Chad's first choice, but he is their first choice. I'm still really not sure what SMV and RMV really mean. I'm talking about attractiveness mostly when I use numbers. Also it depends on w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 03:27 PM
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Yes, people have higher standards for politicians than celebrities, this is normal. But regardless a celebrity saying something like 'I grab them by the pussy I don't even wait' would get criticized all the same. non-consent was only ever implied by people looking for something to be offended by I also think he was implying non-consent. The fact that a dozen women came forward to confirm that only cemented my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 03:21 PM
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If she's loyal, she's loyal. I don't think it works like that. A LOT of people cheat in their relationships, and it's not the kind of unthinkable act reddit makes it out to be. The difference between a cheater and a non-cheater isn't some strong moral boundary, but moments of weakness, drunkenness, opportunity, bad points in a relationship. And I do think relationships with two attractive people are more likely to have cheaters. Because there are more opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 07:50 AM
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Rapper who has a super corny song about folding clothes for his girlfriend, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 07:27 AM
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Folding the laundry because he knows I hate it. Are you dating J Cole?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 07:19 AM
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If they can get Chad, then Chad isn't out of their league If you're defining 'league' as outcome based then no one would ever date or fuck out of their league. But I'm pretty sure that's not how most people use that term. This guy's ego is hurt Yes it is, that doesn't make the model he's describing wrong. You can believe me or not, but I don't consider myself unattractive, or socially stunted. In gay spaces I feel desirable, on tinder I do in fact have my ego hurt. he rationalizes that "Chad" mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 07:13 AM
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I think it's irrelevant. Problems being worse in poorer countries does not mean the wealthier countries should ignore their own. There are many, many more homeless people in Bombay than there are in Toronto. Does that then mean the city of Toronto should then ignore its homeless problem? Even in Bombay's case, Kinshasa (probably) has a bigger homeless population, does that mean the poor in Bombay don't matter? That's not to say that some of these battles that western feminists fight aren't indee…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:55 AM
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So if they go home with someone (since RP claims that most women have high n-counts), and it's not Chad, who is it? Well I think the idea is that the 10 Chad not only has all the 10 women, but also the 7, 8, 9s. Why are there enough 10s for all the 7s and 8s? Because women are just less interested in casual sex than men, and the 10 men are having the most sex out of anyone. So it cascades down, where the 5 woman goes home with the 7 man, not the equivalent 5. And the skew is not just because men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:47 AM
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The general notion is though that Chad is somewhat responsible for the game being the way it is I don't think that's true in the RP mindset. It's the women who are all holding out for Chads out of their league that are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:58 AM
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Reality: you can't pull 5's because you're a 4. "Chad" has his pick of the hot girls, he doesn't look at 5's I agree that Chad doesn't look at the 5's, but the 5's are all looking at him. Which is why the 5 men have to work that much harder to get a 5 woman. This is why /r/choosingbeggar exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:46 AM
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Most men I know considered it bragging about sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 04:55 AM
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They're still allowed to air their thoughts openly though. Just because women can also do the same doesn't negate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 12:38 AM
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TRP is representative of what most guys talk about in Male spaces If you mean criticizing or making fun of feminism, that's exactly what men do. Ditto for 'objectifying' women and talking about sex and unfair dating standards. Without all the red pill jargon. None of the whole AWALT and blatant sexism though. (In my experience, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 12:29 AM
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Reddit is predominantly male though and men have no problems talking openly here. I don't understand where you're coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 12:24 AM
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his tactic, perhaps because he's not particularly attractive, is to try and make her feel like she 'owes' him sexual attention rather than attracting her I'm pretty sure he thinks be-friending her is the same as attracting her. I know this is slightly semantic, but that isn't as nefarious as you're making it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:28 AM
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This is why that red pill pua nonsense is dumb as fuck, changing your behavior won't get people to like you or get you laid. Looks are one of the most important things in life This is a dating website where photos are the only real vector people can judge you by.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 03:37 AM
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I am a fucking asshole I like bullying people on the internet But I'm happy This is less believable than all the 55 year old terpers with 18 year old harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 05:30 PM
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I recommend asking your family to set you up with someone who they think is suitable for marriage. And then immediately talking about marriage when you do meet her, as part of your courtship. Because that's what a lot of arranged marriages essentially are (Indo-Canadian here). A lot of people have this idea in their head that arranged marriage means your dads decided to have you two married when you were 2 and that's that, and then you never meet until your wedding day. Which probably happens (i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 05:04 AM
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