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Also, please remember that after psychological, medical, physical, and financial abuse, I may come off as more selfish than I am when I've just been trying to survive. Loving a narcissist has destroyed me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 06:36 PM
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I upvoted this myself. Thank you. The "children come second to mom's drama" is unfortunately true. Someone here said, to 'leave or learn to live with it' and it's not the first time I've heard it i guess I've been too selfish to make a logical choice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 06:23 PM
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I really have no interest in even the thought of pursuing anyone. He's been the only man ever in my life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 04:11 AM
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Why do you believe me to be selfish?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 04:04 AM
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I have been aware of my issues for years. He would not allow me to get therapy or meds as he didn't want to be "with a crazy bitch". This time around, I threw caution to the wind, his opinion be damned, and got the help I needed. Now it's as simple as one pill per day. With this newfound clarity however, he is losing his power/control over me and he doesn't like it. I have noticed that he gaslights and I can now recognize it and he will continue to lie and make up stories about what I or he said…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/17 01:52 AM
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If only he knew what?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 10:55 PM
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I think I wasn't clear. I want to improve, the part that I didn't agree with is while I am trying to be better, he will still have the other woman. That's the part that I didn't agree with but he's very good at manipulation, gaslighting, and confusing me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 10:54 PM
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I am currently in talks of a separation but under the same roof. We would raise our kids and be cordial with each other. He just told me "And you'll fuck again while I have another bitch" when I said that I won't have sex with him if I don't feel like it and I won't be kinky at all. This does confirm that he knows he can control me. He is a textbook narcissist. Living in a major metro city, its expensive for me to leave. it would be a devastating financial blow for the both of us to live separat…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 03:07 PM
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I realize I've been too accepting of the bullshit for too long.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 12:39 PM
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I have brought that point up, that no matter what I do or how well I do it--she'll always be there and he's okay to have a backup plan. Of course he adamantly refuses, I believe him, and the carousel goes around again. I no longer believe that, that woman will always be around no matter what. She actually told me to "be happy with what you get" so I guess that is her mentality but it isn't mine, hence the conflict.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 12:35 PM
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I don't care to be with anyone, my therapist dropped me because I wouldn't leave him, and it's been hard finding another. I know it's unfair to them, they see and feel his absence and I try to cover for him but they know.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 12:31 PM
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I actually agree with you. She has been content with being the 'other' and has clearly expressed that she plans on spending her life with him and having his child/ren. I have put my foot down, have left, have made threats but somehow always end up back together. She has put her foot down but to no avail as she has always been told that he would never choose to leave me-his wife and children- for her.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 06:05 AM
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He lives with me and our children. The last child we had I do not regret. After 2 girls, we have our boy. I am getting an IUD as I do not want anymore children, especially in this mess.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 06:01 AM
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