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Most cops are men. They don’t want that narrative.
/r/MensRights06/08/26 08:39 PM
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I agree with you on one important point: being falsely accused can have devastating consequences. Losing your job, paying tens of thousands in legal fees, and living under investigation for months or years are serious issues that deserve attention. Where I disagree is with the conclusions you're drawing from the statistics. The biggest problem is that you're treating "not charged" as if it means "false." It doesn't. A case can fail to result in charges for many reasons: insufficient evidence, la…
/r/MensRights06/08/26 08:38 PM
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Sigh. Tell me how’s it factual to say it’s common? I’m saying it’s not factual to claim.
/r/MensRights17/07/26 01:49 AM
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That is actually not true. The legal system is not designed to convict just on a victims statement, that is so incredibly challenging that most law enforcement agencies inactivate cases if there’s not corroborating We can’t look at anecdotes and Reddit stories to say “it’s common. “ This is why people ignore men’s rights. If you tell them false allegations are common, they’re going to dismiss everything you say because that is not backed by legitimate research or studies.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 09:57 PM
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Studies that show 30-40% are as bogus as the studies that show 2%. The truth is, the data will never be exact in this but it’s important to be as factual as possible. Saying it’s not common is not feminism. You can say it’s not common and it’s awful when it happens and should be punished.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 06:57 PM
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It’s actually very low and not common. It should be charged very harshly when it does happen but inflating the frequency doesn’t help anyone.
/r/MensRights16/07/26 03:31 PM
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As a feminist (who believe in men’s right too) I don’t engage with comments anymore because I’ve experienced exactly what you post. “All women or all feminist” and being indirectly told what I must believe or thinks from others because of those labels.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 08:16 PM
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I don’t want to fall into “whataboutism” but white feminism left everyone behind (BIPOC, men, etc). I think more are willing to help that we think BUT we’re elbowing each other in these gender rules over who has it worse, acting like it’s a zero sum game. We are as weak as a our weakest, we are as poor as our poorest. Everyone benefits when we all have a voice at the table. I’m not going to bother replying to most of the others- thank you for being kind and respectful.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 02:55 AM
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Feminist here! Men are victims of sexual violence and rape and men have very real issues. I believe male victims are underreported and we should do more as a society to normalize and remove the stigma of male victims. I think we are failing men. I don’t believe men have it harder than woman, both have hardships in different ways. Our unique experiences are impossible to compare and everyone loses when you start arguing who has it worst.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 11:26 PM
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I appreciate a nuanced conversation about this!
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:39 PM
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It lands as a joke (not everyone will find it funny, especially male victims) because the “shared reality” is that many people (not all) perceive violence from men toward women as more common and more threatening, so jokes that flip that dynamic. When a joke flips that pattern, some people read it as irony. But for people whose experiences don’t match that ‘shared reality,’ it doesn’t land as a joke at all. I don’t think it helps to slap it as hypocritical or misandric, that pushes people away f…
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:23 PM
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It’s not hypocritical. You’re mixing up intent, impact and context. Violence is violence and is always wrong. Misandry would be believing violence against men is okay. “Same rule for everyone” ignores context and shared reality.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:03 PM
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For most of history, women couldn’t leave dangerous situations even when they wanted to. Not because they were weaker, but because the system literally blocked exits: If you couldn’t open a bank account, rent housing, or get credit without a man, you were financially trapped If marital rape wasn’t a crime, the law didn’t even define your home as a place you could be unsafe If police were told domestic violence was “a family matter,” reporting changed nothing If shelters turn you away for having …
/r/MensRights08/11/25 03:53 PM
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The parallel fails because one comes from historical exclusion and one comes from historical violence risk. “Whites-only” was about preventing access to power and safety for Black people. “Women-only” spaces exist because access to safety has repeatedly been denied to women. One is gatekeeping power. The other is harm reduction.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 05:27 PM
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I feel sorry you see things like that. Most women aren’t out to harm anyone, and accountability applies to individuals, not an entire gender. Seeing the world as everyone against you only keeps you stuck in frustration.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 05:14 PM
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Wanting change and support for men is valid. Building it by turning women into the enemy is self-sabotage. If you genuinely want men to heal and thrive, the movement can’t run on the belief that most women are harmful. Nothing improves from that starting point
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:36 PM
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The parallel fails because one comes from historical exclusion and one comes from historical violence risk. “Whites-only” was about preventing access to power and safety for Black people. “Women-only” spaces exist because access to safety has repeatedly been denied to women. One is gatekeeping power. The other is harm reduction. That’s not cognitive dissonance, that’s context.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:06 PM
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Shifting the inbalance.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:05 PM
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You’re right that men absolutely can be harmed by women, and that those experiences deserve space without immediate shutdown. Empathy for hurt men isn’t the issue. The issue is turning personal trauma into a universal rule where women are treated as a threat class, a hive mind, or people holding collective “weapons.” Pain explains anger, but it doesn’t prove a system, strategy, or intention. And I don’t agree that anyone challenging claims about all women means they don’t show up for men elsewhe…
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:02 PM
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False equivalence is a logical fallacy where two things are presented as being equivalent or comparable, even though they are fundamentally different in some important way. It's an argument that makes a comparison between two situations, groups, or actions that are not actually similar, and thus the comparison is misleading.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 05:09 AM
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We call this “false equivalency”
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:36 AM
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No one would comment if it was an all men team.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 04:36 AM
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You’re treating “wrong” and “lying” as the same thing. They aren’t. Research shows extremely clearly that people can be highly confident and still incorrect, especially under stress or trauma. That’s why eyewitness testimony is considered one of the least reliable forms of evidence in the legal system, even when the witness is sure. That’s why most allegations never go to court. The statistic you’re referencing about false accusations doesn’t mean “only 25% are lies.” It means those are cases wh…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 07:09 PM
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This is you not engaging, huh.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 06:46 PM
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No you really haven’t. I think you are mistaking your disagreement of my facts with lying.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 06:46 PM
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Not engaging with facts anymore. Got it.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 06:32 PM
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You haven’t said how I have been caught lying… you’re ignoring everything I’m saying.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 06:31 PM
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Still no lying over here but clearly you can’t argue facts. You attack, name call and insult.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:46 PM
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Where does that article say women fight for no punishments? I just see an article about how there needs to be more punishments for false allegations.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:45 PM
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Also, one. I agree that wrongful convictions matter, and even one innocent person being convicted is a serious failure of the system. No argument there. But the existence of a “dark number” doesn’t mean we can assume the unknown number is massive or that the system is dominated by false claims. We don’t get to replace missing data with worst-case assumptions just because the outcome is serious. There is a difference between acknowledging imperfections and arguing that false accusations are a wid…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:43 PM
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Nope, not at all.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:39 PM
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All of this has been in good faith. What do you mean I refuse to investigate this 😂
/r/MensRights06/11/25 04:52 PM
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They don’t. I don’t know if a single male or woman that thinks women who lie about sex assault shouldn’t punished or held accountable.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 04:51 PM
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I provided a ton resources. Ferguson, C.E. & Malouff, J.M. (2016). Assessing Police Classifications of Sexual Assault Reports: A Meta-Analysis of False Reporting Rates. Found about 5.2% false reports across seven police-based studies. PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26679304/ University study: Lisak, D., Gardinier, L., Nicksa, S.C., & Cote, A.M. (2010). False Allegations of Sexual Assault: An Analysis of Ten Years of Reported Cases. Looked at 136 campus reports; 8 cases (≈5.9%) were conf…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 04:50 PM
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So victims should be punished for being wrong? That’s a great society to live it. I think there should be different punishments for people who willfully deceit vs wrong.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 04:48 PM
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Wanting to step back from dating is fine, but painting all women as toxic or “special just for having a uterus” isn’t reality. A bad ex or personal experience isn’t evidence about half the population. Therapy isn’t a weapon against men, men underuse it because of stigma, not because female therapists are out to get them. Criticism isn’t oppression, and trauma, poor communication, and unmet expectations affect everyone, not just one gender. Acting like women are villains and men are victims just …
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:44 AM
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No, the studies are not limited to court-proven perjury. Most measure confirmed false reports in investigations, which include cases closed as fabricated, recanted, or proven false by evidence, not only those that resulted in a courtroom perjury conviction. Court convictions for false reporting are always rarer because prosecutors overwhelmingly choose not to charge, but that’s not how these studies calculate false report rates. There is also zero credible research showing that “the real number …
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:07 AM
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Eyewitness confidence is not a reliable indicator of accuracy. That’s not opinion, it’s established science. The American Psychological Association has stated that factors like stress, weapon focus, lighting, race‐effect, lineup design, and suggestion can lead to high-confidence but factually incorrect identifications. People can genuinely believe they’re right and still be wrong. Legally, a witness being mistaken is not the same as perjury. Perjury requires intent to deceive, not just being inc…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:06 AM
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Multiple studies you cited report confirmed false allegations in the 2–8% range, most commonly around 5% (Ferguson 2016; Lisak 2010; EVAW; NSVRC). That means 92–98% are not confirmed false. Importantly, “false” often includes unsubstantiated, withdrawn, or lacking evidence, not proven intentional lies (Saunders 2016). None of these sources support the claim that accusations are frequently fabricated or weaponized against men. They show the opposite: false reporting rates for sexual assault are s…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:03 AM
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I don’t disagree with that. There needs to be harsh consequences for false allegations.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 08:57 PM
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There should be severe consequences for false allegations. I’m not excusing ANY false allegation. No matter the circumstance.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 06:24 PM
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There should be severe consequences for false allegations.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 06:23 PM
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Here’s so studies for you, I do work in this field and daily work with SVU, forensic nurses, forensic interviews and the DA’s office. Quite the loud echo chamber! If you need more from this con artist, liar, zealot, unaccountable, illogical, gaslighter, lemme know. Ferguson, C.E. & Malouff, J.M. (2016). Assessing Police Classifications of Sexual Assault Reports: A Meta-Analysis of False Reporting Rates. Found about 5.2% false reports across seven police-based studies. PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi…
/r/MensRights05/11/25 05:53 PM
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Here’s some more sources for you: Ferguson, C.E. & Malouff, J.M. (2016). Assessing Police Classifications of Sexual Assault Reports: A Meta-Analysis of False Reporting Rates. Found about 5.2% false reports across seven police-based studies. PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26679304/ University study: Lisak, D., Gardinier, L., Nicksa, S.C., & Cote, A.M. (2010). False Allegations of Sexual Assault: An Analysis of Ten Years of Reported Cases. Looked at 136 campus reports; 8 cases (≈5.9%) wer…
/r/MensRights05/11/25 05:23 PM
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That 25% stat from the FBI isn’t saying that 1 in 4 rape allegations were false. It’s saying that in about 25% of cases sent for DNA testing, the main suspect was excluded as the source of the DNA. That’s a huge and important number for wrongful convictions, but it’s not the same as “the accuser lied.” In many of those cases, the assault still happened, it just wasn’t committed by the person who was originally charged. False allegations (as in, cases proven to be deliberately fabricated) are a d…
/r/MensRights05/11/25 05:20 PM
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What am I lying about again?
/r/MensRights05/11/25 05:16 PM
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I have full accountability for it. I’ve lied about nothing. Now, I find it telling when hearing you don’t like or agree with, you attacked my personality and character. Says a lot more about you than me.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 02:54 PM
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How did I get caught lying? I haven’t lied about anything.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 06:09 AM
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😂😂😂 I’m saying something you don’t like so I’m a zealot, con artist and liar. Got it.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 02:04 AM
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Wow. Bold accusations my friend. You’re the one with the illogical reaction here.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 02:00 AM
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I’m not lying. Nor am I desperate. I look at facts. When the facts show false allegations are common, I’ll state that. But the facts that show that. I’m actually quite unbothered right now. I had a conversation with SVU Srgt just this afternoon about a case.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 01:46 AM
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I don’t think you get it. Forensics nurses, forensic nurses and detectives are all in my building. I do ask them and see them every day lol.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 01:33 AM
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No I don’t hate it and I’m not ignoring it. I’m disagreeing with you. You have no facts to back up that false allegations are common.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 06:02 PM
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Nope. Anytime someone recents or changes their statement it’s recorded why. I don’t have a narrative, I have expertise in this field but it doesn’t fit your narrative.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 05:35 PM
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Because I do this every day. We would see it more. Data would show it. Instead data shows victims don’t come forward. It’s the most unreported crime. Men don’t come forward more than women, even though women are more likely to be victims. These are facts.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 04:40 PM
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It’s not about what I want to admit or not. I also work with police who run and conduct these investigations and civilians who are trained to be forensic interviewers. It’s an whole field I suggest you look into. False allegations are rare. True, no one knows the exact number just like no one knows the exact number of actual assaults that occur.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 04:04 PM
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I bet that fun as a kid. Because it’s exhausting having to argue this in 2025. And no one changes their mind anyways.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 03:44 PM
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I haven’t posted any feelings. I work in this field, I study this field. I see this every day. Interviews of children, women and men. False allegations are rare. There’s zero statistic or study that proves they are common. There are tons of evidence and studies to show they are rare.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 03:43 PM
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I feel sorry for you if you think court is the end all be all on the truth. The legal system is garbage.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 03:41 PM
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I’m not saying false allegation don’t happen. I’m saying it’s rare. I’m saying I work in field that interviews victims (children, women and men) and what you are saying doesn’t happen- that’s not why victims recant.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 03:39 PM
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Nope. Sorry that facts don’t like your feelings. Woman have way more reasons to not come forward than to come forward. False allegations are rare.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 04:44 AM
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Again that isn’t true. This is my field. That doesn’t happen.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 04:42 AM
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That isn’t true. Most cases don’t even get to court. Forensic interviews happen all the time and most cases never go to court. In fact, the fact that sexual assault is normally based on the testimony of the victim is why most victims don’t come forward.
/r/MensRights03/11/25 10:12 PM
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It’s not. I work in this field.
/r/MensRights03/11/25 08:43 PM
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I think you’re ignoring the fact that the majority of women still don’t come forward as victims. The rate of false allegations is low. Yes it should be taken very seriously but it’s low. Yes, men are even more unlikely to come forward which also needs to change. All these things can be true at once.
/r/MensRights03/11/25 08:09 PM
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