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I divorced my ex over porn amongst other things. Men are ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:45 PM
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I’m so grateful I never legally changed my last name because my husbands mask came off 1 Year into the marriage. And changing it back would have been expensive (passport, time wise). I never really wanted to change it bc I love my last name and I’m glad I never did and now will never do so even if I get remarried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:58 AM
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Lol I tried that too. Men everywhere I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:46 PM
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New Zealand right? I swear to god all the men I met while I was there were just LVM scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:20 PM
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Did you interview my ex? Hahhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:52 AM
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I loved this show but right after shit blew up with my ex husband it opened my eyes wide open. The amount of cheating and women being treated like shit that gets laughed off is horrible. Pam was emotionally cheating on Roy the whole time ( yes he was an lvm but she was lv because of her behavior too). Angela is a piece of crap and Stanley also cheats. I agree, Bob Vance was the only ok dude this whole show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:05 AM
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I’ve been divorced for about 6 months and just recently celebrated the one year anniversary of leaving him. He turned out to be a perverted, cheating, porn sick LVM and while it was hard to leave someone I’d known for so long in the end I’m proud of how far I’ve come. Just interviewed and got a job I’m excited about, lost 20 pounds, started a new hobby I adore, adopted a dog and I’m looking to buy a house in the next year or so. Freedom ladies. It’s sweet, sweet freedom. Yes I still have anxiety…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:59 PM
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Testerical is my new favorite word. Thank you 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:37 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:55 AM
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Had my second shot the week after getting my period. I’m due next week. Will report back if anything is wonky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:48 PM
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What matters now is that you’re getting out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:05 PM
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Of course it’s awful we have all gone through this but at the same time I’m proud all of us got out while we are young. I agree. Initially I felt like such a failure but you know what...I deserve more than constant disrespect, a weak man and being lied to every day. It’s really annoying though when I’m like oh yes he’s cute for a forty something year old about someone on the television and my own mother says: you’re not so young anymore so you can’t be picky. MOTHER. 40 year old men, especially …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:26 PM
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Oops. 😂31 and divorced late last year ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:30 AM
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Swamp ass and then they rip off their T-shirt’s for no good reason and expose their Casper white stomachs covered in hair. 🤢🤮 I have repeatedly asked where the F the supposed hot guys are because I haven’t seen one in so damn long here it isn’t even funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:21 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:28 AM
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Girlll a fro-yo analogy! I’m hungry now 😂 On another note yes. It’s hard when so many women we are still friends with compartmentalize the behavior of their men and don’t want to see the truth that is right before them. They deserve more. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:39 PM
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Right! The aunty nod at the end with the tiara. Gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:52 AM
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What a scrote. Not trying anything unless you want it to be something? But not really. You can’t reject me because I’m rejecting you first. Also... I’m such a gem so it’s such a compliment that I think you’re worth something FYI. Other women suck but you don’t. You’re welcome. What the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:07 PM
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Bro even before FDS there is no bloody way I would have payed for half of my own ring. This is some sort of pickmeisha hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:29 PM
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This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:32 PM
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Yeah no be careful with the religious boys as sexual repression can lead to them finding porn at a young age. My husband hid his porn addiction for awhile and when I found out it had morphed into him basically trying to pick out someone to jack off to from work....and he found one he obsessed over for months. I personally would stay away from them from my experience. (He is not the first “Christian” boy with strong moral values I figured out watched a lot of porn, had a fetish etc. He was just t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:31 PM
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Mine ended last year. There’s another one. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:16 PM
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Someone on Instagram posted a joking video about how their husband takes two hours in the bathroom and I SO BADLY wanted to say “hey sis, he’s watching porn instead of spending time with you and your son”. If your husband is regularly taking that much time wouldn’t you be like we should take you to the gastroenterologist? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:14 PM
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I remember feeling like a failure for a bit bc the marriage was so short but it’s for the best. At least we figured it out early on. I’m glad you’re free as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:19 AM
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Mine is veryyy fresh haha. Knew him since high school. Friends for 11 years. (Dated others etc, were always friends). Dated 2.5. Married in Oct. 2018. Found out about his porn sickness and weird stalker tendencies September 2019 a week before our one year anniversary and the night before we moved into the house we had just bought. Look at my first posts with this account if you want. Pre-FDS obv. Tried to work it out. Went to individual therapy etc. Basically he continued to gaslight and lie and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:17 AM
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Looked through your past posts. You will get there. Keep yourself emotionally distant, get your stuff in order and then peace out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:53 AM
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Ughhhhh. Also I could tell. But I’m a teacher so I’m pretty good about spotting bs haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:23 PM
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Let’s goooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:16 PM
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I’m waiting for it to be safe again and I’m doing a divorce girls trip. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:21 AM
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My ex mother in law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:59 PM
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It’s my new jam! I’m going to look up your playlist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:19 PM
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Not sure if this has been shared before but I heard this during my trainers live today and I LOVE IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:29 PM
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A mommas boy with zero boundaries and ideas of his own. Swayed against his wife who had to chose between her life and her child’s and he turns on her? SCUM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:30 PM
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Literally just at the dentists and one of the episodes where she is dating him was on. I mean I love friends but there was so truly f-d up shit on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:27 PM
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I rewatched it with friends and I cringed so hard. After a divorce and FDS I cannot see it again. I especially went off on the best friend thing and they did too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:20 PM
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He was called my husband. And now he’s called my ex-husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:37 PM
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Damn you just described my ex mother in law to a T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:40 AM
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Took a year for me to find shit my husband was hiding. I found it the week before our one year anniversary actually. But I suppose it was more like 3 years since we had been dating for two before we got married. Lying pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:48 PM
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Ah. It’s a FLoriDUH man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:47 AM
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SO BAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:42 AM
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I think it’s the first season or second. I’m rewatching right now haah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:07 PM
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Haha. No I looked at this other guys posts and it’s nothing him plus my husband is way more articulate and manipulative than this guy. 😂😭🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:58 PM
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Perfect analogy and explanation. There is so many studies proving how horrible porn is for the brain and relationships but culture says if we don’t accept it we aren’t “sex positive”. Bull shit. I’m not ok with the outright violence against women that is promoted through porn and none of us should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:50 PM
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Haha I thought about deleting to fix the title but ended up liking my typo. Thanks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:09 PM
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I know. And even my friends are like well... it’s so fucked up but my significant other doesn’t have a problem controlling porn etc. Only here and there. I don’t know. I wouldn’t trust it ladies. I thought I could trust mine not to be a nasty scrote and here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:08 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:07 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽apparently it is him lol! Except I think this scrote has never really been in a relationship from his other posts I looked at.🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:06 PM
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Queen I’m so glad you ended up leaving him. It’s hard to leave that cycle. It really is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:05 PM
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Exactly. My soon to be ex “well I think it is for the best you want a divorce because we have been toxic to each other”. Dude. You made me react the way I did because of the betrayal trauma you inflicted. What you’re butthurt because I still can’t forgive you, even after you gaslit me and lied to my face yet again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:04 PM
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Yeah every time I didn’t respond, he kept going. Apparently something I wrote in another post triggered him....hrmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:55 AM
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Yeah they made me out to be the worst thing ever. Said I was manipulative and verbally abusive and that apparently it was my fault I never helped him with his depression etc. Even though...he had told them he was depressed at 19 and they had brushed it off and said he was depressed because he was fat (at the time)...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:52 AM
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Yes Queen!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:31 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:05 AM
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I bet he doesn’t have one measly degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:22 AM
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Did you check the time stamps? Scrote would not leave it be. Had to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:12 AM
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No everything is about getting their dicks wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:10 AM
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You will. Start getting your things in order and save up some money. When you’re ready you’ll do what’s best for you and your child ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:05 AM
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Edit:scrotes* in the title lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:01 AM
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Yea, every time I would try to make past it and like make excuses to myself as we do for the Lvm in our lives, the fact he took those pictures would slap me in the face. It’s such a stalker thing to do and disturbing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:18 AM
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Gracias por hacerme sonreír reina! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:10 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:14 PM
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Exactly. And I’m seeing this is a norm apparently. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:14 PM
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My state is a no fault state so it won’t help me but it’s been a fairly amicable divorce tbh. But I do have the evidence just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:12 PM
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Saving this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:42 AM
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Pftttttt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:39 AM
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Ive recently been rewatching and have seen it with new eyes as well. There are so many bad instances of LVM and LVW behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:30 PM
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The worst! I’m there too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:06 AM
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Omg is that my husband in this picture?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:03 AM
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My husband slipped through the cracks and is a porn addict despite it being unacceptable in his household. He’s a liar and gaslighter and no amount of church going will change that if he doesn’t address all the other underlying issues he has. That is to say. Religion does not mean he will be an HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:17 PM
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DAMN. yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:29 AM
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