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I didn’t defend abusers, I defended non abusers who rightfully want to separate themselves from abusers. Cool, I bet you’re perfect. I cheated years ago. I’m married. I’d tell you that I’d never cheat on her, but someone like you would never believe that. All women are honest with themselves????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:12 PM
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So what if a man just wants to be a ‘good man’ to a ‘good woman’ and just do right by the people he cares about? what should he do to separate himself from all the ‘bad men’ out there? In your opinion, what if he has made mistakes before? What if he cheated 10 years ago, and felt remorse? Can he grow from these mistakes and ever be good enough for someone else? The fact is, some women need to be honest with theirselves if anyone actually ‘good enough’ for them. Because for some women, a man work…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:42 PM
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I met my wife when she was 23 and I was 34. We’re both reasonably attractive. I’m almost 40, and i’m still in good shape and she’s still attracted to me. I had my shit together and I paid for most things. Invested in her, and she has a very good job now. She was nanny when we met. Her best qualities in 2025 might be that she didn’t reduce me to a one dimensional stereotype, judge my one bedroom apartment in a shitty neighbor too harshly, question ‘too much’ why I was still single at 35, saw that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:02 PM
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It can catch you off guard. Someone tell you trust you’re not doing enough when you probably did, but you were just waiting for more reciprocation. Then you give more up front for the next girl so you can’t be criticized and told you didn’t do enough, and then you find out that you were never taken seriously in the first place by the second girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:01 PM
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Yup, you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:46 PM
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🤨you’re a male doctor and most of your friends are single women with dead end jobs? Why is she of your league? Because you’re a walking red flag?🚩 You didn’t really make your point. You didn’t explain the criteria for assigning value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:17 PM
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No, please see the original comment related to the post. Having too much baggage to try at a real relationship and then seeing some of the men whom they considered unworthy of their time and effort go off and date younger women makes SOME women bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:56 AM
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Yeah, but come on. Men are often still physically attracted to women with horrible unattractive personalities. You know this 🤨. What are you doing? Did you think I would see this comment and be like “oh, wow! You’re right. Nvm.” He’s still physically attracted to older women is what he’s saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:48 AM
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The referenced post specifically says that he ‘finds older women attractive’. He said he finds them difficult to date for other reasons. Popular consensus doesn’t add up to the truth. The message is right there. You can interpret it however you want. You can interpret it in a way that makes you think he’s less attracted to older women if you want to. but the post doesn’t say that. Again it specifically says he is ‘attracted to older women’.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:34 PM
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He didn’t find them less attractive, he found them to be bitter. which is actually congruent with what he’s saying here. It’s not his fault that the older ones were too bitter to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:18 PM
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Yes but if everyone did this, then women would adjust their scale and only want the new top 10-20%. this is coming from someone who already did everything you’re, saying and married someone who sees my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:11 PM
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Yes, most people recognize that victim blaming is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:04 PM
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She’s right, it’s a normal question. Only young adults and children would try to argue this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:17 PM
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I don’t think it’s a bizarre idea. It’s not the first realization for man that they need money to have a woman, but most men realize that it’s a prerequisite. It’s also not necessarily that they feel “entitled” to women or their bodies. Men and women are, in fact quite different in what they look for in a partner. Men go down a path of learning (the hard way, over and over) ‘what might I take to be “enough” for someone is also someone who makes them happy?’ Sometimes they’re disappointed to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:46 PM
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I think this is similar to a sugar baby situation. Are you saying that the women are still the ones being taken advantage of though? I think its equally women capitalizing on access to NSA sex with young men with high sex drives. There are plenty of women in their 30’s/40’s who admittedly don’t want relationships. Just sex with someone safe, who won’t manipulate them. Like a young handsome 25 year old not clever enough to manipulate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:01 PM
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Ummm, sex is PART of a healthy relationship. But a good sex life doesn’t hurt a relationship. It’s just not all it takes. Obviously… It’s supposed to be fun. You’re supposed to feel connected. Bother parties are supposed vulnerable during sex. You do things for them, they do things for you. I don’t know what the debate is. If either party withholds sex, it could led to problems. If you don’t have intimacy, trust, communication. Good sex can’t save a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:51 PM
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