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2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? I love cats and dogs, sorry I just really love them, and birds,and fish, pretty much all animals really. Anyway , carry on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 05:37 AM
1	Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" I'm not asking for help for myself, my life is awesome, Are you okay though, you sound a little stressed. Just get it out, it will be alright, and remember keep calm. Seeya.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 04:42 AM
1	Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" Sounds very much like you insulted my parents, pretty low. U.B.U. i guess. Bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 01:12 PM
–	Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" Wow, so that's the type of person you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 06:39 AM
2	Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were told Honestly everyone I know still does all those things. Very few people are unreceptive when you actually make an effort. Nearly everyone what's to have a laugh. I live in Australia and people are pretty friendly though, at least where I live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 01:27 PM
2	Men are shallow as well To be honest, I am shallow untilI I meet a women that's not. I meet women like this all the time IRL. Still friends with them, just weren't going in the same direction, no ones fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 04:11 AM
7	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit Damn, I can be a feminist like you and still be be unbiased. I support many feminist ideals but just can't handle the double standards. 3 years gender studies at uni and it was all so one sided. Thank you, you've given me hope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 12:54 AM
1	The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit Your not wrong, but the reality is we are shamed when we don't perform those roles. Maybe not by you, but by most of society. I mean do you really want a broke man, or a man who can't defend himself. If it was the right man maybe, but would that be your preference. Neither of these things are something a women would be shamed over. Maybe they are, I don't know, I'm not a woman. Regardless It certainly doesn't mean you have to put a women in her place, but it's hard to work with someone who doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 12:43 AM
1	Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" So offering someone a helping hand is patronizing now, showing them someone cares, and you're there if they need you is patronising? Trying to understand why they are the way they are, how they got there is patronising? I'm no angel but that's harsh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:52 PM
1	Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" Cool, to be honest those men are not my problem either, and I'm not the person who they feel entitlled too, so forget I said anything. I guess because I'm not a woman I don't need to care about you either. While your at it I'm not homeless, an addict, have mental problems, a struggling single parent, disabled, poor, so maybe I don't need to care about them, because for what ever reason they have trouble helping themselves. It's not like they are part of society or anything. Obviously as you said…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:03 PM
1	If some women don't want a nice guy, they must want a mean guy. Wow ironically your thought process sounds pretty black and white.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 10:52 AM
1	Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" Men who give up on women, are the problem. Your really the only ones who can change this. Other men can't change their minds, only you. Obviously that's crazy but still true. It really is womens superpower how much Men long for your acceptance. Use it wisely, with power comes huge responsibility. You are the center of our worlds, and yes I know some men have a very terrible way of showing it, and that's an understatement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 06:19 AM
1	Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with? Both seem fair, and a good reason for both people to move on. To be honest if a man can't be bothered putting in the effort, or a women thinks she's perfect and wants her partner to be the same ( either could be true, or a combination of both ) it's over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 05:52 AM
–	If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? Your right, 61 % of men who cheat stay married, and 44% of women who cheat stay married. But considering the divorce rate initiated by women, it would seem women divorce weather they are the cheater or not. Actually it would suggest they divorce for other reasons more often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 05:39 AM
–	If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? For sure, I think that is kinda the point, these are the only ones you notice because they are being idiots, it's not that people do it, it's how they do it. Honestly I have extremely good looking friends who receive this treatment from women and it gets old very quickly for them too. Not something I experience myself, maybe once would be nice. I'M OFF TO CRY NOW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 05:03 AM
–	If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? I believe it's about expecting men to be traditional in terms of being chivalrous but at the same time, not wanting a man to treat her like she is any different than a man in respect to equality. We are equal but I expect you to defend me with your life, we are equal and you have to accept you have privileges you need to deal with but I'm going to keep mine because it's only fair. The whole emotional intelligence thing is total crazy also, empathy, tolerance is great until it comes to men's conc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 03:54 AM
–	If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? I love my monogamous relationship, experiencing life with your best friend, supporting each other, getting to know someone better than you know yourself from years and years of struggle and joy. For me no sexual experience or lust could even compare. My partner will always be the most beautiful women in the world, hands down. If one day she decides to move on, I would to, but that could never change the appreciation I have for her for the life we have had together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 02:48 AM
–	If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? My partner watches men's sports with me because of the hot dudes, she won't watch womens sports with me. I think it's no big deal. We all do it, women just hide it better, or in my partners case she doesn't hide it at all. I don't care. I know I'm not as hot as these younger dudes, and if she's only looking then what's the problem. If it's so obvious that it's making the person being looked at uncomfortable then that's a different story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 02:35 AM
–	If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? To be fair it's the women ditching men. We all know the divorce stats. The reality is this is why the patriarchy always wins. Same old story, a society gets more egalitarian, women don't need men anymore, men give up trying because they are still expected to be men without being men and the patriarchy swopes in. I'd much rather be with a women my own age, shared history, but they want me to be a women, in a mans body, and thats not possible. We are different. I wish you all the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 02:11 AM
2	Redpillers I know IRL are losers This is the crux of the whole thing they get wrong. No one is to blame, it's just the way things are. Unfortunately ideologies of all types can either make you bitter or make you better. You can't be both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 07:33 AM
5	Removing access to abortion and birth control won’t make women want dependable average men more -- it’ll make them avoid men altogether The reality is that more and more men are also doing the risk analysis and making the decision to abstain. There are so many more risks to relationships these days for men, and that's not a bad thing, accountability is what the world needs more of. If I can't embrass that then I sure shouldn't be asking for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 10:10 PM
3	Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. Honestly all these terms are so funny and tragic at the same time. None of them sound like a nice place to be.The funny part is how easy it is to walk away from any of them if you don't like them. Just walk away, no drama, your not a victim of anything if the other person is being honest with you. People are so dramatic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 09:48 PM
1	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex A fling as you call it should be fun for both people, I find if you're honest about it, and you get a no, then it saves you a lot of effort and also who wants to hurt someones feelings. Using people is nothing to be proud of. That goes for men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 08:42 AM
–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. To be honest I care why rather than how many. That tells me more than any number does. No judgement more are we a good fit sort of thing. It's not really that big a deal but it's just part of the picture of the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 07:54 AM
1	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? I understand, irl I don't meet many men like that these days but I see it online. Not really my idea of a fun time or a good friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 07:26 AM
3	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? I think the point is men don't, in general of course, care about these things because there's more important things we are looking for. Only so many things we can care about at once. We're men. "Am I attracted to her, Is she fun to be with, does she like me, do we get each other." all the rest is just background noise. I would be proud of her achievements for her but as long as she was doing her best that's all I would care about. I've had high paying jobs and also be a cleaner, a waiter, some o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 02:29 PM
2	Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date? My kind of person, you should be proud, that's the fun part of this, looking up crazy stuff you would have never otherwise. Friend: "what did you do yesterday?" mar-uh-wah-nuh: " Looked up syphilis stats" Frend: "WTF"	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 02:17 PM
1	Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date? You looked that up didn't you? that's something I would do. People are funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 01:04 PM
1	Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date? Doesn't piss this man off, that's the only women I want. Too busy for any real effort. I don't have to be charming, just pretty, say as little as possible and wa la. it's hard not to talk because I genuinely like most women, but if I do, I get put into relationship material and then it's real effort to get to wa la. It's crazy really, but that's life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 12:46 PM
1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men Obviously you can't do without sex, no point in arguing that anymore because we are never going to agree. If you want to get laid a lot there's only three things you really need to worry about. Have money, not because of what you can buy but because it gives you freedom. You need to be able to think for yourself, that means learning new things and expanding your ability to see through societies lies, it's just a biological game and women are programmed to be the selectors, they are always going …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 12:19 PM
1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men What about asexual people or aromantic people? How about monks who devote their lives to enlightenment. Just because it seems like you are obsessed with getting laid, I assume you are the way you talk, doesn't mean everyone is like you. You also seem obsessed with this market thing. When I was younger I was an artist who was doing quite well with sales, enough to do it full time, but it destroyed how I felt about doing art so I stopped selling my art. I now just do it for myself, sometimes I'll …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 12:36 PM
1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men Obviously there is no convincing you that what you think about yourself is what matters the most. It shapes your perception of everything, and if not getting laid means a man is not worthy, or can't be happy, regardless of everything else they have going for them, then I don't know what to say to you. "Worth by definition implies "to somebody". Somebody else decides your worth to them." Can't you be worth something to yourself? Of course we care what other people think of us but I control what I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 05:33 AM
1	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men None of this is going to be solved, men are just attracted to women period and women are more selective than that. These freedoms women are enjoying has made it easier to avoid commitment for men so that's a bonus. Gotta love those freedoms for women, 50/50 is awesome, house husband here I come. I take advantage of my looks as a man just in a different way to how a women might, just the way it is, might as well just find a way to make the best of whatever situation you find yourself in. No point…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 12:22 PM
1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men I understand the drive for young men to get laid is very strong but lots of things in life we learn to resist because in the long run we end up in a better place. If thats all that makes you feel like a man, then cool, but I'm just saying if it's not making you happy there are other ways to find that happiness, you don't have to give up getting laid, to enjoy those things. I look back on when I was younger and I am gutted that I wasted so much time on this stuff. Sure I got laid but I think most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 03:30 AM
2	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men "No one wants to be a person who can't get laid." I think that's my point, but why make your whole personality about getting laid? Why let that define you? Obviously some dudes have no trouble getting laid, I know a lot who are dickheads, they just look good. Who cares if another dude is getting a lot. If it's making you unhappy that you are not, find happiness in something else. If your a happy person your more likely to get laid anyway. I'm just saying don't make sex the focus of your worth. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 07:21 AM
4	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men Seems like we are on the same page. Nice to know, cause this gender war is stupid. People want good relationships, they want to love and be loved ultimately. A lot of people just can't get out of their own way to find it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 06:03 AM
6	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men Maybe just hold out for someone who treats you as an equal, this gentleman and ladies stuff hasn't worked for a long time, if ever. Mutual respect and kindness sounds good. Being a team and sharing your life with someone who you get and they get you. How about we strive for that instead? I could do that as a dude but putting women on a pedestal is not an option anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 05:17 AM
-1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men This so true, young men need to find their own worth whatever form that takes as a single person before they consider a woman in their life. If your not happy on your own your going to be put at a major disadvantage in the world of relationships and dating. Men in general need to raise their standards, as women have. Getting laid shouldn't be enough anymore unless that's all you want of course. It was pretty unfulfilling to me, but UBU bruhs, we are all different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 05:00 AM
-3	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men To be honest, young men need to be able to be happy on their own before they even consider a woman. Dating and relationships should be overwhelmly fun, and rewarding. If you're pretending to be someone you're not to get laid, not sure how that's fun. Find a way to be happy on your own then you're not going to accept less. This is what women are doing now, time for men to take a page out of their book. Raise your standards guy's. Take responsibility for your own actions, and be the person you wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 04:40 AM
1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men To be honest, young men need to be able to be happy on their own before they even consider a woman. Dating and relationships should be overwhelmly fun, and rewarding. If you're pretending to be someone you're not to get laid, not sure how that's fun. Find a way to be happy on your own then you're not going to accept less. This is what women are doing now, time for men to take a page out of their book. Raise your standards guy's. Take responsibility for your own actions, and be the person you wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 04:38 AM
1	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Wow, that's a bit of a jump, maybe not having a relationship with a porn star is because of the bagage it might bring with it. Maybe it's the job not the person. I wouldn't date a single mother, not because I think badly of them, not because I don't think some of them are beautiful, lovely people, but because I don't want kids, especially if they are not my own. I can still think single mothers are hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:19 AM
1	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? What about people with Aphantasia? They can't picture things in their head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:01 AM
0	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. I don't disagree with you but what's the point of marriage then? Just don't get married. That would save a lot of cost and drama, and if you don't live with them even better. Divorce actually is an important option but it also makes marriage meaningless at the same time. HEY I'm committed to you but I can leave at anytime. It's actually pretty funny. Genuinely hope your second chance is working out for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 03:55 AM
1	"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BS The fact you believe men being horny is the only reason men are talking about this is ironic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 02:06 AM
0	People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages. You're not wrong but why bother with any statistic? I mean a 70/30 split is quite a significant difference and it's a statistic that is women vs men. It's valuable to people because it's a predictor of what they might expect in marriage, whether it's worth the risk, and if they decide to marry what they can do to prevent becoming part of this statistic. Many of my younger male friends are set on never getting married because they don't think it's relevant anymore, they're not interested in havin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 01:23 AM
2	"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BS Not if they are smart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 02:39 AM
1	"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BS Not everyone is lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 02:26 AM
12	"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BS Passport bros are certainly not a new thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 02:03 AM
3	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. Honestly their are men that would be only a friend to you. I have lots of attractive women friends I would never consider romanticly. They are good people but would be too much work. Obviously it sounds like you do everything you can to prevent this from happening. Sounds like they missed out on what might been a good friend. Such is life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 01:19 PM
1	Sure we don't like it when men sexualized women. But we all still live in a society that encouraged men to sexualize women though. Honestly what are you talking about? I agreed with you but only stated that this happens to men as well. Women do this as well. This is a people thing not a gender thing. I've rejected many woman and they don't take it well. I'm also not vain enough to say I'm cute and have no idea why they approach me, but it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 11:00 AM
–	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. The first guy just sounds like a guy who got to know you and realised he wasn't in to you or you weren't the person he thought you were. This is also possible. The second is just admitting your a bad girl that likes that sort of thing. Nothing wrong with that but that's what it is. Ever thought he chooses you because he knows what he's getting into as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 10:46 AM
1	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. No one owes anything to anyone else but seems like it's not too hard to spot these dudes, you sound experienced, you sure you don't just use them until it gets a little uncomfortable for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 10:35 AM
5	Sure we don't like it when men sexualized women. But we all still live in a society that encouraged men to sexualize women though. I agree with you but women also need to be accountable for their objectification of men. I've had a lot of really good looking friends who get all sorts of unwanted attention from women but somehow that's not considered to be the same thing. It happens way more than people think but it is often laughed off as nothing. One of them was painfully shy and it affected him quite badly. He never wanted the attention but these women often refused to comprehend that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 01:04 PM
2	Sure we don't like it when men sexualized women. But we all still live in a society that encouraged men to sexualize women though. The simple truth is men don't need to sexualise women. In fact if these men who do this only realised it, they would be much happier people because it's the only real power woman have over men other than childbirth. I don't want children so I'm sweet. It's actually very liberating. When I think about all the time I wasted lusting after women in my youth that I didn't even like other than the way they looked, it's sad. I now have healthy relationships with women I like as people, as equals. I'm n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 12:40 PM
1	Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilities A little harsh, and pair bonding ability is bs. You find the right person and create a healthy relationship, partnership and you can overcome anything. To be honest a lot of people either don't know what love is really about or they are looking in all the wrong places. Baggage is also knowledge, experience. Lot's of people turn bad experiences into future strength. This dude needs to grow up and he can if he chooses, so can the women he is involved with. It takes two to tango.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 01:12 PM
4	It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than women Haters will be haters. I honestly can't believe how someone could be so pathetic and dumb to call you that when you won't have sex with them. I've turn down sex from women before and they haven't taken it that well but that is next level idiotic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:33 AM
6	Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and women Honestly I wasted my youth chasing sex from women. Didn't really need anything else from them. Finally I realised this and I don't need to make the effort, I've got porn when I need it, and just treat women as I would a dude. Much happier. It's obviously not womens fault but sex is definitely the only power women have over most men and it ruins a lot of men. Once again not blaming women just wish I had realised this earlier. Lot's of women friends now and I can finally just be me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 01:07 PM
1	Men and women don't really need each other anymore It cracks me up when people talk like this because we all need each other, that's how we have survived as a species. The fact that we can't always have our own way is a trade off we make. Needing your partner is not toxic, them not showing up when you need them is toxic and vice versa. Need and want are intertwined in a relationship, if someone isn't providing what you need from them then the want is the first thing to go. If you want someone and they are not providing you with what you need the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 11:00 PM
1	You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"? Personally I don't think this is true, it's more about not being included with men who you consider a piece of shit. I would be open about my opinions on women who I felt the same way about. Have I ever lied to get laid, for sure, but not about things that really matter to me, and not about something that could hurt the women. Hey no one is perfect. I am pretty close however. See I lied. I am perfect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 09:50 AM
–	An average guy who is a good conversationalist has a greater chance of women treating him as "one of the girls" rather than it being an influence on their attraction toward him. No offense my friend, if this is your experience then not going to say it's not true but I'm an average dude who in my opinion has always batted above my level looks wise. Never had much game, not rich, not a bad boy. Although looks are always going to be an advantage, my experience is there's something else at play also, what that is I can't tell you, but all I can say is there are no rules to this stuff, it's not black and white it's more grey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 12:02 AM
1	An average guy who is a good conversationalist has a greater chance of women treating him as "one of the girls" rather than it being an influence on their attraction toward him. For sure, and to be honest I've friendzoned lot's of women in my time. It's called being friends. Sometimes friends aren't good friends and take advantage of your friendship, just life. Men and women. I've been a bad friend in my life, I think everyone has. I've definitely taken advantage of friendships with women to get sex knowing I didn't really feel the same way they did. This is a human thing not a gendered thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 11:39 PM
1	Men and women don't really need each other anymore I agree with you to a certain point, and I don't blame women wanting to be independent, historically most women are only now starting to experience what independence is truly about. Not beholden to a man for their survival because of patriarchy. And yes,I think that patriarchy exists, and no I am not a feminist, just not blind. We men need to accept this even if we don't like it, but women also have to accept that men will change as well as of a result of this. Maybe in ways they don't expect. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 10:20 PM
1	Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loser I don't know if this is true. I know a few men who are virgins by choice because they believe sex is for marriage or they are asexual. None of these guys are unattractive, they are just people and we are all different. No one should be shamed for their choices or even if it's not their choice, as long as they aren't hurting anyone else. Unfortunately humans will use anything these days to shame what they perceive to be weakness in their enemies and a lot of men and women are now, maybe always, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 11:18 PM