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FYI, most men who have any self respect or dating experience aren’t going to risk the emotional vulnerability and output only to have a woman he desires choose another man. It’s basically a win/lose situation for a man and woman when a man accepts the friend zone. I can’t believe most of you woman don’t understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:52 AM
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I grew up in a loveless and abusive home. I “met” a girl on AOL who said she loved me and I fell in love with. After she said her father forbid her to take to me anymore (when I was 16) I flew to NJ from OR to finally meet her in person. She never showed up. I don’t even think she was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:43 AM
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I’m 40. I won’t date a woman older than 33 until I can’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:58 AM
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A bunch of old femcels trying to indoctrinate younger women to hate men (especially if there’s ANY age gap). The juice isn’t worth the squeeze!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:05 PM
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Elaborate, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:17 PM
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I can tell you from personal experience as a man that most all of my long term girlfriends and most attractive partners came from cold approach in the daytime and nighttime. As the top commenter mentioned though, day game takes a lot of night game practice. You have to be socially aware and know how to understand what women are saying without them saying it…like, “get away from me”, OR “shut up and take my number”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:20 PM
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I’m not sure where you live, but men aren’t good for anything else besides being an accessory in most major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:39 AM
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Your points up through this thread are valid, and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:36 PM
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Doesn’t matter. Women will always have men who will give them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:58 PM
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Women don’t care about marriage or children anymore, and that’s where your version of the wall fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:50 AM
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That’s a valid question to ask. I’m 40, and I know a few of these women. That’s why I made this post. They f’k Tinder dudes half their age and take care of their dogs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:49 AM
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Someone commented it best with, “the wall is a male revenge fantasy”. Bro, she may not marry an alpha Chad after 35, but if she’s a 7+, she’s going to be f’king until she’s in her 50’s with willing men much younger than her, and she’ll have her community of friends and family to be just fine with. Statistically if you look at men, at around 45 we’re either dating women our age, paying for the younger women via sugaring or whore mongering. Also, if you’re a single man 30+, you don’t have the rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:15 AM
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Look at the trend. If you look back, that age gap has been shrinking more and more. When it’s the same age, you’ll know there are just as many old females looking for Cubs as men looking for SB’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:35 AM
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If I would have answered my own question, it’d largely be this. Men are forced to either level up hard or completely MGTOW. The middle ground for a man is torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:14 AM
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Yes, but women have the luxury of discounting the part about sex since it’s just an easy part of a woman’s entire life. As men get older, both of these things become much more difficult, and I don’t think it’s always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:53 AM
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I challenge you to search r/AskWomen and you’ll find top rated topics and comments around women dating 10 years younger or more sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:41 AM
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Studies have been posted on this channel time and time again proving only a small batch of men are having all that sex. If true, are we really doing well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:51 AM
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I was also thinking HGH.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:34 AM
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This is what I was talking about, big guy ;) https://www.menopause.org/for-women/menopauseflashes/menopause-symptoms-and-treatments/hormone-therapy-benefits-risks On a separate note: (40m) ended a relationship with my 24 year old gf a few months ago because I fell out of my frame. Stay on your game!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:30 AM
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Hate to tell you this but they absolutely are. Not only are they paying for sex, they’re actually on par with men for sex dolls!! https://youtu.be/GKFHZuCvvS4
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:17 AM
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Yeah, I suppose in the case of paternity, we’re definitely doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:15 AM
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I’m not sure I’d go this dystopian lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:13 AM
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I mean, this is for sure true, but what I find really strange about this dynamic is that shitty women are doing better than shitty men regarding friendship and intimacy. Would you agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:57 PM
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This is where u/groupme_throwaway and guys like him don't understand we lose. When we hit our wall, we're paying for companionship where women will always have hit as a natural part of their social circle and starving/thirsty men who will be happy to get some attention from a woman. I define "the wall" for men being when we have to start paying for female company.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:49 PM
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This is a really interesting perspective. Thank you! I do believe there's an inherent need to care for a family by all genders, but you're right. Some end up turning this into an idol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:46 PM
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I think MGTOW is different than going "Black Pill", which is MGTOW mixed with hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:36 PM
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The premise of what I wrote is opposite of what you said. I believe women don't need us for our money anymore. The roles have/are being reversed: we can basically be useless bums, but as long as we're fun, give good D'k and they enjoy our company, it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:35 PM
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Congratulations on finding someone and getting out of this mess! Are your girlfriends happy with the result of these new, modern relationship dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:33 PM
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That last sentence is a very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:30 PM
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I agree with these points. I'll ask you this though: I believe men need a purpose to work for and strive for. That purpose used to be taking care of their wife and children. Do you think that's effecting the lack of purpose in men today, since more and more don't have that family dynamic to take care of anymore? What's the female version of this struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:29 PM
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If we have to be at war for a woman to gain the same opportunity, It's not equal opportunity....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:25 PM
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This is what we keep telling ourselves, but I just don't think it's true. Women are getting hormone therapy just like us when they get to middle age, and there are plenty of younger guys who will be happy to just get their D wet. Us though? Unless you're able to pay for it with a sugar baby or prostitute, you're going to be well acquainted will Rosey Palm and her five friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:23 PM
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MGTOW seems to be a popular option for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:18 PM
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Well, there's plenty of data to show you're incorrect from a simple Google search. Women's ability to earn and hold executive positions was severely diminished before the 1970's. Has nothing to do with their capabilities at that point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:16 PM
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Let's say you're right, what's the recourse even if men did wake up and realize there's this technocratic system coming into play?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:13 PM
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I agree. Women have their own ability to create comfort, all we are good for is good D at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:10 PM
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This is technically true, but this is where I think the reality is we need them more than they need us. They don't have the same levels of physical drive we do, and they can get their social needs met easily by other women + family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:08 PM
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This is a good point in the equation. The real winners in this entire scenario are what's considered the "high value men"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:06 PM
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I think the "average" man and woman is where things actually get really bad for the man. The "average" woman will still get all of her social and relational needs. A 6-7 woman can easily sleep with whoever she wants for the most part. Women make and maintain friendships well into their late life where men on average find it more and more difficult to make new friendships as they get older. Also, there's actually a 19% difference between genders and college enrollment. References: https://www.wsj…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:04 PM
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I don’t think that’s true. A woman’s libido used to cost her a pregnancy, and her value was based partially on monogamy and in her femininity…but none of these hold true anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:45 PM
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Not at all. Mature adults should be able to disagree amicably. The tribalism our world is facing is the result of a pathetic, emotionally and intellectually stunted society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:48 AM
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I think you know you’re fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:49 AM
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Here’s the thing though: a young beautiful woman will bang an ugly old man, but when you’re old, it doesn’t matter how much money you have, men won’t have sex with you. You may think you can live like a man forever, but you can’t. You’ll learn the hard way when you’re 50+ and can’t even pay to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:35 PM
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There’s a big difference between your end conclusion and a man though. You hit 40, and those men aren’t there anymore. They’re dating women 10-20 years younger. Men at 40 are still not only sleeping with women in their 20’s & 30’s, they’re able to enter into a serious relationship. You’ll have to settle down with a man in his 50’s++ because you can no longer produce children. Maybe that’s ok with you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:53 AM
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You’ve just demonstrated a primary problem with female selection. You still don’t understand that men who will sleep with you won’t necessarily ever settle down with you. If a guy who’s as or better looking than you is hooking up with you, there’s a 50-100% chance he’s using you. Interestingly then if you date/sleep with someone as or less attractive, you have a 50-100% chance of fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:51 PM
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Must have a solid career Must be intelligent Must have natural chemistry Must want to, and have the ability to have children High sexual attraction All other women go to the fun zone with no commitment offered or implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:41 AM
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Also 40. Fearful of being forced into MGTOW. Why did you decide on this lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:00 PM
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Part of the FDS handbook is to look for private access into phones, bank statements, etc. FDS Women are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:15 PM
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Older men are definitely stealing gen Y and Z women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:16 PM
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FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:54 PM
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I hear you. I totally had that concern before I started regularly practicing. At the beginning, I had a 50/50 experience when cold approaching (not meaning I'd get a number, but I'd be well received). Then that turned into 60/40, then 80/20. Now I'd say 95/05. I have a girlfriend now, but at this point because I know how to read attraction really well, if I go talk to a girl, there's an 80% chance I'll get her number, 10% she'll just want to come home with me right there, and 10% fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:33 PM
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Sounds like you have a great life bro...those are all great activities! I just remember reading in another post you said you stayed indoors often. Definitely not conducive to dating. From being someone who only had 6 partners at 32 to having 70+ at 40, this is what I changed and noticed are the top attraction factors: Self love / self confidence - a woman will see you how you see yourself. If you don't like yourself or have low self esteem, beautiful women will smell it like a stench. You have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:25 PM
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Sounds like your issue is being boring. It kind of sucks, but if you’re a man who wants to be in an actual relationship with a beautiful woman, 75% of the time you’ll have to lead a life that has a story she wants to join. The other 25% of those beautiful women are introverted or super chill indoors types...but they get snatched up really quickly because their bar is so low lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:31 PM
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I’ve definitely had awkward moments caused by approaching. A girl from my church basically acted as if I had raped her just because I asked her out...literally just asked if she wanted to get a drink with me. What I realized though is if I approach a woman respectfully and appropriately, and she decides to react badly, that’s not on me, that’s her issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:18 PM
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Bruh...if you can’t meet women at this point of the pandemic, you don’t deserve a p3nis. I live in the most locked down part of America, which is basically like locked down Germany. Mask mandates have been loosened for those who have been vaxed, and women are the thirstiest I’ve ever seen. You’d better up your game or lose out on the best time to be a man in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:02 AM
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I'm definitely doing all of the initiating, and at this point I've just gotten pretty good at sensing when someone is open to being approached. Every best relationship I've had with the most beautiful women have been because of approaching....not online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:22 PM
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I'm in the USA. You? "Breaking the ice" is a definite skill, but it can be built. I've spent an accumulative 2 months in Netherlands where women are well known around the world to be hard asses. Definitely built my skills up to another level there! It just takes practice, patience, and willing to fail and feel embarrassed until you just don't anymore. I've had my share of approach fails, trust me!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:06 PM
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I don't know what to tell you. Are you a pleasant person? Happy? Just working out and being good looking aren't going to get you smart, mentally healthy, pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:05 PM
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Sure! For my current girl, as I was running towards her she looked at me and started slightly smiling. As I got closer, we locked eye's for a bit, and as I started to pass her I turned around and asked for her name. We chatted for a minute, I asked for her number, I sent a text a couple days later to set a date, and here we are 5 months later! For my last girlfriend, I was working from a coffee shop. The place is setup with couches where she walked in and sat on the next couch over. We looked at…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:01 PM
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I’ve always attracted women pretty easily. I met my girlfriend I have now while running in the park, and my last girlfriend while at a coffee shop. You’re more likely to meet a good girl during the day just living life than at a club, bar or pub. If you’re a good looking guy, all you have to do is not screw up lol. Good looks just get you in the door, but personality gets you a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:57 AM
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Women love nice guys, not boring guys! Women don’t care about what you have, they care about how you make them feel! The more beautiful a woman is, the more repulsed she is by insecurity...they can almost smell it, and some of you reek of it. Healthy women don’t want to be your focus, they want to compliment your already awesome life! They want a centered man who can take care of himself and the people surrounding him. They want a man who knows what they want! These are the desires of women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:26 PM
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My girlfriend can’t get enough of it! I thought the same thing when I was your age, until I realized I was assuming what I respected about men as what women were attracted to. Once I started doing things women were actually attracted to, my life changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:10 PM
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FYI women love sex as much as men. I’ve had a woman jump on my lap and ride me when I was horribly sick with COVID. Another woman got us kicked out of a bar because she started stripping and pulling me on to her. You just have to know how to trigger her attraction...being a Chad doesn’t do that, just gets you the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:12 PM
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Sorry, I excluded that she’s a Ph.d student. She’s in a masters/Ph.d program for neuro psychology, 3 years in, 5 years to go. The fact you know what you want and are centered is what makes you masculine. Taking on a partner is a decision to support each other’s visions and make sacrifices as necessary. If you don’t ever meet a women you’re willing to make sacrifices for, you should for sure remain single. Sounds like you’re happy 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:31 AM
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I (40m) went through this in my 30’s. Just as you said, I got no play in my younger years (including my 20’s), but once I hit my 30’s, I found my center, my confidence, my career, and I couldn’t keep the women away. I needed a (long) period of time to enjoy indulging in the women that had always eluded me. Now that I’m 40, I’ve had my fun and I’m ready to settle down with my current girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:50 AM
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I’m for the most part “red pilled”, meaning I don’t put women ahead of my own well being and expect a partner, not an idol. The one unhealthy part of red pill culture I’ve side stepped as a toxic trait is the narrative to just exit the dating pool because I get shot down. If a mate you “deserve” has not been obtained by your current status: intellectually, emotionally, financially, etc. If you really don’t want a partner, that’s fine. Congratulations on obtaining the life you want. If you’re jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:45 AM
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To be quite honest, every “pump and dump” I’ve (40m) had has been mutual. I’ve slept with around 70 women, and most of them have been one night stands. Most were just (if not more) comfortable with one night of sex than me. Interestingly enough, most all ONS I’ve had with 19-24 year old women, so they seem to want experience with an older guy...that’s what they get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:24 AM
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This is not “toxic” femininity. This is just femininity...how 90% of women are. Once you understand that, life becomes much less frustrating as a man. Sounds like you need to take some red pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:21 PM
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For blue or purple pilled men, their unwillingness to move on a woman has nothing to do with being “flaccid” or unable to perform. It has to do with what he thinks of himself or what a woman will think of him. You might be attractive enough to have plenty of more confident and/or oblivious men approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:50 PM
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I was really shy and insecure in my 20’s even though I found out a lot of women had interest in me. Learning from that in my 30’s, I found that: Women will lose respect for a man they show interest in, shows interest in return, but doesn’t make a move. Consciously or unconsciously, they see you as weak. Men don’t realize women feel rejection 10x than us. If a woman is a 7+, she’s used to only having to show some interest by orbiting a guy or giving simple validation/attention. If a guy doesn’t r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:14 PM
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Look at any medical study/article from a peer reviewed source and you’ll find nothing but warnings against attempting pregnancy after 40. Women think they can have it all, but biology is the real wall, and women delude each other to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:52 PM
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