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Na man, these used thrill seekers don't get any attention past a one night stand. There's no one respectable at the finish line waiting for her ass. She's that quick water break you take on the run towards the finish line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 03:53 AM
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These hoes want to have a cock and eat it too. Stay single, do young hoe things, but you better be ready to downgrade your ideal mate each passing year and each passing dick slide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 11:46 PM
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Lie and tell her it's your place. If the girl finds out it's your parents house, she'll be turned off my man. Fix that shit. Why are you still living with your parents?
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:39 PM
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That's a hard question my dude. No one can know if we didnt see the actual date. If you're kissing sucks and you kissed for an excessively long time then you probably gave her too much and she got bored. You need to push/pull. Don't just kiss her endlessly. Make her work for it or have something to look forward to. It's also very possible that she's seeing someone else more interesting like someone else pointed out in the comments.
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:34 PM
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Fuck man... Not OP, but you just made me think about some deep shit. Specially relating about relationships falling in my lap when I don't necessarily seek them out. Yet, still continuing on because I care for the girl. Broke up with a long term girlfriend a few months ago due to jealousy issues and I promised myself that I'm doing the single thing for a looong fucking time. More fun that way. It just feels more right to be single now that the breaking up bullshit feelings are out the window. I …
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:31 AM
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In my opinion this text. " see you Saturday? you know, for the camping;)" Is super wishy washy and low confidence. Like you're unsure of yourself almost if you're going camping. Like you depend on her to say yes so you have something to do. You should try to be more fun man. Maybe something like Camping this Saturday. I'm gonna go for it. Join up if you get the chance. Takes the pressure off her. If she wants to join up then she'll ask for details. If not then it's all good. Maybe it doesn't eve…
/r/seduction21/06/19 01:01 AM
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Get fun and social hobbies. Develop a personality. Go to the gym Practice actually approaching Don't be a reading guru who doesn't actually approach.
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:51 AM
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MY REVIEW MATTERS!! LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT IT. Don't get salty bro, I'm just saying. Chilax.
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:18 AM
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I don't think your boy really wants to watch the show though..
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:16 AM
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From my conversations with girls I've slept with and past girlfriends. Yes, women often crave it really fucking bad. Talk to a girl you're dating about filling her up, nibbling on her nipples, spanking her ass, and you'll visually see her start to warm up. Is it exactly the same urge and desire? Who knows, we need to hire scientists for that, but they for sure crave it really badly. How bad exactly depends on the girl. Some girls are lightly horny. Others live in wild town where they need to mas…
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:46 AM
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Because girls like to fuck too my man. Don't judge them for it. Let them have fun. Now whether a girl sleeping around a lot is a turn off for you personally is a whole other manner. For me it is and I'll never consider a girl for a long term relationship if they've slept around excessively. Girlfriends(friends that happen to be women) that I talk to about this shit always get on my case about it. I always tell them to think about it logically because they're judging my preference. I won't judge …
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:33 AM
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I think what you're looking for or asking for is how to be more flirty. That honestly depends on your personality. For me, being flirty is being assumptious, assuming attraction, and maybe a bit cocky or sexual. In my head, this girl wants me. I know what I have to offer because honestly I've very happy with my life and I don't care if you like me, love me, or hate me unless you're close family or close friends. My activities throughout the week don't stop because a girl rejects me. I can say wh…
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:00 AM
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Could be a few things. My top two guesses would be - Neediness - Boring(inclusive on not making moves thus not creating excitement). We don't really know you though, so that's a hard question to ask. Get a friend to smell your breath. Ask a friend if they could check you for body odor(how can you not tell if you smell bad my dude?). How big is your sample size? Could be that it's just a short line of women that genuinely just don't like you for any reason.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:41 PM
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In general, most women are not all that different. Yes, they are uniquely individualistic human beings with their own specific mindsets on things, but women subconsciously without knowing, set trends that when learned apply to easily 90% of them. Women more regularly than not try to lock down confident, strong, financially viable, good looking men. It's not a secret. Us as men do the same shit with a different angle. We try to get with hot beautiful women. Either via hookups or relationships. As…
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:04 PM
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Sometimes, negativity is revealing. Let him be negative. At least he's acknowledged it and is taking steps towards making it better for himself. The real tragedy would be if he as negative and helpless. Similarly to a bunch of other people on this subreddit. He's doing well for himself, he'll be fine.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:00 PM
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I'd debate a bit with you and explain, but you've already shown to be insanely hard headed in previous comments with other people. Not worth it for me my man. It would be like talking to a wall. You can just see me as being wrong, I'll see you how I see you and we'll leave it at that. Have a good evening.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:31 AM
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Dancing bachata and kizomba/urban kiz is where it's at my man! Most fun hobbies ever.
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:59 PM
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Don't feed the troll man. This dude is on road to becoming an incel. You're talking to a redditor that hangs out in gone wild subreddits complimenting the women. Why waste your energy trying to explain yourself to a bottom feeder. He's very clearly straw manning every single comment of yours. Drop this bitch. Stop wasting time.
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:55 PM
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It's hard man and that's why not all of guys do it. But for those who do, there are some good benefits. We gain a lot in life from understanding something is difficult and doing it anyways. It builds your inner strength and confidence. There's life lessons in pick up. It's an amazing thing. Flake is when a girl will give you the number, but then won't show interest in actually meeting. Mostly happens when you've not built enough comfort during your interaction with her. A lot of new guys think t…
/r/seduction02/06/19 09:06 PM
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Yeah so going in for the number instantly will big time increase the amount of flakes you get. You're already aware of that. Personally, IF you can do it I'd stick around and try to talk for at least a few minutes. Even if it gets awkward. You can recalibrate as time goes on. I know that's asking for a lot from a lot of guys, but you sound like you could manage it. If not then yeah, direct approaching and snatching the number is the second best option. It at least gets you out there, but it won'…
/r/seduction02/06/19 06:10 PM
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-Starting out, it sucks because you're bad at it. -Once you do it for a few weeks, you'll probably still suck, but at least you'll be proud that you're still doing it and your confidence will increase because of it. -Eventually with experience and getting to know women and dating women, sex, being flirtatious, etc. You will be comfortable. You won't care as much if you get rejected because you have other options and you'll be smoother and it'll feel amazing. Like anything in life. It takes a few…
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:26 PM
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Don't provide explanations. It will make you look like you don't have confidence. Matter of fact is that to some people you will be an inconvenience by approaching them and other's you'll make their day or week. You can't predict that, but the way I see it is that even if you did inconvenience someone, then who cares? They can walk away at any moment if they want to and there's nothing wrong with displaying interest in someone unless you do it in the most retarded, cat cally way possible. What, …
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:20 PM
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That's not a good relationship my man. If she did almost cheat because of that you need to do yourself a favor and let this girl go. I saw that in another comment you wrote she had been raped prior to you. It's not your job to fix her and it's not your job to give her the validation she needs because of her damage. I know this from personal experience. I've been in a long term relationship with a girl that was raped when she was a minor. That shit fucks with them and they have to take care of th…
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:57 AM
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Less than 1% of this sub realistically does day or night game. If I had to guess. Maybe 1 for every 500 men that read about pickup consistently actually stick it out and go through with things.
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:22 PM
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Say anything that pops in your head dude. It doesn't matter. When stuff like that happens I like to tease and be playful. Don't be scared. Even throw some blatant pickup terms in there if you feel like it, it doesn't matter. "I noticed you were eyeing me pretty hard there... /Listen to her banter blah blah And go from there. Tease her about her wanting to pick you up and take you home. Tell her you're not a floozy. Do the whole reverse role shit where you're the prize. Don't be scared to fuck ar…
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:20 PM
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Don't over do it. If she's seeking attention often then maybe be a bit wary. That shit is dangerous. You cant validate her every day. When you do want to throw her a bone and make her feel good, tell her how you'd fuck her if she was here when she sends you good pictures. Again, be wary though. Girls with attention issues might seek it out in other areas if you don't play. It's a double edged sword. You validate her too much and she'll lose interest in your validation and seek it somewhere else.…
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:14 PM
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Definitely a hookup. Easy pickings for OP. @OP, set up a meet tonight.
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:31 PM
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Don't do this. Sounds like you value her time more than hers. Rookie mistake.
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:28 PM
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I hug my pillow, but I don't really think of women when doing it. It's just comfortable. Ask yourself whether the thinking of women while hugging the pillow is you living in the past a bit or if its just an immediate comfort that helps you fall asleep. I don't think it should be problematic unless you find its fucking up your confidence or pedestalizing women you've been with.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:02 AM
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Don't worry too much about the moments and age. Young girls will want to be with you well into your 30's still. Start building your shit. That includes doing daygame. Even if your life is shit now, if you do daygame and get good at it, you'll still get laid or find a partner. Whatever you're looking for. Start now though. Contrary to popular advice on this subreddit. You dont NEED to spend years building yourself first. You can still get laid, but you have to go out and talk to women.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:59 AM
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It honestly sounds like she's already down to fuck you dude. Just don't fuck it up. You're asking for a tall order with the "how to flirt" "how to touch". That shit takes time and practice. Read the side bar.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:57 AM
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Talk to more women, practice, repeat. That comes with experience unless you're looking for forced banter then you can probably find youtube videos on it.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:53 AM
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You'll soon find that some women are insanely awkward/nervous/shy/introverted/scared(yes, even the hot ones) just like many men are. It's one of the best revelations a guy can understand. They're not this fucking alien all these dudes expect her to be. She's a woman.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:50 AM
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Open relationship - You guys rely on each other for emotional support and are in a traditional relationship with the exception of being allowed to fuck other people. Fuck buddies - You guys fuck here and there. No emotional support is expected. You're there for pleasure only.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:39 PM
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That's the million dollar question my dude. I hope you find it someday. I guess it just depends how bad your autism is and how mentally strong you are to get past that hurdle in your life. I've met my share of dudes on the spectrum that pull. My buddy has the thickest stutter when he talks because his mind goes apeshit when he's interacting with people, but he pushes through. When it gets really bad, he'll take 5 seconds or so to stop mid stutter at times, breathe, and then start again. People t…
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:10 PM
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I think that porn or even a more visual semi realistic porn experience demotivates you to seek actual women and that's a dangerous thing. Honestly, as realistic as it is and as pleasurable that it is. To me, porn will never match the real life experience. If all you care about is getting off then maybe, but I really enjoy the other aspects of picking up women. There's the whole phase of building something out of nothing, flirting, dirty messages, dirty phone talks, going out and sharing time wit…
/r/seduction19/05/19 09:02 PM
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Too much collision man. I think you did well with being less invested than she was, but you're also being kind of needy. So what if you think she's lying. You've told her you'd like to meet. She knows and now it's time to see if she'll take you up on it. Set your phone down or talk to other women. Ignore her and if she messages you later on then you can revisit, but for now just put it away.
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:46 PM
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lmao Dude, you should date more girls. Hugs are good, awkwardly waiting for her to take lead is bad. Why the hell are you giving advice?
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:41 PM
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I feel you man. It's hard to do those things when you're still trying to figure yourself out. At.one point you'll have to jump into the water, but if that feels impossible and truly truly impossible for you then I guess the next step is also to start gaining confidence right? Do you have any interesting hobbies yet? Social hobbies where you could meet people and make friends? Dancing would be a good option.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:58 PM
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So right off the bat your whole approach screams like you're trying really really hard. It's also painfully obvious that this is your go to intro if you will call it that. She's aware and her answers almost seem like she's being polite. She might be messaging you back because she thinks you're cute, but your text game sucks, but that's alright. Just means you have stuff to work on. My advice would be to drop the text adventure game approach altogether. Be more flirty, talk about real shit, don't…
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:12 PM
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Waiting for a woman to signal you to approach is retarded. Do you wait until a job application reaches your foot to apply to it? Do you wait until life tells you it's ok to proceed to proceed and try to do something? I get the book could, keyword being COULD be a minor addition, but to learn those signals is a waste of time. You can learn that and better undertones by actually talking to women and building experience instead of wasting your damn time reading a lame book and waiting for them to s…
/r/seduction12/05/19 01:54 AM
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I think that in a relationship the controlling aspect dynamic is different. If you're dating, I'd say sure, do your thing I don't care. If youre in a relationship and you genuinely don't care she's sharing drinks with another dude then sure, tell her to have fun. However, if you're not truly comfortable with that, you should make it very clear and set boundaries with her. There's respect in that in it's own. Everyone touts the whole "just trust her, let her be". I disagree with that sentiment. I…
/r/seduction12/05/19 01:49 AM
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That's because you still have to learn that you're the man in control. If they start doing that then start ignoring them. You have to dig it in your head that you're in control. You have the money, you don't need them. If they're doing something you don't like then start ignoring them or cut them out all together. Have fun man. You've set yourself up in an area that's super liberating. Not having money issues is amazing. Now it's time to reframe your mind and work on the other lacking areas of y…
/r/seduction12/05/19 01:33 AM
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I love me some good trolling man, thank you. And I genuinely mean that, had me laughing lol.
/r/seduction08/05/19 09:38 PM
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There's more in depth information for groups online if you look for it, but basically when dealing with groups you have to be sure you can socialize with everyone in the group. If there's a specific girl you like, don't directly talk to her 100% of the time. Be social with her friends with a tiny bit of interaction with her, but just a bit. If she's a maybe girl, seeing you be social with her friends will increase her attraction towards you. ​ Could you have pulled? Doesn't seem like it off the …
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:57 AM
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They're constantly texting and not meeting up because they don't care enough to actually meet up. They're happy with just the attention that you're funneling to them. I think you're doing well by not entertaining their attention seeking. That being said, there's not much else you can really do. That's online apps in a nutshell my dude. Try this out. Keep conversations short and sweet. Don't entertain the boring back and forth that no one gives a crap about and instead twist the conversation into…
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:48 AM
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Red flag #1: I love you after a few days, no... Red flag #2: You're an emotional tampon. Red flag #3: She's still in contact with her ex(all good if you're just looking to smash). ​ The first red flag alone is already kinda sketch. I'd do yourself a favor and start nexting this girl. She's damaged and you can't fix her. She has to work out her shit.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:43 AM
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Sounds like she's looking to flirt/banter, but without knowing the girl it it's hard to say. She could also just genuinely want you to visit. Play it by ear. No one here knows her as well as you do. And as other's have said. Don't do long distance long term in case you aren't already aware. Horrible idea.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:36 AM
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No, I'm saying that learning either scripts/canned material and gestures is idiotic and counterproductive to a beginner(most people in this sub are beginners). The best thing a beginner can do is go out and approach women, fail, and learn. Not sit there at home reading a book about how a woman will hint at her being interested by peeking over her glasses. If they can't approach because they lack confidence or are scared then they need to invest time in their appearance and hobbies to build their…
/r/seduction06/05/19 11:06 PM
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Don't memorize lines and scripts! Memorize women's cues instead such AS "playing with her jewelry" or the old time classic of "peeking over a book" lmao. This shit is hilarious. Here's the actual answer, assume attraction in most if not all scenarios. Learn to flirt. Learn to pick up cues by actually talking to women. There's no need to memorize these cheesy ass signals and sit there seeking them out. Just approach and you'll waste less time. Imagine sitting there waiting for a woman to give you…
/r/seduction06/05/19 07:52 PM
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Easy mode game in foreign countries where American men are a rarity and thus high value. Might as well make it 150 and be just as believable with the ease.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:15 PM
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What's wrong with trying to up your lay count if that's what someone wants to do? This sub is so into the "BE A BEAUTIFUL MALE ROLE MODEL" hard on. Why does that matter? Fuck who you want if that's what you want to do. Get a single girlfriend and love her if that's your cup of tea. Who cares. This subreddit is about seducing. The how's, do's, dont's, and actually taking action towards that. How you harness that is individualistic. Dudes here that can't even say hi to a woman trying to be stand u…
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:08 PM
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Periods and commas bro. Learn to use them. ​ I don't think so. At least not in today's society. Most men are a mess as adults due to continuously missing father figures, mentors, and the way society shames sexual men. I'd argue that it's even more expected that a man will grow up to be a pussy. The men that sense something is off will attempt to realign themselves and the others will continue with the path that was handed to them. Part of the reason why strong, sexy, masculine men are in demand …
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:52 PM
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You could have gotten the lay the first night man, but good on you for eventually sticking the landing. Take the opportunities when they arrive. Don't make a habit of letting things linger on for weeks or you're gonna miss out on a lot of things. This one worked out, but they won't always if you let them pass you by. You justified it a lot by pretending like you didn't really care, but I think you did care and would rather not admit on the post for cool guy points which is totally all good if yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 11:51 PM
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Yeah, I think most dudes that seek to make themselves better know the feeling. It's called failure my dude. It's not all magical improvements. More failure than success a lot of times, but if you're not able to move past that then you're fucked. The alternative is giving up and being a whiny girl. If that's the point you've reached then you're almost entirely fucked. Best wishes. I hope you can dig yourself out of that mindset. I know it's tough. Specially when your mind has already decided that…
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:16 PM
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