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| 1 | How difficult has dating been for YOU?Was tough when I was 16-17 then became relatively easy. Made an effort on improving the way I looked, became a lot more confident in myself. Then a couple years later at 20 made more of an emphasis on allowing myself to just have good conversations with girl, with little pressure on anything happening; and that just seemed to lead to the girls really really liking me. However for some reason I would just never fall in love with them, I have learnt maybe it was because of my issues at the time (m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Has an ex ever changed your view of human nature? What specific action did they do that caused this?No clue, made me reevaluate my friendship with him. He was a very impulsive and childish 18 year old (I was 20 at the time) who I mainly bonded with over substance use and music. Less so about me liking his personality. I was just so numb all the time that it didn’t really matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Has an ex ever changed your view of human nature? What specific action did they do that caused this?I was talking to a girl for 2 months daily and we had kissed on several occasions and it all pointed towards the beginning of a relationship. One day I had a depressive episode (happenned a lot to me at the time) and I asked if she could come for a chat. We talked a bit and the. Went back to our flats. She didn’t message me for 3 days until I invited her to a party I was at; she barely looked at me at all, and I tried to bridge the distance by being nice and trying to talk to her. Later on durin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Do -good- girls fall for bad boys? Or do only people with issues attract and enable each other?Hey I don’t have BPD but I do have friends both male and female who do and you talking about it isn’t this way is pretty disrespectful. Not everyone who has BPD or other disorder characterised by mood swings is ‘psycho’. I bet If you had severe mood swings you wouldn’t want people to go round calling you crazy or psycho. Cmon dude, your comment was so on point until that last bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?Sounds like she wasn’t really into him physically. In my experience on both ends of this situation I’d say usually it comes down to due to the person being a lot more emotionally invested in the other person, they feel more nervous about maybe fucking it up and ending up alone like before; or they feel like going slowly will make it feel more special. Is this the right course of action? Idk Will this course of action hurt the other person? Yes of course it will Is it usually because women are na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How often do you see women who sleep with one guy fast and make others wait?I have both done this and been on the receiving end of this. I am a dude btw. My first ever relationship came to me after me hooking up with around 9 other girls, all one night stands. However with this girl I didn’t feel like it was right to have sex till a couple weeks had passed. We did do foreplay but I told her I didn’t feel ready to have sex yet and preferred to wait. She was fine with that and eventually after only a couple weeks i was ready and we had sex. Reverse. I had been talking to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider a high N-count?I don’t really care that much, my partner is at like mid 30’s and I’m at 18. We’re both in our early 20’s, I am 2 years younger however and were I not together with her and some other external factors like drug abuse which lowered my libido for a year I’d be in similar numbers, so I really could not care less for her having that number count. I’m glad she has had enough experience to know what she likes and what she doesn’t, I’m glad I’ve had enough experience to know what things to do and in wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:47 AM |
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