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Sorry but I ain’t got time for all that at this point in my life I’m not trying to have an LTR I have two steady FWB’s And that’s what works for me at this point in my life since I’m focused on my work and I enjoy the freedom of being single and the variety of dating different people so no, I don’t agree with your assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:04 AM
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Why can’t chicks just want to focus on their careers or whatever and just have a fuck buddy or two m on the side just to relieve the tension every once in a while? What’s wrong with that? I’m a guy who doesn’t want a LTR because I work and move around a lot and I have two FWBs, once that I see about once a week and the other about twice a month because she travels a lot for work and I love that low commitment type of arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:12 PM
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As a guy, I don’t see things like OP at all. I like knowing that the women I date had a lot of options but they chose to date me over the other dudes they matched with. Just like I also find it flattering that the women I have FWBs relationship with could have chosen to hook up with any of the dudes they matched with on dating apps, the guys who are always sliding in their DMs, or even the dudes they friendzoned that actually wish they could be in an actual committed relationship with them but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:59 PM
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That wasn’t “advice”. Advice comes in the form of a suggestion that is given humbly, what you did was write something in an obnoxious way acting like line it is was god-given truth when it wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:21 PM
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Why do you care so much? I’m a guy who lives casual dating because I have absolutely no interest in getting married and having kids. And what you’re saying about conforming isn’t true, if anything this lifestyle taught me how to be original and live life according to my personality and my beliefs and values, as well as being confident. It taught me how to go against the grain and not give a crap what others think and to be successful at attracting the high value type of women I’m attracted to, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:14 AM
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It’s definitely weak to pretend to be a woman’s friend and to be nice just because you hope it’ll make her want you when someone with confidence and an assertive personality would have been honest about his intentions and asked her out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:11 PM
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That’s not true at all. Good people are nice to others without having any type of extra motive in mind and without expecting anything in return. I treat everyone the same regardless of who they are and regardless of whether I can get something out of them or not and I certainly don’t act nice to get something from people, it’s just how I am. That’s another thing about Nice Guys, women can sense that they’re not genuine and that they’re acting that way because they want something, and it’s a huge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:05 PM
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I think you’re confusing “Nice Guys” with “good people”. A Nice Guy is a guy who acts “nice” with women because he thinks it’s going to make chicks be into him, that’s why the second they get rejected they usually turn nasty. Another reason they act “nice” is because they don’t have the balls to actually tell a girl that they’re attracted to her and want to date her, so they basically act “nice” and pretend to be their friend hoping it’ll lead to the chick being into them. Those dudes make being…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:39 PM
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Only incels and guys who are bitter at their own lock of experience and lack of success in dating and seduction care about n count as long as you don’t have any STDs. In fact most guys who say they care about n count are gaslighting themselves into believing they care because it’s easier than admitting that they’re bitter because they’re sexually inexperienced and because they never got to experience being sexually desired so they te to save what little pride they have left by making it seem tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:34 AM
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That’s only because more experienced women (and men) are more likely to know what they want in a husband and a sexual partner and not settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:28 AM
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Sorry but that’s not true. You definitely need experience to really know your way around women’s bodies and to actually be good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:13 PM
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I’m a dude, bruh. I’m just not one of the incel neck beards I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:35 AM
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No I don’t agree. The media is simply a reflection of the times, not the other way around. We’ve never had more poorly socialized angry males, addicted to porn and video games. On top of that a lot of these kids are out of shape because shit Walmart and fast food is cheap and if they have the type of parents who aren’t feeding their kids shit from Whole Foods and the damn farmer’s market then chances are they’re not going to stop their kids from having their face in a screen 18 hours a day and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:59 PM
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In dating “standing out” means being high value as opposed to just average / forgettable. The total package is: looks (face + body), social / communication skills and personality / charisma (sense of humor, ambition, etc..). For the most part there’s no getting around physical attraction no matter how funny and charming a guy is. Also keep in mind that most women can’t handle confrontation of any kind and would rather laugh than have an awkward conversation to tell you they just had a really lon…
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:05 AM
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Lol I don’t know if you’re just young or really inexperienced but this isn’t a “shit test” and OP probably should be worried because he did or said something that completely turned her off and made her lose all interest to the point she didn’t even want to finish the date or get a ride home. OP is never going to hear from her again and there’s absolutely no point in trying to contact her again.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:58 AM
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Start by surrounding yourself by high value women, and eventually you’ll date someone you see yourself ring exclusive with and take it from there.
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:13 PM
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Social skills and communication skills are the most important things you can have if you want to be successful at dating and seduction. I had to learn to develop my social skills and communication skills despite my autism because I could see that there was a clear disconnect between the kids who knew what they were doing and me who’s on the spectrum and I knew that if I didn’t develop my ability to socialize and communicate with people and women in particular I would end up like certain adults I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:04 PM
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Bro calling dudes “kings” is super cringe, I hope you don’t talk like that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:11 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’ve always had a successful dating life but I don’t even want one wife, and I don’t understand why any man would want to complicate his life with multiple wives when a man can just stay a bachelor and date women he’s not financially responsible for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:55 PM
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Your mom’s a fluke for not teaching you about not making dick comments. It’s about how he feels inside and how he’s able to communicate with and relate to women and escalate that into something more intimate, it’s not about banging “two chicks a week” so he can prove something to weirdos like you.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:58 PM
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First, this isn’t new to this day and age, this is how it’s always been. And second, confidence comes from within, it doesn’t come from validation from outside sources but from the knowledge that you’re good for yourself: that you’ve set high standards for yourself and that you’re keeping to them and that you’re good enough for you and that’s all that matters.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:12 PM
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“Online game”? What’s that? You mean sliding in girls DMs trying to hit on perfect strangers?:
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:11 PM
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Imagine if your GF had a crush on an actor (taller with a better body than yours) in a Netflix series that you guys watch together and every time a there’s a scene with him in it she gets hot and bothered, would you mind knowing she’s sitting there next to you thinking about what it must be like to get ravaged by him and his hot(tter than yours) body. Would you mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:52 AM
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The average guy has a dad bod..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:44 AM
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No one taught any of Is how to do it, it’s just something you learn within your social circles. The more you socialize the more communication and social skills you lean, and the more you hang out with women the more flirting and seduction skills you learn, but I don’t think any of had someone “teach us” seduction and how to communicate with women.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:44 AM
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Or you could just date high value women that have their own money and their own careers and who don’t need a red cent from a dude. That’s what I do and they don’t ask me for shit, they volunteer to pay for half of everything and spoil me sometimes and there’s no need to question their motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:08 AM
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But why is your pride SO hurt? I don’t get it what difference would it have made if she said hello? Would you have felt special even though there’s 1k dudes in the room? We’re you hoping there was a chance you could have actually gotten something more out of her? I just don’t get what difference it makes.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:05 AM
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You definitely acted like a schmuck OP, how this inspired you to not be as entitled and stop expecting a woman to treat you like you’re special because you dropped a lousy twenty bucks in a room that has 1k other dudes in it.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:03 PM
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No they’re not, men get physically threatening, women don’t do that.
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:37 PM
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That’s super immature. When someone acts low class to me, I don’t stoop down and mimic their behavior, I have higher standards than that.
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:33 PM
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Actually a man with higher self respect will be completely indifferent, only incels think it’s manly to have “severe and absolute” reactions to getting rejected. A real man has too much class and too many other options to even have a reaction, never mind an emotional knee-jerk reaction like anger or bitterness.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:21 PM
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“Consequences to their rejections”? Are you serious? Women are art acting shitty they’re just going for the guys they’re actracted to, as everyone has the right to do in a free country. You want to punish women who reject men they’re not attracted to? That sounds like incel shit to me.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:47 PM
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This happens all the time with couples who got married to young and lost your virginity to each other and never got a chance to experiment with other people and really figure out their own sexual identities before they settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:11 AM
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I think it’s kind of petty to need to have a “come back” to a rejection, especially at the age of the guy in the video you linked. I think it’s shows a lack of class and maturity but it also shows that the guy cares and took the rejection personally, otherwise he wouldn’t have had the need to “save face” by making a snarky comment.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:54 AM
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People with higher n counts usually know what they’re doing. Obviously they can never be as bad a virgin / someone with very little experience, especially for guys who think watching porn actually showed them how to do the real thing. I constantly hear women complain about dudes who thought trying to recreate what they saw in porn would make them “OK” on their first few times and apparently it’s always a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:33 AM
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Same. After a while when you know what you’re doing you don’t need to ask to know how experienced somebody is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:29 AM
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I really doubt that, I’ve never seen a woman physically threaten a guy and assault him because of rejection whereas every single woman I know has multiple stories of times when men got physically threatening because they were rejected.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:14 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for your input.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:11 AM
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But it still comes off as petty and vindictive and it’s not a great look, you know?
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:51 AM
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Why would you stoop down to that level though? Plus a an emotional reaction like that just tells the woman that she managed to get to you and get you to lose your cool, meaning you “care”. Personally, that would be a situation where I’d rather make her think I don’t care and that she can’t live rent free in my head.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:35 AM
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She’s over 36, right?
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:37 PM
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I don’t conflate those things at all. Sadly, until I matured and grew out of it I craved sec and attention for the better part of 20 years. At least it was an interesting road.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:17 PM
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Overall as well, because “chads” (even though I find that stereotype ridiculous) aren’t desperate for attention or sex and their behavior reflects that confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:01 PM
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“Genuine and real” ain’t worth much if you’re a douchebag. I’m a dude and I’ve ghosted women for all the reasons you mentioned. Not because I’m mean, but because they’re all red flags that are indicative of the person’s mental state. A person who double texts a lot is impatient and has too much time on their hands that they’re not using for anything positive or productive, otherwise they wouldn’t be double texting you knowing that most people find annoying. The same goes for texting too much. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:59 PM
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I’m not interested in women with kids because of she has children it means we’re not interested in the same life path and lifestyle. The women I’m attracted to are worldly, well traveled, they speak multiple languages, they’re highly accomplished in terms of academics and careers they like to use their time and money on travel and the finer things is life, and there’s nothing fine about screaming kids and shitty diapers. And while I don’t think there’s anything wrong with women who do want kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:29 PM
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Lingerie. I’ve done some underwear modeling for high end male lingerie designers like Candyman and it’s crazy how big the industry is getting and how fast it’s growing. Male lingerie is becoming huge and Designers like Candyman, Doreanse, Male Basics and Pikante have all become huge over the past few years. Especially since men are starting to understand that woman don’t fantasize about a guy wearing old Walmart boxer shorts with a hole in them or that women definitely check the asses of guys in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:36 PM
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I call myself average because I don’t have a square jaw, I’m short and I’m not particularly rich compared to most of the people in my social circle. But the socio-economic groups I surround myself with and the kind of women I go for definitely aren’t average, I surround myself with high value people in high value environments. I just turned 40 btw and I’m a digital nomad so I get to live in different cities across the globe where I find the atmosphere and the people interesting. If you want I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:15 PM
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I don’t really know how to answer your question because it was a lot of different girls in different countries and with different circumstances. But basically I’ve been successful with women because I have a good social skills, good communication/seduction skills and I’m good at the flirting game, the banter with all the hand send the subtle nonverbal cues. A lot guys struggle with that, I’ve noticed. Even though I’m short I’ve always worked out and maintained a nice body, I have a good social s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:06 PM
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I hear ya, I was just saying that there’s a lot of guys like me around who do well with women without being super tall, super rich or stereotypical “ch@ds”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:54 PM
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Actually the guys had described were me and the guys in my social circle, and none of us ever struggled with rejection or failure. Obviously it’s happened once or twice to all of us but it’s certainly not a recurring thing. I actually lost my virginity in my teens and things have always gone smoothly in terms of getting GFs or FWBs and that’s the point I was trying to make, that there’s plenty of guys out there who have no problems whatsoever with dating and seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:27 PM
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5’5-5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:45 PM
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Dude you’re generalizing there’s plenty of guys with high standards who are doing very well for themselves with dating / seduction. The guys who seem to be be struggling all seem to have similar profiles: bad social skills, anger issues, bad communication skills, play video games and don’t take good care of their body / physical appearance. That’s the type you see on Reddit complaining about “hypergamy” and who think that 99% of men are getting rejected and that’s simply not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:19 AM
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I don’t have an exact number but despite being short and not super good looking I’ve always done well for myself in terms of dating / sex life. I’m very picky about the women I date and I only go for “high value” women. Ive had sex with 40-50 women and actually dated / had a FWBs arrangement with about two thirds of them. The number of those women who hit on me and initiated the relationship/ FWBs situation vs. the number of women that I approached / hit on myself is about 50-50.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:10 AM
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The DJing thing happened randomly, I was dating an American girl while living in Rome who happened to be a drum n bass DJ and she taught me. Are you asking how to get into “high value” social circles? I don’t know what your definition of high value is, we all different priorities. For me it was living in wealthy, liberal cities and socializing with friends / women who liberal, well travelled, highly educated, who usually speak three languages or more and who want absolutely nothing with children…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:27 AM
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I don’t really use OLD either simply because it doesn’t give me great results since I’m short and even though I’m far from ugly I’m not that good looking either. It’s always been my confidence, my attitude and my sense of humor that have gotten me GFs / FWBs. I meet high value women through my social circles. I maintain a “high value” social circle, high achievers in terms of academics, careers, finances and social status. I also work and play in world cities that I find high value in terms of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:12 AM
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I don’t really use OLD either simply because it doesn’t give me great results since I’m short and even though I’m far from ugly I’m not that good looking either. It’s always been my confidence, my attitude and my sense of humor that have gotten me GFs / FWBs. I meet high value women through my social circles. I maintain a “high value” social circle, high achievers in terms of academics, careers, finances and social status. I also work and play in world cities that I find high value in terms of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:11 AM
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OP gets it. If those incel / forever alone types adopted OP’s outlook there probably wouldn’t be a tenth of the number of actual “virgin despite my best efforts” type dudes. Keep at it, OP, I guarantee you’ll attract a high value woman soon and chances are, if you keep on putting this energy into the universe and creating this good karma for yourself, she’ll likely be the one to approach you wanting to get to know you better.
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:14 PM
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My brother was an incel virgin until he was 32. Now he owns a house with a beautiful high value woman (with a career and money / investments of her own). If he had just given up and stayed at home playing video games instead of making an effort to socialize and be interesting/ fun to be around then he would still be an incel virgin today. But he never got angry or bitter and he never gave up on being sociable meeting women, and it paid off.
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:00 PM
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If his advice allows you to consistently be successful at seducing high value women that you find attractive then by all means, do you. I’m blessed to have a very active and successful dating / sex life. But if a guy talked the same misogynistic “my girl belongs to me” crap he does to the kind of women I’m around (high value, worldly, smart, well traveled, high achievers in academics / career, self-made, high-earning) he would get laughed out of the room. Only women with confidence and self este…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:34 PM
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It’s not about being quiet it’s about always having something to prove and trying to constantly project an air of strength and dominance to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:19 PM
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Only incels and guys with very little experience actually take his little “alpha” shtick seriously. I can’t listen to him and not cringe. His need to be “superior” and “dominate” screams insecurity and I think any confident guy can see that this dude is overcompensating for a profond sense of inadequacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:37 AM
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He’s obnoxious and abrasive and feels the need to “dominate” the conversation / the situation and showing he’s the “superior” one at all times, which is really pathetic and shows that he’s really insecure if he can’t feel secure with a woman that is his equal. He really made himself look like a huge douche bag with insecurity issues and what is most likely an unimpressive penis. You can tell he caters to a public mostly made out of virgins, incels and generally inexperienced dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:04 AM
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I’m a dude so it’s not like that concerns me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:00 AM
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Stop thinking everyone sees things like you do, especially since you’re still young and sexually inexperienced. Also the post you made in the virgin sub has a some inconsistencies, you say society prevents virgin men from expressing their sexuality but they don’t have a sexuality to express to begin with, it’s not like society is not letting virgin men express themselves, people just react when some men act like women who aren’t virgins are somehow less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:57 AM
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So being intolerant just to preserve your pride is peak small dick energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:52 AM
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But it’s FAR from the only way, there’s plenty of people who would rather learn with an experienced partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:17 AM
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That’s absolutely not true, that’s Disney BS. OP you made a post a day ago about how it’s “revolting” that society shames virgin men, so you’re essentially making this post because you’re ashamed of your inceldom and lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:15 AM
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It’s pathetic because it comes from a place of insecurity where the guys don’t want the woman to have a basis for comparison that would help her realize that the guy she’s with has no idea what he’s doing and that he’s a bad lay compared to the guys she was with previously. Guys who want virgins are trying to preserve their egos and their pride of having a woman compare them to another guy and realize that the other guy was better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:10 AM
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Because it comes from a place of insecurity when men say they want virgin women, they just want a woman who’s inexperienced and won’t notice the fact that the guy is inexperienced, doesn’t know his way around a woman’s body, and just ain’t a good lay. Those guys want inexperienced women because those women don’t have a basis for comparison that will slow them to realize those guys have no idea what they’re doing in bed. Whereas wanting partners with experience shows a desire for good sexual perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:08 AM
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Because insecure guys don’t want women having a basis for comparison because it’ll expose how inexperienced they are themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:52 PM
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You need to believe in yourself more dude. You need to believe you’re worth staying with and not cheating on, otherwise people won’t respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:50 PM
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But the thing is, it doesn’t THAT much to be a guy with options. “Ch@d” is mostly a myth. I’m short AF (5’5-5’6) and I’m not particularly good looking but I’ve always managed to do well with women by having high standards in terms of the social circles I maintain, different cities around the world I’ve picked to live in throughout the years, good social / seduction skills, making sure I maintain a good body, and confidence. There. That’s my recipe. I just turned 40 and the women I date are mostl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:17 PM
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That’s a people thing, not a woman thing. And aren’t you a little old to be talking like an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:22 AM
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I’m a dude you moron. A fraternity member as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:29 AM
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Wow, way to generalize. Some of that nicest people and the smartest people I’ve ever met or fraternity members. I don’t even know why you would say something like that, sounds like you’re bitter and envious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:29 AM
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And that makes you an expert to the point you’re actually telling women that you know their feelings better than they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:26 AM
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It doesn’t matter how good-looking you are, if you act like a dick and the only women You’re going to attract are going to be the ones with confidence and self esteem issues. But generally speaking women absolutely want to date good man who don’t act like assholes. Being good looking gets your foot in the door, But it’s being smart, nice, fun to be around, confident and respectful that will get you laid and a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:13 AM
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No offense but it’s always the guys who have no experience whatsoever with dating / seduction that act like they know what everything and you can’t tell’em shit. How can you act like you’re so sure if you have no experience, especially compared to the WOMEN telling you what THEY like? Like don’t you feel a bit silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:07 AM
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No offense bro, but your level of insecurity would probably end sabotaging just about any relationship. So if you’re extremely attracted to a girl who likes you as well, you wouldn’t date her if she told you that she used to have daytime sex in the car with her FWB in between classes during high school, that she’s had ONS with guys she met at parties before and that she used to be into the arrogant jock type? Would you actually not date her even though that stuff is in her past?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:07 AM
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An inconvenient byproduct definitely isn’t a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:16 PM
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Children / babies make me cringe so hard. They just get in the way of people living their best lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:15 PM
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I just turned 40 but the women I date are all in their mid to late twenties. I don’t really think that women have become more picky I think that now that women have more freedom and don’t need men and marriage for survival and social acceptance that they are now more free than ever to be vocal about their preferences, especially with the advent of a media like Tik Tok. This isn’t even a phenomenon that’s purely European or American, I’m a digital nomad and in the last few years I’ve dated women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:57 AM
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I think the guys who see it that way are pathetic. Those dudes would rather have women lower their standards and date lower value men and be “settled for” rather than having higher standards and becoming “high value” and having the dating / social life that goes with being high value. Sorry dude but personally I wouldn’t want to know that a woman finds me low value and is settling for me. I’d rather have high standards and be seen as a high value guy and to attract high value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:41 AM
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But other people aren’t for you to judge and most people aren’t in a position to criticize anyway, but even if they were what exactly does criticizing these women I hope to achieve? How exactly do you think that’s gonna make any type of difference whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:08 AM
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It’s not for me or anyone else to agree or not agree with it, it’s just the way things are. Everyone has the right to be attracted to whoever they want and that’s it. Women are attracted to who they’re attracted to and it has nothing to do with anyone else. The same goes for guys. Who people like has nothing to do with you, so why can’t you just live and let live?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:46 AM
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I’m not necessarily talking about ugly balding guys either and I’m not trying to derail your thread. I was making the point that the guys who complain about women feeling entitled to “top tier men” tend to grossly overestimate their own value on the dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:03 AM
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Even if “mediocre women” felt entitled to “top tier men”, why do you care so much who women are attracted to? Like are you hoping that women are going to read these posts and say “well gee golly, he’s right, imma go ahead and force myself to date that boring balding guy who doesn’t take care of his body”? Like what are you trying to achieve here? In my experience it’s usually the men who complain about hypergamy and “monkey branching” and all that inc€l / bl@ckpill crap that grossly overestimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:05 AM
8

I’m a dude, genius. And I suggest you actually ask women if you’re right or not. Unless of course you’re actually so delusional you think you know women’s bodies better than they do..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:01 AM
9

Bro no offense but you have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:44 PM
21

No offense but it doesn’t sound like you’re very experienced if that’s what you think. A woman’s capacity for orgasm has absolutely nothing to do with her degree of experience. A woman’s body functions the same way whether she’s been with one guy or one hundred and even a woman with no experience won’t be able to orgasm from a guy who has no idea what he’s doing in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:21 PM
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How is that a problem? People like who they like and that it, I don’t understand why so many dudes feel the need to judge the standards of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:14 PM
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They’re going to have the same standards, even a woman who isn’t experienced won’t be satisfied with a guy who has no idea what he’s doing and isn’t capable of giving her sexual satisfaction. Why would any woman stay with a guy who has no idea what he’s doing in bed and is incapable of giving her satisfying sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:47 PM
3

Yeah but in that scenario the woman is completely dependent on the man for money and can’t decide on her own to travel and make purchases because the man is the one allocating the money. A woman who has no bank account of her own is essentially dependent like a child, which no adult in their right mind wants to be.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/22 01:11 PM
-14

Screw incels, they’re just shitty human beings full of hate, and these are the women equivalent who don’t represent the views of real women by any means. When are incels ever punished except when they do despicable acts like that spoiled little shit Eliot Rodger?
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:04 AM
6

“At time they will do this shamelessly..” Bruh, what? Why would women need to be ashamed for being attracted to good looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:26 PM
2

Dude you still haven’t noticed that 99% of the posts from the dudes in this sub can be summarized by “boohoo, life isn’t fair!”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:42 AM
4

I’m 5’5, which is pretty damn short, and I’ve never measured my dick so no idea there, but the point I’ve done very well in dating despite definitely not having won the genetic lottery myself. Regardless, I agree with you that some guys can justify being insecure, but that’s never an excuse to project those insecurities on women and act like the ones with higher n counts are the ones doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:45 PM
-7

Nothing would. I prefer it this way, apparently women do as well, and I’m forever grateful to my parents that I’ll never know what dick cheese smells like because I can’t get smegma. And I find very hypocritical that you’re actually down voting people who answered question considering you’re the one who made a post asking us for our opinion. So what, you asked us just so you could down vote for not agreeing with you? Might as well not ask at all then.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:07 AM
-17

I love being circumcised. I think it looks much better, women for the most part think it looks better as well, I have no idea what dick cheese even looks or smells like because circumcised guys don’t get smegma and it’s just more hygienic overall.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 06:02 AM
2

Doesn’t have to be a research paper but at least something more credible than r/memes, which you can’t really expect anyone to take seriously as a source of any type of reliable data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:38 AM
2

What difference does it make?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:58 AM
4

You actually ask women how many guys they’ve fucked and how long it took them to hook up with each of those guys just to make sure she’s not making you wait longer than any of those other guys before she puts out for you? That doesn’t sound insecure and obsessive at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:54 AM
5

Definitely insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:42 AM
2

It happened when I was a lot younger and immature and I had some insecurities but that hasn’t happened in a very long time now that I’m a grown ass man and I’m not insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:38 AM
2

We? Dude you don’t get to talk for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:03 AM
5

No dude I have a lot of experience and so do most of the men I know and most of us either don’t care about her n count or would actually prefer to date someone as experienced as we are. I know I’m good at sex so I kind of enjoy being compared to other guys because I know my performance is going to be better than most of the other dudes she’s been with. Only insecure guys care about n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:44 PM
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I’ve never heard about dudes caring about n count so much outside of this sub where most of the guys seem to be very insecure about their lack of success in dating and lack of sexual experience. I happen to have a lot of sexual experience and I know I’m a good lay, so I want to be with women who are also sexually experienced and good lays as long they don’t have STDs. Furthermore, a woman with a higher n count will have more basis for comparison, so being a good lay I know that when she compares…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:34 PM
2

I love how this thread is full of virgins trying to convince experienced people that they know how sex works lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:43 PM
1

And you know this how? Because it’s definitely not through experience..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:37 PM
1

Bro that’s just not how that works. Sorry but right now it’s pretty obvious you’re a virgin trying to convince people who are actually sexually experienced for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:37 PM
0

You’re a virgin, aren’t you? Because that’s absolutely not how that works. If you “fondle around” and wait for her to ask you “to stick her with the pointy end” you’ll just make it abundantly clear that you’re not familiar with women’s erogenous zones and how to find the specific things that turn her on and essentially you’ll be making it very clear that you’re a virgin who doesn’t know his way around a woman’s body. And if on top of everything the guy comes in two minutes it’s even worse. Bro y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:19 AM
11

Women definitely know there’s really no point in lying because it’s painfully obvious when a dude has no idea what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:28 AM
2

I’ve been in many relationships, some were LTRs and I’ve had shit load of FWBs, ONSs and everything in between. The advice I would give my twelve year old self is to be on point in terms social skills / communication skills because that’s the basis getting dates and interacting with women, and to always maintain a good body as a dude. Basically if you don’t feel confident taking off your shirt then you’re doing enough to maintain your looks. I would also add to have high standards in terms of be…
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:00 PM
2

Dude you don’t get to talk for all men. A secure man doesn’t require “submission”. I want a badass bitch who’s going to be my partner in crime and who’s just as much of a Shri as I am, not some yes-person without a personality who stays at home and doesn’t have an opinion. OP I’m not gonna lie, your post makes you seem either really young and inexperienced or just plain insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:29 PM
2

I did it by addressing my autism issues and learning social skills / communication skills that allowed me to become good at flirting with women. I also learned combat sports to up my confidence and so that the guys who picked on me because I’m short wouldn’t dare bully me anymore. That also taught me to maintain a body in good shape, especially once I started getting compliments from women on my body- it kinda started a virtuous cycle. I also made sure to be in the right places and around the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:19 AM
-8

No offense but when I hear a guy saying he wants to marry a virgin I think “incel” straight away. Why? Because the only reason why a guy wouldn’t want to his girl to have a basis for comparison in terms of his sexual abilities is if he thinks he might be seen as the least experienced lay. I have a lot of experience and I like knowing my partners have the same type of experience because I know that I’m likely to be seen as one guys who actually knows what he’s doing compared to most of the dudes …
/r/MensRights22/06/22 11:16 PM
2

I agree completely. I just turned 40 and I still have the body I had in my 20s because I take care of my body and I especially don’t want a dadbod since I really don’t lead a dad lifestyle. Other than the dudes from genetic stuff, many of those guys aging like milk can only blame themselves for their waistlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:08 PM
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The second you tell someone else how to dress / act, it’s controlling behavior, period. If you don’t like women wearing cleavage and short shorts it’s real simple, date a woman who dresses conservatively and has similar values to you, but don’t try to tell others how to live.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 07:35 PM
5

Actually, its better to be alone than poorly accompanied. Some dudes think men “age like wine”, when in reality most of them put on weight, are balding and definitely aren’t getting better with age. And most of the successful, “high value” women I know would rather bang a hot guy they have as a FWBs rather than be married to some dude who’s getting fatter and who’s hairline is receding on daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:29 PM
1

How what? I’m not sure I understand what you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:15 AM
3

You can die from hunger. You can’t die from not getting laid / relationships, so your comparison isn’t very adequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:01 PM
2

How short are you? Because I’m 5’6 and I do well in terms of dating / sex life, and so do a LOT of short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:58 PM
2

So what would you think could be done to help solve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:40 PM
3

What’s with all the word questions? This stuff isn’t a science, everyone has different tastes and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:38 PM
0

I’m a digital nomad, I move around. So what are you saying, that women should settle for guys are not attracted to so we don’t have any bitter men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:13 PM
0

What exactly is the consequence? Guys getting frustrated because they can’t get hot girls? That’s has how it’s always been, people want to date / fuck / marry people they’re physically attracted to, and you can’t fault them for it. Plus I have women in my life who are good friends, and I want to be happy and to date quality dudes. The women in my social circle are high value, they have masters degrees, they speak 3 or more languages, they’re worldly, they’re cultured, and they dominate in fields…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:53 PM
0

But for the men who feel left behind how is it society’s responsibility to coddle them and make them feel like they’re not “left behind”? Ultimately every guy is responsible for his own social value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:35 PM
1

Sorry but I don’t know what either of those things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:33 PM
2

It would be much easier if there was a secret but the only way is to continually go outside your comfort zone and to keep working on your social skills, communication skills, set high standards for yourself, and to practice brutally honesty self-analysis and self-criticism when you ask yourself the questions “what makes a guy high value?” and “am I really putting in the work to be one?“. Do that on top of keeping your body in good shape and things will work out for you dating-wise. That’s it. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:14 PM
1

I’m not going to discuss my autism but I will say that it caused me to have to work on certain things a lot more than some of the guys around me and talking to women was one of them. I guess I did get lucky in my teens because I met a girl who was two years older than me that I got to lose my virginity with and learn to get to know a woman’s body and how to pleasure a woman sexually. But if anything I showed me what could be achieved if I worked on my autism issues and it inspired me to work on …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:51 PM
1

That’s not completely true though. It doesn’t apply to all men, there’s plenty of men out there with high standards. Personally I’m very picky and all the men in my social circle also have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:02 AM
1

My point was that if I can help you out with advice or anything else I’ll gladly do it. You meant you wanted someone to rate me physically? Lol I’m not ridiculously good looking or anything like that dude, confidence and social skills really do go further than a lot of dudes know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:59 AM
0

Why would a black piller rate me, I’m not sure I understand what you mean. And no, I’ve never put my advice in a cliffs notes type format lol, that’s something PUAs trying to sell their red pill seduction manuals do, I give personal advice to the dudes who message me based on their individual situations. You’re welcome to dig through my post history to find some “gems”, I have a feeling you’re still very young and inexperienced with this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:13 PM
6

I’m pretty short (5’5) and I’m not particularly good looking but I do have good social skills and I’m good at interpersonal communication / flirting. And despite being short and on the autism spectrum the social and seduction skills I picked up allowed me to have a great dating / sex life even being very picky about the women I date. Sometimes I offer to help give advice to the guys on FA / PPD / incel exit subs who post about their lack of success in dating. Most of the time when I tell them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:49 PM
4

I said that confidence came from knowing that one meets the standards that one sets for himself. I’m short and on the autism spectrum and I used to get bullied for it when I was younger. I set standards for myself. I decided that I would learn to never let someone taller intimidate me and that I would learn to work past my autism and become good at flirting / seduction and improve my communication and social skills. So I took up a bunch of different combat sports, I learned a type of Russian com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:45 AM
2

Confidence is the fundamental knowledge that you’re good with who you are because you live up to your own standards, therefore no exterior influence can make you feel uncomfortable, diminished, threatened, insecure. It’s not about getting validation from others. Think about what your standards for yourself are. It can be for education, money, social recognition, whatever. The point is that the guy who sets high standards for himself and works at meeting them every day will always be confident be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:13 AM
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I think that the overweight, anime-watching, video game-playing, basement-dwelling virgin image comes to mind because they’re usually the type of dudes who have the worst social skills. Social / communication skills are pretty much the most important thing to be successful at seduction, so when I read posts from guys complaining about not being able to get laid because of “hypergamy” and because women only want “bad boys“, my mind goes to the angry neckbeard pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:22 AM
1

I’m not ugly, but I’m not particularly hot either. I have a good body but I don’t have a square jaw and I’m short AF (5’5 1/2).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:32 PM
1

You’re right. I have good social skills in general and I’m good at seduction / flirting: the hints, the subtle signals, the body language and non verbal cues- that kinda stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:29 PM
6

Most of the women I’ve dated were very high libido and there’s been a few different instances where I’d get “booty calls” in the middle of the day where FWBs would just want to meet me for sex wherever I was at: home, the mall, my university library, a parking lot.. it didn’t really matter as long as we had sex. I don’t know what kind of women OP has been around but it sounds like he just lacks experience to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:11 PM
3

Or maybe you’re just not as “high value” as you think you’re just not managing to seduce the women you’re interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:52 AM
1

I didn’t say anything about “inner beauty”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:54 PM
3

There’s plenty of people who are confident and who are also humble and compassionate. Being confident doesn’t mean being arrogant and obnoxious. Those people are usually the loudest in the room, and that’s not confidence, it’s actually the opposite- they have something to prove. Real confident people are understated because they know they have nothing to prove to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:43 PM
1

If anything science has taught us that for the most part long-term monogamy tends to not work out very well for us. Especially since women don’t have to rely on men for physical security and resources anymore and don’t have to marry dudes they’re not really into as a matter of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:29 AM
-1

That’s because when those “lonely dudes” stay in those incel echo chambers like incels.is long enough they start to believe their own bullshit and think their hate is justified. The amount of hate and misogyny on that site is sickening, not to mention the racism, the antisemitism and the homophobia. And all those posts about how things like stalking, creep shots and sexual assault are “based”, or how low lives like Elliott Rodger are held in high regard- all those things would trigger an intense…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:24 PM
1

I’m 5’5 and I’ve always had a successful dating / sex life. My height has never stopped me from being able to seduce women I’m attracted to because I’m confident, I keep my body in great shape and I have very good communication skills, which is what allows men to successfully flirt with women and elicit lust. It’s all about your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:44 AM
3

Having a good body and money are both important, but you don’t need to be a bodybuilder to have basic abs and overall nice definition. I would focus on having a good body and having good communication skills and confidence. A guy who doesn’t have good communication skills and who can’t read subtle cues like body language won’t ever be able to flirt and elicit lust when interacting with a woman, so no matter how good looking he is women will find him boring and un-appealing sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:15 AM
-6

Because she wanted to have sex with someone who actually knows what they’re doing and is a good lay one last time before she died? How does that make her a ho? That was a very incel comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:29 AM
-2

I’m not saying the grievances aren’t legitimate. But the way a lot of these dudes go about airing them makes people not take them seriously. OP said that men can’t vent about their frustrations without people shitting on them but when they “vent” they usually make nasty generalizations about women by saying they all do this or do that, accuse women of having the same outlook and the same hive mind and accusing society of being complicit. That’s not innocent “venting”, and you can’t expect people…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:42 AM
7

That’s a deflection, you should at least be able to debate using logical arguments if you’re going to try to defend subs where the hate and misogyny are straight nasty. I’m a dude and wouldn’t call myself a feminist but I also can’t relate to those angry sexually frustrated dudes that come here to “vent”. The stuff I read on so called manosphere and red pill / incel subs makes those dudes look straight pathetic, petty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:47 AM
0

That’s a bad generalization. If that was the case teens and guys in high school and college wouldn’t be getting laid / in relationships. Women mostly care about that stuff later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:02 AM
1

Dude do you think that women should have to answer every time a guy messages her? Because if that’s the case a lot of women would be messaging the type thirsty losers who “slide into their DMs” all day long. Or do you just want her to answer your messages?
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:17 PM
1

I’m in my late 30s and I still have the same body I had in my twenties, with no fat and well defined stomach muscles and those V lines that go down guys’ crotch. I don’t go to the gym like I used to but I still make damn sure that I look good without a short on and just wearing boxer briefs. The bare minimum any guy has to do to stay in the most basic shape is at least a few series of push-ups, sit-ups and prison burpees before he showers every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:07 PM
1

I’m in my thirties and I also think jealousy is the byproduct of insecurity and a weak mind. Jealousy is a an emotional response, therefore devoid of logic. Which equals weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:11 AM
1

I could never date someone “square”, who’s basically boring, never does anything spontaneous and is highly predictable. If I’m not mentally stimulated by a woman I can’t pursue anything romantic. I just can’t be turned on by someone who fundamentally bores me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:33 AM
7

I don’t know dude. I’m not saying to brag but I do well when it comes to dating / seduction, plus I assume you’re fairly young and inexperienced and I just don’t agree with you that tattoos correlate with promiscuity or commitment issues. And you don’t have a single study or anything that backs up your statements so you’ll have to forgive me for saying that you’re coming off as a little bitter with your own lack of success in dating and it’s affecting your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:22 AM
4

Can you find a single credible study that backs up what you’re saying? Because your reasoning sounds pretty simplistic and misguided to me. I’m in my thirties and I have a lot of experience with dating / relationships and throughout the years every time I came across people with views similar to yours they were guys who weren’t successful with seduction and were bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:00 AM
7

Except it’s not a logical statement. Tattoos have absolutely nothing to do with impulsivity. They’re painful to get and they take hours to make and it’s not something people do “on a whim”. If anything tattoos are indicative of people who are strong willed and aren’t afraid to go the distance for something that they see as worth putting effort into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:03 PM
1

Mental issues? Really dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:27 PM
2

Why should women change because certain man aren’t happy about how things are? Also you don’t get to tell which woman has what value and what woman is “overestimating herself”. You know what determines worth in the dating marketplace? Not the people you think you deserve, but the ones you actually manage to get, meaning that if a chick can bag a 9/10 high value dude, it means she’s most likely high value as well. Some guys here seem to think that because they consider themselves high value they …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:37 PM
0

My apologies, you’re right and I didn’t mean to make it about you, especially not in a personal sense, but I was a bit taken aback by what you wrote because I thought you were talking about the seduction part because that’s the part that most the dudes here seem to not be able to figure out. Wait so you were referring to the communication that should ideally take place in a marriage with healthy communication? Or am I still not getting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:01 PM
1

Of course any decent looking woman can attract a lot of low value guys that are completely unattractive, but what good does that do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:22 PM
-1

OP I assume you’re still relatively young and inexperienced, but you have to realize that seduction doesn’t happen in direct communication with clear “yes” and “no” where everything is clear and direct. Seduction / flirting will never work like that because they’re a form of communication based on emotion, not reason and logic, and it works with body language, non verbal cues, double entendres, innuendo, teasing, feeling the buildup of sexual tension.. and you’re going to need to know how to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:19 PM
1

Do you have a lot of experience with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:31 PM
6

Standards are how we gatekeep to make sure we don’t let people into our lives who don’t have situations who adequately fit and have compatibility with our own life circumstances. And things like employment and living situations definitely aren’t small superficial things, they’re things that make a pretty huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:49 PM
3

Maybe you’re hanging out around the wrong people or the wrong places, because I’m a dude and I’m seeing something completely different. Don’t get me wrong, I know that the type you’re referring to is definitely out there, I’m just saying that if you have the adequate standards you don’t really have to be around / deal with those types personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:02 PM
3

I live how confidently you’re trying to explain women to… a woman. And acting like you know women better than she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:06 PM
1

What certain guys (the Nice Guy tm type) refer to as “bad boys” that women go for don’t necessarily have to deal drugs or have done jail time or ride a motorcycle. It’s more about the personality traits that guys like that tend to have. - Fierce and unapologetic independence. - non conformism - confidence - strength, both physical and mental - un-afraid, hard to intimidate - spontaneous - fun to be around (guys who sit around the house playing video games aren’t considered fun to be around by wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:44 PM
0

I don’t a single woman who would be attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:32 PM
6

“Men know the truth”? So you speak for all men now? Many of us have great dating / sex lives and have no problem attracting the women we’re attracted to, the men in this sub are faaaar from representative of what goes on in the real world, but it’s also a matter of the social circles you’re in and geographical location. Also another thing that I think a lot of dudes here fail to consider is that while women may get a lot of attention online no matter the medium, the average type of guy who “slid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:09 PM
1

If you don’t mind my asking, what type of experiences would you be ideally looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:17 AM
2

I’m not trying to be pessimistic but I really doubt it. Even if you were to get invited to parties people would still see that you’re considerably older and that would probably weird out quite a few people and you wouldn’t really be a 21 year old chick’s first choice when it comes to having wild sex in crazy places unless you have a great body and face + kept your boyish good looks and have a great reason for going to university that late in life (like being a navy seal or some type of special f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:59 PM
2

I’m afraid I don’t. College was a time where everyone was down to try out wild shit and experiment to find out what they were into, discover their kinks, etc.., and the fraternity house on Greek row with all the neighbors being sorority houses, the spring break trips, all that stuff created atmospheres that were ideal for sex, experimentation of all kinds, and a lot of trial and error in terms of what works in the dating / seduction game, so it was an ideal place to pick up the skills that still…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:28 PM
3

The most sex I had and the “wildest” (ONSs, sex in risqué places like college libraries with different FWBs, etc..) was during my college fraternity days, and looking back those years really allowed me to work on my seduction and flirting skills as well as general interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:05 PM
1

I’ve met women I’ve hooked up with in grocery stores, bars, art galleries, shared offices, college libraries and other places I can’t remember. It always starts the same way, by sharing a moment. It could be something as small as making a remark about something “in the moment” something that makes her laugh, something that alleviates the tension of a weird / stressful moment and gives you a small emotional connection in that moment that can be used to build on. If you go back in my posts you’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:01 PM
10

I mean, it’s her pussy, why don’t you let her decide what she wants to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:50 PM
4

Lol ok stud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:44 AM
5

Something tells me you’re not very experienced..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:48 AM
10

I’m sorry but it doesn’t work like that. The only reason why a guy would care if shes fucked other dudes is if he’s worried that by comparison, his own sexual performance doesn’t match the performance of the guy who had sex with her before him and therefore feels insecure. But for guys with a lot of experience who are confident in their skills it’s the opposite. When I have sex with a girl I can tell right off the bat if she’s experienced or not when I see if she moves with ease from one positio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:46 AM
4

Plenty of high n count women starfish. Lol that’s such a weird statement, I’d love to know where you picked up that “fact” because I have a feeling it’s not personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:35 AM
3

It looks weak and desperate, and of she had been interested she would have let him know. Girls don’t communicate like men. Men do the direct approach, the “confrontation” format, and they want everything clear cut like it’s either yes or no and a lot of guys who aren’t good at seduction don’t understand that that’s not how women communicate. In seduction communication is a lot more subtle and if a guy isn’t capable of reading in between the lines he’ll probably never be really successful with wo…
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:53 PM
1

You definitely don’t. Or at least I wouldn’t. If a woman is attracted to you and wants to spend time with you she’ll let you know, and she certainly won’t “forget” or need any type of reminder. If she’s interested she’ll be the one initiating contact and giving you hints about the kind of evening she wants to have. Some guys here seem not to realize that in the game of seduction there are no resounding “yes” and “no”, there are subtle hints and non verbal cues like through the e use of looks, bo…
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:49 PM
1

Dude your friends sound like a bunch of virgins, immature AF. I would have just smiled and literally apologized for my friends and told her that they’re not used to being around women. Then I would have turned to my friend and told him to please stop behaving like a child. Edit: if your friends were girls it’s a different story. I’m willing to bet one of them like you and that when you walked up to that other girl the one who likes you was like “oh snap, he’s about to go talk to hit on some othe…
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:09 PM
1

Obviously this is just my personal experience and the experience of the men around me, I’m not trying to speak for all men. So that aside, I’m willing to engage in discussion as long as it’s respectful. Right now I live in Amsterdam, but I’m a digital nomad and I’ve had the same experience with women when I lived in Rome (Italy), Paris (France), Tel Aviv, New York City and Montreal. I’m mixed white / Latino. I’ve never asked myself that question but I would say a cautious yes? Here’s the reasoni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:20 PM
1

I think you replied to the wrong comment dude bc I’m not into polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:24 PM
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You made a point, yes, but I’m not sure it “stands” considering how many of us have a completely different experience. I’m not particularly rich or particularly good looking and I’m also short and my dating / sex life is going great, and it’s consistent not just for myself but for most of the guys in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:15 PM
1

I’m a dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:26 AM
-3

There’s plenty of us out there doing great with our dating / sex lives who aren’t super hot or particularly rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:34 AM
-1

Yeah I think the bar is pretty low these days. I’m around a lot of women and I listen to them talk, whether it’s just us one on one or them talking to their girl friends at social events, and from what I’ve seen the bar is pretty low as long as you don’t fall into the profile of what most women consider painfully average / mediocre. I have a FWBs who sends me screen shots of dudes who slide the type of guys that try to slide in her DMs and it seems like so many dudes out there are just super “ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:32 AM
2

Dating / seduction / flirting with new people is always fun. Or at least I thoroughly enjoy it and so apparently so do the other dudes in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:40 PM
1

Interactions with women / seduction has always happened naturally for me and for most of the guys in my social circle as well. I manage to attract the women I’m attracted to and the few times I randomly crushed on a girl I was friends with things naturally progressed into FWBs situation that were a lot of fun and even preferable to actual bf / gf type relationships in some cases. I hear guys talking about putting in work to seduce women and talking about approaching and shooting their shot and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:20 PM
1

I’m a guy and I think video games are kinda childish. If the average “gamer” who complains about women only wanting “chads” and “bad boys” on this sub dedicated 3 to 6 hours (the time they spend playing video games) a day to working on their bodies, making money and interacting with women / their seduction game chances are they wouldn’t be so bad with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:39 PM
1

I’m a guy and I think video games are kinda childish. If the average “gamer” who complains about women only wanting “chads” and “bad boys” on this sub dedicated 3 to 6 hours (the time they spend playing video games) a day to working on their bodies, making money and interacting with women / their seduction game chances are they wouldn’t be so bad with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:39 PM
1

Lol. 1. You have no idea what I’m addicted to or not right now. The chicks I date aren’t “doped up”, I don’t date women who do dope and the women I date are highly successful people who usually work in tech, law or finance. 2. I don’t get “mad bitches”. I lost my virginity in my teens and mostly whored myself out in college and even then I had high standards. These days I only have one FWBs at a time and I’m still just as picky. My n count is in the mid 40s, which ain’t much for a dude in his th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:12 PM
1

I do sit-ups and push-ups every single day along with stretching a little bit of resistance training before I shower every day. It’s just a general discipline I picked up in my teens that I never stopped doing and despite doing drugs and not having the healthiest lifestyle I’m in my thirties and I have the same body I had at 25 when I actually went to the gym or the skatepark every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:57 AM
1

I’ve cheated a shit ton on a lot of girls when I was younger and to this day I don’t even like having the same FWBs for too long and I can tell you that compared to me and the guys I have around me women cheated a whole lot less. Also it looks like you’re an angry incel just repeating angry virgin taking stereotypes but without the personal experience to make such claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:37 AM
3

It was also a time when contraceptives were a lot harder to access and most guys only got to bang one or two different women before having to settle down with the same person for the rest of their lives. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:30 AM
0

Women are cruel to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:27 AM
1

I have a relatively small body count in the mid 40’s and I don’t think it’s made a modicum of difference considering it’s not information I ever get asked for by women I date. I can just tell if a chick is sexually experienced and sexually mature and I assume women do the same with the men they engage with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:23 AM
1

I doubt he’s attractive if he weighs 185 lbs at 5’8.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:26 PM
3

So he’s basically overweight and still thinks he’s high value? Lol. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:03 PM
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I think OP is the one who’s actually overestimating his own value in dating market. You know what determines your value in the dating market? The people you can actually get. Not the people you think you should be able to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:46 AM
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OP no offense but this is coming across as a little bit entitled and delusional. You actually made the argument that a guy is entitled to getting bitter when he’s been rejected by a woman that he deems as beneath him, or as you put it when they’re “less attractive with an inflated image”. You think people can just decide who’s above, beneath them or on their level? It just doesn’t work like that and it seems a little toxic for anyone to see things this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:48 PM
3

I’m trying to say that if you know what you’re doing in terms of seduction and just general interpersonal communication there’s never any “asking” involved, it just naturally progresses from a shared moment to this kind of emotional buildup and sexual tension and both parties know exactly where things are headed and from there things just happen naturally. No “approaching”, no “shooting your shot”, just a natural progression that started off with one tiny shared moment that you had the social sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:12 PM
1

You’re welcome to call it luck since good fortune obviously played a part but I also had the social skills and the character to get myself in the social scenes that I’m in, in the places where I go so luck is one thing but being around the right people and in the right places is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:44 PM
2

Being self aware is one of the prerequisites for being even remotely decent at seduction and a bunch of other things as well. Maybe you just have an issue with what I’m saying, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:49 AM
2

I agree. Me and most of the men around me have no problem dating / having casual sex with FWBs. I never “approach and shoot my shot”, it doesn’t work like that. I meet women within my social circle, whether it be parties or other occasions, and things just kind of happen naturally. I start interacting with a girl and I can tell within the first few minutes if the “vibe” is right, and it’s unspoken but its like we both “know” what our interaction is leading up towards, with the playful banter and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:29 AM
3

And do you want to do that? By forcing women to marry guys they couldn’t stand like before they had rights? Dude if our grandmothers had been happy women wouldn’t have fought so hard to change the system and get their freedom. Most of us are getting sex dude, this incel echo chamber doesn’t reflect what goes on in the real world. And I don’t need the promise of sex to be productive, I don’t where you getting this stuff but regardless if some guys can’t have any ambition to do cool shit and make …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:22 PM
1

So what? I’m single but I still date and have a FWB I love hanging out with and I love that freedom. Single doesn’t mean celibate by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:50 PM
3

The point is that you can’t be mad at people for being attracted to who they’re attracted to and turned off by the people they’re turned off by, all we can do is control our own behavior and that’s it. Some guys here are literally complaining that it’s not fair that women are attracted to the guys they’re attracted to and should be settling for men they find low value instead to make them happy and these dudes don’t even see how delusional and entitled that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:47 PM
2

Why don’t you just let people be attracted to whoever they want and just worry about yourself? Outside of Reddit I’ve never seen guys trying to get women to settle for men they’re not attracted to because “it’s not fair to them” if they only hook up with high value guys if that’s what they’re into. Maybe work on being higher value?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:52 AM
2

That’s not how it works. Sexual compatibility is a major component of any relationship that’s going to last long term, that’s why it’s so important to experiment when you’re younger and to know what you’re into.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:37 AM
6

There’s plenty of fit and good looking people in America, they just don’t shop at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:34 AM
0

Lol what? Dude most women I’ve dated had higher sex drives then me and they were usually the ones to initiate sex in public places like laundromats and college libraries. Women certainly do have sex drives, and in some cases some really high ones that would rival most men. We (men + women) all want to bang people we’re physically attracted to, and so women are just selective of who they direct their sex drives at, but most guys I know are dating women that are just as horny as they are, and in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:24 AM
1

Lol. And you know this how? I’d love to see the irrefutable proof that made you come to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:57 PM
0

No dude. Sorry but as a guy I’m telling you that you’re the delusional one and that this is peak small dick energy that probably made her girlfriends talk shit about you half the night and probably asked your gf why she tolerates possessive behavior (which screams low value dude) when she did nothing wrong. Lie if you’re trying to lose your gf and make all her friends talk as shit about you then you’re doing a stellar job. This is no way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:40 PM
4

Sometimes yes sometimes no. Like if I see that they’re active on fb or WhatsApp that’s good enough for me I know they’re alive and that they’re probably too drunk or too busy to respond so I just go about my business and don’t think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:26 PM
3

Sure, but it’s casual. It happens. Or it doesn’t. I don’t expect it or stress out about it. Plus this wasn’t just you texting her once to make sure she left the bar ok, you’ve basically been texting her all night and been up in her business, that’s the part I don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:06 PM
5

From your post it says you’ve been texting her since much earlier in the night. I understand that you’re still young but you shouldn’t need this control / reassurance and should be able to let her do her thing for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:41 PM
6

But why are you craving that much reassurance to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:08 PM
4

Sounds mad insecure though, I never try to control anyone’s behavior except my own, that’s why I’m so picky of the women I date. In fact I’m even picky of the women in my social circle that I get into FWB type scenarios with as well and I’m not just talking about looks. I’ve declined to get sexually involved with girls who are friends in the past because I could see potential for disharmony and because there’s plenty of attractive women out there to get involved with stress and conflict-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:03 PM
2

I was in a college fraternity at a party school and I’ve seen / done a lot of decadent shit but in four years of drug and alcohol-fueled degeneracy I’ve never had to deal with shit like that from GFs, casual dates or even straight up FWBs. People who are secure and who have nothing to prove don’t really have this kind of attention seeking behavior. People who have fulfilling dating / sex lives don’t behave like that to their partners. So most people who get around dating-wise don’t have to deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:50 PM
1

I’m not a “chad” by any means. I’m short (5’6) and I’m not particularly good looking but I guess that in terms of lifestyle and social skills I’m above average. Many of my “chad” friends have upwards of 100 N counts. I’m only in the mid 40s, but all the women I’ve hooked up with were really attractive and some of the women I’ve been in relationships / FWB type scenarios with I’ve had sex with literally hundreds of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:53 AM
1

Lol. Do you actually believe the crap your write? I was actually introduced to the whole incel thing by a chick I was hooking up with who used to watch Walter Fate incel videos on YouTube because she thought that shit was hilarious. I don’t know why it bothers you so much to hear that the word incel has become mainstream and that men who get laid are aware of the existence of angry virgins who blame women for their woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:56 PM
6

The word incel is mainstream since that spoiled piece of shit Elliott Rodger killed innocent people, not to mention that Minassian guy and that British douchebag. So it’s a common word these days, even among normal guys who actually get around dating-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:14 PM
1

As a short dude (5 foot 6) I’ve never felt insulted or discriminated against in any of my social circles and dating / sex life, nor have I experienced it with FWBs or even when hitting on women at bars / clubs. I’ve NEVER heard a woman talk shit to / about short / ugly men and I’ve definitely NEVER heard women encouraging a short / ugly man to kill himself. In fact outside of Reddit I’ve never come across a guy who felt like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:18 PM
5

There’s a difference between wanting “chad” and wanting a non-loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:07 PM
9

What’s with the dramatic generalizations? “Dating is hell on earth for men.”? There’s a lot of guys out there who are doing great with their dating / sex lives and whose circumstances aren’t anywhere near what you described. Frankly outside of Reddit incel subs most guys seem to be doing just fine. I’m not just talking about myself but also the guys around me and the people I party with. We’re all doing just fine in terms of being able to get laid and dating women we find attractive and I’ve nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:37 PM
-3

Avoid video games, do as much team sports as you can and individual combat sports as well. Video games make you socially retarded and usually make guys fat losers who never lose their virginity because they’re not physically active and eat too much crap and because no woman wants to hang out with a dude who’s “hobby” is video games. And they also encourage men to rage quit when they’re losing and act like immature kids who don’t know how to deal with not getting what they want. In addition to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:53 PM
1

You haven’t made a single argument. All you did was write dumb shit like it’s fact when you’re clearly young and inexperienced. A woman with 25+ n count is an outlier? You’ve clearly haven’t been to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:43 PM
1

Bro you’re absolutely clueless. You sound like you’re still in highs school trying to act like you know how it works in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:24 PM
9

He sounds like he has anger issues, low self esteem and a tiny dick.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 01:29 AM
2

Tell you what. I’ll message you with my real life identity and show you my real Facebook and LinkedIn and the women I dated. Because if you really believe the stuff you’re writing then you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of loneliness and misery. All you have to do is agree not to doxx me and admit the error of your ways afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:40 AM
3

Bro as a guy who actually gets around, let me tell you that this Incel world view won’t help you at all in life. It’s a loser’s mindset and it’ll only make you more bitter and less successful with women and men as well because dudes who get laid don’t want to be around incels and their toxic mentalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:04 PM
1

But why would you or anyone else take it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:19 PM
-1

Bro I’m a dude and outside of these Reddit incel hamster wheels no one takes that shit personally. It doesn’t even necessarily apply to men “big d energy” just means someone confident and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:08 PM
2

My N count is around 40 different women but some of these chicks I banged literally dozens of times in planes, trains, automobiles, college libraries, frat houses, sorority houses, laundromats and all kinds of other shit I can’t remember. I’ve never ever worried about being somebody’s “best”, it doesn’t really work like that. Everyone is different and everyone is judged by their own “scale”, so to speak. I’m good at making sexual partners want to get kinky and experiment without feeling judged, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:03 PM
1

Lol. Could you sound any more like an incel? First off all the women I’ve dated have been rich chicks, most of them self-made, who never lived off men’s money. And second, if that’s been your experience with women, why don’t you raise your standards and date women from better backgrounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:20 PM
1

Personally speaking I enjoy mixing cocaine and ketamine lol. But yeah, I’ve had quite a few one night stands that I can attribute to vodka and coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:17 PM
0

I disagree. 90% of the women I dated tried to get me to commit to something serious. I’m the one who wanted to keep screwing around with randoms and over the years I’ve been in four different long term (over a year) relationships and I was the one to break them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:57 AM
4

What’s so bad about what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:53 AM
1

Women like men who are extroverted, fun and confident, it’s not about drugs or violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:46 AM
1

“The real problem is women..” No, incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:42 AM
0

50 years ago women couldn’t even open bank accounts without their husband’s permission, never mind deciding to terminates pregnancy and have complete dominion over their bodies. So yeah, body art is one of many ways some women choose to express themselves and their independence. Kinda like us men have always done without anyone giving us shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:53 AM
4

And what makes you an authority on good taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:14 AM
1

I’m a dude. And there’s no difference between tattoos on a man on or on a woman, it’s art. You sound like a dude who’s just bitter that he can’t compete in today’s dating market and you’re lashing out at anything that symbolizes women’s independence from low value men like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:05 AM
2

Why would they be disgusting? I’ve never heard a guy say that before. I hope there’s a logical reason behind it and not just the usual incel hate at anything women do to express themselves and their individuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:30 AM
8

Sorry bro but as a guy I think insistance absolutely is a red flag because it shows that the guy is too autistic or self absorbed to give a shit and respect how the woman feels. Insistance is straight rapist vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:20 PM
-1

Lol. What are you, 12? Grownups don’t expect fair in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:56 AM
1

You’re not trying to help anyone, or even yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:50 AM
1

Bro are you kidding me? I’m a dude and I see dudes reacting in an agressive way all the time when women don’t react like they’re interested when these guys hit on them. Just two nights ago I saw a video of a guy ramming a shopping cart at a woman’s car just because she wouldn’t give him her contact info. I don’t know if you’re delusional or if you just spend too much time in incel echo chambers and Reddit hamster wheels and you’re out of touch with reality but your post shows you don’t understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:47 AM
2

I’m a dude and all myself and the dudes I know all shave / trim armpits, excess chest hair, and nether-regions. This ain’t the 80s anymore, there’s nothing sexy about saskwatch body hair, especially armpit and crotch hair that likely absorb sweat and general nastiness and smell accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:21 PM
1

Sounds like you’re bitter women have more options than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:51 PM
2

You talk like an angry child, it’s very obvious that you’re still very young and inexperienced with the world. And as a guy I gotta tell ya, there’s nothing more “beta” than a guy who loses his cool and composure and has a knee jerk emotional reaction because of something anyone else said, especially a woman. You’re showing the world how easy it is to rattle you and make you seethe with rage in your little in-cel panties. You have a lot of growing up to do, young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:39 AM
0

Dude you might wanna get off Reddit for awhile because outside of this incel hamster wheel where guys think they’re being victimized by mean women who won’t have sex with them, me and all the guys I know are doing just fine with our dating / sex lives and we have great relationships with women. I literally lurk here because I find it fascinating that myself and the men I know have no problem dating attractive women and that the whole world seems to be having more sex than ever yet somehow the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:16 PM
1

I’m a dude, I don’t date men I date chicks so I don’t know how to answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:37 PM
1

I’m a dude, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:35 PM
2

*because you’re insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:24 PM
6

You only care about virginity because gonds insecure that a woman will judge you based on your lack of experience and your inability to satisfy a woman sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:11 PM
3

Exactly. He’s just another incel loser trying to make the rest of the world as miserable as he is when he fails to realize that most of us guys are doing great in terms of dating and sex and no one outside of these ridiculous incel subs is going to take these ideas seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:03 PM
1

How about we remove the stigma around making stupid rules based on your insecurities and feelings of inadequacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:01 PM
0

This is so stupid. First off, why do you care what other adults choose to do when it doesn’t affect you? And second, people are going to keep doing what feels good to them regardless of what anyone thinks. I’m relatively average looking and I’ve never had to wait more than one date for sex and I’ve never come across a woman who didn’t want sex as fast ajs I did, so I pretty sure you’re just projecting incel fantasies on women when they find relationships just as tedious as men do when they’d rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:59 PM
1

You’re absolutely right, the point I was trying to make is that we all try to hook up with the highest quality partners we can get, and that’s not an inherently masculine or feminine trait. As a guy, I always try to hook up with the smartest, most attractive woman I can, and that’s perfectly normal. So I have a hard time understanding why incels seem to care that women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:53 PM
2

I’ve never seen dudes complaining about hypergamy outside of these incel subs. Guys try to hook up with the hottest girls they can get as well, same as women. Everyone does it, it’s just a normal thing to want to hook up with the most attractive person you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:52 PM
0

Lol that’s not how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:09 PM
0

Because it’s the textbook definition of insecurity and lack of self confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:32 AM
2

I’m guessing you don’t have any personal experience with women because what you’re saying is just run of mill incel rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:54 PM
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Outside of incel subs hypergamy isn’t actually a real thing because everyone, both men and women try to hook up with the most attractive and desirable partner they can get, it’s just human to do so. Your sexual market value is what you can get, end of story. Supply and demand, it’s that simple. If you’re a guy who thinks he’s a 5 and you can only hook up with women that are 2’s, it’s not because of hypergamy, it’s because the guys isn’t actually a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:27 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:32 PM
3

Reacting emotionally means you’re giving someone else control over you. You’re giving someone the ability to make you freak out, to make you lose control. In my world, whether in the seduction game or in business, an emotional reaction is seen as a loss of control and a weakness, which are two thoroughly un-masculine traits. So no, I’ve learned a long time ago to never let a woman or anyone else make me react emotionally and not think things through completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:05 PM
3

There’s no amount of gym time that’ll make up for lack of social skills and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:36 AM
1

So I guess I’m less average than I thought, that can’t be a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:30 PM
1

Nah lol I like lurking here, it’s cringe AF but it’s also kinda entertaining to see how bitter some of these incel dudes are. I’m not proud of it but I kinda get a kick out of reading posts were those incel dudes just drive themselves crazy going around the same hamster wheel trying to make broad generalizations that “explain” women. When they really want is an explanation of women that basically justify their failures in interacting with girls because it’s just easier to blame the world than to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:42 PM
1

I’m a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:34 PM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:32 PM
4

No they don’t dude. The incels in here love to think that they’re the majority but most guys I know, including myself, have always had very good relationships with women and very satisfactory dating / sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:05 PM
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Big tech is owned by men, dude. It’s just that normal people who don’t wanna hear that incel blackpill rhetoric. I lurk here just a few minutes a day and I still find it cringe AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:03 PM
-1

A bachelors is above average? In my world that’s below average, a master’s degree, at least three spoken languages and 80k median income is standard and I definitely consider myself average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:55 PM
2

I can understand that you wish people would notice that you have good physical attributes like your hair, that’s normal and it’s relatable. Confidence isn’t ephemeral or weak by any means. Confidence is a fundamental character trait that influences every aspect of one’s life. If you put two teens with the same physical attributes and the same background and intelligence at the same starting point, with one of the guys being a confident person and the other suffering from lack of confidence and y…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 04:07 PM
1

Confidence is most definitely a real thing, and it’s a very important charge trait because people who don’t have it usually crave constant reassurance and are more likely to be possessive and controlling and more likely to cheat if they get attention from someone else. Confident guys are also more likely to be successful in their careers and are just generally more fun to be around and interact with than a guy who lacks confidence and has poor social skills as a result. Your hair and your eyes a…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 10:37 PM
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Dude you don’t get to talk for men. Outside of incels and other frustrated dudes who aren’t getting laid most of us guys want a girl who’s as sexually experienced as we are as long as she doesn’t have STDs, why would we want to Jane sex with a girl who has no idea what she’s doing and is a boring lay? Outside of this sub most men have good dating / sex lives, so please don’t act like you know what our preferences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:16 PM
1

Lol that has absolutely nothing to do with it. But anyways I’m single because I enjoy dating multiple people and I’m not sure why anyone would want kids so I have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:17 AM
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I’m not shaming anyone, I am however, saying that there’s something wrong with someone who says they like “boring sex”. Like what’s the point of sex if it’s not fun and pleasurable? If someone likes “starfish sex” then there’s nothing wrong with that. That’s what they consider fun and pleasurable. But the minute someone says they practice sex a certain way specifically because they want it to be boring, then yeah, something is wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:18 AM
1

Exactly, nobody wants to have boring vanilla sex. Mature people are in touch with their own kinks and turn-ons, it’s just part of growing up. Vanilla sex is a sign of lack of experience and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:28 AM
1

Why is vanilla sex so important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:18 AM
2

I didn’t say anything about being promiscuous. I’m talking about normal people with healthy dating / sex lives, and achieving sexual maturity is a part of the emotional development of any normal person. When you first start exploring your own kinks and turn-ons you start to mature and evolve and you also start to know yourself better, and that’s just part of growing up for people who aren’t incels, sorry if that upsets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:16 AM
1

Just live and let live dude. Most of us are just living life not worried about what others are doing. In fact it seems like the only people who care what others are doing are the ones who are bitter about missing out on a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:01 AM
1

A lot of these frustrated incel types don’t realize this but sexual maturity is a huge part of a healthy individual’s emotional development. The stuff people are into sexually isn’t the same six months after they lose their virginity and at six years after. People discover themselves, they experiment to explore their kinks and figure out what they’re really into. Which is why it’s very hard for people with dramatically different amounts of experience to be sexually compatible, or compatible in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:14 PM
0

Lol that’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:22 PM
0

You may think it’s stupid and you might even be right, but that’s the way it is in the dating game. After getting someone’s number you never call / text the next day, it just looks thirsty and desperate. I’m not the only lurker here who has a good dating / sex life, feel free to ask one of the other lurkers what the standard waiting time is after getting the contact info of someone you’re into. I didn’t make the rules, this is pretty much universal dating game etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:20 PM
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Dude you never text the very next day, that’s a rookie move and it makes you look needy and desperate, which are obviously red flags. Give it at least 72 hours and even then I usually wait for the girl to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:20 PM
1

I don’t know one guy who’s successful with women (as in who consistently dates good looking high value women) who plays video games. Seduction is all about subtlety, about body language and non verbal cues and video games seem to make guys completely useless at seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:35 PM
2

I’m a dude and I don’t have time to play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:44 PM
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I’m a guy. And this is just something that I’ve observed over the years, all the dudes I know that play video games suck at the seduction game. For some reason video games seem to kill real life communication skills, and it takes good seduction and communication skills to pick up a hot chick at a bar and have her be interested enough to want to go home with you and get freaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:18 PM
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There’s nothing high value about guys who refer to themselves as “Kings” and who play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:02 PM
1

OP I’m not sure if you saw my comment, but I basically wanted to say lthat if most guys using this sub dedicated the time it takes to write a post and debate with people in the comments for a few hours every day to actually spending time with women and working on their social skills, they’d probably have better results than what running around this hamster wheel will get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:42 AM
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On the contrary, I’m super curious about the world and I’m constantly taking in, processing Information and learning new things as I evolve through different environments. That’s how I’ve come to get a degree, learn five languages and become a digital nomad and manifest the dating / sexual life that I want despite being 5’5 and not rich. But I do that mental stuff on the go, I don’t let a subreddit take time and energy that I would usually invest in socializing. Time is the most precious commodi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:13 PM
1

What I can’t understand is hanging out in this sub just going round and round with these weird theories that try to explain women somehow when the rest of us are out there just living life and having experiences with women. The time it takes to come up with these questions and type them and debate people in the comments is time that could be used socializing and actually being with women, which is what I thought the goal was for the dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:08 PM
1

Lol every time I take a peek in here dudes seem to be stuck going round and round that incel hamster wheel with these weird obsessive questions that try to “explain” women like they’re another species. I can’t understand why you’d devote so much time to thinking about all this stuff when you could be out there actually having fun and socializing with the kind of women you’re attracted to and enjoying some relationships that come with it, whether they’re FWB type scenarios or LTRs.. Anyways, I’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:22 PM
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Why would these things make a generation “lost”? Thanks to technology and social progress women don’t have to end up as housewives cranking out crotch goblins three at a time and being completely dependent on a man for money and shelter. Women were basically getting screwed for all of history. In some states women couldn’t even open a bank account without the authorization of their husband. And now for the first time, with platforms like YouTube, Etsy, onlyfans, women can make real money from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:13 AM
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I do. Two of my closest friends are women. I did have sex with them in the past but I’ve moved on from that and now it’s strictly platonic between us and we’re super close. I’m not sure what that taught me about male-female friendships other than sexual tension can be addressed by having sex a few times and once that’s out of the way there’s room for a genuine friendship to grow, and that’s been the case with 80% of my female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:37 PM
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Dude please don’t try to talk for all men. I’m choosy and I’ve never settled for anything in my life, especially a “pity fuck”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:35 AM
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If you haven’t been doing that the whole time that’s on you. But please don’t try to talk for all men because some of are doing very well in our dating / sex lives and have no issues with the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:34 AM
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It’s fine to be yourself as long “yourself” is interesting. Boring doesn’t cut it. If your main hobby is video games, you’re boring. Other than that I’ve always been surprised at how women were willing to tolerate my neurotic, drug addicted, 5’5 with a Napoleon complex self and be interested in me for everything from one night stands to FWB type scenarios. My hobbies are DJing, combat knife throwing, lock picking and I have a weird obsession with Cold War era intelligence agencies and somehow wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:11 PM
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That’s your ego and your insecurities talking. A girl’s experience in no way prevents you from having intimacy with your soulmate. The only difference is that if you’re a bad lay she’ll know because she has a basis for comparison, and that’s what scares the incel types into saying they want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:35 AM
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As a guy with experience, the last thing I want is to hook up with a woman who has no idea what she’s doing and who hasn’t had the necessary experience to get to know her kinks and “matured” sexually yet. As with all things in life we grow and mature sexually as well. The stuff we’re into when we lose out virginity isn’t the same stuff we’re into a few years down the line after we’ve gained experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:09 PM
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If he does that he’s going to need money for a Dutch lawyer as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:32 PM
0

I’m a drug user, so what? And I’m also a successful marketing consultant living on a boat in one of the most desirable cities in the world. I think you’re just bitter drug users are more successful than you with women and with their careers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:57 PM
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Bro you’re coming as a bitter angry incel, please don’t act like you’re talking for all men because you’re definitely not. A lot of us are doing just fine with our dating / sex life and are happy with the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:25 PM
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I sure as hell don’t want kids, a house with a white picket fence and a 30 year mortgage and a 9 to 5 lifestyle. I love being single and free to explore the planet and have experiences with new people. When I think “marriage and kids” I think being tied down and my freedoms restricted. With today’s technology I’m able to live as a digital nomad anywhere I want. Since I left the usa after college I spent some time doing the beach thing in Tel Aviv and now I live on a boat in Amsterdam and I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:18 PM
0

Oof, is your ego that fragile that you can’t handle being with a chick that has more sexual experience than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:21 AM
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Since always dude it’s like the most basic boring position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:19 AM
0

The part about how you’d rather have boring sex so with a virgin than fun sex with a chick with more experience than you. That’s like the definition of small dick energy and fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:17 AM
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Dude she just explained to you what you’re not doing right and instead of taking her advice you’re fighting back and trying to justify your lack of trying. Stop being a stereotypical angry incel and actually take the advice you’re being given instead of acting like you know everything and justifying your lack of effort with excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:47 AM
1

I meet women everywhere. Grocery shopping, stores, parties, social events. Once a conversation gets started things flow naturally and when women put out the signal that they’re “into it” and enjoying the interaction I ask them if they’d like to see me and hang out in a different setting. Once there’s been enough back and forth and enough banter to create some sexual tension then I escalate things from there. I’m really good at reading body language and non verbal cues, which is like 95% of the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:03 PM
5

To me? I’m a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:33 AM
1

Are you really trying to explain women to a woman? Are you that deluded about your own wisdom?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:37 AM
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Because the alternative is to be with an abusive loser of a guy, which is worse than being alone. Shit, you don’t have to be a genius to understand that having a chill cat, a dildo and a Netflix subscription beats having a crappy dude ten times outta ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:35 AM
0

Same. I’m 39 and the girls I date are 25 to 35 and there’s a lot of quality single women out there these days.
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:38 AM
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If they weren’t abusive, chances are they wouldn’t be exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:36 AM
2

Nobody “deserves” anything more than basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:52 PM
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I’m a guy and that’s not how I or the dudes I’m around feel at all. But then again, I don’t have any issues in my dating / sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:15 PM
1

Lol good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:34 PM
1

I never told you to do anything, I’m just saying that when you never find your virgin waifu because she doesn’t exist outside of your anime maybe you’ll realize that whine you were being angry about what others were doing the rest of us were living life and getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:41 AM
1

I’m just a dude on Reddit who’s telling you how your posts are making you appear like a bitter incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:00 AM
1

Did it occur to you that you might just be low value in the current dating market and that you’re angry that you can’t the women that you think should be “on your level”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:42 PM
1

I’m a dude and my dating / sex life is going just fine and you’re coming across as someone with bitter, resentful energy who just can’t make the dating game work for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:49 PM
0

This makes you sound like a guy with a very fragile ego. If someone has no STD whatever they did before they met you has zero impact on your life other than apparently hurting your pride because you’re insecure about your own lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:55 PM
0

Wait dude I’m really sorry I didn’t mean to come off like I’m bragging and running shit in your face I really thought that ONS and random hookups weren’t your cup of tea and that you wanted the point of view. I wasn’t trying to make you feel bad by any means and I apologize if that’s how I came off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:17 PM
0

I feel sorry for anyone who hasn’t experienced the raw passion that occurs when you randomly meet someone you’re really physically attracted to and the attraction is mutual. I’ve had ONSs where I was about to hook up with a girl I met out that night and brought home and as she’s undressing me I can see there’s just that crazy lust in her eyes, almost animalistic and you I’d think to myself “god damn, this chick is about to wreck me”. I dunno, maybe it’s just me but that shit is the spice of life…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:33 PM
0

Thanks but I already got an introduction to sociology and much more when I went to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:35 AM
1

No, it’s a problem for the guys who can’t get the women they really want because they’re losers but because their egos don’t let them get to that realization they blame women for having standards and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:33 AM
2

Sounds to me like you’re angry and frustrated on a personal level about your own failures with women and you’re projecting onto them the character flaws that you think you’ve been victimized by in your dealings with the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:25 AM
1

What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:31 AM
1

So you’re basically saying women are too stupid to know what’s good for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:28 PM
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And you know this how? If only a small subset of women weren’t content things wouldn’t have changed so much. Technological advances have given women the opportunity to be independent, and most women have taken that opportunity happily because they weren’t satisfied with how things were before, otherwise they would have stayed in those “traditional roles”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:52 PM
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If women in the 50s were having such a good time then they would’ve kept things the same. If they fought so hard to change things it’s because they were tired of getting screwed over and clearly weren’t enjoying the way things were.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:54 PM
1

If anything this shows that men have a fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:50 PM
1

Holy shit lol I have absolutely no recollection of writing that. I hope it helped the OP, I guess.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:08 AM
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I’m not into hippy chicks. Not counting ONSs and FWBs, my last relationships were with a girl who helps monetize some of the biggest apps in the world (waze and angry birds type apps), one who runs a boutique public relations agency and one who works in diplomacy. So definitely not the druggie hippie type. I’m a DJ so obviously they’ve seen me don’t coke at clubs but I don’t get sloppy fucked up when I’m around women I date because they weren’t drug users themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:09 PM
1

lol I know people here are really quick to judge but I’m a digital nomad who’s lived in five different countries over the last 15 years and my social circle mostly consists of people who work in finance, tech, and people in the DJ/ production industry. And my drug use is something I keep to myself, so no, I don’t know any druggie type girls but I do know a lot of women who speak a bunch of languages and are highly successful in business. I know it’s easy to judge a book by its cover, but..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:24 AM
1

You just TLDR’d my post very well. That was basically the point of my post but I was fucked up and rambling. I was just trying to say that having that skill gives sone guys a leg up that a lot of guys who are just as “high quality” don’t have and I can see how this could be frustrating for a lot of good dudes who have a lot to offer but struggle with the initial seduction part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:08 AM
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I’m not bad looking but I’m not super handsome either and I’m short. I’m a degenerate for sure lol but I don’t let the women I date know about my drug use. And as for the the veracity of my post, well that’s for you to decide. Despite being a degenerate I did manage to learn five languages and become a digital nomad after college and live in Israel, France and the Netherlands. Anyways, Reddit “clout” isn’t really how I seek validation and ego boosts, so I have no reason to lie. And if I did it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:13 AM
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If a woman agrees to be in a long-term relationship or a marriage with you, it’s because she thinks you’re the best overall, otherwise what’s the point? You may not be the best lay she’s ever had, or you may not have the best body she’s ever seen on a guy, but the point is that she considers you the “best” at enough things for her to think you’re worth getting into a long-term relationship or a marriage with when she could’ve just maintained a casual noncommittal relationship with you so she’d b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:23 PM
1

Actually the point of my post was to say that I realize that my experience and my social skills give me an advantage when it comes to seduction that a lot of guys who are more introverted and less experienced don’t have and it’s just something I didn’t realize before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:22 AM
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I’m a guy and she sounds fine to me. Kids are annoying and single parents in general are a pain in the ass as well so I don’t know wtf you’re on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:04 PM
1

I’m a guy in his 30s and I’m fine with relationships but what I certainly don’t want is marriage and children and the whole “white picket fence / 9-to-5 job“ type of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:57 PM
0

No, turning LITERALLY means holding to older values despite the world changing. That’s the actual dictionary definition of conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:31 PM
4

The younger generation is more tolerant and open minded than ever the only they only seem close minded to people with bigoted ideologies like people who are against LGBT rights and women’s right to decide what to do with their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:12 PM
5

No dude, women needed authorization from their husband to open a bank account and they also needed permission from a dude to get an abortion, that’s got nothing to do with the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:14 PM
9

For centuries the system was heavily skewed in favor of men and things have started changing on the last twenty years. For the first time in history, women have complete can whatever they want regardless of what men think, whether that’s creating content on OnlyFans or Twitch or making and selling jewelry on Etsy and this gives them more power and independence than they’ve ever had at any point in history. And that seems to make a lot of guys bitter because they see the male / female dynamics of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:12 PM
3

I’ve been around a shitload of different guys with different types seduction game, some who were super successful with women and others who were almost incel-tier and the number one thing that guys with no game whatsoever have in common is video games. I’ve seen it in hundreds of guys, the more video games they play the worse their seduction game was and the more unsuccessful with women they were.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:38 AM
6

The what? What you wrote made no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:47 AM
5

Laws will slowly change and progress as marriage will become less and less prevalent as time goes by.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:42 AM
14

It’s only important for your ego, otherwise there’s absolutely nothing important about carrying a family name. The universe doesn’t care and neither does anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:40 AM
1

What’s your budget? There’s a lot of fun to be have if you got money.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:10 PM
1

This is why this sub cracks me up, y’all come up with the wildest shit to think about sometimes I don’t think about all this man / women stuff like that at all, I just live life and encounters, dates and hookups just occur naturally as I party and socialize. Things just flow naturally, but I’d seriously go crazy if I actually sat there thinking about the weird power dynamics between men and women that frustrated dudes here obsess over. This sub is like going around the same hamster wheel all day…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:03 AM
1

I’ve been with over forty women and I’ve never once had any complaints, and out of those 40 there has to be at least twenty one night stands so I’m not sure the picture you paint is accurate outside of your paranoid mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:59 PM
4

I’ve never in my life asked a girl if I could could kiss her. I just know when a girl is into me and wants me to initiate physical contact because of her body language. Body language and non verbal cues in general are the most important thing in the game of seduction. Learning to read non verbal communication is how I know when to ask a girl for her number, ask a girl on a date, kiss or straight up have wild monkey sex with strangers I met at parties and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:24 AM
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Dude what are you talking about? I’m a guy and I’m perfectly aware that It doesn’t work that way, it’s not like you just insert nice tokens into women and then she gives you sex, there has to be physical attraction before anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:16 AM
1

That sucks dude, the social aspect of college was a huge part of development and my social / dating / sex life and it’s a shame you’re getting robbed of those experiences because of covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:51 AM
1

Personally I prefer to call myself a vaginaphile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:44 PM
4

I apologize for how long and annoying this is going to be, but I do have a fair amount to say on the subject. I’m in my thirties and I’m single because I’ve always had too much fun dating different people and living in different places to want to settle down. Marriage, a 9 to 5 and a white picket fence sound like absolute hell to me. These days I’m pretty lazy about dating, I don’t put much effort into meeting new people or pursuing anyone and I think a big part of that is because when it comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:54 AM
2

Did you end up “churning his butter”?
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:18 AM
1

Bro your argument is both simplistic and flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:00 AM
5

Hell no I’m not regretful. I love being single in my thirties and having a fun social life where I’m dating / having sex with new interesting people. The last thing I want is having a “married guy” type life with a white picket fence, a 9 to five job and kids. My life is fun and interesting, I have great friends and great relationships with the women I date and I really don’t envy younger dudes getting married and having kids right out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:26 AM
3

I think you don’t understand how capitalism works. If someone is willing to pay for that content then it’s worth something. It seems like you don’t approve because you’re annoyed you can’t do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:13 PM
2

Don’t you DJ at clubs / parties/ events?
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:09 PM
7

If someone’s willing to pay for their content then it has value on the market place and that makes them a productive member of a capitalist society whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:48 PM
4

Why do you care? Just do you and let others do their own thing. And you say they’re making money while being worthless but they’re making and selling content that others are happy to pay for, meaning there is value in what they do since someone is willing to pay for it. Sounds like you’re just bitter that others are making money doing something that you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:47 PM
1

About meeting women through DJing? There’s so many, from house parties at my college frat house to beach parties and clubs from NYC to Tel Aviv I’ve DJ’d in a lot of different environments and it got me attention from a lot women simply because the DJ is the centerpiece of any party. There’s been a lot of random hookups, ONS and meeting women who ended up becoming FWBs. But even though DJing put me around a lot of women it was still up to me to have the necessary social skills to seduce the wome…
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:22 AM
3

There are certain hobbies that will put you in social settings automatically. And better yet, some hobbies will put you in a place of prominence within those social settings. Personally I’ve been DJing since my early 20s and I can’t even count the number of women it’s helped me meet and hook up with.
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:35 PM
1

I’m a guy, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:05 PM
8

Kills men by the millions? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:03 AM
-1

Dude listen to yourself, your words are dripping in incel hate and resentment towards women. Carrying this much hate around can’t be good for someone dude, that’s how some people get tumors n shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:47 AM
1

I don’t want to be anyone’s first it’s a pain in the ass dealing with someone with no experience whatsoever and it makes for a boring lay. And I don’t know a single guy that wants to deal with that crap either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:10 PM
1

I’m a guy. And I’m not a Chad but I still have a great dating / sex life somehow, go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:22 AM
5

It’s only a mistake for the guys who can’t get women to willingly have sex with them. For the rest of us it feels like progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:31 PM
2

A man that is usually spineless with a boring, bland personality who hopes that he’ll get a pity fuck if he opens the door for her and listens to her talk about other dudes she fucked enough times. That’s what we mean by “nice guy” these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:17 PM
3

I’m a guy and I think you sound like a basic bro right now. Speak for yourself but I certainly notice women who are classy and elegant and don’t sexualize themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:00 PM
1

Seduction is an art, not a science and it’s very much an instinctive process that requires very good social skills and perception. Those are the most basic things you need to be good at seduction.
/r/seduction01/01/22 02:21 PM
2

Sorry but that’s kind of a stupid question. Line what girl in her right mind wants a guy that’ll fly of the handle and get agressive and violent with her? What a lot of guys seem to not comprehend is that women don’t want bad boys in the sense of “men who are abusers” but they want someone who has a personality and who isn’t a spineless “yes-man” with a bland personality. And for some reason a lot of guys take that personally claim women want bad guys who treat them like shit because it hurts th…
/r/seduction01/01/22 01:32 PM
1

Nothing says “basic bro” like a guy that smells of axe body spray. Avoid like the plague and find a fragrance that not every bottom of the totem pole dude is wearing. In my social circles at least women would see a guy that smells like axe like a sign of lack of personality and basic-ness.
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:45 PM
1

I’m a dude you moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:58 PM
1

Do you know how immature you sound? Who are you to tell women what they are and aren’t allowed to do? I’m a guy and I’m telling you you got a lot of growing up to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:54 PM
0

Sounds like you’re insecure. How is it “ew” if the girl showers and uses protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:34 PM
1

I don’t feel any way about people who sleep around because it’s not for me to judge others, and only incels and sexually frustrated dudes seem to care. And on a personal level I like to have sex with women who are as experienced as I am, and as long as they don’t have STDs I couldn’t care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:06 PM
1

That’s a pretty general question. It might be helpful to ask more precise questions about social habits or what makes me different from other dudes or something, no? But anyways, generally speaking I get laid by either hooking up with a friends with benefits or with someone new and the new girls I meet I meet at parties, through friends and acquaintances and every once in awhile through online dating even though only accounts for 10-20% of the new women I have six with. I have certain weird hobb…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:31 AM
2

Thank you that’s really nice of you to say but I’m far from a stud though that’s what I’m trying to get guys to understand is that if you feel good about yourself and you have great social skills you don’t have to be model-tier good looking to be successful with women as a short guy.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:39 AM
2

It’s hard to give people advice because what works with my lifestyle isn’t necessarily a possibility for someone who has a different life. But I would suggest having a hobby that puts you in social situations. Bonus points if if you can figure out how to put yourself in social events where you have a position of prominence. My thing is DJing. It didn’t just help me meet women, it’s opened a lot of doors for me. But there’s plenty of other ways to be in a place of prominence in social events. If …
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:49 AM
2

One of the things that helps me tremendously is my ability to read body language and feel people’s “energy“. When I talk to someone I can sense how that person perceives me and how I’m making them feel. I can sense whether a girl is attracted to me or not from her body language, the tone of her voice and how she’s looking at me. So before I ask a girl for her number, ask her out on a date or even lean in for a kiss, I already know how she feels and she’s going to react so I never get rejected be…
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:52 PM
1

Do you mind if I ask where you’re struggling when it comes to your interactions with women?
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:44 PM
2

It’s fine dude, it’s pretty obvious this guy just wants to embarrass me because he’s insecure. I don’t even acknowledge people like that because at the end of the day they’re just mad at themselves because when they can’t pull off what someone else is doing they try to salvage their pride by embarrassing them by calling attention to their problems.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:26 PM
2

Feeling good about yourself is 98% of it. I work out and keep myself in shape so that I feel good about my body when I look in the mirror and I always wear things that make me feel good about myself. For instance, most of the time no one sees our socks and underwear but that’s not an excuse to wear old socks with holes in them and underwear so old the elastic band is all loose because when you wear that stuff it rubs off on how you feel. So I always make sure to wear nice underwear, nice socks, …
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:20 PM
1

Do you mind if I ask where you’re struggling with your social skills?
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:05 PM
3

I learned by practicing, that’s the only way. Social skills is something that can only be learned by practicing, and I’ve always been pretty intuitive when it comes to reading body language and other subtle nonverbal cues. Like when I talk to a woman at a social event or a random place like the supermarket or a café I can tell how I’m making her feel in real time from her body language and her “energy”, so if I ask a girl for her phone number, out on a date or if I lean in for a kiss I do so kno…
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:47 PM
2

Thanks! In theory yes, most women want a guy who is taller than them but I’ve had a lot of women tell me that they noticed I was short when they met me but that after interacting with me my confidence and my personality made my height completely irrelevant because I have a “big“ presence.
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:35 PM
1

It wasn’t one clear definable sign, it’s always a mixture of body language (posture, placement of arms), tone of voice and vibe. When it comes to seduction, over 90% of all communication is nonverbal, meaning all the important stuff to read is actually between the lines, so to speak. I could tell from the way she was talking that she was interested because her tone was eager and the questions she was asking me should she found me intriguing and wanted to know more. When girls do that, I don’t gi…
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:31 PM
6

Lol classy
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:54 PM
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It was very natural. We were walking around together in the neighborhood where we both live just talking and laughing and having a good time and eventually we kissed. I jokingly said that I needed help reaching a bottle of vanilla stoli that was on a high shelf in my kitchen and she laughed and said that she was volunteering to fetch the bottle if I would agree to maker her a martini. I obviously said yes and we walked to my place. When we got there we made out some more and things got hot and h…
/r/seduction28/12/21 12:47 PM
5

I’m not sure I understand what you’re asking, could you narrow it down some? Are you asking how I got from the date to the sex part or how I did the whole thing from the beginning?
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:49 AM
20

Own that sh*t bro! Being short in stature is just an opportunity to show people what a big personality and confidence you have!
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:45 AM
12

Around the time I was 12 years old I noticed something interesting happening with my friends. Basically my little group of friends started separating into two different groups, the guys who started playing video games and the guys who never did and did other things like playing basketball or skateboarding or other things that make you work your social skills. And what happened was that within two years all the guys who started playing video games add started putting on weight and had a hard time…
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:41 AM
1

Bro. That’s just not how that works. I’m sorry but from the unfortunate generalizations you made it’s painfully obvious you don’t understand women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:54 AM
3

I don’t know if “instinctual” is the best way to describe it but yes, it’s a very natural and organic thing for me to “read” women’s arousal and understanding how to respond in a way that maximizes the length and the intensity of their “pleasure”. Most of it is through a lot of experience but it’s also partly because I’m very good at reading body and non verbal cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:26 AM
1

Do you mind if I ask what you think your biggest hurdle is when it comes to women and dating? I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:39 PM
2

I’m not in college anymore, I’m a digital nomad and I’ve lived in five different over the last 15 years. So are you saying that you’d be more successful with women if you were around more of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:24 PM
2

Both. Me and the guys in my social circle are all doing just fine in terms of dating and sex and none of us are particularly rich or good looking. I’m 5’5 so I’m pretty damn short and that doesn’t slow me down either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:17 PM
0

Honestly I don’t know any guys who struggle as much as the guys who frequent this sub seem to struggle to date women they’re into, so please don’t generalize or try to talk for all men because it seems we’re experiencing very different realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:08 PM
1

I’m currently living in the Netherlands, the country with the tallest people in the world where most men are blond, over 6 feet tall and look like Disney princes and I still make it work at 5’5. I’m happy to go into more detail about how I do things if you want a little help trying to figure out your own situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:12 PM
2

How are your social skills, generally speaking? Do you have a good relationship with women overall? What would you ou say is your biggest hurdle when it comes to seduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:07 AM
2

Are you from a big city or a rural area? Are you generally surrounded by a lot of women? I’m just curious where you’re having an issue with women, we ain’t gotta talk about it if you don’t want to. Kein Problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:01 AM
2

Do you mind if I ask where you’re from and what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:37 AM
2

Short, I’m 5’5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:29 AM
1

Ive been having sex “left and right” since my teens, and in my experience social skills and the ability to read body language and non verbal cues is like 90% of seduction and having a “seductive” social image for lack of a better expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:02 AM
6

I used to get laid a lot in my college fraternity years and the rest of my twenties, now I’m basically at 3 a year and I really don’t feel the need for more. I don’t have the same need for sex and attention as I did in my twenties and I’m also done “experimenting”. I know myself, my kinks, my needs, which makes me less hungry for one night stands.
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:36 AM
3

Why not if she’s hot and doesn’t have any STDs? Why would I care? It’s not like I ever plan on getting married anyway being single and enjoying a variety of people is way too much fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:08 AM
2

I don’t date down. Ever. I’ve lived all over the world and continue to travel all the time and I’ve never once lowered my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:03 AM
3

I lost my virginity in my teens and I’ve been doing just fine ever since. Just because you can’t figure out how to be successful with women doesn’t mean others can’t. But it seems like your ego gets so bruised that you can’t even accept that possibility, so do your thing homie. You could literally just ask a question or two to see what I do differently than you do and to try and understand why me and other average looking dudes are doing to be successful but apparently the thought of other guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:52 AM
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It seems only a minority of bitter, sexually frustrated and inexperienced males care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:33 AM
4

Bro you sound like a bitter incel right now. If you understood women as well as you think you do you’d probably know how to be successful in seduction. I’m a short, relatively broke, average looking dude who does well with women because of confidence and personality, yet according to the rhetoric of incel / blackpill types I shouldn’t have a good dating and sex life. Yet I do and plenty of my average looking friends do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:30 AM
5

You’re a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:33 PM
7

I’m a short guy who’s always done well with women size is only an issue if you make it one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:29 AM
1

So basically you wanna woman who’s going to be financially dependent on you for the rest of her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:57 AM
2

Da hell? What sub did you get banned from for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:05 PM
8

No they’re not, I’m a guy and those are qualities I seek in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:27 PM
0

Because guys and feel secure and confident about themselves don’t give a shit what other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:21 PM
0

Sounds like you consider yourself “high value“... like most of the losers on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:17 PM
2

Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:08 PM
1

Out of curiosity what part of the country are you from and what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:32 AM
1

I hear ya but I’m just not comfortable giving anyone on Reddit my pics lol. It’s really on you to believe me or not, I’m just trying to get more guys to understand that there are assets other than height and good looks that can be used very successfully on women and that I’ve been making a go of it since my teens. I don’t mind answering questions if you think my profile is that strange. Which is weird to me because when I look at the majority of my friends and my fraternity brothers most are lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:35 AM
1

Why would you want to see my pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:56 PM
1

I’m genuinely sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:27 PM
4

What works for me is being very aware of my strengths and weaknesses and knowing exactly what kind of environment is most conducive to me appearing my best to women. For instance, i’m 5 foot five with a relatively average face and I have a dark sense of humor that translates very poorly to text. So I know that OLD isn’t the ideal hunting ground for me because many women are turned off by my height and they can’t feel my confidence in my sense of humor right off the bat, and those are my two bigg…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:21 PM
9

I have high standards, I don’t count on people finding me exotic looking. What gets me laid is my confidence, my personality and my sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:11 PM
5

I’m a man who’s 5’5 and not particularly good looking and I still managed to always have a good dating and sex life since I’ve been a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:46 AM
-10

Holy crap dude. Are you a monk or a janitor on the international space station? Seriously tho, do you mind if I ask how that happens? I can’t be the first person to find that a little shocking..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:38 AM
0

I lost my virginity at 13 years old to my first girlfriend who was 15 at the time. We “dated” for about six months. I’m in my thirties now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:32 AM
1

You’re absolutely right and most people would find that revolting same as on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:22 AM
-4

Well aren’t you a delicate butterfly.. love is sacred. Sex is just.. sex. You’ll probably grow out of that romantic comedy vision of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:20 AM
5

That stuff is absolutely disgusting, you can’t kiss your significant other when they chew that stuff and the spitting thing is a huge turnoff to any women I would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:18 AM
2

It’s because women hate obnoxious meat heads who take off their T-shirts one minute into a conversation. Like why would you do that? Were you actually thinking women would see your muscles and be all attracted to you?
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:21 PM
2

I’m a dude and I agree 100% that it’s creepy and tacky to try to holler at chicks on social media. Maybe growing up with sisters gave me different insight but I’ve never tried hitting on a woman via social media I think it’s just cowardly and creepy.
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:23 AM
0

Not sure how that has anything to do with what I said…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:06 PM
1

That’s a false generalization, all the women I hang out with are super educated and very successful in business and they don’t give two shits about marriage or having a crotch goblin that’s just going to ruin their figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:57 PM
3

The way I see it, there is no wall and there is no Chad, there’s just the excuses some dudes come up with why they can’t get laid with the women they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:54 PM
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I’m a guy who just reads this sub for entertainment and I’d say it’s mostly the guys in here who seem to be socially inept incel types who are furious that women refuse to settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:46 PM
1

I’m not rich at all, I don’t even own a car. Not sure what makes you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:56 PM
0

I sure as hell have high standards. I don’t hang out with “average” people and I can’t remember the last time I dated someone who spoke less than 3 languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:05 PM
1

By and large, most people are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:04 PM
0

I wouldn’t know, I can’t stand “average” and I’ve spent my life making sure I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:02 PM
4

I don’t know a single guy who likes to simp and in my experience the men who simp the least are the ones who are the most successful with women and the ones who do simp don’t seem to ever attract the girls they’re into. The women I know don’t want to be in a pedestal, they just want to be equals, and they regard men who simp after them as pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:56 PM
1

That’s an interesting point. I guess I never had to think like that because I’ve always naturally gravitated towards higher social circles so nothing ever felt like it was “out of my league” (from a social perspective).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:17 AM
1

I’ve always had a good dating / sex life so I’ve never had to put much thought into this stuff. But now that I am thinking about it I realize that it has served me well to be only going for people who I find super attractive. I’ve never looked at a girl and thought “she’s out of my league” because it’s a loser mindset and it automatically programs you for failure (just my opinion, not saying it’s a fact). I think how you perceive yourself is 80% of it. I perceived myself as a prize. And not only…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:56 AM
2

I’m a guy and I also don’t want to fuck anyone “average” and in terms of who I get into relationships with my standards are even higher. I’m a digital nomad who speaks six languages, and even if I’m short and not super attractive things have worked out fine for me but I also have great social skills and women have always found me intriguing and have always found my confidence and my sense of humor attractive. You don’t need to be rich or “Chad” (I find that word beyond stupid) to get with hot gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:25 AM
2

I’m a guy and I do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:18 AM
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I don’t feel that way. I’m an average looking guy and I’m short (5’5) and not rich by any means but I’m quite content with my dating and sex life. I’m not trying to invalidate the experience of other men, I’m just saying that I’ve never had those issues. In fact I’ve never even seen the word “hypergamy” outside of Reddit and forums where incel types gravitate. I also don’t understand why you’d want women to lower their standards and have sex with guys they’re not even attracted to. When I have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:48 PM
0

This sub is just particularly full of incel types who are super bitter but it’s really not as hard as they make it seem to meet someone as long as you dress correctly and take care of your body by going to the gym and you’re not playing video games all day. If my 5’5 average looking ass can get laid consistently and actually be picky with who I hang out with most men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:41 PM
4

How are women the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:36 PM
1

You know what I’ve realized from lurking here? Most people are basic AF and most dudes on this sub are average / below average guys who are trying to to talk women into lowering their standards because they don’t see themselves moving up in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:12 AM
2

That’s there’s a whole lot of guys out there who are really unsuccessful with women and who really want women to lower their standards. I’m fortunate enough to do pretty well for myself in terms of dating / sex life but I don’t want a woman to lower her standards for me. On the contrary. I detest “average”, and it’s a word that I don’t want my name associated with, and I let that guide my actions on a daily basis in work, romance, friendship and all standards I set for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:25 PM
0

Just trying to help bro, if for some reason what I’m saying bothers you I’ll just leave your post alone, but I wasn’t lying. I just have a certain way of doing things, from the part where I talk leading up to asking a girl for her number and every other step after that.
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:01 PM
0

You may not see anything wrong with the way you text but it’s obviously not achieving the desired results. What works for me personally is only using text messaging for a very specific purpose and being super disciplined about it. In every interaction there’s always one person initiating the communication and I never text first. I let women text me and I text back very short messages with a few well chosen words designed to just tease her into wanting to text more. But I never get into actual di…
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:48 PM
2

Respectable women don’t want simps in their lives. The women in my social circles would never associate with a guy they didn’t respect because that would make them as pathetic as the loser guys they keep around them. So no, simps haven’t ruined anything. High value women don’t rely on simps and don’t want them anywhere near them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:13 PM
2

I don’t really look at the world like that, I don’t look at other guys as competitors, as alphas or betas, think that they’re better looking than me or assume they’re richer. First off I’m pretty broke lol so I don’t even sweat the money stuff, but mostly the way I look at it is that I have a personality and a confidence I’m able to parlay into relationships with women and that’s my thing, and every guy has his own “thing”, whether it’s a physical trait or not. I suppose I would see things diffe…
/r/seduction05/12/21 11:18 AM
3

Yes and no. When interact with women interested in I always talk about myself as little as possible and encourage them to talk about themselves, especially when they’re drinking alcohol because they’ll naturally tell you more personal stuff. But you can’t just keep asking a woman random questions about her life, obviously that would be super creepy and weird. The magic question that I ask over and over just worded differently is “how does that make you feel?”. They tell you about an their life. …
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:23 AM
2

The specific one I’m hanging out with these days or in general? The chick I’m with now I met through mutual friends who wee having a housewarming party. In general most of the women I meet come from attending social events with mutual friends or from social interactions built around my hobbies. OLD isn’t my strong suit so these circumstances allow me to “shine” with my personality. My batting average would be ridiculously low if I relied on dating apps.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:48 AM
1

I’m getting the impression that you’re trying to get women to lower their standards because you’re not successful with girls. Maybe it would benefit you to not be so judge mental of things that don’t fit your narrow world view. And I really don’t understand why you would say that was gross, I never had unprotected sex I never caught any type of STD so I really don’t see why it’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:13 AM
3

What happened 15 years ago was college, where I did a lot of experimenting and whored myself out in a way I don’t do these days. But I’m still getting laid, things haven’t changed. My current FWB is 26, I’m still doing just fine. Btw I’m not particularly good looking, my most attractive traits are my confidence and my sense of humor, so I’ve never put a lot of stock on tinder and OLD in general simply because my looks aren’t my strong point. If I saw that my success rate went down to a level pas…
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:08 AM
2

I’m a digital nomad and a DJ, and in the last 15 years I’ve lived in six different countries but most of those lays happened in the USA, Israel and France. I lost my virginity at 13 years old but the time in my life where I had the most sex was during my years in college living in a fraternity house on a big party campus.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:39 AM
1

No I live in the professional world where people care about their careers and their money not about marriage and kids. Most women I know fuck guys without any feelings whatsoever because the only thing they care about is their high powered career and stacking chips. And they have absolutely no interest whatsoever in marriage or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:35 AM
1

I appreciate your eloquent response, but as a guy who’s been fortunate enough to be successful with women I completely disagree. It might also have something to do with the type of women I’m around. The social circle I frequent is comprised mostly of highly educated go-getters and 95% of the women I know fuck guys with no feelings whatsoever, because what matters to them is their high-powered career and their money. They have no interest whatsoever in things like marriage and kids, which day reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:30 AM
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The bottom line is that if you want to be halfway decent at seduction the first step is being confident, and if you can’t do that much then you’ll be never be successful at seduction. So yeah, just be confident bro!
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:27 AM
7

That’s not necessarily true, I’m short and average looking and I don’t “slay” but I lost my virginity at 13 and my n count is around 40, which is good enough for me.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:24 AM
4

Why is the woman that slept around not good for a long-term relationship anymore and the guy is? What’s the difference? Sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:06 AM
0

This is a stupid generalization. Sex and love are two completely different things that are rarely attached, if ever. “ Women are best when they have that connection“. Says who? You? Because I certainly haven’t ever heard a woman say that. If you’re going to make up rules like “as soon as the woman cuts the connection between her heart and blah blah blah she loses her potential wife card“ at least specify that it’s only your opinion because I’m a guy and I don’t agree with you at all and I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:03 AM
3

It’s mostly a matter of practice but the “prerequisites” are having empathy, being sensitive to people’s “energies” and being able to maintain eye contact comfortably (a lot gets said through the eyes). It really helps to read psychology books about body language and Jungian psychology. And after that it’s practice, practice, practice. Keep in mind that for every hour some guy spends in his room playing video games, there’s another guy who got an hour of practice interacting with women and pract…
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:03 PM
1

I’m a guy.
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:57 AM
4

You’re supposed to look long enough to exchange a look and then you read her body language and see if she feels like you approaching her and talking to her.
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:17 AM
1

Why would you say women control sexual access? Both men and women do. You never denied a woman sex?
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:15 AM
8

You can avoid rejection entirely if you get good at reading body language. Since my teenage years I’ve been gifted at reading body language and understanding nonverbal cues and hints and because of that I’ve never gotten rejected when asking a girl for her phone number, asking a woman out on a date or leaning in for a kiss. When I talk to someone I know how they feel about me and how the things I’m saying are affecting them in real time. This skill is very valuable in all interpersonal relations…
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:10 AM
3

Are you saying submissiveness is a feminine trait? Because about 99% of the women I know would disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:57 AM
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People in general want kindness as a personality trait in their partners. It’s the loser type dudes who want submissiveness in their women who usually claim that women these days need attitude adjustments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:59 PM
0

The women I date are hot and highly educated. I’ve never dated a woman that spoke less than three languages. So neither of the options above work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:58 PM
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Lol you don’t get laid a whole lot, do you?
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:49 AM
1

Cause ——> effect You text her when you know she isn’t interested ——> she thinks you’re a pathetic simp and she thinks she’s hot shit. Is that really what you want?
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:48 AM
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I’m very happy my parents circumcised me. I find uncircumcised dicks ugly and thanks to my circumcision I’ll never know what the smell of dick cheese is like and I last longer in bed. Obviously the issue of consent is very real and the debate around it is legitimate, but I’m just speaking for myself.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 09:30 AM
1

It’s because men have fragile egos and feel like they’re not “in control” as much as they would like to be when they’re financially dependent on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:56 AM
0

Whatever pain it goes through is nothing compared to the lifetime of pain and bullshit the mom would be going through so it’s still more than justified in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:43 AM
2

Ok thanks in that case you were right about the word you picked. I don’t see what’s reprehensible about women deciding what’s right and what’s wrong for themselves and their own bodies. A fœtus isn’t a baby. He’s not conscious, he’s not going to go through any pain or anything so I really don’t understand your issue with women’s right to determine what’s right for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:19 AM
2

I think you meant to use the word “reprehensible”, not “apprehensible”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:28 AM
1

I really don’t see how signing a piece of paper and putting a piece of metal around my finger changes anything other than make my life more complicated by making me more likely to be legally screwed if we divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:29 PM
1

Just keep in mind that this morning before she put on her makeup she popped a hug zit off her face and took a smelly dump so huge it made the ocean levels rise a little.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:21 PM
2

The guy with less confidence never gets the girl.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:18 PM
1

I do have real relationships I’m just not interested in marriage. Doesn’t mean I don’t do LTRs. In fact I’ve done my fair share.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:12 PM
1

A lot of us don’t give a crap about marriage and and we’re not looking for women we can see ourselves signing a 30 year mortgage with. That white picket fence model is dying, I’m having more fun being a digital nomad and meeting interesting people from all over the world without settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:52 PM
1

What worth do betas and simps have, considering their character traits are the opposite of what makes a man A MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:49 PM
1

I’m about 99% certain that the guys who keep making these hamster wheel posts where they’re endlessly theorizing about women and relationships aren’t getting any, because I don’t know a single person with an active dating life that has time to think about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:47 PM
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That’s because you take it personally. The second you realize it’s not personal and that your ego shouldn’t be bruised by a rejection you’ll be fine with it.
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:18 AM
1

Who taught you that? My father taught me how to treat women and he taught me to respect them but never to put them or anyone on. pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:51 AM
4

Sounds like you’re trying to talk women into lowering their standards. If that’s what you want all you need to do is ask, no need to make stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:46 AM
1

Lol if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:43 AM
2

It means that there’s a few women in my circle of friends that I have a great friendship with but have also done cocaine and had wild monkey sex with a few times but they’re exactly like me and think variety is the spice of life so now we just have this great platonic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:22 AM
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Is submissiveness one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:44 AM
4

What the hell? I treat my guy friends and my female friends exactly the same and my other guy friends do the same. I don’t do anything more for my girl friends than I do got my guy friends. Why would I? Friends are friends, no matter the gender. The only difference is that I have sex with my female friends every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 01:06 AM
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If you think a number higher than 5 is being promiscuous and you actually say that to women and on public forums then I can totally understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:42 PM
3

It’s a good thing. The earth is way overpopulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:16 PM
2

It’s the exact same situation for girls though, that’s stuff is just universal. Like in my group of friends if one the girls has already tried to hook up with or has hooked up with one of us it changes how we perceive and talk about her, especially if she’s trying to get more sex / FWB type shit from another guy from the group. So it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:01 AM
2

Let’s be honest, most people are idiots and you’re absolutely right, sadly that’s how basic dudes usually act.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:37 PM
1

I may not agree with you, but I appreciate you taking the time to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:06 AM
3

So if a guy who’s 5 foot five, “below eight“, not rich and dense can do it, what’s your excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:05 AM
2

Point is that I was doing just fine in my dating life before I was ever “special“.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:32 AM
2

By any chance do you have any links so that I can check out the data please?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:24 AM
1

From 13 years old to 24 I was just a regular guy and I still managed to lose my virginity at 13 and have sex with 20 women before I even started doing real traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:22 AM
1

Women told you that? Because it sounds suspiciously like incel rhetoric, the whole “women want Chad when they’re young and then want a beta “betabuxx” male later on”…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:17 AM
1

But the women I meet in bars and social events don’t know anything about my life. And before I was a digital nomad there was a time where I was just a regular shmuck in high school and then college and I’ve been doing fine with women since I was a teen, in fact I lost my virginity at 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:15 AM
1

I’m a digital nomad I mostly lived in Europe and the USA but I’ve also lived in Tel Aviv for a while. Now I live in Amsterdam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:02 AM
1

Ok, I’m a bit surprised to hear that because the people I’m around would consider a bachelors degree very basic education and masters and doctorates are more the norm. I can’t speak for others but to me ambition isn’t petty at all. I’ve dated women from very humble backgrounds who are super educated, I’m talking speak six modern languages, Latin and Greek on top and “side degrees” that they did on top of their “regular” degrees for fun, like one of my friends has a degree in mandarin and Chinese…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:00 AM
1

I’m a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:50 AM
12

And you know this how? By reading incel forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:29 AM
9

The problem is in your head bro. If you had women figured out as well as you think you do you wouldn’t be so bitter and you’d be more successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:28 AM
1

I don’t know what it is but I just can’t relate to this way of thinking. I kinda don’t like how you say “everyone was happier” when monogamy was enforced because not only are you generalizing but you’re also talking for other people. I’m average but I’m happy with my dating / sex life. I’m 5’5, “below 8”, I’m not rich / high status. My “strengths” are my sense of humor, my confidence, and my ability to read body language and non verbal cues and react appropriately. In fact I may be a little too …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:42 AM
1

What makes you say that? None of the guys in my friend group act thirsty like that, and some of them do pretty well with women. Like not Hugh Hefner well, but triple digit n count nonetheless. I’m probably one the guys in the group who doesn’t do as well because I’m 5’5, average looking and I’m more focused on my DJing so certain things that work well for them like OLD don’t work as well for me, but I’m still in the high 30s / lower 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:20 AM
1

I’ve never simped in my life and I’ve done just fine with women since the age of 13 when I lost my virginity. Simping isn’t nature, it’s nurture. My father raised me to interact a certain way with women and it stuck with me simply because it’s respectful of women but it also involves staying true to myself, and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:11 AM
1

Out of curiosity, what do you call highly educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:06 AM
2

Casual sex most definitely does exist. As long as it’s protected, I have sex as casually as I have a game of beer pong at a party. People who don’t realize it are very naive and think real life happens like a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:27 PM
1

You’ve clearly never lived on a college campus in a fraternity house. Sex is a high five with a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:55 PM
2

I love how you’re a guy but you literally think you know when women were happier. I’m pretty sure women would disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:08 AM
2

What’s that got to do with women having rights? Are you saying women were less depressed when they weren’t allowed to have bank accounts or do anything without their husband’s authorization?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:34 AM
1

In the past women weren’t allowed to decide what to do with their own bodies and they weren’t allowed to buy contraceptives or open a bank account without their husbands authorization. A lot of men seem to think that people were happier back then and the truth is that woman certainly weren’t happier when they couldn’t do shit without a man’s authorization.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:38 AM
1

What are you talking about the world has never been more over populated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:36 AM
1

No offense but it sounds like you have one of those very romanticized visions of sex that people who grow up and highly religious societies usually have. After a while experience it really does feel like a more intimate version of a handshake and you realize it’s no big deal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:35 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:31 AM
3

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:23 AM
1

You can’t work around sexual incompatibility, that’s why all those Christian kids who get married at 19 usually end up divorcing when they get more mature and realize their own kinks and their adult sexual identities, because there’s not really a middle ground for the stuff and most differences are irreconcilable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:21 AM
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Lol you’ve clearly never taken anyone’s virginity because you’re really idealizing it. It’s a pain in the ass, a lot of them have no idea about conventional grooming habits that sexually active people have (basically a lot of them don’t know that it’s not really acceptable to be completely unshaved and have an Amazonian jungle growing down there), they’re awkward, they don’t know what they’re doing and it’s no fun whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:16 AM
2

What’s the difference, from a moral perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:12 AM
2

Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:11 AM
4

Many of the guys in here who claim to be against high n counts are just saying that because they barely have any experience, and what little self-esteem they have would be crushed by knowing the girl they’re dating has a lot of experience and will probably be able to tell within 10 seconds of hopping into bed with these dudes that they don’t really know what they’re doing. It’s basically a defense mechanism for their pride, it doesn’t really have anything to do with moral standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:08 AM
1

Definitely. I’ve been in love like three or four times and I’ve been in “like“ for the night about 30 different times. I ended up here because I dated a girl who was obsessed with Walter Fate’s incel videos on YouTube and as I learned more about this stuff eventually I learned about the different “pills” and found this subreddit. I stayed because I developed this weird fascination with the dudes who ride the Reddit hamster wheel all day instead of being out there and living life and actually han…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:28 AM
1

Lol the comment section this post stinks inceldom! Like the general bitterness and anger at women here is very telling of how unsuccessful with women these men are.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:08 PM
1

Let me guess, you play video games and you can barely get laid..
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:06 PM
2

I have 4 childhood friends that I’ve known over 30 years. Only one of them really “slays” (n= over 100). Then there’s my fraternity brothers and the people I got close to in college. And then there’s the people I got close to by being a digital nomad and a DJ. Overall I have about 8-10 real friends who always have my back, and most of them do relatively well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:48 PM
1

30 is nothing, most guys I know including myself have more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:19 AM
2

A good way to know is by asking yourself this question: are you the very best version of yourself? Sure, you wasted time of video games and they’re like one of the worst things a guy can do to learn to be seductive with women. But you’ve moved on from that, you’re working out, and I’m sure you’ve developed other interests, no? It’s perfectly ok to admit that you haven’t had your new interests for very long because you used to be into video games because it’s attractive when people show a desire …
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:22 AM
3

Genuinely nice guys do just fine it’s guys were born doormats with no personality and on top of everything pretend to be women’s friends hoping that one day they’ll get a little pity sex for having been in the friend zone long enough that get the “nice guy” title. They’re not really actually nice guys, they’re just “super bland” guys who think that they should get pussy points for being nice when being nice is the most basic thing a human can do.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:37 AM
1

“Nice guys” and “good men” aren’t the same. “Nice guys” befriend women with fake friendship because they don’t have the balls to say what they really want right off the bat, and they’re usually doormats with no personality. And it’s not really any “bad boys” it’s just that “nice guys” are usually boring and insecure with no personality.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:33 AM
2

I don’t know why some of you guys are getting so bitter all she did was explain that “bad boys” are more attractive to women because they show more emotion and have a bigger range of emotions and that makes them more fun to be around. Why are some of you taking this so personally? Did you not know this was the case before seeing this post? I’m a guy and I don’t see what the problem is.
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:34 AM
0

That’s not true. I’m very good at reading body language and decrypting non verbal cues and I do fairly well for myself with women. I’m not “slaying”’or anything, my n is in the high 30s / low 40s. But I’m average looking, so it is what it is, but all the guys I know who do “slay” all share the capacity to read and interpret body language and hints. Weather in business or in seduction, 90% of all communication is non verbal, so it’s extremely important to know how to read it. Another thing is I’v…
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:30 AM
2

Why would you say that? She’s just explaining how most women feel and there’s nothing illogical about it, so why be rude and insult her? It makes you sound like one of those bitter nerds who call women superficial and don’t understand why they can’t laid even though they spend most of their time playing video games instead of practicing real life interactions.
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:21 AM
1

I certainly don’t.
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:52 AM
0

Why do you care, if the person has no STDs? Because other than feeling insecure about your own performance because you think you lack experience compared to that person, I don’t see why someone would care.
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:50 AM
1

“I’ve spent a lot of time with extreme sluts”. No you haven’t. I do pretty well for myself with women and I know quite a few guys who were in my college fraternity who really had “a way with women” and none of us would ever be judgmental and entitled enough to call a woman an “extreme slut”. Those of us who do well with women and the few guys who are “really killing it” aren’t judgmental of women’s sexuality. Women feel respected and empowered around them and that’s what makes them confident eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:29 PM
1

I’m not sure you realize how many guys won’t take no for an answer, whether it’s getting verbally/physically abusive or just being obnoxious and trying to gaslight the woman into saying yes, you can’t just ignore them and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:44 AM
1

Why tho? Like other than their busy schedules why do you swipe left on mes school peeps and doctors?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:40 PM
5

An independent woman with her own money, her own business and her own real estate is much sexier than a housewife who just sits at home, pops babies out and and who is completely dependent on her husband with no real independence of her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:36 PM
1

The problem is that there’s so many guys that won’t take no for an answer and when women say they’re busy they basically go through the whole calendar trying to pressure (and in somecases intimidate) the girl into going out with on a date with them because it’s getting too awkward and uncomfortable. Then there’s the guys who don’t accept a no and keep saying “but why?” and then trying to gaslight the girl into believing her reasons for saying no are stupid and / or unjustified and basically keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:32 PM
1

I don’t and I don’t think ass and hips that thick look gold either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:51 AM
2

I’m also a man, with an active social / dating / sex life. But if I was on Reddit worrying about these theoretical questions all the time, then I wouldn’t have time to actually socialize and date, which I thought was the goal for most of these dudes..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:46 AM
1

This isn’t about me, it’s about the guys on here who are driving themselves crazy with all these theories trying to explain life when they should be out there living it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:39 AM
2

It’s seriously amazing some of the stuff you guys come up with trying to figure out the whole men & women thing, and it’s crazy to see how much time some of the guys here put into running themselves ragged on the Reddit “I’m not getting laid” hamster wheel. Every time I’m on Reddit these far-fetched questions like “is the Illuminati responsible for sexual liberation?” and “do women like guys who are used to play Zelda when they were eight?”. And then hundreds of other clueless people chuck in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:23 AM
2

But it’s not The fact that the reviews it that got them girlfriend is the fact that Nice Guy Tm are usually boring video games addicts with boring personalities and who usually don’t work out or take care of their bodies. So no wonder they call the guys who are actually fun to be around and good looking “abusive bad boys”, it’s a lot easier on their ego than admitting that they’re boring and that they need to spend a few dozen hours on a treadmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:59 PM
0

I’d love to see the smallest shred of proof that “most women would rather be with an abuser” than other than personal anecdotes from incels and Nice Guys TM.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:55 PM
4

She’s not shaming she’s just saying how she feels.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 01:55 PM
5

I wasn’t talking about the jawline I was talking about that guy’s comment about lowering your body fat.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 06:29 AM
1

I’m willing to have a civilized discussion if you are. Dude I’m not particularly good looking and I’m 5’5. Yet I managed to lose my virginity at 13 and to have had everything from long term relationships to ONS, FWB, BDSM type dynamics and everything in between. And I’m not even that smart, but I’m very cultured, I speak five languages, I have a good sense of humor, I’m kind and I always make people feel comfortable confiding in me because they know I can keep a secret and that I’ll never judge …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:57 AM
1

It doesn’t bother me at all, it has absolute no impact on me I am very satisfied with my dating/sex life. I just think it’s strange that it’s so important to you to be right on this, when it’s not even that big a deal that you don’t know much about women. Everyone has different strong suits. What’s really cringe is that you’re posting stuff acting like you know what you’re talking about when anyone who actually spends time with women and has had intimate relationship with them is going to I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:44 PM
7

No it’s absolutely not just genetics you’re just looking for excuses not to put any effort into having an attractive body.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 09:40 PM
1

What I do know is that it’s painfully obvious that you really don’t understand women or their sexuality. And from the way you act so confident even though you clearly don’t spend any time around women, and much less around naked women you’re just repeating crap you picked up on incel forums because you really don’t want to admit that you don’t understand women at all since you’re never actually around them, whether for friendship or for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:18 PM
1

You don’t spend a lot of time with women, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:49 AM
4

There is no “Chad” except in the delusional brain of incels. And women date guys they are attracted to so why wouldn’t they want to have gold sex? The only reason incels think like this is because they see sex as a transactional interaction where the woman is submissive and willing to put up with degrading acts, because of course incels think that sex is actually like the stuff they see in the porn they watch, that’s how clueless they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:37 AM
-2

I’ve never tried to impress a woman. Men who talk aren’t taken seriously. Real men don’t talk, they do. You either do impressive shit or you don’t. And you can’t impress a woman by talking about it, you can only show her the stuff you do that is actually impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:29 AM
2

Are you suggesting women have too much freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:16 AM
4

“Women have been set free”. Please try not to sound like those incel morons who post about how men did women the favor of giving them rights and now women are making the men regret it by being hypergamous and only fucking Chad. It’s not a good look and it screams “I’m an incel”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:12 AM
1

Did you get into a relationship with that girl? What personality traits of hers drew you to her? I think that men and women are both capable of falling for someone because of personality. I told you that I’m pretty average looking and that it’s mostly my personality that makes me attractive. I’ve fallen for girls because of their personality as well but I didn’t find her ugly and repulsive. I found her average and her personality made her look beautiful. But I couldn’t date someone I find ugly n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:18 AM
1

You sound just as shallow as the women you criticize. In fact if you’re not shallow why don’t you date an overweight woman with a beautiful personality? Why don’t you put your money where your mouth is and lead by example? Oh right, it’s because just like women, you want to date someone you’re actually physically attracted to and that overweight woman can be a genius with the heart of mother Teresa and the sexual drive of a porn star, you won’t be interested in her unless you find her physically…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:23 PM
1

Lol. You don’t hang out with women, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:09 PM
1

Lol. You don’t hang out with women, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:09 PM
1

That’s such an incel thing to say. If a guy knows what he’s doing and is experienced enough to be a good lay he’s going to get the exact same sex as “Chad“. The guys who get starfish sex are the bad lays and whose GFs have sex with because it’s a chore but who get no pleasure out of the interaction because he doesn’t have the skills to give her an orgasm. No woman is going to turn down good sex and an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:39 AM
2

No, I wouldn’t. I don’t give people shit about stuff they can’t change but I do give people shit when they willingly say ignorant and sexist shit online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:31 AM
2

Bitter much, incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:55 AM
1

What’s up with wanting a women who cooks and cleans? I can hire a maid and I’d rather cook myself. It just seems so ridiculously old school to want a woman who does that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:14 PM
3

Jesus dude lol how can seeing a woman affect you that much?
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:38 AM
1

Snatch their purse and run. But don’t run full speed, let her catch up a bit and think she has a chance. If she calls the police or has her boyfriend beat you up then you know it’s over because they would never do that for Chad!
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:55 PM
2

I don’t really see things in terms of peak, simply because at different phases of my life I’ve had different needs concerning sex / dating / relationships. I lost my virginity at 13 and got my first “serious” gf at 16, and that was the girl that I really learned how to please a woman with and be a decent lay. But if the “peak” is the moment when I had the most sex and the “wildest”, then it would have to be college. I was in a fraternity in college and hooked up with a fair amount of girls just …
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:06 AM
2

I know an incel when I smell one, and you reek!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:34 AM
1

How is it anyone’s business how long she waited to fuck other partners? It’s her business. A woman who says “my body my choice” is nonsense? Huge incel vibes. At least you picked the right username.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:40 AM
1

Only insecure men ask those questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:36 AM
1

Um.. thanks for your opinion? But you’re generalizing men and you’re generalizing what YOU THINK women want. I do just fine in my dating / sex life and I’m definitely not anywhere near the image of the “provider” that you painted. I don’t want a stupid house that’s going to keep me tied to the same piece of property for the next 30 years. In the last ten years I’ve lived in five different countries and had amazing experience being in different places with different people. A nice job? Not sure w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:20 AM
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What’s with all the incel lingo? At least use quotation marks or something so we know that you’re not actually someone who uses words like “Chad” and “Betabuxx” non ironically because it seems like the incels are taking over this sub recently since all the incel subs have been banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:53 AM
2

What did you write? Did she reply?
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:32 AM
0

What you are is trying to overcompensate for the fact that you’re terrified that a woman will notice your lack of experience because other guys she’s been with gave her more pleasure. And your pride absolutely can’t stand that possibility, along with the feelings of emasculation and inadequacy that comes with it. Don’t worry, a lot of men feel the same way as you do and so they try to gaslight themselves and others that it’s for moral reasons that you don’t want someone who “enjoys” casual sex. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:12 AM
3

First things first, and this is important. Are you absolutely sure this girl is into you and what concerns do you have another number for the purpose of contacting her for a date? Because if you’re not completely sure, STOP NOW. Check out one of TimTamTom’s “Nice Guy” videos on YouTube where he makes fun of creepy guys who figure out ways to contact girls who aren’t into them and then they get bitter when they get called creepy and rejected. Women hate that shit. Anyways, if it’s all good and yo…
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:04 PM
1

I didn’t say anything about parties or drinking. Like I said, it’s not about the guy being a bad boy, or getting fucked up. It’s about hanging out with someone who’s fun, who’s spontaneous, who always has new ideas to do something fun, even if once in a while his ideas aren’t always legal. It’s about hanging out with someone who has that adventurous mindset that makes hanging out with them fun. Those dudes are cool to be around because they’re usually pretty sociable (when they want to) compared…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:16 AM
2

Dude what is it with all the incel / black pill rhetoric around here these days? I feel like every time I go live real world life for awhile and come back to Reddit after a while the “men + women” type subs like PP / seduction / relationships seem to be more and more full of frustrated, bitter dudes repeating the stuff they see on incel forums. And today, the classic “Stacies would rather share Chad with other Stacies than having a sub-8 introvert all to themselves...” Nothing we haven’t already…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:36 PM
1

I’m not out to put anyone down but this clown said I’m a white knight and a simp. You can call me a lot of names that I more or less deserve, but WN and simp definitely aren’t part of them. And that guy was just trying to insult me assuming I was an easy target. But I didn’t “throw rocks” at the guys in the group. I’m mature and confident enough that I don’t need to stroke my own ego by getting clout points by talking down to guys who are struggling with women / relationships. That just wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:13 PM
1

Wtf dude don’t put words in my mouth my friends absolutely refuse to be treated badly and the guys they hang out with respect them. Just because you they hang out with “bad boys” doesn’t mean they get disrespected. First off, compared to the average introvert who just stays at home and plays video games everyone is a bad boy. I would say the main characteristics of these guys is that is there more or less extroverted, they’re not shy about voicing their opinions and letting people know when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:26 AM
1

I’m a dude, I just wrote what the girls in my social circle say about the Nice Guys Tm that are trying to simp their way into their underwear one creepy asterisk text message at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:04 AM
0

Lol I’m the opposite of a simp. Or at least my definition of simp is basic ass dude who isn’t very bright and who doesn’t have much going for him and who white knights for women he’ll never get to hook up with. My profile is literally the opposite. I speak five languages, I have a good degree from a good university, I’m a digital nomad and a DJ and I’ve lived in four different countries over the last ten years. I have a dating / sex life that I think most guys wished they had at my age (late 30s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:46 AM
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Those are two unrelated things completely. The people that die in wars have nothing to do with women being dependent on their husbands to do basic shit like vote or open a bank account. And I read both those books when I was younger. Still has nothing to do with women getting screwed over for pretty much all of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:00 AM
1

Right, and 70% end up divorcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:05 AM
2

Of course many women value providers, no discussion there. But when you say you think women wouldn’t date down, do you mean dating a guy with less money or a guy who’s from a lower social class? Are you from western culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:53 PM
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That’s quite a generalization.. don’t you think that’s a bit of an oversimplification? Plus it reminds me of those incel weirdos who talk about “betabucks” or whatever. The women in around are for the most part highly educated and are either business owners or in upper management of businesses and they certainly don’t want a guy paying for their stuff. So I think your generalization is wrong. Of course there’s plenty of gold diggers and low value women out there, but it’s up to men to surround t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:35 PM
2

Really? Was there ever a time when a man couldn’t open a bank account without authorization from his wife? Was there ever a time where men couldn’t vote? Or when they were expected to be completely dependent on their spouse for money because they didn’t have a career? Or where they had to take of use because they were physically weaker than their wives? And never had to deal with that kind of shit. I’m not saying that’s your case but there’s so many guys who seem to think that women getting equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:26 PM
-1

By what do I care about men collectively when things are working out for me? Obviously I’m aware that if I’m dating a girl and getting laid there’s likely another guy out there that my date turned down and who’s not getting laid. But those dudes aren’t my problem. And I don’t understand why you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:01 PM
0

Lol I’m definitely not a white knight. And I’m doing very well for myself, I really don’t get the feeling that overall women are doing better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:40 PM
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Bro I’m a dude and I’m very satisfied with my dating / sex life. I’m fine with the way things are. And what good does being a White Knight or a Nice Guy Tm do? It’s not like anyone ever wants to have sex with them. And like you said, women are doing what they need to to survive and make money without needing a man / husband. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want men, they definitely still do, it’s just that the old dating —> marriage —-> buy a house —-> have kids —-> give up career and take care…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:28 PM
1

The guys are who say that are always the ones who have little to no the sexual experience and who still aren’t familiar with the dating / hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:25 PM
1

It’s not about them being abusive it’s about them having more fun personalities than the introverted “nice guys” who are boring as hell and never do anything fun or out of the ordinary or spontaneous. That’s why women are attracted to the “bad boy” type. They’re fun, they’re unpredictable and usually it’s a different adventure every day whereas hanging out with the “nice guy” can feel like living in a retirement home at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:22 PM
2

It’s not about the “bad boys” it’s about the fact that they usually have more fun personalities and interesting lives compared to the Nice Guy who never disagrees with anything she says and who just feels kinda bland and boring compared to guys with spicier lifestyles and stronger personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:07 PM
2

Meh. Marriage seems like a pretty outdated institution to me. I don’t need that to be divorced to someone I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:11 PM
-2

How is it bullshit when women have gotten the short end of the stick for basically all of history until now, when women have the same opportunities for independence and making money as men. Just 40 years ago women couldn’t even open a bank account without their husband’s approval. This is the first generation of women that really don’t have to take shit from people because they depend on them for survival. And you said “no human being should put anyone else before themselves”. Sorry that’s not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:08 PM
1

Do you not know how guns work?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:59 PM
0

I’ve had quite a few ONS where it felt like the woman was getting sex from me and I was the one getting fucked, because they had that crazy lustful energy where they’re the ones undressing you aggressively and pretty much telling you how it’s gonna go. These things go both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:03 AM
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There’s a few traits that make a guy a MAN: - A man gets up in the morning and goes to do something that requires effort. Work, art, sports, whatever. A man works on his body, his mind (is always learning new things), his social status and his wallet. Complacency and laziness are extremely unattractive traits to most people. A man knows how to “subdue his passions”, as we say in Freemasonry. It means that a man is in control of his emotions at all times. No one can “get to him” and get him to lo…
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:39 PM
4

But men also have the right to make an OF account if they want and they can also go to college, same as women. 40 years ago women didn’t have the same voting rights as men and married women didn’t even have the right to open bank accounts without their husband’s approval. Women got screwed over for all of history and are just gaining equal footing with men in the last couple of years, are you really going to feel sorry for yourself and other men because of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:17 PM
5

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:42 PM
5

“Too easy”? No. For the first time in history women have the same rights and opportunities for independence as men now that they can safely make money from home with platforms like YouTube, OnlyFans, IG, etc, and there’s a whole generation of guys who are butthurt because their grandfathers and fathers had an easier time getting a gf / wife back in the day when women had no choice but to marry early with less than stellar-looking dudes for survival. It’s never going back to the way it was, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:22 PM
2

You don’t. You just cut her off and move on.
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:41 PM
0

Your whole post history is basically you trying to get other people to support your outdated world view of wanting stay at home moms who depend on a man for money and of wanting people to get married as young as possible. Like Jesus dude, why are you do obsessed with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:41 AM
1

Bro stop trying to speak for all men, especially when you sound this bitter and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:17 AM
5

That’s a toxic mindset. If that’s what you need a man for then you don’t get it. Get a pitbull and a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:13 AM
1

Lol how do you come up with these scenarios? Anyway all these “do women like guys who are ___” are kind of pointless because women like guys that they are physically attracted to and who have fun and interesting personalities. There’s no set rules. But generally speaking spineless men are thoroughly unattractive since it’s a sign of cowardice and lack of confidence. And that’s pretty much the opposite of sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:04 AM
1

That’s such a random question it’s not like there’s one universal set of rules where a touch of the elbow always means the same thing every interaction is different depending on the context and everything else. So a touch of the elbow could meet absolutely anything.
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:25 AM
1

I’ve never been happier to be circumcised lol
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:17 AM
2

No. Absolutely not.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:08 AM
2

Learn to read body language and read how she feels about you so that you know if she’s going to respond positively if you ask her out or not by reading her non verbal cues.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:09 AM
2

Im short (5’5) and not particularly attractive, but I lost my virginity in my teens and I’ve always had a great dating and sex life. to this day I’m 39 and I stay voluntarily unmarried because I love variety and most of the women I date / FWB / ONS are usually in their 20s with good jobs, and also see marriage as an outdated institution that’ll just hinder their freedom and their careers. Things that made all the difference for me: - started skateboarding and snowboarding and learning martial ar…
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:01 PM
4

Society doesn’t hate men dude, it’s just that some men aren’t taking it well that for the first time in history women have found equal footing and are no longer getting the short end of the stick like they did for our parents and grandparents’ generations. I don’t even know what “the decline” means. I’m 39 and not married and my dating/ sex life is going just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:35 AM
3

Exactly that “traditional” crap was just about women constantly getting the short end of the stick in their ability to decide things for themselves. That’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:59 AM
1

Lol it must be nice to believe you’re a unicorn (a guy who’s quality enough to attract a woman like that to begin with).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:53 AM
0

“Men are brought up to desire fatherhood and being a husband”. Where do you get this stuff? I live in Europe and here I don’t see anyone (men or women) who gives a shit about marriage anymore. It’s considered an outdated institution with gender roles that are no longer relevant. So please don’t generalize. If you want to tell us how things happen in your village that’s fine but stop trying to talk for other men. The only men I see becoming more guarded are the guys on Reddit who can’t get laid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:50 AM
-2

Dude I don’t know what teenager decided that it was cool to call other dudes “king” but it’s super cringe.
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:52 AM
22

Why are some dudes getting butt hurt about this? She didn’t say ALL men, she just said that SOME men do and that’s who she was directing her question to. So if this ain’t about you just keep scrolling and move on please, no one wants to hear you complain because you somehow decided to make this about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:56 PM
13

Those “tradcon” men don’t really care about traditional values, what they really want is a woman that depends on them for money and who they can exert their authority on and overcompensate for their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:51 PM
3

Never had that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:26 AM
0

It’s still super insecure to be threatened by people on a tv screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:59 AM
-1

It’s the very definition of insecurity. How is a girl watching porn with dudes not being committed and exclusive? It’s just pixels, she’s not doing anything with another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:09 PM
1

I don’t watch porn but I absolutely don’t mind if my gf wants to watch some. Also why would I care that she’s watching videos with dudes? It’s just a video.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:07 PM
4

Then you’re not a real friend you’re just using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:49 PM
0

Did an incel just accuse someone of being “obviously uninformed about dating“?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:44 PM
3

Looks will get you matches but personality gets you dates because no woman is gonna want to go out with a dude who does nothing but play video games, gets annoyed when a girl takes longer than 5 minutes to answer a text and who can’t control his anger when he doesn’t get his way. Even if he’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:47 AM
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People are people man. Try to stop generalizing, you thought all women were rational and feminine and now you think none of them are? Everyone is the same, everyone is hypergamous, I wouldn’t know a single guy or girl who wouldn’t want to upgrade and date someone hotter, smarter, richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:14 AM
5

You won’t see that stuff happening if you get off Reddit and men’s rights / red pill / black pill / MGTOW forums because out in the real world ain’t nobody got time for that ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:06 AM
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Again dude, who told you that women are sweet and innocent? Because other than Disney films I don’t know anyone that still idealizes women like we’re in the 50’s so I’d love to know where you got that idea. Oh and also you think men won’t leave if they get the chance to be with a hotter, smarter girl? Like who doesn’t want to upgrade?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:21 PM
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And you know this how? Through your years of experience? Come on dude stop making these generalizations, and please stop repeating stuff you read on incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:19 PM
13

TLDR would you rather bang an incel that worked on his appearance and social skills or a “Chad” who makes no effort and just kinda gets by on his looks? And the answer is that people don’t think that way, people would rather date/bang someone that they have a natural attraction to and that’s it, there is no conscious decision to fall for the guy who worked on bettering himself or the dude who always had the advantage of looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:50 AM
33

Score. Dude you carried yourself with class and you didn’t let emotions get in the way of a successful social interaction, which is great. Think about how they talked about you after you walked away: you were interesting, you communicated with both, which indicated that you weren’t talking to them just to hit on his girl like an asshole, and you stayed just long enough to be intriguing and then gracefully removed yourself. Now think about how they would have talked about you after you walked awa…
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:01 AM
10

I was just referring to standards, me and the most of the dudes I know definitely wouldn’t just fuck any girl just because she happens to be trying to fuck. Also I don’t know any guys who need to lie about their intentions. Women are just as horny as we are and if you’re smooth enough these things don’t need to be discussed openly but the body language and the non verbal cues do most of the talking. I completely agree with you about judging sexual performance. That’s why it’s ridiculous to see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:23 AM
19

That’s such a stupid generalization of them and I know I have high standards they certainly wouldn’t just fuck any woman. Forums for incels and red pill stuff are the only places where people just repeat that crap like it’s an indisputable fact but it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:06 AM
2

Body language and other non visual cues. 90% of all communication is non verbal and it’s absolutely crucial to be able to read and understand the signals women send and know how to react accordingly, because she WILL send you signals if she wants to have sex and she will send you signals if she wants you to talk to her and get her phone number and she will send you signals if you’re making her uncomfortable and she thinks you’re a creep. But you’ve gotta be able to pick up on those cues and unde…
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:36 AM
3

“Confirmed multiple times she was coming”. So you asked her more than once to confirm she was really coming? Because if you did not only did it put pressure on her to go (no one wants to feel pressured to go out, even to a party) but it also made you look a little desperate and insecure, like you NEEDED her to come. It would have been more productive to be cool about it and act like you were going on have an amazing night whether she came or not. Have you talked to her since then?
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:32 AM
3

Actually it’s a mindset that people have from the get-go way before they had relationships. Non-needy independent types don’t change with relationships, just like most needy people don’t change either, they stay needy even when they do find relationships. Just look at some of the stories on r/retroactivejealousy for example.
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:05 AM
5

Please don’t be bringing that incel garbage around here.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:48 AM
2

Exactly. If he were to act bitter and reject her that’s when he’d look like a bitch.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:47 AM
5

I don’t know where you’re getting this but there’s no scenario in which it is “really easy“.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:45 AM
2

My bad bro I wasn’t referring to you specifically but more towards the typical nice guy persona. But as you mature and spend more time deciding what kind of person you want to be and you comfortable with yourself, your values, the things you believe in, you’ll also be more and more aware of the things that go against what you stand for. And the more you respect yourself and you become capable of standing your ground without resorting to anger or disrespect, the more you’ll be seen as “strong” (a…
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:43 AM
3

It goes beyond that. A compliment from a nice guy is worth absolutely nothing because what’s the opinion of someone with no backbone and no personality worth? Someone who’s not interesting and doesn’t have any aspect of his personality remotely mysterious that’s worth digging into. No woman respects guys with no backbone and interesting personality traits.
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:18 PM
20

When you have the option of calling 3-4 different people for sex at any time you see things very differently and you become a lot less judgmental. By not accepting her back he’d be reacting like she bruised his ego or did him dirty but he’s not emotionally invested enough to let any of those women get to him.
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:46 PM
2

Wow, racist much?
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:34 AM
1

Are you stupid? Whether it’s real or not has absolutely nothing to do with this conversation it’s about how you can use it in a social interaction.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:32 PM
4

This dude gets it!
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:27 PM
1

I don’t expect anything but I suggest you start being a better friend to yourself because people can easily detect self hatred and people won’t like you if you don’t like yourself first because it makes them assume there’s nothing likable about you if you don’t even like yourself.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:19 PM
1

Why would you go into any group expecting people to want you?
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:59 AM
8

I think you’re cock blocking yourself by reeking of self pity and insecurity, which women can smell from across a basketball court.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:45 AM
8

Dude can you at least be humble enough to admit you have no idea “how it is”? Since apparently you’re not managing to attract women for sex / dating, I don’t see how you can confidently act like you know how they think and how they function so well? I have a feeling you’re spending too much time on black pill and incel forums.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:44 AM
2

Dude I’m 5’5 and I’m very satisfied with my dating / sex life, and I’ve had many girls tell me that my personality and my confidence made my height unnoticeable and gave off “big dick / tall energy”. So I’m inclined to disagree with you, but if you really want to believe it’s all about height then do your thing, but I know plenty of short dudes who are extremely successful with women.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:39 AM
0

If you think putting on Celine Dion will do anything but make him look girly and like he watched Titanic by himself and cries then you’re setting yourself up for a life of inceldom.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:28 AM
12

Lol you don’t.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:25 AM
4

If you are desperate she’ll smell it on you either way.
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:23 PM
1

People in general want to have sex with people they’re attracted to. Not sure what kind of dudes you know but I don’t hook up with women I’m not into just for the sake of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:03 AM
2

You have an interesting perspective. I’ve always done pretty well for myself with women and my biggest asset in terms of seduction is my ability to read non-verbal cues (including unconscious ones) and adapt on the fly, which turned me off the way many PUAs have a generic approach (“ hey, I saw you walking from across the street and thought I should say hi“) that seemed to not take into account that everyone responds differently. The other thing is that PUA / red pill approach seems to put the g…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 11:08 PM
2

That interesting, so would you say that PUA isn’t truly a red pill way of doing things?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 06:16 PM
0

As a man I just read this sub for shits and giggles because to me the red pill is associated with failed pick up artists who’s only claim to fame is making it into cringe videos on YouTube.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 05:26 PM
1

It’s a form of trolling it basically forces you to see what they think you were going to reject anyway.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:41 PM
4

Girls are attracted to men but dicks just aren’t nice to look at, especially not in pics.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:24 AM
2

No. Just no.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:21 AM
2

It is...
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:20 AM
0

He’ll never be able to game her or any of her friends again tho.
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:06 PM
0

Right, it’s all one big conspiracy from the Jews and the man haters. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:16 PM
0

Dude you’re embarrassing yourself, stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:05 PM
10

Come on bro I’m a dude and I think that MGTOW sub was vile. There’s nothing wrong with going the other way but the shit those dudes would post was grade A women-hating incel cringe. That’s why it’s banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:04 PM
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That’s kind of an immature way to look at things, and the men I know would never “keep trying” with a woman who already expressed that she’s not interested. I’m sorry but stop trying to speak for all men because not everyone sees things the way you do. If you keep trying after a woman let you know she’s not interested then you’re literally choosing to ignore and disrespect her wishes and you’re getting dangerously close to predatory behavior where you’re fine with gaslighting a woman to pressure…
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:39 PM
1

Yeah I’m having a great time dating and being free, so I don’t think I’m gonna start doing things any differently anytime soon.. In fact why should I do things any differently? I’m not the one who’s frustrated because he can’t get laid.
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:26 PM
2

I’m curious to know where you got those figures. Did you actually see that number on some sort of study or is this just your perception? If we took a survey of the women on the sub Reddit, for 100 women how many do you think can’t orgasm by them self? An experienced guy knows how to read the body language of a woman and he knows where her erogenous zones are and he knows how to use it. And even if the woman has difficulties reaching orgasm a guy Who knows what he’s doing will at least be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:47 PM
2

Thanks bit we’d rather keep our freedom to have fun and live how we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:56 AM
0

You should tell her. Casual sex havers definitely expect experience and someone who knows what they’re doing, since agreeing to a FWB type relationship implies a certain degree of sexual prowess (that would be the “benefit” part), because if she wanted to invest the time to train a dude into being a good lay she would get a bf. So I highly suggest you let her know what to expect or get a sex worker to give you the ABCs before you meet her.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:25 AM
2

Honestly being in a college fraternity definitely did wonders for my ability to read a room full of people and interpret the subtleties of people’s body language, especially women obviously. It was beneficial in so many different levels, I would definitely the fraternity experience to any dude in his college years.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 04:03 PM
1

Why would I want to sleep with a mediocre looking guy she’s not even attracted to to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:18 AM
2

Lol are you really using the word “Chad” un-ironically?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:17 AM
14

I went to college with her, she wasn’t quite as cringe back in the day. I also went to college with Brian Stelter and he was already a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:02 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:01 PM
2

So essentially even though me and 1 million other guys are proving you wrong you’d still rather keep on wearing blinders and think height determines the outcome of your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:21 PM
1

Wrong. With enough experience you know how to read and interpret all women’s body language in bed and if you know what you’re doing within five minutes you can identify what makes the women respond positively and figure out what makes her cum. So yes, different women are built differently but an experienced dude will always know how to read her body language and know how to approach sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:47 AM
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“The man who can get casual sex pretty easily don’t have to care about a woman’s orgasm as these women are disposable for them“. Wrong. So very, very wrong. Are used to have quite a lot of casual sex and I can tell you that guys who get around like that very much care about their partners getting an orgasm because even if they won’t see that woman again they sure as hell care about what these women are saying about his sexual performance. For every girl we have sex with one night, the next day s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:09 AM
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Submission = inferiority And if a guy disagrees, that’s great tell him he can be the submissive one in the relationship and see how he likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:56 AM
15

Sorry but despite your mental gymnastics a guy who can’t get women to orgasm is a bad lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:29 AM
2

Really bro? Read the room.
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:31 AM
3

The sex is the hookup.
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:29 AM
1

I’d be a little bit worried if I was being offered dating advice from someone with the word loner in their username lol
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:29 AM
2

It’s the same everywhere dude I had the same experience in the USA, Canada, France, Israel and a bunch of other places.
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:27 AM
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No that’s not it dude. I have a feeling you don’t know women very well because sadly it’s painfully obvious that all those encounters went south after they had sex and women who are sexually satisfied don’t react the way those women reacted with OP.
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:26 AM
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No offense but it’s probably the sex. If you ask a girl how you did she’s not going to be mean and tell you she’s been faking her orgasms, because from what you wrote it doesn’t sound like there’s anything else you’re doing wrong. Did all the girls you had sex with appear to have at least one orgasm?
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:23 AM
1

Attraction isn’t everything. A couple that wants to stay together for ever need to have common goals and projects that they work on together to better their lives as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:22 PM
0

That’s one hell of a generalization there..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:06 PM
5

I mean, doesn’t EVERYONE prefer attractive people when it comes to short term, superficial relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:51 PM
1

Lol I didn’t know what FDS stands for so at first I thought it was an incel acronym like Foids Ruin Souls. Now I know that women also have a weirdly disenfranchised minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:36 PM
4

How does being ugly or lonely excuse being a predatory creep?
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:36 PM
166

Dude you followed a woman who’s clearly not into you towards the bathroom? Do you know how inappropriate and predatory that behavior is?
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:35 AM
1

I feel like non-married people are happier in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:39 AM
1

Dude I’m short and I’m not particularly attractive and it was 110% my sense of humor and my confidence and that sealed the deal for me. So no, it’s not about plastic surgery it’s about how confidence and a positive outlook make you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:46 AM
2

I never think about this high / low value stuff and I have a great dating / sex life. I’m confident enough with my body and my experience to not worry about how good some other guy was. I can understand someone with little experience worrying about that but I don’t understand why an experienced dude would worry about this stuff. It just feels weirdly unnecessary and toxic. Also I’ve never met a woman who wasn’t a sexual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:57 AM
1

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:46 AM
1

Dude do you actually believe it’s the drugs and the crime that women find attractive? Because I’m telling you right now it’s TOTALLY NOT. Please don’t take my word for it and just ask the women in your life. Women like “bad boys” not because of the bad things they do, but because those guys tend to be more fun to hang out with and more interesting than the average goodie goodie who never breaks any rules other than downloading the loli hentai illegally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:51 AM
2

Prices of admission? It seems you can’t help but see sex and subjective degrees of attractiveness as transactional, and it’s an unhealthy outlook because it makes you look at every attractive women as your potential “prey” and all men as potential competitors. I think you may still be lacking a little maturity in the way you view male / female social dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:43 AM
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Dude stop it with the blanket statements and the sweeping generalizations like “HMV will cheat and leave”. Where did you even pick up this little nugget? Some incel forum? Because it wasn’t in science weekly..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:57 PM
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A guy being hot is in no way a guarantee of him being a good lay. And plenty of women I know had amazing sex with very average looking guys and have been disappointed by the performance of hot dudes. So you’re not quite right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:12 AM
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That’s not how it works. You can’t help your fetishes just like you can’t help who you’re attracted to. You can’t give up a fetish. That’s why a guy with incest or violent fetishes should be steered clear of because one day they’re going to act on impulse and do something they can’t take back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:56 PM
1

Dude stop acting like you know women better than an actual woman. It makes you look hella stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:44 PM
5

And you only give a crap about doing what’s best for you, just like women. You don’t have better morals, you’re annoyed because men’s thirst for sex empowers women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:58 PM
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Are you serious? Why would any woman date a guy who thinks all women have “cognitive dissonance”? Trust me women can differentiate between you and Trump. You have the same shitty values as Trump but a lot less money. Why would any liberal woman be into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:03 PM
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Why are “traditional” gender roles so important to you? These subreddits for dudes who can’t get laid are the only place where I see guys constantly going on about “traditional” gender roles. I’ve never seen guys who care about that stuff other than in these subs, I’m not sure if it’s something to do with being the insecure / lacking confidence but I have a feeling that’s what it’s about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:44 PM
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That’s not true, why are you making these broad generalizations?
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 10:57 PM
4

Of course it’s true. I can’t count the number I times I saw guys get angry and abusive with girl friends of mine who rejected them. They would accuse my girl friends of leading them on because they answered a few of their messages by being nice. And those guys somehow interpreted girls being nice / polite as them leading them on. There’s so many dudes who are completely nuts out there and who fly into fits of rage the second a woman says it does something that bruises their fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:17 PM
4

“Women all exploit men”. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:49 AM
1

Keep track of how you make people feel when they interact with you. When people talk to you do they walk away feeling more relaxed, feeling good? Or do they walk away feeling stressed out and emotionally drained? Learn to pay attention to body language as well. It’ll help you decipher non verbal cues that women give off when you talk to them. Master your emotions and never let anger or sadness make you do or say something you’ll regret tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:11 AM
2

What they really want is someone who’s dependant on them and who won’t have a life of their own. And also they want someone with no real spending power of their own so they don’t really have to worry about their wife leaving or emasculating them by having a better income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:01 AM
1

To be honest I’m not personally interested in trying to change anything, I don’t watch porn or OF or anything like that. I also don’t play video games so I’m obviously not following any girl streamers on twitch or whatever. And I don’t bug out about gender roles in movies, it just doesn’t affect my life in any way.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:50 AM
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Women are making more and more money on platforms like OF, which is driving up their spending power and influence on the market. And media like movies reflect those new social dynamics in which women are a lot more empowered than before. The thing is that men are the reason women are making so much money on these platforms. So if men want women to stick to more traditional gender roles then they have to get men to stop funding the wave of female empowerment. I don’t really have a problem with it…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 08:06 AM
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I see a fair amount of guys saying they won’t settle for anything other than a smokeshow but in the same breath they criticize women for having the same high standards and only wanting superficial bad boy Chad types. I’m not saying that’s your case but I do see a fair amount of that kind of rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:17 AM
1

Holy crap dude I’m sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:00 PM
0

I feel like that’s a pretty blatant sign of insecurity. Having self confidence involves being secure enough to know that you’re worth being faithful to, as well as knowing that if she cheats then joke’s on her because she’s going to lose you and you’ll find someone better than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:24 PM
2

I assume you’re a teenager because that’s a pretty immature outlook that you’ll most likely grow out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:19 PM
1

Lol “traditional values”. If instead of having one phone for the whole family you had a smartphone with the opportunity to text or video chat with any girl you want and if you had dating apps galore and all the crazy shit we have today, do you really you would have nit used it and said “nah, that ain’t for me, I got traditional values!” ? Forgive me but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:02 PM
1

Where are you getting the data that led you to this conclusion? I’m asking because I’ve never heard or seen anything that indicated that this 80/20 rule was a thing outside of incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:36 PM
1

Bitter much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:49 AM
3

Actually I haven’t slept with that many people, my number is around 25ish and I’m 39 years old. But I lost my virginity in my teens and got my first serious relationship at 16. At first I didn’t notice but as the years passed there appeared a sort of “gap” between my brother and I because he was stuck not being able to mature emotionally as a result of his inability to interact with women. And it really hurt him. He went through depression, lost a business and other stuff. My family was even sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:51 AM
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I know I can get a little carried away and that’s my bad. My brother came so close to turning into a bitter lifelong incel that it still kinda fucks with my head. The guy lost his virginity at 34 years old and thank god he started a family with a good girl. But he missed so much fun and so many developmental milestones that it really impacted him. And if I can help just one person to not have to stay stuck like that then it’ll have been worth it. I’ll chill though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:28 AM
1

Kol hakavod that’s awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/21 07:22 AM
1

You explained your point well and I’m not disagreeing with you. I guess the part I don’t get is how do you correlate freedom to experiment with the negatives that you mentioned? Like what are those negatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:18 AM
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What makes you say that like you’re absolutely sure? And it seems like most people are taking the “freedom to experiment” route over the “stay a virgin till marriage and never experience a good 40% of the stuff they would have with different partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:15 AM
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Sure but people usually explore their own sexuality by having experiences with different people with different turn-ones, different bodies, different fetishes, etc. Having sex with just one person makes people think that sex is just “one way” and that guy also won’t know how to please most women sexually since all he knows is how to please that one girl. But if he has to cater to the a woman with different erogenous zones and who can only reach orgasm by doing something completely different than…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:14 AM
1

Sounds pretty miserable. What’s wrong with experimenting and exploring your sexuality? That’s how people discover their own kinks and become sexually mature, which is an integral part of emotional development.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:02 AM
-1

Dude if they had access to cell phones and dating apps they would have done the exact same thing people are doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:59 AM
0

Who are you to judge? Live and let live and get off your high horse. I’m pretty sure that if you had a satisfactory dating / sex life you definitely wouldn’t complain about having so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:54 AM
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Where did you pull the figure “women consider 80% of men unattractive”? That number seems absolutely ridiculous to me so I’m just wondering what studies you pulled this figure from (incel forums don’t count).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:23 AM
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I live how you’re so sure of yourself you’re telling people that that they’re all wrong and of course you’re the one who’s got it all figured out. So tell me, what makes you an expert on statistics and women? I’d love to hear what makes you so qualified, because it seems like you’re just regurgitating garbage from incel forums: girls are sharing “Chad” instead of dating the “good guys”, the 80-20 rule, etc. Come on bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:56 AM
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I’m not sure you’re aware that you keep making these broad generalizations that are pretty ridiculous. All women are telling other women NOT to hook up with inexperienced men? Really? Women don’t talk about shit like that, they don’t sit there and talk shit about virgins and gaslight each other into never giving inexperienced men a chance. Also all these women are staunch feminists? Really? Come on bro try to have a more mature outlook because I’m sure you’re smart enough to know better. You sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:41 AM
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Have you ever heard a woman say any of this or are you just repeating stuff you read in incel forums? Because I’ve never heard the “pump and dump” expression outside of incel spaces, where most dudes have zero firsthand experience with women. I’m around a lot of women and I’ve never heard heard any girl say that they have a problem with virgins. Also you say that when women meet a dude with no experience they try to make them suffer. How you actually ever seen this with your own eyes? Because I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:27 PM
1

How would you say the women are penalizing the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:30 PM
1

Lol it’s pretty easy to get a reaction out of you I see. My 6 year old niece doesn’t get as triggered and emotional as you do. I can’t even imagine what it must be like to be this miserable. Oof.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/07/21 04:06 AM
0

Wow your bitterness really shows this hit a nerve with you. Incel much?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/07/21 03:51 AM
1

Dude you clearly don’t hang out with women if that’s what you think. For every message that contains “validation” a woman gets she gets 49 messages from perverts, “nice guys” and violent incel types. They get dozens upon dozens of agressive messages from guys who do write stuff like sending a dick pic and something along of the lines of “you know you want this you dirty whore now send me a nude”. There’s also dozens of guys who just message her “hey” ten times a day even though she clearly doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:58 PM
4

We get it Cartman, woven respect your “authority”.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 08:35 PM
2

No offense but I feel like you don’t hang out around a lot of women because their tastes are just as varied as men’s. I’ve seen women go for slightly overweight gamer types, stick figure skinny dudes and everything in between. Please don’t let cheap MGTOW / Incel stereotypes cloud your perception of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:53 PM
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A car can help a guy lie about his income. But makeup can’t make an ugly girl be hot. Some of the guys here are acting like makeup straight up changes their face, and that’s obviously quite a gross exaggeration. Anyways I don’t want to sound like I’m picking on anyone but sometimes certain guys make statements here that really indicate that they don’t actually hang out with women and that everything they think they know about women has been learned through secondhand anecdotal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:07 AM
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You’ve clearly never lived with women. Women wear makeup and dress up for THEMSELVES, because it’s fun to pamper yourself and to wear things that make you feel attractive. And in the few instances when women wear makeup and dress up for the purpose of being “seen“, it’s still not for you. They’re mostly dressing up for the purpose of competing with other girls, but definitely not for men. Because for the most part, it’s not guys who are going to notice the subtleties of their makeup and that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:15 AM
1

You said many women aren’t aware that hoeing around makes them lose value to males. I experienced the opposite, and all my guy friends and fraternity brothers agreed that they wanted women who were as experienced as they were. They would avoid sleeping with women who didn’t have enough experience to have discovered all their own kinks and explored them, and who aren’t shy about getting a little freaky. And the freshman virgin girl from small town Idaho certainly won’t be able to be as good of a …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 05:59 AM
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I don’t want to be anybody’s first or anybody’s last. I don’t have a big number of notches on my belt, I’m 39 years old and my number is somewhere between 20 and 30, I really can’t remember exactly. In lost my virginity in my teens, and that relationship taught me how to know my way around a woman’s body and learn to please a sexual partner. But my college fraternity days are what allowed me to explore different kinks with different women who were into different things, and allowed me to figure …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 05:49 AM
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I used the word man because I was referring to my personal standards in terms of what allows me to call myself a man and not a boy. However this isn’t about men and women, it’s about mature adults. I will say that by and large, society regards emotional reactions as feminine traits. Which I think is stupid. You see a lot of men think an emotional reaction means to start crying. No. When a guy loses his cool and starts getting aggressive/ violent, he reacts emotionally because anger is an emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:46 AM
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I’m trained to fight. I’ve been doing martial arts and combat sports all my life. But I’ve learned that what makes me a man is my capacity to master my emotions. So that whenever pride, anger, sadness or ambition tickle my capacity for agression or violence (verbal or otherwise), I know how to contain my emotions instead of just exploding and giving other people the satisfaction of knowing they have the power to make me lose it. If someone else can cause you to lose control then they can push yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:17 AM
-1

Thanks lol some of y’all are wild.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 11:22 PM
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Not really, I’m just a lurker after here after all. It’s just that sometimes I find some of the arguments some of the guys in this sub use to justify their bitterness are intellectually lazy or oversimplifications. Like the blanket statement you made that “women aren’t capable of introspection”. I feel like you might say it to vent a little frustration but you know it’s not accurate.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 10:58 PM
3

I’m a dude. But anyways, you’re right, the guys on this subreddit are clearly very happy for the guys who have been blessed with good looks and tall bodies. Unlike those jealous women, who would rather everyone be as miserable and toxic as they are.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 10:21 PM
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That’s not a woman thing, that’s a human thing. Look how bitter the guys on this subreddit are that there are guys who are taller and more handsome who actually do well with women.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 09:43 PM
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I’m 39 years old, and my personal experience is that the “physical change” that comes with aging seems to be for the most part the result psychological factors more than physical ones. When I was in college, most of my fraternity brothers and I had six pack abs and we lived on Taco Bell, cocaine and vodka for months at a time while still going to class and the gym every day. Fast forward six years. Most of my brothers have married one of the sorority girls they dated in college, they got themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:29 PM
1

You know I live on the same planet you do, meaning I’ve also been forced to stay at home and not go out because of covid. All my dating is done via apps and social networking, there’s just no getting around it. It’s the medium who has changed, but for the most part my “batting average” hasn’t. I’m not trying to be patronizing, just trying to get you to consider that maybe it’s not the medium itself that makes the most difference, whether you’re tall, short, “chad or normie”. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:03 PM
1

Thanks, you too. I was actually kinda of interested in hearing about your story and hearing which part of mine you found so unsavory. But hey, no worries. Enjoy your weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:12 PM
2

I assume that you’re not satisfied with your own experiences with women? Because it seems like just entertaining the possibility that my story is true and that this blackpill height stuff may not be true seems to upset you. Humor me, I’m really trying to have a legit polite exchange with you and maybe I’ll learn something new. What is it about your experiences / lack of experiences with women that you’re so dissatisfied with to the point my story seems to almost trigger you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:55 AM
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I lost my virginity at 13 and now I’m 39. My number is relatively low compared to quite a few of my other friends. Anyways I feel like it’s more convenient for you to call bullshit than to consider the notion that men blaming their height for their inability to get girls is more of a cope they use so they don’t have to wonder if they’re just unpleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:22 AM
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Ha I actually had to google LARP before I could answer you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:51 AM
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Thanks for telling me I reread what I wrote and cringed because I had used words that made my comment look like a post on r/thathappened that ends with “and then everyone clapped”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:49 AM
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Quite a few. I’m into tall chicks lol. But once we were dating it was like they just couldn’t see my shortness anymore and it wasn’t something we ever thought about. One example that comes mind is a situation where there were no women present. It was a business dispute situation and I basically fir the best of a negotiation and got someone to back down and reconsidered his position even though technically the guy was better equipped than me to win this particular interaction. The guy’s energy wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:36 AM
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So how would you explain that the last girl I dated was 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:19 AM
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So how would you explain that the last girl I dated was 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:19 AM
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We didn’t “slay”, we weren’t banging girls ten at a time and racking up huge body counts but we managed to have healthy, satisfactory dating and sex lives. My number is relatively small compared to guys who “slay”, but even with the 20-30 women I’ve been with I know that was enough for me to have a sex life I’m satisfied with. I’ve discovered my kinks, explored them, learned to really please a woman and had a great time along the way. And now that I’m in my thirties I’m happy to remain single be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:17 AM
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I’m in my late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:08 AM
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Not just my experience, it’s all of my guy friends and fraternity brothers as well. It’s the experience of a shitload of dudes. That’s why I find this incel stuff interesting. Because I’m not a “Chad” yet this black pill stuff doesn’t apply to any guys I know. And my fraternity has plenty of nerds and weird / awkward guys. One of my fraternity brothers was a shy nerd who was obsessed with his cat. Instead of coming to parties he spent a whole semester building a robot that would dispense treats …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:44 AM
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I agree with you about social awkwardness, but I’m afraid I have to disagree with the height thing, just based on personal experience. I’m short (5’5 ish) and I’m not a “Chad”, no chiseled jaw or anything to put me over a 7. Yet I lost my virginity in my teens, and have always had a good dating / sex life. Also I’m not rich or super successful in any particular field. I haven’t slept with a shitload of women like some dudes I know. My number is somewhere between 20 and 30, I’m not exactly sure. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:05 AM
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I also wanted to mention that me and most of the guys I know don’t want to date virgins or women who aren’t sexually experienced. Inexperienced women are more likely to not be a good lay because they don’t know what they’re doing yet, and they certainly won’t have the sexual maturity required before people can get to discover and be comfortable with their own kinks. So more likely to be a boring lay. So it seems that not all men want inexperienced women, because I can’t think of a single guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:03 AM
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Why would a guy date a woman who isn’t passionate about him and shows it? Maybe it’s because I’m not “Chad”, but if I’m dating a woman, it means that she was into me and showed it to begin with. It’s not like I have women falling for me because of sexy my bus pass is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:58 AM
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I hear ya, but I think you might be underestimating how important the mental aspect of sex is to women, and sex just isn’t one of those things where people meet each other halfway. It’s an all or nothing type of thing. I’d venture to say that many / most women need to see that their partner is genuinely passionate about them, feel that you have that uncontrollable lust when you’re about to have sex. And the absence of that is pretty much guaranteed to make a woman feel unwanted, unattractive, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:46 AM
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Why is is that the guys who barely have any firsthand personal experience with women / sex always seem to act like they know women so well and make blanket statements about their behavior ? Guys are just as hypergamous, and it’s usually guys who aren’t very skilled with women that go for quantity because they’re not confident enough to know that they can get much better and turn down women that aren’t up to their standards. I haven’t had sex with a whole lot of girls, between 20 and 30. But the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:51 PM
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Nobody wants to get married anymore but I don’t see how it’s a problem. I’m 39 and I still date casually and travel the world and enjoy my freedom. The last thing I want is a wife and a white picket fence in suburbia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:35 AM
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They’re not my rules, I didn’t make them up. Don’t believe me? Ask any girl. And why wouldn’t you be allowed to talk to someone you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:55 PM
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It’s normal to vent frustration to a friend but never to someone you’re trying to seduce and who you want to appear attractive to. It’s a turn-off because negative emotions always give off a vibe that most people find stressful and don’t want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:59 PM
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Complaining is super unattractive so complaining you can’t ever get dates to a girl is just asking to get ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:10 AM
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Any hair whatsoever below the eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:41 PM
1

That’s a super shitty thing to do and to do that to someone who’s been giving you their love and their trust for a decade is absolutely revolting. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 10:59 PM
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Yep, and intimacy is also what causes some of the best sex.
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 08:03 AM
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Sexy isn’t everything but a sexual experience can be pretty mind blowing if it’s with someone you’re attracted to and who you have genuine connection with and who’s there’s enough trust and intimacy with to explore each other’s kinky fetishes. And that kind of sexual dynamic is what usually leads to straight up mind blowing experiences, or at least that was my experience. I used to date this petite redhead in college, she was real innocent and quiet looking. But when we were messing around she w…
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 06:37 AM
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To be fair, she sounds like a McHo.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 05:37 AM
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