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She has some attraction toward you, she just needs you to give her the time and space for her to develop feelings for you. You responded perfectly to her birthday wish.
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:21 PM
2

In order to understand this, you need to understand the different games. There is the attraction game and there is the numbers game. In the "numbers game", being high value doesn't matter. You are just approaching as many girls as possible until you get one who is "DTF". You are behaving in a low value way, but that doesn't matter because being high value isn't the game you are playing. In the "attraction game", you are behaving high value in social circles order to make women approach you and d…
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:16 AM
2

Women fall in love slowly over time. You don't just meet a woman on the street and have sex the same day unless she's crazy.
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:08 AM
-6

Once you get the insta, you must stop chasing. You are free to like her posts, watch her stories, but you must wait for her to reach out to you.
/r/seduction08/07/25 05:52 PM
31

It's not really the fear for me, it's the cringe.
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:06 PM
5

If it's a social circle or co-worker, you can read her body language and look for subtle hints she drops you that suggest she's taken. If she's super confident and alpha around you, she's taken. If she avoids you like the plague, it's a sign she's taken. If it's cold approach, you just ask for her Instagram and you'll find out when she either refuses to give it to you or when you follow her.
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:51 AM
1

Yeah, cover that shit up.
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:11 PM
5

Important to reframe it in your mind. It's not about being available or trying to be distant, it's about respecting her peace and quiet, giving her the noble gift of freedom and independence. You should keep your distance, but that distance should be coming from a place of generosity rather than manipulation. Additionally, don't bother trying to hide that you like her. She knows you like her. She needs to find out if she likes you.
/r/seduction19/06/25 11:06 PM
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In order to understand what being "mysterious" means, you have to understand the fundamentals of the different games. There is the attraction game, and there is the numbers game. In the attraction game, your goal is to get women to approach you. This is accomplished by being mysterious. Having "quiet confidence" is mysterious. Show your confidence and gentle friendliness, smile, be polite and fun, but then leave the interaction, don't chase. If they are interested, they will come to you. In the …
/r/seduction14/06/25 08:25 PM
1

Charisma isn't as important as you think.
/r/seduction09/06/25 07:38 PM
2

This is where you have to understand the different games. There is the attraction game, and then there is the numbers game. In social situations where you have female co-workers or female cashiers that you see regularly, being quiet makes you mysterious; talking to them too much makes you normal and boring, or even creepy. This is where it's best to just be quiet and wait for her to start initiating, making eye contact, etc. You are playing the attraction game. In this case, being mysterious is …
/r/seduction04/06/25 06:31 PM
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I noticed the same thing. Super friendly girls are the ones who aren't attracted to me at all. The ones who ignore and avoid me turn out to have a secret crush on me.
/r/seduction21/05/25 09:31 PM
-2

A lot of women take sex seriously and will only do it with someone they are in love with.
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:25 AM
2

I happen to have a success story with a Starbucks barista. I went to the same Starbucks for about two years. This girl was really cold toward me and ignored me at the start, but I was friendly with all the other baristas and had positive interactions with them every time I went in. I was never creepy, I never forced them to have conversations with me, I just tried to be cute and funny while also keeping a respectful distance. I was even friendly toward the homeless people who came into the Starb…
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:14 PM
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True, that's why I stopped approaching. I have too much dignity to be some kind of cringe beggar hassling women.
/r/seduction30/04/25 03:24 PM
0

Wait, wait, and wait. Don't watch her stories. When she posts, "like" her post but don't comment. You have to be different from all the other guys who are spamming her inbox. When the time is right and she has decided that you are the guy she wants, she will message you first. Focus on other girls in the mean time.
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:45 AM
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The guy who she has known for a long time who never makes a move.
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:53 PM
1

I want to have sex with her though, not be her gay male friend who she talks about music with. I think the best solution is to just dodge the question with humor.
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:09 PM
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I'm trying to have sex with her, not be her gay male friend.
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:04 PM
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She'll be like, "He listens to that music? Eww boring guy." There's no good answer. I'm thinking best is to just dodge the question using humor.
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:03 PM
7

Yeah, agree with this one. If you see her on a regular basis there's no need to make any moves, just focus on being cool.
/r/seduction04/04/25 06:21 PM
3

I have been able to get attractive, young female baristas and cashiers to develop crushes on me and approach me first by being a regular customer at their store and learning the right vibes and nonverbal communication. It takes a long time though, often more than a year, before they fall in love with you.
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:18 PM
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Yeah it is. Also, "What kind of music do you like?" is a shit test. You have to dodge these questions somehow, preferably relying on humor.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:55 PM
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Should have waited a week to text her instead of texting the next day.
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:20 AM
2

The strategy works best in gyms and social environments where you see the same girls all the time. With the right blend of being mysterious and confident, you can get the attention of single women and cause them to develop a "crush" on you without even having to approach them.
/r/seduction23/03/25 05:26 AM
1

'Showing vulnerability' is the single most unattractive and scary thing a man can do. It's unattractive because it is presumptuous and entitled, as well as pathetic. It's scary because it shows that this man is not in control of his emotions, his emotions are in control of him.
/r/seduction16/03/25 08:24 PM
-5

Being vulnerable goes against my moral values so it's off the table regardless.
/r/seduction01/03/25 06:22 PM
150

The problem isn't how long you have to wait, it's how much you are investing.
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:54 PM
1

It's an insane amount of work (not to mention cringe) approaching hundreds of women hoping to find the slutty one who sleeps with randos from the streets. High investment, low quality women.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:16 PM
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Empathy is more important than confidence.
/r/seduction09/02/25 04:43 AM
1

It's pathetic. Men would rather listen to pop stars than be open to social interaction, then they have the gall to complain about women recording themselves in the gym and how women have been ruined by social media.
/r/seduction07/02/25 11:26 AM
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It's pretty pathetic. Men would rather listen to pop stars than be open to social interaction, then they have the gall to complain about women recording themselves in the gym and how women have been ruined by social media.
/r/seduction07/02/25 11:22 AM
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The gym is not the place for socializing and chit-chatting. It is not the place for hitting on women and trying to pick them up. I agree. But this does not mean you should go to the opposite extreme and be completely unapproachable and unfriendly. How many times have you heard of girls talking about their "gym crush"? In order to be that guy, who she has a crush on and feels comfortable enough to approach, you have to be as approachable as possible. The "leave me alone" sticker is obviously anti…
/r/seduction07/02/25 12:24 AM
1

You may be right. Although I would add that wearing headphones makes you less approachable and contributes to the overall unsocial vibe in gyms and society in general. Personally I would not be inclined to interact with someone wearing headphones because I don't want to disturb them. Headphones are a widely known "leave me alone" sticker.
/r/seduction06/02/25 10:05 PM
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This is logical but it's a bit too black-and-white and is a heartbreaking missed opportunity. You don't have to stop your workout to compliment a girl who is doing pull ups beside you (most guys can even do pull ups), or to give an approving nod at someone lifting a lot of weight, or compliment a big muscular guy on his physique (he will respond positively every time). Being anti-social at the gym is a missed opportunity for both men and women, it's an example of why dating is so messed up right…
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:11 PM
1

Working on yourself also means working on your friendliness and learning how to spread positive energy without expectations. It isn't just about lifting more weight.
/r/seduction06/02/25 07:25 PM
0

How many approaches do you have to do to find the one who just wants get smashed by guys?
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:36 AM
2

Even just randomly fist bumping people works great if there is a bit of eye contact and you've seen each other a few times.
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:27 AM
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Yeah, if you have absolutely zero interest in the chicks at the gym, then by all means keep wearing them.
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:25 AM
2

The vast majority of women of any kind aren't out looking for guys to hook up with.
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:21 AM
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Become a regular customer at Starbucks but make it a rule that you never ask out the female baristas, just focus on being friendly and developing social skills. One of them might start crushing on you.
/r/seduction04/02/25 07:09 PM
0

I think it's just guy copium. "I'm not chasing, I'm pursuing." (Nerd Emote)
/r/seduction31/01/25 08:01 PM
7

If you are wealthy, you actually enjoy being single. You don't need a woman in your life. Since there is no need, there is no fear.
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:20 PM
7

The way to get these women is to keep them in your orbit but never ask them out. You get them after a few years when they get a crush on you and fall in love.
/r/seduction29/01/25 12:41 PM
0

Don't ask her out. Just keep professional and friendly. If she is interested she can ask you out.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:23 PM
1

The question of the hour is: is it worth it to fuck crazy? The sex might be amazing but girls like this can seriously hurt you if you aren't careful.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:12 PM
1

I think it's dishonest to take the position that approaching women is not sleazy. It absolutely is sleazy. Ignoring that reality is not masculine. As such, the best way to handle this feeling is to apologize.
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:07 PM
7

"I am a second choice" is just a story that exists in your mind.
/r/seduction25/01/25 01:31 AM
1

This is where self-control comes into effect. You can see them and their posts, that doesn't mean you have to get emotional and start chasing them.
/r/seduction25/01/25 01:11 AM
2

Interesting that this take got down votes. Apparently controling your emotions and being a good person is a bad thing. Wow.
/r/seduction25/01/25 01:07 AM
0

Liking their posts occasionally is fine, definitely don't comment though.
/r/seduction24/01/25 10:48 PM
2

It takes a long time but it also saves a lot of time and effort that is normally spent trying to get a flakey uninterested girl on a date and then getting the cheek.
/r/seduction24/01/25 07:55 PM
3

Totally agree. The best possible strategy is to get her Insta, leave the interaction as soon as possible, then just keep it as a nice connection until she slowly starts liking your posts.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:30 PM
1

For same day hookups with a stranger, yeah, it requires a mountain of good timing and luck, as well as a ton of effort on your part to approach a large number of girls.
/r/seduction24/01/25 03:33 PM
1

Experience has taught me that in fact almost all mainstream advice on the Internet is wrong, regardless of where it is from. Some examples of terrible advice: "Nice guys finish last"; "If in doubt ask her out"; "You gotta ask her out before someone else does"; "Women want a man who is a challenge"; "The male is the prize, the female is not"; "Walking away makes you more attractive".
/r/seduction23/01/25 12:45 AM
1

A woman sleeping with hundreds of randos on Tinder is a sign of low confidence, need for validation, sex addiction, daddy issues, mental health issues, and so on. Confident women do not value meaningless sex.
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:26 PM
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Hookup culture depends on the existence of damaged, insecure women with mental health issues. Modern society has recently been going to great lengths to empower and uplift women and bewilder the so-called "patriarchy" and it has been remarkably successful. Most modern women have tremendous mental health and fewer and fewer women are falling through the cracks. As women are becoming more and more powerful, hookup culture does not have a bright future.
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:04 AM
1

She will make it very easy for you once she is crushing on you and in love with you. She will basically ask you out.
/r/seduction18/01/25 11:12 AM
0

Asking her out is based on the fear that she will go with another guy. This is what women actually perceive as cowardice. They hate it. Asking her out kills attraction.
/r/seduction18/01/25 11:09 AM
1

If you are her crush and you continue giving her the space she needs, eventually she will fall in love. At this point she will ask you out. Asking her out risks her losing interest.
/r/seduction18/01/25 10:53 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction18/01/25 02:08 AM
-1

It's the fastest way to show a girl that you are thirsty.
/r/seduction18/01/25 02:07 AM
0

Wrong. The opposite of harassing is not approaching.
/r/seduction15/01/25 01:38 AM
-4

Women love getting harassed on the streets? Women find street harassment fun and flattering? There is an entire #Metoo movement that would disagree with you.
/r/seduction15/01/25 01:32 AM
-4

I stopped most cold approaching due to moral issues. I realized that in order for men to cold approach women, they have to repress--or even get rid of--their empathy and respect for women. Interestingly, this decision ended up making me more successful.
/r/seduction14/01/25 11:11 PM
1

You have to be careful that your social media doesn't reveal anything ego-centric, self-centered, personal, and so on. You can have it but you have to know what you are doing and be mindful of what you post. It's safer if you just don't have it.
/r/seduction14/01/25 01:38 PM
1

Yeah, it's not necessary to apologize if it's at a bar or social event because it's expected for you to be social. If it's random cold approach on the street, I think it's very important to be apologetic. You will get nowhere if the girl feels uncomfortable.
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:52 PM
1

I think you're talking about warm approach or approaching a girl at a party. In these situations it is expected that you approach (and it might even be considered rude if you don't). You don't have to be apologetic in these situations. I was talking specifically about cold approach, which is always going to make women feel uncomfortable due to the fact that there is a strange man who she doesn't know trying to get her attention.
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:26 PM
2

Yeah, there is no good answer to that question. I would just say: "Because I'm trashy."
/r/seduction08/01/25 05:05 PM
-5

Yes, absolutely. The longer she makes you wait the more wife material she is.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:49 PM
4

Women already know you are interested so there is no point in going out of your way to show it or say it.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:43 PM
1

Approach anxiety often stems from a fear of wrongdoing, or moral fear, which is actually a good thing. A good way to remedy this is to reframe it in more moral terms. Don't go out to get laid, go out to practice genuine friendliness.
/r/seduction05/01/25 08:05 PM
1

Yeah, to be fair, this 13 year old kid was extremely tall for her age.
/r/seduction05/01/25 04:08 AM
1

Yeah, presuming attraction is the wrong approach. It makes you look blatantly fake. Facing reality and owning up to it is more alpha (and therefore more attractive) than trying to pull some kind of confidence trick.
/r/seduction05/01/25 12:27 AM
2

Around 25 I think.
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:30 PM
1

Impermanence. "I do not see one thing that changes so quickly as the mind. It is not easy to give a simile for how quickly the mind changes." -Buddha.
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:06 PM
83

Accidentally approached a 13 year old. She looked older from a distance. Her dad was there. It was the last cold approach of my life. I only do warm approach and social circle game now.
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:57 PM
2

(Playing passive with girls only really works when they develop crushes on you and chase you while you breadcrumb them.) This actually what I go for. I hold back until they develop a crush, and then I continue holding back until they fall in love and basically ask me out. It's so much less effort than chasing hundreds of women and getting so many flakes and cheeks. I only go on first dates with women who are have devastating crushes on me already. She isn't going to give me the cheek if she's th…
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:08 AM
3

Also, for me it isn't about withholding my approval (women already know you like them) so much as it is about respecting their space and their comfort zone. Women constantly meet guys who won't leave them alone. Keeping my distance from her is my gift to her, not an attempt to manipulate her emotions. It's coming from a place of generosity and compassion, and I think this is what makes them curious.
/r/seduction04/01/25 01:24 AM
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Now THIS was a good answer. I definitely feel like the "good man" is more desired by women, but I agree that the "bad boy" has more options because he doesn't let morality stand in his way. What he lacks in goodness he makes up for in sheer numbers. Also I admit that being the "good man" is more about attracting the right women, whereas the "bad boy" approach is geared toward getting any woman--so the bad boy is lowering his standards.
/r/seduction04/01/25 12:16 AM
2

I would agree that like attracts like. Immoral men are more likely to attract immoral women, and vice versa.
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:22 PM
4

Putin has sex slaves who are scared for their lives as they will be shot in the head if they refuse his gimpy, weird advances. Putin's power to rape women proves nothing about what women desire, which is the whole point of this subreddit. As for Luigi, he was not successful with women before he became a murderer. He had a best friend he was infatuated with who had no sexual interest in him (despite him being the pinnacle of good looks).
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:17 PM
5

If I decided to stomp on a stray cat on the first date, I think that would kill attraction pretty fast no matter how rich and powerful I am. Or if I abuse a waitress and so on. Conversely, I wouldn't be very keen on a woman who is morally degenerated. So I think genuine morality does have something to do with it.
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:06 PM
2

I did the same thing, approach a 13 year old and her dad was there. It ended up being my last ever cold approach, I couldn't get over it. Fortunately, I ended up coming up with new gameplans after I took cold approach off the table.
/r/seduction03/01/25 07:57 PM
2

Yes because it comes across as a demand that she choose you. It shows neediness, entitlement, and a lack of social intelligence.
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:12 PM
1

For online dating, you need to wait for her to ask you out. Don't text like a horney teenager, women like a gentleman.
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:49 AM
0

I'm not trying to be argumentative here, but if alphas go after what they want unapologetically with full force, they would go straight for the pussy. So, respectfully, a true alpha does indeed wait around in many contexts. This isn't to say you're wrong--alphas go after what they want--but a true alpha respects women, respects their peace, and in fact IS apologetic for disturbing her. I could talk about this a lot, but to keep it brief, go up to a girl, tell her she's the most beautiful human y…
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:06 PM
-3

I wouldn't ask her out in the first place. She needs to ask me out or nothing happens, end of story.
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:56 AM
0

You're in the "friend zone" and you should get a grip on your "feelings" as soon as possible.
/r/seduction21/12/24 11:38 PM
1

It can be done in social settings such as the gym, the workplace, or if you are a regular but non-creepy customer. The aim is to focus on being warmhearted and friendly to everyone, including the ladies you are interested in, while simultaneously leaving everyone alone and respecting their space (being mysterious). Never ask these women out, wait for them to ask you out. If they approach you, just keep being warm and friendly like a clueless teddy bear. It's also important to practice mindfulnes…
/r/seduction21/12/24 09:55 PM
1

Disengage. Blocking is emotional, spiteful, and is also an attempt to get her attention.
/r/seduction15/12/24 08:29 PM
3

After the first date, leave her alone and let her come to you. She needs to choose to be with you and she can't do that if you don't give her the space to do that.
/r/seduction14/12/24 05:33 PM
1

I think eye contact is overrated. It often doesn't communicate confidence; it communicates arrogance, entitlement, domineering, and can even be taken as a threat. Sometimes avoiding eye contact is more confident, as well as the socially acceptable option.
/r/seduction12/12/24 06:25 PM
1

1) look for signs of interest before approaching. 2) don't approach if it's an inappropriate situation. 3) apologize for the awkwardness immediately: "Hey, I realize this is really awkward, and I'm sorry for putting you through it, but you are the most beautiful human I have ever seen. Would it be okay for me to be your Instagram follower?"
/r/seduction11/12/24 07:45 PM
-3

Demanding her number is not confidence, but demanding that she engage us in "conversation" and "banter" is confidence? How does that work? What's the difference?
/r/seduction09/12/24 02:14 AM
2

She sent you a reel about something and you started conversing. This is what got you rejected. Never message women. You should have "liked" the reel and left it at that. If she wants to talk to you, she needs to ask you out. If she is not willing to ask you out, then she will not get to talk to you ever again.
/r/seduction04/12/24 08:51 PM
1

Absolutely not. She already has your number. Texting her would communicate that your desire is more important to you than her desire, and by extension, that your desire is more important than her freedom and happiness. You have to give women the freedom to choose you, not try to guilt and manipulate them.
/r/seduction03/12/24 01:30 AM
4

The only times I have succeeded with beautiful women in online dating is by keeping it cool and down low until she brings up the idea of meeting. That might take weeks or more of sending cute but evasive little messages back and forth.
/r/seduction28/11/24 06:51 PM
1

The secret is to do absolutely nothing. She will message you in a year or two after unfollowing you a few times.
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:46 AM
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