I mean I feel her. She wants a partner not a charity case. I'm younger than her but in a similar situation and I can tell you, I'm sick of these broke ass 20 something's that don't have their shit together. Like I don't care how cute you are l, I'm not looking for a child to take care of. No I'm not paying your student loan debt, figure that hair out for yourself. It's a struggle. And I appreciate the desire to not have that awkward dynamic in a relationship.