Loulibird Archive

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1	Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction I really just need a man who takes good care of himself. He doesn’t have to be perfect. No addiction problems, works, eats a decent diet. I also want someone who is close to my hight or taller. You can really tell when someone doesn’t take good care of themselves, it shows with their attitude, confidence, and how they present. After all of that it just matters if our personalities are agreeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 08:01 PM
2	I am told that I tend to pick men who are "below" me? Is this a thing? I did it too. Insecurities and maybe a bit of neediness for control. I gave online dating a try again last year and was nervous to go on a date with a very good looking man. He is well put together and takes good care of himself, and he still treats me better than any of the men I’ve dated before. It was worth putting myself out there and putting my best foot forward, he has supported me to accomplish goals and makes me want better for myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/22 01:02 AM
2	How can I have more feminine energy? I realized I’ve had very masculine energy Find some YouTube videos, check out some thrift stores, stop to smell some flowers, get a fruity drink, it’s all baby steps. Yoga helped me, it helps your posture which can really bring out some feminine energy.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/22 04:06 PM
2	I need a brand new start Aww I don’t have a lot of advice right now, but keep working at it, and love yourself!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/19 01:06 PM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions I have a theory I use when cleaning or working around the house. I try to minimalism the number of times I walk around or pick an item up. I consciously try to only pick up an item only once, for example when making coffee I never place the coffee bean bag on the counter, I simply take it from the cabinet, open, pour, place back in the cabinet. I place the coffee grinder near the cabinet, and all the other coffee items nearby. When bringing a dish to the sink, I do not put it down, I wash it and…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/19 08:44 PM
6	How do I let my captain be more of a captain? My bf can be this way! I used to work a job that required a month or two ahead to take time off, during that time, when I knew he was just checking emails I would sit next to him and say “ I want to take off a few days next month, let’s look at your calendar and let’s pick what days work best!” Then we put it in his calendar, I plan my days off, and voila! In the weeks coming close I expressed my excitement that I had the days off to spend with him, even if we didn’t make extravagant plans we wo…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/02/19 04:04 PM
3	Dinner party was a huge success! Thank you everyone (Update) Thanks for the update!!! Great job	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/19 02:56 AM
6	Ways to show love besides cooking Pay a shared bill early, when they go to pay it say its taken care of! :) Or fold all their socks and underwear. Watch your boundaries tho, I know my bf loves these things, yours may not!	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/17 05:18 PM
2	I [21F] can never take my SO's [24M] word for anything anymore. How do I handle this situation? That's him. If you can't take him for what he is than find someone you can. If it's worth giving another shot than keep trying, accept him for what he is and try to understand where he's coming from. Your both still so young. No usually he doesn't tell me, I've called a few times and gotten an update.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/17 02:43 AM
3	I keep getting ghosted before first dates and am at my wit's end. I had a lot of luck on dating apps. I made a very basic profile, stating that I just wanted to talk, 5-10 facts or interests, and a few honest pictures of myself. Then I would chat over texts, and then if we hit it off I would ask to skype with them. I would do this over 2 weeks, if we were still getting along I would start chatting about meeting in person. Skype dates were great, I didnt have to leave the house or really get ready or worry about having an exit plan, I would just make sure my li…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/17 09:59 PM
4	I [21F] can never take my SO's [24M] word for anything anymore. How do I handle this situation? I had this trouble with my bf. His intention was to make it to my house at a certain time but he would always be hours late, I would even show up to his and he wouldn't be there. First I joked about his lateness, giving him a hard time, that didn't work. Then I just had a few conversations with him, asking him to give himself more time when giving me an estimate, and we also talked about his terrible time management skills. I found out from his friends and family that this really is a trait of h…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/17 09:41 PM
2	Fitness Advice.. Please help. I just downloaded myfitnesspal for my phone, seems to get me motivated, and stay on track.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/17 08:59 PM