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DebateLounly/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:22 PM
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Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:40 AM
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Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:20 AM
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Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:18 PM
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Purge week!Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:27 PM
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DiscussionLounly/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:51 AM
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Purge week!Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:05 AM
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Lounly/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:58 PM
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Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:31 PM
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Purge week!Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:05 PM
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DebateLounly/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:06 PM
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CMVLounly/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:48 PM
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Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:12 PM
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Lounly/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:21 AM
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A. Already tried, even attended therapy, did not help. The only time I am not like that is when I am not doing well otherwise. Its a disease and Indont think there is a cure. B. Maybe, but I feel like most men cheat out of physical intentions, thats why men are much more likely to stay in the relationship even if infidelity exists/reaches the light. C. Absolutely impossible for the kind of person I am but I do agree its a great solution for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:00 AM
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I never reached that stage but studies say the actual attraction last 1-3 years. There are also claiming women lose attraction towards their men gradually (it doesnt happen for men), in terms of physical lust. I do not develop feelings easily at all, even when single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:16 AM
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Yes, but is that a generally happy life? Would the person getting crushes be happy suppressing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:11 AM
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I share the same views. I am coming to a realisation that I could never be in a monogamous relationship, not because I constantly want to cheat myself, but because attraction always fades and your partner will always develop feelings for others, whether they act on it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:05 AM
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I am not completely sure about the double standards thing, I only expect of people the same I offer. I am not going to pretend like I am sure I am going to find love anytime soon again, its not going to be easy for sure. But down the line, I think if I had stayed with the girl it would make her worse in the long term since I would always think about being her number two choice and she would obviously know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:13 PM
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I partially agree. I do have some problems with my thinking if you consider deviations from normal as a problem. I never accept gifts, I never ask for help, the only people I hate are the people who feel sorry for me. I am not perfect whatsover. Thing is, I know I will never be happy with her anymore, obviously I will be miserable for the upcoming months but the only way to romantic satisfaction is breaking up. The real bad thibg in all of this is that in order to evaluate the next woman Ill hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:19 PM
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I understand where you are going but you took the very extreme example of a woman settling for a guy for everythibg else overlooking attraction conpletely. I created this thread more in terms of not being the first, meaning the attraction is still felt mutually, but the treatment you get is not the same as woman’s first option got. I do not think every man cares about this or should care about it but it seems like many women do not see this as a thing that could cause doubts for a man. The settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:17 PM
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I agree. It is funny that she recently left after taking her stuff. We had a talk about exactly that. I explained she did not do anything wrong and whatever she says will not change the way I see and painted this picture in my head. I do agree this breakup is solely on me. I ser the world as competition, she told me that and I agreed. Neither me or her could change that fact. I am still very sad and borderline broken but I can never be happy being a second option. I do understand I cannot check …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:07 PM
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She didnt let anyone else trample over her before him or after him (i was after him). The fact that he was the exception for all her values made me understand she never valued me as much as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:27 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:17 AM
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What I could do, is find a girl who would actually see me as the first option. Yes, it was because of my ego, thats entirely true. The thing is, I would prefer a perfectly imperfect girl who would feel this kind of ubconditional attraction instead of being a second option. I didnt know that, found out these past couple of days, otherwise I would always be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:37 PM
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They are allowed to do that ofcourse. But they should realise that a guy being someone thats she would not treat the same be upset and leave her. Thats all I am trying to understand. Why women think its not a viable reason to be upset? I am not saying its bad. Its evolution, attractive men get women horny due to how their reproductive system works. That part is self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:23 PM
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Its not about wanting someone for life. In my case it was that she loved one particular guy unconditionally, was ok with him cheating, even handing her out stds. On contrary, for me and her other ltr in the past, there were strict conditions and boundaries. Its about the treatment. It was just obvious the guy got the best version of her and others, me included, were more for confort. Its just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:08 PM
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Yes. But I feel that men understand they should not mention their hot new girl to women. Women on the other hand often think its ok to tell a guy ‘I chose you over the hot guy because you were more reliable and provided better’
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:06 PM
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I am not saying that every women choose safe options, some has the safe guys as first option , some manage to lock down an alpha that most women crave. That being said, many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:03 PM
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Its not about how the guy looks. Its how u see and treat them in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:32 PM
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Science says its the opposite for the majority of men. In fact, for happiness, its more inportant for men to feel desired than it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:30 PM
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There could be a lit of instances. I knew because of how she treated me and how she treated her ex. My last post if u are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:29 PM
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Makes sense, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:28 PM
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The dont care part makes sense, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:28 PM
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Yes, thats why I mainly used ‘safe option’. Safe option is someone u marry (the prius), the guy u actually wanted is the guy who pumped and dumped u (the 911). Why do women think men are ok with being the prius, if they themselves dont actually like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:27 PM
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There is a massive gap between having sex with someone who wants to have sex with you and some you bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:17 PM
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It is a combination of three: reactive bahaviour without much into it (like when u hit someone in a bar), women having accountability of children (women are far more likely to do physical act of revenge on men) and out right antisocial behaviour/substance abuse. Not advocating violance against either gender, but lets be real, the reasons are obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:41 PM
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Literally the same amount. An alpha cannot leave behind 100 bastards if there wont be 100 women who are willing to risk it employing dual mating strategy. Women cannot become single mothers if they wont find an alpha with genes good enough to mate without commitment. Humans are not hermaphrodites.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:02 PM
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The impact is the same. Both make a child that does not see his real farher, having a cuck stepfarher does not really change that. Cucks raise cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:53 AM
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U were married? Right? Cuz it makes a difference in calculation as fat as I know. In my country, u dont even pay anything if the custody is 50/50, im in the baltics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:47 PM
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Couple of things: 1. Studies show that women are far more wasteful in resources than men and independently who is the bread winner in the family, women are the ones using the majority of the resources. 2. Men are salty after divorces not only because he is losing whatever they own at that moment of time but also the money they soent on the woman. 3. The decisions on the kid is true, however, if u trust the af/bb strategy women employ, you assume she will find a good beta stepfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:33 PM
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Baltics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:29 PM
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I live in EU. Also, even if child support is 20% off net income, its still miles less than what u spend raising a kid and having a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:41 PM
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That is simply wrong. Male dogs do not raise their offsprings. Even wild wolves do not do that. They protect the tribe and their status in the tribe, their females but all the raising and teaching is done by females. Same For cats who live in tribes (lions). Solitary male cats dont give a flying fuck about their cubs. Also, in terms of humans, the higher the testosterone, the less a man is capable of bonding with the kid. Another proof to AF/BB I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:38 PM
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We like to think humans are above everyone, however, we act very animalistic when there is no social pressure to act another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:21 PM
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I agree with the notion on women. In my question, I am am interested in those who cheat on their beta buxing husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:20 PM
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Compared to actually having a wife and kids, its pennies, lets be real. Atleast in my country, where it is a fixed amount which covers kids needs, it is trully pennies. Basically a moderate allowance for a kid until hes 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:19 PM
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So basically its true. A beta can never be enough. Af/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:55 PM
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That is precisely the questions I have. If a beta is with a girl that has no lust for him, does it make him any happy? If not, isnt it better for those bottom 80 percent of men just live alone and pay for hookers? Would that make them even more unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:49 PM
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That is what I am interested about. I consider myself below average and my biggest flaws are scoliosis and cranial deformity, both cause massive assymetries. I can live with that. What I could not live with is never being enough for anyone. I started wondering do women who settles for the not so attractive folks suppress their sexuality? If yes, does it lead to unhealthy actions on her part later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:29 PM
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You are mostly frustrated about having no intimacy as a whole, however, seeing an attractive woman in that condition makes it even worse, does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:32 PM
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I guess I wrote this in a kind of creepy way. Thing is, not having sex as a man is frustrating (atleast for me when I used to not be able to get laid at all). I think it is very obvious just by seeing the amount of incel communities present raging about women. It does not mean I am remotely close of rape or anything. If men were not frustrated without sex, porn industry would collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:22 PM
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Even for hookups. Only 10 % of young women are overweight iin my country. Here, we are talking about obese, which would probably be around 2-3%. I do not see how bottom 3 % of women have more desirability than an average male. I guess its different in states whete most people are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:24 PM
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I would agree of we talked hook ups, if we talk relationship, there is no way an obese female has more options than an average bald male in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:00 PM
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Not disagreeing with the fact that men compensate, however, the ex con example is so childish and plain. Most attractive (physically) men are at the top of the ladder in corporate world or entertainment business, not in prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:11 PM
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I take less beard and balding (less DHT) and more muscles (more T). Its a personal choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:51 PM
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Lol, its actually MtF, if FTM pills made the balding stop, I would chew on them no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:33 PM
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If you are caucasian that is not stress. Stress hair loss is cause by Telogen effluvium and it always grows back. Caucasian people have patterns of loss due to 5AR2 activity. Temples and crown is where the most activity happens. One can lose his temples at 16 and never lose anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:12 PM
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Neandertal genes and dimorphism is to be blamed (in my opinion). White are tallest and have most pronounced secondary sexual traits (beards,balding, body hair, chin size, nose ridge, brow ridges).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:52 PM
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Nahh. Transplants are cheap in Europe. That is not an issue. The issue is that if you are destined for advanced balding, you simply dont have enough donor supply for a transplant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:28 PM
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Every single american native (pure bred) have perfect hair until they die, a large part of mexixans too, president Reagan is a rare example of a white person. Bill Russel at whopping 87 years has the same hairline he had in his 20s, his temples are even lower than his forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:25 PM
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Only 7 % of men go totally bald. The woman above said that even receding hairlines is a no go for her. About 20-30 % of men have no recession/hairloss at 60 whatsover, altho its inporant to note that there is a substancial recial factor in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:08 PM
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I am norwood 2. No woman could even indicate Ashton Kutcher is balding and my hair is better than his. You are an obese female gaslighting men on reddit - we are both allowed to make assumptions, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:31 AM
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No. Its not equally solvable. Again, you being delusional, knowingly. Transplants work for minority of balding men. By ‘fixing’ you mean altering, hormones that make you bald are androgenic, meaning healthy and making you a man. Either you are too uneducated on both topic or you are simply ridiculously salty like you claim you are. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:27 AM
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Yes, most people are not really promiscuos. In fact, studies show that only a small minority of men are really sociosexual and it does not really depend on their looks. Meaning that those are mostly behavioural differences, obtained or genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:20 AM
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One is easily solvable in most cases, other is not. Both are unattractive. You seem very salty about men. Find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:17 AM
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I am still norwood 2 right now, so not yet, but yes, I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:08 AM
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At first it seemed to work, but It seems like I am heading to the dreaded norwood 3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:05 AM
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Idk about dating, but their is a study somewhere on fortune 500 CEOs and interestingly all of them, independently chose to rather be bald (less attractive facially in a way) if they could add few inches. It seems like atleast in social environment, height truly is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:03 AM
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That is simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:43 AM
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16 is not too early. There are bunch of 16 years olds on reddit taking propecia for their balding head. Im curious, if you believe balding has made that much of an impact on ur life, why havent u considered a transplant?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:43 AM
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I agree some people have harder time to lose fat but conparing being short and obese is delusional. My heart goes to short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:34 AM
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I guess this is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:33 AM
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Did you really go bald due to illness? Because I saw your picture (excuse me for rudeness) and it seems like a prime time display of male pattern baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:28 AM
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There is no god. And biology as a science as well as money have bo feelings, thats why those are my 2 favorites things in the world. By the way, if you are a white female, make sure to not be that ‘god’, you have 60% chance of passing the balding gene to your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:24 AM
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Isnt being a ten irrelevant? 80/20, af/bb theories imply that 20% of men turn women on, meaning its not only 10. I couldnt care less about not being a 10 to be fair, I was questioning the af/bb theory in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:03 AM
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Yh, that answers my question. Thanks for the answer. My opinion is similar for this matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:01 AM
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I mean obesity is also less of a problem if a woman is really pretty face wise and collect the fat in ass/chest/legs mostly. I’m more talking about an average balding male and an otherwise average obese female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:59 AM
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Fair. By 30 most men who are genetically likely to bald are way on the way already, so I think u will be able to keep your preferences. So you agree on the notion that a balding male is the equivalent of an obese female?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:58 AM
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The questions was more general. Is an obese female an equivalent of a balding male?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:51 AM
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Well, for me, even the prescription drugs does not slow it down. I am going bald at mid twenties. And its not graceful whatsover. I alter my hormones to buy some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:49 AM
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To be fair, I thought exactly like this before but I think culture played a role in this. My girlfriend is a black skinny girl. Im 2 years older white guy. I have to admit I am reasonably fit and 6’2 but on the other hand I have craniofacial deformity and am balding. I agree on objective attractiveness in my head but then I cannot understand why this girl is so into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:33 AM
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How is women raising rapists (that are only dangerous to women themselves) a win? Lol, so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:21 AM
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They hate her for being an unstable hoe who lied about being abused, which is one of the reasons TRP promote no relationships, its one of the risk. Since Amber was a perfect example of their biggest fear, an unstable damaged and mentally ill female, they hate her. Tbh, fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:18 AM
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Biology, for the most time, will decide whats realistic and whats not for you. Interestingly, evolutionary, genes that make up an ugly person with low standards are more valuable than ‘a tall high earning attractive female’ simply because the former is much more likely to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:13 AM
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Sometimes I honestly just think shes too young (24) to realise how conventionally unattractive I am. I do not believe in marriage but I will squeeze all the juice from this one and might become celibate if it does not work out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:09 AM
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Today I had the realization it is very hard to theory craft any of this. Just go by the feel, if you feel best when they initiate the communication/dating, stick with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:51 AM
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I was 100% sure about this before I’ve met my girlfriend. I am at the bottom of the barrel in terms of attractiveness for men, v card until 24. This girl wanted to have sex with me on the second date. She often initiates and talks about sex. I am ugly af. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:51 AM
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Its very simple. The number of male enterpreneurs in my country outnumber females drastically (even tho the circumstances and rights ar equal) and they felt it was a big need to produce an aritficial outcome in equality. Even if completely unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:38 PM
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Good times favor women, bad times favor men. It is what it is. EU used to hand out these subsidies for businesses in regions. To qualify one has collect a certain score of points. Points are given for age (younger gets more), region (more unemployed people in the region, more points), disability, bunch of other stuff and , suprise surprise, gender. Last time I check disability gave 5 points and being a women gave 5. At first I thought what a shame and inequality. But then you think about it for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:05 PM
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People remain married, happily or not, for many reasons that are not event remotely related to their sexuality. For instance - comfort, common wealth, societal judgement/image, true friendship. U cannot possibly know whether they are sexual or not - most likely they are not. More than a third of women and 2 out of 3 men cheat on their spouses and that is literally the definition of polygamy. You don’t need to divorce to be polygamous. Before u start hamstering about the men cheating more, men ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:42 AM
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Its not about the kids. It about the fact that shes making a big deal about paying child support when in fact it is a big deal when men don’t. She should not pretend like shes some hot shiit because of that, millions of men do that every single month.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:27 AM
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Exactly. And other women fond that amusing like it is some kind of an insult to a man when 95 % of the time its women themselves who go through courts and cries to receive that same child support. But women are just as infependent and strong as men, right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:53 AM
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Women laughing when men receive child support and cry when they dont get theirs. Muh eequality, nothing new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:44 AM
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Focus on the self inprovement part of trp and not the online theory hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:41 AM
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That and asymmetry between genders. Men saying a word about women weight is misogynist. Women cracking jokes about balding or small penises are comedians.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:40 AM
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The major problem is in the way people are raised. Body posititivity movements make women think fat belly is a net neutral and has no negative implications on her daying prospects. Compare that to men balding now lol. It is the same for young men. Media tells there is someone for everyone. No, there is not. Media tells women care about how men treat them and personality the most. No, they don’t. In their mind that how society is so when someone treats them in another way, they think that person …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:08 AM
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At this moment, I do not have time to provide sources but I’ll state three conclusions from studies that prove non monogamous intentions of wonen ( studies can be found by googling). 4 % of men unknowingly raise other men children, even more raise them knowingly after divorces that are initiated by women 80% of the time. Women show strong decline in attraction towards their partner and stronger attraction towards others over time. 8000 thousand years ago only 1 in 17 men reproduced and free sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:13 AM
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Marriages fail for very simple reasons. Women are biologically non monogamous, they stop being attracted to their partner. Thats the first reason. The second reason is that even tho men outearn their spouses die to monogamy (usually), women spent much more on that money on theirselves compared to men. Its very usual for women improving their looks on the behalf of familys finances, its much more rare for men. Women begin to feel like they have better options and seek for them. On the other hand …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:43 PM
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I wont get into cheating because its very hard to talk about something not proven and speculate, however, the fact that most marry someone from similar backgroud/education level is completely expected. People do not realise how lonely successful (as in self made) people are. There is significantly less time for anything else but career, especially at the growing stage where mose meet their spouses thus a Harward alumni is far more likely to have a wife that is also Harward alumni compared to a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:01 PM
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Was this a rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:44 PM
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I may have phrased it incorrectly. I just saw guys in that thread talk about plastic surgeries and how 80/20 is basically looks thus 20% of young college chads fucking all the women, which I believe is not true. My English is too poor to put things straight sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:41 PM
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That is mostly true for sexuall encounters, females sexual prime is 18-21.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:22 PM
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That’s just my experience. I started put hanging out a lot more with women. Most of them had older boyfriends/friends, especially when they were young. My girl had 3 bfs before me , one was 32, another 26 and the last one 27. She’s 23. Im not saying most of them have such large age gaps in couples but the more I talk to women the more I realise most of them don’t even consider same aged men as potential mates especially when young.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:21 PM
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I don’t only when she is not ovulating. She is very careful about it. 2. Yeah, anyone without underage kids can be kicked out with police. 3. I havent deleted it, dont use it tho. Ill read it.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:20 PM
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I just tell her its to early. She deleted hers (we met through there) sent me all the proofs but I said she should still use it due to my low self esteem.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:18 PM
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First girlfriend thing was never mentioned. She thinks I might cheat and wants me to delete tinder. Little she knows I cant even get ONS at all. I think its a combination of money and wits, she thinks I am very smart and my family is considerably richer than hers.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:42 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:16 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:16 PM
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Hey dude. Very interesting. Although she is not a muslim, I do find similarities in what you said, she is cheap unless its spending on me, which is insane. Me, as a northern european, find this affection wave borderline uncomfortable but very enjoyable at the same time. Her being so real and happy when I do little things for her is what makes her special.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:21 PM
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As i mentioned in some of the comments, I am not talking about literal mail order bride and should have probably avoided this term while writing the thread. I am just talking to foreign women online, I am 25, I mostly focus on girls between 19 and 27 , which I feel is reasonable depending on her and how she communicates. Moreover, I agree with the beauty part, honestly, I am not a looker myself, so I would feel super akward if she was ig model tier, just looking for a simple, wholesome, traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:30 PM
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If anything, we are in a huge crisis in terms of group testosterone levels. Men are far less masculine nowadays, obviously, however most people believe the sole reason is the liberty of expressing themselves and other modern social constructs. In reality, its just one part of it. Physical/biological causes are also prevalent. Fat/gut, people are fat, fat equals estrogen which make women more unbearable and men more lethargic. Lack of physical exercise, even a fat fart would increase his testoste…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:17 PM
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Leg lengthening procedure cost no where near 10 k, it costs around 50 k , plus you have to get off work for 6 months which means you lose all that salary, also you would have to travel to a shady assss country to do it since only a small group of crazy surgeons perform the procedure. You just said ‘same price’ without any knowledge on the topic you are talking. I will never understand people who literally stick their tongue just for the sole sake of doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:08 PM
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no lol, thats simply incorrect , why would you write this nonsense without any grasp on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:26 PM
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Usually, women return to their active lifestyle and fitness routines 2-4 weeks after surgery. 1 google search
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:14 PM
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And they cost towards 60k , makes you disabled for a year, you have to learn how to walk again and your proportions are off for the reat of your life. Don’t even dare to compare cutting some flesh of vagina or putting in titties with that. Its not even close. Not to mention only 5 or so people perform that procedure around the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:11 PM
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All of this can be surgically fixed , I am not saying height is important, but u can fix titties and kitty for 10-12k and 2 weeks off work. U cant do that with height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:32 PM
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You do realise the reason for that? I’ll give u a perspective, are you as a guy super attracted to anorexic fashion models? I guess not. Do you know what slim 6’2 guys and talk anorexic women have in common? They both fill the most popular (wanted) clothes sizes perfectly - xs for women and m for men, long limbs also plays a role in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:51 PM
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100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:48 PM
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They could fetishise about a 7ft dude , but 5’10-6’3 is average height span and has no influence. In my country an average senior in highschool is somewhere between 6 and 6’1 , do uou really think women fetishise about a 6’2 guy when its a commodity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:38 PM
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5ft is dwarf tier and probably a medical condition in my native country. 5’6 or 6’2 does nor matter, both are taller than most hoes. The only thing i like my height about is that I can dunk, thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:33 PM
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Just lol if you think a truecel could get 2000 likes in his lifetime in an western country 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:29 PM
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I am 6’2 - still a kissless virgin at 25, height is not important. I am as white as ir gets - still a virgin at 25, race does not matter. Men try to put themselves into these frames to justify their failure, only gace matters in the west, if you have a good dimorphic symetrical face as a man - u won this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:28 PM
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A little mislead you, not 1 in 17 men, but on average, 17 women would reproduce with the same stud. https://www.google.lt/amp/s/psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:13 AM
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Humans are not fully polygamous because of the time and resources needed to bring a child to maturity. That’s why countries that have less stable family households, more children without parents or resources have higher childhook morrality rates. Even in Western world, a child without a father has significantly worae prognosis for life. If only alphas mated, the reaources available to each women would be scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:10 AM
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Also, everyone would benefit - alphas would get to breed more women, women would only breed with alphas, children would get the best genes and the vast majority of men being celibate would make it a new normal. Yes, more children would die but that is just an aditional stage for selection, weaker would die young before maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:07 AM
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lol I live in the old town in of the EU capitals :D no where near redneck trailer park level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:10 PM
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I do not understand your mental gymnastics? how would you know better than me if I would wait or not? :D :D hilarious mongering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:09 PM
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which one were u using? if u dont mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:56 PM
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where did you meet her? online or during vacation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:52 PM
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idk why people tell this as something degrading, more than half of women are not attracted to their husbands physically after 3 years, most just settled for them, its the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:03 PM
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sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:01 PM
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I've been to south east asia and know how they react when they see a young 6'2 white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:01 PM
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Yeah, I just wrote that term as a genaral thing. I am just chatting up them online and then i am going to meet them when i am on vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:17 PM
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Look back at your life and try to locate the point where you lost the grasp on reality. None of the people walking this earth right now will see the worlds ending. If that would happen in 20 years, even if there was only a 50% chance, consuming would increase numerous times, people would not care about anything , crime would jump up and so on. Stick you nose to a book, cleanse yourself out of the drugs you induce and enjoy the long ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:59 PM
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They are not forced, a lot of them dream about marrying a foreigner. Climate change won't mean shiit in 20 years and how is it connected to incels? You are so low iq you make me dizzy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:49 PM
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It does not matter if it ll last or not. Mariage is a contract based prostitution. There are exceptions, but they are giga rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:48 PM
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I never said I would keep her as a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:45 PM
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This ain't rape legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:44 PM
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blue card if she'll want to work in EU. Honestly, I don't care about that. Every relationship is some kind of trade. In this case, I will trade some resources and time for atleast a couple of years of sex from a young Asian. If everything works out - way more than that. I think its a win - win.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:40 PM
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It is a similar thing to cmv. I just want to double check if I am not missing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:38 PM
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same as basically any other mariage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:37 PM
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I also thought like this. However, then I looked at it through a different perspective. Eve, in a organicaly formed couples, one is always settling. The one who has more options always have leverage . Also, I would not "order" an actual wife, I am just meeting phillippino women online, will go on vacation, meet them up if everythings good Ill bring them back home. Even if she decided to leave me after getting a visa, I would not mind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:36 PM
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like what? Most fillippino women dream about marrying a foreigner, mind you, an old one usually. I offer them that and more , since I am 25, 6'2, fit. I may not be a looker by western standards, but compared to 50 years old fat americans I am a catch. Women trade sex for money all the time through prostitution, mariage, online camps, this is the same deal. I am just getting a bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:33 PM
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That's what im hoping for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:31 PM
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There are numerous stories of Asian women stickcing for a long haul, since they are traditional. Also, I am still young and pretty tall, most asian s consider me a catch compared to older 50+ americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:30 PM
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Human traficking cannot be consensual. So I guess I will sexually exploit an Asian, just like many women around the world use their vaginas as a leverage for money. Will have to live with that,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:29 PM
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Iw ouldnt order her per say. I am chatting wihth some fillippinas online and thinking about briking one here,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:48 PM
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you mean she will kill herself? or what? I am 25 , the filippinas im talking to are similar age. Do they have shorter life spans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:47 PM
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I won't be celibate. Incel by definition is a man who is celibate. Having a phillippina who sleeps with me automaticaly makes me non incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:45 PM
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I will probably stand against it by bringing a fillipina to eu
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:44 PM
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it is not against her will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:43 PM
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Why? I've read multiple positive stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:43 PM
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They actually removed my post 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:24 PM
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Yeah, they speak English but talking in native language will always be easier and more natural than communicating in English.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:20 PM
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I should clarify - I wouldn’t marry the land whale. I would only marry the fillippina to get her here (prenup is essential). I am thinking about moving back to my home country with the fillippina (eastern part of EU), that would help because people are really racist there and not knowing the language would kind of isolate her from western women influence. As of gold digging - true for option 2 but I have to play with the cards that I got dealt. For option 2 - nahhh, a landwhale would not gold di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:18 PM
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True. In my experience tho, it might just be a coincidence tho, mexican-american women are better. Caucasians are unbearable there. Fat, pig nosed, pale and loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:35 PM
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Okay, just to be clear - Lithuania is far from slavic. Secondly, yes single motherhood is common, men here can afford a divorce, child support is super weak and even that little amount is easily avoided. The fact that there are men who become stepfathers does not mean they are not he laughing stock. As I said previously, men earn less than females, have to do less shores and still get women. Wanting for pussy is universal, when a lower value male is desperate, he will go for a single mother, doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:27 PM
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😂😂 why do women throw themselves at NBA plauers or UFC fighters? Keep coping soy boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:56 PM
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Women out earn men in Eastern Europe, atleast EU part. Yes, men are supposed to stuff but they are still the priority for themselves. An average russian male is super low maintenance. He needs his hoe, his alcohol, his sauna, his friends and his food. Spending money on yourself, clothes, self care is unmanly, cooking is unmanly. So yes, woman will get to spend most of the resources, but she will always have to look good, cook, clean, be a mother. While in U.S , women get all the same treatment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:54 PM
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Thats why people loke Trump can get plenty of hoes looking like a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:48 PM
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No no no no. Example. I lived in one of the Eastern Europe countries that is now in EU. Prostitution is highly illegal but men are not simps. You know why? Because single woman is shamed, single mothers are shamed and are useless in the eyes of men, stepfathers are shamed for taking on growing orher men children, avergae salary 1000e but if a woman with a child devides to split, she gets 200e a month in child support independently on farhers income, also no alimonies. When children are young and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:46 PM
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I consider simping as if buying stuff and providing for women you barely know, basically putting them over you. Compliments can be just a way of playing, Egyptians are famous for complinents, they are also famous for scamming older European women into marriage and fraud, so I do not consider them simps, they just play them. If you want to easy what anti simping looks like, go to Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:36 PM
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No one simps as hard as Americans. Legal prostitution or not. I lived both in states and EU (multiple countries) - Americans are simply built for that. There is a massive difference how men approach women around the globe. Even in EU , in Scandinavia you wont see men aggressively showing affection, spilling compliment. On the other hand, go to Greece, Turkey where they constantly spill compliment, affection just to get in. Then go to Eastern Europe , where women wont get any dick only paychologi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:51 PM
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You play with the cards you were dealt. Old men realise they are leas attractive. They also realise that spending whats little to them but big to a young female could massively impact the interaction. Truly attractive females stop growing mentally at 15 and stay at that level until they lose their looks. Teenagers like to ger spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:44 PM
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every boyfriend is abusive when he becomes an ex boyfriend - does not mean shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:28 AM
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I do agree its a subpar example. However, women prefer dark triad personality traits, ir is proven. Obviously not all women, but generally men with dark triad personalties are more successful with women. Similar thing to height, some may prefer short, but trends are what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:13 AM
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Read this slowly. It is proven by peer reviewed studies that women (generally) prefer dark triad personalities. Psychopaths, anti social men, gang members, prisoners have more sex partners on average. Unless you believe more women are ‘bad’ than good, your hypothesis is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:10 AM
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It is actually quite the opposite. Having kids young is stigmatized, wanting family instead of career is stigmatised. Not wanting to compete in corporate world is stigmatised. Not going for higher education is stigamtised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:07 AM
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Either you like in a third world country or/and eastern europe or you are mainly surrounder by lower class people. Upper class people in Western countries see this as a completely normal thing and women do not get stigmatised because of it. We are put from 1990s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:04 AM
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Lol. Murderers get countless letters to their cells from normal everyday working class women. Women prefer dark triad personalities and good looks, high T. It is proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:02 AM
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Honestly, a single attractive female could figure out man's n count withing the first 15 minutes of meeting him at a bar, not to mention obvious physical traits that correlates with sexually experienced male.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:03 PM
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Numerous studies proved that. If the proof you are looking for is your personal experience, I doubt we would be able to have a normal discussion - good luck. By the way, you could easily research the oxytocin part using google :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:59 PM
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I am 100% with you on the part that female's premarital activities is only a fraction of what makes a wholesome partner and a successful mariage. It is just a qualitative selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:53 PM
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Actually, in terms of mariage and studies - this does not apply to men. Even though I do not want to fuck 100 women, I would completely understand a man who would want to do it, we are all selfish, both men and women, however there is no proof of man's premarital sex influencing divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:51 PM
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True. However I am mostly talking about young chilfree women. Unfortunately if you have to settle with an older women, you are not in a good position to look for a lower n count female and lifetime marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:27 PM
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Using your personal experience as an argument in a general discussion is exactly what being subjective means. Furthermore, it has been proven that one of the most distinct qualities or features of people in the lowest iq quantile is the inability to distinguish between subjective and objective and also why ‘their opinion’ has essentially 0 value if it is given as a counter argument against a quantitative study with a 1000 individuals in the sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:56 PM
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Places like this prove one point and one point only. Too many people are too stupid to distinguish between objective vs subjective. General tendencies are often met with counters involving stuff like ‘I’ve never met, seen x, so it is bot true’ ‘I like short guys, so women generalt preferring large men is false’ ‘it is easy to get laid, incels don’t exist’ ‘you are only talking about women in a way because you are a virgin’. Neutral, argument based discussion is extra rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:52 AM
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If you are really a 7/10 , aiming for a 7/10 girl looks wise is already to high, UNLESS she is from a significantly lower socioeconomic bracket. The reason is hypergamy. As a man, you will most likely date down in terms of looks unless you are rich. In my opinion, it is better to date girls who are objectively little less attractive than you. Mind you, I cannot rate myself, but I am 6’2 guy with recent pro ball experience and now a job in a large multinational corporation, maybe I am not a 7/10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 12:50 PM
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So what? I don’t care whether you are satisfied or not what fashion offers to women. That is not what we are talking about. Women spend far more on clothes - fact, women spend far mote tone shopping on average - fact. All of these things are messurable in numbers not opinions. Plastic surgery industry is super dependent on women, beauty product distributors sell the majority of their products to women. In fact, in order to end this discussion with you (since it leads to where) I will share a lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:09 PM
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The fact that you actually compared how some women and how ‘some’ men are into fashion, thinking the proportions are comparable, when all beauty and fashion industry is built upon women’s wishes and males capital, signals me you are beyond biased and this short discussion between you and me has to end now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:53 PM
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I will link the study in several minutes. And yes, even tho the general consensus on what an attractive female is exists, that study essentially showed how men react to other men negatively commenting on and perceiving a particular female. So even tho general consensus on what is attractive to most men exist, in an isolated environment men find women who are viewed as a worse option by their peers. Sorry for my English, I try explain as smoothly as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:09 PM
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Compete does not equal copy cating or seeking approval. It is pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:04 PM
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Not really. Availability is a big no. Women literally follow other females on social media, read magazines and so on to see what other people like. In today’s western world, a woman that wants to find a very specific item can find it eith relative ease. Not to mention women casually go across 20 stores before they find something they and their friends both find ‘cute’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:03 PM
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You completely mistook the point about fashion. I do not follow trends and I do not try to be unique or similar to someone, I just do me, need a t shirt, go to a store, see what they have and pick whichever I want. Women on the other hand need someone else opinion for their opinion to become valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:59 PM
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Men surely seek other mens advice, guidance , expertise both by asking or just blatantly following their steps to reach a goal that they personally want. Women on the other hand, ask other women what they want to figure what they themselves want. It is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:23 PM
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I am 100% positive. I spent 2 months on an internet forum that has a community comprised of atleast 95% women, mostly in 20-35 yrars of age group. Most of the questions are exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:22 PM
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Yes. But it is not because of trends , it is because of availability, price and comfort. Nothing to do with fashion trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:19 PM
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Agree that men seek other men for guidance. However, usually the pattern of serking for thst guidance is different. To put in shortly, women ask what other women like/want/expect. Men ask how can he get x, how can he do x. There is a study that proved a fact, that women find a more attractive if other females find him attractive. Same study proved complete opposite for males and their attraction towards females.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:18 PM
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If that would explain why women monkey other women and why should men act the same way, we could forget about any technological, medical or any other type of advancement or discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:53 PM
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By the way , there are some scientific evidence that men value young women the most and that women sexual market value peaks at 21 and falls below average at 30 or 31. I can support this by night club industry as an example. It is built upon attracting young women in 21-25 age demographic (bait) in order to net the money from men who bring all of the profits. Men like to be around those kind of women, so they fall for the bait, simple as that. That’s the business model and it sure as hell works …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:44 AM
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First of all, I do believe hypergamy exists, I feel like it is kind of undeniable. Nevertheless, I think hypergamy and its implications should be explained to boys at a younger age. What makes a guy high status in school does not really translate to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:40 AM
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