LousyAdvice Archive

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2	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. Women are actually mass murderers because they equate the right to kill their child with “women’s rights.” 60 million abortions since Roe v. Wade, yet they still try to attack anyone who even slightly criticizes them on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 01:26 AM
2	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. Here you are, engaging. This isn’t a threat, this is just the way it’s going to play out if things don’t change. If the majority of men don’t think it’s worth playing by the rules, why would they be coal miners, or oil riggers, or line repairmen to subsidize your life. You live in a complex system that requires the cooperation of men you’ll never meet. Your life is so abstracted you don’t see this, like how a fish doesn’t know what water is. If things continue on their trajectory, you can expect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 09:54 PM
1	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. Afghanistan will look progressive if things continue the way they are. Do you truly believe that women are going to have a good time and access to food, water, safety, shelter, clothing, electricity, and heat if men continue to drop out of society. It doesn’t just magically appear. The only reason that if you flick your light switch the light comes on is because of men ensuring our infrastructure works. If they decide to defect and tap out, you’ll shack up with the nearest illiterate brute who c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 09:50 PM
2	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. Excellent rebuttal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 09:47 PM
3	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. Wow if it happened in the Hollywood movie it must be true. Stop coping. Those serial killers are “hot to them” because women like men who kill. It tickles their loins. Maybe it’s because they abort their children by the millions, drop prom babies into the dumpster (even though we have safe harbor laws), and murder their infants when they’re “depressed.“	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 09:46 PM
8	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. The man got with Casey Anthony because she was hot, not because she was a killer. Men never claimed not to care about appearance. The difference here is that women like the serial killer men because they are killers. In fact, someone who looks like Dahmer and has his personality, the only thing he could do to be attractive to women is to be a psycho murderer. If he looked and acted the same way but refrained from the killing, he’d get no positive attention from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 08:41 PM
5	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. No I don’t. I don’t like the influence they have on society so I want to spread the word so that enough men can become aware to decenter them so society can become masculine, patriarchal, and successful again. Since we operated under the delusion that women were rational agents and equals to men by taking their concerns seriously, catering to their whims, needs, and stated preferences, everything has gotten worse. Therefore, women need to lose political power. The best way to do this is to wake …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 08:13 PM
2	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. I don’t care, virtually all women are toxic, especially by your moving goal post redefinitions. I’m done caring about the opinions of women as if they matter, when they all sit around gooning to true crime fantasizing about being murdered. They would legitimately rather be strangled than hit on by an awkward shy person. Therefore, their opinions on anything can be safely disregarded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 08:09 PM
4	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. I thought they had to be manipulated and targeted. Instead, women seek these men out. Yet I have never seen even “unhealthy and unstable” women seek out mellow, kind, but introverted and awkward men, no matter how many mental illnesses you claim they have. In fact, the fact that they aren’t psychopaths makes them too boring to overcome the crime of being stable. It’s actually crazy how often I and other men have given women who complain about their toxic exes the ick because we refuse to strangl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 08:06 PM
3	CMV: The world would be a better place if males adapted to how women handle problems Women just want to hear themselves talk. They all have a bitch coworker, they all have a toxic ex, it gets very tiring for Billy beta to be their emotional tampon while Chad gets to pump and dump. Nothing is more frustrating and annoying than hearing a person complain about problems, who would get enraged by you actually solving their problems instead of just saying “you’re so right wow that’s crazy” 30 times in an hour conversation. I certainly wouldn’t be friends with any men like that. Since …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 07:10 PM
5	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. Yeah that’s why they write letters to serial killers. If a guy with the looks and the reserved quiet personality of Jeffery Dahmer was a law abiding tax paying accountant, he would get no attention, be invisible, or even ridiculed by women. However, the second that same man becomes a murdering psychopathic cannibal, he’s got hundreds of letters, offers, and thousands of women gooning to him online. The fact that he’s gay is irrelevant, and the fact that he would kill them is part of the allure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 06:48 PM
0	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” Yes for reproduction. Since the human race are animals that evolved out of the muck according to mainstream secular theory that completely discards religion and therefore any moralities that rely on it, we are no better than animals, merely the strongest and most clever among them. Civilization is an attempt to improve upon our animal nature, but it requires buy in by the majority, or at least it requires powerful men to enforce the rules with violence. Part of that protects women who are weaker…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 06:22 PM
1	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” Men rely on other men. Women rely on other men. A commune of men could be self sufficient easily. A commune of women would collapse almost instantly. The only thing men would need women for would be reproduction. Women would need men for that, plus every other need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 06:35 AM
-1	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” Well a select few men actually can live self sufficient lives of isolation without the need of civilization, like hermits or monks. The relation to this point is the OP saying men want “women to rely on me so they can’t leave”. The true reality that the modern world obscures is that is the natural state of things. Women do rely on men, and their so called rights are merely privileges that are revocable. If their behavior causes enough men to defect from the system instead of cooperating, then th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 05:36 AM
0	Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” All women rely on men. There is not one independent woman on earth. Modernity merely obscures that, just like how a child who grows up in a city truly believes food comes from the grocery store. No woman is self sufficient, even if she thinks she’s a CEO gaslight gatekeep girlboss and brings home millions. Our entire society relies on men to buy in. If she drives to work the streets need to be paved. To be safe from criminals or foreign invasion requires men in the police and army. To have food …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 12:17 AM
2	What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ? Sorry we’re done sympathizing with a class of people that not only justifies the mass murder of innocent babies. Nothing is more depraved than killing your own child, especially to subsidize your hedonistic lifestyle to avoid the foreseeable consequences of your own actions. Next time you justify murder, pick on someone your own size coward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 09:40 PM
3	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves Just 🐝 urself No not like that construct an entirely new personality and have no flaws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 09:32 PM
1	muslim marriage is dtill blue pill So true. I hope women never stop voting for open borders. Hard to sleep around while wearing a trash bag inshallah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:12 PM
2	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Nice. I advise any male who’s high IQ and accomplished to tax shelter max, get paid under the table, offshore account, crypto, etc, whatever so that you give the rest of society zero (0) unless you have a fulfilling life where the “social contract” makes sense or you have too much to lose and it’s the cost of doing business. Any low IQ unaccomplished low prospects guy should welfare max, get on every program possible, be as much of a burden to the taxpayers as humanly possible. If we work togeth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:04 PM
0	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Every man who pays taxes allows women to use him as an ATM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 03:42 PM
2	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 08:40 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Well depending on your age, generationally this has gotten far worse. Millennials are the last generation that will be halfway normal (just barely). Each subsequent generation will get worse. Do you genuinely believe things will turn around magically? Everything is a cynical scam now. Idols are influencers. Hustle grindset culture about drop shipping and crypto. Marriage and family not prioritized but scamming and grifting. People like Tate are looked up to in a way that would have been unthinka…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:40 PM
2	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Stick your head in the sand if you want. When you build an ultra atomized society of selfish narcissists with no guiding morality, no enforcement of duties, you get a society that’s every man woman and child for themselves. Why would someone seek to attain the higher virtues like self sacrifice if they have no stake or purpose. Pew has been conducting surveys on a variety of issues for decades. An important one is their values survey, which asks Americans what’s most important to them. Patriotis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:36 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. She could at the time and then quit. Or if you better yourself and go to medical school or something similar during the marriage they’ll give her the credit and more money for your degree and earning potential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:30 PM
2	No one is obligated to stay celibate. You can communicate, be a model husband, and still lose half of your stuff in a divorce. Which is why modern marriage is a scam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:25 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Very few want to live this way. I certainly don’t. I’m not making a value judgement on this, this isn’t a normative claim but a descriptive one. This is the way things are now and it’s only going to get worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:22 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Not always enforceable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:17 PM
-3	No one is obligated to stay celibate. So you don’t lose your house and half your stuff, it’s pretty obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:48 PM
0	No one is obligated to stay celibate. He’d lose more than half most likely anyway. Moderate risk high reward plan. At best he gets to keep the marriage (and stuff) with his loving roommate while getting what he needs on the side. At worst, he gets divorced out of a toxic marriage. Might not even have to pay more in certain jurisdictions. I’m glad everyone in this story is prioritizing themselves over all other people and considerations. It seems like this will be the new environment to operate in. Morals don’t really come into play …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:44 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Cool 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:32 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Don’t care either way. Whether it’s cheating or not she has to choices: put up with it or divorce. If she slept with someone else (if it hasn’t already happened lol) there’s nothing he could do about it. Since he’s a free person who doesn’t owe her anything, he can do what he wants. Just as she can. No one is owed a single thing from another person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:26 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Both are fine considering the circumstances. OP is going above and beyond what she is owed (nothing) by telling her. But even sneaking around would be fine because she isn’t owed honesty. If she doesn’t like it, she’s free to divorce him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:22 PM
1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Yes actions have consequences. She failed to satisfy him and fulfill wifely duties and denied him intimacy. So he’s looking elsewhere for fulfillment. Yeah and if she doesn’t like it she can leave. Although I think the better strategy is to be sneakier kudos to OP for putting his cards on the table. He’s not owed anything. She’s not owed anything. This is the new normal, better get used to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:18 PM
-1	No one is obligated to stay celibate. She can divorce him if she doesn’t like the cheating, if she discovers it. In fact, he could be a perfect husband that caters to her every whim and desire and she could still divorce him at any time for any (or no) reason. So why is it immoral (since we live in a nihilistic morally relativistic society which only supports the freedom to do anything you want as long as it does not (directly) harm another). We used to have robust forms of socially enforced morality, monogamy, and religiosity. We u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:14 PM
3	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Why should he divorce her, go through the stress and hassle and cost of a divorce, probably lose the house he most likely paid for (either by being forced to move out or to list it for a partition action)? She’s certainly free to divorce him now or after finding out the truth (if she ever does). But why “should” he divorce her if he doesn’t want to because the status quo is better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:59 PM
2	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Are you also supposed to be intimate with your partner? If she isn’t playing by “the rules” why should he?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:44 PM
2	No one is obligated to stay celibate. He is free. But he doesn’t want to. Therefore he is doing this. Marriage also implies intimacy. Why should he be faithful to someone who isn’t faithful to him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:43 PM
2	No one is obligated to stay celibate. According to who are we owed honesty? Is this some moral duty? If so, are there other moral duties owed from other people or moral agents? From our hyper individualist atomized society, it seems the only duty and thing owed by others is to not directly harm them. Short of that, no one is owed any time, any resources, any help, any anything from another person who doesn’t want to give it to them. I’m sure she’ll be furious if she finds out. All the more reason to conceal it. As he’s denied intima…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:23 PM
-4	No one is obligated to stay celibate. Why is she entitled to honesty, faithfulness, and above board fair dealing if he isn’t entitled to intimacy. Under our current ‘morals’ if you can even call them that, no one is entitled to anything from anyone else. At best, you’re entitled to not be physically harmed or have your property stolen, but all else seems fair game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 05:12 PM