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Good point. Another important pointer is to look confident and in control. If you approach a girl with confidence she'll think this guy must get girls because of how sure he is in himself and his ability ergo giving you status compared to buffoons who mumble stupid pick-up lines Just have a playful half smile when you say it (yk the James Bond kind). Control the frame, control the girl
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 05:14 AM
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basically have abundance, not just in women, but in all spheres of life. Abundance gives you the ability to walk away when you want, which is attractive. 3 women-rotation by far, works the best for me. Anything more just drains me, but hey, maybe I'm getting old.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 10:53 AM
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Really relate to a lot of this. Especially the Pakistani. I had a similar experience at work where this older colleague had a hard time with English and I pegged him as a someone who's not very bright, but his ideas where brilliant and together we worked in secret and then I(since he wasn't very good at it) presented an alt approach to our Leadership Team During the presentation I mentioned his impact but people only associate ideas with those whose mouth it comes out from and I got most of the …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/21 05:46 AM
2

if someone does ask Rocks' wife for a dance I sure as hell know he wont be a bitch boy about it, make frowny face, cross his arms and say 'no' Either AA as u/MattyAnon suggests or use it to your advantage as u/MusicgoonV2 suggests by flirting with other girls while she's dancing If you're the prize what are you afraid of?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:11 AM
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This. A good girl is going to say no to some random guy of her on accord if she respects you enough. This infact is a great vetting opportunity. If she says yes, go talk to other girls and expand your harem. Make a mental note of this behaviour and see if this pattern repeats. If she says no, you're still captain.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:03 PM
14

One time I called a girl a slut while we were doing it, she started crying. She been with so many guys that she got slut trauma smh
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:11 AM
14

Say "yeah ofc we're not doing anything you don't want to" and then try again in ~2 mins. Keep escalating and teasing but be non needy at the same time like you don't care if you don't smash. If she still keeps her ASD up, be like "yeah you're right let's not rush it" and leave because you've "got some videotapes to return" she would've broken her ASD earlier if you were higher value (something something Brad Pitt), so hit the gym harder too
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:29 AM
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So. Many. Things. Being clingy/needy, not being confident enough, not having game, not having a personality. Being socially inept. Women view men differently to how we view women. For us, looks trump alot of other factors and being an ugly girl is just having the worst luck because men won't even give her a second glance. For women, they look more holistically so sure they look at attractiveness but they also look at what I mentioned above. An ugly but confident jacked mf who has cool hobbies an…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:32 AM
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It's okay to hit her up if OP has other options and a plate is all she's ever going to be. Digging through trash more accurately applies to LTRs not plates. Shes a plate with a few cracks, spin it and let it break. When girls come back after a no contact period from your side they're usually very willing to please. I see no downside apart from OP catching feels
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:27 PM
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Skepta once said "No we don't kiss and tell They wanna know if I linked that girl No I don't, but her name rings a bell (bling)"
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 03:33 PM
14

That's exactly the dilemma I face. Whenever I'm looking for a platonic girl friend I filter so she has the same interests or some commonalities for the friendship to work. The thing is, if she's half as interesting I just end up fucking her and turn her into a plate anyway
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:25 PM
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Good stuff mate. I'd also add hobbies to this list. My hobbies are the only me-time I get now and they've left me fulfilled in a way that I'm able to derive happiness from within because of what I'm able to accomplish with practice and skill. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 06:53 PM
3

Especially now, you don't wanna act needy, say you made plans with someone else and you'll be busy with her so let's do this next week, if she's as into you as you thought, she'll still come, if she doesn't, plates cracked. Either way, it will be on your terms. saying yes now would cement in her mind that you don't have options and you'll be entering her frame If she's throws any attitude just be playful and not butt-hurt "you snooze, you lose babe" or something like that
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:11 PM
9

You showed your cards, turns out you don't have the straight flush she hoped you would. Soft next for now, if she asks, the plan's off as another 'friend' is flying in and you've made plans with her instead.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:33 PM
31

start slapping the gay guys ass to assert dominance criticism should always be in person. Next time don't berate your LTR in public, especially not in front of her "ShE cAn dO wHat sHe wAnts" liberal cuck friends. She'll start resenting you for it.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:36 PM
3

Bette you're such a loser, this is a place where people come to make changes to their lives. If you don't have it in you, leave
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:00 AM
11

stop looking at her boyfriends and look at yourself talking down on them. Trust me it doesn't make you look any better. They can fuck themselves and simp for all you care but you need to be better man than you are now. Next time make an effort to be nice to her cousin and try and game her, not too much just light tease to get on her good side. Go drinking with the both of them and get her to open up about herself. Use this info to use against her if she doesn't 'fall in line' to your charm.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 07:56 AM
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"The winner stands alone". But that doesn't mean you become a recluse, hang out with them from time to time. Keep on your mission and don't tell your friends what you're upto. Sometimes the grind is the life man
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:22 PM
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yeah just hit her up and say sum like how it's been too long and you two should meet up for some drinks and "tALk AboUt WhatS NeW aT The OffIcE". Go ahead and dunk this, champ
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:08 PM
27

purposely don't bring a mask when you go condom shopping next time and ask the cute blonde to help you buy some. Boom another FR.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 09:03 AM
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Agreed. But also do not be butt-hurt while telling her this. Check your ego and see if you're sounding like a Butt-hurt Beta with your replyn. Between you and your plate you're the rock, her waves of emotional annoyance and shit tests should not move you You should say how you don't like it when someone does something like that and withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:24 AM
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you're doing everything right. Keep doing what you're doing. She's afraid of losing you, crying is just a way to appeal to your emotional side If you want to give her a little comfort just say 'come here', hug her, kiss her forehead and change her mood. DO NOT ANSWER HER QUESTIONS. You want to remain a mystery to her. Don't DEER, DARE
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:00 PM
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lmaoo. Women crave closure, men don't. OP doesn't have to prove anything to anyone. If you're having to prove to someone that you have the upper hand, you don't really have the upper hand.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:35 PM
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The more feminist/liberal a woman is, the more she wants to be face-fucked /choked in the confines of the bedroom. You should generally stay away from PORN group of topics. No point bringing up politics with a girl you're trying to fuck with.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 04:19 PM
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haha leave him be. Man's on the spectrum. Solid post tho
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 03:53 AM
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Couldn't agree with you more. A high value man is one that can navigate any social situation to his advantage. He should be able to talk to the those nerds talking about AI with the same ease as talking to the jocks about that game last night. Never reveal your true self and always keep them guessing how you get along with/ know everyone
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:00 AM
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Keep escalating. Period sex isn't all bad plus women are extra horny this time of the month. escalate as usual. if she says no, say "ofcourse we're not having sex I'm wearing my chastity belt/ I'm on my periods too" with a sly smile, but escalate as usual. You're a grown man, a little blood shouldn't turn you off but whatever
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:38 PM
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you seem like very genuine person and I relate to you quite a bit even though I'm younger. Would be great to see you post on the main subreddit. Cheers
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:05 AM
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The way our society is structured is that this double standard doesn't really exist. Women are the gatekeepers of sex so it's difficult for men to have sex with multiple women. Thats why a lot of men boast about the number of women they have slept with. Because its difficult and requires game. For women its really fkn easy to get laid. They just have to go out and men will be hitting on them everywhere. Now with social media they don't even have to go out. They can't boast about how many men the…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:25 PM
2

it's always the two month mark
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:18 PM
1

freeze your sperm just in case. If at some point you do change your mind, that way YOU'LL be in control of when (and if) you want kids
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:03 PM
3

start making an exit strategy. Start gaming other girls get a couple of plates ready and then press that eject button
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:57 PM
2

this. when you're at your lowest, you can only go up.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:53 PM
2

you can lead the horse to the water but this pony just wants to victim puke. smh
/r/askTRP22/12/20 04:15 AM
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it's generally advisable to settle down with a woman who's a notch below your SMV. Having plated both high and low on the pole the insecure 6 treated me like a demi-god compared to a bitchy 8. You become a 10 and make a 9 your simp
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:48 PM
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rooting through garbage only applies to LTRs and not plates. OP should focus on himself, plates usually comeback when they see you winning in life. Plus when they do comeback you are in a position of power. I'd say OP keep grinding and let her come back if not, her loss
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:16 AM
3

"I just made your girl a sket"
/r/askTRP12/12/20 07:06 PM
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just giver her some sappy bs about how you don't like to jump into relationships and how you did that in the past and it didn't workout. Tell her you're open to the possibility of something serious because you can't stay away from her ass that long and then slap it (very important)
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:10 AM
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I'm just soo angy you disrespected me like that. Do not ever do that. fkn benhur thinking he's better than me huh. let me go to reddit and whine a little so people stroke my ego /s
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:51 AM
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was fwb with one of my closest friends, basically knew each other since 2nd grade, she crossed a line and now we dont talk anymore. It was hard to cut her off completely. If you think you can walk away if things get sour and are okay with losing her as a friend, go ahead it's gonna be an amazing ride. obligatory: AWALT
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:23 PM
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I understand the sentiment but what's wrong with wanting to spin a good plate longer? I want to get into an ltr at some point and it's kinda paradoxical that I know she'll have to be a plate for a long time for me to assess and look for hoe behaviour but her staying with me for a long time without any commitments from my side kinda makes her a hoe who chooses to be associated to me without strings attached. Most of my plates break when they realise I'm not giving them the security they want and …
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:29 AM
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why the fuck do you not have other options?? Instead of banging your friends sloppy seconds go out and fuck other bitches. TRP is not some revenge hate sex forum smh
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:10 PM
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masculine is about living by your own rules. that works for him, but you can go ahead and marry/ltr and 'risk' it all when she leaves/cheats
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:55 PM
5

exactly. be cordial but thats where you draw the line.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:28 PM
7

I simply say "maybe not for you" with s a smirk. Works the same way
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:56 AM
9

Sigma male is something I can really get behind. Have you read "No More Mr Red Pill"? chapter 24 talks about 'Sigma' and 'Ligma' the two sides of the same coin.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:13 AM
8

Read the sidebar. It's always better to start a new relationship than invest in a broken one. Focus on making yourself so great she wants to be with you and then keep her as your toy
/r/askTRP18/10/20 06:06 PM
1

Idk why this is downvoted. Her reward for cleaning and cooking and gifts is being in your company, getting your attention, which is your biggest power over a women. Smh y'all gotta see that AMS video
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:27 PM
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Username checks out
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:16 PM
6

Bruh what kind of women have you been with ??
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:49 PM
1

damn how is Brazil like? is it difficult if you don't know Portuguese? really appreciate if you share some experience from your time there
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:35 AM
4

don't do that. you'll look butt-hurt. Infact this is the perfect opportunity to put her in her place. You'll be coming into these sessions with more information establishing the teacher-student scenario. Ask her questions (or let her ask) when she looks clueless shut her down with your knowledge.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:27 AM
2

it has a frank ocean part for after-fuck cuddles. Appreciate the thought homie
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:35 PM
2

social media is a great pre-selection tool if used wisely. Same thing with entering a club with girls, it doesn't mean you need it to succeed with women. It's a tool. My only caveat is what you mentioned, it puts people in a negative feedback loop. I have an account but with 0 posts and decent followers ( also tagged in a few of my plates post). Works juuust fine for me
/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:33 PM
4

you're right people have ulterior motives but if your only goal to go across continents is just to get your dick wet you're dumb and you're chasing pussy. the only "personal gain" is getting your "numbers" high. Empires are made out of power/money not your n-count
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:55 AM
1

you did the right thing by replying late. You're a busy man with a busy life and you'll reply when you want to. But that didn't work, now don't complain what a bitch she is ( Women complain, Men do) Her reply or lack of, shouldn't affect you. If you're high value she'll come back as she did now, change your tactics and see if she doesn't go do some deadlifts
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:52 PM
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Reply when you want, you chose replying late now keep frame and dont be a bitch because your choice was wrong for this specific girl at this specific occasion. If you call her out you have zero chance. Carry on, if she's down she'll text again hopefully this time you'll know how long to wait
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:11 PM
4

I agree with the last line you said. I don't understand why TRP supports this super alpha only sly smile James Bond kinda thing. Being able to smile and laugh makes you inviting and has helped me a lot in networking events, it also shows you don't take things seriously ( even though you bench your body weight). That doesn't mean you don't create boundaries. It even makes the time you are actually serious seem almost dangerous.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:49 AM
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RP is merely a toolbox,stop looking for a definite answer. Some girls I met with just a couple of ear piercings were crazier than a nose ring/navel ring girl. Cut her off at any signs of disrespect and trust your gut above all else. "When there is doubt, there is no doubt"
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:01 PM
21

Is that quote from the shining?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:39 AM
11

Stealing that analogy
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:53 PM
4

Once you show anger the other person wins, he/she gets that reaction out of you that they were hoping for. Feel the anger, let it fuel you but never display it or make decisions under it
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:51 AM
2

They will spin each other's hamster while you sit back and enjoy
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:54 AM
2

I agree. On the same note don't buy something you know you can't afford. Cars mosly have a deprecating value. Keep that Ford and invest the rest. "Fuck living rich and dying poor"
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:52 AM
0

Shouldn't he just act like nothing happened and he couldn't care less? Admitting mistake would make her lash out at him more at his future mistakes. I'd say give her some time alone. hit her up like nothing happened she'll be zealous to please you and then reward her with some comfort. Positive reinforcement to the T
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:29 AM
2

Be unpredictable. Swing between no contact/left on read/no picking up calls to actually giving her attention. You want to be on her mind so she keeps working for those small amounts of attention you give her. Stay focused on your mission as always.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:39 PM
4

Isn't it just preselection but through social media? It can work if you've got the time/money/life for it. For me tho, I rather invest those in myself.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:24 AM
4

hahaha literally spit my drink.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:12 AM
1

My biggest problem is that they're so hard to find these 8-9s that I see on social media. My social group doesn't have any, I don't see any at the gym either or at the other hobbies I frequent. It all comes down to Tinder/nightgame/social circle game and they all seem a chip below the 8-9s I see around. Is cold approach that successful? EDIT: I don't have any photos on social media so there is no pre-selection either
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:57 AM
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I agree. Your mission should keep you busy so that when you tell her "I'll see you next week cause I'm busy" you're actually telling the truth.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:58 AM
1

Idk why this isn't higher.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:39 PM
1

He means once your mentality is truly abundant, every girl is gonna treat you like your ex did. You'll be the centre of their world. It looks like it's the other way round right now. Work on yourself. Make girls think that way about YOU
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:40 PM
1

I just say "Thanks, I get that a lot."
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:21 AM
1

What is trp's view on supplements like L-Arginine? I've heard they give a good pump, both for muscles and dick.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:24 AM
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Any other indicators of a woman who is ovulating? Apart from being really flirty?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 03:45 AM
7

I plated a girl while I visited a town a couple of months ago. She used to message me but I stopped because I didn't want to give her validation over the phone. I'm visiting town again this weekend. Any tips on re-initiating without looking needy?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 03:33 PM
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Tl:dr How do I tell a plate that that is all she'll ever be? One of my plates is getting a bit too obsessive. Messaging me like hell and calling me when she's drunk. I've got better things to do than listen to her drunk talk at 1 in the night. How do I explain to her that a plate is all she'll ever be? ( To add to the context, she stays 3hrs away from me so we don't meet every weekend)
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 04:11 AM
0

Mostly how I feel about her and the regular emotional tampon shit about how her periods are acting up etc. I change topics and she asks why I don't want to discuss these or did she wierd me out.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:42 AM
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My plate keeps pestering me to talk feelings, or how I'm 'afraid' to talk about feeling with her. I've called her out on it and she thinks it's awkward that I try to hide them. Whatever floats her boat. I wanted to know how the EC's here get around this thing?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:56 PM
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I'm new to trp and have noticed a lot of people advocating persuading and calling to women's emotions rather than logic. Is there some definitive guide for this or can someone shed some light on how I should go about it?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:09 AM
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