| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Question for women regarding online dating and too many matches | Question For Women | Lousykhakis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: women and men treat each other equally as bad | Lousykhakis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 12:00 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Best you’ll find is like the occasional singles run club event | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:22 AM |
| 9 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Post college that does not happen at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itHappened to my coworker. Poor guy. They have several kids together, thankfully all of them are almost adult aged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:54 AM |
| -1 | My only dates in the last 3 months have come from approaching. How can people say it doesn't work?We found Mr nitpick lol. Guy made a post about something that worked for him probably because a lot of online advice said to do the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.Respectfully I’m only a few years older than 25. Life isn’t all about women. Figure out something you’re interested in doing and tie it into a career job, do that to make enough money to get your own place, and start building your own life. Not trying to sound like a dick but it’s very easy to give up agency and succumb to giving up. That’s why a lot of people do it. At the end of the day, you’re the only one who goes to bed with your decisions and you’re the only one who has your own back. You’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.That's such a a poor assumption. There are lots of men who are dating to find someone to smile and laugh with and go out and do stuff with. Are there shitty guys? Duh, obviously. But there are shitty people everywhere and you can usually ask the right questions to get to know someone's intentions if their intentions already aren't semi obvious enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return."paying for the opportunity" is a great statement for describing what makes dating sometimes* feel so shitty. Like okay so I'm basically having to prove my worth while you get to just sit there and evaluate? I don't know if I like you all that much either lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleI don't know if I agree that they are avoiding apps. I would argue they are more likely on them passingly at least sometimes but are focused on career and independence first, which while I wouldn't call that a bad thing, does track pretty well with the complaints of low effort and difficulty of solid guys being unable to get dates. I would say the majority of single women are more or less unavailable barring an exceptional guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men Struggle"True game" relies on reciprocation. Even if men learn how to be smooth as hell and escalate well, its still a very low volume "game". I would actually argue it is more efficient to use apps because you know that worst case scenario, whomever you match with is at least (probably) single and has at least a slither of interest. You dont know that (single and to some extent interested as some are just polite and appreciate your gesture) if you are just chatting up some rando women somewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleBuddy if you think the majority of women on dating apps crave LTR's then I have a bridge to sell you lol. Majority of women are on apps for an ego boost and majority of men are apps are horned up. It brings out the worst in people lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleMost sensible reply. Whenever I have made bumble I always find good potential dates within the first 2 weeks and each time got anywhere from 50-100 likes within that time frame. After 2 weeks, I get maybe 1 like a day and it shows me the worst of my like stack as well as just worse people overall (lower effort profiles, less atrractive, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decencyBuddy all you can do is take responsibility for your own actions. Stop trying to project shitty guys actions on everyone's actions. Also, if you think that more men calling out shitty men would make a difference for our "collective reputation and image", you're quite wrong. People who choose to generalize on that broad of a scale would continue to do so even if the number of shitty behaving dudes out there was reduced to almost 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 02:57 AM |
| 5 | It’s not romantic or altruistic to desire people who simply have the most objectively good personality traits. It’s romantic when you like people with MATCHING personality traits.Without a doubt. Dont go seeking a financial equal as an engineer then swipe right on the cute girl with no college whos job is listed fast food manager | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:23 AM |
| 4 | It’s not romantic or altruistic to desire people who simply have the most objectively good personality traits. It’s romantic when you like people with MATCHING personality traits.Ironically I could see a lot of them having very complimentary relationships if they got to know each other. The orthodontist could be a hobbyist piano player and get along swimmingly with a musician, the lawyers know how shitty the legal system is anyway and would have comparable lifestyles (possibly) in regards to availability and understanding each others job demands, the pastry chef could also be very active in their free time and the personal trainer could have a sweet tooth etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Thats probably the most toxic thing with this sub is it is this extremely self defeating mindset that any man taken has to be king in at least 2 or 3 superficial areas. I dont think theres anything wrong with saying that having the advantages of those areas is highly beneficial, but acting like without it you will never get anywhere is just straight up delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:18 AM |
| 8 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.Lol have seen this first hand with a guy friend getting along nicely with a girl before one of her drunker friends starts absolutely losing her shit on him and shoving him and then another girl in the group that wasnt even stopping her leans in and is like "sorry guys she gets like this" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women?I understand your perspective. Thanks for answering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women?no shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women?I already replied to your post but I guess I feel the need to comment to this one too. A cute women who dresses modestly (and no not amish, I mean wears normal, non provocative clothing) is far more attractive in my eyes than the alternative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women?Not trying to sound like a dick, but if you're above the age of like 23 why would you be seeking a virgin woman? Im not in love with the idea of a women who has had crazy sexual experiences in high numbers and would not seek that, but I would be mildly turned off by the idea of dating a virgin. I think theres a very solid middle ground. For context, I am 27. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Is there any evidence that conservative men prefer liberal women?Contrary to your second to last paragraph, I am attracted to more modest women. Yes women who dress sexually will almost definitely get my eyes on them, but I am not going to want to approach them and always swipe left on them on bumble. I guess it depends on what a person wants. For me, I am trying to find my life partner, so I have tuned myself to act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:03 PM |
| – | People simply don't understand each other, and this impacts empathyHonestly I think it's that and also that pretty much everyone defaults to assuming people have malicious intentions rather than defaulting to trust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsNot at all what he was saying. If YOU are motivated by money to a point where it drives you, then take steps towards doing that. I could go on a long tangent of ways to do that, but you would get the point; strategize and take the steps to do that. To keep it from getting too lengthy, this goes beyond just "getting a job" but goes into a financial plan (including investments) in addition to having career goals/strategies to build wealth. Maybe you dont become a billionaire, but you would eventua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women?Funny example of this. I was with my old roommate who is a tall, good looking, very charismatic dude. Was flirting with an extremely attractive well dressed girl at this semi classy club who was definitely showing she was into him and they were quite a bit handsy with each other. He didn't push too much for her to come back with him but made a notion of it after some time and she ended up ultimately saying no but they texted on Instagram for awhile until fizzling out (no they didn't end up seein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Shoe lifts lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Question for women regarding online dating and too many matchesThat's shitty and annoying. Sorry that the apps allow them to do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Question for women regarding online dating and too many matchesI can definitely see how that would make things messier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: women and men treat each other equally as badBoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 12:16 AM |
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