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Do you go to church? Are there any single men there that you could talk to? If your faith is important to you, i think your local church would be the easiest place to find a partner
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:50 PM
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Lots of hymens tear in various ways. If you being a virgin is important to him and he is indeed mr right then he will believe you when you tell him you’re a virgin. Your first time will likely be awkward and you may or may not enjoy it. I didn’t I think sex gets more enjoyable with experience
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 04:29 PM
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Once you have a diagnosis, you can proceed with treatment. If there is no treatment available there will almost certainly be ways to lessen the symptoms and support your immune system day to day If it is incurable you will need to disclose this to partners and early. There are dating apps specifically for people with certain STIs such as herpes
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 02:55 AM
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when it comes to decisions like this i ask him to give me 2 options that he likes and i’ll pick from them or i offer him what i’m thinking and ask him to pick i don’t often get decision fatigue so it hasn’t been that much of an issue for us yet and this makes sure both of us are happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 03:31 AM
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i grew up in a traditional home with parents that demonstrated those values but supported me doing whatever feminist bs i wanted i realized i was very miserable competing with guys i was dating. i want to be taken care of and i want to create a safe home for my partner to come back to.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 03:25 PM
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Have you tried practicing active listening? I find that I will sometimes listen just so I can find an opportunity to share my own experience rather than holding space for the other person. It is very hard to do regularly but helps you form good bonds with people. Alternatively - therapy
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 04:57 AM
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A good father figure wouldnt just do everything for you or be perfect but rather they would support and empower you to navigate situations on your own. Perhaps since you haven’t been close to any older men who have pure intentions for you ( like a father or brother) you’ve put them on a pedestal and expect they will be perfect. Men are just humans at the end of the day and finding the ones that care for us is hard but worth it. Searching for that masculine energy is totally natural and normal. H…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 04:19 PM
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is a hall pass him getting to sleep with other women while married to you? If you want to travel, you should. If he can’t go with you, go with a friend. I have many female friends that travel without their husbands and are stay at home wives. It doesn’t always have to be expensive. It can be a day trip to a nearby city or a weekend to a driving destination. You can also use google flights to find cheap airfare and stay in hostels. I did 20 days in europe for 3500 CAD a couple years ago. It’s imp…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/22 01:46 PM
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i met a lovely nice man who also had missing teeth. He had an excellent career and was cute with his mouth closed. It turned out a few years prior he was smoking a lot and didn’t brush his teeth so they fell out. This was a deal breaker for me A friend of mine is now in a LTR with a man who lost teeth as a result of a hockey fight. I think it depends on the reason and if it’s a deal breaker for you. If it’s bothering you now after a month of dating it’ll likely get worse
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/22 11:26 PM
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I think my experience differs because I work for a large tech company. I say this because in my experience when you’re at a startup people are looking more closely at each hire when it comes to funding rounds. Here’s some of the feedback I’ve heard after interviews: Their accent is hard to understand ( You wanted a bilingual candidate, just listen closer) kids could be heard in the background, how unprofessional ( Your role is fully remote, kids don’t disappear between 9-5) Timezones wouldn’t wo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/22 03:28 PM
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I’d like to offer some insight as a female hiring manager in engineering tech. These programs aim to increase the recruitment pool for new roles but despite my company also having DEI programs my entire engineering team is entirely a certain demographic. There are many male POC who would be extremely qualified for these roles a but bias works against them. Ive been on numerous hiring panels and seen people get excluded for ridiculous things and in the end we hire a candidate that looks like ever…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/22 02:56 PM
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dump her and go solo better to have some alone time to reflect and get ready to date again than to feel poorly about her eyeing other men
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 10:28 PM
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a man who beats you is not a HVM. it doesn’t matter how tall or rich or ‘ otherwise good’ he may seem. take the time to heal, go to therapy and work on yourself
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 03:45 AM
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hairstyling is a career that requires an apprenticeship and many hours of education that can be pricy too becoming a teacher is a degree plus a two year college program pilates is just a course if cost and time are a factor for you then you’ll need to do more research into what the requirements where you live are and if there’s student assistance available. for example if you are wanting to becoming a personal support worker ( feminine career in my opinion since you’re caring for others) you wil…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 01:40 PM
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then why comment
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 05:29 AM
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i think you grew attached to the idea of this man but you didn’t even date so you don’t really know what he’s like if being a non smoker is a non negotiable for you then you need to remind yourself of that. i do think its possible to be a casual smoker and personally it’s not a deal breaker for me but i’m also south asian and i know how big of a deal it is in india you just have to continue having him blocked and go on the matrimonial site again and talk to other men.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:19 AM
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try and find youtubers with your features like searching for feminine makeup for brown eyes or curling tutorial for long hair
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/22 05:19 AM
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they may be in a low cost of living area or country 40k in an american city is nothing vs 40k in a rural community is good
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 04:47 AM
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i see where you’re coming from but tea often has caffeine in it. the hottest drink on a date is just water !!!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/22 04:06 AM
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I also take a lot of pride in my food but sometimes we just need a break. Take a couple meals off and either get takeout or ask your spouse to cook.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 06:09 PM
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Do you have money to throw at this? If yes, hire a personal trainer, dermatologist, esthetician, dietician and stylist If you don’t have money to throw at this… Start working out Eat better, regular nutritious meals with lots of water. Cut back on alcohol Find a good skincare routine. you’re already using gentle products, see if you can get a prescription for a retinol. Find out what your body type is and start dressing for it. You can still take care of yourself and I think men will find that a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 09:10 PM
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I love wearing trousers and I think there’s definitely flattering ones you can get that are super feminine I would keep the ones you have till you’ve purchased skirts or dresses to replace them
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 06:42 PM
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My mother has awful anxiety and is also morbidly obese I find it challenging to spend extended periods of time with my mom as well One thing I’m working on is learning to forgive her. I genuinely believe she tries her best and although I wish her best was better, this is what I have. I can either continue to feel sad about what could have been or just accept this relationship for what it is and move on
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/21 01:05 AM
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If it dies that’s ok! Just double tap his last message and see if he follows you!!! It’s not final if you don’t talk for a while. Just checkin once in a while
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 07:09 PM
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I’ve made a lot of friends through Instagram. If you have mutuals you could ask them about him and they’ll likely convey interest. Alternatively, if he posts a story you can reply. I do this often. For example, a guy I like went on a beautiful walk yesterday and was posting about it so I replied and said wow! looks amazing. Where is this? And we started chatting If he follows you, you could add him to your close friends once you’ve gotten to know him I think it’s fine for a woman to initiate the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 04:39 PM
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Ontario Canada. Checkout the sunshine list, many teachers in elementary schools making 6 figures
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/21 04:16 PM
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You’re VERY young and so early in your journey! I think I’m wanting to have a backup job is great. Depending on your location teachers can make over 6 figures in the public sector. My friends mother teaches 3rd grade and over 7 years is making over 110 k The friends thing wouldn’t bother me, I think it’s good that he doesn’t want to just smoke it but would rather be active
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/21 05:11 AM
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I have friends that are nannies and I would not want to employ one for my future children. I’m in tech so I plan to have flexible working hours while the children are young with the option of a good daycare so they can be socialized. From the stories I’ve heard from my nanny friends, there’s constantly disagreements between them and the employer. Additionally, I want to be the one that’s the primary care provider for our children. It would break my heart for one of them to cry out for their nann…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 05:45 AM
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Find an agency that specializes in the field you’re in. For example if you’re in the USA and in IT, TekSystems Send them your resume and they’ll find roles for you. Everyone I know that does this makes at least 100/ hour usd plus tax and minimum 40/ week and remote work. Alternatively if you have network connections you can just offer your skill set and rate and see if they’re down to hire you Happy to chat more!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 06:29 AM
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I would go for the second one because from what I’ve heard Switzerland isn’t that friendly to immigrants. Additionally, sexual compatibility is very important
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/21 09:02 PM
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I have He is treating her like a booty call not a potential girlfriend. She shouldn’t drop anything for him or cancel plans with friends. Even the lowest value woman shouldn’t put up with being treated like this.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 07:25 PM
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I think your friends are shitty. I take RPW with a grain of salt btw But If you’re friends with people that are so shallow that they exclude you because of your weight why are you friends with them? Attractiveness isn’t JUST weight. Yes being morbidly obese isn’t sexy but someone’s personality, the way they dress, their interests are what make them desirable. Many women on this sub talk about mindset changing and developing hobbies so you’re a well rounded person. I am not sure why you’re being …
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 06:16 PM
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Are they all coupled up and you’re single? I’m single and my friends all have boyfriends. They still invite me out to events but I know that there are also couple only events and I’m okay with not going
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 05:38 PM
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I do because I’m getting laser hair removal done. I only have blonde peach fuzz but I find that my makeup goes on smoother and my face looks more defined when I’ve shaved. I use the cheap face razors from Amazon and mostly just do my sideburns. Once I forgot to before a date and when we were making out afterwards he was like wow you’re so soft here.... never forgot to shave again after that LOL
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 06:42 PM
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