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| 4 | Will I ever get a girlfriend?I was afraid of dating my now husband (my first boyfriend at 27), because he wasn't 100% my type. My type was tall, healthy, muscular and European. My husband was nearly the same height as me, didn't like to work out, had a pudgy belly and Asian. We clicked so well as friends within a few months, and he knew my type before he hesitantly confessed his feelings for me. I've liked other guys (mainly European), but they never went anywhere because I didn't feel fully comfortable to be myself. With m… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 01:00 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I threw away a chance with a great girl because of Red PillYou would have broken up or separated anyways, because that isn't "you", unless you opened up vulnerably and said that it wasn't "me" and she understood and forgave you. If you kept up with that false self, you would have broken up because you wouldn't be able to keep up with that image in the long term. There are some men who are naturally players, and that's attractive to some women (I liked one, but nothing came out of it because I didn't feel comfortable and my father has treated me with lot… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual menI know that unfair feeling because I've been in that similar dynamic with my ex-best friend, where she always complained about life and I became her emotional rock for 8+ years. And then when I broke down and wanted some emotional support, she belittled me for expressing my emotions to her. I had to do a great deal of healing and self-reflection after that event. Regarding the negative vibes, as long as a woman is attractive and seems like the type to do one night stands, men will be attracted t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/21 01:06 PM |
| 3 | You guys need to self improve or do individual women have certain preferences for individual menFor me, it's the first impression that the guy gives when I first meet him, not when he's trying to impress others with his body language and the words he says, but energetically. If you have a negative mindset about self-love, women, love, relationships, etc, you give out a vibe that some women can find attractive or repelling. Different women like different men, based on how the woman was raised and conditioned. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/21 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Question for Females, do you actually place men in Alpha & Beta boxes ?I don't give any thought to the terms alpha and beta, because every male is unique. What I do tend to think about is "is this man more masculine or feminine to me?" and "am I attracted to him?". I've been intensely attracted to guys who are extroverted with many friends and are bossy and guys who are introverted with a few close friends and are thoughtful, quiet and gentle. What really catches my heart is when men show an emotionally vulnerable side to them in the form of shyness and carefulness… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/20 10:24 PM |
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