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we should hang out again, how can we make that happen? Awesome line leading into a number close. Congrats on your night out!
/r/seduction22/12/10 06:44 AM
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Meet up for morning coffee, it's cheaper than lunch. If you're not feeling it in person as you thought you did over emails, no biggie, it's just coffee. But if things are going really good, keep the date going till lunch and pick up the tab. That way you can both discuss means of re-payment later on.
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:43 AM
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Clubs, concerts, bookstores, the mall, and college parties to name a few. Basically, anywhere you can see and approach women.
/r/seduction22/12/10 02:48 AM
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You'll know when you escalate. Genuine interest, you'll be able to close. Just looking for attention, you won't.
/r/seduction22/12/10 02:12 AM
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Holy shit, that's how you do it. I hope a lot of guys out there who are just starting out read this FR and deconstruct it because it's full of alpha seduction goodness. Outstanding job, my friend!
/r/seduction10/12/10 05:31 AM
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DiCarlo Kino ladder. Don't come off as too needy wanting to f-close. If you can f-close, cool. If you can't, no biggie. Just make sure to follow up next time.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:25 AM
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Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own. If it helps you to achieve your goals - whether it's to bang extra chicks, find the right one for a LTR or to be a better version of yourself - then more power to you.
/r/seduction03/12/10 03:23 AM
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Increase your social circle. Everyone you meet, get to know them better, hang out with them. They got interesting hobbies? Well, join them too. The larger you've social circle, the more you'll be getting out and meeting people. Eventually, you'll head into parties and get-togethers, and be introduced to friends of friends, which perhaps then you'll find what you're looking for.
/r/seduction01/12/10 07:28 AM
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Dude, they just gave you an easy open. Take advantage of it.
/r/seduction01/12/10 07:19 AM
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You apologise without saying you're sorry. Acknowledge she feels bad and make it up to her with either a sensual message or make up sex. If it's a misunderstanding or you were late for the 100th time again, correct that behavior so she doesn't call you out on it again. If there's a valid reason for messing up, tell her it and if she still wants to make an issue out of it, that's on her. As for you, you moved on, cause there's no point of re-addressing it. This is demonstrating your solid frame. …
/r/seduction30/11/10 11:51 PM
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Are you an alpha in other aspects of the relationship outside of sex? When you do something she doesn't like and she gets into an argument with you, do you say sorry and bend over backwards to work things out? Or do you confirm it, opt to make her feel better on your terms, and ignore her or change the topic when she won't drop the subject? Being alpha doesn't just end at the bedroom nor should it end long after the seduction phase is over and the LTR begins. You want a kiss from her, tell her s…
/r/seduction30/11/10 07:35 AM
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If she's there when you go, cool, work your magic. If she's not, no biggie, go back some other time. Just don't spend all your free time trying to make it work with this one girl. Good luck.
/r/seduction30/11/10 04:40 AM
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Next time you see her touch back on that RvsB hoodie if she isn't wearing it again. Then tell her you know she's working and you want to know what time she gets off so you can ask her out. You could also hand her a card saying the same thing, that way you don't put her on the spot with her co-workers standing by.
/r/seduction30/11/10 04:25 AM
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Awesome. And it's true, most guys don't value themselves enough. If they did, they'd probably be able to course correct more often, and not feel bad about it, and get rid of their self-limiting behavior.
/r/seduction27/11/10 06:34 AM
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"Ping" her. That's to send out a low investment message that's interesting. This is merely to touch base and gives a chance for things to open up. It shouldn't be a question, if it was and she doesn't reply back then you're on the short end of things (though it is a clear indication of non-interest on her part and a sure sign to move on). Also if you do proceed to engage her via phone/text/fb remember they are only a means of escalating things to a higher level of interaction. Meeting her in per…
/r/seduction25/11/10 06:03 AM
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Bond with her emotionally, leave her spent and extremely satisfied sexually, and, above all, don't be afraid to lose her. Even if she was in your life or not, be absurdly confident either way.
/r/seduction25/11/10 05:45 AM
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Agreed. Although one of my friends would be concidered a HB10 by most people, she used to be a model, and she breaks the mold. She's a blast to be with - super friendly, hardcore drinker, tons of fun. Then again she is an Aussie.
/r/seduction25/11/10 02:32 AM
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Here's a guide to facebook game, and text game, which I'm sure could easily be applied to okcupid. The main thing you want to keep in mind is that texting, facebook, email, okcupid are just means of escalating things into a higher level of interaction. You can't technically "game" online or with text like you do in the field. Interaction on that level should be kept to a minimum. Any message you send also shouldn't leave you waiting 2 hours for her to reply. Just keep things short, simple and fu…
/r/seduction24/11/10 01:50 AM
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Teasing negs work well. If they're done right, they can set up a playful mood for the rest of the night. I used "whoa, my grandma has the same shoes" on a HB9 this past friday. After that it was non-stop teasing. Made her laugh, got tons of kino. Number closed.
/r/seduction22/11/10 03:58 AM
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Email, texting and phone calls should be used as means of escalating things to a higher level of interaction. Not much you can do out of country except say "hey, what's up?" Don't put out an email that reads, "hey I really wanna take you out but I'm out of the country, hope you don't mind waiting around for me till I get back" or carries that type of tone. Since she's interested in you, might be best to get in contact with her a week or so before you get back. Then set up a get-together over dri…
/r/seduction22/11/10 03:40 AM
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Find someway to get over to her town. Text her as a means to escalate the interaction, "Hey, gonna be in your area (day and time), wanna grab drinks?" She responds positively, you're good to go. She doesn't, save it for next time. She flakes a second time, move on.
/r/seduction17/11/10 02:46 AM
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Don't think too much about it or you'll validate it as a reason to stop yourself short each time you're out. You have to build enough comfort with a girl to f-close and heading over to her place is usually a better deal, it's on her turf, her domain, and if you're there - clearly, you're there for a reason. Don't worry about the details regarding the end goal, worry about putting in the work to get there.
/r/seduction17/11/10 02:32 AM
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Here ya go - text game: how to improve
/r/seduction16/11/10 02:56 AM
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Dude, relax and have fun. She's definitely interested in you. Hang out at the mall, give a false time constraint that way if you feel like things aren't going well, you can leave. However, if things are going good - and I think they will - then you can "cancel" your plans and grab some drinks or something to eat with her.
/r/seduction15/11/10 06:11 AM
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I've always thought to keep texts short, move on if they don't get back to you in time, and to have a text ratio of 3:2 (hers to mine). But it never occurred to me to think of texting as a means of escalation. Until now. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/11/10 12:48 AM
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This past Halloween, the girl I took out to a costume party was wearing a Supergirl outfit that was one size too small. I said to her with a good once over and a smile, "Mmm, you definitely make that oufit work." I didn't say to her, "I think your suit is too small," while conveying my desire for her through body language.
/r/seduction12/11/10 04:59 AM
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I think you've got juggler's definition a bit wrong. The opposite of sarcasm is flattery or praise. When you flirt, no need to play mind games, just be upfront about it.
/r/seduction12/11/10 04:43 AM
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Dude, even the guys who make hooking up look easy have hours and hours of rejection under their belt. Success comes only if you don't give up after failing a million times. Keep doing what you're doing. It does get easier. Next time, don't think, just ask.
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:28 AM
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Not so much seduction in the bed, because, hey, you already got to f-close. What you're looking for is technique tips to improve in bed. There's r/sex, try browsing there. Here's a few things I like to do: like gaming a girl, in time, escalate tons and tons of foreplay (if you do it right she'll be practically begging for it) kiss every inch of her skin and use slow lingering touches avoid the places you want to go (in other words tease her) ask if she wants it, if she does deny her for a few mi…
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:17 AM
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Nice! It's always great to read about someone with zero game, have them find seddit, apply the wealth of knowledge found here and finally see it pay off. And this is just the start of their journey. Oh, and the coming over from digg to reddit is pretty neat too.
/r/seduction09/10/10 12:14 AM
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I think it's too early for a full stop. For instance: first you plan on asking her out for drinks, then follow it up with a meal at your place to close. If during the course of the date things aren't going in the direction you want it to go, following it up with some home cooked stir fry would totally lead you into the friendzone. So in that case it'd be time for a full stop. Right now, everything is going pretty good with the kino and body language. But you definitely have to escalate things fo…
/r/seduction08/10/10 02:57 AM
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The guy's probably not used to approaching women on a bus. I mean, you're on a bus and most times you'll be thinking about getting to work or getting home and not hooking up. Then again, that's a great way to make an impression because it catches people off guard. So yeah, you totally need to just walk up to him and make the first move. Metallicirony's got the right idea with just getting close and saying hi, but if that's still not something you're comfortable doing there's always the lock-in g…
/r/seduction07/10/10 05:56 AM
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There will be more opportunities to meet women (parties, study groups, around campus) and it's a good place to refine your game (work your approaches and openers). Just make lots of friends and increase your social circle. Keep the girl that gets away as a friend, you can always use them as another wing.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:57 AM
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What you did right: Asked out a girl Ignored her after she flaked out on you What you did wrong: Lost your composure, which led you to write a tell-all letter even after months of no communication with her - that's a double wammy For the future: Any girl/woman that pulls out of a date and does not reschedule with you isn't worth your time If something doesn't turn out your way, don't let it affect your frame - onward to bigger and better things, my friend College will be a completely different e…
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:37 AM
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You sound exactly like me in high school except that I was the skinny guy. Before you can get a girl, you need to work on yourself. Become the best version of yourself - pursue your interests, learn about new things, set out goals for yourself and accomplish them. Remember, if you didn't get what you wanted, you'll get experience. Exercise and get fit - scientifically proven to improve your health and mood, it's probably also the easiest way to boost your confidence. Read as much about game as p…
/r/seduction28/09/10 01:27 AM
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This was my problem too. I still have sweaty palms, but it's totally not the issue it once was. It rarely shows up now. Solved my problem the low cost way, worked construction during summers in high school up until early on in college. Somehow working with my hands on a daily basis toughened them up. Now I just climb rope and do sledgehammer training to keep my hands rough. Oh, also, because my hands are sweaty, they also give off a lot of heat. When they're not sweating, they're warm to the tou…
/r/seduction28/09/10 01:03 AM
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After I graduated and began working, I actually went out more because I had the time and money to do so, but this was way before I found Game so my social life still wasn't exactly what I wanted it to be. I agree pretty much with psykocrime, women are everywhere, you just aren't used to approaching them in areas outside of your previous experience. I mean, if you've only pursued women in parties at night, you'll have to get into the mindset that you should be ready to approach at anytime and any…
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:55 AM
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Do something physical outside of work like sports, exercise or martial arts. Take out your frustrations then. Also learn that if it doesn't make you happier, healthier or better in life then let that shit go. It's like approaching a set, opening then immediately crashing and burning hard. You can be all FUCK THIS FUCKING SHIT! Or you can be calm and collected, look past it, laugh at it, not make it that big of a deal and move on. Having a solid frame like that enables you to take on any situatio…
/r/seduction20/07/10 02:28 AM
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Since you're not comfortable with continuing the conversation after you open, I suggest approaching women (like at a mall or book store) and talking to them about anything just for the sake of getting comfortable. Do this many times. Eventually, you'll log in enough time and soon you'll find it very easy to approach anyone and start up a conversation. Also if you're concerned with bothering her at work, don't be. Unless you're really preventing her from getting any work done, there's no reason w…
/r/seduction21/06/10 07:37 AM
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That's probably it. Since you're going away for college your contact with her will be cut down. If it isn't, it should be. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Plus you are at college to learn and grow. You're there to experience new things and meet new people. Do exactly that. Go out, make new friends, and hang out. Make for yourself a healthy and positive social life. So when you do talk to her/get in touch/meet up with her again, she's going to see a man who is active and friendly, complete w…
/r/seduction21/06/10 07:22 AM
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Awesome! Keep it up, it gets better from here!
/r/seduction18/06/10 03:30 AM
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Use it as a DHV when you're in karaoke bars. Approach and open, steer the conversation towards singing, down play your ability. Take her for a spin when you finally do sing. If you're feeling bold, try singing for another party or a group of girls in the bar, or maybe even for the entire bar. If you can bring the house down, I guarantee picking up girl will be as easy as a smile and kino. You could also use it as a follow up. Set it up so it'll be just you and the girl and that panty-dropping vo…
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:49 AM
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The bad thing about wild parties is that they're terrible for any kind of conversation so if your strong suit is chatting then you're outta luck, especially on the dance floor. Your best bet would be to isolate them or approach at a more quiet location in the party like where they serve the drinks or a place to cool down (outside). As for your dance class, look into hip hop, salsa and/or swing for lessons. Hip hop moves are the default movement for the majority of dance clubs. Salsa and/or swing…
/r/seduction04/06/10 06:01 AM
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First thing, get out of your head and get a better handle on your frame. She's older. She's finished with college. So what? Remember, she's just a girl and she, like everyone else, just wants someone to make her feel wanted and special. IOIs are easy to spot. Some of them include: Smiling Making eye contact and keeping it Fixing herself (hair, clothing, her posture) around you Instigating kino "Intruding" on your personal space The bad thing is since you'll be taking dancing lessons, the chances…
/r/seduction04/06/10 05:33 AM
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Flirting is like starting any other type of exercise. If you haven't done it before, it will be hard at first and the process will need to be repeated over and over until results can be seen. It's the same like dealing with AA, if you haven't approached before it's hard the first time around and eventually gets easier as the amount of times you approach women increases. One way of going at it is keeping the conversation light, the topics simple. If you get a fluffy question pose it back to them,…
/r/seduction03/06/10 06:27 AM
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Dude, she likes you. Of course she's gonna go for it. Better clean up that room of yours.
/r/seduction01/06/10 02:51 AM
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