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| 65 | Just trying to manifest these vibes as much as possibleJust watched this episode last week and fucking LOVED it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 32 | Cry me a river.What’s with men getting hung up on exes that have since married? 😆. Also, this script appears to have been taken directly from several of my exes. Thank god I’ve grown up since then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Movie rec: “Spinster” on Amazon primeHadn’t heard about it before watching the trailer, and immediately played the movie. I. Freaking. Love. It! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:35 AM |
| 2 | How to handle fuckbois & LVMsUgh, I used to pride myself in maintaining friendships with exes, even the shitty ones. I felt like it was a badge of honor or something. Now, I stay in contact with 2 who are true friends (we genuinely care for one another, cheer each other on as we navigate life - talk very infrequently, but the friendship survives like my other close relationships with others after I’ve moved or they have). It took me reading through Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody to start piecing it together, and then ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to handle fuckbois & LVMsI’ve changed them to Do Not Answer and blocked them. The downside is I now have 30ish phone numbers I’ve collected over the years that end up with that contact name. I found creating a google number helpful, especially with OLD (which I’m so over, btw). Easy enough to block them, not associated with any other profiles or accounts (e.g. FB, LinkedIn). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 23 | What to do when you attract emotionally unavailable men but you are emotionally available and readyStay strong and cut them off as soon as you realize they’re wasting your time. Some of them honestly have no idea they’re lv, while others string you along purposefully because they want something to you. Keep living your best life, and let these encounters roll off your back. HVW attract LVM be nature of being HV! Keep putting yourself out there as long as it feels right. Pull back when you need a break, and then pick it up when it feels right again. You will eventually meet him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:51 AM |
| 18 | First date tomorrow night. He has been perusing and taking the lead. Off to a good startOmg, and he talks on the phone instead of just texts? Swoon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:33 AM |
| 45 | First date tomorrow night. He has been perusing and taking the lead. Off to a good startI love when a guy takes some info I give him and tells me he’ll brainstorm a few options. Relieves me of the pressure of selecting, and shows me he’s interested by taking initiative. I hope you have a great date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:14 AM |
| 13 | #leavetheBSin2019I left my Bryan back in 2018. Good for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 03:32 AM |
| 23 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?The hat thing, or worse - they never smile or show their teeth in their photos. Noooooope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:35 AM |
| 2 | It really do be like that...Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 23 | Girls need to be taught this from such an early ageIf only I had been told this in my preteens, so I’d be prepared for the guys lame excuses. I knew blue balls weren’t a medical condition, and I knew they didn’t have to cum every day or they’d have issues...but I didn’t know not to be scared of disappointing him, that it wasn’t my job to entertain him, and the best one - if he displays any of this behavior, he’s manipulative and run - solid fucking gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:20 AM |
| 45 | A.men!Or stating anything as: “I just...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 01:23 AM |
| 3 | FR too much too soonFemale here. I agree - getting a number through a mutual friend is generally a creepy move. My friends would all reach out to me and ask first before giving out my number, but not everyone thinks it through. It gets a bit challenging if you met randomly, or don’t have the same social circles. Look for opportunities to meet up again, but don’t try to force them to happen (e.g. don’t invite yourself to hang out with people you normally don’t, or keep phoning/texting to find out if she’ll be there … | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Quick and dirty reminderThat’s an interesting take, thank you! | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 03:30 AM |
| 42 | Quick and dirty reminderClarification needed: “...fucking with me” - this usually means someone is “messing with you” or “screwing you around.” I’m not clear whether that’s how you intended the statement, but based on your your comment about the quote, I’m thinking you maybe have meant “fucking you.” Thank you! | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 12:45 AM |
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