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| – | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Men can go to hell. The world will be much nicer and safer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 09:08 PM |
| – | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Better late than never. Go to Afghanistan to get a girl you can afford babe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Women don't have to go anywhere to become westernized. Source I'm from Vietnam and my mom no longer put up with my dad in her 50s. Attractive women in my country have no problem out earning men. I can't wait for their standards to rise to the western level because men suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:12 PM |
| 2 | What’s a fair exchange when one partner is the homemaker and the other provides financially?It depends on the couple. My handsome and wealthy husband thinks it's more than fair to help me with chores. I don't think it's fair that I'm a SAHW but he insists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Wow such a long list of countries out of at least 195. I'm so worried. If anything women in developing countries will turn more and more western, then ppbs have nowhere to go. Sad. Also have you seen the trend, we need men less and less with the inventions of machines, tech, AI, and robotics. For once, men have to be desirable as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | There actually are government mandated solutions to datingWhat people often pick the best for themselves. The chance of you being the best candidate in the room of 100 is a lot lower than say in a room of 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | There actually are government mandated solutions to datingWomen are on our phones to avoid eye contact with undesirable men. They don't magically become more desirable if we have to look at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | There actually are government mandated solutions to datingThe women you actually want to date (pretty fit intelligent) won't need any of this. Enjoy the fat ugly or disabled women who desperately want to be with you for your "status and money". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:21 PM |
| – | What do women expect from the below 60%of guys?They do. I see average women with average men out and about in my town ALL the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Why should men in developing nations support excessive women rights?No it doesn't. Wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areWe're in high demand everywhere we do. That's the fact! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areWe don't think, we know hon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areI'm not a feminist. I love it when my husband objectifies me. Thanks God for gender roles, so I can just be a SAHW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 0 | I think women are worst in bed then men areYes we don't need games, we're the prize. Just beauty, aura, and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areWe don't chase, we attract. That's my game and it got me married to a handsome wealthy husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 07:31 PM |
| 0 | I think women are worst in bed then men areNah they just don't think you're cute. That's all. I've seen them around cute boys. They went nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 07:18 PM |
| 0 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsThis is so cringe. I'm a SAHW and my wealthy husband never said such things. He said it was his honor to save me from my corporate job, and that everything he makes is ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:58 AM |
| 9 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsThen don't do it. What is society going do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menMost people marry within their social economics. Sure there might be outliers but no one I know/follow is punching above or below. The wives who barely tolerate their husbands, believe it or not, are within his social economics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 05:01 PM |
| 6 | What's gonna happen to dating and marriages in coming years ?Just because people didn't marry immediately doesn't mean they were whoring around in their 20s and contact rich guys in his 30s. Like I said no one I know did that. A man judges us for something we didn't do and disagree with, so nothing new. I got married at 26. Logically, rich men are rare, as they should be. So how can all women contact them for a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:53 AM |
| 7 | What's gonna happen to dating and marriages in coming years ?Two dated in school and married when they graduated. Two met their men at work, dated for a couple years then got married. One met her man online and got married quite fast, less than a year I would say. I myself met my man at work and got married after 3.5 years because we are both actuaries and needed to pass these damn certifications for work. Idk anyone contacting guys when he's successful. Tbh, there are not a lot of successful single guys. We work in a high paying STEM field and many of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:22 AM |
| 7 | What's gonna happen to dating and marriages in coming years ?You don't know all women or maybe that's just who you hang with. All my 5 close friends marry guys they either met at school or work in their early or mid 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Women, if you were a supreme Empress with absolute power, what would your dating/romance/sexual strategy look like?Women offer nothing but are still in high demand wherever they go? This sub partly exists because there is not enough supply of women for all the men. Top women offer a lot more than just sex and there are not enough of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | When men "get sexual too quickly" with you, that means they don't view you as relationship material.Average and below men get sexual too quickly too believe or not. All men want it. I think it's up to the women to prove that they can offer a lot more than just sex. That will set some women apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Men arent fighting a war we are just fighting back against MisandryIs it true thou? I see lots of average men with average women everyday when I'm out and about. Most people I see around town are couple up. I live in a suburb so Idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a beta male worksThat will change soon. Don't worry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Women want socialism in professional life and capitalism in personal livesMost women will lower their quality of lives before they have to deal with you. How undesirable are you that you think money is the only thing women should want to be with you 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Women want socialism in professional life and capitalism in personal livesGreat. The women you actually want to date are not hurting 1 iota. It's extremely easy to get jobs as a young, fit and attractive woman. No man and no government needed. Also yay, we don't have to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.We openly talk about this kind of stuff. He's secured and proud of the position he is in. If women give nothing, why are we ALWAYS in high demand everywhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.And top men actually want to be "taken advantage" of. It's a win-win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 01:55 AM |
| 3 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?How? Like by what incentives or propaganda? You can run for president if you have a solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:40 PM |
| 3 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?How do we fix fertility in the developed countries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:33 PM |
| 2 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?Less crowded is quite enjoyable everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:26 PM |
| 3 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?Right. But if they improve their economies then their women no longer want to have kids. So what should they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.Can't be more insecure than a guy wanting to nip every man sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.Sure sure sure. Just let Leo DiCaprio choose. I ask my 6'3, $325k income husband and he said no. He's fully educated, probably more than most. Other men can go ahead with the nipping thou. We see no problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.Top men actually want to be "taken advantage" of. They're probably fine if most men like you nip your drive. The world is competitive enough. But like I said, let them choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.How about you let each man decide for themselves. Despite what you said, I bet most men don't want to nip their drives. Does that sit well with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.I'm not but my husband is. He is tall smart and handsome (and kind and sweet and loyal). So please spare him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.Nooooo just nip yours. Leave the top men alone. They actually want to be "exploited". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:09 AM |
| 3 | What have been negative outcomes for society from feminism in your eyes?Mod said she won't ban you. So go ahead let's hear your responses to your own question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Why are women allowed to be entitled and manipulative and transactional towards men they label as "nice guys"?You ALWAYS have the choice. We're not apes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.So you want to nip other male sex drives to make sex easier for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many modern TV shows and movies include anti-male themes? Why is it socially acceptable for today’s media to portray men so negatively?What should/could men do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many modern TV shows and movies include anti-male themes? Why is it socially acceptable for today’s media to portray men so negatively?My husband watched Barbie four times and loved it. Growing up in a third world country, I had zero connection to barbie and was done with the movie the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do I rarely find men to desire to be stay at home fathers for the purpose of raising their children?Lololol then don't have kids. I've seen many like you who have NOTHING going on for them in life, so they think having kids will give them status and the right to preach shit like your post and comments. Oh wait, you don't even have kids yet to be able to preach nonsense shit like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.Lolololol get a grip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Did becoming high status actually help?Where do you find quality women after school? Social media? I agree with you that status is the most important thing, more than look, vibe or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Men don’t have low standards; women are just hotter than themFor me it's being beautiful makes me feel beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?They can't be fuck boys with me or my life right now wouldn't be a fairy tale 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?Cuz you never experience it. It's ok :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?As a conventionally attractive woman, it happens to me many times in real time. My life right now is a Disney movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?No need to fix anything for me. As a conventionally attractive woman, I stand by what I say. I tend to stay away from men I'm instantly attracted to as they're often red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?No I've seen it over and over again in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?For the right women they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:44 PM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?Most women aren't attracted to men out of the gate. Hence the courting period hello | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?Party people are still people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?They do for the right woman. Party people have LTR needs too you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Regulating dating apps will improve male mental healthOk little bro. Do take everything personally but not advice. You'll go far in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Regulating dating apps will improve male mental healthThere's plenty of spaces like that. People just don't go out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Regulating dating apps will improve male mental healthDating app is just a tool to connect people. It's not meant to turn a loser into a winner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:17 PM |
| -1 | Regulating dating apps will improve male mental healthMaybe not you but many other men do get dates and even marriages through dating apps. Little Johnny needs to move or do something if he's unhappy with his dating life. Just because you can't take good advice doesn't mean it's condescending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sexAlready found it. Hope you find yours :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sexNo I stand by it from years of experience dealing with them. Can't help those who don't want to help themselves. I want nothing to do with them anymore. They're energy suckers. And I need to protect my energy which is my life source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sexIf you want to be loved, you need to be loveable. I'm not burning myself up to keep others warm. Been there done that. I don't hate the poor or the rich for that matter and also not a tax expert. Poor people can still be happy. I do avoid the unhappy and unlucky and my life is great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sexI agree with not having children. I'm child free myself. But if the kids were already born, we must do our best to raise them no? That's me loving humans. I love happy positive humans like myself. Downers and negative people I don't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sexThey help raising future gen and gov wants to bring the birthrate up. What do you do? Why are you hating so much? It's not like you contribute much on your tiny income to help them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | You don’t get to claim you’re lonely if you’re unwilling to reciprocate.You get but it'll get you nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in terms of sex and dating if you were a woman?Most women depend on men sure. But attracted? Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What if Trp is the path to world peaceAnd you're very naive. Wishing reality is different than what it is, bending to incompetent people will. I work with reality and my life is great. Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What if Trp is the path to world peaceIf it's so great. Why aren't we doing that despite having so many revolutions already? Communism does not work. People are rewarded based on how replaceable they are in the marketplace. Wealth distribution is just that. Lottery winners are often broke again because they're extremely replaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What if Trp is the path to world peacePlease share your idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | What if Trp is the path to world peaceThat's like saying we should distribute wealth equally to everyone on earth. We could but it would go back to the hands of the same people. There has been study on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Dysfunctional women are desirable because they have low standards.Everyone can gaslight hon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Dysfunctional women are desirable because they have low standards.Got us. We like hot people and men do not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online?Because they're not happy. Most women are pain in the ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Men who are desperate to find a woman are actually desperate for something else. A meaning to their lives.I swear men and women are created to agonize each other. We both don't say what we actually mean. Men like easy girls but don't respect them. Women like nice guys but also don't respect them. And respect is the foundation for step 2 and 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 11:49 PM |
| -2 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?Because most women don't know how to play their cards right which could stem from insecurity. They give up the best they have to offer before men give up the best he has to offer. Beautiful and virtuous women got married FAST! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Do you think average men can treat average women poorly? Do you think men always treat women "in their league" well?Then don't. The dating market for Stacy's and Becky's is competitive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:02 PM |
| 8 | Do you think average men can treat average women poorly? Do you think men always treat women "in their league" well?Honey they get thousands of dicks. Yours is not any special. Find other ways to stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Women don't know themselves or what they wantWomen know what they want but they can't get what they want. Just become more of what they want and you'll have loads of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:21 PM |
| 3 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menOk. That belief will lead you nowhere. I do my best with everything in my control. My world is fair and beautiful. Good bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menAnd you don't know how probability works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:34 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menAs a woman, having a low body count (abstaining) and working on my inner and outer beauty (attractiveness) paid great results for me. So I don't think it's a fallacy. But you do you. Just do nothing to improve nothing and someone great will come along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:22 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menAnd their partners are the best of the best? They have the happiest marriages with low divorce rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menIncreasing for probability is a fallacy? Waiting for something to happen to you without doing anything is a fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:04 PM |
| 3 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menNot fallacy. You don't think in general when people are not desperate, work on themselves, they can attract better partners and choose the best? It's the fact. I've seen it happen all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menNot fallacy if it's my own experience. I'm married btw and you bet I got my best of the best for a husband even if you don't think I deserve it. My life is a bliss everyday with him and I would advise all women to do the same as I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menThe more I hold out while also working on myself, the higher quality men I attract. Not being desperate also helps a ton. I might not deserve the best of the best but I don't accept less either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menThem ok with being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive womenNo men want relationships with promiscuous women anyway. That's his point. It's like you get to stay for the party and not the clean up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:19 AM |
| – | I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive womenWhat can an average man and non beautiful woman offer really? Love needs to be exciting at first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?Sure whatever works for you. It's not a competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 10:49 PM |
| -2 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?I used to work in STEM. High earners are not hard to find in my environment, so I'm not desperate to be with any of them. Moving in or having sex with a guy is heavily frowned upon within my culture. So I understand it can be hard for most women to believe. But men love it thou from my experience. They worship the ground I walk on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 10:24 PM |
| 0 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?Sure you do you. I myself laugh at prenup. I never date rich rich men but plenty high earners like my husband. He/we will be rich eventually just very comfortable financially right now. If they give up everything, maybe I agree to marry them let alone prenup. I don't move in or have sex with anyone until they propose. None of them utter the word prenup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?Then he won't be my husband. You have a choice to agree to anything he presents. Men chase women choose. I never lack options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?You marry a rich man as this post suggests. If he dies, you should be more than ok financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 06:05 PM |
| 4 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?Imagine marrying rich and still have to work. My husband is a HENRY and I get this question all the time. I just say I do him. It feels liberating not caring about fitting in social class/event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitAnd please stay single. Simple and so much easier than being in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men.But most guys prefer to stick it in crazy given the chance. I'm sure that all comes from the right head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men.But the heart wants what it wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 05:54 PM |
| 5 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.So you love your woman subscribe to male OFs/IG models? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are the privileged gender in the modern WestOk stranger who seems to know everything about my marriage. I'm sure you're winning in life. I know many many many many successful men in this "terrible" system against men described by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 10:38 PM |
| -3 | Women are the privileged gender in the modern WestFound a loser here. Successful and handsome men won't care about any of these points. Source: I'm married to one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 02:08 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being a SAHM is easily one of the hardest jobs in the worldHow many kids do you have and tend for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?Not delusion if it's personal real life experience. But stay insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?The truth doesn't need your agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?You know who you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?Only to insecure men. I've seen men react worse around attractive women. It's only natural to a secure person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Do women only valuable from teens to early 20s?Not true. I had a major glow up after I turned 30. Plus having more confidence and money allowing me to be more secure and act indifferent towards men that I used to fall for. And for some reason, it works like crazy with men. I dress down on purpose everyday (and still get stares) because I can't shoo them away fast enough. Also, long term commitment is not a high price. It's the bare minimum for me now. I wouldn't sleep with anyone who doesn't offer me that. So far, no issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipSo what exactly is your problem? Seems like those women's standards are not high enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionYou're right. We didn't fight or work for a single thing. Thank you for all your contributions to society. You can stop anytime to prevent us from leeching off you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionThank you for giving us our rights back. We totally got them back by asking nicely and you men out of the goodness of your own heart gave them back to us. We're forever grateful. Also as you pointed out, we are extremely dangerous so best to stay away and leave us alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionGo learn history. Google is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionDo you think oppressors/dictators just "give" people back their rights out of the goodness of their hearts? No we fought and won. They didn't give anything to us. If you think things are unfair right now, you can fight too. Think we owe you something? Lawyer up. Not happy with the current laws? Vote, protest, or lobby. Women are no angels and neither are men. You can find bad people in both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionThank you for giving us back our birth rights. Thank you for building everything. You contributed greatly to society and we didn't contribute anything at all. You're already being paid for what you do. You didn't do anything for free, so I don't understand what is that that we owe you. Now we just want to be left alone, so please honor that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex withWho are straight women having sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 04:17 PM |
| 12 | Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex withSo why blame women for feeling how they feel after being "settled" for? Blame the men who settle for them right? Men should raise their standards for sex too. It's ok if the result is everyone having less sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Believe my experience or not is up to you. Idc. Everyone has their struggles I'm sure. Don't think men have it harder and they have more rights in most places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Ok so you invalidated my own experience and called me misandrist (I can call you typical this, typical that too but I won't). It's ok for people to not share personal information on the Internet you know. I'm married to a wonderful husband and don't hate all men. Tell me what's so hard about men's lives in Europe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 09:57 PM |
| – | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionHear hear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 09:09 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionAll men are created equal honey. Can't "give" us what are our birth rights. Scared to play on the same playing field? You should be. Given everything equal, men need women more than women need men. We find most men quite bothersome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Men get in trouble by their own doing. That doesn't count. There's zero threats in my brothers' lives. Growing up, they got to play on the computers while I got to help with dinner. Even their teachers couldn't discipline them because they were too spoiled at home. Being treated like kings. Everyone was glad they were born. Got plenty of praise for little things they do. Now they're working cushy corporate jobs and get to come home to their wives who both work outside of the home but still have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Ok but does the benefits outweigh the bad? Not really. I'm from a third world country and see my brothers have a much easier life than me. There is no downside for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:18 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issue in gender is simply that men die faster single.At this point, men building their own communities is a lot easier than dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 06:44 PM |
| – | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?Great idea. I think the better/fairer way to this is to have the higher tax brackets tell the lower tax brackets what to do regardless of gender. More women would work and try to make more money, but don't worry we won't tell men they have to serve or have sex with us. Just leave us alone will do. We'll be great at this game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:48 PM |
| – | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?Define being satisfied? I'm pretty happy as long as men leave me alone to do my own thing. Some might push for more, sure. But you don't have to give it to them. You have rights too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:08 PM |
| 6 | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?I don't know anyone keeping a roster but I take your words for it. Attractive people doing attractive people things I guess. I personally don't want anything to do with men. Past experience taught me they would do/say anything just to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:14 AM |
| 6 | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?I'm not hurting anyone for my own gain. I just find it funny that you brought up that point while in reality, I see men do it more than women. Probably because they're more desperate to get laid. Honestly, what do we need to lie to men to gain? Their money? Most don't even have that. Their body? Ok lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:44 AM |
| 4 | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?Men invented this "leading people on you don't want to be with for the benefits" game. We just try to learn and adapt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:26 AM |
| 8 | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?We'll be satisfied when men stop caring about what we do or don't do. Leave us alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Let's face the truth, gentleman.My husband is a western man and I don't think his life is that hard. Your life is what you make it. You have the same life as us in the western sphere. Yay for equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Let's face the truth, gentleman.Very in touch comment. If women want to be left alone, leave them alone. They don't owe you anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 03:26 AM |
| 7 | Let's face the truth, gentleman.Why? If dating sucks that bad, just stay single. No one ever died from not having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingThere will never be such perfect society. The ones with power will always abuse it. It's human nature. I don't want men to suffer but always don't wanna go back in time to serve them. Everyone needs to figure out how to be happy on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 04:58 PM |
| – | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingHaving to depend on somebody else for your own survival is scary. If that's the system, let it crash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 05:35 AM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themGuarantee you don't check every box or are too picky. You only need 2 out of 3 from the look, money, vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:12 PM |
| 2 | If "an increasing percentage of women are going for a shrinking percentage of men" is not true, the standard redpill model is not trueNever say never. If people want something bad in enough, they'll find ways to make it happen. People might be ok/content with whatever you described. If you have a daughter who tries to lose weight, would you tell her it's unlikely that she's able to? People are able to, they just don't want to. We can go to the moon now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | If "an increasing percentage of women are going for a shrinking percentage of men" is not true, the standard redpill model is not trueIf they're desperate enough for men, I guess they can just try to lose weight. Like I said they don't want to because they are content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | If "an increasing percentage of women are going for a shrinking percentage of men" is not true, the standard redpill model is not trueI would. Women who have their lives together like me and my friends (and pretty and fit) are content with or without men. We never have to approach and still get to pick from the best. People who don't have their lives together (men or women) can be not content for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | If "an increasing percentage of women are going for a shrinking percentage of men" is not true, the standard redpill model is not trueThey're content. It's extremely easy for them to get a man if they want to. They just don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ?Not all gold diggers are escorts but they will pretend to like you because of your money. You just said your friends wish to meet them so I suggested some locations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ?Just suggesting some places for your friends who wish to meet gold diggers for fun. They're not talking about dating right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ?It's super easy to meet/spot gold diggers. Just come to Scottsdale AZ or Miami FL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Today's culture wants the dating market essentially whittled down Tinder swipesThe women you mentioned (spinsters dating chads) are in an extreme minority. I work for a big company (and have a social life outside of work) and most people date/marry within their social economics and look match. Just go to your local Walmart, tons of average looking couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:08 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.He doesn't have to be single. For millennia, men got away with having sex while in a relationship. Quite common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 01:35 AM |
| – | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.Oh you know just something that men were able to do for millennia and now they're crying that women do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manFair enough. They are not as accessible as pizza for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manSo you know where to get stuff. Cost is relative. You get what you pay for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manHow did it get in your freezer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 10:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manI'm sure you can get them similar to how you get pizza. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYou don't like hot busty women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerI didn't say all men are shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerOr that there are shitty men everywhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:53 PM |
| 0 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerI find a lot of men looking at me too when I just wear regular clothes to Costco. How do I prevent that? Wear a burqa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:43 PM |
| 0 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerYa because we expect men to be better than seagulls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:37 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menIt's everything. Can't have one without the other. So what is the solution to happier women. Go back in time and serve men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsThanks for telling me. My walls are definitely up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:08 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menPretty sure the top 10 happiest places/countries on earth are where people have the most freedom. Google it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsMay men like you never find me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:55 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menWealthier men have an easier time dating thou. How is that not moving the needle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:44 AM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menHappier than most men in this sub because we can choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:42 AM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menIdk man. I'm a woman and don't wanna go back in time. I think women are the happiest (because we're the most free) we've ever been. Don't know if anyone can truly be happy without their freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:40 AM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menOr maybe they realize at an earlier age that boys ain't all that. Good for them. Wish we realized it sooner too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenHoney I already don't lift a finger for undesirable men. Just explain to you and OP how the world works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:23 AM |
| 9 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenPreach. Especially "provider" men like OP. Just invest in ourselves so we'll never have to depend on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:08 PM |
| 17 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenYou can't provide yet demand for a woman to be young and virtuous. Hilarious!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenOk so be good looking and wealthy so you can attract virgin women in their teens and 20s. Beggars can't be choosers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:10 PM |
| 8 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenSo? What incentives do women have to please undesirable men? Making a few bucks doesn't make you a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 07:55 PM |
| – | If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men?There's truth here. How do you think we can solve this marriage problem for both men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyoneI understand why you think it's dumb while it makes sense to both you and me. Reveal a lot to me about men and why women are the way we are. I'm extremely happy about the current environment we are in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyoneNot more juvenile than men going around creating the problem then complaining that women are the problem. So much for raising your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyoneGood. Now keep her that way until the wedding night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyoneYes, so please raise/reinforce your standards to make women great again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.So true. And as many men said, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:07 AM |
| 4 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.I see average men with average women everyday at my local Walmart. Are you saying improving a few of these things won't help men/women land better partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 04:08 AM |
| – | Part 1 : Blue pill gaslightI'm sorry you got treated like that when you're just trying to help 😔 Some of us are not the best for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 05:44 AM |
| – | Part 1 : Blue pill gaslightI think most men do good and expect something in return. I never struggle when I do something for others and expect nothing in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 05:33 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.It's better than not being able to choose who we marry and couldn't leave either due to lack of financial freedom. Our grandmothers and mothers couldn't get divorce not that they were happy in their marriages. Whoops. And when a marriage fails, I can't only be the woman's fault right? Right?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.A privilege that is (was) only available to men? Why do men get to decide everything. I'm extremely happy with the current environment and state of men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:01 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Voting is our birth right. Men took it away and now have no choice but to give it back. Invaders/oppressors/dictators don't just cave out of the goodness of their heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:38 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Decided? They don't have a choice as I explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:29 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has."Granted" is crazy. Please learn history. We fought for our rights. I'm sure if men have a choice, they would love to still control women like men in some countries still do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:04 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Then don't. At least you have a choice when women used to not have a choice in whom they married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault.Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 02:35 PM |
| – | There Is No Point in Being Loyal to Modern WomenWomen don't care what other women or men do to police them. Regardless of who you chase, your blame is very one-sided. Women should only save themselves for you right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:32 AM |
| – | There Is No Point in Being Loyal to Modern WomenMen with options behave like women with options then blame women. Great. Instead of policing women, why don't you police the Chads to stop running through them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.🙌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating and IRL approachesOk then this is your golden opportunity to solve this major problem for humanity and make a nice living for yourself right? People look for good business opportunities all the time and you found it. Capitalism solved a lot of problems. Just look around you. Have you seen what life was like in the 1100s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Modern dating and IRL approachesI hear what you're saying. But we live in the most capitalist nation. If there's a problem that desperately needs to be solved, somebody would solve it already (and maybe pitch it on Shark Tank). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating and IRL approachesNot really. Being able to read social cues is huge in cold approaches. If most people want to meet in irl, the problem would be fixed already. Most women are fine. Most men don't know how to read social cues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?Good for them. No one should settle or be settled for if they are happy being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?Women do pursue the men they want. So do men. Why would anyone pursue anything they don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:23 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingWhat a theory. Regardless of looks, shouldn't the etiquette be looking for social cues before you approach someone, anyone, men or women. If you look at them and smile and they don't smile back for example, then leave them alone. I don't think OP is against this warm approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:24 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingYou make eye contact and smile. If she doesn't smile back, leave her alone. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:12 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingRegardless of looks, shouldn't the etiquette be looking for social cues before you approach someone, anyone, men or women. If you look at them and smile and they don't smile back for example, then leave them alone. Simple right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?OLD for attractive women are more fun and convenient than that thou, no? If headhunters reach out and give me a princess treatment every time, you bet I'll be listening to what they have to say. I wouldn't waste time dealing with low level recruiters if I'm on top of my job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:01 AM |
| 16 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Why not utilize both and pick the best when you have options. Don't tell me you never compare prices between Amazon and Best Buy before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:42 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Please link the study. I don't doubt some but "the majority" is pushing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:39 AM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Because most men are not well groomed and presentable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Ok so leave them alone if they don't smile back. Simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 01:09 AM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.Imagine you tried to feed a dog once and got bit. You'll never try to feed any dog again even though your chance of being bit varies from dog to dog. Women used to be so nice to men. It's sad to see what's happening today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:30 AM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.So we don't ever have to hear about male loneliness? Awesome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:18 AM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.True. Men also give lots of grace to women they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:06 AM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.Men don't see ugly women being nice to them as flirtation. Only the pretty ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menWell likes attract likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:58 PM |
| 3 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menWow no wonder why top tier women don't want to marry you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:02 PM |
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