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9

Oh, you're telling me to tolerate assholes? NEXT THERAPIST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:00 PM
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How do you not flip when you see pictures like that on someone's phone? She's obviously trying to rationalize it all but no father is going to take 'innocent' pictures of his daughter topless. Ever. Full stop. He absolutely is trying to see what he can get away with so doing shit just under his girlfriend's nose. Like a form of grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:58 PM
15

Jesus, she dropped 5g on someone she ain't even married to or have kids with? What tf did she expect to come out of that? She didn't really think her 'saving him' was gonna turn out beneficial for her, did she? Now she is stuck caring for kids plus an abusive man child. 🤡 world shit indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:07 AM
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'I've been financially supported by her for years so I am obliged to give her a chance to work things out' Oh. My. GOD. If there is a higher power out there, please prevent me meeting these kinds of guys. The fucking entitlement reeking from his pile of miserable flesh is overwhelming. Yeah dude, aren't you nice giving her a chance to make it up to you after years and years of throwing money down the hole for you. Just so generous ain'tcha?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:04 AM
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Exactly. He can't even do the lowest of bare minimum and make them feel a bit safer. ITS ALL HIS NASTY, DEGENERATE FAULT. The nerve to refuse what shouldn't even have to be a spoken request...Jesus Christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:56 AM
17

Oh, I'm so sure he's super duper loving and nice to those kids. 🤮 Society really fucked women over. I can't believe this is a question that needs to be asked. You'd think she'd immediately get her kids away from this bastard at least. He doesn't even financially hold up his end in the relationship. How TF did he get here to the point he is just having access to kids all day? How did she make this work and what the hell is stopping her from throwing him out on the pavement? He isn't gonna financi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:54 AM
63

Exactly what I would end up planning to do if the cops don't take him first. 'uuh, him? Yeah, he went on a walk yesterday afternoon, haven't seen him since. Did you know there's tigers in this area? idk weird fact...anyways...' How is her first instinct to not abandon him in the forest smeared head to foot in pigs blood? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:50 AM
46

Ugh, what is it when guys and the shooting games? They're all the same. I played Borderlands 3 with a friend online and it was so fucking boring I was trying to get drunk halfway through the game just so I could forget the play session entirely. He was having a blast though. It was the same with call of duty. And Halo. I just couldn't sit through: Load into new map Run Find enemies Shoot crazily until you win. (Usually using only three or four of the same buttons you need to mash mindlessly) Rep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:15 AM
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I'm all for it if it's controlled. I game myself (2-3 hours a day unless it's something I have been waiting for to come out) and balance work, exercise, outdoor time, sleep time, and pet time just fine. It's not a huge turn off for me if a guy games. Bonus points if we both like most of the same generes and can play some together. It's a turn off when I need him somewhere and he isn't there because he's playing a game. Or when he's showing frequent signs of aggression during play, though I under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:08 AM
8

Exactly. HVM aren't shy to ask for help if they know something is out of their hands. They swallow their pride because they know they have priorities right now that outweigh his ego. They know they can't lash out at others, especially their partner, because it's wrong and wouldn't help the situation anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:56 PM
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I've sung my praises for FDS many times. All I can say without it getting too stale is that this sub saved me my sanity and I appreciate it removing the wool from over my eyes and letting me see how most men typically are. I see men the same as OP now. I remember being so damn lost and trying anything to make sense of the world and get a boyfriend because I thought it would all clear up. Spoiler warning: it DOESN'T clear anything up! I know there are posts about this being a negative sub at time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:11 PM
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I have a pair of my dad's old work boots I leave outside and that seems to do a lot already. I also have a big pit bull with me. Funny enough, dogs and shoes serve pretty good protection simply being there and have done more than me just trying to talk my way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:54 PM
2

Yeah, the guy is trying to definitely get your number. Strangers never push that hard when asking something from another stranger if they are decent people. They understand that giving your number out so freely isn't a good thing and try different, less personal ways to communicate. Honestly, he could have just put an invitation in your mailbox and be done with it. No talking whatsoever or creeping. He could have put up a flier or ad in the neighborhood, or put something on the community board. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:52 PM
3

I'd say she should print this out and send him a pic of her throwing it in the trash, but this garbage isn't even worth the single sheet of cheap copy paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:51 PM
11

She sounds very successful. He's completely jealous of her reaching out and grabbing life by the horns that he has to fucking lie. 'she is impulsive and things work out for her' Every single time, my guy? EVERY time? It sounds like she puts the research behind things and took chances and he's warping the story because he's chicken shit and it's comfier sitting back and letting her do the work where he can still bitch and cry about it. I bet he's accomplished absolutely zilch in life so far. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:40 PM
6

Ugh, borderline ugly crying at 'getting confused and violent'. I have had a few senior friends and one or two completely flipped 'personalities' when they got dementia. It's heartbreaking to see them acting like that when you know they wouldn't do that normally in their right mind. I was struck once by one of those friends but even then all I wanted to do was cry and hold them because I can barely imagine what is going through their head and making them so confused and frustrated. You just want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:04 AM
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Your grandpa is the best. Even seriously ill and having dementia, he still remembered your birthday (that was incredible to me) and wanted to give you a gift. He is High Value even on his deathbed. These are the kind of men we should be celebrating, even if some would say it's 'bare minimum'. To me, it's clearly not. Your grandpa doesn't owe anyone anything and yet he still wants to give despite the odds. I don't even know him and I like him a lot. You're lucky to have such a good grandpa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:58 PM
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It's not FDS tactics applied here but to humor this for a sec... They want women to make the move but can't even make their profiles more interesting to attract women into making that move. So they want women to approach their boring, dull asses and give them everything. Sounds like they would give making more of an effort to at least be approachab a shot but they just don't? You'd think they would catch on to this contradiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:29 PM
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Damn! Anyways.... I'm gonna go bake a chocolate cake for myself and dig in. I hope you ladies have a good day as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:26 PM
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Yeah, because I definitely see women rejoicing over a child's death, especially if the killer is a woman! /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:04 PM
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Size matters. Definitely. I 'm not sure if I have a tight vagina or just hate being stretched because it hurts if anything too big goes in there, no matter the amount of lube. So I prefer smaller. Long but thin is amazing too! If you want bigger and that gets you off, go for bigger. It's about time we say size DOES matter: to women. If we don't like the size, big or small, they need to find someone who does want their size and stop bitching that they don't have fat dicks and blaming us for wanti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:38 PM
2

You saved that baby, crazy as it sounds. That kid would have been used against you. And learn so much societal damage that it can't be truly undone. They'd be a weapon for both parents to use against the other. And then you'd take your own life and then lead that child down a path of unanswered questions, only to be comforted by the man who caused your hypothetical death? You stopped that from happening when you aborted a pregnancy with this man. As tough as it sounds, you made the right call an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:09 AM
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Yup. Start off with that rule right away the second they comprehend it and don't bend not once. They may resent the fact they can't do things like their friends are doing at the moment but they'll be benefiting greatly from this in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:20 PM
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Very good advice. I like the open discussion strategy. I believe kids are smarter than they come off and having thorough discussions with them about certain hard topics will help them really think about these problems that they will face in society. Also if a kid asks a difficult question, actually answering it in an adult manner is the best way to go. I hate how parents will talk to their kid like they are still babies or dumb down the conversation out of fear the topic will be too complicated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:17 PM
6

So basically you're saying you have to be VERY obvious you do not like a guy before he gets the picture. But even then, he'll just bother us more trying to win us back over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:23 PM
9

Makes ya want to give that man the ass whupping his mom so obviously held back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:20 PM
9

It's such an evil response. Like trying to drive as much suffering out of someone as possible. A part of me wants this to be fake but you know it's not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:18 PM
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I only ever cried for my mom when I had a tooth abscess and half my face was swollen. worst pain of my life to have something growing inside you that you can't reach and you have to wait until it's well and ready to pop. I can't imagine childbirth. Her crying out for her mom hurt me so much. I can barely imagine what she went through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:16 PM
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I feel your outrage from here. This is a disgusting story and I hope she left his ass high and dry too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:13 PM
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Agreed. Not the kids fault but with a dad like that he is bound to be another carbon copy of all his father's horrible idealogies and habits. She deserves to go on her own journey and flourish. This home is a death trap for her freedom, because she ain't got shit left after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:41 PM
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I doubt if he means it but he obviously said he hates the memory of his son's birth now to weaponize it against his wife to punish her for calling out his shit behavior in front of everyone like he deserved. Trying to make her feel guilty and take what she did back. Been with a lot of people to know that if they say something that selfish, it's because they actually want to hurt you with that statement and make you submit to them. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:28 PM
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That one friend laughing and excusing himself to laugh j. The bathroom... This story sounds like pure hate. Like everyone she's made friends with and had love for are tearing her down and making her feel embarrassed. It sounds so cold hearted. 'haha, it's funny when my wife was in tremendous pain and crying for her dead mother because she wanted comfort. Lmao, good meme'. Fucking dickwad. How do you not cut everyone off and take your kid with you after that? There's no love and support here. Plu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:26 PM
22

Jesus, what an insult. A 52 year old queen's too young for fucking crypt keepers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:37 PM
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Literally outing themselves as seriously broke mother fuckers and them being salty about it. You're telling me they can't afford 10$? Are they also saying they don't value their date more than 10$? Your date doesn't need to get that kind of impression, bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:42 PM
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Yup. And Sims ain't a joke sometimes, especially when you lose all those hours of progress working hard on a house or career. Had a PlayStation with the game Monster Rancher 2 I loved so much. Long story short my little sis started a new game and saved over my file after I had obtained a rare monster as a pet . I was heartbroken for about thirty minutes and thought 'ah well, it'll be fun starting over with the stuff I want' and gave my sis her own memory card so she couldn't make that mistake ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:23 PM
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Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:13 PM
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Exactly. It's a fixable situation with most games. If you fuck up, you can make it back. Him flipping out on his gf because she didn't know any better is a sign he's an immature asshole bitching about the very small, pointless things in life. This is an easy fix, too, and he resorted to insulting her intelligence. All he had to do was share his feelings, own up that he made the mistake of not showing her how to select the right match, and then sitting down with her and teaching her so the mistak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:10 PM
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Men walking up to women they don't know and trying to talk to them is just gross. Especially when it's clear the woman is trying to ignore them and everyone else around them and just do their own thing. They don't know when to back off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:03 PM
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Girl, omg. What kind of green behind the ears plug was he? Who hands over the goods before getting their payment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:02 PM
3

FUCK he's hideous now. I forgot how dreamy he looked back then. If there is such thing as a wall, this man hit it square on the nose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:05 AM
9

It's like cutting off your leg with a butter knife. You don't want to go to the hospital or take care of the leg so you say 'fuck it" and opt to cut it off. But with what? A butter knife? (Cheating, dragging a dying marriage because of your own laziness) Or an axe? (cold hard divorce before you cheat) This man chose a PLASTIC butter knife. He doesn't want to leave his poor wife but he will have to down this path of no return. He is putting it off as much as he can with the affair and he is blind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:15 PM
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He had a way out. you have him three chances. It's so painful. You'd think the second you said you were hungry and thirsty, he'd cast around for a restaurant and notice you in front of one and feel like an idiot. It's not exactly subtle, the move you played. I wonder if he was just really fucking stupid. Like, obviously if he thought low effort would work, but what if he was very stupid and didn't genuinely notice? I can't see someone making the money he has to just blatantly choose to be so che…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:07 PM
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I can't help but feel angry and sad for her. This is humiliating. She doesn't deserve to be put in this situation AGAIN, even after making the biggest mistake of sticking around for this fucking LOSER of a boy. 🤮 That woman needs therapy and some healthy isolation. Dump the guy and get a divorce if she went through marrying him. Cut this entire social circle of old high school friends and then some out and leave them out. Go actually live her life Instead of opening to vulnerabilities like this.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:31 PM
2

Yeah, if we don't want to pump more kids into an already largely overpopulated species, we're mentally unwell. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:02 PM
3

Agreed. It's one of the ultimate betrayals to be put second place behind a husband or boyfriend when you are a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:59 PM
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Not to go full femi-n*zi, but I don't know how it's not a woman's first instinct to beat the absolute shit out of a man who sexually abused her daughter. I would go ape shit if my kid ran to me after being assaulted by her own father. He probably wouldn't leave my house alive. The pure audacity and gall to think it's ok to do that... I can't wrap my head around women being JEALOUS of their husband molesting their child. It's so fucked up. I'm so sorry it happened to you, as a TODDLER for Christ'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:57 PM
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You inspire me, queen. Speaking up when all eyes are on you and you are the only one to stand up for yourself is awe inspiring. I'll remember this story the next time someone cuts me off or skips me when it's my turn...to do anything, really!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:10 PM
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Yeah, you don't need to do jack shit for him. When he gets old and feeble and needs care, I hope for you and your sister's sake he goes into a care program. You don't owe him anything and the fact he is confident you 'owe' him care in the future shows he doesn't care about you or your life and wellbeing. He's already robbed your mother. Don't let him do this to you no matter how much love bombing or guilt trips he pulls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:05 PM
6

One is always better than none! You teach one woman and there's a chance she learns and teaches other. You're part of change. Awesome work! I hope she keeps the nuggets of wisdom you drop. She seems to see the benefits of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:28 PM
44

Easy and sleazy. Men tend to be the biggest whores out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:42 PM
72

THIS. My last boyfriend was younger than me, and here I was horribly overweight and greasy. Things have changed for the better in turns of my habits and I can proudly say that stage in life is behind me. BUT! The point in me bringing this up is a back up. Absolutely. Men will still want to fuck you when you are completely off your game and let yourself go. Getting laid isn't the problem 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:40 PM
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I'm convinced feminism is the cure. Birth rates dropping and all means humans aren't over populating as much. Shit bag men aren't passing on their genes. If this continues, society will strongly benefit from the result of feminism. No wonder the low value men are crying, whining, and doubling down on the blame game. The end is coming for them and they're trying their best to cope. Times are changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:28 AM
10

Hey, nothing is healthy about fried food or butter, but we deserve it now and then so I hope you dug in and enjoyed it, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:23 AM
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Frying some chicken and gonna have a small salad on the side to claim it will counteract all the precious, greasy calories I am about to consume. Seems a good meal to pair with this wonderous event.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:09 PM
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Two things you never tolerate: Him raising his voice. Ever. Punching fucking holes in the wall. Run and don't look back. There's never a need to be screaming and yelling (well, unless you are on fire) or smashing things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:03 PM
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This. OP didn't allow shit. That guy already knew what he was going to do and did it. You weren't powerless, OP. This guy tested his fucking luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:05 AM
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One thing I was taught when handling animals was that if you get bit or scratched, it's most likely because you ignored the multiple warning signs the animal has already given you and the attack is one of it's last options to get you to stop whatever is you are doing to make the animal uncomfortable. Animals usually don't attack or bite for no reason and you should reflect and correct your behavior to prevent another bite. So, yes, if you got bit or scratched, it's your fault and you can't get m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:29 AM
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About to say- now's the time to beat my record of 4 tonight just because he said it lmao. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:59 PM
13

Lord help that woman. She's nuts to butts, but she doesn't deserve a whole hoard of man children in her home. One is punishment enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:44 AM
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Men need self awareness and the ability to put themselves in another person's shoes to understand the lesson. They don't got that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:29 PM
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Speaking from experience, this is pretty accurate. My ex husband showed interest in me for paying for dates and from there it snowballed. I was such an idiot back then. I wanted a house husband while I was working because to me I wanted that standard dream of having a partner and kids and providing for them. I wanted someone I loved decorating my home and cooking us meals and showing support for our kids. My ex saw that dream for what it was with a man, a fucking meal ticket, and took advantage …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:26 PM
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God, even when she did what he wanted, he didn't take time out to know more about her. Men telling on themselves again while trying to look like a victim or a precious little injuried lamb that just wants love. He clearly didn't care enough and now regrets it. But more he regrets not settling (he makes it sound like that) with her after taking a look at the rest of the dating scene. Don't pay for any dates. It's not worth it. Men are the ones who owe you, not the other way around. They aren't ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:09 PM
2

Agreed. Even having a big dog around that isn't trained works as a natural repellent. Assholes don't want to fuck with an angry dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:02 PM
2

Girl, yes. I remember the years I spent wearing the thickest, baggiest jacket possible, even during the summer, just to hide my breasts because they were coming in fast and too big for my back to handle at such a young age. Spent a lot of time burning up, hurting, and desperately trying to avoid everyone. Still had the occasional scrote 'shoot his shot' (more like shoot his shit).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:01 PM
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Him going quiet is gold. The fact he walked into it himself makes it so good. And he couldn't even fake a laugh afterwards and at least try and come off as easy going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:49 PM
18

This. Especially men who claim can 'take a joke' or say that they want a woman who can take a joke. Because that actually means 'I should be allowed to make jokes on your behalf and you have to laugh at them to show you are supportive, or you're a stuck up bitch.' If I date someone, I'm busting some balls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:46 PM
28

Yeah. Why the hell is OP with someone so low value?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:29 PM
11

I like to think maybe we all have something we do that's really weird that we think is normal, so this guy just got unlucky and was born with the quirk to make his bedding rat-styled. Unfortunate I'm thinking this is just a cope. We all know for a fact how fucked up people can be and still keep surprising us, right? I think it's real. There's definitely some freaks out there in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:18 PM
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Yeah, a nice clean pillow nest with weighted blankets and a movie going sounds sooo good. Laying on the floor amongst musty clothes in the shape of a stunted bald eagle's nest? Not so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:13 PM
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Boy probably thought you were actually gonna drop everything, your cats too, just to get more precious time with him. 🙄 The second a guy says he hates your pets, throw his ass on the curb like a bag of overflowing garbage. That's like saying you hate someone's child these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:07 PM
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I hate how men these days act, but you have to admit this is just gold. Pure gold. There are men out there that nest like fucking BIRDS at night. And you can't fix the situation. It's them or the nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:07 PM
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Dude, we get it. It's ok to be gay- you don't gotta use so many words to indicate you're stuck in the closet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:19 AM
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Yeah let's be real. He's stewing in his own dirty underwear and socks nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:25 PM
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Yeah, me personally not into tall guys at all (I consider my strength and height sexy, imo, not how dainty and girly I am) , but I 100% agree with this. It's not even what is biological to most women- men are hypocrites and will wail and cry if a woman has so much as an inkling of preference that doesn't fit within what a majority of LVM have. Yet they still think it's ok for THEM to have preferences. I don't even have to describe what kind of preferences. Any preference a woman has makes most m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:23 AM
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Then let it die, I say. I hate reading shit like this, because it always blames women and makes men seem like victims. It's simply not true. They aren't losing power or 'masculinity' by agreeing to be married. A large hunk of the male population don't have power or masculinity to begin with due to how low value they are. And this kind of propaganda, of course, seems to be ignoring history. How many well known men have wives that did nothing but the cleaning and raising the man and his kids while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:53 PM
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How can she tolerate him saying this to her daughter? A sane woman would be furious and have him out that door so fast he'd forget to take his ass with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:45 AM
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Girl you better give him some coochie for that 10$ worth of warm JUICE. 😂 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:40 AM
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Just came back from Nicegirls. Reading the comments show they literally have no idea what the subreddit is about. I see a lot of 'cel slang slung around, and 'they manipulate men to being with them' comments (pretty sure there are women here who don't want to be in a relationship period). They honestly think we are a form of red pill. 😂 It's very weird seeing people not understand something simple yet effective as FDS. Yeah, we have a lot of man-hating, but let's face it, the shit men do is ridi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:15 AM
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Not a Christian, but the way you put it is so logical. I wish Christian women in particular would wake up and realize this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:57 PM
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As a good friend told me: work on yourself and be the role model that will inspire them to clean up their act. Don't roll out the mop and bucket for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:04 PM
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Before FDS, I dated my first boyfriend at 24. Lost my virginity then too. When he finished, he just climbed off. I went off on his ass, furious he was just going to roll over and sleep. Months later with no sex, he finally figured out he should PROBABLY have me finish first before him. Men are just raised on porn and hovering mothers. All their life they're encouraged to be selfish. Now, had I known FDS, I NEVER would consider having sex with that man. He is low value and a project I'm not oblig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:07 PM
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It's ok. I felt this way too. Its just something we're surrounded by- everyone pressuring to lose your virginity or you're a loser/late bloomer/unprogressive. I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I hope that sadness fades away one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:02 PM
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Um...wot the f u c k, sis? This shouldn't even be a question. Please don't tell me there are women out here who can't see the bullshit here. It's right in front of her face. I PROMISE dick ain't THAT good to shell out so much cash for some loser who let's everyone else but him pay his bills. And I PROMISE he's negative value to boot. Dump. 👏 His. 👏Dumb. 👏ASS.👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:34 PM
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Someone else who knows about Rule of Rose? 😭 Poor combat but my GOSH the story was good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:49 PM
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I hope she dumps him. I can't express enough how pissed I would be if anyone dare pull a 'prank' like that on me or any of my friends. It's not funny and anyone with half a brain cell knows this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:42 PM
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This sub and pink pilled saved me. Wasn't exactly a pick mesha at that point but I was very much down on myself and trying to pull me and my now ex boyfriend's weight, thinking it was 'noble' and 'dominant'. All it did was make me tired and act straight up crazy because I would have break downs and then blame myself. You may even see my history where I bragged about it at one point and was a 'mommy dom' 🙄 This sub hauled me out the ocean of bullshit, that's for sure. Thanks so much for your hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:41 PM
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Had a guy laugh at me when I brought my stun gun to work. I'm just starting to close more often at my part time job and it's a bad part of town with all sorts of crazy people. Laugh all you want, dude. Thinking it's funny is a red flag. If he gets aggressive with me or follows me after work, I'm double tapping his stupid ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:02 AM
1

Tag him and bag him. Into the garbage he goes. I'm surprised she tolerated it. I'd pretend to help out and then slap his balls as hard as I could. What a complete douche-bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:43 AM
40

'after you use it' So they admit they DO use us for sex? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:40 AM
2

'Ma'am' is a polite alternative and zero men older men use it. You would think older guys would be gentlemen and use manners, but no. Men get worse as they age, in my experience. And wtf, call you by your name? A stranger? That is just rude and annoying. I remember working retail and nothing set me off more than a customer that I never met before calling me by my first name or ordering me around using my name. I hated it. It's so rude. Use fucking manners, you uncivilized, goat-munching troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:48 AM
5

Get lady friends who smoke. Don't let this man near you. He's trying to play fuck-fuck games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:34 AM
1

I use to think I was weird when I would comb someone's bio and gallery before talking to them on dating apps. I actually thought that. 🤦🏼‍♀️ And it was because no guy who talked to me did it. If you can't do the bare minimum, don't bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:28 AM
16

You definitely shouldn't have cheated. That shouldn't have been an option to begin with. You knew better and deserved to get caught. HVW don't have that kind of behavior. But... That's about it. Your actions led to a straightforward consequence and I think that's fair, plain and simple. Don't cheat again. There's no need to cheat and you know that now. You're better off on your own. Life can only get better for you now and I hope that's motivation for you to get to work on yourself. I'm glad you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:23 AM
9

You can tell when a man loves you and when he doesn't. Mentioning a break-up, at the very least, makes a man upset and scrambling to keep you. 'Needing space' isn't a term they use either if he wants a breather. He hangs out with friends or gets himself into a project and tells you ahead of time what he is getting into. Men who love are usually transparent. Experience straight from a LDR. Dump him. This weak bullshit he is pulling is ridiculous. He knows the answers to all the questions you aske…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:16 AM
13

What they are actually saying when they do this is: 'I'm an unoriginal, wart-riddled ogre that needs to lash out at others like a spoiled five year old because I have nothing better to do and girls in pain makes my stupid monkey brain flood with dopamine'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:10 AM
1

Good on you continuing with life and not coming when he demands or makes his half hearted 'plans'. I would just block after this tbh. He sucks and needs to work on his game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:48 AM
2

"They're comfy' is a perfectly good answer, I don't know what more he wants, here. A man obsessed with what a woman wears sometimes is a bland, shallow man. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:42 AM
15

So much this. Therapy. Therapy. Therapy. It's intimidating at first but having a professional to help you sort yourself out is a damn good investment and will improve your mental health. And yes, PLEASE be gentle with yourself. You have been so much and you need to make sure you have plenty of rest. Men can wait until you get these two things prioritized, and trust me, men will ALWAYS be there. That is how you heal- being kind to yourself and getting the help you need. Men are accessories and no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:30 AM
8

Hang the mom right next to the pastor, and get those poor children therapy and an abortion. I can't imagine the confusion and agony they are going through right now. The mother failed her children. Pickme women are just as bad as men sometimes and it makes my stomach churn thinking of the psychological damage mom and pastor have done to them. What kind of mother defends her children's rapist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:18 AM
4

Seriously, how hard is it to just leave the house for a bit if it makes him that uncomfortable or frustrated? Make it a day about him and go eat dinner out somewhere (bonus points if he brought his wife back something too) or go hang out with his friends at their place. Or, as his wife suggested, visit his parents? This energy he uses to whine and complain could be spent enriching his life or the ones around him. It's not hard to be a good husband- the bar is literally in hell at this point. Ins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:10 AM
6

People on the spectrum have a sense of humor for sure. It's not like they are stupid or emotionless droids as he seems to imply (?). He's definitely not funny at all, or his presence simply makes her uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:04 AM
16

Many women benefit from having genuine friendships with other women. I would even go far as to say it's almost mandatory. Who else can understand a woman than another woman? Very much agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:56 AM
11

Selfish man baby issues aside, I find it wholesome these two women met and are enjoying each other's company, and the reason they started talking was because they have the same breed of dog. ❤️ It's so charming to me. I'm happy for them. Hope they have a nice, long friendship together! Her husband is a real snot rag. Like, how dare she have anyone but him in her life. 🙄 Seriously, just step out and have some fun yourself. Don't be such a wet blanket just because another woman won't laugh at your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:52 AM
2

Good God, women aren't baby dispensers. And why does he want kids he doesn't take care of? Why the intense pressure, to the point of arguing, to have another baby?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:58 AM
4

I thought I was crazy when this happened to me. Very low effort, boring conversations. I thought I was the problem at first. But no- talking to men like that is like having a conversation with a rock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:13 PM
5

Wait, he said that she was asking too much for oral and foreplay, but this man wants spontaneous oral and wants to be able to fuck her throat? Just throw this guy in the trash compactor and let it do its thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:16 AM
25

Agreed. However, I should state I also believe that if you want to be healthier and look better because it's healthy, that shouldn't be disuaded. Basically, be a better you, ladies. They can be the inside or the out. But always do it for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:07 PM
13

You don't think it's true but...My grandfather and grandmother have been together since highschool. Married shortly after and lived a good 45 years writing and organizing plays before grandpa got a brain tumor. When he died, my grandmother found letters he collected from a number of women he had affairs with stuffed in his office desk. A lot of those women were actresses or co-writers. ALL were my grandmother's friends. He always remained in my grandmother's life because she was obedient, submis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:36 AM
3

The unfortunate part of you doubting yourself and your boundaries is that you were raised since birth to do so, as all women. With your record of abuse on top of that, I don't blame you at all distrusting and then turning around and feeling sorry about that. It fucking sucks having all of these thoughts and feelings conflicting one another. Rest assured you did right, sis. You saw his bullshit and kept yourself safe. You did nothing wrong at all. I know it may feel as you did, but as time goes o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:00 PM
15

Sounds like if he doesn't work, she doesn't need him even financially. Ummm...? Dump his ass like a bag of moldy potatoes?! What is she doing letting someone be an actual burden in her life? The money she spends on him existing in her space could go towards her baby and herself instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:35 PM
8

There are some boys/men that lurk here and read up. I'm a positive person by nature, so I definitely think that more men will learn to be better for that potential woman in their life so long as women level up and set that bar high. Honestly, once women respect themselves and stick to their standards, the dating scene will improve. Maybe not now, but I'm a firm believer there is a HVM out there for any woman who stands by what they want and need from a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:28 AM
31

Nothing makes men feel like garbage more than ignoring them and doing better. They DESPISE it. They think the world revolves around them, that they are the main character in this story. And when you do queen shit like this, it drives them up a wall. Doing better for yourself is the easiest and best way to bruise a man's ego. It shows he is weak and leaves no impression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:24 AM
6

The way I see it- he had you come to him. An hour long drive. Just so you could pay for your own meal. That is shameful. He should have paid for the meal. Splitting the bill is only appropriate AFTER you two are on the same page, have made a commitment to one another, and he has proven himself to be worth a 50/50 split. And that 'worth' has to be a good reputation of taking care of you, paying for dates, and impressing you over and over without expecting you to 'put out'. In fact, I would only r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:18 PM
109

As a woman who has pegged a few men, it's surprisingly fun. You have control over them, especially if it's their first time. Very few men actually try pegging, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:11 PM
2

That 'no?' at the end. Yeah, no is exactly right. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:26 AM
14

This man sleeping like a raccoon. Probably eats like one too. Real talk, I think it's fake but it's worth the read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:15 AM
11

Good advice and reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:30 PM
70

Sexism alive and well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:03 AM
17

I want to add to this because I feel the same way. Had been in a bad place for years and very woman-hating, 'why are men so oppressed, wah wah' believing nonsense. I was lost and constantly confused and depressed. Disappointed. Along with PPF, FDS has given me a space to read the wisdom of my fellow women and realize how powerful we truly are. We're queens and deserve so much more than what we settle for. Thank you, FDS. You have not only helped improve my current relationship, but also treat my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:01 AM
36

Positivity can be strength. Excellent points!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:32 AM
1

So, obviously this is a dude. But for the 1% chance it's really a woman, I hope she gets picked. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:28 AM
10

Men really need to learn to speak when actually spoken to, and not run their mouths the first chance they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:11 PM
3

I just have to say- these are qualities and signs I have always longed for in a man. To know not only do men like this exist, it shows I am with a LVM. Thank you so much for your insight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:36 PM
4

My current boyfriend hates anal. And this is because he was in a relationship with a man (still figuring out his sexuality at the time). He refused to go near my ass and has never asked once. He hates it. We both call it 'the no zone'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:30 PM
2

And then no one would ever cook for them again 👌Because that is what complaining man-children deserve: Nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:26 PM
3

My thoughts are: that food looks good. Too good for you. What fucking idiot complains about what plate his good is on? You're being fed, moron. And I bet even if you had that 'proper' plate for your food to rest, you expect her to clean it after you're done. Get this whiny, crying-ass manbaby out of my face. Ungrateful child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:24 PM
3

And call the little bastard a slut to boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:12 PM
11

'men and women aren't compatible' guy's room made me shatter a rib laughing. Holy hell, he could not look any more like a greasy, sloppy moid. Bless this collage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:21 AM
6

I read a Reddit confession where a guy was trying to claim he wasn't gay (after a gay experience, mind you) and said he ordered women. You know, the ones with Daddy issues. Leave it to men to sexualize a woman's pain. Stop fetishising our suffering, assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:46 PM
7

The ball swat at the end is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:25 PM
9

Who on Earth is blackpilled and suicidal here? I only see anything resembling it when the women here are with shitty, LVM like these fellas. Delusional as always. Stay classy, boys. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:49 AM
-16

What grown ass woman listens to Justin Bieber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:10 PM
9

Tsk, using feminine as an insult. I thought we looked down at remarks like that? LVM act like that, not 'ultra feminine men'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:44 AM
7

Yikes, this guy setting up interviews. Nothing turns a lady on like a fucking job interview.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:59 PM
5

Hope he shoves an iron rod in his head, then. Wish I had your power to provoke men to suicide, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:58 PM
182

'you appreciate brutal honesty! DO YOU HAVE A BIG CLIT? 🤤🤤🤤' I love that he tells her what she likes and then immediately uses that as an excuse to overstep his boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:14 PM
31

Sounds like a lot of the woman giving up her preferences so the man has a better chance at her. And that last bit ..ugh. People really like to try and sell you on a project rather than a grown ass adult with their shit together, don't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:09 PM
2

I mean, there is one thing about this sub that bothers me and that is the fact money women here want a tall man? Even though men want shorter, thinner women because they are easier to manhandle and that doesn't seem to concern people? I dunno. I'm attracted to short men and yet am criticized for it. Isn't a HVM someone who takes care of you and is holding his end up? Why does height matter, again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:07 PM
10

Yeah- no. If you won't help yourself, you deserve nothing. 'I'm in hell because everyone wants me to have babies, even my boyfriend admitting to forcing a pregnancy. BUT I LOVE HIM!' Enjoy a life of motherhood you never wanted then. 🙄 What other advice can anyone possibly give you other than leave him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:35 AM
6

I'm with you there. Mom wasn't avoiding the problem, but a huge pickmesha and told me to give my bf blowjobs to keep him happy and it would help him leave me alone when I didn't want sex. I was fucking 13. Some moms are just not the best givers of advice. I'm happy we have this sub, too. It's nice to have people on your side and actually trying to help with seasoned advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:30 AM
12

Squabbling over men like rats over crumbs is beneath a HVW. I'm happy to have found this sub. It's really improve my perspective. Women should band together, not tear each other apart over the majority of scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:29 PM
7

What is with men lately and phone bills? Really cute, sugardick. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:32 AM
9

Why do men have shit like this in their profiles? Do they think this makes them look cool or edgy? This is so stupid. Literally no one wants to read/know this when looking for a partner. No one cares about this because there is so much missing context and it's old news that needs to be discarded. Focus on the new. Focus on getting to know people rather calling your ex out in your DATING BIO. Showing people you are still going on about your ex isn't a healthy glow, sweaty. These types of men are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:23 AM
6

Yeah- no. No one in a relationship has the right to out their hands on you. Even if he wants to pass it off as 'not that hard', he put his hands on you and used force. It may have been a small amount, but ask yourself 'was that necessary?'. There is literally no reason to use force when he gets upset or you have an argument. I'm the one in charge of my relationship and I don't put a single finger on my man, no matter how mad I get. We respect each other the basic, standard amount to not hurt eac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:12 AM
4

Because I want my children to have a solid last name, not a weak one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:22 AM
2

That was out of the blue. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:39 PM
12

Aaaand the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:26 PM
29

Doing things out of the blue, like choking during sex or just trying things out without asking first is fucked up. You are 100% allowed to 'kink shame' if these actions happen to you and you aren't ok with it in the slightest. It's not hard to talk about your kinks with someone. If that guy didn't extend that respect to you, fuck him and fuck his manipulative ass. It's ok to shame if you didn't consent. I can't repeat this enough. You are completely in the right to shame that man for doing those…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:02 AM
17

I'm pretty sure that was intentional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:30 AM
25

The most powerful sex skill I learned would be cumming on top, hands free. 👉😎👉 You're in control on top. You can control when you have the orgasm. You don't really need his dick either. Once learned, I wasn't unsatisfied anymore. Most the time, I can finish before him and be outta there, his needs be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:36 PM
7

I ponder this often. Like, do they tell themselves that whatever bullshit excuse or lie they make up is good and foolproof before they tell the woman or are they winging it? Either way, it's bad. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:03 PM
22

God, the ice cream bit makes everything worst. At least- AT LEAST something in exchange that is WORTH blowing an old man, and this fucker thinks ice cream is a fair trade? No one so young should take him up on the offer. Not only is it just fucking repulsive, but any woman is worth more than a fucking ice cream/froyo. This unaware son of bitch, I swear...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:23 AM
28

Aw man. This reminds me of the time I told my boyfriend I like flowers and he had that same excuse. Told him it doesn't matter, it makes me happy and I want them. The day I moved in with him, he bought me a very nice bouquet. This was a year and a half after we talked about flowers. I was really floored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:14 PM
17

Look, I know by now that you don't need a dick to get off. If the guy knows he's small, isn't violently insecure about it, and good with his mouth, it doesn't bother me. I only talked to one guy who had a micro penis. He talked a big game and when I saw a pic, I was stunned. I told him there's no way that's working and he got incredibly pissed off to the point of threatening to find and beat me. I was rolling at that point- little boy made me cry I was laughing so hard. He got blocked and that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:08 PM
3

This milk's aged so well, it's mildewy cheese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:00 AM
14

It's funny 'crazy cat lady' is an insult. I'd love to have at least five cats. Being single means more time with loving, interesting creatures rather than spending time with LVM, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:49 AM
12

I think it boils down to preference. I see nothing wrong with what you described at all. It works for you, you are happy with it, and that is more than enough for me to be naturally happy for you! Me personally, I like to be in charge of everything, with only small stuff being handled by him, and him treating me like a queen on days I plan for me to relax and not lift a finger. I don't consider it submission. He is doing his job serving me. And that works for me. All in all, I see where you are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 10:36 PM
21

Submission? Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:25 PM
9

I'm crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:24 PM
10

Honestly- good. The taller you are, the less male attention you get. I'm starting to see that as definitely a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:33 AM
18

I just really like that 'why?'. It carries the essence of: 'darn it! Ugh! That was suppose to work! What the heck!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:30 AM
59

'how interesting, anyways, about what I want now...'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 04:24 AM
10

Agreed. I realize now though this isn't the 'right opinion' to have in this sub Reddit because our comments are being downvoted, but I'm glad we have roughly the same opinion at least. Can't judge a marriage by it's proposal and all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:16 PM
10

This isn't a yikes. I see this as a woman setting the pace for the relationship and getting what she wants. We all have different ways of winning the dating game. This is her's and I congratulate that. She seems to be the one in charge of that relationship and that's honestly the dream. Men need to step down and let the woman take charge, because this day in age, we know what the hell we are doing. He'll be better playing support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:04 PM
15

I'm gonna be real- women like that are weak and I want nothing to do with them. I understand if they are young and still learning the ropes of the dating world, but too many older women acting like dumb teenagers with fuckboys and then wondering why they get shit on. Like, if you haven't learned you are of better quality than them and continue to sell yourself short to literal garbage, don't come crying to me. I don't want anything to do with you. You don't have the spine to play the dating game…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:36 PM
10

I would be blunt but also encouraging. Like 'you're really bad at thrusting and you need to pace yourself. You're good at kissing, though.' I didn't see the need to be nice and lie about how he did well when he obviously didn't. In my experience, even being nice at the end of a criticism doesn't do much. The men I sleep with get pissy or moody and sleep with their back to me afterwards. My current boyfriend use to actually get really depressed and blame everything else (dick-size, weight, exc) r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:08 AM
73

"This guy is mostly likely gonna disappoint me / waste my time again (girls, trust the patterns) so I might as well get a nice present for it. " This. Very practical of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:06 PM
40

You gotta be tough with them. I love it. You're the type that doesn't let a men step on her. Respect for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:03 PM
87

Holy shit, you got this down to a science here. This is very close to what I did myself because I just got to that mindset that he is replaceable. Once you get there, you'll have that assertiveness and it just carves the rest of the path for you. This is very well-written and perfect advice. I adore how much you put into this. Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:02 PM
4

This looks like what she was talking about. I never read the article myself but now that I had the chance, I'm a little depressed. A part of me kinda hoped my aunt was making it up. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 12:24 AM
5

Big fucking mood. I literally gave this warning to boyfriend. Better straighten up or I'm out in a few months. He's been doing good. For a few days, at least. 🙄 I'm not holding my breath. I'm planning on his eventual 'ok, I did SOME work so now I wanna go back to my 10% for your 100%' attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 11:22 PM
14

Reminds me of this story my aunt told me where a female sexdriod was given to a group of men to conduct study and testing for improvement, as this sex toy would be an up-and-coming product on the market. Researchers ended up taking the Android back in mangles. It was thoroughly damaged. They found out men beat the shit out of it amongst using it for it's intended purpose. My uncle heard my aunt tell me this story and he openly stated we shouldn't be upset or disturbed by this because the sex toy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 11:12 PM
3

No problem. Believe in yourself. You got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:36 PM
3

Don't listen to some of these wishy washy ladies going 'don't initiate, that's the man's job'. It's hogwash. You're doing just fine as you are. What you're going through is weeding out the garbage that doesn't want to commit. There is nothing wrong with a woman approaching and being upfront. And I'm speaking from personal experience. Keep trying and don't let it get you down. If he wimps out, he's a wuss and isn't worth your time, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:35 PM
1

I don't understand why she doesn't be upfront with him. All this passive nonsense is half the reason you get in these type of messes. If you were upfront from the start, he would either leave (good way to weed out the low-effort garbage) or put a little more effort in courting. Sitting around waiting for him to shape up on his own is bound for failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:45 PM
4

As many others have said: you're not obligated to them. Period. Before I met my boyfriend, I was seeing other guys and talking to multiple at the same time. I lied about where I was because I was looking at my leisure and I never made any promises or commitments to them. Then, when I met one I actually liked and wanted to get serious, I did. Simple as that. Don't feel bad or guilty. You're just looking around, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 04:17 AM
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