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I think your approach is good Though it takes so much time to actually learn about someone, I think 3 to 4 months. Changing subject : Do you happen to have ADHD and be in medical school?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:02 AM
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Définitely. Though I see a lot of exceptions to this, a lot of dating advice for men is « you have no friends circle this is why you’re alone »
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:16 AM
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And sometimes guys between the age of 18-20 date wome between the age of 20-23 I think people truly prefers someone close to their age, doesn’t matter if its younger or older, as long as the gap isn’t too much. Even in friendships, in a group of people with different ages, circles of friends naturally form within close age : 21 years old with 20 and 19 years old, 22 and 23 and 24together, and the 27-30 years old flock together, and don’t melt that much. If you give people option of being with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:14 AM
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You need to come home everyday to someone you like being with. Who brings yoy or peace and comfort. Or life becomes to hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:05 PM
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Some people are easier to love than others And the sooner you realize this and seek someone like that, the better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:01 PM
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Fair point. I wouldn’t have dated my boyfriend if we met through apps. But at the same time, I prefer to be friends with someone to learn more about them anyway, I’ve never used dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:15 AM
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Definitely. What the red pill forgets, is a terrible but true reality : throughout all of human history, the wars were numerous, abondant and slaughtering. Except since the nuclear bomb. All countries were always in some sort of wars. Ensuring that many young men die. As a result of this, there wasn’t as many competition for women. What would ruler di when there was too many young men and not enough work territory and women? Send em to war. Worst case they loose they die and the problem resolve …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:39 PM
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It’s probably just the lip fillers But screw him
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 04:52 PM
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Peak fertility is 25-34 years old. However safest age for the mother and baby is 22-29 years old. This is the preferrencial age for pregnancy : less risk of complications and less risk of dying for the mother. Having a baby before 22 is actually not that safe, a 18 year old is not entirely ready physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:20 AM
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Probably because they already feel miserable in their life. So they don’t care anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:04 AM
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I think that another problem is painting pregnancy as « no big deal », be a boss babe and get back at work afterwards… like it is a huge deal. It is a sacrifice to your husband, to society, it should be repected more if you choose to do it. And leaving a woman who is pregnant /cheating on her is a huge deal. Like there should be criminal record for this. You put her in this dangerous condition financially and physically and you leave? You are harmful to our society as a whole. Same for doing tha…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 11:32 PM
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Chino is the best option if you are trying to get women. They look both classy and casual, they make your legs look great and make your butt rounder (yes women like round butts in men). Don’t go for too bold colors like red, yellow, orange, pink. Stay in dark blue, dark grey, white, beige, baby blue, black, dark green As a man, your worse state of mind around fashion is being a « I love bold colors and prints » kind of guy. Actually, women like buisness looking colors, no prints, well fitted clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:15 PM
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Men also gain weight. I seriously wonder how those men with beer bellies so huge they don’t even see their dicks can reasonably have sex with their wives, like their bellies are cock blocking them. No way they can get close enough to have sex with their wives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:20 PM
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I agree with this. Just a look at the deadbedroom sub… many women kiss, hug and swear love to their husbands…while denying sex for years. Just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:15 PM
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Nope. Women will try to be next to men they want a relationship with. My bf has a good looking brother and our female friend recently asked us to do an activity together bit specifically ask if we could bring the brother lol. My bf and I laughed that she probs want his dick ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:11 PM
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Most of those rights are there because in the past women had no access whatsoever, no say whatsoever. While men had it all : education, college, child support, jobs, dating options, scholarships…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:06 PM
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I think 60kg, unless you are very short (under 1m50 cm) is a better goal. Look up BMI for advice, and only set up a goal within healthy bmi. Moving troughout the day (walking way more and 1 hour of moderate to strong exercise) is good, but you mostly need to watch the amount of food you eat. Don’t overeat. Don’t skip meals, but stop after one plate each meal. Stay away from junkfood, sweets and friedfood. Loosing 1 or 2kg a week is good. You might become ill if you loose more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 08:25 PM
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I just knew it was biology when reading your post, because I have the same issue I usually sht up. Uneducated people have a hard time understanding anyway, its not worth the trouble in the end
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 08:17 PM
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Oh my god. I know exactly what you’re talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 08:14 PM
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Hmm I almost never get attention from men. Just from my bf. He is literally the only guy who ever asked me out. There was a pickup artist years ago. That is all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:44 AM
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Not even true. Kids turn their back on their parents often once they reach a certain age. They also die
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:57 AM
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It is not, unless you historically refrained immigrants, like japan or korea. There has never been as much humans on earth as now, and its getting worse. If you are concerned, you are just racist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:50 AM
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Ok. So ideal. Am a woman, heterosexual. My ideal man : Brown, anything from very dark almost pitch black to very light brown is fine. I’d be fine with red head, but not with the typical « red head features » though, like a red head I would like, but not with round cheeks and super white, red skin that doesn’t tan. Blonde is fine, but same, I dislike that super white skin, with plump face and button noses look that natural blondes often have. Any eye color is fine, its more about the shape of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:58 PM
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Won’t have the energy for sex? Lol most husbands would be happy if their wife just lay there for sex after a few years of marriage. The man does the most energy draining job in most heterosexual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:02 PM
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I would leave after one month of this. If you won’t talk won’t adress your issue we are done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:22 AM
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Definitely. They do that. Its… not that great. I would have rather they fight everyday but stay together. At least I would have another adult to go to when my mother was acting up. Two parents are always always better than one, bc nobody is perfect and if you have only one adult, there is no one else to balance those flaws out for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:20 AM
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Definitely. They do that. Its… not that great. I would have rather they fight everyday but stay together. At least I would have another adult to go to when my mother was acting up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:20 AM
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I’ve never gotten a drink from a man I didn’t know. And I wouldn’t accept anyway, it could be drugged Only from my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:07 AM
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I don’t think so. Nature is full of bushes and small threes and holes. People went hiding Most nature isn’t some three-less arid toundra Beside, your attempt at putting on a same level some random catching a glance at two people having real, loving sex in real life, and compulsively touching yourself to material designed to be more gross and shocking each time you watch is a bit ridiculous and denies the reality for porn for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:15 PM
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This debate against porn isn’t about morality or christianity Watch around you, the opinions are changing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:13 PM
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And the good will always be mocked first and then justified in fighting the evil. That’s how it has always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:12 PM
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« Women weren’t giving me a chance » you wine like a little kid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:11 PM
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Hey people are allowed to have thoughts lol I feel like you are a bit vindictive. I do a lot of sports and I am very tensed up (anxiety) and in my country it is very hard to get appointments (like a month wait, so your physical problems are kinda resolved by themselves when u get to the appt) so having an at home physiotherapist would be of soo much help in my daily life. Besides I am not that « grown up » anyway ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:44 PM
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Why? If they talk good you’ll have plenty other opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:41 PM
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If they have no children or finances tying them together, the man would probably leave
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:54 PM
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Doctor. Physiotherapist is the absolute best. You could be ugly asf, women will drool at your feet (to get those massages daily lol). Rockstars and anything in entertainment is an absolute no. Too much risk of erratic behavior, wild lifestyle (cheating, drugs, partying, money overspending…) doesn’t give status. Status is very important. Even if women don’t think it is, because most women want children, and the man’s job will end up supporting her and her children for a while. The most well payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:58 AM
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Doctor is probably the best. The absolute most, is to be a physiotherapist. Women drool at physiotherapists feet. I think you can guess why. As a woman, my only regret is that my bf isn’t a doctor and a physiotherapist. So much social status and so much health benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:46 AM
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Or the woman is in a relationship. I was approached once by a fine gentleman Ofc I declined, I was already in a LTR. Women aren’t some sluts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:14 PM
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I observe the same thing : for me my sex drive is highly linked to seeing and being with my (LTR, 4 years) boyfriend. Being with him all day, no sex, is pure hell. I see him, I desire him. If we spend all day together (weekends/holidays) I am often willing to do it several times a day, he cannot keep up. The only times he wants me more is in stressful situations : my libido plummets while he seems totally unbothered (uncomfortable situations, etc..). Being away from him, it’s hard but I crave it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:19 PM
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The jacket ruin the sexyness / the fit. If you want the eye candy, you gotta bring a jacket for the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:43 PM
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My boyfriend was openly interested by astrology at the beginning of our relationship. I thought it was cute. Some feminine traits are always a good thing in a man. A secure man isn’t afraid to show feminity, because he knows what he is. He is secure. And it was indeed a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:33 AM
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Its true it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:56 PM
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Because people attracted sexually to each other and who make good friends don’t always make good partners. For good compatibility you need so much more than a friendship. Same values, same hobbies, same view on life plans, same way of thinking about how a romantic partner is supposed to act, … Maybe she likes you as a friend but there are several things that would irk her if you were a boyfriend. Exemples : she likes how you are such a good friend, but if she was your gf she would dislike how mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:58 PM
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It is not about a community. It is about what these avg guy do. The avg guys who make no efforts to talk to women that I know are all alone. The avg guys who make efforts have lots of pretty and intelligent gf. My bf is the only man who openly expressed interest (saying that he wanted me) in me since the day I was born
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:54 PM
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You get it. I pass by thousands of men every month (I live in a walkable city) yet a man will talk to me like once every two years. I am invisible to most men. The women in my country say men hit on them constantly. Where is this harassment I don’t understand. I must be the invisible one. Yes I have a bf, but I had none in high school and before. No one asked me out, I got rejected once. I had to court my bf, otherwise I would be in his friendzone. I don’t think I am ugly at all. Avg Women live …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:27 PM
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Its not a party. Its a festival. With thousands of people Strangers don’t know that the man one meter apart from me or in front of me talking with his friends is my bf I do not struggle with self image that much. I truly don’t get why men don’t hit on me more. The « constant harassment » is clearly overplayed or idk they only hit on women with huge boobs? It is confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:16 PM
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Having a bf is absolutely not an argument that counterargument my point. Like I could totally have been lucky with this one, honestly with how much he doesn’t care about appearance I sometimes wonder if he lacks some sort of visual function in his eyes. Anyway I digress. It doesn’t matter. If he wasn’t for him I probably would be single. When I walk in the streets I am invisible. Which does not seem to be the case for other women since they like to say they get « harassed » all the time. I never…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:29 PM
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The average guy will get a girl interested once every 5 years if he doesn’t regularly shoot his shot. I know plenty « average » guys, like way less physically attractive than my bf, average height and they get girls easily (pretty ones, good women) because they make the effort. They bring stuff to get the conversation started, they randomly compliment women, they do the talking and it really works Women (average women, not the looks obsessed models looking women) love to be noticed, to have some…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:02 PM
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It’s not about being a « better » person. Its about having « better » features. You know its different. And humans are social creatures and everyone wants to love and be loved. You cannot deny that. Any features that makes this easier is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:59 PM
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True I think this is the end of purple debate everyone. It is the simple truth. Forever alone people just don’t hit on people enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:40 PM
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No no, this is women’s reality. I look fine, but I probably look quite average, and even when I look my best (getting lots of compliments from people who know me) looking very fine in pictures, I barely get looks from strangers. As if I was translucid, non existent. I went to an event with tons of people, I was looking very good, dressed for the occasion, my bf’s male friends say my outfit was really good, and I catched only two interested glances from men during the whole party (relatively good…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:32 PM
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If a feature makes you more likely to attract easily a partner, then yes it is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:17 PM
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Because its slightly more rare. People tend to like rarer features
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:03 PM
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There is literally no difference between the bodies of the women you linked. None. Except one is sweating more. Is that it? You think women aren’t supposed to sweat? Surprise surprise we poop sweat and fart. Deal with it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:56 PM
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True that lol Especially the women. The average woman has fat thighs and ankles and no abs. The woman with purple hair has rare skinny legs genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:41 PM
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I- I mean this soooooo specific I am almost speechless OP. I first read the title I was like « oh, a woman like me then? » it started well, feminine clothing nails, jewelry okay, okay I see nothing wrong here. But the plushies? The not going to the gym? Why though? Is this a fetish for you? This is weird. You say you need a partner who looks the most tiny possible (no muscles, no going to the gym or any sport too speedy or strong) and who likes children plushies? Did you got this preference from…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:22 PM
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What kind exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:48 AM
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Brunette is low effort. Being blonde takes either winning the genetic lottery either a lot of efforts and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:48 AM
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I should move to the states then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:41 AM
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They still dress to send messages to others. Fashion statement is a message for others. A particular style sends a message. It is done on purpose. You dress to inform others. Not for yourself. « Look I am part of this specific group » « look I disagree with japan’s specific rules for women » It is still for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:00 AM
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Even a simple flowy dress with upper knee lenght and shoulders can be considered over the top. Its a basic way for women to dress yet its considered « sexy » « over the top ». And people judge you for wearing it outside of special events… I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:47 AM
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Yes. But that’s mostly because the average man doesn’t put that much effort into his appearance in comparison to the average woman. The gap could easily be solved by more efforts Better, longer hair, better haircuts, better mustache, good care of it, better clothes, … They don’t stand out, but that is because they don’t make efforts to… its not that hard, its just most pen don’t try at all. They wear the same shitty outfit all day everyday, for every activity, trim their hair super short and won…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:22 AM
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If all of this is true, you must be very pretty. Or tell me how you dress, bc damn, must be exactly what dudes are looking for. I am young, skinny like you and I neveeer get that amount of attention. I swear they are hitting on you crazy.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 03:56 PM
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Definitely. Women can tell the insecure / too high ego in the way you speak. OP should work on his chill skills. Best dates are chill dates.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 01:37 PM
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It is sooo hard to find people willing to do a)same hobbies as you b) that you vibe with I like hiking, jogging, … I do not vibe with people who like those at all its like people who likes this all have a certain personality that I despise. The few people in the clubs I went to either weren’t my age, either wouldn’t talk to me (men usually) and there was almost no women People I vibe with couldn’t run 10 min if a zombie was chasing them It doesn’t help that I am a woman in relationship with a ma…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 09:20 AM
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What in her personality turned you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:13 PM
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Definitely. As a woman, women love that shit. Don’t listen to the rumble, learning guitar, riding a motorcycle, picking up women in a sport car (even a small inexpensive sportcar, the thing is not money, it is adventurous behaviour : if you speed in a basic car, it is better than driving slow in a sport car), taking the woman in adventures : hiking, swimming, countries abroad, taking her to concerts, festivals…. That is what get pussy wet. 100%. Then you swear fidelity to the woman, and you will…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:59 PM
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No. As a woman, no. A lot of women don’t dress for themselves. If you see a woman who doesn’t follow social rules, doesn’t dress sexy at all, almost tomboy, with special touches of personality (like designer tee shirts) ok, then, maybe she does. But all the others? Nah. When a human pick a cloth, he do it to send a message. Nudity? Sexiness? Signals Sexual availability, or just need for attention and conformity in a sexually charged society/ environment. Trends following? Just the right amount o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:32 AM
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The trick thing is that yes dating is mostly easier for women. Now why is it? Because once you get in a relationship it is where the bad things start. Where the reason why women are pickier and men are easy reveals. Pregnancy is a HUGE deal. Just a bit of good research into how it wrecks a woman’s body even if u are lucky will give you chills and doubts. Not even talking about all the problems we get from having sex with a man that men amost never get : greater symptoms from STDs, horrible UTIs …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:26 AM
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I feel like you gave up a bit too soon though. My bf is fairly attractive and he only had sex at 19. 19 is actually a common age to have ur first time in well educated neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:37 PM
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Because Emma watson is literally what white women should seek to look like. She isn’t fat nor underweight . Good weight, healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:03 PM
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It’s « petite » but petite also means often really small height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:01 PM
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Isn’t it the point of this sub? Unless you care only when it’s about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:11 AM
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Society screams to women faces all day long everyday how to be perfect, what women are attractive and create new flaws to be ashamed of all the time : thigh gaps, hips gap, cellulite, waist not thin as a piece of paper, nose slightly too big, skin not absolutely perfect…. Most women shown in movies and mainstream media are 10s. You see some 6-9 often, but NEVER below 6-7. Old and ugly women are totally NEVER there. Old women are often played by much younger actresses. They all are heavily botoxe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:55 PM
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I agree. Sometimes men come up to me with genuine need for help and I know its genuine, I help them, even if its dark or I am alone. But when the vibe is off I just know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:22 PM
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I don’t know how some women claim to be « approached and harassed all the time » Because it doesn’t happen in reality. Like it happens sometimes, like maybe once a month, but its not every time. Those women must either live in a bad neighborhood or dress too provocatively (yes I know I know, it’s mysogynistic to say, its victim blaming, but there is a bit of truth to that. Like no one deserve to be harassed, gropped, r*ped, whatever their outfit. No one is asking for sexual assault. And clothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:05 PM
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Yes! This is exactly what’s happening
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:47 PM
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Okay but even men we know don’t approach anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:38 PM
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You are delusional A ton of women are under 165 cm. Which means 189 cm tall men are already towering over them, at 23 cm taller!! 175-180 is already enough for the average woman (163-165 cm)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:42 AM
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Definitely. I think that a lot of men who finds themselves still single but are above average or average are single because they are indeed in that infamous situation of « no one wants me » « I want you » « nooo not you »… and then after years of hypergamy prospects, around their thirties, those men marry some girl who doesn’t really desire them, see them as betabucks and they go on to complain all their life how « all women are low libido anyway » when they should have settled for the girl unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:39 AM
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Definitely. I am hanging onto my friendships like if they were vital to my survival, because in less than two years, it will be over. My ability ti make good friendships will be over. I am very lucky to have met a good man in college. As soon as it is over, my social prospects will be nearly over to very reduced. I will have to make fastidious efforts to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:24 AM
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Definitely It’s always « blabla women want taller men, hence the collapse of society, women should lower their standards or else patriarchywill destroy us all » Somehow it’s never « men only want women with big boobs yet it has been shown to have absolutely NO links to fertility and ability to give milk, men should lower their standards cause its just causing evolutionary back pain for women » lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:42 PM
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21 cm is a bit much though. In my experience, most happy couples around me have like a 10-15 cm difference maximum. I think it’s the ideal. Anything over that, and it gets weird. You can’t even kiss the girl without breaking both necks. The average woman is 165, the average man is 175. Its perfect height difference. For women around 170 cm, men around 180 cm are great. And so on I think that if the average difference between men and women is 10 cm is a clue from nature that women only need that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:27 PM
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I barely make minimum wage (still studying) So ofc no. We would just starve and be homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:44 AM
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People just eat too much Its not about what you eat or your lifestyle. But sometimes you know, its just about eating the whole cheese instead of a slice, 3 plate of rice in the evenings instead of one… as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:58 PM
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Yes. Absolutely. But I’d have to make a sht ton of money though. To support everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:08 AM
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Your are missing the point. Its not about your feelings. Its about how to make women feel safe so they accept your request of dating. So can get a date. In this context, you talking about feeling personally attacked at the mere suggestion that since a significant part of the male population is dangerous, you might come off as dangerous to random women, is not welcomed. You want to get a date with the opposite gender, the discussion is about how to get the opposite gender to like you. Its not abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:55 PM
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I have never been hit on when I was at the var or danceclub, yet I kinda expect it, and often in the streets, when I least expect it, they hit on me. Seriously it’s annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:50 PM
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You must turn the eggs into homogeneous liquid before you put them in the frying pan. Then you must not touch it before its already well cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:52 AM
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Definitely. In terms of population regrowth, women are so valuable. If you want to repopulate a village fast, if most of your women are dead, you are doomed. If most of the guys are dead, no hope is lost. In a year or two you will already have plenty of babies. But if you have one woman left, in a year you’ll have one baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:49 AM
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The « fixed » ones all look the same. Its time we allow women to have character and to display their uniqueness and personality trough diverse facial features, like we already allow men to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:10 AM
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Irl I see plenty of young couples splitting. I work in a damn restaurant. The number of women paying the whole check is equal to the number of men paying the whole check. If the woman you are dating refuse to split, just stop dating her? If she is so pretty you won’t break up over the bill splitting issue, that is on you lol, and that woman know her worth hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:38 PM
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I absolutely love chivalry. And romance. It must be done with social intelligence ofc. See, women are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:29 PM
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Yeah, the cute « date, I pay, lets do activities together » is a good idea only with girls you meet organically, who already met your friends, you are friends before being lovers. With online dating you gotta be wayyy more careful. Or you will just get stolen time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:26 PM
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Men have stretch marks too. Its not a female thing. It just happens when a part of your body grows too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:38 PM
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Definitely. But most men don’t wear them. Probably because after all clothes are expensive, and wearing revealing clothes specifically designed for the gym isn’t a requirement for a guy to be sexy, but it is one for a girl to be sexy at the gym… some food for thought Women’s value is highly linked to our appearance, our body. We are expected to dress sexy. To have the latest sexy on trend clothes in every situation : at the beach, at the restaurant, at the bar, at school, at the gym, at a sports…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:34 PM
0

Definitely Ahahahahaha Tjis is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:20 PM
2

What if he doesn’t want to lead though? I am afraid he is too used to lay back on things. He lets his sister, brother disrespect him. How can I submit to someone so weak? Do you think if I show him respect he will make others respect him? I do not want to be below someone who’s below others. I am the kind of personality who submit to competent people only … I respect my managers / boss always because they tend to be competent people, whose authority is felt in the atmosphere around them. I do no…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 01:12 PM
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Its more about energy than men think. My boyfriend has several guy friends that I have met. I’ve also met guy friends of my girl friend’s boyfriend. And some of those guys are totally not chad looking. 5’9 at best, small frame, not a particularly good face. But some of them, because they have such a good vibe around them, masculine personality, assertiveness, intelligence, good conversation, ambition, I could definitely date/ be attracted to sexually. However, some of them, because they don’t dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:53 PM
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I am not fat, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:53 PM
2

Yeah, when he goes all « your the love of my life, I love y so much » its get hard to pull away Ahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:38 PM
2

Same. I ended up catching feelings though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:23 AM
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That’s very good advice. What if your father gave up on you when you were a baby? I do not have hate for him though, I know why he did what he did (depression and a bad partner (my mom)) but it seems a bit harsh to think that a woman with an absent father is necessarily going to be a bad wife. I respect men, I respect myself, despite growing up with little manly figure in my life. Your own father, your own mother aren’t the only adults who can give you good exemples of parenting and relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/23 10:27 PM
1

« No one like a sausage fest » wow. Do you hear yourself talking about men? That would be like describing women as a « hole fest ». That is so so derogatory. Don’t say that please. I absolutely do not like the idea of you referring to my male friends as « sausages ». Idk what sources you have on that, I don’t think more women are invited for sexists reasons. I think the reasons are that a) women are doing the invites and may like more women than more men (I personally like more men but I am an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:41 AM
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This is so true. I wish it wasn’t but its the truth. My boyfriend and I are clear on the baby subject « not now, and probably not even later ». Yet he’s the one always pushing risky behavior. Always always « oh I don’t like condoms can we do it without » « no not safe » « I want to cum inside » « no not safe baby ». I mean it’s exhausting. Why so reckless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:30 AM
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I really think that you can keep the « frequent sex » going in a marriage or a LTR. What you are missing is that the « amount if initial attraction » is important but not the only factor. The thing is women are widely different. You have women convinced that 50% of keeping things good with your husband is having sex at least once or twice a week if not more, and women who see nothing wrong with not masturbating like ever, not having sex like ever and then get in relationships with men like they …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:13 AM
3

There are less obese women in other white countries though. America is the country with the biggest number of fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:18 AM
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5foot4inches is actually the average woman size in America… you shouldn’t put a size that high if you want good results. People are actually quite small on average, esp women. Maybe put above 5foot instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:26 PM
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The thing is a lot of women are in polyamorous relationship with the 20 top pourcent of men, without knowing it. Like those men make them think they are in a relationship which will be serious soon, but the truth is they are in a relationship with other women. I think that more men than we think have several women, without those women knowledge. And it can go on several months, even years. The problem is society normalize men not comitting, not seeing the friends, the parents, being in « its com…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:05 PM
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It’s social « fauxpas »
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:19 AM
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No. You can have most of your body fat arround you waist as a woman. With a bmi under 20-25
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:31 PM
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If you can truly parent selflessly, good for u and your futur children, but my parents (and most parents actually) didn’t have this mentality though, and I think its time someone finally take good care of me, and that person will be myself. I cannot raise well adjusted, good human beings with all the resentment and bitterness I have from my childhood. On top of that I just hate it. Besides, its not like its all sunshine and roses. there are too many of us and our boat is sinking. In this context…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:38 PM
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Sorry but your comment is hard to read, I don’t get what you are trying to say at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:32 PM
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Except that is not the truth. A ton of women do not possess this specific weight distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:31 PM
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Why are you so bitter though? Why does my life plans makes you so bitter? Jealousy? Loneliness? I can only wonder. And? It is none of your buisness. if I find someone like this, good, If I don’t then I will stay single, and provide for myself, whatever. It’s not that important. Besides, I was clear in my comment how I knew how hard it was to 1) find a man like this 2) even harder nowadays. You seem a bit quick to judge. You judge that my art is « mediocre » and that I am a cheater. If my art is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:30 PM
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Ok then Challenge accepted Just for you I will try to sleep at least 10 hour every single night and not eat a single sugary or bad food for like two-three weeks I freaking bet the result will the same. I have always had them, even at like 10-11 years old, so I higly doubt its going to change anything I will do a before/after close up picture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:23 PM
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If we don’t share values anymore : Then I will just divorce. That’s the magic of the childfree life, you aren’t trapped to someone one way or another forever, and if you divorce with kids, you push abother human being through trauma because of your selfishness and lack of good evaluation of your partner, isn’t that absolutely fantastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:55 PM
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Definitely. However the body standards of 2015-2020 era is way harder to attain than that of 2000-2010 era. In 2000-2010 any white girl could just loose a bit of weight and boom she was a body icon, (and kinda more healthy anyway as long as she didn’t fall into eating disorders) but there is no way to become the ideal standard of nowadays with no surgery if you don’t have the rare genetic of it already. They ask for a waist that even most very skinny girls don’t have, with boobs and ass that eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:27 PM
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Fat goes everywhere in the body
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:32 PM
2

Yes mostly, but men as well. And if men don’t comment, they will act as you don’t exist for exemple. Which can be problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:30 PM
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We will talk about that in some years, when you side eye the youthful looking women joggers/hikers and sigh at the sight of your overweight couch wife at home. Shared values include sharing the values of doing sports regularly… beware of judgmental behavior towards your wife later in life…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:22 PM
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You are delusional Lots of people eat very healthy and sleep alot from a very young age and still have some amount of dark circles. A lot actually. It’s called genetics Especially women, they tend to have more crease, due to their skin being thinner, especially on this area of the face. Do you seriously think beauty products for undereye would be so successful if it was just a sleep problem? A lot of women need them weither they are on vacation sleeping 12 hours a day or on buisness day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:15 PM
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Definitely Would have been 10 times better with a bit less feminism and a bit less « boss babe » culture. I hate that novody bats an eye when in a couple the man doesn’t pay in dates, in group dates lets the women pay, or even worse, doesn’t work that much and lets the woman do all the side jobs. It’s rudiculous imo. Women already put so so much efforts in their daily lives just to look good imo. However 1) I don’t want children that much, I dislike childrearing, that means I would have to find …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:10 PM
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That is absolutely not a gendered thing! People who put efforts into their social life in returns get a rewarding social life… like it just makes sense. If most of my friends are my bf’s and that doesn’t mean he has a « privilege » he makes efforts to text everyday, to organize parties every week, I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:02 PM
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I feel like it’s unfair for the men and pretty sociopathic, But as a bilingual women who loves working multiple jobs I am kinda thrilled they’d hire me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:06 PM
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I don’t know if it interest you, but as a woman who doesn’t want children, I work hard (I really work hard like I have three jobs) because : 1) I need money to take care of myself. Beauty standards for women are really hard nowadays and I have no man to take care of that for me thanks to feminism (dad opt out, buisness mother who won’t provide for her children, and boyfriend won’t provide either) 2) since no provider, I need to work hard to be able to do what I like later/in my free time, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:27 PM
2

Same, they are attractive aff ugh That perfect torso to leg ratio, with thick and athletic thighs uuu They were also much more intelligent somehow, more quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:14 PM
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You Probably never seen it because that chick hide it purposefully with implants/clothing just so hateful and stupid men like you don’t judge her!! Women actually cannot control their body fat. You can see how different women bodies look on internet easily. Maybe stop only looking at women with the hastag #fat ass and fat boobs #S shape #perfect shape. And maybe then you will start to notice that women with bellies and no ass and boobs are plentiful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:09 PM
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Definitely, a lot of women that look skinny fully clothed, you’d be surprised how much of them have bellies, thicker waistline, full shoulders …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:04 PM
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Probably that curve when you look at women with lordosis from the side, you have the tummy curve and the ass curve on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:02 PM
1

Most women either want 2 or 7. I like 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:56 PM
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We need more explanations and examples because this is very very unexpected from men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:52 PM
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It’s appreciated. The huge ass lovers are way too vocal, it’s sometimes hard. I love my ass, I think it’s very far from flat and very cute, yet often I come across a picture of a woman with the same ass, I am like wow so hot, nice, but there is a comment like « she’s flat » « basic white girl ass » when it’s clear that that women has over average plumpness in her butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:51 PM
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Tbh with you, I don’t understand why this isn’t an universally greatly desired trait in women, why men don’t seem to care about thin, great looking hands. I mean thin, long hands look so much better and sexy around a dick than those puffy, sausage looking hands. Imo, when we interview men about desirable traits in women, there should be more « good looking hands, to look good on my dick » idk, it makes sense to me. But the majority seems to not care. That’s weird. Same with dainty, feminine feet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:45 PM
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The amount of likes on thin women with fake boobs versus thin women with extra small boobs seems to disagree with that though. And it’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:40 PM
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Definitely. We like a tough looking man but with a kind and honest heart, and what’s better than kind looking eyes to convey that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:38 PM
1

That is false. Women who don’t wear makeup don’t because they know they don’t need to. The majority of women wear makeup because they always needed to. Or else people will comment on their dark under eyes, pale lips, unexistent pink cheeks, … starting from teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:35 PM
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Understandable. Never loose those standards, it’s important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:22 PM
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I think that it’s another way men are delusional. You need to be more picky. I see too many guys who absolutely love going hiking several hours in the summer and who go jogging once or twice in the week who are married to chicks who dislike long physical activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:18 PM
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1 hour sex may be a bit too long. At one point, natural librification starts to not be enough. Use artificial librification. Be aroused (wet) yourself before penetration. (Kiss a lot before hand, touch each other, …) The same position for one hour is always painful at some point. Switch positions. Do not do it in a position that is painful for you. If you feel like he is « reaching the cervix » (the end of the vagina), and it hurts you at the end of each thrust, then he needs to go less deep. It…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 10:24 AM
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You can’t compare objects(cars) and pets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:07 PM
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Cats are not like that. They have unique and very diverse personalities just like humans. Some are very friendly, some very introverted, some in the middle. They very often follow and seek the company of their favorite human, follow them around, seek pets from them. Having a cat is very rewarding. And is much like having a human friend : you have to be nice to them so they are nice to you back. Not like dogs who are way too easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:05 PM
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You don’t have to have kids in a marriage though Children aren’t for me either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:59 PM
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Definitely And what if she collapse? How can « playing with your life lol » can be a good idea? It is beyond my understanding capacities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:22 PM
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A little rough doesn’t mean choking though You can swap positions a bit rough, do it a bit more rough, push the woman against the wall, lightly put your hands around her neck, slap her ass You don’t have to choke her… choking is the eesy way out for men who want to get away with murdering women « it was just an accident » and women who clearly need therapists because they are using sex as selfharm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:21 PM
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The neck is a very sensitive area, too often forgotten by men. But I think just lightly putting the hands on the neck with no pressure or good kissing on the neck is enough stimulation. Choking is definitely dangerous. People shouldn’t do that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:51 PM
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Oooh. The grooming is bearing its fruits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:48 PM
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I really like her as well
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 08:01 AM
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It’s the weight. The only reason men are convinced women over the age of 30/35 hit the wall is they often put on weight and are unwilling to lose it. But without the weight gain, they would stay as sexy as they were before The true marriage advice I will give you as a woman, is date a girl slightly on the thinner side and one who is like that because she knows how to eat well. Or else you will be married to a lenna dunham type by the time you both reach 35 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:08 AM
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This is the problem. The problem is not the approach (though a few bad apples are clearly screaming to never approach on twitter, but don’t listen to them) The problem is with the reaction of the man if he is rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:29 AM
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They all do that. I hate it. Why why. Can’t we at least smile at each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:32 AM
1

Hey :) I too had problems like boys turning asking me out into a joke, no one ever asking me out seriously, no boyfriends… Yet you wouldn’t believe it if you saw a picture of me then, and you wouldn’t believe it at all if you saw me now. People are cruel. A slight difference from the group and boom you are the picked on one. For all I know, it could be your interests, your personality that turns you into an easy victim /a left out one! For myself I think that they didn’t think I was ugly. I have…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 06:24 AM
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Or maybe they are just stupid? Just a possibility. I grew up with absolutely no man in my life, but I am perfectly able to seek red and green flags and I found a good man I think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:44 PM
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Definitely. And a good way to find out your looksmatch is to ask girls out. If you always get rejected, you are trying too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:39 PM
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Definitely. I may don’t wear the clothes that reveal my true personality or my true social status. But it doesn’t really matter. Because I am the kind of person who will wear clothes to get advantages in society. That IS who I am. I am not the person my clothing show. But I am the person that will manipulate you into thinking I am. (And it works lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:37 PM
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Marriage contracts can be what you make of them. Never sign something you didn’t read and approved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:34 PM
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Depends on the situation. If we are really committed and on our way to marriage, and the guy is paying back a loan for the house, then yes I would want the girlfriend to pay a bit of the loan as well to help. However if the house is some sort of heritage or already paid back entirely by the partner, then no. The girlfriend isn’t some sort of way to make money out of your house! Just get a stranger to co live with you if you are this obsessed over money lol. The groceries are to be split equally,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:32 PM
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The best way is to say something along the line of « you can think about it and tell me later » or « no pressure I was just asking just like that cause I thought you were pretty and that we could be pretty together, but it’s fine if it’s not mutual » and if she decline politely, be extra nice and go away quickly. The real reason women are tipsy about cold approach is we are weak and you are strong. If we say no, you could easily harm us. The more you act laid back, nice, not serious about it lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:13 PM
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Definitely. The problem is that now we don’t allow women to work with their children, but we don’t pay them more to afford babysitters. And we can’t live on just one salary. And then they complain that women aren’t having babies or having them latter I can’t afford it duh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:07 PM
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This is what happens though. Men are unable to work AND do house chores, and women who don’t want to do more house chores (because more laundry if there is a man) just to be in a relationship are increasingly choosing singleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:03 PM
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I don’t think so though. The reality is, if both work full time and the man earns so much that he totally, ridiculously out earn his wife, then the total income is certainly enough to pay people to do those home tasks. (Babysitter, home cleaner, …) So there is no debate. The reality is, in most households, the difference in income isn’t significant but the woman still do more housework. And it’s unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:58 PM
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Definitely. Women are still unable to express themselves sexually like men can, and this is something men fail to see. They think the average girl in their friends group is sexless because they don’t talk about sex or joke about sex like some/most of their male friends do, but the thing is, all they think about is sex, too. If we stopped the slut shaming but still continue with showing over sexualisation of women in the medias, all women would walk in oversexualised skimpy outfits, because most …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:50 PM
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This. And then ofc we are happy if he pays. Who wouldn’t be happy about having a rich partner and not having to spend one’s hard earned money all the time? It’s not a gendered thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:24 PM
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Oh my god. You just put into words what I often think about short men. I swear I have seen some if the most sexy bodies IRL in short men. I would have hit on them but I am already in a loving relationship. Like they were definitely my type. Short men shouldn’t think women won’t date them because of that bc there are a million things women value more than height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:11 PM
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It’s good that you know that women masturbate to scenarios. But that means any man intelligent enough to make that scenario happen can get women easily. It’s the truth. Men should learn more about that. Women literally die their hair blonde in mass to stimulate visual men. And it works. yet why don’t men try to emulate the « scenarios » more? I don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:08 PM
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Definitely You have to look presentable to the parents and friends, so a good style (casual, fitted, clean, no clothing wrinkles, professional, slightly on trends) good hair and hygiene, good personality (able to have a decent conversation, good social circle) is more important than « must be absolutely over 6 inches, jaw that can cut sharp! » Ofc, if you want to have sex with a different woman every night, then yes, blackpill. But if the goal is long term, you don’t have to perfectly fit the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:02 PM
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Definitely and I would add that you claim to not notice them OP, but the truth is you don’t remember them or/and don’t consider them « women ». That obese cashier is a woman. That old and slender looking woman is a woman. That very very small woman looking like a toddler is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:46 PM
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Definitely. I HAVE NEVER been hit on in bars, clubs, one guy tried in the streets once but might have been a pick up artist (and I was already in a relationship), a group of guys tried at university and the only other guy that vocally expressed interest is my current and only boyfriend (met at uni/mutual friends). In 23 years. You cannot tell me this can be described as « constant attention ». I am very often in situations where it could happen though (alone walking in the city center, in the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:40 PM
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Oh if it was different in the past, then definitely. Guys never cold approach nowadays. They look frozen in place. Most of the time when I pass by (or even in bars and clubs!) a guy my age/my looks match, I feel like it goes like this : « Oh wow. I must not look at her. Not look. Not look. Oh, she’s gone, oh well. » They don’t even look anymore The only attention we ever get anymore is creeps and old men (so creeps, and when I say old I mean 60+)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:33 PM
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Same. And honestly if I showed my ass and myself on socials I could get a decent following. But the thing is, women don’t walk around in skimpy dresses and swimsuits in the streets, and irl, men don’t really hit on us. Events where men who aren’t actual psychopaths/houseless/creepy very old (more than 60 years old), hit on us ARE VERY RARE whatever your looks!! Women don’t get that much attention !!! Even in bars, when I was dressed suggestively, dancing, alone, NO ONE hit on me. No fcking one. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:29 PM
2

I think even you can easily form a rational hypothesis in your head to understand why we won’t do that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:22 PM
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Definitely. This is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:18 PM
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Hey, women get rejected too, okay? Because you don’t have any standards as a man doesn’t mean other men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:13 PM
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I have one friend like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:11 PM
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The fact that the man is in way under league than her takes out most of the « validating » effect tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:26 AM
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This is the most scary. To never know and to never suspect a single thing, and yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:06 PM
6

Exactly. Why should we choose? Both are responsible here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:57 PM
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And what are those red flags? Asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:54 PM
2

Get the habit of doing things naked when your partner isn’t around. Clean naked. Watch tv naked. Get used to seeing parts of your body often. Look at yourself when you take a shower. Then you can slowly try to be naked without the context of sex next to your partner (watch tv naked together, clean naked together…) Most importantly : sleep naked. Always.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/23 07:44 PM
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Not true. I could set up my man dating profile quite good. I take good pictures of him. His pictures are really horrible though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:54 PM
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I agree so much with you. A lot of the « women don’t want sex as much as men, proof : my wife want it less/never wants it » is the result of men getting trophy wives/wives slightly above them in terms of looks. Marry a woman who chose you because she know you are the best looking guy she can get, and not the richest/better class, and you will have sex whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:47 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:44 PM
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Women are highly socialized to be nice and walk on eggshells around people’s feelings and emotions, to always be diplomatic, nice and respectful. This is part of the reason why men are often awful for public service jobs on average in comparison with their female counterparts (jobs such as waitressing, pharmacies, supermarket vendor). Women are socialized from birth to pretend to be more patient and will not show their discomfort as easily, even when a client is over the counter problematic. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:56 PM
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You aren’t crazy. This is how you form healthy relationships. Because one day the physical attraction will lower immensely. And then what is left to love? We should all be very very cautious of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:08 AM
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I agree, I think he should have gave it a try. Sometimes feeling change when u get to know someone more. Sometimes its just too soon. And where is the time wasted if he actually liked her company ? After all if he chose her, he could have ended up talking with her everyday, as his husband. If you aren’t willing to be friends for a while with the person you are so attracted to, then is it really attraction or just physical attraction ? If I really like a guy for a relationship, I desire him but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:04 AM
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If that’s really what interest them, then in my experience men are really bad at vetting and researching for this specific quality.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 09:53 PM
1

Same
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 09:46 PM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:56 AM
0

And as a woman. Why the sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:55 AM
1

Not true. Make your research. For exemple, risk of autism, trisomy 21 increase greatly with older men as with older women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:55 AM
1

No it’s false. Men over 35 are also at risk of having problems with their offsprings. Autism, diverse health risks and lack of fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:53 AM
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They confuse marriage and kids though. If you are already in a comitted, loving LTR, Marriage has very little impact. It’s just a gesture of love, some papers and a big party with ur family and friends. Getting married young is good, as long as you are sure about it. Children however, it’s a whole other thing. They change everything. For the worse often. I surely don’t recommend having them young, and maybe even not having any is also a good option. Why ruin a good couple dynamic with problems i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:00 PM
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It’d not just about fertility. The sperm of old men convey risks of genetic diseases, miscarriage and general problems as much as an older woman being pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:53 PM
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Your pick of clothes is very very unflattering and very unfashionable. You are probably 30 something but you look 45+
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 03:20 PM
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Maybe. But is it the 5 female’s fault if the 6 or 7 males act desesperate and settle for the first woman to show interest, even if that woman is a 4 or a 5? Or is it the males fault for being so desesperate, especially on dating apps, trying to match with all the women and making the women feel like they have many options… just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:12 AM
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That is a very good point. However I think the majority of the tests will come back saying the man in the room is indeed the biological father. And for those tests, there won’t need a second or a third test. Most of the tests will be showing the reality anyway, and everyone goes home happy. The only tests results that will require a lot of secondary tests to make sure there was no mistake is the tests coming back saying the man in the room isn’t the father. Because those are the results that cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:12 AM
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I like the arrangement and I think any man or woman lucky enough to find a partner willing to do that is good because sharing work and housework is really hard on the mental and physical health. However I want to point that this arrangement can be dangerous for women as in is the man in the arrangement only for the « banging body » or also for the rest of it? And that the woman should make sure he stay interested even when her body isn’t as fresh, because otherwise, the danger of her becoming so…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:09 AM
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How much time do you take in the morning to get your physical appearance ready? In the evenings before sleep? I bet it’s 10 min shower and 5 min getting dressed and brushing teeth. This is nowhere near what most women go trough. And women have to get near men they are interested in. Most of time only the creeps have the balls to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:56 AM
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Definitely. Also maybe he is not on the topic of marriage yet because he doesn’t even know if you are compatible enough to live together. OP, this is important to know before marrying someone. There need to be common points in your routine or a wish to accommodate from both parts, and that can only be evaluated by moving in together. You can also go to the other’s place more often, to start. And then when he will see how you two are such a good fit, he will want to marry you (or not and time to …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 06:10 AM
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Definitely. If he ties marriage to feeling old eeeeh, it’s not going to happen at 30 or 35. For exemple, my boyfriend ties marriage to « as soon as I have my diploma and a little money aside to pay for it » which is already far more achievable in the near future (probably in max two or three years). I will be 25 in three years. Marriage isn’t a milestone to do when you feel old. Marriage is a proof of a man’s deep love and unconditional commitment for life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 06:03 AM
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Exactly. They know a woman cannot be 100% on a man. They know it. The lies they tell are just a philosophy that brings them money home, but they don’t even believe it themselves. They know it has huge flaws in real life. If we were to really make women rely 100% on men, we need to make sure they get heavily compensated every single time he leaves her or she has to leave him because he’s violent or stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:17 PM
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It’s just that the real world outside of dating apps isn’t like the feminists say « full of men asking for your hands, telling you how pretty they find you, drooling over you » and so much that they say it’s harassment. it is just not true. I have never felt that, nor my friends, whatever the size if the city. Ofc There are some creepy old and often houseless men who will tell us how pretty they find us, but they are rare, and the other men always keep to themselves. Even in dancing rooms, bars,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:54 AM
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I am just stating how things are I am not single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:15 AM
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But women that aren’t « fat slobs » don’t get approached that often either. It’s a lie feminists tell men. It’s not true. I mostly fit in the beauty standards, yet I almost never get approached. I try to dress with a good balance of classy/modest and sexy, trendy. But it doesn’t make a difference. Yes sometimes old men will tell me I look pretty, « princess » but it is a rare event. Probably happen like once a month or once every three month. But actually getting approached by men for a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:37 AM
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I searched people like me by entering my specifics and it found 1 people like me. Yay Ahahahahaha You can’t tell me I am average now cries Edit : I modified the height slightly because I am in between numbers and there are no one like me T.T
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:19 AM
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Definitely. But it’s very comparable to killing a plant. So yeah, not that horrible in comparison to the horrible life that kid would live or even how miserable it would make my own life. It’s always better to prioritize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:08 AM
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I definitely need to go to korea or japan to find well fitted rings and bracelets… cries
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:14 AM
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France. They don’t do that in France. « Engagements » are sometimes non existent, no ring or you propose with the same ring you will give at the wedding. The « ring » is actually the wedding ring. Everyone only have one. My mom and dad got married 25 years ago and their ring was already not a diamond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:07 AM
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I would. If the materials can last a lifetime and the ring look expensive and pretty, why not? A man can buy a 10 000 ring and still cheat. Expensive gifts are not the end all be all. I care more about actions showing commitment such as driving long hours even after work just to see me, coming up with nice surprise dates, small surprise gifts. Signs that you care in the daily are way more important. I don’t want children, but if I did I would rather the man buy a bigger house with enough rooms, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:03 AM
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Definitely. Men often pretend just to joke about it with their friends. Or just to have sex. But they are not really attracted to you. Hence why women get defensive every time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:49 AM
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Poor people don’t have many options in poor countries. Esp women. It’s the easy way out but at the cost of your mental integrity and well being. You seem to not know a lot about the rezlity of women who are sexually exploited. I suggest documentaries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:29 PM
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Psychiatry is actually a good specialty. I don’t care what people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:23 PM
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I don’t think porn necessarily represents real life. Studies have shown porn addicts need more weird and more stimulating material as time goes by, and honestly the average porn user becomes some sort of an addict really fast (like once a week is certainly some level of addiction to it and lead to desensitized brain very fast which lead to more out of the ordinary material, and I think bbw can be it). For exemple a man who is completely heterosexual can end up watching homo porn or porn involvin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:11 PM
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Women with a good appetite are not necessarily overweight or average weight though. But its still a good point, probably works for the general population Love your last point. It’s definitely what happens Ahahahahaha I know real life exemples of this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:00 PM
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The thing that surprised me the most in that study was men preferred women with stronger upper body and lean legs than lean upper body and stronger legs. Like? That’s weird. I think if they surveyed the general population instead of men who are very interested in fitness and healthy habits like it’s the case for this study, the average man would pick the other option, but that’s just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:39 PM
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Yes. I hate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:28 PM
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I don’t think it’s always true. My bf has a good amount of T and doesn’t give a single f about this whole purple pill and manosphere thing, but he has told me that he really prefers thin to average weight women (so between 16 and 25 BMI) to a fat one. And he would probably not type bbw ever because he told me he feels nothing at the sight of black women (remember it’s okay to have sexual preferences as long as you are respectful and not mean about it). I don’t think men who cannot fathom having …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:26 PM
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Definitely. But I will argue that fat women who don’t get a fair amount of fat in their stomachs area are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:18 PM
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Nope. Women actually have on average genes for storing a lot of fat in the stomach when they put on weight it’s the primary area for storage like men. They also gain fat in the boobs and ass and arms, but the stomach and ribs area get a fair amount of fat when they put on weight. Women with almost flat stomachs with thicc thigs and average boobs are actually very rare. Most women actually have their fat displayed very fairly in their whole body (so fat in the arms, fat in the stomach area, the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:16 PM
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Definitely. We don’t hate on fat people as a society because it would be considered ugly. Lots of fat people have really pretty faces. No. We hate on fate people as a society because being fat has become a poor people thing. It indicates poor upbringing or poverty in adults. Which indicates low social status. People care about social status. They don’t want to have a gf who refletes low social status. Just like a pretty face also indicates higher social status, higher social value. The new ways …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:08 PM
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Depends how young though. I think between the ages 20-30 no excuses, but before that, how your parents fed you plays a huge role, so let’s not throw obese kids under the bus. That would be unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:03 PM
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Maybe she likes fucking really hot men, doesn’t want to settle for less nor actually settle and keep hoping one of those hot men will accept her for a LTR. So she keeps trying, and she still get good sex in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:59 PM
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Hm. Even the ones with no boobs and squarz jaws (which is often the case when you do that much sports)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:50 PM
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The height sucks, but if it’s only your height, generally that won’t be a problem. It’s the accumulation of undesirable traits that becomes a problem (bad face, bad body and or lack of confidence, no style, no personnality, small, no muscles ….) If you are hot but small you will still be a treat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:49 PM
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Or women with boobs, butt but also a huge stomach. That’s the point. If it ain’t really huge boobs or a X figure, they aint interested in big women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:46 PM
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I literally wouldn’t date the rock or any man built like the rock. I prefer less muscles, more fat. But ofc we girls like muscles and quite lean men. But we don’t like extremes. Most people don’t either. For exemple it is known that men like their women quite lean, but if you are too lean, most men won’t date you. Some women will starve to look like you bc they think it’s peak feminity but the truth is, that’s not the majority of men’s taste. It’s the same with muscles in men for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:39 PM
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I need to add this to your chart : hot women > hot men > average men > average women > ugly men > ugly women Because none of the pretty privileges « hot » women get applies to average women. It very rarely happens. And we all know men have an advantage over women in jobs and such. So I would place the average man in front of the average woman in the « life game ». And I think this switch is exactly why people are always agreeing that men have it better, no women have it better. Because they fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:55 PM
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True. Vegetarianism is really different from veganism. Vege is really easy to make / find a place that sells it, vegan is a whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:50 PM
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Their style??? You are delusional. No amount of cute dresses or hair changes can get you a man if you really don’t fit the standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:48 PM
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Especially if « big » isn’t exactly pinnup like figure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:46 PM
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Yeah because you imagine big as in tall with big boobs, cute stomach and big thighs. But we are talking big as in thick waist, broad and thick shoulders and neck here. Broad jaw. Very small boobs. Muscular but not thick thighs. Tall. Big nose. Now it doesn’t sounds that sexy right? Women like this exist. Not so rare. Also there are other ways for women to be considered ugly. Sexual dimorphism is a thing, and nature doesn’t always respect it And when it fails to do its job (giving men large shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:39 PM
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Hmm. They are not in porn, movies, any form of media. And usually not in the town center of big cities either. But you can find them. You don’t see them often because medias love to show normal to ugly men, but always fail to broadcast « ugly » women. I have one friend who struggle with finding a partner so yeah, women who struggle with dating exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:35 PM
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That is no sane way to debate. Everything she said is true. Please be more civilized
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:21 PM
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Whatever I guess we’ll see? Only the future can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:41 AM
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Oh. Ok I rarely keep old friends around, but yeah if someone do that ofc it’s going to be a problem, you are right. However, I would not hint to their boyfriends that my friend is a hoe. What a bad thing to do. But you are right, some people be clueless and think it’s funny to give them hints. I have seen it happening
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:38 AM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:51 AM
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Then break up and start again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:35 PM
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And you are right to do that. People fail to understand how much it is important until they end up in a deadbedroom and realize that the forced monk lifestyle is not fun and their wife and children aren’t worth it and they should have put more effort into marrying a higher libido partner instead of marrying the first nice and good looking woman they could get with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:34 PM
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Yes. Sex and novelty in sex isn’t necessarily about the person you are doing it with… porn has warped people minds that it is about the partner’s looks only and the possibility to changing that parameter, but it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:26 PM
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I don’t think those men necessarily don’t want monogamy. But I am convinced they need to stop watching it once in a comitted relationship, for obvious reasons that I don’t want to list here, they are subreddits dedicated to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:23 PM
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It’s actually what is happening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:28 PM
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I really don’t think you can actually tell if someones is lying about their body count. I really don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:24 PM
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I understand, but as a woman of low N count, the relevance of this debate is wild to me. If society pushes women to have more sex but then men slut shame when dating for marriage, then what keeps women from always lying about her N count? Then the problem literally disappears lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:54 PM
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Vulva is actually both. Its the term for the external part of human female genitalia Everything you can see with your eyes is the vulva. The inside starts with the vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:35 PM
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Preferring taller men is rational, and is even backed by science (taller people actually have better outcomes in life statistically) and there’s the « a taller man will protecting me better from other men » feeling. Which very rational
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:49 PM
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You cannot know, but the key is to not assume the person is genuinely entertained, and to let open the conversation so they can switch the topic discussed if they want to / get out of talking with you / also talk of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:07 PM
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I love the concept of debutantes. I will forever be sad to not have had the opportunity to go to those sorts of events.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:13 AM
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I don’t mean to destabilize you, but just be mindful that women are trained to pretend to be entertained when men talk, but a lot of the time we are not. Remember to let the other person talk / get out of the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:08 AM
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Yeah so according to you, none of leo’s gf could bond with him somehow so that’s the reason why he dumped them all after they reached 25 for a younger one? I think for the kind of men who are only attracted to very young women, « bonding » doesn’t matter
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 10:23 PM
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Please think this trough. There is a reason he target 20 something and not people his age. Would you not be uncomfortable yourself having friends way younger than you? Wouldn’t tou feel like they are not mature enough?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 01:59 PM
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True. My grandmothers went to work at some point in their lives because they had to. Suddenly they couldn’t provide on one income anymore. They mostly worked retail and bad jobs. Not to be some boss babes. They were still trapped in their marriages. The next generation did more degrees because they had to. Suddenly, it was no longer socially acceptable to not study. The economy required two incomes so we socialized women into getting degrees. Don’t put the blame on women. Yes there was some femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:15 AM
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And cleaning the toilets twice as much lol. And cleaning the floors twice as much. Men be dirty. Not even mentioning the so much bigger clothes… I could fit all my clothes into 3 washing machines, yet one of his jeans and the thing is already full.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:11 AM
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No . Absolutely not. You should give your kids everything while making sure they know how lucky they are, the value of things and make them work and do tasks here and there so they don’t end up lazy and entitled. If you give them everything (clothes, hobbies, opportunities, love, health care, mental care, toys, fun activities, cool vacations) while asking them to help around the house here and there, make sure they do their homework, show them healthy boundaries with the expensive video games yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:05 AM
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Have you ever babysat a 6 month old while having a 5 year old demanding attention constantly in the evenings ? Because I have. And this sht is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:58 PM
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That’s, that’s a sad vision of love and of a couple. This whole concepts of « simping » and « pick me » and « codependency » criticism inside of a loving couple needs to stop. It’s okay to do things for your partner. That is a ton of people’s love language. The bullying needs to stop. I love to do things for my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:53 PM
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So true. SAHM are rare in this economy. The amount of families that are one parent (meaning just the mom in general)is huge. Means actually most families are actually either the man works, the woman works and take care of the kids, the house and everything while the man helps. Or the woman take care of everything alone (single mom household). Most of the time, way more often than not, if the woman has kids, she will end up having to work as well. Which means she is always working.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:42 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:37 PM
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True. Me too. « When will u get a job? » hakuna matata. Money in da account means no job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:35 PM
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Radical feminism ? Boy your beef is with mainstream feminism, not radical. You should look the definitions on google. Radical feminism is against porn, believes prostitution is sexual slavery and prostitutes must be helped to get them out of here, that OF is a scam and dangerous, … trust me your beef is with mainstream feminism and not radical feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:01 PM
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Yes, but ofc no girl aged 12 wants advances by men old enough to be their fathers (I had this creepy feeling/ situation thrice when I was around 12) but it’s obviously a deviance. The core of the feminist battle against harassment is more about adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:46 PM
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This concept isn’t as sexual as he makes it seems to be, like it doesn’t concern the sexual act in itself, but in terms of who you are going to be attracted to sexually, the choices you will make in terms of future sexual partners it makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:43 PM
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Why though ? You already know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:58 AM
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I know about this « society teaching men that asking out is creepy and girls get asked out so much » But I don’t understand, who are these women being asked out in the streets, at school and at work countless times? Where does that happens? And to who? My city is known to not be without crimes and problems and I very very often go shopping alone. And yet, I was asked out in the streets only once in my life. The only people who tells me I am beautiful or make comments are nice homeless people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:41 AM
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White guy. Blue eyes. Light brown hair and beard. Handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:28 AM
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It’s not true. I think we just let people be cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:46 PM
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I do agree that meeting people troughs apps is well, quite weird. I myself wanted to meet friends trough apps, but in the end I couldn’t do it. It was way too weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:26 PM
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Regarding sex standards I don’t know, but regarding looks and standards? My desire, my mind, my sexuality everything has shifted since I started to date my actual bf (LTR) who is also my first. Before him I didn’t really knew if I was heterosexual or bisexual, I didn’t know if I had a type in terms of body, face etc, but now all I want his him, all I want is men, I am not interested in women anymore and everytime I see a guy that looks like him (and he has quite a lot of look alikes in actors an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:23 PM
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If she actually wants to have the sex and the money is just a bonus because turns out the man of her dreams is also rich, does it count as transactional? I don’t think so. You shouldn’t see evil everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:14 PM
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Marriage is not about being happy but about raising kids? What a sad life. I will myself marry for hapiness and not have kids. We are just gesticulating on a rock you know? Make the most out of your time here. It’s running out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:55 AM
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This. Fellow women. Think about your experience. Because this describes my own experience as a teen woman a lot and I can easily see my female friends doing this as well. Actually a huge part of human female desire is responsive desire. It is true there are studies. What does this mean? This mean that to get women to date you, you have to chase them and women, by being chased, will develop sexual desire for you because of it! Even if they didn’t really consider you a potential sexual partner at …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:48 AM
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That is not a good view of men. So a significative proportion of men are serial cheaters who can’t be trusted, but women aren’t (bc if they were the results wouldn’t be that)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:19 AM
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Before the XX century women didn’t do as much as now? Ahahahahaha Oh boy. Do you have some research to do. I suggest a quick google research. Btw, it’s societal conditioning and society actually rewards you or punish you if you don’t do the things they ask you to. It’s not about choice. Did you ever witness the way people react when a woman show herself with armpits unshaven? It’s unfair of you to suggest we have a choice and you know it. Not so long ago women could get fired fir not wearing ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:15 PM
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At least one, by reading the post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:23 AM
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But even the mod seems to see trough the toxicity and said a warning?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:13 AM
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Timothee chamalet is not feminine. He still has a strong jaw, a female with the face he has would be deemed less attractive than he is. I agree with the standards easier to reach, but, at the same time, were you made to believe those standards are easy when they are, indeed not? For exemple, any female, to be attractive to the masses, has to have long, hair, no body hair, good skin… those take a lot of care. A lot of time. As a male do you even do something that takes as much time as this, just …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:07 AM
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The thing is, these transformations assume that the women will not keep the masculine traits, but women can absolutely have some masculine physical traits from their fathers or brothers and looking very masculine, making them not that pretty, As men can have their mother’s small jaw and face. It’s a genetic game. People loose and people win. In this picture, the genetical physical traits are very feminine, making the women more attractive than the man. But if I put one picture of me as a woman a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:12 PM
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Yes. But it’s not as easy to get as cashier or cook Knowing people in fashion, being lucky… you know how it is for every job that is a bit fun or well paying…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 09:52 PM
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I do that, except I force myself to remember in my head. Every single item I ever buy is because I saw it on someone and superliked the outfit. I can also inspire myself from friends. It’s okay. Fashion comes from observation. Did you know they pay literal people to stand in crowded big cities, report what people are wearing and make out trends based on that? Yeah.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 04:02 PM
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Or it’s video games and porn addiction keeping guys from chasing women at all …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:56 AM
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Exactly. I think women are too used to society (unferly of course) treating them like children, they internalize this bs and then when they realize they are actually independent adults, they claim that they are « strong independent women » but they are just being adults. Because it implies that other women are weak and dependent. Not flattering, not very feminist to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:04 PM
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You can soft curl your hair. Die it blonde if it’s brunette. Blonde is always more feminine. Wear a black headband, if you are still young. Your neck and shoulders are now much more visible. If it’s a part of your body you like, the short hair and visible neck and shoulders look with tops/ sweaters that doesn’t hide them is sooo feminine and pretty. You can wear sweaters that show your upper back.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 01:42 PM
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The answer is No. never. Never wanted them, never will. There are so many good reasons to not have children! I will esit my comment to give them to you : MONEY : They cost a helll lot of money. More than 300k. RESENTMENT : I would not be a good mother. I hate the company of children. I do not want to give up my free time, energy, health, I’d be jealous of anything my children would have that I didn’t … DANGEROUS : I am very afraid of pregnancy. It is dangerous, it conveys a ton of health risks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:24 PM
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Parenting is way overrated. There are far more interesting things to do with the little free time 9-5 gives us
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:20 PM
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« Muh genes » oh sooooo important. You realize you are just gesticulating on a milliard years old rock vibing in the middle of nothing and nothing you could ever do will have that much impact anyway? Your genes are average. Realize you are just someone between a ton of humans. Your genes don’t matter. None of this reproducing thing really matter. Its just societal conditioning. Why live your life for people who you never knew and don’t give flying fcks about you? Your ancestors had children bc b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:38 AM
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Yes they could be. Why are you so angry about it? It’s not about fear. It’s about staying safe. Everyone isn’t always what they seem to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:20 PM
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Those stories of « really bad dates with men » are all over the internet, so yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:43 AM
2

This. This is important. Real psychopaths, people who kill, abuse their wives / girlfriends, people who are using child pornography or rape porn are really good, asjusted people on the surface
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:41 AM
2

Because it’s other men keeping you from doing makeup and not women. It always has been. It’s called patriarchy, not matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:05 AM
2

Oh I am broke too. And a student. But I work a little aside from my studies and don’t spend much. Also I’d rather have not very impressive vacations rather than fuck some disgusting slob ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:59 PM
0

Same. I literally pay for his shit sometimes because he’s a broke ass student (he’s 21 and I am 22), but its worth it, because of the sexual attraction. I don’t wanna get anywhere near some old ass creep. I can pay for my own vacations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:20 PM
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And studies say that marriage favorise men overall, so no, I don’t think its in men’s best interest to stay single. Actually, for most men, that means ending sexless and intimacy depraved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:45 PM
1

Lots of women have been saying they like men with more hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:00 AM
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I mean outside of internet you have to listen/talk to women to know what they think. If you never listen, well that explains why you think women like this are rare… Especially if you literally act like any women that doesn’t fit perfectly your standards isn’t worth ur time or ur attention… just a friendly advice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:38 PM
1

More than 50 % of parents are divorced and a lot are single. The others are mostly sexless lol. So its not really a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:27 PM
2

I am sorry but he is right on this point. Really pretty women don’t really have to work hard. There are plenty of easy jobs, easy money for really beautiful women (as well as men, but a bit less), the ones that are really tall and really pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:26 PM
1

Not everyone is very fertile though. Some men have sperm count and mobility problems, some women don’t ovulate some months, in my family I know several women had to wait years and take medication to successfully have children despite trying and they were in their 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:38 AM
1

Yep, another ADHD thing that explain my struggles lol. The gift that keeps on giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:31 AM
1

Abortion is a thing though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:28 AM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:27 AM
1

The amount of responses in this thread that acts like abortion doesn’t exist is wild to me. Like hiw can u act like « guess it was meant to be » with a child??? It cost a total of 300 000 $ ruins ur free time and ability to get a degree, how can u take it so lightly ??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:27 AM
2

I wanna go to england now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:13 AM
2

A stay at home mom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:10 AM
1

Yeah its very entertaining indeed. I really do enjoy spend hours reading those desperate guys try to find criteria to tell high n count women /promiscuous women. And yet they are wrong most of the time. Very funny. I have a body count of 1. I despise casual sex. « Her friends! Her friends are promiscuous then she must be!!!! » I have two promiscuous friends. « Shitty relationship with her father? She must be promiscuous!!! » I have one of the shittiest : I barely saw him growing up and now I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:06 AM
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I don’t think you can tie being pro choice and liking hookups. Being pregnant in a committed relationship can be as problematic as in a hookup. Abortion can be helpful for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:51 PM
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A lot of women don’t like the idea of casual sex and will only have sex in a comitted relationship Hello stds are a thing, and a lot of people tie sex with love and bonding, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:46 PM
1

I higly doubt « most women don’t masturbate with inserting something » especially if they couldn’t have sex before their 20s. You have no idea the amount of things that can get the hymen to break. Some women don’t even have it (up to 30-40%!)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:44 PM
2

That’s very probably what a virgin would znswer yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:41 PM
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This is something that guys discussing n count miss too often. I had sex more than 1000 times in the last 3 years. I tried all the things. Yet my n count is 1. Am I a slut or not? Ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:39 PM
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Once again, this advice doesn’t work. There is generally one or two « slut » in a friend group. The others aren’t, trust me, I am a woman. However, it is true that the most outgoing, talkative, with the best conversation, who get the most tips as waitresses are the ones with high n count. It is absolutely 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:36 PM
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Yeah like, not many women would respond peacefully to those questions by a stranger, like even if they are redpilled, virgins and dislikes hookup culture, this comes up as very undiplomatic and many women do not like to talk about sex like this with people they barely know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:28 PM
1

That is very good insight, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:07 PM
1

Ok and? Beauty reigns in this shallow world. Replace men by women and women by men in your comment and it is still very true. Pretty women also will land hot guys easily, without doing much, and even if they have shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:04 PM
1

True. I could genuinely freeze. Happened to me many times, even got insulted once, but I just ignored the guy because he looked threatening and it triggered my anxiety. But then I would not come up to you later either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:55 PM
2

Definitely. And then pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:55 AM
2

Because sometimes, people actually appeoach to make fun of you. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:54 AM
1

I meab, If I was 100 k in debt of cosmetic surgeries, he would be in love with me too! Lol there must not have anything natural anymore. 100k … soo much money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:49 AM
2

Ahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:21 PM
2

This is true. People who go to college very often end up marrying someone who studied with them Its going to be the case for me and for my sister
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:38 AM
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There are enough children in the adoption system already. Lets not make another unwanted children into the world that would be cruel to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:08 PM
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I agree so much!!! People who swear women are only pretty age 18-20 are so weird and creepy. I am 22 and I have never felt as beautiful and I know I will be even prettier at 25 when my cheek bones will appear more and my shoulders and hips will get a bit wider. I am prettier at 22 because I have the money to take care of myself, I have the money to get my hair beautifully done, I dress myself better, in the evening I put creams on my skin and it is hydrated unlike at 18 when I was unaware skinca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:00 PM
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To be fair, I think that even people who wouldn’t have been picky can be made picky and hard to deal with in a marriage if they had several partners before. All the times your partner do something you will be like « oh but with that other person it was better » thinking about others, thinking you can get better, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:50 PM
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In dating. We are talking about dating. Like going on little dates at restaurants
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:17 PM
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You know, I have a theory that if you forced people to be virgin before marriage, it would change the statistics. Suddenly, being a virgin wouldn’t necessarily means a happier marriage. Because correlation doesn’t mean causation. I think people who have none to less partners before marriage (before being with the partner they marry) have unique personalities and values who makes it easier to stay married not because they are virgins but because they have those unique personalities correlated wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:05 PM
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And on top of that women can get killed, abused, more symptoms in case of an STD, and as if it wasn’t enough already, we are taking all of those great risks for the sex, that most of the time is absolutely not great to downright a bad experience. But yeah blame women « shallowness » for being picky right??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:41 PM
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Exactly. I have a little story for those men. A man walks by, ungroomed, can’t remember last time he went to the hairdresser, his clothes are from his mother basement times, they are neither trendy, neither really fitting him, neither good colors for him. Yet he wonders… why he can’t get with that fake blonde girl wearing the latest sexy black top on trend, a 300$ hair color with 80$ conditionner. She’s wearing beautiful true gold jewelry on her ears, neck and wrists, which probably cost a total…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:40 PM
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Funnily enough, most of the female cahiers I met are really pretty, like 7/10. Most of the you g ones are students, working part time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:29 PM
1

That’s not very true. But it doesn’t mean that the sexualization is women’s fault though. But we need to acknowledge that the way we dress impact the way society treats us. For exemple, my sister doesn’t indulge in any of the social imperatives for a woman and she is sexualized way less than me. I choose to dress myself in more feminine ways, wear makeup and take care of my hair because I recognize the privileges that playing into society’s gender roles can get me. She chooses to not play that g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:37 PM
2

Men shouldn’t stay in relationships with women who gatekeep sex and view it as a means to get things. If they do, its their own problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:32 PM
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Yes. Because it means he knows how to, he’s more likely to want to /to do it in the future while we’re married and that is absolutely a huge dealbreaker for me. And the fact he did it is absolutely a deal breaker too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:16 PM
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He doesn’t speak the language. So no risk :p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:59 AM
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Women who barely know their partner keeping the « oops » babies is absolutely nuts for me. I can’t believe this is still happening. It’s absolutely surreal for me. Why would you do that to yourself. Its like self sabotage or social suicide to me. You have to have some sort of mental ilness to do that to yourself. Absolutely surreal. I don’t understand. Babies can be made again. Its the easiest thing in the world to do. Take more time to vet the guy. And I will die on that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:58 AM
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Okay but because those were the kind of women who liked this sort of stuff. It made a common interest. If you start hiking, you could met women who like hiking and they could get interested in u. Its more healthy though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:53 AM
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Unfortunately, this is true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:49 AM
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I think this is very interesting you mention him, to me, Zac efron is the perfect exemple of « pretty man » that is definitely a creepy guy irl, gives off creepy vibes and that women who would date him would be pretty dumb/blind to ignore that imo. Just like leonardo dicaprio is a walking red flag. He probably makes fart jokes all day long, which doesn’t appear funny to women older than 25 hence why he has to find them in kindergarten everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:46 AM
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Yeah. They’re just cowards. After one month or two, either u shoot your shot either you accept your fate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:18 AM
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Exactly. Failure is part of life. They are all cowards. The truth is, the only men who fucks are those who actually ask people out. What a shocker. Whatever the way you do it, what matters is u actually do it. If u don’t you’ll stay in the friendzone forever obviously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:17 AM
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They pretend. Society teach us to pretend to not like it in public. Or else we are « whores » we are « attention whores » etc etc Have you been with a one or a few women long term though? A lot act like prudes until they feel comfortable lol Edit : a lot has to do with safety. Talking sex with a man you don’t really know is dangerous. It usually end up bad like the man attempting something unwanted or getting badly taken pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:48 PM
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The women that aren’t asexuals that think they don’t like sex, the truth is, they don’t like the « bad » sex a lot of men provide. And then they don’t raise a finger or a voice to change it because they were taught that sex is shameful, only prostitutes likes it and that they shouldn’t talk about it. That is how you cook a recipe for disaster : Teach the men bad sex with porn and all stuff like that, teach women to shut up about it and accept it (and tell them to not touch themselves, so the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:17 PM
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Yes I agree. I think that going for the criminals is a mistake some women make though, but the original idea is that a mentally and physically capable man will protect you from the other men. Whi gets that this is a dangerous world for women and act accordingly. It signals saftey but also financial stability, ressources as you said which are also important in this modern world. It means a man that is fast, in his mind and body, who « gets » things. Anything else is dangerous for the woman’s safe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:42 PM
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See? You don’t get it. Because you are not a woman. It doesn’t matter. Just do it, you’ll see. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:15 AM
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Ok but like, it was just an exemple, there are ways to get ti that position that doesn’t scream submissive and lazy ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:14 AM
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Maybe those women said they dislike hook ups to save their reputation? But they don’t really. I really really dislike hookups. I would never, even for the most handsome man in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:55 AM
0

You can still divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:51 AM
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I like u already
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:50 AM
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They act all masculine and s. until you get them in bed and all they want is you to get on top of them and make them cum while they do nothing. And then they never make any decision, never organize anything. So frustrating. Like read a damn woman’s fanfiction, for f sake. We don’t want to dominate you. Very few of us want to. We want to be put against the wall, for you to take us on surprise vacations and act all bossy and stressed out at the airport /any public place really. Because that’s lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:28 AM
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What do you mean by sexless?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:51 PM
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Exactly. Good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:38 PM
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Hm. A lot of us actually love sex. You ask « why you seek men and sex if so dangerous and so men are so mean and bad as a group? » here’s my answer : It’s kinda like people having sex unprotected, or people taking drugs, or eating too much sugar or drinking alcohol. You know its dangerous you know its bad BUT you want the happy chemicals, the dopamine, the pleasure, so you still do it. Every woman will behave differently in that regard. Every woman will accept the danger znd behave differently. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:20 PM
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Realistic fantasy not porn fantasy We are talking serious 1-1 relationships here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:16 AM
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Yeah like she didn’t had that low body count by sleeping on the first date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:37 AM
1

Very cool, what is it about?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 11:07 AM
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in regards to their offsprings, women are very different. Some will ditch the men for their children, others will do the opposite. It doesn’t matter. What u want is neither lol.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 11:06 AM
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I agree with you. Women like confidence, men who shoot their shot, women especially hate having to ask the guy out. Men who show they like them enough to give it a try is a must. men who are funny, intelligent, men who take them on dates. Men who gave good conversation but will also listen to them. Height, face, etc are just excuses to not do all of the above. Proof that looks don’t really matter is all around, women be out there dating gremlins everywhere just because they make them feel safe, …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 10:59 AM
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The reality is look at actual relationships around you, people who actually got married. Generally the man looks like a gremlin next to his woman. That is because women would rather date average men who will interest other women less in their minds to easily secure them, rather than fight with 10 other women for a man who doesn’t even really like them.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 10:55 AM
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The good thing is that « looks » means different things to people :) like there are men who consider « good looks » to be « thin, long hair nice smile, cute cheeks and eyes » and other men who think « good looks » is « thick, small nose and big boobs » so yeah. Just find your man.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 10:52 AM
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Very plausible. Especially since I rarely see men being like « oh my mom taught me that girls wanna be taken on dates, they want flowers, little gifts, they like when u remember things, wear perfume everyday » no. Somehow never. Why do they not teach or raise their sons? Its so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:40 AM
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I think in a evolutionary standpoint, humans still have it better when they form monogamous relationships to protect the mother and the growing, fragile baby. How can one men protect and feed a hyperbolic number of women and enfants? I don’t buy it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 08:56 AM
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If you have the finances, you should tell him about the fertility window. Your best fertility years are actually in the next 5 years, not after those. The best time to have children for women is actually 22-27, up to 30.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:18 AM
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I also read a study that says both partners, men and women should stop drinking any alcohol at all months before conceiving or it can affect the future child. After conception, the man can drink again and the woman needs to keep not drinking any alcohol until she isn’t breastfeeding anymore. Its serious. You can read about it. The « oh one glass can’t hurt » is absolutely not true and any drop, if ingested at the wrong time, can have terrible consequences.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:11 AM
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Men IRL are very hard to convince of that also. Even when u show them the facts. They are convinced that since they have no menopause and still have sperm then it means its okay for them to have kids at 40, 50 when its not true at all cries
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:06 AM
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18-started college. 19-shifted my studies met my SO, we started dating. First kiss for me, first real girlfriend for him (just kisses before) so each other firsts. 20-living together, but I am basically squatting at his small place. 21-first appartement together 22-still going strong, everything perfect. Apparently he wants to wait finishing his degree before marriage. So I am waiting for this. Trying to figure out what degree to study on my part. We are starting to plan financially because we w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 01:55 AM
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Hey critical thinking is a thing. All women aren’t whiny close minded feminists sheeps and all men aren’t soulless rapists who only care about looks, pump and dump and have no female friends. Its okay to be critical about your own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:39 PM
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Like one day of the week you are a server, people are nice but sometimes less respectful, they think you’re not that educated and tell you their life annecdotes, you get free food, food advice and you stay healthy because of all the walking in the huge restaurant, and other times you are in medical environments, people respect you immensely and ask you for precise advice and you happily indulge even when its the same dumb question because you are happy to change roles that day. An other day you …
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 12:42 PM
1

Same :) love to buy the organic stuff even when its twice the price. Love to buy everything labeled « antioxidant » or « superfood » Lowers my anxiety I think.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 06:32 PM
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For letting the pussy breath, it’s actually proven you need to sleep naked. Especially in summer, with all the heating, sweating and staying in wet swim suit. And just wash very gently the outdoor parts with gentle soap. Never abuse of soap, even for your body. And a good diet, enough vegetables, low sugar and you are good. I literally never get yeast infections.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 06:30 PM
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Even when you want to have sex everyday, life gets in the way anyway. Especially if you want satisfaction in both sides, it takes more than a suick 20 minutes before bed. So once a week is good. It doesn’t they don’t want more, but its often impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:23 PM
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And still makes the effort to do that so it shows they probably make other efforts in other areas and still invest in the relationship even after years have passed…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:16 PM
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See. This is it. Stop thinking husband material is an insult. It means first of all I would fck you, but I would also like you as a companion/father of my children because you also possess really good qualities aside of looks. The « fuck » option means the guy is only good for that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:08 PM
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I don’t know what the hell this comment section is on, but wtf?? Maybe its a culture thing? I always considered being called wife material a huge compliment? Like??? When they see you bring a delicious cake « wow you’re wife material » well thank you. When they see you have good taste in music « keep her, marry her » thank you again. What’s the problem here? Wife material is a good compliment because it means you’re not just a sexy body. You’re also a good companion and a man would be very happy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:04 PM
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What if we could have both though? Nothing restrain us for working part time both jobs. I kinda want to do that. I had 4 jobs once, and I was so happy. Its so much easier when you don’t do the same thing all day all week
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 01:24 PM
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Exactly ! Especially the classroom exemple, because real life encounters, easy ways to find a partner happen specifically in those environments. Classrooms at high school, college, universities, … if u never ask out, ofc you’ll never have a girlfriend. It is known women don’t like asking out first, like hello ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:31 AM
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I think 3 month is good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:51 PM
1

I’d like to add that not all men are sex oriented sluts with whoever wanna let them hit. Like that’s a myth. Everyone want to have sex with a partner they deem attractive. And not all men want sex all the time and with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:47 PM
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This is also what happens most of the time. I’ve always been on the fence about dating guys I am friends with because I don’t have that many friends, and many of my previous men friends probably consider I put them in the friendszone. HOWEVER none of them EVER asked me to date. They never stated their feelings. And to lack of courage I say lets stay friends. What happened to the first man who had the courage to face rejection and stated their feelings after being friends for 3 months? We’re curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:42 PM
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This is so well put. I think this is exactly what is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:38 PM
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Not everyone is aware pf their own SMV, others or even that it is a thing. Critical thinking isn’t a given. It might sound a bit impossible when you only talk with people from your culture and people that know reddit, but a lot of my friends are absolutely clueless
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 02:07 PM
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Thing is not everyone is able to think about dating and attractiveness and « SMV » this way. Not everyone has this level of critical thinking about themselves, others and so society. Some people are just clueless and there are more than you think.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 02:04 PM
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I think people fail to get that physical appearance isn’t the only criteria you can use to date down or up to have control in a relationship. Intelligence. Social awareness. Level of education. Job. Social intelligence. A pretty man who doesn’t possess social intelligence won’t be able to do all that deep thinking you’ll do. Don’t think everyone can think the way you do. Some people really go like « oh she/he is nice and okay looking and they like me lets go »
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/23 09:12 PM
1

Something I don’t understand : would you call someone who had sex with the same boyfriend only but everyday « ran through »? Because that’s like something between 800 to 1000 penetrations in 3 years. But it’s a LTR so its not « ran-through » to your eyes and her body count is 1, but you still consider the woman who had sex once with 50 different boys in 3 years is « ran-through »? She only had 50 penetrations in 3 years. I get the concern for STDs (its a big concern for me aswell, I get it. Safe…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:18 PM
1

Yes but its not « fair »
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:59 PM
1

I never said it was the average guy. It was just frequent. But it might also be because I don’t surround myself with dumb men who only lust after looks just to drop them when they’re over 30 and start that sht all over again. Some men fancy a good company, and there are a lot. I didn’t say I was smart in this comment though? Why be so aggressive? Though one of us might be smarter, I mean your the one arguing in your native language, aren’t you? I find that very funny, quite amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:47 PM
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I know exactly what you are talking about. My bf isn’t necessarily the leader, but I do find myself sometimes pulled towards more « leader »personalities that we encounter, but I think I envy those men more than I want them. I probably would like to be a leader like them. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with them though. Actually I think I’d rather someone I can lead when I need to and I wouldn’t be able to with those leader type of men. I find men who are loved in their friend group but…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:03 PM
4

Ahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:55 PM
4

Trust me, the organizing and the cooking thing matter a lot. One of the two need to be good at it and take the lead or it will be chaos. You learn that by living long term with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:54 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:42 PM
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Hm that’s not true OP. My bf is sort of inferior to me on the intellectual side if I can say it like that, I am a bit superior intellectually, I am trilingual, he can’t speak english at all, I can have a good sense of humor but honestly his isn’t that good, I read tons of books, he never did, I know a ton of things and he can never teach me anything, however its fine cause he checks many boxes important for me : trustworthy, honest, very attractive, likes everything I cook, likes netflix and chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:40 PM
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There is something though. There is a way. You can get a man more attractive than you and have him just for you, in a real relationship and no cheating all that, but here the thing : you need to catch em young, and they are not going to be the smartest. Because if they were smart (in a social way) they’d know you’re below them. And also the risk of cheating would go up. That’s the reality Also I talked with a lot of men and it was frequent that they would say they’d rather settle for smart rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:15 PM
2

No its her husband, so minimum is « wife » ya know. The heart or nicknames are just a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:12 PM
1

Eye colors aren’t something you can change or have any power over. Your N count, your health, doing sports or not, saving yourself or not etc etc are standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:17 AM
1

Yes but it’s not fair. I said « fair »
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:47 PM
1

I mean its fair to demand the same standards you hold yourself to :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:34 AM
7

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:32 AM
16

When I was younger, my mom starved me so that I would be thin. I was underweight. I surely fit the skinny « pretty » standards. But I had hands and feet problems. I would get so cold so easily in those areas. My skin was way more dry, my hair looked bad, I was constantly hungry and my menstrual cycle very irregular. When I quit the home, I gained 4kg-5kg. Now I do look a bit more chubby in the arms, waist, legs. But I am perfectly healthy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:21 PM
1

Ooooooh. I might be just the beautiful but not hot one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:31 PM
1

Who hurt you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:40 AM
5

You are 100% right! This it. I second this 100% as a woman. Wanna get judged only on personality and not looks, but want a woman whose fit and skinny? Easy. Go for the gym girl who don’t give a single f*ck about her appearance. Bad / very plain or not very sexy clothes, no makeup. Almost never post stuff on her insta or doesn’t even have one. Im telling you it is the truth. The less insta presence, the more chances she doesn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:24 PM
1

No you don’t understand. I meant that everytime a girl gets actually rped, her name is trending on pornhub/pornsites. Everytime there is suppositions of a leaking of zn actual gang rpe it trends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:20 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:11 PM
1

Yeah well the most searched type of porn by men is often whatever video of someone being actually (gang) r*ped might be watchable at the moment. Now what does that tell us about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:57 AM
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Yes. But they fail to add that that wealthy man also has a great personality compatibility with m them. Would u stay with someone you hated but provided good vacations for 50 years + ? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:00 AM
8

Exactly!! This is number one reason for me to not have kids. To convince me to have them, you would have to transfer an indecent amount of money towards a personal account of mine that you refuse to have any right to if u ever divorce me. If that ain’t happening, I aint having kids. I have seen my mom struggle, and I don’t want that life ever, i won’t play Russian roulette with any man EVER. When u don’t have kids, minimum wage in my country is enough for a decent life, but not if ur single with…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:37 AM
13

Yes exactly! To be in a marriage with z trapped woman who has no other choice? Owww must be awful. The nagging the constant fight, the growing resentment? They must want to kill each other aha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:33 AM
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No because women can take care of themselves alone, men don’t (as a group, ofc there will be exceptions). Men expect from a relationship to provide that care. Turns out women don’t like washing other clothes on top of theirs, and needing to wash more dishes, clean out more stuff just for sometimes dick, but he doesn’t feel like it all the time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:31 AM
1

The corporate attire wardrobe probably made a lot of the job. I’d take a slightly overweight guy (but still active and able to hike since thats what I do) that is well dressed, over any supermodel dressed like a kid with tee shirts and shorts and bad shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:07 AM
3

If ur too good. Like a 8/10 plus and you go for women that are 7/10,8/10. They know it. They know ur a catch. It takes a lot of confidence for a woman to believe you actually want them, you won’t cheat on them, you’ll be stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:02 AM
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Yess. Like if you flex your money by spending it « oh I spend so much time abroad, last week was greece, next week italy which of you fine ladies wanna come so we can get to know each other » is entirely different from « I have 6 figures in da bank account because I never spend anything, good luck getting me to buy you gifts or to participate in a vacation »
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:52 AM
1

Hm not everyone is that money oriented. Women that aren’t after material things that much still value looks, trust, compatibility, good personality. Especially if they have careers of their own, independent. Dependent women will be more focused on money. If you want an exemple, my mom quit my step dad even though he was the richest man she could get, he had a nice big house, he would take us on lots of amazing very very expensive vacations, but she still quit him because apparently they weren’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:44 AM
1

I am a woman. I hate this babyfication of women. We are rational individuals like men. We can take rational decisions, like not keeping a baby you can’t afford, especially since you can have one later. Yes, forcing women to listen to the heartbeat is cruel and I have no doubt it makes the procedure harder. But there is no other choice. Its a difficult process, but we have to go trough difficult process all the time. We need to stop teaching women this adoration of children and pregnancy and babi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:36 PM
2

I want to agree with you so so much you have no idea. But at the same time, I am a child of a single mom household. And as irresponsible and useless as my dad is, my mom still has a lot of responsibility in things. Why? Let me explain it to you. My dad has chronic depression. He has mental health problems. She’s known this since the beginning of their relationship. It never gotten better. They were together 10 years, living together and all before having us. She knew he was crap. And I recognize…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:51 PM
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It’s true. But unless exceptions (rape, other situations), if you are a responsible adult, there is a solution for all these potential problems keeping you from having an abortion : 1- normally every woman has her period between every 22 days and every 35 days. Very low exceptions to this. Its every month. If u are sexually active, not having ur period should instantly alarm you you might be pregnant. Any woman should then take a blood test. Contrary to popular belief, you can’t take nidation bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:43 PM
1

I don’t see a problem here? She can still abort to avoid raising this kid in a one parent household and also struggle financially her whole life? Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:27 PM
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To be fair, I would be afraid of dating a man who was just out of a long relationship. It takes a lot of confidence in yourself to be able to date someone with a past, be it a man or a woman (that I don’t possess atm aha). Because you have to be 100% persuaded that u are better than his/her exe(s). Its hard to do. I don’t think betas can do that. They lack confidence
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 09:08 PM
3

But you wouldn’t think of a woman that had one long term partner at 25 (and that’s it) that she’s used? Would you?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 07:28 PM
2

Ok interesting. So it’s mostly about relationship dynamic. Who takes the lead/decisions more often, who listen more often. Very interesting
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 07:06 PM
2

Autumn is best for good feminine clothes though. You can reveal you shoulders or your clivage but hide everything else with a sweater, a flowy skirt, tights, knee high boots (with flat or small heels), a cute handbag and hair halfway up halfway down aha. Best outfit ever
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 06:59 PM
1

Idk you leave in europe or usa (or else?)?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 06:57 PM
8

I like that idea a lot. Not weaker. Just Soft. Not stupid. Just Nicer. Not fragile. Just delicate.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 06:51 PM
8

Men would also trade up for a higher value woman too. We’re all selfish, gain, materialistic people as a group and not as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:45 PM
2

Oh ok. I think the humabn body can definitely react to constant pressure in certain places. Face massages like body massages work, but it requires a real amount of dedication, doing the movements good (def not easy) and the day you stop it all goes back to normal. I might try something like this (body massage/tight underwear/ face massages, face yoga) but I don’t know if I will ever have enough dedication and motivation each day to subject my body /skin to that much pressure haha. Also for the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:47 PM
1

Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:22 PM
3

Tbf I do get a lot of comments from women on my outfits and its so good. Men rarely comment. Rarely any validation. So at this point, if we’re talking validation seeking, I dress for other women lô
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:33 AM
1

What did you do to increase your boobs tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:31 AM
3

Actually its more of a cultural thing, znd breadts aren’t a sexual organ. Our culture attach a lot of importance to breasts, but other cultures don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:22 AM
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Statistically men tend to do that sadly :/ I hope you can find some loving ones to help around you
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 07:15 AM
1

Finding the one mean its the one. Means exclusivity. There is no « harem » or « cheating » in fairy tales. Its a two people story. And men like fairy tales and happy ever afters and romantic movies like women. Often there is a bit more fighting going on in those movies though, but ultimately its romances lol (transformers, spiderman, …)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:05 PM
2

The ones listes in average are attractive but very average. =beautiful but easily found in the population The ones in highly attractive are attactive and not easily found features.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:21 AM
1

Forgetting his ID card at home and realizing in the airport at checkpoint? Telling very private stuff about me to our friends/to people and putting me in complicate situations.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 07:20 AM
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Yeah but he still looks soo average lol. Being a bit ripped isn’t « higly attractive » on the spot. Gym membership isn’t luxury. But for exemple, the hemsworths facial structure, height etc is something I very rarely see on the streets. Women are free to find my list of « average » attractive, but if they consider them not average, they’re blinded by their fame. They have nothing special. Same goes for my average women list. Emma watson is an awesome woman and she is cute, but her face and body …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 AM
2

Yes. But average. Easy to find men looking like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:25 PM
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Okkk I looove doing that lets gooo MEN Totally average: Tom Holland. Daniel Radcliffe. Taylor Lautner, dylan minnette, miles heizer, Justin bieber, Callan McAuliffe, Cole Sprouse Most men in my entourage look like this. Totally attractive : chris Hemsworth, Kit Harrington, liam Hemsworth, Henry Cavill, Regé-Jean Page WOMEN Totally average : katherine Langford, Julia Garner, millie bobby brown, Emma Watson, Nina Dobrev, Anna Kendrick, selena gomez, Kylie Jenner, blake lively, mila kunis, Lorde, A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:09 PM
1

I am exactly like you and I wish mine would pull that « trust me » line sometimes. I feel like I can’t trust him though, he keep making careless, sometimes dangerous mistakes :/ I tryed telling him that I deal with perfectionnism and anxiety and that it is exhausting and I need him to take charge and be less careless sometimes so I can breath but he doesn’t get it. Help?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 01:37 PM
4

Yes. Unfairness to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:45 AM
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I have learned that men do like monogamy. Those statements are applicable to most men : 1- men believe in finding « the one » like women. 2- men also fall in love and obsess over one woman as much as to not be attracted to the others 3- if u want everyday sex, monogamy is more likely to provide, if you succeeded in finding a woman with a matching libido. Men love sex and are not as hypergamous as we might think. 4- monogamy assure paternity and monogamy is the ideal relationship form to produce …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:34 AM
-1

Except it does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:23 AM
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Honestly the same could be said about every media on average. Male lead is average, woman lead is a 10/10, model. Male anchors are rarely sexy, women anchors always are. They always make a point to hire stunning women next to basic, average guys. Tom cruise is even smaller than his female interest in top gun, he had to wear heels, and his teeth are freaking crooked. And they act like that’s the best they could do when looking for a sexy male for women to look at in the movie? Talk about unfairne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:06 AM
4

Hm I think you need to change your mindset. I personally love to help people and be of service, but I also expect people to agree to little acts of service. I consider acts of service to be normal in healthy relationships. You’re a good girlfriend? You have sex with him, you take care of yourself? You are nice and intelligent? You help him when he needs? You deserve things. You deserve help. As simple as that. That’s the way I think. Plus I ain’t paying for an uber if I came to our date in 240$ …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 11:35 PM
1

This is a very probable reason as well OP. Women tend to stick to their first partners for marriage and such because of slut shaming and peer pressure (and the societal message than you lose beauty and thus opportunities as u age as a woman). Men tend to feel more free to break up and explore, and have more sexual partners until way older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:04 PM
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Its just facts. Dressing talking, and appearing sexual isn’t the same thing as being sexually promiscuous. All the « stacys » you see in the streets are actually all just choosing to sex starve until next relationship or in successive long term relationships since they were sexually active. That’s just how most women do it. The women who have more than 10 sexual partners in a year and continue that rythm for more than a year are very rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:00 PM
1

Men are just way more promiscuous (sexually) What are you gonna do about it? Cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:51 PM
1

Idk what to tell you. It’s just not true. I promise you it’s not true. You can believe what you want, but those are lies you were brainwashed to believe. Women grow up with princess movies and books. What we want is the happy ever after if the one true love. Most of us are like that. The « hoe » phase might be something you see around you but it isn’t the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:15 PM
1

I don’t get it. Where the f do you live? In a man cave? In my schools girls and boys would get asked out and always form cute couples and that lead to kissing and sometimes sex. These couples would last between a few days to years. Generally 3 month to a year. I live in Europe. Hook up culture is for 20 something, not literal children?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:13 PM
1

I empathize with you and I appreciate your efforts and your insight. It is a terrible feeling to be aftaid of your own parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:07 PM
1

No. You have no idea Ahahaha. (Some) Women do fake liking sex for years just to secure a man. You ask me : « Why would they engage in activities they don’t like for year? » answer : To make him fall in love with them and to secure the man. To make him happy because he is their partner and they love him. Lies they tell. Trust me. They do. Women in their 50s don’t give a single fck what u think about them generally. They have no buisness hiding any previous« slut » behavior. They’re confident in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:01 PM
2

Remember : you are not a woman. This isn’t a treat you face daily personally. Yet You refuse to empathize, seek to understand and put yourself in our place. You refuse to listen to women. And then you tell me how I should feel? Don’t you feel like an imposter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:59 PM
1

Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:57 PM
3

Its not like that. Its a fear, always here, in the back of your mind (or the front of your mind depending if suddenly a dude follows you or insult you), knowing that you physically are weaker and that most likely nobody will help you. Not the police (duh its your husband, get home woman! and get killed before we will intervene) not the people around you in the public transportation services, not the vigil who « has other jobs to do ». And all the stories of women close to you who had things happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:38 PM
3

That sounds reasonable to me. Its better to vet the ones who are sexual if you wanna avoid deadbeadrooms after marriage and ur method is a good way. The amount of women in their 50 I hear around me saying they hate sex and it was a chore and they put an act in their younger years? Ooof. Be careful guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:17 AM
3

No you don’t understand ahahaha. A crowded mall or street in the broad daylight isn’t safe. The more crowded the place, the less likely people are going to do something if they see you getting problems. Its backed by science. At your house you’re not safe. No house lock is unbreakable. Any time a man can decided he wants you dead because you refused his advances and you’re dead (also most cases of women killed by men happens by the boyfriend/husband or ex boyfriend/ex husband, when a separation …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:10 AM
4

No actually thats not what happens. Most women lose their virginity around 17-19 years old (statistics) but its more 19-20 years old in more educated areas. And relationships virgins? You don’t live in the real world. Most people form couples that lasts for months, years even at ages 14,15. Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:03 AM
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I mean, if you are a man, would you enjoy being chased by ugly women? I bet not. I bet u would take it as a personal insult. Most guys could even get aggressive in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:31 AM
3

Aaaaaah brings sweet memories :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:30 AM
7

Literally all women I know desire LTR, and the ones who have casual sex are soooo easily convinced into LTR by a guy they like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:28 AM
2

I would probably be a much better man as well. I would be such a good boyfriend. And I would be more liked in social circles because men get away more easily with the personality flaws I have. And the qualities I have are mostly appreciated in men :/ The other day I put one of the beard filters on myself and I was like daaaamn. I would be a 10. Such a shame. Additionally, I always did a ton of sports and ate well so I would be fit and muscled. The difference between women who do sports and the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:21 AM
2

Sometimes when I was little, I had thoughts like this while watching the rabbits near my grandparents house : « must feel so terrible to be a rabbit. To be on edge all the freaking time. To be chased and to die so often so stupidly, because you had one moment of weakness. Must feel terrible glad I am not a rabbit but a human, on top of food chain and mostly safe. ». Now I understand I am the rabbit. Everytime I go outside I am in a risky situation. Even alone in my house is dangerous. Only excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:03 AM
2

Yeah if I had plans for children (I don’t) I’ll teach my daughter how to make money yourself if thats what you want, and show her its way better bc its ur money. Begging every day someone to lend u money isn’t fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:53 PM
1

Thank you I will try my hardest :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:37 PM
2

I knew it. Everyone keep saying odontology is the best deal in medicine fields. I really want to live the life you do so badly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:57 AM
1

Don’t have kids if you feel like its not for you and/or you would be happier without , please, promise me OP. No good can come from that. Don’t let them brainwash u into thinking kids are for everyone
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 07:49 AM
1

What medical degree do you do? I also wanna seek medical work, because it is my understanding that this is the only field where I will be able to choose my hours, work 4 days a week, earn at least 6 figures for sure, and have employment, without all the stress of business (being free of stressing calls all week ends mostly)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:04 PM
0

Nah. I want to make more than my boyfriend. I actually try to work more than him to earn more. It pisses me off when I see more money in his bank account than mine (I don’t tell him though hahaha) I want to earn more than everyone around me, including my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:36 PM
1

And why would you ask me this? It has NOTHING to do to with my comment. Why would my personal experience be of any meaning anyway???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:25 PM
1

WTF? No. No it’s not true at all. Get out there, idk get different friends, it is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:24 PM
1

I think you responded to the wrong person??,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:37 PM
5

Not true. You don’t get « the same treatment from 10 others ho’s » Some women want dates and dinner and exclusivity and all things shiny but wont have sex with you or bad sex or wont have sex with you once you’re secured. They wont allow you to cry or be emotional with them. Some women actually enjoy sex. Choose wisely. Just saying so you’ll don’t end up in deadbeadroom sub crying in 10 years. Now you can’t say I didn’t warn you. If she can make you wait for sex more than one month, either she i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:29 PM
2

Nope Young men outnumber always young women. For this to happen, the capitalists need to organize a new massacre like the war we had in the past to get rid of young men (sad truth)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:22 PM
1

You’re totally behind. We’re talking wanting kids or not, not monogamy. Read the thread again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:17 PM
1

??? What the f that has anything to do with? And I strictly only want monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:47 PM
9

Most pairings up and successful ones are done via social circle and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:27 PM
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Yeah totally. Women need men to be angry/stressed out about things on their behalf sometimes. If you’re the only one stressing out about things, thinking ahead and holding people accountable in the relationship, not only it is not fun, it is a freaking nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:03 AM
12

I don’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:58 PM
1

Wow 100% my type. Maybe the women around want kids and thats why you’re still single?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:56 PM
4

Why would anyone behave like that? Your partner crying is a good sign it shows emotional vulnerability, trust, its good. Anyone who would say they dont wanna this is just a sociopath. Women aren’t sociopaths. We’d just like your « emotions » to not show this way : punching walls, punching us, yelling super loudly, going away for days while having a baby to take care of, like wild shit lol. Emotional vulnerability doesn’t means being irresponsible and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:48 PM
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Stupid men will though. Its not that hard to find a man stupid enough for that believe me. Here’s the thing : a lot of men aren’t mature / intelligent enough to think like that. Literally all thzt goes trough their head when deciding to keep a gf long term is « she looks good, I like talking with her, and she likes me » but she can be a emotional, financial and mental wreck, no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:41 PM
2

We are a lot alike lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:37 PM
1

People with 140 IQ can definitely spend some of their time on tiktok. Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:34 PM
-1

Thats very mysogynistic and generalizing Men also use tiktoks and talk about alcohol drinks and going to another country all the time. Stop gendering things that aren’t aha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:39 AM
1

I live in France
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:20 PM
2

Well well well how about I tell you that women don’t just « shower once a day »? You are projecting. The average woman spends a shit ton of time « preparing » in a week or a day. Even worse at summer time. You want to get me started?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:28 AM
1

As a girl who’s been cold approached like this, definitely yes, this guy is right. If you’re civil and let us go without yelling insults when we tell you we have a bf, there is absolutely no problem and I was absolutely civil with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:24 AM
0

I don’t get the big earrings problem ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:29 AM
1

My bf has very good hygiene (I think we can all thank his mom and dad for actually doing their job right lol) and I really love his natural smell, in his hair mostly, beard, scalp hair smells so good. I don’t know if it turns me on, but I just really like it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:39 AM
1

22F Good sense of humor, very witty. Witty jokes makes me laugh Able to start a conversation from anywhere, able to untertain people around him but not by making himself the joke but by pure intelligence and good ideas Not too intelligent though because then I’ll be afraid of him seeing trough my defaults, criticizing me too much and easier access to ideas like cheating is okay and etc (Self esteem isn’t my strong suit, so I’d like one a bit clueless about his options and who find all women beau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:25 AM
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Like if you want a submissive woman with no money but dressed well and pretty explain to me how she’s going to pay for all that if you don’t pay everything for her???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:50 AM
1

Maybe because then you have a date. Its the occasion to speak with the guy. Show your personality. And then he can fall in love with you. The problem when people don’t want to fuck you, especially when those people are men, is they will ignore you and not speak to you and then there’s no falling in love for u. The more thirsty men are, the more they’ll talk to a loooot of girls, giving us chances to make them fall in love with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:23 AM
2

The women in my social circle who absolutely love tinder and actually do that (meet men on tinder and have sex with them right off the bat instead of planning several dates before) have no self preservation and generally problems with drugs or a history of unable to keep long relationships. Those are the women who go to night clubs even with the recent needle problem, somehow thinking they’re bulletproof, and even trying drugs from strangers. The other single women in my social circle literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:14 AM
2

Same Aint fighting for a man plenty of fishes in the sea lol. Though My current bf was clearly attracted to one of my friends. So I went to her and asked if he was her type. He was not. So all I had to do was shift his attention from a girl who didn’t want him to me. Easy. No fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:36 PM
2

Logically if you were transformed to a man it’s evident you would become the equivalent of what your genetics offer for men of your family. So for myself I would be a lean, pretty, tall and definitely not bald man with blue eyes. My mother always made us do a lot of sport znd eat healthy. So I would have no problem being muscular and lean. That isn’t always what is required for a woman to be pretty sadly. And women who do sports are often indistinguishable from other women. Women are only 10/sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:22 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:13 PM
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Because you don’t think your gf need to shave doesn’t mean other men, her friends, her boss, her father grand father and most men she will pass by during the day, men and women on social media … wont be horrible with her because of her unshaven armpits and or legs. You clearly do not understand the level of shaming and putting back to your place women suffer each day. That is not women’s doing but society as a whole doing’s. A patriarcal, mysogynistic society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:59 PM
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No. Take Coca cola for exemple. Do you really think consumers hold the power? The firm does. Watch any documentary you’ll see. Same with macdonalds. The beauty industry holds a lot of power as well. All those firms have so much money they can literally make people buy their products. Believe me. Money is power and they have it. Not their customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:37 PM
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No its for the naiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:35 PM
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Nah because old men date young women not only because of their beauty, but because they’re naive and easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:32 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:27 PM
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The fashion industry is NOT controlled by women … (if you have any proofs of the fashion industry being controlled by women I ll gladly read them?) the fact that women have to spend so much money and time to make themselves pretty is not something of their doing, take for exemple shaving legs : it is men’s fault, men ceo of razors companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:39 AM
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Yes and a lot of men have archaic views too which cost a looot of money (you have no idea how much) such as a woman must be pretty must be dressed pretty makeup etc which a lot of time is so much money its a bit hard to provide that kind of money alone … so I think it’s understandable that some women want the guy to pay for things like dates, car gaz …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:29 PM
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Very possible. Those opportunities also come with its share of issues though. Because if its men owning most of the big party boats, it means men have the money, meaning men have the power and you know where I am going with this conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:01 PM
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Noooo Why would you conclude that lol this isn’t nowhere near what I said hahaha Speaking in term of choosing a partner I’ll say when considering the attractiveness : average women don’t have to date average men because the average man puts way less effort so they’re less pretty… however they can choose to care about attractiveness or not. Everyone’s different. Also when picking a partner, you can take many criteria in consideration at the same time! : why only pick based on attractiveness? Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:58 PM
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That is true. Men who say that it doesn’t happen to men probably at all are taking their own exemple and can’t realize they’re not that pretty themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:52 PM
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Ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:03 PM
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I don’t think average women should necessarily date average men if they don’t have to. For this reason : if the average woman puts way more time, effort and money in her looks than the average man (yes gym membership is around 40$ a month and 5 jeans and 5 good shirts don’t cost that much, and most men don’t even do that they pull up in ugly clothes their mzma bought them a decade ago. Literally. On the other side you don’t wanna know how freaking much women have to spend to look like the pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:08 AM
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Maybe because the average female spend 200+ in makeup clothes etc to make herself pretty while the average man look like garbage and somehow doesn’t care and is blind to his own homeless looks? Good clothes and good hair / beard do a lot, even an overweight man with that can get invited and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:57 AM
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Nah thats just pretty privilege mate. Only very pretty females (and or very sociably pleasant good conversation etc) get those advantages. Most good looking and pleasant men also get those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:54 AM
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You can’t approach several girls in front of the other girls you just approached. You just can’t do that. Like you can talk to two girl in one party but thats it. If you’re obviously flirtying and not just making friends, its going to look super in comfortable for women to see you literally taste the waters like a freaking butterfly with another woman the second she goes to the toilets. The first time I saw a guy do that, we were laughing so hard in how ridiculous he looked with my bff. Yes you …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:43 AM
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I think you are definitely right. Also women are literally conditioned to restrain the behaviour men are encouraged to display. Exemple : I am shopping, I see a pretty man. I tell my friends the end. Classic scenario of what is expected from women. However, what men are conditioned to do is this : say hi to the woman. Say « hello beautiful » / try to get her number/ engage a conversation. Classic scenario. In addition, talking to random women they’re attracted to weither on social media or irl i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:08 PM
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even the smallest use has consequences for your brain and the way you see other human beings, your relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:55 PM
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You are just basically just saying « no you are wrong and I am right » also your exemple alone doesn’t make a rule. Seems like you need links to studies and to read them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:40 PM
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The subject of those subreddits is to show the harmful effects of porn. Ofc it is biased in this way, but it doesn’t make it irrelevant. so ofc you’re going to find studies of the harmful effects of porn in it. You can always make your own opinion with reading those next to reading others pro porn subreddits. Its always good to get your sources from different point of views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:34 PM
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And that is why my comment isn’t just about its potential for addiction.. that isn’t the only problem. you should read again. Also, you say it isn’t a problem if there is no addiction, however I don’t think there is a single guy that started watching it in his childhood that isn’t addicted or wasn’t addicted at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:30 PM
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You are wrong about porn. It does affect your brain weither you are a woman or wan. It will shape the way you see sex, and the relationships you will have with others forever. The younger you start the worst it is, like any other drug. It can damage your dopamine rewards system, cause ED even in very young people and is probably the leading cause of ED in young people nowadays. It makes you think of women as objects, see yourself as an object to use if you are a woman. It makes you see sex as so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:45 PM
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The same goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:43 AM
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My father and his spouse always said to me that I had to behave like a perfect princess if I wanted to attract a prince charming 😅 I felt it was a bit sexist tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:20 AM
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Abandonning your kids then having more and also acting like a huge ah is probably even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:45 PM
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Just because we don’t think all men hate women doesn’t mean we’re pick mes. Way to gaslight. Its just we observed that not all men are this way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:57 AM
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That is not true. Go to the deadbeadroom subreddit, people actually stick together trough that a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:55 AM
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Its minimum. The other stuff is each women personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:30 AM
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If you’re the guy in the number 11 picture you’re the only decent guy in the pictures to me 😅😅 like to me you’re a 7,5, the others are all below 5 or 4 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:58 AM
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But the minimum is often hygiene, good haircut, good clothes, good sleep. Most people rich that minimum with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:31 AM
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Did you do this post just to find a girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:14 PM
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A man calling the shot is super cool, but then he needs empathy, emptional intelligence and a good memory because if he doesn’t listen and remember what you like, then its going to be a nightmare lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:32 PM
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So men earn more than women only when the women are trapped in a marriage with kids which force them to accept lower paid jobs to take care of kids while the father « bring the money home » very interesting. And when this toxic dynamic isn’t there, they earn more even with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:07 PM
1

Yes we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:05 AM
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There isn’t much consequences though. You can always fit one hour of sport in you schedule …..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:09 PM
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I live by the word equity not egality. Equity means whoever was less busy that day clean the house. Gender roles makes sense in a particular context to me. Its normal if the womzn stays home she embraces the gendered norms for women while her husband provide. But the reversed could work as well. As long as no one is getting more work load. My take is that men should pay for dates because the dress and makeup and heels and bag is way more expensive than the date anyway. As long as women are expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:06 PM
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But sports isn’t like other hobbys though. Even if you couldn’t not go, its not a problem. Its actually good to feel like you must go to your regular session. The only way it can become a bad thing is if you endanger your health / your job. But its okay to prioritize sports in your free time. Its healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:22 PM
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I don’t like « whoever invites pay » when you are young and broke, it feels incredibly impossible to think about the burden of having to pay also for your friend!! So if we don’t have enough for two dinners, and my budget is one dinner outside per two weeks only, no one invites and nothing happens. Lame. Besides I think sometimes it can get tricky to define who actually invited. And I don’t like the relationship dynamic it creates between friends. It feels anxiety inducing. With my friends, we e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:45 PM
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Actually when both partners work a lot, the home can get messy quick. Dinner tzkes time to make, sometimes in the evening both partner want to be able to chill you know? If the man/ woman earns enough and want to chill on the weekend / travel and not do administrative / houses chores all day, its better one partner stay home to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:39 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:36 PM
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Its mine too. But it also mean that I don’t feel loved if the guy doesn’t pay sometimes or get me gifts even small ones outside of occasions. (I also often do this myself with my family and expect that to go both ways between me and my partner).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:36 PM
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Well it is hard for everyone. Sometimes even when you die your hair blond, get some makeup and loose some weight, it won’t be enough because you don’t have big boobs, a X shaped body, or a good face. I don’t buy that lie that women have it sooo much easier. Maybe slightly easier. But the majority of men you get is creeps anyway? Finding your soulmate is always hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:04 AM
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I don’t think you realize how much men you cross « holding womens hands » actually go to the gym though Doing sports, going to the gym is very beneficial for your mental and physical health. Unless you go more than 4-5 times a week and stay for more than 1 hour, its perfectly healthy and normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:02 AM
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I mean you clearly faced enough rejection in your life to believe this 20% ideology though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:49 AM
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Someone hurt you enough to believe this 20% ideology though. Got rejected much?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:47 AM
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Just going to the gym, giving a f about what you’re wearing, always wearing good perfume, getting a beard cut and getting a good haircut as soon as needed are already good options than most men don’t even care about doing sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:44 AM
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Men have other options
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:58 PM
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Honestly makeup under a mask is soo pointless. Foundation is wayyy to expensive for that. I do found that masks have made me more insecure though. I got used to people not being able to see my face, especially at work, and I loooved it. I am a bit sad its over now :/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:57 PM
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Who hurt you though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:57 PM
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My boyfriend would do well on tinder If I DID his profile entirely, especially take and choose the picture. On the contrary, he would have catastrophic results if he did it on his own. That is fine with me. He is a fine man, but he doesn’t know it and he doesn’t know how to put himself in a good light, (like a lot of men tbf)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:31 AM
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Not true. Women are taught that sex isn’t for them by this society. Women don’t do much in porn besides crying like slaughtered animals. The things I learned about myself and sex are taught nowhere. In the contrary, how to please a man lessons are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:25 AM
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I never said I, I said women. And my person doesn’t matter in the argument. Attacking the person arguing is generally a sign that you don’t know what to say anymore and you are butt hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:22 AM
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That is not true. Is it so hard for you ti fathom the idea that women crave sex in the same way men do? 1) Statistically there may be less women like that, but there are still plenty 2) a lot of the reason why women may have less desire or say they hzve less desire is because society repress it a lot. Therefore they explore their sexuality less, and the one that do are slut shamed, even when exploring their sexuality alone. It’s no wonder we have those statistics. But a subreddit like DB show th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:24 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:14 PM
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Well statistically, women come to this conclusion a lot ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:41 AM
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That is because the position often choosen during the sex (PIV) permits the orgasm of the male and not of the female… if the position was choosen by the female for her orgasm and the male couldn’t orgasm at the end, how quickly do you think he would find it unfair and ask the female to help him finish? In the right position, men and female actually need a pretty similar time to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:11 AM
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Women desire the act of sex just for itself ya know? Have some reading in the deadbeadroom sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:04 AM
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That is just torturing women. Like they can just say they hate women at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:49 AM
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Same for how I met my bf That’s the best way. Meet in friend group at uni, hang out with the guy, become friends, get the temperature for a few months, then more if you’re attracted sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:51 PM
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Idk I think if she is just talking a bit with the guys, having some fun but not more I think its okay? You should trust her If you can’t trust her why be in relationship with her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:34 PM
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There is no women interested in stem fields because from childhood women are discouraged, socialized to prefer other fields… our parents are less concerned with our maths levels, let it drop, etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:12 PM
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Men can’t handle being alone ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:55 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:36 AM
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I agree with you. There is also a tone, a way to bring them that is important. If it doesn’t work, it means it was tone deaf
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:38 AM
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You can always use alcohol as a way to both get in a good mood and alcohol for women is a good way to make her feel less like a « slut » if she follows you home. Get her one drink then get her home if she wants to. However, be cautious to never make her drink too much. One cocktail or two is already enough for most women. Anything beyond that and she might feel like she wasn’t in control of the situation. Once she is at your place, wait till she’s a bit sobber. Make her eat something. Be upfront…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 10:23 AM
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Women’s oppression is a joke??? Do you ever let your gf and her girlfriend come home alone walking at 3 am? Bet you would let two guys do that though! What about trafficking? Sex exploitation ? The rape industry? Where women are more than 90% of the victims. None of this knows any frontier mate. You are clueless Also most dirigeants, presidents, CEO, most people who make decisions of how the society is going to behave, influence trough media and advertisements, a massive majority are MEN and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:49 AM
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The female virgin slut???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:26 AM
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Men’s issues are allowed… just not bring them just after someone bring women’s issues that’s all… because it looks like you are trying to diminishes the importance of women’s oppression if you do that : that is the only reason why men’s issues are dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:18 AM
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That is projection at is finest. Stats shows that women are far more likely to stay in a marriage with a deeply impaired physically or mentally husband than the other way around for exemple Plus women find themselves more in nurturing, caring jobs, : nurses, teachers, estheticians … while men are more present (even if this might be education it still ends this way) in jobs that require not caring for others (bosses of terrible for the environment enterprises, pimps, finance bros, bosses of big e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:41 AM
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One can recognize women face more sex based oppression and issues in one’s life Also you shouldn’t only bring men issues after someone else mention women’s or else it looks like you’re just trying to talk over women’s issues and make it looks like it doesn’t really matter since men also have issues!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:46 AM
1

Being a sheep is easier and rewarding
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:44 AM
1

Yeah but if you lift more than your comfort weight and if you push yourself a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:30 AM
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Honestly why specify women? I don’t see why any of your arguments wouldn’t be adaptable to men with high n counts. Thinking otherwise would be blatant misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:57 AM
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Or people will stop having kids. Which is already happening. I want my own house with a swimming pool to go to before and after work, and enough money to buy whatever food is better for my health, go on vacations abroad often, and if that takes no kids, then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:47 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:15 AM
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Not everything has a « target audience » that is men lol. They make movies catering to the male vision because it’s males making it, but they still want females ti watch it and appreciate it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:15 AM
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Unlike the other response, yes it is definitely harder for girls with bigger boobs, but it is definitely hard for all girls, everything I will say here I have seen it happen a lot : If you get big boobs, you get chased (literally) by guys your age. They will literally get their hands in your cleavage, sexually assaulting you. If you get small boobs, girls will harass you more, be cause you become the odd one out in changing rooms. Asking you to get off your bra because you « obviously don’t need…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:12 PM
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The problem was mostly that I didn’t know how much preferences and standards and going away from anyone whi don’t fit em is important before my first relationship. Like my only standard was « someone who I can feel very trustworthy and who will definitely not cheat on me » though I have found that, I definitely have way more criteria now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:23 PM
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I too love tiny lood sport chicks with humor better than the later as friends :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:19 PM
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So true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:17 PM
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Ahahahaha same. You explain it and they don’t get it. They don’t learn It is actually not easy for everyone as I’ve found
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:49 PM
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You say in this situation this would be torture But guys aren’t friends with girls they don’t find attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:41 PM
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Take one of the most liked animated movie of this year in Japan : demon slayer. The principal women you see barely speak in the first episodes. The only important female character’s principal feature is that she can’t speak and she need to freaking sleep and hide all the time! So she doesn’t really participate. At the end of the « selection » the only female winner don’t even speak with the guys. This animation barely pass the bechdel test! Media is blatantly sexist. If you don’t understand. Nex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:33 PM
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You don’t understand that everything don’t happen just because. Everything is linked, everything and everyone is under the influence of someone or something : this is the way human societies work. You buy pants because you know you can’t go outside naked and you were educated to wear pants. Not because you woke up one day and decided to wear pants. Girls do girls thing the same way people wear pants : because they were educated to do girls things. They were even shamed into doing it most of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:23 PM
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But you can’t just shifts the numbers to your views? You’re like « no » but You just need a quick google search for everything I said. The statistics don’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:18 PM
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But they don’t come back for more The only N count worth being proud of for men is the number of women who came back for more. Facts How would the woman know they are selfish lovers without trying them out first? Lol you’all clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:51 PM
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Just because the male lead isn’t ugly for once doesn’t make it « catered to women » fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:35 PM
2

My bf loved it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:34 PM
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If you are talking to someone to find a gf, you’re lookng for someone you are attracted to and someone who’se personnality you like. But if you like her personnality so much you would make her your gf (so someone you might marry and spend a hella lot time of your life) why not just be friends if she has a bf???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:25 PM
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Not really though, not really. In for exemple a laid back working environment where I was, women that were clearly better looking that the men were chatting with them. Joking. However the good looking men often choose which women they were going to talk and give their attention to. The others don’t exist. They were ignored. A lot of men don’t care about fairness. You’re pretty and lick my boots? Herés a raise, even though you’ve haven’t been working here for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:22 PM
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No you are so wrong. Your view if reality is shifted and you are trying to bend all my arguments to your own reality. Just to take an exemple, do you really think women want the society to tell them to freaking shave their legs everyday on summer? Do you have any idea the time and energy that takes? Women didn’t created that obligation. Men did. Bosses of a razor company to be fair. Just so your boss and friends won’t make remarks directly to tour face, insult you? Is there one thing that is nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:10 PM
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Yes magical pussy she thought 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:06 AM
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No There were other way to defend her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:50 PM
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It is totally possible I hope he gets the help he need, whatever lead him to react in this way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:49 PM
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Nah Women who used to admire him are now terrified of him. A man who act violently on a joke in no husband material. Only situation where violence is okay is for defending women getting physically or sexually assaulted. A man that react like this, how will he react when you anger him??? He should have 1) not laughed 2) made a joke back or say « not cool man » or something like that. And then maybe the humorist would have had an interview to make amends about the joke and not him…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:46 PM
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Nah women show interest in men they’re not attracted to : When they like their personality Because they’re people, for exemple, colleagues… they deserve respect anyway To protect ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:56 PM
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When is the last time you passed by several adds in the same day with a perfect looking men selling anti-aging products / bathing suits work out/ makeup? Probably never. Me? Yesterday. Everyday actually. Women’s insecurities are created by society. Not nice to turn around on us because of it. Being 100% confident in your own skin as a woman is really something rare and to be proud of. Living in this world as a woman is like « another day, another insecurity the media is trying to push on me ». N…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:54 PM
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You’re trying to argue but : 1) It’s obvious no one has any problems dating people with mild, small insecurities that don’t interfere with your dating life. 2) it’s also obvious that when talking about those issues that shouldn’t be dropped on the partner, we’re talking about the ones that are making the partner abusive, controlling, a mess to dezl with everyday, and not quick lacks of self confidence that a lot (though not everyone) of people deal with. 2) I say that to men in particular becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:48 PM
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Do you even read my post? If you like someone’s personality then why not talk to the woman? The reason for respecting / talking to a woman should be she has great personality, she is great at what she does. And not she’s so hot, I would F her, she’s bangable etc… you all are so shallow. I see it so often… Too often it’s obvious men only speak to/ respect women they’re attracted to. So so obvious. The worse is that a lot of you only speak to women to date us. Like there is some vibe and boom once…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:41 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:23 PM
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Nah You know those hobbies are actually interesting ? Like once you’re in, you’re in Endorphins, adrenaline are hella addictive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:22 PM
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Someone to sleep next to and cuddle every night :) someone to kiss on the mouth and cuddle whenever you need physical touch. I am freaking touch starved when away from my partner and literally need to hug my mom/grandma regurlarly. Someone that is there everyday physically to discuss life problems, have some support, talk about your day. Someone to share household chores like making dinner/washing dishes so that you have more free time Someone to trust 100% who trust you 100% who will always be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:10 AM
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They’re fun divertissement material tbh They do not portray my values, but I like them anyway, the same way baywatch is fun to watch sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:00 AM
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For your safety you too should assume the worst of other men and not necessarily from women. You have wayyy more chznces of being assaulted by a man you know. You czn assume the worst of women if you want, but you need to acknowledge it is not for safety reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:20 PM
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Also ad « constantly believe his partner will cheat even though she was a virgin well into adulthood and is clearly not into that sort of thing » (not me but someone I know lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:43 PM
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Depends. The hot guy if I manage to be rich myself is okay. However if for whatever reason I am stuck at minimum wage jobs my whole life, I need someone to pay for our holiday trips, so average rich guy Generally it depends on what you mean with average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:58 AM
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Ahaha. I see what you are trying to do here. But you don’t understand. You don’t want to understand what I am trying to say. Here let’s flip the script okay? « Women should respect men even if they don’t want to have sex with them. Befriend them even if they like their personalities ». Okay. Except we already do that. That’s where the « friendzone » complaints come from. Because we befriend a lot if men that we aren’t interested in. To be genuine friends. Because wecare genuinely interested in b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:36 PM
1

But your wife isn’t your boss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:14 PM
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I am trying to do that with my bf but his parents bring bad food every two weeks which completely mess up what I am trying to do and I loooose my sht everytime, si I have been unsuccessful So I tried another strategy : He goes to the gym but completely refuse to follow me on my « cardio » sessions, so ofc it doesn’t work, because the gym can only do so much if you don’t do some running, and stuff like that in it. I can’t wait till we’re older
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:46 PM
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That is not an equivalent statement. You should respect women you don’t want to fuck and be friends with them if you like their personalities. Women don’t do this weird thing of ignoring men they don’t want to fuck. You think women don’t see you doing this. We do. Do you all need think we’re stupid? We can see you stop talking to us while there was a vibe once you learn we have a bf. Or ignore one girl in a group of friends just because she’s less pretty. This is ridiculous. Women might do this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:08 PM
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Work both ways. Pretty women also get a free pass in dating. Men are more likely to give up dome of their dating criteria (for exemple : likes sport / eat healthy / like videogames etc) for a pretty woman and marry her, only to realize their mistake later and drool over the women jogging in the park. I’ve seen it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:05 PM
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Well the latter isn’t just men. Women deal with the same problems. And violence from men too. :|
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:55 PM
1

It’s more thzn « girlfriend material » it’s just compatibility. Let’s say you are a random guy who like doing sports and going on hikes on holidays. You have a female friend, thin, hot, whom you like to party with. She hates sport, never do it. You would have sex with her. But if you are mature enough in your dating, you should know she isn’t the right date for you. And would be a terrible wife to you. She might be gf material however for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah well some people don’t have insecurities. You all need some therapy, not s girlfriend. A girl isn’t your personal free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:40 PM
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Yeah like You’re scared of us? Most men are stronger than most women Idk what your mother did to you, but she must have been rough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:34 PM
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Have you seen baywatch??? thousands of movies like that, where the nerd gets a girl that is clearly out of his league
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:18 PM
1

And then you’re going lenghts in your head how all women are stacies because sometimes they dress for men’s attention and sometimes for other reasons? Remember men do this as well. Sometimes they dress to impress women. Put on expensive shirts in nightclubs to try and get a date. Do not fall in misogyny just because you refuse to see the double standard glasses you wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:58 PM
5

I am sorry for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:48 PM
2

Women dress as slutty in female only events dude. We like women’s validation too duh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:59 AM
3

This Also they are very very shit at selecting pictures and making profiles. If you look average but want a top tier girl on dating app it’s easy. Just not be an average guy on personnality / profile : no fish picture. No group picture if the quality isn’t amazing. Only pictures of you doing sports, in amazing locations, traveling, hiking, bycicle. You can take pictures in the sun placed in a way that your face doesn’t show to much, and no selfies, only full body pictures. Take a picture if your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:36 AM
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Because we don’t really care Ah!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:10 PM
3

Perfect You’ll raise the kids I’ll bring the money :) Just kidding I already have a SO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:09 PM
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Weird how he keeps repeating « Grace » instead if « her »or « she » especially at the end 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:28 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:05 AM
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So you, a man, is activelyvtrying to tell us, women, want WE want? Stop the hypocrisy. Some women will only settle for money, status blabla. But most women have a bar on the ground. Trust us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:05 AM
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Colleges. Go for the ones who actually go to their 8am classes on a Friday. Might find them on dating apps, but in my experience, the ones who aren’t promiscuous don’t like those and don’t stay long on this. Anyone that feels like an introvert is probably not a party girl. Mostly you have to get in their friends circle. Most of those college girls date in their friends circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:44 AM
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I have like around 5 good female friends 2 of them date a lot. They have around just over 15-20 n count and are 19 and 20 3 of them are virgins or have very low count like less than 5 I am 22 and my actual bf is my first (startes dating at 19) So I don’t think you always attract what you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:59 PM
1

This ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:40 PM
1

I recently asked a guy if he’d rather marry someone beautiful but no action ever, he could only watch never touch, or someone not that pretty, but have a lot of sex. He said he’d rather the pretty one Hey people be dumb …. What can you do? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:00 AM
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I think about that a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:07 AM
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I know a few of well put together men in their 20 that fit the description, they exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:04 PM
2

I agree Like a man’s first time or first time with a new woman is very likely to end fast. It really doesn’t mean he won’t be able to make things last longer the next times. But coming fast isn’t necessary a problem, I still have very good memories of my two first times. If there is connection no problem. It’s the dating culture the problem. If you are having sex for the first time with someone you lusted for for months, the « performance » won’t matter. This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:02 PM
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Ahahaha Well since I know this will end up happening to some extent, I won’t have kids. Ain’t no turning me into a home slave (unless you earn enough per year and can afford maids to help me and I can stay at home) but unless this, I aint buying any of that superwoman lie. I either work and we don’t have kids or you get ur ass out there for money and I give u kids. There won’t be no in between. Being a slave is no way to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:46 PM
0

Very plausible, given the new easy access to hardcore porn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:39 PM
1

I have also found that in the last decades I feel there was a switch : like teens and young adults show more neoteny that before, for exemple when you watch archives videos, the teens look way older and mature than what kids their age look like now. And I also feel like in my whole family my generation look younger at the same age than the previous generation we somehow all look less mature, smaller faces, less broad shoulders znd hips, smaller size, smaller head. I always wondered why, this cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:39 PM
1

Contrary to your belief, the stats shows thzt men are more likely to choose a pretty face over a good body for LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:33 PM
2

Sound amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:16 PM
2

Interesting question. My first answer would be that if you wrote this post or are reading this post, you are already what women want : a man who care. A man who seek self improvement. A man who question himself. This is a very important quality to have. There are always things to learn. The most important thing is to listen to your woman. Note what she likes. Write it down if needed. Watch. Look around. Listen. Women love it when you care. Caring means remembering. Remembering her favorite color…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:09 PM
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Nice outside of bed and protect us, don’t lead too much but still lead in case of romantic happenings (organize surprise dates, always, and you’ll keep her) lead in bed, but always respect consent, boundaries she set and stop if she says so. Pretty simple
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:51 AM
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If she acts moody when you lay back and wait for things to happen that’s a cue xD honestly seduction is just emotionnal intelligence, like just observe the person, and listen if she gives oral cues. Actually if you are here asking questions you are probably already good in bed because it means you are willing to listen, question yourself and change depending on what you learn, which are qualities many men (and women) lack, and determine wheter you we’ll be a good romantic and sexual partner. Not…
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:48 AM
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Weird considering society tells you to lead from early age
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:41 AM
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