Lovehardt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing. Id almost be okay with at least a “hey!” but I’ve learned to stop (or rather cope with) valuing attention from these types. They’re not worth the effort or second thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 01:17 AM
14	CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing. I’m so happy to see a leftist YouTuber (a great one at that) brought up in this discussion. There is a huge dialogue about dating and the dating woes of men being occupied by the far right online that I see many progressives complain but do nothing about. We can’t wait for these people to ruin themselves when they inevitably begin slipping their Nazi mask (like Molyneux or Lauren Southern). We have to engage with their ideas. How many progressive videos have been done discussing redpill/MGTOW/in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/21 01:16 AM
2	"Toxic Masculinity" is not itself a set of negative masculine traits, but rather, poorly acted out traditional male characteristics. It exists, we just don’t talk about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 04:25 AM
0	"Toxic Masculinity" is not itself a set of negative masculine traits, but rather, poorly acted out traditional male characteristics. Toxic Masculinity (to me) Not being emotionally vulnerable/available (even to close friends and family, and often use humor to deal with problems instead of talking it out) Overvaluing their sexuality (penis size, sexual conquests, material possessions, etc) Increasingly risky and stupid behavior for bravado’s sake (though this is heavily more associated with socioeconomic issues than gender, still stands because you could reference a tendency towards aggression against other males) Toxic Femini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 04:21 AM
1	All these redpill vids I used to watch and never once saw a guy blame himself for his relationship problems. I’m still in the middle about redpill rhetoric. I come here to hear some pushback against all of the other redpill content I listen to because I think it’s quite healthy to hear different perspectives. I especially like hearing Vaush’s take on inceldom and redpillers. I wish I knew of more anti redpill Youtubers but havent found any. I’m sort of glad I stopped watching a few redpillers, however. Hearing that ‘Better Bachelor’ is a Stefan Molyneux apologist was the final straw for me regarding wa…	/r/ExRedPill	07/07/20 10:43 PM
3	Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better? Tinder and dating apps alike are only a fraction of the population, and not at all indicative of what the majority of women are like or behave. I’m constantly having to remind myself of this because of how many trashy people I have to wade through. You’re exposed to top tier trash people (men or women alike) where ever your experience is streamlined for the opposite sex.	/r/ExRedPill	07/07/20 10:33 PM
2	How do you avoid akwardness when meeting girls? I would just say not to overthink it. A lot of people think that silence is awkward. This is not it. What’s awkward is trying to fill that silence with conversation/questions you don’t care about. Don’t keep saying the things that first come to mind, but the ones that come first to heart. This is what people hate about some conversations: they feel like they’re being interviewed. I know someone isn’t interested in what I have to say when they don’t build on my previous point and instead ask a se…	/r/seduction	17/05/20 07:38 PM
2	Guys Who Made A Significant Change In Their Social/Dating Life, What Were The Main Changes You Made? I’m not entirely sure how to help you out with this besides providing advice that’s already been given. I will say though that having LGBT friends has helped me. Going out with their mutual friends and building rapport through them is great because it showed that I’m not afraid to show platonic affection to my gay bros and I’m not a weirdo around my lesbian friends.	/r/seduction	04/05/20 03:23 PM
8	Do you approach every girl you like? That’s not what a simp is.	/r/seduction	04/05/20 03:16 PM
1	Approached my crush after 3 years of wanting to do it... That sounds a lot like it’s their fault for assuming romantic intent behind strangers talking to them. I’ve made a few platonic friendships just by simply speaking to strangers at the gym. No one likes to admit it, but the gym can be a social place as well so long as you’re respectful. What gym do you go to that doesn’t regularly have people talk?	/r/seduction	05/03/20 04:29 AM
1	Approached my crush after 3 years of wanting to do it... This is great advice, and I wouldn’t discredit or write it off completely, but I must follow it up with the simple fact that a lot of people are just socially awkward and aren’t adjusted to everyday interactions with people they hardly know. There’s a noticeable difference between the way people my age (18+) react when I talk to them vs. how adults and seniors react. As optimistic as I am for my generation, I can’t ignore how socially inept we can be. It’s truly depressing. I hope my experience …	/r/seduction	05/03/20 04:16 AM
-3	Title Yeah this sub is slowly but surely creeping into MGTOW/Incel territory	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/12/19 07:06 PM
1	She didn't come with a list my dude, she came with bias and entitlement, expecting everything she says to be taken to be true just because she's a woman and she is oppressed. The ones outside the first world are, but the ones with more privilege than they know what to do with are more concerned with fictional character’s sexuality and whether or not men should have room for their balls when they sit.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/12/19 01:52 AM